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Welcome to the Heidi Hair show podcast. Are you scared yet? Are you worried about these trans people who are killing our kids left and right in these school shootings? Are you worried? Because you should be. You should be terrified of these people at this point. Now, in case you don't know and have not heard me before, I am not somebody who hates transgender people. I don't look down on them. I don't have a problem with them. I don't understand them, obviously, because it's not the world I live in. I was born with certain parts, and that's it. And I didn't feel like I was a boy ever at any point in my life. And so, you know, that's just something I don't understand, but that doesn't mean I hate you for it. But what I have talked about and what other people who are concerned about when it comes to transgenderism is, is what we've done to these kids. We have told children, little kids, sometimes 7, 8 years old, that they think or they might believe or they might be the opposite sex. They might be living in the wrong body or something to that effect. They're told. Now, the problem with it, well, the problems are many. But one of the biggest issues with dealing with the transgender kids is that when you tell a child, their real problem is that they are in the wrong body many times. The vast, vast, vast majority of times. Well, probably 90% of the time, you are ignoring trauma they've gone through. You are ignoring kids who've been in foster care, been molested, been products of divorce, all the different things that children have to deal with because parents are idiots a lot of times, and children are stuck basically at this point being medicated for everything. You know, when you look at what happens, for example, with a lot of the people who die from fentanyl poisoning, and I have MC'd rallies for parents who've lost their kids to fentanyl and done this in Washington, D.C. a couple of times. And the stories are heartbreaking, but almost to a person, you hear that not everybody, but a lot, a lot, a lot of these kids have been put on drugs from the time they were four years old. They're put on Ritalin or some other thing that they give kids with adhd. By the time they're in high school, they're taking Adderall or smoking pot, and the next thing you know, they're getting pills off Snapchat, and one of them has Fentanyl, and the last pill they get kills them after they've been taking pills their entire life. And we want to blame it all on fentanyl. And some people form real addictions to opiates. Some kids just take certain pills at certain times. It's not a big deal because the stigma has been removed from taking the medication. When I was a kid, I knew nobody who took medicine. Nobody, not one kid who took any kind of medication. Now they're all on it from the time they're babies, practically, so we don't really give it a second thought. And a lot of times what happens is the children are handed an iPad and some Ritalin and told to just sit in the corner and be quiet because mom and dad are busy. They're happy now. They have a new boyfriend, they have a new girlfriend. Just deal with it. Kids. Kids go back and forth. And this is kids who aren't even trans in a lot of cases, and nobody cares. I've been a child of divorce, and I had good parents and who were always there for us, and they loved us and all that. But there are a lot of people who don't ever see their mom or dad again. One of the other. Once they get broken up, sometimes neither one of the parents are around anymore. It's terrible. But the kids are not allowed to grieve. If you send the kids in to get any kind of counseling, which most people don't, then they're just told, well, your problem is you think you're the. You know, you really. You really are a boy. That's the truth. It's not that you're, you know, you're really not a girl. You're really a boy. Instead of dealing with mom and dad and all the problems that the mom and dad have caused this child, or upheaval of whatever kind or psychological issues. I know somebody who's gone through the transition process, and as far as I'm concerned, I'm no psychologist, but this child has, from a very early age, been what they call oppositional defiant. Everybody's wrong but her. All of her life. Oppositional defiant. And if you're an oppositional defiant, it's a perfect thing to become transgender, because then if anybody dares to say anything bad about it or contradict you or question you, now you can back them down and say you're transphobic. It's not about being transphobic. It's about caring about children. And what we're doing to these kids is not making them better. That's the problem. Now we've got another mass shooting at a school, this time in Canada, where six children at a school, two people in this child's home, and a total of 25 people were shot by a transgender child. This kid was 18, had been a biological boy, not sure if he still stood up to pee. I don't know. Had been, quote, unquote, transitioning since he was 12 years old. 12 years old. What's interesting is the New York Post is reporting that his grandparents had posted some things on social media about him when he was about 14. And at that point, he was holding fish and doing, you know, what boys do at 14. And the grandparents put a little thing up, and they said, oh, you know, congratulations, or, you know, happy birthday to our grandson. Da, da, da, da, da. So I don't know all the family dynamics. I don't hear anything about a father. There's a shocker. The mother and the stepbrother have been killed. Don't know about the dad, but the grandparents, it sounds like, weren't on board with this kid transitioning. Now, the mother was one of those people who was out there openly criticizing anybody who dared to talk about trans kids and said, oh, you know, you're a terrible person. Don't you understand that these kids are killing themselves because you don't accept them? No, they're not killing themselves because we don't accept them. They're killing themselves because they've been lied to and they've been given these drugs, and then they wake up and they're 15, 16, 18, 20. They don't have a functioning penis. They don't have a functioning vagina. They're not going to be able to have children. They're not ever going to be the opposite sex. It's never going to happen. They may look better or, you know, more feminine and more masculine. They're never, ever going to be what they weren't born ever. And I have seen the horrible things that people have to do in order to be able to change sex, quote, unquote. I mean, when they have to. I don't know how crude to be. But, you know, for example, when they try to create a fake vagina in somebody who's biologically male, they have these things that they're supposed to put in their vagina. It's like a. Shaped like a, you know, cigar or something, and it's plastic, and apparently it's supposed to keep that open while it heals. I mean, you ought to look into this. If you don't know anything about this, you should look into it. We know that the drugs cause psychosis. We know it causes all kinds of Problems. You've got people taking testosterone. You've got people taking estrogen during puberty. These things aren't helping. I care about these children. I care about what's going on with kids all over the country, all over the world, every day, because parents want to do what they want to do, and they just want their kids to be quiet and just leave them alone. That really is what it comes down to. I have a friend who's a teacher, been a teacher for 30 years, and she had a kid in her classroom. Recent example. Kid was about, I don't know, six. And the mom wanted to put the kid on some kind of Ritalin or whatever. And my teacher friend said to the mom, well, you know, can we talk about what he's eating, how much sleep he's getting, you know, how much exercise he's getting, what's going on at home? The mom said, no, no, I just want him to have the pills. Now, these weren't cross sex hormones. They were just Ritalin. They don't want their kid to complain or be traumatized by the fact that they're not living the correct. They don't want to give their kids exercise. They want to give them an iPad and a pill. And so it's having drastic consequences. We've had several of these attacks now in schools because of transgender kids. And we have to be honest about this. These kids are becoming a major liability because what we're doing to them is screwing them up. It's not helping their mental health. It's not helping them physically. It's turning them into lifetime medical patients, really, which, of course, is great for transgender doctors and for, obviously for people like Planned Parenthood, who is the second largest provider of these kinds of things. Now, recently there was a lawsuit where somebody was actually able to get compensation for things that were done to this person, you know, medically. And that. And that's great. I'm glad to see that happening, and I hope that happens more. I hope it gets to the point where nobody's ever going to do this again, because they're going to understand the liability. The Royal Canadian Mounted Police deputy commissioner, Duane McDonald, said the kid was born biologically male approximately six years ago, began to transition to female, and identified as female. Like I said, that was about six years ago. He was asked whether there was a correlation between the child being transgender in the shooting, and the police deputy commissioner said, it's too early to say. Well, that's true. That's absolutely too early to say. We don't know about that. But what we do know is this kid had a real problem with mental health. He said the police had visited the family home on multiple occasions over the last several years due to concerns over his mental health. Now, once again, I don't know if. If the child was mentally ill before and then given these hormones, which can't help anybody, or the hormones made him crazy, I don't know. Clearly, the kid had issues. Two years ago, firearms were seized from the home, but the lawful owner, who the police chief did not name, got them back after petitioning to have them returned. Huh. Was that the person who's dead now? I don't know. I don't hear anything about a dad. I hear about a mom and a stepbrother. Don't know about a dad, but we know there's a stepbrother, so we know there was a divorce somewhere. Somehow on more than one occasion, this child, this shooter, was taken into custody for assessment under the Mental Health Act. So, you know, this is a kid who was clearly in trouble. And the problem is you can't find help. Even if a parent were to say, oh, my gosh, this quote, unquote, transition is not working for my child like I thought it would. Can we get some other help? Can we get some other counseling? Can we back off of this? You're not gonna get the. Because the narrative is, we want to make sure that you take these pills forever. Basically, the mom put something on. On an Instagram page talking about a pride flag, a trans inclusive pride flag. And she said, good people don't spend their time harassing marginalized communities. And by the way, I don't know every gay person, but a lot of gay people I know are not on board with this trans stuff, especially when it comes to children. She described herself as a conservative leaning libertarian. Okay. She said, I really hope the hate I see online is just bored old people and not true hatred. Do better and educate yourself before spewing BS online. Do you have any idea how many kids are killing themselves over this kind of hate? They always misuse the word hate. We're talking about people who have questions about this. That's all. A lot of people say, well, you have to accept me. You don't accept yourself. Let's be honest about this. You are not accepting yourself. You are the one who says, oh, okay, I'll start taking hormones when I'm, you know, 12. And then when I start to grow some buds, you know, like girls do, then I'll take more hormones. Or then I'll have those chopped off. Have you seen the scars left behind when they chop off healthy breasts? I mean, you'd sue a plastic surgeon if you had breast cancer and you look like that. That's how bad it is. And then they have this nice little term for it. They call it top surgery. There have been several school shootings, as you know. Audrey Hale in Nashville, Robin Westman, a Minneapolis school shoot. Alex McKinney, took part in a 2019 Colorado charter school shooting. Was born female but identified as male. And on and on and on. Okay, so it's getting to the point where these kids are a liability in school and they shouldn't be in public schools at this point. It's too scary. But when you have police at your house multiple times because your child's got a mental health issue, and then you want the guns back. This reminds me of Adam Lanza. Remember him? Sandy Hook reminds me of Adam Lanza because his mother knew he was crazy. I mean, to the point where she was alleged to have told a babysitter, don't take your eyes off him for a minute. I'm not kidding. Don't go to the bathroom. I mean, that's the kind of stuff. And then what does she do? She buys guns to take her child out to teach him to shoot, to kind of bond with them. Of course, the weapons he used on her. So it's gotta be frustrating for parents nowadays to try to find a way to deal with this situation when the children immediately go to that default position of, oh, I'm in the wrong sex. And let's talk about something more important. Let's talk about an aspect of that that is not discussed very often. And that is the aspect of community. We always want community, whether we have it in our family. Ideally, we should have it there. Family, extended family, church, all those kinds of things. If we don't find it there, we're gonna find it somewhere else. We're gonna find it in a gang. We might find it in, you know, a knitting group or something else, a book club. You know, some people are joiners. I'm not really a joiner. I'm not somebody who joins clubs and those kinds of things. But a lot of people like to do that. That's community. But there are kids nowadays who, let's face it, let's go back to the single parent thing. I'm not saying you can't raise a child as a single parent. You can, and there's some fabulous kids who've been raised that way. But the truth is, you can be the greatest single parent in the world. But you can't be both parents. You can't be. You work all day, you get home, you're exhausted, you only have so much time and energy. Nobody really has all that energy for that 24 hours a day. You're the par parent, constantly on tap. There's no handing it off to the other parent if the kid's sick or you're tired or whatever else. It's exhausting and it's difficult. So it's easy to say to a kid, okay, just go, you know, go play in your room with the computer. And then the child finds what it's lacking in its own home, which is community. And it finds it online. It finds a community of kids who are willing to suck your child in and tell your child, yeah, that's what it is. Forgetting what caused all the situation that you're dealing with, all the mental problems that you're having right now, whatever the difficulties are. No, we're going to ignore every possible cause of them and we're going to say, oh, it's really because you want to be a boy or you want to be a girl. So they get sucked in. They believe this is the real community they belong to. Using air quotes here. And the saddest thing is if these kids decide to de transition or back off of this procedure or multiple procedures or this path in life, they are immediately rejected by this so called community. Now I don't know if you've ever been through a church split or left a church. I have. And it's very difficult sometimes to do that depending on the situation. And especially it's really difficult on the kids. When you've been to a church all your life and all of a sudden you leave the church, your parents leave the church and it becomes an issue and you've lost a huge community and you feel rejected and it's awful. Well, that's the kind of thing that happens with these kids who are trans. They suddenly decide, wait a minute, hold on a second, I'm 18, 19 years old, I can't ever have normal sex as a boy because my penis just doesn't work and it's the size of an 8 year old's. But I'm not really a girl, I'm never gonna be able to have kids. What have I done? And they have all kinds of other health issues associated with this too that nobody wants to talk about. So you can look it up. Tons and tons of problems with this. But when they want to back off, then they have no community. So now they've lost a community, the only community they have, because their families are screwed up. Half the time, nobody's home, everybody's working, and nobody's paying attention to the kids. That's how these communities suck you in, and it's just terrible. And I interviewed a woman a while back. You can find that up on Rumble. Heidi Hare show. A woman who actually had to practically kidnap her child to get her kid away from a situation where they were trying to suck her into that. The school was trying to call her child by a different name behind her back and all these kinds of things. She literally had to sneak her kid out of town during the Christmas break because of what the school was trying to do, cut off her phone and take her to another place where she could regain her life. And it was life changing for her. She's very, very brave, and she writes about these kinds of issues. I'll put a link to all that. But we are doing our children a disservice. And now these children are killing our kids. And the media, they don't want to talk about it. There was a great story in the New York Post about it. The headline is, the media needs to stop gaslighting us about the reality of trans mass shooting shooters. Right. They're not the only mass shooters, obviously, but how many others are out there? They're angry. They're frustrated. This is not really solving their problem by taking these hormones. Taking these hormones is not really solving their problem. Cutting off body parts is not solving their problem. The world is not accepting them because they look weird. That's just reality. Nobody can demand acceptance. You can't. And once again, I don't hate transgender people. I don't understand it. And then you'll see people crying on social media. I was misgendered today in a coffee shop. Well, I'm sorry. I can't tell what you are. I've done that once in a while where I go, well, thank you, ma. Whoops. Not ma'. Am. Hold on. And I don't mean to be disrespectful. I don't. I don't hate these people, but I. You clear. I had a guy one time who worked at a pizza place that I went to. He had breast implants, facial hair, long fingernails. Clearly a man, long hair. I mean, a man with breast implants. And I didn't look at him weird or anything. I just said, okay, thank you very much. Gave me good service. Okay, this is a screwed up person. No one in the world is believing you're a woman. No, One. And so you're gonna be disappointed every single day of your life when you go out in public with whatever you're wearing and hoping that people are gonna accept you the way you are. You. You don't accept yourself. And those of us who care about kids want to see you avoid this. So you aren't suicidal, so you aren't homicidal. This isn't working. The dam is starting to crack a little bit. With that lawsuit that happened and the settlement and the other things that are going on, people are starting to change their minds about this. But how many kids have been permanently damaged? Who. Regardless of what changes in the law or lawsuit, the. The damage is done. The damage is done for these people. They're never going to be okay. And so I'm telling you something. These people are flat out getting scary. And if you have children in school, you ought to ask them about this, have these conversations, because the kids know it's not a boy or it's not a girl. The kids know what the truth is. And letting these kids go in the bathroom of choice is not going to solve their problems. Obviously it's wrong, but it's not going to solve their problems. Accepting them, quote unquote, is not going to solve their problems. Championing their rights as an underserved community is not going to solve their problems. We need to stop poisoning these kids with stuff that's not helping them. And we need to address their mental health issues. And more importantly than any of that, we need to address the issues that are messing kids up. We need to address the fact that people won't stay together, people won't provide a stable environment for children. And then we wonder why they're all screwed up. And that's something nobody wants to talk about either, because then you'll make the parents feel bad. Well, you have a responsibility. Pick well and hold your marriage together. And that makes all the difference in life. Geez, you know, it's just so sad. But these kids are flat out getting scary, I'm telling you. So just be on the lookout, my friends, because I don't know when the next one's gonna happen. If we're gonna talk about root causes, we need to talk about the root causes, the things that make kids wanna transition, not what happens after they transition. I'm Heidi Harris. Don't forget, you can find me on all socials. Heidi Harris Show. Heidi Harris Show. Heidi Harris show. And don't forget to check out my new podcast. It's called Vegas Crime Files. I just started it and it's firsthand accounts of things that have happened in Vegas. Firsthand. You're going to hear from the cops, the prosecutors, victims, witnesses. It's going to be first hand stuff, not some Google script that I got off the Internet. Very good stuff. Vegas Crime Files, please. Check it out anywhere you get podcasts. And of course, the socials for that are all under Vegas Crime Files. I'll see you guys on the next one. Here's Tony Scottwell. Sam.