Transcript
A (0:02)
Typically at Healthy Screen Habits, we stay away from kind of keeping up with the latest news and doing all of that stuff. There are several other podcasts and platforms that do a much better job of that. I had a unique opportunity this week to talk to Juliana Arnold. And Juliana has been attending the court case that has been going on in downtown LA against the big tech companies, the social media companies. And the conversation that we had, I think is kind of enlightening to see just what parents of online harm, you know, surviving parents of kids who have suffered online harms have been up against. So this is part one of a two part conversation. This week I'm talking to Juliana. Next week we'll be hearing from both Juliana Arnold and Don Weibel on the work that the online harms prevention group at Fair Play is doing. But I think you'll benefit from hearing just, you know, how how Big Tech is coming to have to answer for some of their addictive designs in the following episod. Today I am doing something a little bit different. If you're familiar with Healthy Screen Habits, you know that we are located in Southern California and to have something that is happening on our doorstep that it's so important it's difficult not to highlight it. And this is just. I would like to kind of do a brief catch up on what has been going on in Los Angeles at the landmark trial over whether tech companies like Instagram and YouTube can be held liable for allegedly promoting a harmful product and addicting users to their platforms. There are many of the families who have paid the greatest price, and they are the ones that are, you see, with the signs supporting demonstrators and providing faces to the deadly consequences of these platforms. And a lot of them are voices that you've heard here. So today I'm joined by Juliana Arnold, a parent who is marching the front line. And Juliana, can you tell us about your connection to this issue, especially as Coco's mom?
B (2:45)
Sure. Well, obviously, like, none of us really, you know, thought we'd be in this position ever, or that we would become advocates or activists or whatever you want to call us. But we are. And so I got involved in this, obviously, because I lost my daughter Coco in 2022. She was just a couple weeks after her 17th birthday when she was approached unsolicited by a man on Instagram who befriended her and pretended to be like a big brother friend and got her trust. He groomed her, lured her to meet him, said he had a Percocet, something that was good for anxiety and she made a bad decision and she left the house that morning at, like, 11 o', clock, saying she was going thrifting with her friend, and she never came home. Whatever she was given, the pill was not. Not Percocet. It was Fentanyl. And. And she died from fentanyl poisoning. So that brought me to try to figure out what I wanted to do, you know, like, my whole world was completely, like, blown up, and I really didn't know what would have meaning for me after that. And all I knew, though, is I was so angry about so many things. But the thing that always had, like, really angered me was, like, watching what was going on online, both with the way that it becomes so addictive to my daughter. And I thought for, like, certain types of kids that are vulnerable, whether that means they have, you know, something like ADD or a learning disorder or something, not that it doesn't affect, you know, other kids because they're all vulnerable, but really, it really hooks these kids because it's like they found their place or they can get that constant, you know, dopamine rush, and everything's new and everything's fun, and it's just very easy for them to kind of fall into that trap. And that's what we saw. And also, I saw what was going on, especially on Snapchat with, you know, a lot of the drug stuff, because Coco had tried marijuana. And as soon as that happened, I saw a flood of dealers come in with ads and videos, and I was constantly reporting them. And I basically cut down her Snapchat time to, like, two minutes to say hello to friends, and that was it. So I was monitoring things. But as we all know, I mean, it's like, whack a mole, you can't keep track. Maybe they have more than one account. You know, they're better at this than we are. And I did the best I could, but it was so frustrating. And I kept on thinking, like, if I'm feeling this way, you know, then what are other families feeling that maybe don't have access to the resources? I mean, like, maybe education or the language or, you know, know, not just financial, you know, and it really concerned me. And then I met a fellow survivor mom, Deb Schmil, who we had a mutual friend, and dad's like, hey, come on, like, join us. It was just kind of. It was like. I think it was late, late 2002, and I got involved with the online harms prevention group and then started learning about this. And before I knew it, we were taking a trip to D.C. to advocate for the Kids Online Safety Act. And then from there it was just like natural, like it would just kind of flow that I knew I was in the right place, doing the right thing, even if I didn't want to be in this group.
