Podcast Summary: Happy Wife Happy Life - Episode 69: The Ultimate Influencer Wedding w/ Remi Cruz
Release Date: June 23, 2025
Hosts: Kendahl Landreth & Jordan Myrick
Guest: Remi Cruz
Introduction to the Episode
In Episode 69 of Happy Wife Happy Life, hosts Kendahl Landreth and Jordan Myrick welcome Remi Cruz, a bride-to-be, to discuss the intricacies of planning an influencer wedding. The episode delves into the unique challenges and creative solutions that come with organizing a wedding in the age of social media and influencer culture.
Wedding Planning Under the Spotlight
Remi Cruz shares her journey of planning a wedding scheduled just two weeks from the recording date. She reflects on the initial excitement and the subsequent stress that comes with managing invoicing and logistical details.
Remi Cruz (01:20): "I think when you have to pay invoices, that's when the shift happens from excited to, oh, actually, this is hell."
Kendahl and Jordan reminisce about their own experiences attending wedding retreats, emphasizing the shared stress and camaraderie among brides.
Navigating Family Dynamics
The conversation shifts to managing family expectations, especially when dealing with extended families from different regions. Remi discusses her approach to handling her fiancé's large Midwestern family while maintaining her own smaller family circle.
Remi Cruz (13:18): "My fiance's family is from the Midwest, so it was extended. We sat down and agreed on where to draw the line on who to invite."
Jordan adds humor by sharing anecdotes about his cousin, Jill, highlighting the complexities of familial relationships during wedding planning.
Embracing Technology: Wedding Websites
Remi emphasizes the importance of utilizing wedding websites like The Knot or Zola to streamline communication and provide guests with necessary information, reducing the need for constant inquiries.
Remi Cruz (15:36): "A wedding website is perfect. You got it on your phone. You can refer to that whenever you have a question."
Financial Considerations: Splurges Worth Making
The discussion moves to budgeting for a wedding, where Remi advises couples to invest in areas that hold personal significance, such as florals, food, and lighting, while being honest about their priorities.
Remi Cruz (18:52): "It really just depends on what's most important to you."
She shares her strategy of hiring a social media specialist to capture the event's essence without being distracted, ensuring she remains present.
Unique Wedding Ideas: Korean Night Market After Party
Remi reveals her exciting plans for an after-party themed around a Korean night market, complete with traditional Korean street foods like tteokbokki and cheesy corn dogs. This unique twist aims to create an immersive and memorable experience for her guests.
Remi Cruz (12:17): "I'm gonna build out a Korean night market. I want to have the food that you could get there."
Jordan enthusiastically supports the idea, suggesting playful scenarios to engage attendees.
Managing Wedding Party Expectations
Addressing questions from listeners, Remi discusses her expectations for her wedding party, emphasizing the importance of their presence and support without imposing financial burdens.
Remi Cruz (41:00): "I expect you to show up to the wedding and bring the fun and just like hang out with me. That's truly all I've ever expected."
She shares her approach to covering expenses for her bridesmaids, ensuring they can participate without financial strain.
Fun and Unique Wedding Day Ideas
When prompted about making the wedding day enjoyable beyond traditional norms, Remi mentions her plan to "black out" her event, allowing guests to enjoy themselves without the pressure of constant documentation.
Remi Cruz (46:27): "We're actually, like, more traditional than I thought. But we'll be blacking out."
Jordan and Kendahl contribute by suggesting creative entertainment options like live artists who create watercolor portraits of guests, adding a personalized touch to the festivities.
Overcoming Wedding Planning Stress
As the wedding date approaches, Remi openly discusses managing stress and maintaining excitement. She highlights the crucial role of her wedding planner, Jason, who recently faced a health scare but remains committed to ensuring her big day goes smoothly.
Remi Cruz (50:29): "I keep myself busy. I had a couple crash outs... Honestly, I'm just excited to hang out with Cal all day."
Conclusion
The episode wraps up with heartfelt congratulations to Remi Cruz on her upcoming wedding. Remi shares her social media handles for listeners to follow her journey, inviting them to connect and celebrate her special day.
Remi Cruz (51:20): "You can find me on YouTube as Ms. Remy Ashton or Mrs. And Rim Life."
Kendahl and Jordan express their excitement and best wishes, affirming their support for Remi as she embarks on this monumental life event.
Key Takeaways
- Prioritize Personal Values: Focus spending on what truly matters to you and your partner.
- Utilize Technology: Wedding websites can reduce communication stress and keep guests informed.
- Unique Twists: Incorporating cultural or unique themes can make your wedding memorable.
- Manage Expectations: Clear communication with family and wedding party can alleviate potential conflicts.
- Balance Presence and Content: Finding a middle ground between enjoying the moment and capturing it for social media is essential.
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