Holmberg’s Morning Sickness – 01-06-26

John’s Friend Mark Is No Longer Allowed In His New Bronco Because Each Time He Is They Seem To Get Mistaken For A Gay Couple

Date: January 6, 2026
Hosts: John Holmberg (E), Brady Bogen (B), Bret Vesely (A), Dick Toledo (F)
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A hilarious and self-deprecating exploration of the recurring phenomenon where John Holmberg and his friend Mark, while driving in John’s new Ford Bronco, are persistently mistaken for a gay couple by strangers. John recounts a series of run-ins—ranging from friendly jokes to peculiarly targeted serenades—and the hosts dissect the hijinks, stereotypes, and social assumptions behind these experiences.

Episode Overview

The morning’s core story follows John’s mounting realization that, every time his friend Mark rides passenger in his Bronco, passersby seem to clock them as a gay couple. The team breaks down these incidents, reflecting on society’s quick-draw conclusions, sharing related anecdotes, and poking fun at themselves—and each other. The discussion blends topical humor, personal stories, and the show’s signature unfiltered banter.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. The Topless Bronco and Weather Weirdness

[01:13 - 02:15]

• John marvels at Arizona’s unseasonably pleasant January, boasting that he still drives the Bronco with its top down, expecting freezing temps but instead enjoying mornings in the 70s.
• “I still have the top down on the car. Not expecting that at all...I can handle 50 degrees, nothing to it.” — John Holmberg [01:15]

2. Mark’s Magical ‘Gaydar’ Effect

[02:15 - 05:15]

• John confesses he can “no longer allow” Mark (full name jokingly outed: Mark Stebbings, CEO of National Bank of Arizona) in his Bronco due to a bizarre pattern: every time Mark’s in the car, strangers make gay jokes or assume they’re a couple.
• First Incident: After a Suns game, a man pulls up and shouts, “Which gay bar are you guys going to?”
  • John and Mark find it funny but then start “stewing” over whether they do look like a couple. [04:07]
• Second Incident: A few weeks later, a young woman serenades them at a stoplight with Cher’s “Do you believe in life after love?”—again, only when Mark’s present.
  • “We must look gay. I don't know what that is.” — John [04:08]
  • “You guys are the twink twins.” — Bret [05:30]

3. Anecdotes from Their Youth

[05:51 - 06:56]

• John reminisces about old times with Mark, like a car ride post-breakup, shirtless and listening to ballads, Mark crying over a girl.
• “[Mark] started to cry pretty violently, like ugly cry, while this song was on. He goes, ‘This is us.’ And I’m in the passenger seat going, I’m gonna jump out.” — John [06:23]

4. Trying to Explain the Pattern

[06:56 - 08:58]

• John debates whether it’s the location (“about a mile and a half from the gay Denny’s”) or Mark’s presence that triggers these reactions.
• “I drive around, I could listen to Cher and people like, ‘probably gay, not gonna say anything.’ Only when he’s [Mark] in the car… twice... two times with just you.” — John [12:09]
• Bret and John riff on Mark’s “vibes,” noting two interactions in as many outings can’t just be coincidence.

5. Crowdsourcing Opinions

[16:03 - 17:20]

• John asks his gay neighbors about Mark’s “vibe,” and they confirm Mark could be “on the down low.”
• “Michael did. Troy said, ‘He did.’ Michael said, ‘Yeah, I could see Mark being on the down low.’ I’m like, ‘No kidding.’” — John [16:03]

6. Banter and Stereotypes

[16:46 - 23:52]

• The group pokes at their own stereotypes: Mark’s high-water pants, haircut, and suit choices.
• They riff on gay car culture, “twinkmobiles,” and the idea that “two dudes in a Bronco screams gay,” to which John retorts, “Multiple men have ridden in that Bronco—the only time it happens is when the CEO Mark Stebbings is… in the dispatcher.” [17:41]
• John jokes about the potential wealth of a “power bottom couple” with Mark: “If Mark and I were gay, we’d be… a power bottom couple… printing like a thousand.” [16:59]

7. Community Feedback/Interaction

[17:23 - 20:48]

• Read-alouds of text and emails poking fun at the Bronco, the “Twinkmobile,” duck and dildo decorations for Jeeps, and the idea that God might be “calling” John to be gay via his friend group.
• John clarifies: “Let me clear that phrase up real quick. I have multiple—multiple men have ridden in that Bronco...” [17:41]
• Group speculates about musical stereotypes and share their own run-ins with “car ducks” or being mistaken for something they aren’t.

8. Car Stereotypes and Local TV Newsmen

[31:02 - 33:47]

• They riff on local weathermen (Corey McCloskey, Royal Norman, etc.), gay stereotypes, and the idea that singing show tunes or wearing fingerless gloves is a “giveaway.”
  • “You can’t do show tunes on television as a straight man. You’re telling everybody.” — John [31:48]

9. Bike and Motorcycle Double-Entendres

[35:35 - 36:48]

• Brief shift to motorcycle rides (“nuts to butts”), and why two men together on a bike is its own, less ambiguous stereotype.
  • “You don't get on the back of a man's bike and hold on. You just don't.” — John [36:48]

10. Wider Social Commentary

[29:24 - 30:34]

• John reflects on how some “lefties” will use gayness as an insult, even as they campaign against that very thing. References to Jimmy Kimmel’s “Jennifer Trump” joke and hypocrisy in political discourse.

11. Conclusion: What Next for Mark?

[15:28, 24:12, 25:12]

• John isn’t actually banning Mark yet, but says, “If this happens again, he’s out. We gotta do something about his hair.” [15:28]
• They speculate about more “tests”: “Maybe I’ll ask more people at the Suns games if they think my friend is a homosexual.” [24:12]
• John summarizes the plan: “I might just call Mark, go, what do you want to do? I’m just gonna drive around, Mark. Just drive around, see what goes on. Just light to light and see if it happens again.” [24:17]
• He finds the absurdity funny and isn’t offended, but clearly lets the listeners know—it’s Mark, not the car!

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• “Which gay bar are you guys going to?”
  Man at stoplight, as reported by John [03:33]

• “Do you believe in life after love?”
  Random woman serenading them at a light, aiming to ‘gay bomb’ them [05:15]

• “You guys are the twink twins.”
  — Bret Vesely [05:30]

• “If Mark and I were gay, we’d be a...power bottom couple.”
  — John [16:59]

• “I’ve had two dudes in the Bronco before. Let me clear that phrase up real quick.”
  — John [17:41]

• “If it started to happen in the Bronco all the time, I’d be like, are these gay guy cars? It’s not. It’s just him.”
  — John [15:08]

• “You don’t get on the back of a man’s bike and hold on. You just don’t.”
  — John, on motorcycle etiquette [36:48]

Timestamps for Major Segments

• [02:15] – John introduces Mark’s “gay magnet” effect in the Bronco.
• [03:33] – First incident: “Which gay bar...?”
• [05:15] – Second incident: woman sings Cher at them.
• [06:23] – Story of Mark’s high school heartbreak ride.
• [12:09] – Patterns emerge: only with Mark does this happen.
• [15:28] – “If this happens again, he’s out.”
• [16:03] – Reaction from gay neighbors.
• [17:41] – John clarifies: multiple men have ridden in the Bronco.
• [24:12] – John proposes further “testing” with Mark.
• [29:24] – Social commentary on “lefties” and insult culture.
• [31:02] – Weathermen, gloves, and stereotypes.
• [35:35] – “Nuts to butts”: bike ride banter.
• [36:48] – John’s rule: no holding on from behind.

Tone & Style

Unfiltered, bemused, and self-mocking—tinged with the show’s characteristic sarcasm and edgy humor. John is never actually offended, instead using the repeated gay assumptions as fodder for observational comedy about cars, masculinity, local culture, and the absurdities of social signaling. The podcast maintains a playful rapport, bouncing between sincere confusion and mock-exasperation at how minor details (pants, car color, passengers) can shape strangers’ perceptions.

Takeaway

Are people reading too much into two guys sharing a Bronco? Is it the car, the passenger, the outfits, or the music? John’s answer: “It’s not the car. It’s Mark.” The episode is a laugh-out-loud probe into stereotypes and coincidences, with just enough introspection to make the satire land. If a stranger sings Cher at you in traffic, maybe you’re just having a really good—or really funny—morning.