Happy Wife Happy Life - Episode 74: Dating HOT TAKES ft. Bridger Whinger

Release Date: July 28, 2025
Hosts: Kendahl Landreth and Jordan Myrick
Guest: Bridger Whinger

Introduction

In this lively and humorous episode of Happy Wife Happy Life, hosts Kendahl Landreth and Jordan Myrick welcome guest Bridger Whinger to dive deep into the world of dating hot takes. Bridger, known for hosting his own popular podcast, joins the duo to share his unique perspectives and experiences, particularly shaped by his Mormon upbringing and a decade-long relationship.

Exploring "The Ultimatum" Reality Show

The conversation kicks off with the hosts introducing the reality show The Ultimatum, a program that brings together couples facing pivotal relationship decisions. Initially featuring straight couples grappling with differing views on marriage, the show has evolved to include queer relationships, adding layers of complexity and entertainment.

Bridger Whinger (00:44):
"Have you ever thought of it? I don't know what the Ultimatum is."

Kendahl and Jordan provide an overview of the show's format, highlighting the intense and often dramatic scenarios participants face, such as switching partners and making difficult choices about their future together.

Kendahl Landreth (02:12):
"You can be with your new person, you can be with your old person, or you can leave alone. So those are the three options."

Personal Experiences with Mormon Culture

Bridger delves into his Mormon background, discussing how his upbringing has influenced his views on relationships and marriage. He candidly shares his reluctance to marry, despite being in a long-term relationship, citing cultural and personal reasons.

Bridger Whinger (04:44):
"I was raised Mormon and like, it was a very marriage dominated culture. So I feel a little allergic to that."

The hosts and Bridger discuss the stringent dating norms within the Mormon community, such as restrictions on dating before a certain age, limits on courtship practices, and the emphasis on eventual marriage. Bridger reflects on how these practices have shaped his approach to modern relationships outside the Mormon framework.

Jordan Myrick (10:24):
"With the Mormon vloggers, there's a lot of rules that do not count for them. Like, they're allowed to film in temple if they're famous."

Dating Hot Takes

Transitioning into the main segment, Dating Hot Takes, listeners' opinions on various relationship topics are evaluated by Kendahl, Jordan, and Bridger. Each take is discussed to determine its validity and impact on modern dating dynamics.

Hot Take 1: Never Go Somewhere in a Car on a First Date Unless on Three or More Dates

Bridger Whinger (28:06):
"I think that's bad. Because I think you should. Your person should start paying for gas money as soon as possible."

The trio debates the practicality and implications of this take, emphasizing the balance between safety and allowing the relationship to develop naturally.

Hot Take 2: Flirting Outside the Relationship is Healthy

Bridger Whinger (32:31):
"I feel like that's bad. Unless the relationship is, well, okay now it's fun to flirt, and it's hard not to flirt sometimes."

They explore the boundaries of flirtation within committed relationships, considering how it can either enhance connection or lead to misunderstandings.

Hot Take 3: Putting Political Views in Your Dating Profile is an Immediate No

Bridger Whinger (36:28):
"That's a bad take."
Jordan Myrick (36:30):
"I think that's a bad take."

The hosts agree that while political compatibility is important, forcing it into dating profiles can be limiting and overly prescriptive, potentially missing out on meaningful connections.

Audience Hot Takes

Several listener-submitted hot takes are dissected, revealing diverse opinions on relationship norms and expectations.

Hot Take 4: Everyone Should Date Long Distance at Some Point Because It Tests Your Communication Skills

Bridger Whinger (53:14):
"Bad dating."

The panel critiques the practicality of this notion, arguing that while communication is vital, long-distance dating poses significant challenges that may not be beneficial for all relationships.

Hot Take 5: Bring Up Topics Like Kids and Career Goals on the First Date to Avoid Wasting Time

Bridger Whinger (53:57):
"Good."

This take receives approval for promoting honesty and clarity early in the dating process, ensuring that both parties are aligned in their long-term goals.

Bridger Whinger's Insights

Throughout the episode, Bridger offers personal anecdotes and reflections that provide deeper insights into his relationship philosophy. He emphasizes the importance of maintaining strong friendships outside of romantic partnerships to foster a balanced and fulfilling life.

Bridger Whinger (21:13):
"Within dating, like respecting the other person, I think being so dialed back as far as sexuality goes that I think you don't really get into any like scary situations as far as consent."

Bridger also discusses the concept of "soaking" in Mormon culture—a purported practice meant to preserve virginity while engaging in intimate acts—and dispels its practicality and authenticity.

Bridger Whinger (24:28):
"I just can't imagine that beginning and not ending with sex."

Conclusion

Episode 74 of Happy Wife Happy Life offers a blend of humor, candid discussions, and insightful takes on contemporary dating practices. With Bridger Whinger's unique perspective and the hosts' engaging dialogue, listeners gain valuable takeaways on navigating modern relationships, the influence of cultural backgrounds, and the evolving norms of dating.

Notable Quotes:

• Kendahl Landreth (02:24):
  "Queer One, they've had two seasons of it. The second season just came out."

• Bridger Whinger (05:05):
  "People are always like, yeah, you get tax. But I'm like, how much?"

• Jordan Myrick (15:06):
  "You can't put your boobs on camera. Now that's on the Internet."

• Bridger Whinger (32:31):
  "I feel like that's bad. Unless the relationship is, well, okay now it's fun to flirt, and it's hard not to flirt sometimes."

Connect with Bridger Whinger:
Bridger mentions his podcast and Patreon for those interested in learning more about his work and insights. Listeners are encouraged to explore his content for additional perspectives on relationships and personal growth.

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