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Available for a limited time, your summer favorites are ready at Starbucks. Let the weekend begin. Oh, my God. This is sad. This might be a bad idea. I'm going to pick up my friends right now. They're taking the ferry from New York to here. I'm not gonna lie. I've been in this sweatsuit for like 30 hours and I slept 14 hours last night. I was just really. I had a headache all week from Ashton's graduation. I wasn't feeling good. I felt so tired and not rested and I went to bed at 7:00pm Well, I thought it was going to be a nap and I Woke up at 10am that was kind of insane. All the girls I'm picking up right now are my college best friends. Sarah, I lived with all four years of college. Everyone's excited for the Jersey Shore this weekend. We have. Sally's brother and his friends are coming from Vegas. Oh, my God. I seriously almost hit that car. I'm so excited. There's nothing like Memorial Day weekend at the Jersey Shore. Hey, I'm freaking out. Get in Bramble Bay. We need lmfao. We need lmfao. We need Pauly D. We need to pound our punans on the floor at DJs. Guys, this is the car I drove in high school. Really? Yes. I would pull up with like the 10 seats. Okay, now we have an hour drive to my mom's house. Two minutes in. Ava lost her phone. Check your bags. I did. Well, check your bag. Like your carry on thing. Come on, blondie. Wait, mine says it's back there. Oh, geez. Right now, though, it's in the parking lot on the ground. Oh, I can't reverse. There's a car, Ava. I see it in the grass. Go get it, Ava. Are you kidding me? Redo now. We're on the way. Redo, redo. Oh, let's get the varieties. Okay. Should we get them all? Oh, yeah. Yeah. Time to get ready. I hate this picture of me, and my mom has it everywhere. Every one of my family members has it. Everyone say hi to the vlog. I got a new vlog camera, so I think it's gonna focus on me now. I think you guys are gonna be really proud of me. We're at dinner. We're having some cigars. We're having, like, a really good bougie dinner before we be not so. Thank you, baby girl. Guys, I'm playing around with new features. This is crazy. Zoom, zooming. We're playing to get to know each other, because I don't think we're. And I'm dangerous. We have some new friends, and I'm psycho and dangerous. Psycho. Oh, and I like to mukbang. I'm Sarah. I went to Miami with this crew. I think I'm gonna get the drunkest. Hi, I'm Ava. I'm from Georgia. I also am part of the Miami crew. Ava lives in New York with the rest of them. Yeah. Hi, I'm Kate. I also went to Miami. I live with Sarah and Natalie in the city, and I'm. I'm excited to get dirty on the Jersey dance floor. I also obviously live in New York and went to Miami. I'm very excited to do the worm on the dance floor and ruin my shirt. I already am gonna have to order another one on the way. Cheers. Cheers. Wait, Sally, is that a dirty morazini? It is in a cup. Look at this pizza. I've never seen it. Really? Natalie's making a dirty martini. Want some pizza or no? It's really, really yummy. I'm scared. I'm gonn in the most tasteful way possible. Very tasteful. Oh, my God. I did the double tap, and it's active tracker enhanced. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. Still on you bitch. Oh, my God. It's moving. It's so good. I'm so excited for this weekend because I know everyone is just, like, such a good vibe. I was explaining to everyone in the car. They're like, oh, and who is who? And who is who? And I was just like, and they're the best person ever, and they're the Best person ever. And like, I just feel like we have such a good group here and we're gonna have the best weekend ever. I'm so happy we weirdly made this work. And we're gonna have. So that was good. That's all I can have. So we got her a nice champagne to say thank you. And she's allergic, so we're really. But she loves us anyway. Okay. Holy. Oh my God. 24 hour flight. Just so you know. That's real love. And we were like, where's the beverage at? So I'm just gonna start for the beverages and just back up. All right. All right. So we don't. All right, we're here. We go into our bus for the weekend. I'm freezing. Party people, cabs are here. We're now arrived to Parker house. I got our cash for the COVID and we're going around the side. Where the are you going tonight? We got our. Let's go. We're home, baby. You did what? Brown. Every time. Close my. Okay, we have to drink it all at once. Ready, set, go. I thought you were up there. Your sh. Show the people. Show the people how you shake your butt. Chris. Happy birthday. I'm over stimulated. Bless. We're back home. I just did my skincare and I ordered some food. I'm feeling so much better. That was fun, but it was a little over stimulating. Who needs some water? I'm over here. Hi. We're reading. Oh, my God, it's freezing cold. Wait, it's the tundra. He seems like a block. Hi. Thank you so much. Let me ask them really quick. Ladies, can you look in this bag if this is your order? Because he doesn't know if this is ours or someone else's. Oh, yeah. This is ours, right? This is ours. Thank you. I'm so excited for bed, guys. I was having dreams about Gatorade. I'm not kidding. I was. I don't know what I was dreaming about. I had the craziest dreams. Wait, where's my DJ's hat? You got hat last night. Oh, yeah, babe. Wait, I just got tagged in a video of. They're like, twerk, twerk, twerk on stage. And I didn't know what to do. And I'm like, the old man's like, twerk, twerk. And then I did a baby freeze. And he's like, we don't want that. We want girls to twerk. And I was like, I want to go home. All right, we need to get rook immediately. Natalie's hair. This is what I miss the most. How does that happen to me every night? Like, what do I do? Okay, guys, we're getting Rook. Natalie called one of our exes and left a voicemail. Wait, do you have it? Yes. Are you kidding me? We got him. All right. First rook in four years. It's so good. Day two. We're on the way. Cheers. Who the motherfuck has the High Noon secure? High Noon. Kick me out of the car. We're wearing some Capri action today. Had a little bit of a menti b because I was like, I'm not going. I don't like this. I feel pale. You don't look pale. No, look at my leg. It's not that different. But you know what? We're going to Parker House. Grant, my ex husband. How are you? How are you? How are you? How are you? Actually, very nice out. It was a little freezing before. My top top keeps falling off. Okay, we're ready. Here are big gifts. And the best gifts are friends at the bars. What is happening here? You can get my chins so good. Cheers. To the birds. These are the best liners ever. Freezing. It's so cold. I'm scared. I'm just going to have a SEM. I love how the chalice made it back with us. We're going back to the hotel because we had to leave the bar. A lot of our friends stayed. We said we had to go. I cannot say no more. And I have to go. I'm ordering food and I have to go. The music festival ran out of water. Yeah. So they were pumping well water. And the whole festival smelled like sulfur. So bad. And you couldn't drink. Drink the water without throwing up. So the whole festival started to smell like throw up. Something weird about it. It's a really good filtration of water. Tastes horrible. Smells horrible. It's a good filtration. Like rotten eggs. Literally like rotten eggs. But it's a really good way to filter water. Yeah. There's like a four day festival within the first 24 hours. We're going to the fair. These are our outfits we're wearing. We're gonna head on some townies. Check this out. We're going to a carnival across the street. I'm not sure how this. I want to go in the zipper. I'm good at the the one where you do the water. I'm a water race pro. To the fair we go. This is crazy. I'm gonna cry. This is crazy. Wow. Wait. I've never been more. I'm definitely gonna puke. Oh, yeah, My gimbal was dirty. You're what? My little cameraman was dirty. I'm gonna puke for sure. I want to go, and I want to see if I puke or not. This is a challenge. I want to go on the one that goes. Yeah, yeah, the one that goes. It's like the zipper kind. Have to graviton. No fucking way. We cannot grab a charm. We cannot graviton. This really feels like we're in euphoria. Can we get cotton candy at the end? Yeah, we have to. Oh, my God. I can't. Candy apple. This is what I want to do. Wait, guys. Upon looking at it closer up, this might be a bad idea. I don't know. Are you guys coming on this with us? I'm so scared. We're going. We're sending it. Oh, no. I was so z it there. Oh, my God. I'm so scared. I'm scared of these things. Now we're going on the big drop. Slingshotting. This is pretty crazy. Is it the one that goes, like, does it a bunch? I don't know. I'm already not liking this. Oh, I don't like the slow. Wait, wait, wait. I don't like the slow. I don't like the slow at all. Like, the slow. I don't think we. Wait, wait, wait. We're so high. Wait. Oh, my God. No. I have a fear. It's okay. It's okay. It's okay. Don't look down. I have a fear. Don't look down. We're so happy. I'm not gonna lie. I'm freaking out. Way higher than this thing is supposed to go. Oh, it's extending too much. Am I freaking you out more? Yeah, you are. I'm really freaking out. Oh, you are. This is way higher than I thought. Woo. Okay, that was fun. Is that it? Okay, that's it. Holy. Thank God. I'm sorry. I was like, oh, this is as high as we can go. And then we can't go any hard. I was like, never mind. Guys. Did you go way harder than we thought? I love Disney dragons. Wait, we can do the squirt. This is my game. That's all that's left to my name. This is the best game. This is the only game I'm good at, so I better win. All you've got to do is aim at the little circle in the center. The first one of y' all that reaches the top rings that bell is going to be the choice prize winner. Are you guys ready? Wait, how do I Say, on your mark, get set. Here we go. The race is on. They're out the gate. Who's it gonna be? They're going all the way to the tippy top. They're not trying to waste a drop. Who's gonna be that choice? Prize winner here. Number four. Number four. Number four. You can book anything in the game except for my money and my microphone. The chicken. I like the chicken. That is the last pizza night. Wait, that's it? That's it. One race. Whatever. It's kind of a ripoff. Natalie went upstairs at the bar to a random room with two girls and went and ate their pizza. And she was like, yeah, they had pizza for us. Are you kidding me? You could have been kidnapped. They bring us into a bedroom. Mattresses, no sheets, no alcohol. Just. We need to go to bed. This is the fucking pizza. No, it's fucking. We were in danger, guys. It was definitely their food supply for the week. Good morning, party number three. We're heading to Vegas. I'm actually at, like, a 30 minutes early. So we made it to Vegas, baby. And look at what they have in the Vegas hotels. Mario Rugs. We're buying them all. That was the quickest turnaround of my entire life. Here's the outfit that we ended up going with. We're just doing some quick stitching of the outfit in the car. Sa that bar, baby. Sam, Vegas is insane. Holy. So we're in Europe. We're in Venice. This is the nicest thing I've ever seen in my life. Apparently. We're staying here. Braxton, you really did all this for me? I built this for you. I know every inch. He built it for me. Look at your city. Cheeky. Can I be your queen? You are my queen. Okay? I have it on videotape. So who can never deny it now, you hear that vlog? Write it down. He's my king. Hey, mother. I'm horny for a pretzel. I'm horny. I'm horny for, like, chicken nuggets. Is there pretzels on the thing? Where am I? Gaze at Scream. Brad. Oh, here. Hey, I'm not friends with these people. I don't know who they are. Elevator are moving. Yeah, they're moving. Better watch out. It's going to open on you. Zip your mouth. Zip your mouth. That's what Z stands for. Zip your mouth. I'm going to. That could go on the vlog. That could not go on the vlog. That's off the block. Why can't it go in the Blog. Let's have a vlog off the block. I think you guys are both bottoms, so I don't know if that would work. I am very verse for the world to know. Hey, guys. I don't know where you're going, but my bags are up here. Let the boys stay because I can't deal with all of it. That's Ron. Yep. What is going on over here? I'm having a great time, honestly. Where's. What? Whoa. Here's your soup. Don't rest your forehead on that tender. I feel like the king and queen of Vegas. You are the queen. Oh, please. Good morning. Happy ama's Day. My eyes are so puffy. I'm putting a frozen marg on my face right now. So Brock and I are going to go walk and get some coffee, and then Braxton's leaving because he has to go back for football. And then I'm going to the AMA today, and I'm a little nervous because this is going to be my first red carpet ever where I'm doing my own makeup because I feel like sometimes I look weird when I get my makeup done, and I'm like, I think I do my makeup pretty good, and I just don't want to risk looking bad on tv. But at the same time, I don't really know how to do makeup for, like, tv and all those extra lights. Oh, my God, my eyes are so puffy. So maybe I shouldn't be worried about my makeup and I should be worried about my face. I have to go to Sephora and get, like, some fake eyelashes, maybe some individuals for the end. I'm turning into a makeup artist. I just want to put these on. Like, they were my sunglasses, so that's not good. You ready? Yeah. Let's do it. Let's go get some coffee. Wow, this is so pretty. Get some pictures in here. Is that a treadmill? Yeah. You see it? That's kind of cool. Cool Pandas. That's us, Braxton. Look at us. Look. Which one's you? Oh, my gosh. What a weekend. It was the best time ever. I cannot believe I literally was at a million different things at once. I don't know if you guys can tell from that video, but, like, truly, just, like, being with my best friends and, like, having those silly moments after going out besides, like, the party itself. Just, like, being with my friends, laughing about our night, like, recapping Natalie leaving voicemail for someone's ex. Like, we just have such a good time together. So I'm so happy that we vlogged it. I got to share that with you guys and want to wrap it up with a little. What would Alex do? Let's do some three questions. We're gonna have a little wholesome ending on some advice after all those grails that we drank. Let's see what the Earl girls are writing in today. Hi, Alex. I was wondering when you think a guy should say I love you in a relationship and start talking about your future together, kids, where you want to live, and things like that, how long should it be before the casualness turns to talking about the future? I've been dating my boyfriend for five months and talked to him for two months prior to that, and we had just kind of recently started talking about it. And I think it's important, too, just to see where our values and goals align and if we can truly have a future together. Thank you. What a good question. I love that I'm actually a proponent of, like, I think it's a little scary when guys say I love you, like, right away off the bat. There's times when it's like you're dating someone for a month, and they're like, I love you. And when you first start hanging out with someone, it's like, the best thing ever. You both have a crush on each other. It's like, there is so much love there. Everyone's different. Every relationship is at their own thing. So everyone, pace yourselves at your own pace. I'm not in your shoes, but I feel like it's a little weird, don't you think, when you're saying I love you, and I'm like, you don't really know this person yet. Like, a month into knowing someone, I'm like, do you really know them? When did Braxton and I say I love you? It was when I blurted it out. So we started hanging out in, like, March, and then I think I his game in September. It kind of, like, came in the moment, like he was going out for his football game, and I was standing there on the sideline, and I was like, I love you. Have a good game. And then I, like, froze. And he actually didn't even say anything back to me because he was like, I don't know if you meant to say that or not. And I obviously felt it, so it just, like, kind of came out. I think you've got to let that come when, like, you feel it. And I think, personally, if you can wait till after the first, like, three months, four months even, really assess how you feel. I'm always a big proponent of them saying it first. So I kind of botched that one. When you get that urge where you're just like, I love you, like, you almost want to say it. Every time I feel like that's when it's, like, coming naturally as opposed to just like, I'm having so much fun with this person, like, I guess I love you. I like it to, like, almost be spilt out from the gut and then talking about, like, a future and all that stuff. I don't think it's crazy to even talk about that on, like, the first few dates. When you're hanging out with someone, if you're dating someone a little bit more maturely, and it's like you're dating someone because you want to get married, not like, you're in high school. You know, all my high school girls right now, you don't have to, like, really talk about baby and kids, but, like. And no one needs to talk about that on the first date. But I think there's a difference of you talking about it because you're like, oh, we're going to get married. We're having kids together, as opposed to, like, figuring out if someone's values align with you, because that's an important thing. If someone's, like, dead set on, like, I'm not having kids and you want to raise a family, then maybe not the best match, you know, I think it's different, though. Different. If a guy is, like, you're first dating him and he's like, in the first month or so, like, oh, I can't wait for our family together, like, da, da, da. Like, that's love bombing. I think having the conversation to see where your values align. Yes, Yes. I think talking about you guys personally, like, getting engaged and having a family together and having kids in the first, like, few months of knowing someone, like, so sorry, but I think that's too soon for me. So I just moved down to Florida. I'm from Pittsburgh originally, and I just moved down to Jupiter, and I literally have no idea how to make friends. And I work in a job where my boss and I are the only ones down here. I'm an executive assistant. Everyone else in my company is in Charlotte and Atlanta. So I literally have no co workers. I have no way to make friends, and I'm just struggling a little bit. What would you give me as advice on how to make friends? I mean, I've, like, tried to put myself out there and, like, go out to different clubs and stuff, but, like, realistically, it's just kind of like hard. So like, what do you recommend? This is something my friends and I have been talking about so much recently is like making friends is so hard slash weird. It's just like we all kind of forget about it. That's like another part of your life. It's like dating girls. I'm always a big proponent of like meeting people at things you like, if you like to do yoga, if you like to do Pilates, like finding people with similar interest to you. I know there's like Bumble for Friends which I think is really, really helpful and just like finding people with like like minded interests. Because I think the friends that you make when you're maybe a little bit older as opposed to like the friends that you have from college. Like I have so many friends from college because we've known each other for so long, but like we've ultimately grown into such different people. Not saying that like you can't be friends with people who are so different from you, but I always think I'm like, oh my gosh, if we met nowadays, like would we be friends? Because like our interests and everything are just so different. While you're out of college, in your 20s, in your 30s even, whatever you are in life and you're trying to like a new city as an adult, I think Bumble for Friends I've heard actually really, really great things. It's really easy to meet like minded people and I know it might seem weird, but like also you have to think if someone else is on Bumble for Friends, you're both at a point where you're like, you really want to make a friend. It's harder when you're like out at a club and you're like, oh my gosh, am I going to like ask this girl to hang out with me? Like, you know, everyone on there is also wanting to make friends. So I think that's a really great way to meet people and not being afraid to approach people. Like if you're at the gym or you're getting coffee or literally whatever, but like almost like networking. I think Bumble for Friends is a really, really great way to meet people. And you know, it never hurts to try download Bumble for Friends, try it out and you let me know how it goes and find your people on Bumble for Friends. Hi Alex. So me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost two and a half years and I actually like a year ago I caught him watching stuff on his phone and, and he told me he was gonna stop. And he also thought it was inappropriate. And then I caught him 10 more times in the last year, no exaggeration, 10 times looking stuff up. And I also have 100 proof and confirmation from him that he was doing a little bit of stuff to my friend's pictures. So what do I do? You had me in the first half. I was like, maybe we can work on this. This in the second half. He's gotta go, he's gotta go, he's gotta go. If it was me, this is. What would Alex do? I always say this. I'm like, this is just my opinion, what Alex would do in this scenario. Kick him to the fucking curb. Because I would never be able to be with him and my friends at the same time. And not being like, you fucking little freak, are gonna be over there, like, flicking around to my friends. No, that would not fly for me. Like, the other stuff, everyone has different opinions on whatever. Someone's gonna watch something or not. That's up to you. But I think if you are uncomfortable with something and you express that, then that's something that he should value, right? Like he should value your opinion on you being uncomfortable with something. Because that's what you do in a relationship, is you respect each other and each other's opinions and where you're uncomfortable, comfortable. But this almost makes me feel you just had a hunch that this man was a fucking freak. Ew, ew, ew, ew, ew. If I found someone doing that with my friend, I actually. What would Alex do? I'd take his phone and probably smash it and then break up with him and ew, ew. I don't. I don't like him. But if you choose to stay with him, I will support you. What Alex would do is kick him to the curb. So on that note, I will see you guys. Actually, I won't see you guys. We're having an off week next week because your girl has a lot of travel and stuff coming up. And I want to make sure that we're going to have content. Like, I'm doing a trip to Europe and I know that, like, uploading the WI fi. Every time I go to Europe and I try to upload content, it takes literally 10 days to upload. So I want to make sure that you guys are, like, getting as much fun content as possible. So we're going to take an off week next week so I can kind of get like a little bit ahead, slash behind on the vlogs. And that way when I go to Europe, I can, like, bank that content and make a really, really fun Europe vlog because we're doing, like, a college reunion. Like, remember that trip I did when I graduated college? We're all going again, and I'm so excited. It's going to be so fun. So I want to make sure I put out, like, the best content possible for you guys. We're also in the midst of a little switcheroo, so some new changes will be coming soon. And I won't see you next week June 11th, but I will see you the week after. I love you so much. Take next week to catch up on a vlog you haven't seen before. Love you.