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Welcome to a special episode of the Healing and Human Potential podcast. I'm Alyssa Nobriga and I'm so excited to share something truly transformative with you. So this is a session from my 5 day free training recorded live today. I'm gonna help you clear the blocks to abundance, giving you a transformative group exercise, walking you through it, and then I'm gonna bring somebody up live to demonstrate it so you can also see how to shift your money mindset. Plus, I'll guide you through a money meditation to help you attract more income and your dream clients more effortlessly. This episode will only be available for a limited time, so if you wanna go deeper the daily tools and prizes, you can go to alyssnobriga.com Boot Camp to opt in for free and we'll send all the details your way. Let's dive in. You guys ready to get free? Let's do this. Yes. So fun, you guys. I am going to bring it today. Today is all about healing your relationship with money. We're going to drop in really deep so that you can use money as a vehicle to get free. So specifically, I'm going to make sure that we have a powerful process to access your subconscious operating system around what money has been, what you're capable of, what you've inherited and really look at is it true for me, is this something that is still operating in a way that feels aligned? Do I want to upgrade these misunderstandings, these money misunderstandings? We're going to do a powerful exercise as a group and I'm going to take you through so you walk away with a breakthrough and then I'm going to bring somebody up who is live to demonstrate the work so that you can see it in action. Everyone will walk away with a breakthrough. And it's so good. I'm so happy that you're here. Oftentimes with money we've inherited from our family, from our parents, from society. What money is, what it's not, who we are in relationship to it because most of our conditioning is set by the time we're seven years old. So that means that you've learned about all of these things from your caregivers, your parents, and that's not typically good news for people. And so this is an opportunity to really slow down, to get present and get mindful and upgrade your operating system so you can live more free. And I'm going to use money. But if you want to work, if money isn't something that's a lie for you and you feel really clear about it then you can use any topic on any of the tools that I teach. You can replace it with relationships or health, work with what's true and a lie for you where specifically you are going to work with money. But and I'll tell you why I think it's important in a moment. I really want you to have a healthy relationship with money where you don't over overvalue it and you don't undervalue it. You're a healthy steward of it. So it's part of your professional responsibility to do your work around this. Mainly because money brings up so much trauma for people. I want you to be able to hold a clear and compassionate space for them so that your money stuff doesn't get caught up. If you're a service provider, it is not a luxury to do this work. It is part of your professional responsibility. So as you really clear your subconscious blocks around money or whatever the thing is that has trauma or trigger for you, you can more compassionately hold that for your clients. And you also my biased opinion, this is the best profession in the world because you get to live more free and then you can serve more people more deeply as well. And not enough people talk about, not enough people talk about money. And so it brings up a lot of unconscious material for people. So it's an important piece of your professional development. It's also really important for you to know how to give and receive so you feel fluid around it and you feel more, you feel more free. It's priceless to know that you can make an impact and you can really support yourself sharing your gifts, feeling compensated for it. But I also bring it up because it happens to bring up people's sense of worthiness. And that's the heart of the work that I do. It's about identity and worth. And so again, we're going to use money as an access point to get there. But you can use relationships, you can use health, anything that's alive for you. It's all, I would say, follow what feels most, most activating for you so you can hold that space for yourself and use this bootcamp in a way that helps you live more free. And oftentimes what happens is that with the mind, it will project fear into the future. And this is a safety strategy. But what happens is when we have gaps in our understanding, the left brain fills in those gaps with meaning and it makes it up. It does it from our, and it does it with a lot of certainty, but it does it from our younger conclusions and our assumptions trying to create safety. But the more we are become awake to these things, the less we can be unconsciously programmed so that we start to really look at is this my truth? And if not, what's the updated truth? And so that's what we'll do here today. And I don't think enough people talk about it. And that's why so much subconscious and unconscious material comes up. So I'm glad that you're here, especially as a service provider. It's important for you to be able to do this work. And I honor you for prioritizing yourself and being here. It's such a gift. And so. So, you know, it's like part of this work is. And actually let's take out our tool for today. So type Bootcamp. If you don't have your tool, you can. Yeah, I think it. I think that's what we're calling it. Yeah, type Bootcamp and it'll send you the tool. And if you did not see the replay from yesterday, make sure to watch that when you type Bootcamp you'll also get access to the replay. I went into to really unraveling some of the ideas around worthiness because again, that is the core of helping somebody change their life. We start with ourselves first and then we can better serve in the world from there. Again, whether we're a leader, a healer, a coach, a parent, we start with ourselves first. So you can take out your tool. We're going to get into that. And then also yesterday I announced that we are officially opening applications for or accepting applications for our accredited coach certification program. Thank you so much. For those of you who have applied, there's so much beautiful interest. We are actively going through them now only saying yes. And we'll announce on Monday at noon who has been accepted into our program. And so if you're interested, this is essentially 20 years of my life's work into this program. We go deep into helping you change your life. Feeling confident, trauma informed, to deeply and profoundly help others change their life. We give you everything you need to really thrive in this career. So we give you things around. How do you design packages that actually support somebody in changing their life? We go deeper into money, into sales, into structuring your business model, pricing literally everything that you need. And I'm biased. My. My experience is this really is the best profession in the world because you make a difference, you live more free, and then you can empower others to do the same. Whether. And so it's for you, whether you're a brand new coach and you are just flirting with the idea. You want to feel more confident and shortcut the learning curve. You don't have to be perfect. This is just about you being a few steps ahead of your clients. This is for you. If you are already an experienced coach, maybe you've done other certification programs, but you want to learn fresh new tools, you want to go to greater depth, and you want to have your nervous system feel regulated so that you can go to your next level, have consistent clients, maybe move into high ticket. It's also for you. If you love doing personal development work, you're like, gosh, I love growing and expanding and I love being in community. You will make friends for a lifetime. And this is really about you having the support to both create clients and create confidence in any profession. Those are the two main outcomes that people get. And so doors only open once a year. And we're going to start onboarding people February 9th. This is the time that it. We will send out acceptance letters on Monday, February 2, at noon. But when you apply now, before this Sunday, you have the chance to save 500 off. But you do have to apply now. And applying is just the first step. It doesn't commit you to anything. And I would write apply here on the live or the replay or go to alyssandobriga.com apply so that you can learn more. And as soon as doors open on Monday at, at noon, we will send out acceptance letters. And again, this is just the first step, but it's been really fun. I want to celebrate those of you who are already applying. I'm loving seeing your applications. I love the people that I attract, really incredible humans. And I love bringing you guys together. And it's been fun because this is the. I think we've. The sixth year we've had the program. And so at this point, I'm starting to hear from my coaches, clients. So what I'm hearing is that my coaches are that one session with an ICM coach is more powerful than years of therapy. And they were so moved by the work that now they want to get trained to change professions and start becoming a coach. And so it's been really beautiful to experience the ripple effect that's happening as a result. And I just want to honor you for you living this. You know, whether you do the certification or not, you're here. You're. You're. You're showing up for yourself. You are your best investment and your investment of time and energy, and you're here, and I love that you are. And because people always Ask us. I'm going to share with you some stats. So 67% of our students don't have clients when they start the program. 36% of our students have clients within the first three months. They've created their first client within the first three months and more than half of them are charging more for their services. And so again, just come and apply. We will send you the information so you can learn more. And if you're interested, you can apply. It doesn't commit you to anything. And you can also go to Alysonabriga.com apply and also we're giving away three different $1,000 off scholarships. It's in your emails if you're registered, how to play to win every day. And so if you get a scholarship and you apply before this Sunday, you could save $1,500 off. And so I want that for you. There's a high chance that you could get that. So play and life meets us at point of action. And so make sure that if you aren't getting our emails, go to your junk message and it might be there or just put supportlissanobriga.com in your favorites so that you receive all the daily tools, all the information. And if you for some reason can't, if you need support, you can always email us supportlistenbrega.com Yay. So good. So fun. Okay, so let's dive in. So today we're going to do some more inner work. I know money can bring up things for people and again it's part of your professional responsibility to do your work so you live more free. You can hold hold a safe and compassionate trauma informed space in your sales conversations as any service provider. So we're going to do that today and then if you want more strategic tomorrow, we're going to do fear of failure because it's so common and it's a powerful experience. And then I'm going to keep the party going next week. So on Wednesday we're going to do a live on IG on Monday at 10 and then Wednesday at 10 and Wednesday I'm going to give you more practical things. Remember, 80% of the work is inner. I promise you even with sales you that 20% you want to have a strong sales process that feels in alignment. It feels good. You're being of service, you're using your gifts, you don't feel gross. And you so with two things with yesterday we talked about, if you just really simplify it, you want to make sure that you have a strong sales process. And you have a lead, you have a way to bring leads in. Keep it simple. We talked about some things that you can do. We already talked about that yesterday. So watch that training Wednesday. I'll go deeper into it. The replays are up for a limited time, but I want you to really tap into your resourcefulness, knowing that you, because this is powerful as an entrepreneur. It's powerful to know that you can handle a different economy, a pandemic, anything that's going on outside of you, the power is in you, not the situation. And if you know things are shifting outside, you can always find a way to get creative, sharing your gifts, being of service to others and hit your financial goals doing it. So it's powerful work and I would rather support you or your clients to say I choose to or I choose not to not. I can't. And I want you to really see that you always have choices and you always. And so that's what I'm going to do on Wednesday. If you're like, I want practical, grounded things and you know, some of you are going to love the inner work and some of you are going to love the outer work. And part of this work and my methodology is you want to have both developed so that you can have the strategic and the energetic, the transformational both. And, and I'll share a little bit more about my story around money, specifically to share a little bit more vulnerably so you can get a sense for part of the work that I've come to along the way and so you can see what's possible when you start applying again. 80% is inner and then learning the right 20% so that it is in alignment. Have you ever felt like there's something more you're meant to do? Like you've outgrown the life that you're living but you don't know what comes next. Maybe you've checked all the boxes and still something inside whispers this isn't it. What if that whisper is actually a calling, a sign that you're here to do something new, meaningful, something that lights you up and serves others in the process? After two decades of experience as a psychotherapist and coach running a multiple seven figure business, I've seen what's possible when people fully step into their purpose. And that's why I've created my ICF accredited coach certification program to help people like you turn their natural gifts into a fulfilling career and life that feels fully aligned. It's for brand new and experienced coaches working in any niche inside you'll learn learn powerful tools to not just transform your life, but feel confident in deeply and profoundly helping others change theirs. You'll also learn practical strategies to build a purpose led business and embody your inherent worth so you can show up authentically feeling supported to really have a natural abundance in your life. You'll also join a supportive, heart centered community of people who, like you, have decided to stop settling and start living their purpose. And so if you're ready to make feel clear, confident and connected to finally align with the freedom and fulfillment that you've been seeking, I want to invite you to take the next step. The link is in the show notes to learn more and apply today or go to Alyssa nobriga.com apply I would be honored to support you on this journey so when I first started coaching, I had so I was paralyzed in comparison. I had a lot of shame about money because I didn't have much. I was living off of power bars, living in Santa Monica, sharing a futon with my best friend. And I remember my friends would invite me to go to dinner and I felt so much shame. I didn't want to tell them the financial situation I was in. And so I would say that I already ate, but I would still go to dinner and I would just eat the bread and I felt like I was I didn't know that I could ever change that situation. And so, you know, in society it's socially acceptable to invest in your education. But none of my education taught me about business. I actually didn't realize I was an entrepreneur until after I got my master's degree. And they were like, you need to do 3,000 hours of almost unpaid internship to become licensed as a therapist. I'm like, whoever taught me a class, not one class. And I needed more than a class. I didn't have any basic business things. I actually thought I told myself I wasn't good at business. And that was the beginning of me starting to change. It was to realize the stories I was telling myself. Today's gonna be more mindset work. We'll do subconscious reprogramming and mindset work. So every day is it like yesterday was behavioral. So you can start seeing five levels of change that I work with and experiencing the power of it. But I realized it was like nobody taught me any of these things that I needed. And I knew that's what I needed. I knew I was good at what I did and I wanted to share my gifts. I wanted to be of service to people, but I knew I needed to make a Living from this to make it sustainable. And so I ended up hearing about a business training that my friend was going to do and I was just like, yeah, that's it, I'm going to do that. I'll join you and do that training. Mind you, I had $16,000 to my name living in Santa Monica. That was the money I had to pay for myself because I wasn't the work was not consistent and I was putting myself through grad school at the time too. And so I she told me she was going to do this business program. I was like, I, that's what I need. I need business. So then I found out and I was like, I just felt right and I started moving towards it. Then I found out it was $10,000 for six month program. And I just was shocked because no one in my life was investing in themselves at that level. No one I'd even heard of was doing something like that. And it wasn't socially acceptable and I was terrified. But I also knew that I wanted to invest in myself into the industry that I was going into. I wanted to know that I was being in integrity to invest in myself because I knew I wanted to go into high ticket. So I wanted to know what was the value exchange. I also wanted to walk through my fears and excuses and things and get support to do that so that I could support my clients and potential clients from a clean and tigris place. Not just telling them to do it, but from me walking through my own things. And I'm so glad that I did do that because of that program and because of like courageously walking through it. I, that was the time that I ended up clearing so much that was in the way. This is why I love coaching so much. Because as you take steps towards your dreams, anything that has been unconscious and has held you back comes up up so it can be cleared. And that's powerful when you have the right tools to actually be able to clear it. And so I invested in myself and I was terrified. I worked through the things. That's when I started putting together my methodology of taking the business skills and then using the transformational skills that I already had to put them together to make the Mastery method. And that investment called me forward and I ended up profiting two, a hundred thousand dollars in two weeks. And I discovered what I was capable of and I knew that business was the missing piece. But I didn't like the way other people were doing business. So I had to do it in a way that worked for me as somebody that values personal development, that values the transformational work. So I, and, and so I just, I had experienced and truthfully, I started to so and again, I love the steps that it takes. It's like do the say yes to what you want. That's why we did vision the other day. As soon as you get clear, you start taking steps on it. Those fears come up. But those can be used as stepping stones to get to your next level. As you work it at the root and again, it shows up in every other area of your life. So I started to transform these things inside of me and I started feeling really free. And so then with other. And that's what helped me remove the fear so that I could move forward with the strategy and be more successful and consistent with the outer work. If people are like, I'm scared of putting myself out there. We want to work with the fears. You realize you're not putting yourself out there, you're putting your services out there. Or I hate asking for money. You're not asking for money. You're not a little kid like, can I have. You're empowered like a professional. Like a doctor doesn't ask for money. You state your fees and your potential clients are empowered to say yes or no. There's no fee, there's no this inner stuff and gunk that gets in the way. It's a lot easier to step in your dreams and discover what you're capable of. So I had to really get back mindful and do business in a totally different way. And because I started getting free around this stuff, when potential clients had money blocks, I would lean in to support them because I was so grateful for the experience of freedom that I was feeling that I wanted them to have that whether we worked together or not. And this is part of the intention of why I bring it up today, whether we work together or not. I want you to experience what you're truly capable of. And, and I always want to make sure that things are free and accessible. And for people that want to go deeper, let's go and trust your intuition, trust yourself. You are more capable than the mind would ever have. You realize the mind often will limit us before we even start. And so question the misunderstandings, question the fears. You're so much more supported. And so I'm grateful that I did that work. And if you are a service provider, you're a coach, you want to do that work so that you again, you don't let your own fears hold you back. Because clients are our mirrors. And so as we don't move through that. Then our clients mirror us. But if you have the courage to move through your own fears, your life gets better. And then you can't help but want to share this with more people. And you know how to guide them because you've guided yourself. And so we do the work so that again, we just. We just hold money lightly. It's. It's just. It's an expression of value in our society. It's just a vehicle that shares what's valuable. It's nothing more, nothing less. And so part of the work is to support you. And I bring it up. I know it's a triggering topic. I know people will project on me because of it, but I'm more committed to you being free and getting served than not talking about it. And I wish somebody would have done this for me because no training ever taught me this. I put it together and I. I hope that it serves you. And it's just like, open hand, this is for you. And run with it. And I'm gonna share with you today part of what I did to help me get free. And in my certification program, I give you everything I did to profit. $300,000 in the first year of coaching, both the inner work and the strategic work. Okay, so let's dive in. You guys ready? Should we do this? Okay, so what I'm gonna do is I'm gonna guide you on a meditation on money. And so I want to just support you in really deeply healing any misunderstandings, any limitations that you've inherited from society, from your caregivers. So we're going to do this now. And I want you to know that if you have big T trauma, meaning you can't hold what comes up from childhood or memory with presence, you get too activated. Please don't do this. Two minute visualization. You can listen to it, but don't close your eyes. Don't actually be guided by it. You need to take care of yourself. I want you to make sure that you know how to take care of yourself. And please do. And so we will. It will still be powerful for you to do the inquiry that I'm about to guide us through. Yeah. Yesterday was so powerful. Phoenix is so powerful. All of you guys brought it, and we're all rooting for you. Phoenix. Phoenix. Watch the replay. Actually, some of you won't know he's here. Yes. So good. All right. Life meets us at our point of action. So you're showing up here, and I will show up and meet you. That's right. That's right. Okay, so go ahead and take out your tool. I'm gonna guide us on a process. So I wanna invite you to just close your eyes, take a nice, slow, deep breath in through your nose, filling your lungs and your belly. And just let go of any stress in your jaw, your belly, your brow, releasing, relaxing, surrendering, and just bringing your awareness into your heart. Just noticing what you feel in your body. Notice if there's a place in your body you feel nourished and safe and let yourself place your attention there so you can expand on the safety, knowing you can come back to this at any time you need. And so just letting that, expand that safety in your awareness and just knowing that this is here for you, just let it, just expand a little bit more, letting it go. And so when you're ready, I want to invite you to go back to your childhood home when you were 6 or younger. Just letting yourself be there in your childhood home and just notice what it feels like to be there, what does it smell like, who's there, Really letting yourself feel and embody being in your childhood home at 6 or younger. And then now I want you to notice your mom or a primary caregiver and you're just observing them in your childhood home at that time when you were 6 or younger. And I want you to notice what was their relationship with money? Not what they told you, but what, what did they do? What was their relationship with money? What did you learn from them by watching them on how they related to it? What did they teach you? Collect the data? Maybe they taught you that money is security that you need to save.