Mark Vicente returns to the show — South African filmmaker, twelve-year NXIVM survivor, and one of the central whistleblowers in HBO’s The Vow — for a conversation timed to the release of his new documentary The Narcissist’s Playbook. Years of interviewing self-confessed narcissists, cult survivors, and clinicians have given Mark a clear lens on what most people sense but can’t name: the same pathology that runs a cult runs a marriage, an activist movement, a political party, a society. Dissociation is the operating system. Mimicry is the mask. The pathology of the leader becomes the blueprint of the whole. Underneath all of it, Mark argues for the unfashionable thing — that authenticity is a dying breed, that the only real antidote is returning to your own feeling, your own stillness, your own discernment. The conversation ends in hope, earned the hard way.

(00:00) Cold Open

(00:37) Opening Conversation

(02:26) Show Start

(03:14) Narcissist's Playbook Film

(08:47) Defining Narcissism / Interviewing Narcissists

(13:34) Trauma or Choice

(20:14) Narcissistic Injury

(23:29) Power and Politics

(27:56) Psychopath Acting Tricks

(34:30) Facing Inner Rage

(36:35) Cults and Low Vibe Policing

(42:45) Healing Means Feeling

(47:48) Devices Kill Stillness

(56:49) Does Abuse Catalyze Growth?

(01:03:35) Forces Of Disconnection / Collectivism As Psyop

(01:11:20) Activism And Selective Outrage

(01:19:53) Trigger Words And Radioactivity

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Mark Vicente → https://markvicente.com/

The Narcissist’s Playbook (film) → https://www.narcissistsplaybook.com/

WTF is on My Mind (podcast / Instaguru series) → https://www.youtube.com/@markvicente7

Instagram → https://instagram.com/markvicente

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