Podcast Summary: Hot Mess with Alix Earle

Episode: Lady Gaga, VMAs, NYC … Here’s What Happened

Host: Alix Earle
Date: September 10, 2025

Episode Overview

In this vibrant episode, Alix Earle brings listeners along for a whirlwind weekend in New York City, packed with behind-the-scenes vlogging, wild nights out, unforgettable performances (Lady Gaga!), chaotic dance rehearsals, last-minute wardrobe dilemmas, and her big moment presenting at the VMAs. With her candid and unfiltered friends in tow, Alix shows what it’s really like juggling influencer, presenter, and party girl responsibilities—all through her infectious, no-filter storytelling.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Surprise Trip to NYC & VMAs Invitation

[02:00] Alix explains she was unexpectedly invited to present at the VMAs, prompting an impromptu trip to NYC—a perfect opportunity for some overdue FOMO-filled quality time with friends.
“Maybe this was the FOMO gods listening to me...I couldn't pass up the opportunity.” [02:19]

2. Night Out with Friends: Drinks, Vlogging, and Banning Martinis

[03:15] Alix, Julia, Jake, Zaza, and more hit NYC for happy hour—celebrating with spicy margaritas and banning martinis after past disasters.
She shares inside jokes with friends (shoutout to Carter and the “Kiss Me Thru The Phone” moment), and the group takes triple tequila shots.
“I'm banning myself from martinis. It's just never a good idea for me.” [03:21]
“Cheers to us. Cheers to life. Cheers to you.” [04:30]
There’s a playful, chaotic atmosphere: impromptu rapping, vlogging, and the classic New York late-night hot dog stop for “street meat.”
“Street meat is the best thing about New York.” [06:45]

3. Dance Rehearsal Hangovers and Friend Group Dynamics

[07:15] Despite a night of drinking, Alix gets up for dance rehearsal. Friends critique each other’s hangover coping, reminisce about Irish goodbyes, and fuss over breakfast.
“I only had five drinks total. So I actually was responsible.” [07:33]
Candid behind-the-scenes as Alix struggles through her morning and the group bickers and bonds.

4. Lady Gaga Concert – Peak Fangirl Moments

[10:40] Alix gushes about her impromptu invite to see Lady Gaga, her all-time favorite performer.
“Lady Gaga was the best performance I've ever seen. I keep trying to describe Lady Gaga's performance people, and I just can't. Like no words will do it justice.” [11:15]
She details the wild concert—matching outfits with friends, “margarita per act” drinking, and sheer awe at Gaga’s stage presence.
“That was seriously the best night of my entire life. Like, I'm not even being dramatic. No one performs like Ms. Gaga.” [13:30]

5. Back-to-Back Dance and VMAs Prep

[15:00] Operating on almost no sleep, Alix rushes from dance rehearsal to wardrobe fittings before presenting at the VMAs.
There’s banter about spray tanning, last-minute wardrobe changes, and nerves around picking the right “vibe” for her outfit.
“Do I need to spray tan?... There's no such thing. Too orange.” [16:24]
Hilarious takes on fashion risks: “Snooki on the carpet” jokes, studded sunglasses, and fears of “looking too trashy.”

6. Ultimate Chaos: Wardrobe Malfunctions and Stage Jitters

[18:02] Alix’s behind-the-scenes before she takes the stage gets real: outfit disasters, lack of a steamer, and changing dresses while running late.
“If I spilled my Alex Earl Poppy on my dress, people would be like, she's a marketing genius.” [20:45]
Technical backstage moments are narrated with frantic energy: ripped dresses, nipping in the cold, and scrambling for a steamer.
She reflects on some on-stage nerves after mispronouncing Megan Laroney’s name.
“I think I got nervous and mispronounced her name a little bit...I just don't want to think about it. I'm going to drink about it.” [23:55]

7. Fan Girl Milestone: Lady Gaga Notice!

[24:50] The emotional high point: Lady Gaga comments “Queen” on Alix’s post, sending her into a blend of disbelief and euphoria.
“I seriously jumped out of bed. I don’t think I’ve ever gotten out of bed that fast. My heart sang.” [25:37]
Alix admits rare moments of being starstruck: “I never really like fangirl or get star struck, but like she's the one person for me.” [25:45]

8. Wrap-up: Post-VMAs Reflection & Friendship Chaos

[27:00] The episode closes with more wardrobe discussions, playful banter, shout-outs (to Tay McRae, Lady Gaga, and her squad), and a sense of gratitude for both chaos and opportunity.
“The life I want to live. Chaos. Ms. Gaga and Ms. Earle’s got a dance in the morning.” [27:33]

Notable Quotes & Moments

“My house is on pretty girl Avenue. Baby, I’m having a margarita.” [05:13]
“I feel my most confident when I'm wearing a mask. Gaga, here we come.” [12:25]
“That was seriously like a Broadway show... Nothing is ever going to top that.” [13:48]
On skincare mishaps: “Of course I stopped the camera and I shatter my skincare... Maybe my arm needed some good mandelic acid.” [17:45]
“Someone goes, did you get a boob job? And I was like, no, my boobs love my armpits, they don’t love my chest.” [22:55]

Timestamps for Key Segments

[02:00] NYC & VMAs invite, squad shoutouts, and trip kickoff
[03:15 – 06:50] First night out in NYC: tequila, vlogging, and street food
[07:15 – 10:20] Dance rehearsal hangovers and group dynamic antics
[10:40 – 14:00] Lady Gaga concert experience
[15:00 – 17:30] VMAs wardrobe prep/fitting and spray tan banter
[18:02 – 22:55] Backstage chaos: changing, nerves, and presenting mishaps
[24:50 – 25:45] Lady Gaga comments on Alix’s post (mega fangirl moment)
[27:00 – 28:30] Final wardrobe fun and episode wrap-up

Summary Style and Tone

True to Alix Earle’s brand, this episode is fast-paced, high-energy, candid, and filled with the “hot mess” charm fans love—equal parts chaotic, hilarious, and heartwarming. With her signature blend of self-deprecation and confidence, Alix transforms a jam-packed work/play weekend into a relatable, unforgettable adventure.

Perfect for listeners wanting the real, unfiltered influencer experience—celebrating highs, laughing through lows, and embracing every ounce of chaos along the way.

Transcript

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We're so close. Shout out Nick. Shout out Alandria. I got invited to present at the VMAs which is so exciting and I felt like couldn't pass up the opportunity. So now we get to stay in New York for the weekend. So maybe this was the FOMO gods listening to me. Cause I was so upset that I couldn't be with all my New York friends. So Julia's here, Jake's here, Zaza, Carter, Peyton, Hunter, Connor, Ashton, Sally are coming back this weekend. It's Friday night. I feel like we should treat ourselves and we're gonna go out to a little like happy hour. We're gonna go have a little spicy margarita. I'm banning myself from martinis. It's just never a good idea for me. I told Braxton I was going to start my night with drinks with Carter and Zaza and he goes, oh boy. And listen, I have dance rehearsal at 8am on the dot. That means we have to get up at 7am So I don't know what I think I'm doing, but we are not gonna have a crazy night. They brought me shots. These are our triple tequila shots. It's Friday. I love you. Wanna kiss me through the phone? Kiss me through the phone. Woo. You in like third grade when that came out. Oh my God, I nailed it. Dear God, Roxan, you were in third grade when that came out. Outfit of the night. I'm gonna change for going out later, I think. But this is just like Uncle. Look at who I found. Oh, vlogging. Stay vlogging. Stay. Vlogging is what I do. My house is on pretty girl Avenue. Baby, I'm having a margarita. Hi, vlog. Are we vlogging? Yeah, obviously. Oh, hey, vlog. Stay vlogging. Cheers, Vlog. We're in New York. Cheers to us. Cheers to life. Cheers to you. I think there's a no camera policy. Really? Well, they don't know. Cheers. Next party we go, we don't know where we are or what we're doing, but we're going to keep drinking. Obviously our mega kahuna got us triple shot tequilas. No, we're kind of free gaming here to go to the next. We have my friend Hunter's birthday party. I made new friends. If you guys want to be in the vlog, say. Say hey to the vlog. So these are my new best friends. And they also need to have some of the drink because they brought me shots. Don't take a stranger's drink. Stay alive on me him in the rules and vitamins. I tell the times, tell the principles. What is he doing? It's not very nice in hell I've seen it all in and only time can tell the nice prevail. We slice it thin up in a full up with without a pause I see these intervals all interlink I'm liver cool. I watch the silver spoon turn into pink I'm running thin on eight for a fun time Cuz the Uber said we're here but you could stay in and keep singing he said give me one more song Cause my name is Alex I'm so hot y' all would never call me a thot. Carter, you're good. Weren't you guys just here last time? Hey, where's the club? I got a boyfriend named Braxton. He's so cool. If you bitches would ever. You might be a fool. Carter. Carter. Maybe it's Sharter. I don't know but baby, I'll hit it harder. Watch out, I'm getting pretty good. Hi, vlogs. How the are you? Oh, baby, hi. Can I do a New York jumbo hot dog? This is what I needed. I dance at 8am I have to leave. I have to get a hot dog so I can be alive for dance. Street meat is the best thing about New York. Thank you. I'm coming. Night. It was fun in the boat. We were at a party in there. My friend's birthday party. 7:30am Time for dance practice. I only had five drinks total. So I actually was responsible. That hurts. It's time to dance practice now. Time to get my heels. I'm getting me and Val some coffee cuz we need to wake up and we're going to pick up Val and then we're going to head to the dance studio. I'm actually shocked at the state of myself. I mean I don't feel great but like if I had a little Advil or Tylenol that would do the trick. We're dancing in here. Julie and Payton want to come watch me dance. Which I was like, you cannot come but Val's going to get them right now. Salsa. You're good. Okay. Adam sauce has been. Adam, this way. Alex is the best. I saw them dance. My job was literally glued to the floor. I like your glasses, Val. Yeah, you're stunting on everyone. I am so hungover. They got back at 6am I was responsible last night. I told you guys Irish goodbye. I didn't say goodbye to us. She said that she was watching Peyton's calls roll in and she was shutting. I left. I called her 7 times. Cuz if I told you guys I was leaving they wouldn't have left me. We would have tracked her down. And I also am easily convinced. So I would have stayed. But I was responsible. Cheers. Pineapple gingers. Cheers. Fitting alert. You look electric. Do a spin. Yep. Final outfits for the BMAs. Do I need to spray tan? I don't think you're pale. I don't think you're pale. But it would look better with a tan. Is it going to be like two or. I mean I feel like there's no such thing. Too orange. I have a problem with that cuz I'm like the oranger the better. But I know that's not like chic but it's like a gold short dress. So like you do. You don't want to like look like trashy real quick. Like like a Snooki. Should I get like studded sunglasses? Just go in like Snooki and then like fall on the carpet. She needs to fall a lot. Maybe even this with like a slip would make it less trashy. I just don't know if like I'll look good. I think you look so good in this lip. But not high. Like low. I think this might be my favorite. I think that's my favorite too. Grabbing a bite to eat at the D diner. Thank you. Oh, I'm so hungry. Do you think they still have breakfast? Yeah, definitely. Hi. Yeah. Oh man, I'm so excited. I'm gonna cry. I'm seriously shaking. I can't even pick it up. I'm so excited. Okay, next surprise adventure of the weekend, we're going to see Lady Gaga. I did not know this was happening. I got invited very last minute. Lady Gaga is like my top tier, favorite artist of all time time. Lady Gaga was the best performance I've ever seen. I keep trying to describe Lady Gaga's performance people, and I just can't. Like no words will do it justice. She's just such a good performer. I've never seen her in concert besides Coachella. So I'm ready to rave with the monsters tonight. This is my problem. I'm like, I'm supposed to be in bed getting sleep. I'm a little sleep deprived right now, but I'm like, we can't miss this opportunity. Okay, let's go see the Gogsters. The Gogsters. I might look ridiculous right now, but I don't care. I'm having fun in my shades. Okay. Gaga, we're coming for you. I love you. I'm so excited. Gaga, here we come. We all unintentionally matched, every single one of us. You look amazing. Thank you. I feel my most confident when I'm wearing a mask. Gaga, here we come. Hitting the angles. I feel like tmz. No questions please. Look at this. Oh my God. God, I'm gonna freak the out. We're so close. Oh my God. This is a manifesto. Oh, are you kidding me? She just did the first two acts. There's like a little intermission cuz she does like a whole show. It's an interlude. Right now we're on Interlude 3 and I'm having my Interlude 3 margaritas. I get one margarita per act. Okay, we're getting on these bikes. Here we go. I mean seriously, who am I friends with? We can't even see in here. Is this safe? Okay, that was seriously the best night of my entire life. Like I'm not even being dramatic. No one performs like Ms. Gaga. That was seriously like a Broadway show. Everything that went into that was just so crazy. Wow. Nothing is ever going to top that. My feet are swollen like big fat sausages right now from standing in the heels all night. And she performs for a while. I didn't know. So it's currently 1am and we have to be up at 6, so 8 to 12. I have dance practice, then I'm gonna go straight to Ashton's and start getting ready for the VMAs and then we're gonna present there and Then I come back and then I'm leaving first thing in the morning to go back to la. And then I have dance practice again that night. Cuz why would I sit still and do nothing? I mean, I do this to myself, but I love it. It's the life. The life I want to live. Chaos. Ms. Gaga and Ms. Earl's got a dance in the morning. But seriously, watching her dancers on stage, I was like, okay, I'm inspired. I'm so excited to do my skincare. I'm just a horny fool. Baby, it's a grown. Also, I learned through my TikTok comments that it's not horny fool, it's holy fool. And I've been saying my whole life I'm just a horny fool. But it's actually I'm just a holy fool. But you know what? I'm just a horny fool. And maybe it's all wrong. Let's go to bed. And then tomorrow's the VMAs day. I still don't know what I'm wearing because the fitting went well. We have a lot of cute outfits. I have a lot of like chic little dresses. But I am going to go to this showroom tomorrow with Ashton just in case I want to like buy something. I think the VMAs are very fun, so I would like to wear something fun. But I found out I was going there last minute, so I'm. Sometimes it's hard for like a stylist to pull stuff. Super. Last minute. Ashton has to get an outfit still, so she's going. I'm gonna see if we can find any outfits there. Of course I stopped the camera and I shatter my skincare. I don't know if you can see all down my arm. Oh, here's my serum. Thanks so much. And now there's glass all over the floor. Perfect. You know what, we can just take a little off the arm. Maybe my arm needed some good mandelic acid. I mean, come on. Man, oh man. Good morning. Time for dance. I also just would like to inform you guys that Lady Gaga commented Queen on my post. I seriously was sleeping this morning. I was like, I can't get up, I can't get up. And everyone was commenting on my post, like, alex, wake up, wake up. Look. And I was like, oh God, what happened? And I look. And I seriously jumped out of bed. I don't think I've ever gotten out of bed that fast. And my heart sang. I never really like fangirl or get star struck, but like she's the one person for me. Okay, so today's going to be a good day. Look who I found. Yay. Straight from the airport. My little girl. I look so sk. Okay, so right now we're going to see what we can wear to the VMAs, because we don't know. And we have to get ready in an hour, so this is so fun. So what's your vibe? Me? I have no thoughts or vibes. My vibe's definitely, like, black, dark, more covered. Okay, perfect. I'll go light and naked. Okay. This is total opposite vibes of what I tried before, but, like, this is vintage, early 2000s Versace, and I feel like I never wear anything like this. I feel like the VMAs are fun, so, like, I could go classy and chic, but this could also be really cool. We got some poppy sodas with a little spike. If I recommended drinking for this, Alex would be like, no, but that's why we need Zaza. Hey, you do. You would be like, no. It's just a little to take. Not even in a mean way. You just be like, no. Well, I have to be on stage. Wait. Yeah, I'm performing. Me too. Surprising. I'm the halftime performance. Yeah. Hair back. Toss. Toss. Yeah, those are. Toss, toss. I need to get my side boob placed in the right position. Otherwise it gets, like, crinkly. And you can see the implant, so it has to be done just right. Someone goes, did you get a boob job? And I was like, no, I just. My boobs only stay. You look so pretty. My boobs love my armpits. They don't love my chest. We have to go. Late to the VMAs. Late to the VMAs. No wrinkles on this baby. Someone feed me a drink. Yeah. Do not. Do not get a drop. Do not drip. A singular drop. No drops have been dripped. Not yet. If you get a poppy stain on the VMA carpet, that's great marketing. Yeah. If I spilled my Alex Earl Poppy on my dress, people would be like, she's a marketing genius. Honestly. Did I do it? Yeah. It's like that Regina George where she cut out her boobs and her tank top. It might be a really good idea. I think we'll run with it if it accidentally happens, but I don't think we should aim for that. Well, Poppy, let me know. Not on the Tom Ford. Tom Ford. Poppy. Tom Ford collab. I cracked myself up. I have to pee so bad. Oh, my God. We're probably gonna carpet and then Pee. So perfect. Hope I don't pee my pants. Imagine I tinkle on the carpet. Don't we have to sit by 8? Holy hell. Questions galore. I just said put money in my undies on camera. Alex, I need a drone. Okay, we're backstage and I'm changing to present, and it's so cold. I'm like, I'm gonna be nipping. I'm actually really excited to put this on. Where's the dress? Oh. Oh, no. Is she too wrinkly? It's really wrinkly. Wait, do we have a steamer here? They have to have one somewhere, right? I don't know. Can you ask? Yeah. Oh, okay. Well, this isn't going as planned, so if we can't find a steamer, I'm going to have to keep this outfit on. Okay, well, the dress was wrinkled and crinkled, so we're staying in the same outfit. And I probably wrinkled this one, taking it on and off. But what are you going to do? What? I mean, what's going on? Get it. Pull it. Oh, Ashton, you just ripped the bottom of this one. No, there's just a string. Okay, well, don't do whatever I just did. Un. Pulling it. This next art. A singer songwriter who has been crowned the Gen Z country queen. She hails from Georgia and her first single blew up on the country charts. And she's here on the extended play stage presented by Doritos. Give it up for Megan Laroney. Ashton's celebrated. Now that we can party. I think I got nervous and mispronounced her name a little bit. And I said it in the moment. I was like, why would I say that? But it's okay. Yeah, I don't know. I just don't want to think about it. I'm going to drink about it. Oh, Alex. How do I make it landscape? Z. What's going on? Z's vlogging and it's crooked. I don't know how to vlog. But you're in vertical, though. How did I change it? Make it go the other way. Hey, we figured it out. Gimbal's saying hi. Shout out Tay McRae. Shout out lady Gaga. Shout out Alex. Earl. Alex. Earl. Shout out Zong. Shout out Nick. Shout out Alandria. You look so good. Thank you, gorgeous. The two queens chatting. I'm just viewing. You look amazing. You did amazing. You look so good. Thank you. This is our vlog now. I know Gimbal. I know Digi. Z doesn't know. No. Zaza. What's going on? I stole your drink, so I was making it privately so you wouldn't know I stole it. This is cool. Video of the year, Sabrina Carpenter.