Our Strip Club Adventure, Taylor Swift's Masters & Hotness Mentality

Summary

Podcast Summary: House of Maher – Episode: Our Strip Club Adventure, Taylor Swift's Masters & Hotness Mentality

Release Date: June 10, 2025

Hosts: Ilona Maher, Olivia Maher, and Adrianna “Dre Baby” Maher

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1. Redefining Fun as We Grow Older

The episode kicks off with the sisters reflecting on how their perceptions of fun have evolved over time. Ilona initiates the conversation by expressing uncertainty about how to have fun anymore, sparking a heartfelt discussion among the trio.

• Ilona Maher (00:58): "I don't know if I know how to have fun like that anymore."

• Adriana Maher (02:42): "Having fun is just dancing."

Olivia adds her perspective, advocating for simpler pleasures like daytime walks, casual drinks, and enjoying dinner, highlighting a shift from the high-energy club scenes of their youth to more laid-back activities.

• Olivia Maher (02:15): "For me, fun is like a walk. Daytime walk with a friend. Maybe stop for a drink, get a margarita, get like a beer or something. Maybe dinner, and then. Yeah. In bed early."

2. Strip Club Adventure in Miami

The sisters recount their recent experience attending a strip club during Miami Swim Week. Their adventure is filled with humorous anecdotes and candid observations about the environment and their personal comfort levels.

• Olivia Maher (03:12): "We were just in Miami for swim week, and we went to a club, but it was actually a strip club."

Ilona shares her initial reservations but ultimately enjoys the unique atmosphere, particularly the unexpected presence of food like chicken tenders amidst the club setting.

• Ilona Maher (04:35): "I've actually learned you can trust chicken in these places. Seriously."

Adriana describes a memorable moment where a stripper slapped a patron, adding a layer of excitement to their night.

• Adriana Maher (05:04): "He was up close with a camera while she was performing. Slapped him."

The group navigates the club dynamics, balancing the allure of the scene with their own boundaries and experiences.

3. Taylor Swift's Masters and Ownership Controversy

Transitioning from their escapades, the sisters delve into the significant news of Taylor Swift reclaiming ownership of her masters. They discuss the public's mixed reactions, with some labeling Swift's move as "scammy," while they defend the empowering nature of the act.

• Olivia Maher (11:29): "Taylor's version is coming out."

• Alona Maher (12:05): "Now, like, all the music on Spotify, when somebody plays any Taylor Swift, even if it's not Taylor's version, she gets. She owns it."

The conversation highlights the importance of artist autonomy and the positive outcomes of Swift's efforts to regain control over her creative work.

• Adriana Maher (12:10): "That her buying them back is scammy because other people bought those bodies of work, but it's now two beautiful bodies of work."

The sisters express admiration for Swift's resilience and strategic mindset in navigating the music industry's complexities.

4. Embracing Body Image and "Hotness is a Mentality"

A significant portion of the episode is dedicated to discussions about body image, self-confidence, and the philosophy that "hotness is a mentality." The sisters share personal journeys toward self-acceptance and the importance of embracing one's evolving self.

• Olivia Maher (49:48): "Hotness is a mentality. It's what you tell yourself."

• Alona Maher (50:00): "Choose hotness, everybody. You are a wagon. Choose hot."

Ilona narrates her newfound confidence in her physique during Miami Swim Week, reflecting on past insecurities and celebrating her current self-love.

• Alona Maher (42:26): "I was in bikinis all the time... I felt so good up there. I felt, like, thick and, like, beautiful."

Adriana emphasizes the transformative power of self-investment through fashion and makeup, advocating for stepping out of comfort zones to enhance self-esteem.

• Adriana Maher (38:46): "I felt very feminine there and I really enjoyed that... I want to start doing it more and like wearing things that are out of my comfort zone."

5. Celebrating Their Father – A Tribute to Michael Maher

The sisters take a heartfelt moment to honor their father, Michael Maher, celebrating his unwavering support and the pivotal role he has played in their lives. They share touching memories that highlight his dedication and the strong bond they share.

• Alona Maher (51:30): "To all the fathers out there, happy Father's Day. But to Michael Maher especially, we love you so much."

Olivia recalls their father's encouragement and the unique ways he nurtured their interests, ranging from sports to academic pursuits.

• Olivia Maher (54:34): "He'd make us whatever breakfast we wanted to fuel our bodies and brains for going to the school day."

Adriana adds anecdotes illustrating their father's humor and intellect, reinforcing why he is a beloved figure in their lives.

• Adriana Maher (57:04): "He was our chat GPT back in the day. He's just an encyclopedia of, like, obscure knowledge."

6. Listener Question: Navigating Friendship Exclusion

In the "Sister Settle It" segment, Adrianna brings forward a listener's concern about being excluded from a friend group, seeking advice on handling the emotional turmoil during senior year of high school.

• Listener (62:42): "I'm in a friend group where everyone seems to be closer with everyone except for me... I'm not sure if I should do anything because I get the feeling they don't even like me."

The sisters offer empathetic and pragmatic advice, drawing from their own teenage experiences with similar social dynamics.

• Alona Maher (63:27): "Is it worth it? I don't know if it's worth it to waste your time on people like that."

• Olivia Maher (64:07): "You can tell if you have these feelings. That's real. Listen to yourself."

They encourage the listener to prioritize self-love and recognize that their worth isn't defined by the acceptance of others.

• Adriana Maher (64:16): "They shouldn't be doing that to a girl who's obviously thinks that they are part of the friend group."

The segment concludes with the sisters reinforcing the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive and genuine relationships.

Conclusion

This episode of House of Maher masterfully intertwines personal stories, critical discussions on the music industry, and empowering conversations about self-image. The Maher sisters showcase their unique blend of humor, empathy, and insight, making it a relatable and inspiring listen for audiences navigating their own life's challenges and triumphs.

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Notable Quotes with Timestamps:

• Ilona Maher (02:06): "I don't know how to have fun like that anymore."

• Olivia Maher (11:30): "You will not find me out too long, really."

• Olivia Maher (42:09): "The grass is green is where you water it. So water, you know who you are today and who you're becoming."

• Alona Maher (49:48): "Hotness is a mentality."

• Adriana Maher (64:07): "Listen to yourself."

These snippets encapsulate the essence of the sisters' discussions, highlighting their growth, resilience, and unwavering support for one another.

Transcript

[Olivia Mar]

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[Adriana Mar]

It's that same one that's always right there.

[Olivia Mar]

I talk about a really be. Okay. Did you say it's always there?

[Adriana Mar]

Guess it's the one that you know is there.

[Olivia Mar]

Who asked you?

[Alona Mar]

Welcome back to House of Mar. A Wave original. We have a few house rules for.

[Olivia Mar]

You girls are magic.

[Adriana Mar]

Reading is hot and so are you.

[Alona Mar]

If you're watching on YouTube, make sure to like and subscribe if you're listening. How are you? I am your host, Alona Mar.

[Adriana Mar]

And I'm your host, Adriana Mar.

[Olivia Mar]

And I'm your other host, Olivia Mar.

[Alona Mar]

Coming up on today's episode of House of Mar, we're talking Miami. We have a new drinking game. Whenever we say the word titties, take a shot, take a sip. We're also diving into a sister settle it. So stay tuned. We like to start our episodes by touching some grass. I think it's sometimes hard to stay in the present where you are, you know, feeling. Feel the earth beneath your feet, your ten toes, and just be with it. So with our touch grass today, I wanna talk about how I don't know if I know how to have fun anymore.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah, anymore. Did you at one point.

[Alona Mar]

I think at one point I did.

[Adriana Mar]

Oh, you did?

[Olivia Mar]

What shifted the gravity of the aging.

[Alona Mar]

Well, let's give our definition of what I think fun is.

[Olivia Mar]

Right? Let's start there. For me, fun is phone in bedtime at the end of the day. No, this is touch grass. Hold on. That's the opposite of touching grass. That's the opposite of touching some grass. That. It's 30. That really is.

[Adriana Mar]

I think for me, having fun is just dancing.

[Olivia Mar]

Is it? So it actually is for you, but.

[Adriana Mar]

Not into the early morning.

[Olivia Mar]

Okay.

[Adriana Mar]

Like, I love an 11pm dance floor. Hard to find.

[Olivia Mar]

What about you?

[Alona Mar]

Well, it's like going out to dinner. Having a glass of wine and then being in bed By hopefully, like, 10, maybe be on my phone till 11, conk out like that.

[Olivia Mar]

I think for me, it is actually like a walk. Daytime walk with a friend. Maybe stop for a drink, get a margarita, get like a beer or something. Maybe dinner, and then. Yeah. In bed early.

[Alona Mar]

Okay. I think I'm saying this, though, is because I think our definition of fun is just changing.

[Olivia Mar]

Yes.

[Alona Mar]

Because I think what some people would consider fun is like going out clubs.

[Adriana Mar]

Yes.

[Alona Mar]

And I do like that our definition of fun has changed since then.

[Olivia Mar]

Indeed. But I think the other thing, though, is clubbing is so specific, and maybe we just don't understand clubbing.

[Alona Mar]

I don't think I can club.

[Adriana Mar]

No. Because there's also such a difference between clubbing and just, like, a bar that can get a little rowdier. You know, clubbing has a whole culture around it, and I've never really dipped my toes into it.

[Alona Mar]

I dipped in.

[Olivia Mar]

When I first moved to the city, I went to a club. Somebody's cousin knew somebody at a club in New York City. And I was like, freshly 22 or something like that. And I marched in and I was like, this is what it's all about. This is what the movie says has been selling is like, when you get older, you get to do this. I was like, I don't think I want to do this yet, but. So I don't seek out clubs. But we were just in Miami for swim week, and we went to a club, but it was actually a strip club.

[Adriana Mar]

It was a club and a strip.

[Olivia Mar]

Club, but they just call it a strip. They just call it a club.

[Alona Mar]

But it wasn't like a real strip club.

[Olivia Mar]

Right.

[Alona Mar]

Like, I've been to real strip clubs.

[Olivia Mar]

You know, but if someone is stripping, is that not then a strip club?

[Alona Mar]

But there's also. It's just like, girls dancing. Really? Like, strip clubs is a freaky time. Well, okay. You got creepy dudes.

[Adriana Mar]

Were you not looking around?

[Alona Mar]

I saw titties and I loved it.

[Olivia Mar]

Oh, yeah.

[Alona Mar]

But it wasn't. I would say there was, like, an aerial show. I don't know if. I mean, there's one dude weirdly just staring at a girl off to the side.

[Olivia Mar]

Right.

[Alona Mar]

Other than that, it was mostly young people. Like, young girls and young guys in there.

[Olivia Mar]

But, Audrani, you were seeing somebody motorboat a stripper from both ends.

[Adriana Mar]

Both ends. That was crazy.

[Olivia Mar]

Yes, dog.

[Adriana Mar]

And I'm like, you were eating chicken.

[Olivia Mar]

Mind you, she was eating chicken tenders in the club.

[Alona Mar]

I was hungry and it's funny, because.

[Olivia Mar]

Right before she got those, I had just turned and saw that somebody was wanting chicken tenders. Somebody else. And I. I turned to Rihanna, and I was like, oh, my gosh. I would not want to eat food from here. Two minutes later, Alona has a plate of chicken tenders.

[Alona Mar]

Here's the deal. I've actually learned you can trust chicken in these places. Seriously. I've had, I think, chicken wings in about three or so strip clubs.

[Adriana Mar]

Three or so?

[Olivia Mar]

Wait, three strip clubs?

[Alona Mar]

That might be dramatic, but other clubs, like, maybe it's not all these strip clubs, but they want to keep you in there having fun. They want you to keep drinking.

[Olivia Mar]

It's like Vegas.

[Alona Mar]

They want you to keep, you know, fuel up to drink more. So give them some chicken tenders.

[Adriana Mar]

And I loved it.

[Alona Mar]

But I. I mean, I. I knew from the moment we got on that bus to get there that I couldn't be out too long.

[Adriana Mar]

No, I also want to clarify. We didn't know it was a strip club when we were having.

[Alona Mar]

I knew a strip club.

[Olivia Mar]

Why'd you know that?

[Alona Mar]

They told me that.

[Olivia Mar]

Oh. Oh, there you go.

[Adriana Mar]

We were told club. And then I was, like. Turned to the person next to me on the bus, and I was like, oh. Like, what's this place about? She's like, it's a club and a strip club. And I was like, what do you mean by that? Hey, what do you mean? Hey, what do you mean by that?

[Olivia Mar]

We know it's a strip club because Adriana saw a stripper slap a guy.

[Alona Mar]

Nice.

[Olivia Mar]

Taking a video.

[Alona Mar]

It's very exciting.

[Adriana Mar]

He was up close with a camera while she was performing. Slapped him.

[Alona Mar]

Slapped him in the face. Yeah, I love touch grass.

[Adriana Mar]

Don't record.

[Olivia Mar]

That's like, in the red light district in Amsterdam when I was living over there. I was walking through there, and a guy was trying to record someone in the. The woman was like. Like, banged on the glass and was like, don't do that. Like, have some common fucking decency. Hello. So, yeah, Touch Grass.

[Alona Mar]

I will say I'm more of, like, a bar person.

[Adriana Mar]

Cocktail bar or like, dive bar?

[Alona Mar]

A bar, I guess cocktail bar. But, like, I feel like, dive bar, you can talk to maybe more people. I just like a bar where, like, you can talk. I don't really know what you're supposed to do in a club. Do you talk? Do you. What do you dance to?

[Olivia Mar]

You eat chicken tender.

[Alona Mar]

It's like house music. What am I? What am I? How many times can I fist pump, you know?

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah, we Were worried going to it because sometimes when Alona does something amazing, like compete in the Olympics or a world cup or something awesome afterwards, it's finally time. She's been preparing and doing all of this for so long. It's time to finally let loose. So she will let loose.

[Adriana Mar]

Go for it.

[Olivia Mar]

And Asha and I get to be along for the ride. And this was one of those cases. We were like, oh, my God, are we about to be at Miami club until 6 in the morning? And are we to go to our flight? Is she in that mood? So we were like, we're along for the ride, though. We're in Miami. Let's. Let's club. Let's do what we should do out here.

[Alona Mar]

But thankfully, I haven't been in that mood in a while.

[Olivia Mar]

Why?

[Alona Mar]

I don't know if it's like, the Olympics or more, you know, getting more popular. Change me, But I. You will not find me out too long, really. That's why I think I just. I don't know how to have fun like that anymore. Like, I don't. I don't feel the freedom at a club. I see. I just don't want to drink too much maturity. I'm, like, tired there. And people like, do I keep standing in my heels? I want to sit down, right? I'm only 28. I'm still in my 20s.

[Olivia Mar]

She's in her prime.

[Alona Mar]

I'm in my prime. I should be clubbing. I should have been up there. You shake my top off, baby.

[Adriana Mar]

Yeah, well, too many cameras.

[Alona Mar]

Do you guys think you ever had fun, though, like, clubbing? I don't see you two as the biggest.

[Adriana Mar]

I had a lot of great nights dancing with friends. We didn't really go to, like, a lot of clubs, and the clubs I did go to, I always was like. Would leave and be like, what was that? Because I hate the music. I need music that I can dance to and that I know the words of the songs. And so it's just like what I said, like a bar that has music that you can dance to.

[Olivia Mar]

I have fun at Nashville. I like honky tongs, because that's my dream. Someone's playing live music, but playing all the songs that I love, right? So I can sing to it. I'm watching a performance. I'm watching art in front of me, But I know the songs. That's my form of fun. I love that. You know, I actually did find the fun in this Miami club because I knew we weren't gonna be there long. Thankfully, I was capturing your vibe And I was like, okay, so let's just sit in it for the time that we're here and be like, yeah, I'm clubbing in Miami. Look at me. I do that now. And I was kind of like, okay, I can see, I guess, the bit of the appeal. We were in a section with Sports Illustrated that they had, you know, taken out. So there were drinks, there were a bit of our own section. But the longer we were there, the more packed it became because people just kept trying to, like, join in.

[Alona Mar]

But we.

[Olivia Mar]

I had some nice real estate. I was sort of, like, sat on.

[Adriana Mar]

A couch, bench thing, looking at every.

[Olivia Mar]

Wall, whatever, strip show up. I wanted to see Ilona eating her chicken tenders. Like, people dancing, other kind of girl performers. They would bring out the sparkling bottles. And I just kind of nodded along to the music, which the music was, like, oddly super loud and not at all, because I could hear the person next to me, and I wasn't super overstimulated.

[Adriana Mar]

Kind of the perfect situation then.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah, right. Okay. At one point, though, there was this, like, fog. How would you even describe that?

[Adriana Mar]

It was after the aerial show. They get onto the ground, and then, like, yeah, it was not fog. It was, like air pressure.

[Olivia Mar]

But it was cold, white. It was cold, foggy air, a lot of it. And they blasted it at us.

[Adriana Mar]

Blacked white out everything.

[Olivia Mar]

And it went on for, like, 15 seconds.

[Adriana Mar]

You couldn't see a thing.

[Olivia Mar]

It was crazy.

[Adriana Mar]

It was kind of exhilarating, though. That was maybe my favorite part of the evening.

[Olivia Mar]

You just kept going.

[Adriana Mar]

Cause I was like, this is so cool. I can't see anything, but I hear Olivia screaming.

[Olivia Mar]

The craziest thing was, as we were pulling up to this club at, like, midnight. The one across the way is very famous as well. And the person I was sitting with on the bus told me, like, oh, that's. You know, that it's known for electronic music, but you don't really go until, like, 6, 7am huh. Could do that be so astronomically for real?

[Adriana Mar]

Jesus.

[Alona Mar]

Yeah, I don't.

[Olivia Mar]

I like sleeping because I get. Well, I get anxious if I drink the next day, but if I don't have proper sleep, I realize, like, that's the worst part about, you know, drinking is, like, maybe you're going later into the night so you don't get as good as sleep, which makes me so unbearably, like, anxious the next day. And I just. I can't imagine that lifestyle.

[Alona Mar]

But then we went to bed, and I was like, is there any point in going to Bed. We were only gonna sleep for three hours, so then I was like, well, why are we here?

[Olivia Mar]

Right?

[Alona Mar]

Why am I sleeping three hours? I will say, when I'm on my own, I will get more turned.

[Olivia Mar]

Oh, no. From what? Us.

[Alona Mar]

When I have you two around, I feel a little. Oh, and then.

[Adriana Mar]

We didn't do anything to hold you back.

[Alona Mar]

No, I know you didn't do anything to hold me back, but I just, you know, I gotta. This wasn't a really an example of it, but when I'm on my own, sometimes I will get kooky.

[Olivia Mar]

What's the example?

[Alona Mar]

Like, if I'm after rugby tournament on my own, like, she has two key worries from that. Which we will not be sharing. No. But I think that sometimes if I'm in a. When I'm on my own, at times I feel like, oh, I can just kind of. I have to play up with it or I have to, like, you know, I don't have to rely on anybody else. If I want to go, I can go. But if I want to just keep having fun, I can have fun.

[Olivia Mar]

To be a woman is to perform.

[Adriana Mar]

Wow.

[Alona Mar]

I'm not performing. I really do have a lot of fun. It's a great time. I think I can't have fun with us. I think I stayed out longer in the club, but I was just like. I don't see myself getting extremely drunk, like, is probably needed for this. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And my feet hurt.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah. You've been in heels all day.

[Adriana Mar]

A weekend.

[Olivia Mar]

A weekend. Yeah. I think another moment of touch grass that we can touch on here is that Taylor Swift now owns all of her music. She bought back all of her masters.

[Alona Mar]

Very good. Happy for her.

[Olivia Mar]

Yay.

[Alona Mar]

You guys are big T. Swift fans. All my respect to T. Swift.

[Adriana Mar]

All of it.

[Alona Mar]

Amazing.

[Adriana Mar]

Such a great journey to follow of hers. And, like, what an amazing ending, you know, to have it all back. Own all of her work.

[Olivia Mar]

But I think the touch grass element of this is that, like, people called this move scammy. By her.

[Alona Mar]

By her.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah. That it was scammy of her to do, which I'm like, what are you talking about? Literally, touch grass. Like, exactly. Why?

[Adriana Mar]

Because she had her. Taylor's version. So they're saying that, like, she made so much money off of releasing Taylor's versions of her stolen albums.

[Alona Mar]

Yeah.

[Adriana Mar]

That her buying them back is scammy because other people bought those bodies of.

[Olivia Mar]

Work, but it's like now they're two beautiful bodies of work.

[Adriana Mar]

Exactly.

[Olivia Mar]

And because those versions are slightly different.

[Adriana Mar]

And she didn't know that she would buy these back eventually.

[Olivia Mar]

I think she hoped. And it's like she wouldn't release those to make money on them and then also do the ERAS tour to not be able to make this $360 million deal.

[Alona Mar]

Really?

[Olivia Mar]

Right.

[Alona Mar]

So now, like, all the music on Spotify, when somebody plays any Taylor Swift, even if it's not Taylor's version, she gets. She owns it. Yes.

[Olivia Mar]

Yep. Yep.

[Adriana Mar]

Beautiful.

[Alona Mar]

Wow.

[Olivia Mar]

Which people were very. People have been, as they call it, clowning for reputation. Taylor's version.

[Alona Mar]

Clowning. What does that mean?

[Adriana Mar]

They're like, it's coming out tomorrow because it's the VMAs. And they're like, always.

[Olivia Mar]

And they've been doing that for, like, two years.

[Alona Mar]

So long.

[Olivia Mar]

Oh, she did this. And she posted this in black ink. Because she's going to talk about that reputation. Taylor's version is coming out.

[Alona Mar]

Right.

[Olivia Mar]

Like clowning. Because it's not actually happening. You just look like kind of like a clown. So she even said, I think, in her letter, explaining that she owns all of her masters now. I'm getting emotional for her. Like, that's. That's crazy that she only recorded, like, barely a quarter of Reputation. She was like, couldn't do it, like. Or not that she couldn't do it.

[Adriana Mar]

But she barely got through and think that she could improve upon it. It is a perfect album.

[Olivia Mar]

It's a great. It's a great album.

[Alona Mar]

Is Reputation the one when she's kind of, like, coming back in this.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah, yeah.

[Adriana Mar]

She's reclaiming, like, herself.

[Alona Mar]

Is that with snakes?

[Olivia Mar]

Yes, with the snake imagery. Wow.

[Adriana Mar]

You're good, Lo.

[Olivia Mar]

You're good.

[Alona Mar]

Dang.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah.

[Alona Mar]

Cool.

[Olivia Mar]

Because she was being called a snake, so she decided to make that her own.

[Alona Mar]

Yeah, she.

[Olivia Mar]

She made that her identity. And she said, you want a snake? I'll be your snake.

[Alona Mar]

Ooh, I like that. Very cool.

[Olivia Mar]

We'll make your Taylor Swift fan out of her.

[Alona Mar]

Yeah, yeah.

[Olivia Mar]

You do like her. You have a lot of respect.

[Alona Mar]

I have a lot of respect for her. I don't even. I just don't listen to many. I listen to every. A little bit of everything. So these girls have been to the Taylor Swift tour.

[Adriana Mar]

The Eras tour changed my life.

[Alona Mar]

You guys were up there LA night six. Yeah, she did six nights in LA.

[Adriana Mar]

We were the second to last row.

[Olivia Mar]

All I know is she announced 1989, Taylor's version @ our show.

[Alona Mar]

At that show. You're the last show.

[Adriana Mar]

Yeah.

[Alona Mar]

Very beautiful. I want to get on sales with Bandwagon because people who love her love her. And like the little nuances that you guys know about her. Like this song meant this because it's about this. Did you know Taylor also did this?

[Olivia Mar]

But maybe that's a bit of clowning as well. Like who really knows besides the artist herself.

[Adriana Mar]

Oh, do you know that it's clowning? I'm like, yeah, maybe.

[Olivia Mar]

But it is very special because her songwriting is unbelievable.

[Alona Mar]

Yes, I agree about that.

[Olivia Mar]

You hear lyrics sometimes people make tiktoks about, like when you actually listen to.

[Alona Mar]

Taylor Swift, it's like, oh, an artist.

[Olivia Mar]

A poet, a mastermind, if you will.

[Alona Mar]

Does she own the Dead Poets?

[Adriana Mar]

What's her Tortured Poets Department?

[Alona Mar]

I think not the Dead. Does she own the Tortured Poets? Like that's hers then.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah, because she made that like recently, right? Yeah.

[Alona Mar]

Weren't you just saying something about Horcruxes and people make theories about her all the time. Yeah.

[Olivia Mar]

There was somebody on TikTok made the reference that was like the last two Horcruxes that Harry had to kill were the Snake and Harry himself. And for Taylor, it was the Snake and Taylor Swift because she only had.

[Adriana Mar]

Reputation and debut left to re record.

[Alona Mar]

One thing about me, I love fan theories. I love conspiracy.

[Adriana Mar]

Love, love, love, love, love.

[Alona Mar]

I'm like, you think that's like. Especially with books when they're like, oh my God, they somehow create, put them all in one universe. I' the writer thought that far ahead.

[Adriana Mar]

Except with Sarah J. Mass. And you're like, oh my God, is.

[Alona Mar]

Sarah J. Maas genius?

[Olivia Mar]

Has she.

[Alona Mar]

Is Taylor Swift that much of a genius?

[Olivia Mar]

She. She's a mastermind.

[Alona Mar]

I don't think she would have related to Harry Potter though.

[Olivia Mar]

No, I'm not saying she related it, but people online made a crossover of that reference of like the Snake reputation, Harry himself, Taylor Swift's debut.

[Alona Mar]

Well, Taylor, well, we raise a glass to you. Cheers. Good on Taylor. To you and your masters.

[Olivia Mar]

Cheers.

[Alona Mar]

I'll have a couple drinks for you tonight, you know.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah, I wasn't gonna drink tonight, but.

[Alona Mar]

Taylor got her masters back. I'm drinking for her. Maybe we'll listen. I'll listen.

[Adriana Mar]

I've already listened.

[Alona Mar]

She's already listen.

[Olivia Mar]

It will be. It'll be Audrey and I sitting her down in a room to be like.

[Alona Mar]

All right, here we go. Listen here.

[Adriana Mar]

And so for this one, it's a whiteboard.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah.

[Alona Mar]

Yarn across it, pointing at different things.

[Adriana Mar]

It's color coded yarn too, for each album.

[Olivia Mar]

You think it's called Love of My Life, right? No, but it's the loss of my life. Right. This is what it is. Yeah.

[Alona Mar]

Oh, my gosh. Very cool.

[Olivia Mar]

We can have a whole episode about this.

[Adriana Mar]

It's just our, like, masterclass.

[Alona Mar]

Yeah.

[Olivia Mar]

Welcome. She's chained to the chair. Let's dive in to some tea time today, ladies. What's the tea? What's hot? What's happening? What's piping hot?

[Alona Mar]

You just did the Today show.

[Olivia Mar]

Literally rolled in here from the outfit.

[Alona Mar]

I wore on it.

[Adriana Mar]

This is the outfit I wore on it.

[Olivia Mar]

And I changed my pants and she.

[Alona Mar]

Changed her pants and her shoes. Look at those. Look at that.

[Olivia Mar]

And my outlook.

[Alona Mar]

But don't get the toes. Actually, don't get those. Amazing. God's sake, Those aren't for free.

[Olivia Mar]

Don't do that. Look.

[Alona Mar]

Don't look.

[Olivia Mar]

I will say, the older I get, the more I understand Carrie Bradshaw.

[Alona Mar]

I just want to say this. Yeah.

[Olivia Mar]

Her collection of shoes. Watching the show, I was like, oh, that's. What a fun quirk of hers. But now that I'm getting older, fun shoes, like, make or break and make or break an outfit. But I wear such kind of basic clothing that having an accessory of, like, a fun shoe that immediately dresses something up. Or like a fun bag.

[Adriana Mar]

Wow.

[Olivia Mar]

I feel. Could definitely be an expensive habit like hers. But I think the older I get, the more I understand why she had so many shoes.

[Alona Mar]

Positive. There's so many, like, cute, cheaper shoes now. So you don't have to break the bank so much.

[Olivia Mar]

Please don't zoom in on my feet.

[Alona Mar]

Don't zoom in on my feet either.

[Olivia Mar]

Please, guys. It's. We're in dire straits around here. Stop it, you sick freak. Stop.

[Alona Mar]

That's how I'm gonna say it the whole time. So they don't wanna see my toes.

[Adriana Mar]

Actually, don't even look at the underside of my thing because I took the stickers off, but not the glitter.

[Olivia Mar]

Get a blurring.

[Alona Mar]

Wait, can we get blurry?

[Olivia Mar]

Do I have stickers?

[Alona Mar]

Oh, you got a sticker.

[Olivia Mar]

No, I don't.

[Alona Mar]

Do I have a sticker on mine?

[Olivia Mar]

You don't have a sticker. Let me see that one.

[Alona Mar]

Do I have a sticker on yours?

[Olivia Mar]

Embarrassing.

[Alona Mar]

Oh, don't show those bottoms.

[Olivia Mar]

Embarrassing.

[Alona Mar]

Scary. Okay, today's show. Today's show.

[Olivia Mar]

Sorry about that.

[Alona Mar]

I went on. I talked about House of Mar. I talked about We Made it.

[Adriana Mar]

She talked about us.

[Alona Mar]

What else?

[Adriana Mar]

I talk about the Adidas.

[Alona Mar]

Oh, I talked about Adidas.

[Adriana Mar]

Adidas.

[Olivia Mar]

But you pronounced it Adidas on there for all the Americans.

[Alona Mar]

Americans don't know.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah.

[Alona Mar]

So I had to.

[Adriana Mar]

But you did explain a little and.

[Alona Mar]

Then I said, yeah, you made a joke. Adidas has their new rugby women's cleat out boot we call it in rugby. So I chatted about that and then I chatted about Miami Flim week and all sorts of things. It was a little chaotic. They put me in like a tiny green room in the basement.

[Adriana Mar]

Just.

[Olivia Mar]

They gave her the smallest room possible. And like the two next to her were reserved for men. No offense to men, but like we had.

[Alona Mar]

I had two people on my hair.

[Olivia Mar]

Two people on her hair, plus a social girl and somebody doing your makeup. And they need to spread everything out.

[Adriana Mar]

It was crazy in there and glorified closet. Like, I'm taking pictures too. Olivia's taking pictures. It's like seven people around here.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah, we made it work. We made it work. But it is funny. It is cool to see like behind that curtain of like live television because not much of it nowadays, right? But like a morning show like that, an iconic morning show of just all the moving bits and everything does slot together so nicely. But sometimes you're just kind of standing there like, okay, wait, what's next? Am I, am I doing something wrong? You're like, no, no. A page will come get you, they will find you, they know you're here and they will pass you to the sound person who will get you to wherever you're going. So truly, just be where you are and someone will come pass you through the tiny hallways of people, the food producers making what they're doing and set deck people and rolling in couches. And it was a bit reminiscent of like Dancing with the Stars live show.

[Alona Mar]

It's a very well oiled machine.

[Olivia Mar]

Yes.

[Alona Mar]

Doing it for years every day. Like everything is to the T. We.

[Olivia Mar]

Got, we got into 30 Rock. We went right downstairs essentially in this basement where they keep people for like hair and makeup. And it's, you know, a big mirror lined up of chairs where a bunch of the anchors come through and like get their touch ups, I think. Whereas you were in like a little room off of there. But it's wild how that all works.

[Adriana Mar]

Wow.

[Olivia Mar]

But cool. And you did a good job. And it was Jenna Bush Hager and Leanne Morgan, who's a comedian.

[Alona Mar]

Yeah, she's. Amazing accent, amazing accent. I did like a very, a very powerful accent to the point where I sometimes. You ever get this when somebody's doing an accent to you and you almost copy it when you're doing it? Like, what the heck?

[Olivia Mar]

What's that about?

[Alona Mar]

What's that about?

[Olivia Mar]

Is it because we're Empathy, to be honest.

[Alona Mar]

I don't know. I'll do with. Sometimes when I talk to, like, English people.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah.

[Alona Mar]

I'll start doing an accent to them. I'm like, what am I doing?

[Olivia Mar]

This just happened to you in Australia, right?

[Alona Mar]

Australia, probably. I did it too.

[Olivia Mar]

Doing it. And then you were with your British friend Georgie.

[Alona Mar]

Yeah, right, right. And then with her. She has such a strong accent, too. And I love doing, like, a fake Southern accent, which is probably disrespectful.

[Olivia Mar]

Sorry.

[Alona Mar]

To all people in the South. But she has such a great one. And I think I was starting to do it as she was saying it. I would catch myself, like, what the.

[Olivia Mar]

Really?

[Alona Mar]

What were you.

[Olivia Mar]

What were you putting an accent on? Just.

[Alona Mar]

I don't even. And a little bit of a twang. Aren't they the cutest?

[Olivia Mar]

Aren't they just the cutest? Yeah. I remember, like, mom always had a story about, like, a Southern lady telling her, you shouldn't attempt a Southern accent if you're not from the South.

[Adriana Mar]

Why not?

[Olivia Mar]

Then why does it feel so good?

[Alona Mar]

I know I probably won't listen to that.

[Olivia Mar]

And why is it okay to do a British accent? Maybe it's not, but Love island is around the corner, so.

[Adriana Mar]

Oh, my God. They just announced the islanders, you think?

[Olivia Mar]

Anyway, they did just announce the islanders. That's.

[Adriana Mar]

That is another episode. Sorry.

[Olivia Mar]

They announced another episode.

[Alona Mar]

Just Love Island.

[Adriana Mar]

That's my dream, actually. That's my whiteboard. Love Island. And just have all the islands. Islanders, yeah.

[Olivia Mar]

The Love island lore.

[Alona Mar]

House of Love Island.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah. Can we hear your best Love island accent? So you were in that.

[Alona Mar]

Hold on.

[Olivia Mar]

You give us, like, you know, when girls walk in and what they say. Do that.

[Alona Mar]

Honestly, like, if he's gonna be like that. Honestly, like, I got more written on my forehead.

[Adriana Mar]

That was really good.

[Olivia Mar]

Alone forehead.

[Alona Mar]

Thank you so much.

[Adriana Mar]

That's amazing.

[Olivia Mar]

For me, it's a girl.

[Adriana Mar]

Hi, boy. Literally Liberty over there. Incredible.

[Olivia Mar]

Thank you so much. Let's hear it.

[Adriana Mar]

He's exactly my type. On paper.

[Alona Mar]

You could add more, you know, give us more. I'm not.

[Adriana Mar]

Whenever I do British accent. Oh. Whenever I do British accents, I move through all the different regions. Like when we were having the murder mystery party with your teammates and they made me read my card in an accent. I was going to like Australia. I was going to the North. I was going to the South. Like, I don't know how to do a proper accent.

[Olivia Mar]

How to hold an accent.

[Adriana Mar]

No.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah.

[Alona Mar]

When I do a British accent on my own, it's flawless. If I If I'm in a room by myself, you wouldn't know. If I'm around British people, it's feel like they'd know. Terrible. Really goes down a few pegs. But I feel like in my heart, I have a good one. I just get nervous.

[Olivia Mar]

I feel a bit like I was kind of like. Like hair tuck behind the ear when we did that murder mystery party with her teammates. Because when I did an accent, I put on, like, a really aggressive one. They didn't say it was bad. They just went, oh, my Birmingham. Holy Birmingham. Like, they like. That's what I was getting. I was like, so was it a good Birmingham or like, not. I think good. We're gonna go.

[Alona Mar]

I would love to get into, like, acting, you know, but I'm afraid if I have a British role or a role where I have to have an accent, I'm going to be roasted by every English rugby player.

[Olivia Mar]

You get a dialect coach?

[Adriana Mar]

Yeah.

[Olivia Mar]

They'll never.

[Alona Mar]

I know, but they'll. They'll tell.

[Olivia Mar]

I'm scared.

[Alona Mar]

I'd have to work on it for years.

[Olivia Mar]

I feel like they compliment your accent. People say you do a pretty good job sometimes.

[Alona Mar]

I do.

[Adriana Mar]

You have such a good, like, basis already from saying.

[Alona Mar]

From the Americans.

[Olivia Mar]

Well, no.

[Adriana Mar]

You throw out every single time we.

[Olivia Mar]

Watch a lot of books.

[Alona Mar]

Love. I love.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah. Like, what else?

[Alona Mar]

I can't. Guys. We don't know what's going to be good or not.

[Adriana Mar]

Australian.

[Olivia Mar]

Canadian.

[Alona Mar]

Canadian is like. I can't. Actually, don't.

[Adriana Mar]

It's all about the subtleties.

[Alona Mar]

Australian, I can do. If I've been in Australia for a minute, if I'm listening to it like.

[Adriana Mar]

You were just there for two, three weeks.

[Alona Mar]

No, I'm nervous now.

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[Olivia Mar]

Being back at the Today's show today reminded me of being with NBC post meddling. Your media day after meddling was all NBC Today show. Being whipped all over the place, all the moving parts. Luckily not the heat and exhaustion of Paris.

[Alona Mar]

But like, yeah, I mean, it was just crazy. Like 11 to 11. We were just like chatting. And then even that night after I won a medal, I had to go on like a late night show. Oh, yeah. And I think next time, hopefully I win a medal too. I'm just gonna be like, no, no, see ya. I gotta go. But it was cool. Because we were such a big thing at the games, everybody wanted to talk to us. But I felt like I didn't have a break.

[Adriana Mar]

Olivia was feeding you bites of a sandwich in between reviews.

[Alona Mar]

They barely fed us. It was so hot.

[Olivia Mar]

Suit, you're not gonna feed the Olympic athletes who need more protein than God. Are you crazy?

[Alona Mar]

Yeah. Not so they could have done more.

[Olivia Mar]

I'm finding more gray hairs. Sorry. That's some other tea for today. Look, you found one just right there.

[Adriana Mar]

It's that same one that's always right there.

[Alona Mar]

Can I talk about ruthless?

[Olivia Mar]

Can I talk about a really beautiful. Okay. Did you say it's always there? Yes.

[Adriana Mar]

It's the one that you know is there?

[Olivia Mar]

Who asked you? That's. No, but can I talk about a really emotional moment for me?

[Adriana Mar]

Sure, sure.

[Olivia Mar]

This is a safe space for it.

[Adriana Mar]

Yeah, go ahead.

[Olivia Mar]

Okay.

[Alona Mar]

Well, in Kansas City, it better be actually emotional. Is it emotional?

[Olivia Mar]

It was actually most for me. No, I'm actually.

[Alona Mar]

Okay.

[Olivia Mar]

You're like putting it down.

[Alona Mar]

So. No.

[Olivia Mar]

Is it going to be sarcastic, emotional.

[Alona Mar]

Or is it actually.

[Olivia Mar]

It was actually going to be emotional.

[Alona Mar]

Okay, share it. So I'm never sure.

[Olivia Mar]

Share it.

[Alona Mar]

It's not like you're gonna be sarcastic.

[Adriana Mar]

When we were growing up around the dinner table, if anyone interrupted Olivia during a story and you'd be like, okay, Go ahead. She'd be like, no, that's fine. I don't need to tell you.

[Olivia Mar]

You do it now too, though, because.

[Alona Mar]

Well, yeah, you do.

[Olivia Mar]

You do it now, too.

[Alona Mar]

Okay.

[Olivia Mar]

Look at that.

[Alona Mar]

Sorry. Share your emotional story. I want to cry.

[Olivia Mar]

Emotional story as of recently because I keep caulking my gray hairs is when we were in Kansas City or before Lona's games. I braid her hair if I'm there, and I love doing it. And it's so special not to, like, call you out, but, like, there were some gentle gray hairs in there. Okay. And I was like, full circle of life. I'm like, I grew up with it. I'm gonna cry. Like, I grew up with these. These are my life. These are my blood. I love them so much. And I've grown up, and I've seen them as coming into this world. And now I'm braiding bits of her gray hair, like, into your braids. You didn't even know.

[Alona Mar]

Emotional for some people.

[Olivia Mar]

You didn't even know it. Like, you're literally, like, on TikTok while.

[Adriana Mar]

I'm braiding your hair.

[Olivia Mar]

And I'm back here, like, the fabric of life, like, braiding the out of here.

[Alona Mar]

Is they drawn a crying? Literally crying your eyes out right now. Maybe. Maybe it wasn't about your gray hair. Are they drawn out?

[Olivia Mar]

What the hell?

[Adriana Mar]

You can't find them.

[Olivia Mar]

You don't have many, but there'd be, like, one or two. And I'm like, God, this isn't poetic. Oh, my God.

[Alona Mar]

What is happening right now?

[Adriana Mar]

I've also heard this story before. This.

[Olivia Mar]

I told her about this.

[Alona Mar]

Have you told mom?

[Olivia Mar]

No.

[Alona Mar]

Dinner table.

[Olivia Mar]

She's the first person to watch this as it comes out, so she'll. She'll be the first to know.

[Adriana Mar]

I'm so. That's beautiful.

[Alona Mar]

I would cry, but then I'm like, wow. I only thought I had, like, one gray hair. Now I know I got many because.

[Olivia Mar]

The story there was just, like, couple, and it was emotional for me. And I obviously, I love to make things deeper than they need to be, but that felt pretty deep.

[Adriana Mar]

No, that's beautiful.

[Olivia Mar]

I watch you guys come into this world and, like, braided your hair as kids, and now I'm braiding her hair as adults.

[Alona Mar]

Wow. Oh, my God.

[Olivia Mar]

Adriana.

[Adriana Mar]

Stop tying.

[Olivia Mar]

No, you can let it out. This is the perfect time. You are on the couch. Ask her a therapy question. You're in the big chair for everyone listening. Adriana's crying.

[Adriana Mar]

No, I'm not.

[Olivia Mar]

Awful while crying. She looks beautiful.

[Alona Mar]

While crying.

[Adriana Mar]

I'm sure my face is.

[Alona Mar]

She's getting redder by the second.

[Adriana Mar]

You can't see it.

[Alona Mar]

It's actually kind of, like, glossy, though.

[Adriana Mar]

Thank you so much.

[Olivia Mar]

She has a bit of a. Yeah, like a.

[Alona Mar]

Like a dewy. A dewy drop kind of look.

[Olivia Mar]

See, I wasn't gonna drink tonight, but Adrena cried on the podcast.

[Alona Mar]

I'll drink to that.

[Adriana Mar]

I'll drink to that.

[Alona Mar]

Hey, let's cheers to that.

[Olivia Mar]

Hey, cheers to adrenaline crying on the pod.

[Adriana Mar]

But can we talk about how you guys aren't plucking your gray hairs? I find that's very interesting.

[Alona Mar]

You're not. You're plucking yours?

[Olivia Mar]

Are you plucking yours?

[Alona Mar]

She can't. We can't risk any more hair. Johnny, you can't risk this hair.

[Olivia Mar]

She has one right here.

[Adriana Mar]

Or is it blonde?

[Olivia Mar]

Oh, no, it's gray.

[Adriana Mar]

No, it's gray.

[Alona Mar]

Gray.

[Olivia Mar]

It has a different texture as well.

[Alona Mar]

Everybody, can we get a zoom in here?

[Olivia Mar]

Zoom in. I have one in front too.

[Adriana Mar]

Right here, actually, on Olivia. I can pull it out if you want. You can?

[Alona Mar]

Oh, dang.

[Olivia Mar]

Damn. That is ruthless. I've been called 30 and my grades are getting pulled out for camera today. So I don't pluck them because there was always that old wives tale, like, you pluck a gray hair and like three more come back. You ever heard that? I think Tonaline would say that.

[Adriana Mar]

I don't care about that. If I. I found one, remember, we're in the car and I took a photo of it against my bag to, like, make sure it was. And I saw it immediately.

[Olivia Mar]

I was like, had to get it in Ruthless.

[Adriana Mar]

So when I see you, just, like, you're like, I'm embracing them and, like.

[Olivia Mar]

But it's like, I agree that if.

[Adriana Mar]

I find them, I'm plucking them.

[Alona Mar]

Really? And also, you're thinning your hair out.

[Adriana Mar]

Yeah, this one strand, I'm losing, like 100 a day. I don't think this other one.

[Alona Mar]

I also think about that how you ever, like, look after a shower and you're like, my hair brush on my head. Right, Me too.

[Olivia Mar]

And it's like the longer I go without, like, washing my hair, the more obviously comes out. Yeah. And I'm like, what the hell? Swing out of a horror movie? And I'm like, shaking, pulling it out. I'm like, oh, my God.

[Adriana Mar]

I think once a year, I kind of go through a d shed where it's just like, there's a dog.

[Alona Mar]

Maybe that is it. Maybe because it's summertime that I get.

[Adriana Mar]

Like so much starts to come out and it's usually like July. Ish.

[Alona Mar]

Oh.

[Adriana Mar]

What?

[Alona Mar]

Yeah, I feel like it's summer. Shed should have been earlier. Yeah, that's just a shed then. Anyways, you're in something.

[Olivia Mar]

Gonna get you to the groomer.

[Adriana Mar]

I need a Kleenex.

[Alona Mar]

I did mine recently. I was sewing in our Kleenex. It's paper towel.

[Olivia Mar]

Thank you for everybody listening. Our producers just gotten a draw on a tissue.

[Adriana Mar]

It's totally fine here. No makeup's coming off. So we are the expression.

[Olivia Mar]

Dire straits come from straight.

[Adriana Mar]

Sorry.

[Olivia Mar]

Dire straits.

[Alona Mar]

I know, but it's S T R A I T S. Yes. Sounds like I'm probably wrong on this. You know, on a boat you go through a straight.

[Olivia Mar]

Oh. Oh. Dire straits. Like a dangerous straight.

[Alona Mar]

Oh.

[Olivia Mar]

Does anybody think that's very dangerous? It's supposed to be dangerous. Dangerous straight. But like dangerous ships. That expression. Dire straits.

[Alona Mar]

Dire straits.

[Olivia Mar]

Oh my God.

[Adriana Mar]

Could be.

[Alona Mar]

I. I don't know.

[Olivia Mar]

I love hearing about those things. I just learned about where hands down comes from and is my spray tans on? Is that way.

[Alona Mar]

Is there a spray tan?

[Olivia Mar]

It's brutal. Don't zoom in. Guys, stop.

[Adriana Mar]

It's a lot of blur.

[Olivia Mar]

I. Hands down comes from. Do you know?

[Alona Mar]

Tell me.

[Olivia Mar]

Did I tell you? No. Do you know? Could you guess?

[Alona Mar]

No. Hands down. Can you use in a sentence.

[Adriana Mar]

That's the best burger I've ever had. Hands.

[Olivia Mar]

I've ever had. Hands down.

[Alona Mar]

Hands down. Hands down.

[Adriana Mar]

Like you're praying on the ground and your hands are on the ground.

[Alona Mar]

Hands down.

[Olivia Mar]

Okay. Worshiping it.

[Alona Mar]

I don't know.

[Olivia Mar]

Comes from horse racing. Cuz when horse. When the horse was like. Like a rider and a horse were super far ahead, he could take his hands off the reins and keep his hands in his lap. So he would. He won. Hands down.

[Alona Mar]

Wow. Wow.

[Olivia Mar]

How boss is that though? How icy Just to be like.

[Alona Mar]

You know what's funny is that could be a complete lie.

[Olivia Mar]

And I would be like, okay, no, me too.

[Adriana Mar]

Did you learn that from our farrier cousin?

[Olivia Mar]

I read it. Oh, she's on TikTok.

[Alona Mar]

All right, everyone just spread now.

[Adriana Mar]

Everyone.

[Alona Mar]

Yeah, we only right now that we're all gonna believe. Did you. Did you know that New York City is actually a man made island? Well, they actually like underneath it. Literally. It took like, like many years to do. But it's on stilts, literally.

[Olivia Mar]

And they're making it bigger every year.

[Alona Mar]

They're making it bigger every year. Well, they're microscopic. Where they're reinforcing every year.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah, yeah, yeah, of course.

[Adriana Mar]

You've got it.

[Olivia Mar]

There's actually a city under this city.

[Alona Mar]

There is that.

[Olivia Mar]

I do believe.

[Adriana Mar]

No, with the subways and stuff. Absolutely. Sometimes I'm off topic. I'm worried, like what if the city just goes to the subway?

[Alona Mar]

See? And she believes it, see? And I got her with that.

[Olivia Mar]

And there's even like a portion of the island. I'm not lying anymore. Sorry. That was a lie before. Alona was making stuff up because she's.

[Alona Mar]

Guys, we were all gonna share a lot.

[Olivia Mar]

Sor.

[Adriana Mar]

So share a lie.

[Olivia Mar]

But this reminded me that there's a section of the city in the middle where all the buildings are lower. There's no skyscrapers and Cuz it's literally like sinking. Or the ground is wrong for it.

[Alona Mar]

So it's too.

[Olivia Mar]

It's not like dense enough or something like that.

[Alona Mar]

I got that.

[Adriana Mar]

Do you know the saying cats out of the bag is Schrodinger's cat.

[Olivia Mar]

Whose cat?

[Adriana Mar]

Schrodinger's.

[Olivia Mar]

I know this name, but tell me more.

[Adriana Mar]

It's like if. Don't make me explain. It's like a dead box.

[Olivia Mar]

Hold on. Let her cook.

[Adriana Mar]

No, I'm done now.

[Alona Mar]

Is this a lie or is that actually something you've read?

[Olivia Mar]

Oh, were you making up a lie?

[Adriana Mar]

Yeah.

[Olivia Mar]

Oh, just make up a lie.

[Adriana Mar]

Or did I disconnect that?

[Alona Mar]

You could have said it with more conviction.

[Adriana Mar]

Yeah, all right, whatever.

[Olivia Mar]

It'd be better at lying.

[Alona Mar]

Schrodinger's cat is a thing though.

[Adriana Mar]

I think. I know. It's like the theory of like whether it's dead in the box or not. Right.

[Alona Mar]

Oh, they send a cat in a box. No, that's a bird. That's a bird. You know what I'm saying? They said a bird into mines.

[Adriana Mar]

Yeah.

[Olivia Mar]

They let it like fly down. Oh, if it stop singing.

[Alona Mar]

They don't let it fly down. They put in a box. And it's because if there's a gases.

[Adriana Mar]

That come out there.

[Alona Mar]

This is real.

[Olivia Mar]

Actually, this is real. We're no longer.

[Alona Mar]

I don't even know if you look fake anymore. But they do. They would send a bird in a box down into mines alive. And if it came back dead, the gases are not ready.

[Olivia Mar]

You don't want to go down. It's not fit for human.

[Alona Mar]

Rip all those birds.

[Olivia Mar]

Oh my gosh. Canary in a coal mine. That's the expression, right? Canary that. Thank you so much.

[Alona Mar]

I'll let you know. She read the producer just wrote that on the screen.

[Olivia Mar]

I Read it in an article.

[Alona Mar]

She read that on.

[Olivia Mar]

She read that on our producers, so.

[Alona Mar]

Good. Good try, though.

[Olivia Mar]

Do you think you're a good liar? No, I don't think you are.

[Alona Mar]

She's not a good liar.

[Olivia Mar]

He's not a good liar.

[Adriana Mar]

Or am I just making it seem like I'm not a good liar? So when I'm lying, I'm actually pretty good at it?

[Alona Mar]

What do you think?

[Adriana Mar]

No, I'm a very bad liar. And I also have a lot of Catholic guilt in which I always need to, like, tell the truth.

[Olivia Mar]

The truth?

[Alona Mar]

Yeah. I don't lie often. You. Are you a good liar?

[Adriana Mar]

You're a good fibber when you need to.

[Olivia Mar]

I'm a good fibber. I think.

[Adriana Mar]

I think it's part of the job.

[Alona Mar]

What do you believe is different between lying and fibbing?

[Olivia Mar]

Maybe, like, fibbing is a little, like, lighter.

[Adriana Mar]

A little lighter white lie.

[Olivia Mar]

But, like, I think the key is just, like, you got to make it as close to the truth as possible.

[Adriana Mar]

Exactly.

[Alona Mar]

Yeah.

[Olivia Mar]

So your heart doesn't start beating faster or something like that. You got to be chill about it. You got to make it as close to the truth as possible. But obviously the truth will set you free. But I think I'm live.

[Alona Mar]

You need to pretty good at it.

[Olivia Mar]

Maybe. I've been lying this whole time. I'm not actually their sister.

[Alona Mar]

I'm probably. I don't know. I don't lie often.

[Olivia Mar]

No, you're too straight up blunt.

[Alona Mar]

Last time I lied.

[Olivia Mar]

Forgive me, sisters, for I have lied three times.

[Alona Mar]

I don't know. I don't think I'm. I haven't lied often.

[Olivia Mar]

Okay.

[Alona Mar]

It's very hard for me.

[Olivia Mar]

Oh, she's just a good person. Wow.

[Adriana Mar]

And we're horrible.

[Olivia Mar]

Freak.

[Alona Mar]

No, you guys don't lie either.

[Olivia Mar]

I fib. I don't lie. I mean, no, I don't go out of my way.

[Alona Mar]

Who do you fib to?

[Olivia Mar]

No, I need to, like, fudge something, like, for you or like.

[Alona Mar]

Oh, yeah, yeah, that's pretty.

[Olivia Mar]

You know, she can't be doing that because of, like, you know, and selling it. I think it's all acting. It's all theater, isn't it?

[Adriana Mar]

Yes.

[Olivia Mar]

Yes.

[Alona Mar]

Button. Stay. And speaking of stages, hit me.

[Olivia Mar]

You were on one. Oh, what a transition.

[Alona Mar]

Thank you so much. I was like, how do we get to there?

[Olivia Mar]

Oh, hit him with the good word.

[Alona Mar]

We were just in Miami.

[Olivia Mar]

Miami?

[Alona Mar]

Miami for swim week. So all the girls came. Olivia, Adriana, and my Adrianne. We all dressed to the nines. We all looked so good.

[Olivia Mar]

Which is exhausting.

[Alona Mar]

I ran. I did the Runway. Adriana got. Well, we all did. But Adriana got a little tan. A little tan. If you can't tell, she is.

[Adriana Mar]

I had two layers of fake handles.

[Olivia Mar]

Or I was rubbing her down.

[Alona Mar]

She rubbed her down in every crack and crevice.

[Adriana Mar]

It was a very personal experience. Very. I think you can't miss any spot.

[Olivia Mar]

No, no.

[Adriana Mar]

I had zero streaks, so Olivia did an amazing job. And can I say, I think it's addicting. I was looking at myself in the mirror, and I was like, I look good.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah. And even we kept looking at her. And I hate when somebody, like, makes a change to themselves to go, you look so good right now. Because that's not how they normally look. I hate doing that. But she looks so good.

[Adriana Mar]

You know what Olivia hit me with? She's like, what did I start with? You know, not in a mean way, but your skin just looks healthier.

[Olivia Mar]

Oh, that was up of me. I'm sorry.

[Adriana Mar]

Okay, so I am sickly the rest of the time. Great, Olivia. Because I can't fix that. Well, I guess I can. Yeah.

[Olivia Mar]

I will say, there should just eat way more carrots. Right? I read that in an article too.

[Alona Mar]

I wonder if you could have given her another layer. There's three more layers.

[Olivia Mar]

I wanted to.

[Adriana Mar]

You'll be doing it again in Vermont.

[Olivia Mar]

Really?

[Adriana Mar]

I got. Because it's already fading.

[Olivia Mar]

You gotta have a tan for something.

[Adriana Mar]

In Vermont, you have.

[Olivia Mar]

A tan.

[Adriana Mar]

The couch is gonna be like, adrianna, you're too pale.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah, it just looks good. But then did you. Would you struggle with your makeup? Because I know your makeup is for your normal skin tone.

[Adriana Mar]

It actually. Because I only do a skin tint, so it was kind of whatever. And I think it cut down on my redness. And like. Like, I will say, also in Miami, I was wearing, like, shorter outfits and maybe more revealing outfits than I usually do.

[Alona Mar]

She little side boob.

[Olivia Mar]

She looks like it.

[Alona Mar]

Can we show some under boob?

[Olivia Mar]

Can we show under boob?

[Adriana Mar]

Okay.

[Alona Mar]

Can we get a close up on under boob? She looked really good.

[Adriana Mar]

You know where to find it?

[Olivia Mar]

I don't know.

[Alona Mar]

You know where to find it?

[Adriana Mar]

No, but it made me look better.

[Olivia Mar]

She was convinced this dress was also way too short for her.

[Adriana Mar]

Okay. It was a little short.

[Olivia Mar]

She was like, I'm gonna be showing whole. I was like, no, it's long enough.

[Alona Mar]

Adriana did. So I was talking to Olivia. I was like, I feel like Adriana is just, like, really feeling herself and just looking good.

[Adriana Mar]

I felt.

[Alona Mar]

And like, you're wearing more, not revealing outfits, but I think you're taking more of a creative step or like a riskier step in how, how you're dressing.

[Olivia Mar]

Bravery.

[Adriana Mar]

Thank you. And I, I will say I felt very, like, feminine there and I really enjoyed that. And I, I don't usually put that much, like, effort into how I look, but like, there I was like, shave myself down, fake tan, you know, getting all the dresses, putting on the makeup, and it was kind of fun. And like, to like, to feel and look so good. Obviously that's not sustainable, like for every single day, but I want to like, start doing it more and like wearing things that are out of my comfort zone.

[Olivia Mar]

It also takes, it's an investment in.

[Adriana Mar]

Yourself and it's just an investment in makeup and clothes.

[Alona Mar]

Yes.

[Olivia Mar]

You need to be spending money though. But it is a, I think a nice investment to make yourself feel better. But like, I think we're all, we're all pretty cautious with money. And you have typically been, which I think sometimes holds you back from like having the, like, like this sounds so like, whatever. But to have like the right pair of shoes with an outfit. Right Shoes in this girl, she's a.

[Alona Mar]

She'S weird one about shoes.

[Olivia Mar]

She's a weird one about shoes. But like, she's wearing. She bought these for Miami and they go so great with this outfit and the one that she wear. But it like, it changes. You have to be, to be confident about like, what's on your feet, like the kind of makeup you're doing.

[Adriana Mar]

And I look back at photos of myself from a few years ago, and.

[Alona Mar]

I'm like, what are on my feet?

[Adriana Mar]

Yes, yes. And so that really, I'm like, crop that in, please.

[Olivia Mar]

Sometimes you get like, you'll get like one pair of shoes. It'll be like your fancy pair of shoes and you'll wear those things.

[Adriana Mar]

And I'll be, I don't do that anymore. I don't do that anymore. Okay.

[Olivia Mar]

As of what, last month?

[Adriana Mar]

You know what? It like four months ago.

[Olivia Mar]

Okay.

[Adriana Mar]

I will say, really, since Ilona had her Adidas deal, people are always like, I think I was prettiest at like yada, yada age. I think I'm hitting that now.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah.

[Adriana Mar]

Pretty. You know, and I really love that actually.

[Olivia Mar]

I think a lot of people can.

[Adriana Mar]

Relate to that, that it puts yourself in like a weird position to be like, I think I was prettiest when I was 23. Cuz then you don't think you can ever achieve that. And it's so Much like self judgment that I'm like, I think you're always growing and you're always getting prettier and.

[Olivia Mar]

You'Re meeting new versions of yourself.

[Alona Mar]

Exactly.

[Olivia Mar]

Just be one thing. How boring would that be?

[Adriana Mar]

But what if this version is a.

[Alona Mar]

This one that you're doing right now?

[Adriana Mar]

Yeah.

[Olivia Mar]

Reputation or hope not for her.

[Alona Mar]

I think it's totally true that you get like the thought of, oh, this high school was the best time in life. Oh, I looked pretty. So this time I just think is not a good mindset to have because you are going to constantly change. Like for me, I only started to learn how to do my hair like last year, like doing like my slick back and up like that. Like always. I only had one hairstyle and even now I don't know how to curl my hair. But I think it's cool to like you get to know yourself more and it's always changing and I think that you're coming into where it's also going to change. There's going to be moments where you don't feel as pretty. But I think it's cool that you're on this trajectory to your body changes.

[Olivia Mar]

Your face changes, your hair changes. Like you have to constantly keep, keep reintroducing yourself to yourself and getting to know who you are. And so you should grow with yourself instead of like shaming you for not looking like your 22 year old self. There's no fun in that. And also you're allowed to change and take risks. And I think the older you get, the less you care. That's what I've been finding out. I'm kind of like, yeah, this is me. Why not like and leaning more into that. But that takes time and confronting I think some demons. Maybe that's scary, but you gotta do it.

[Alona Mar]

It's.

[Olivia Mar]

The grass is green is where you water it. So water you know who you are today and who you're becoming.

[Alona Mar]

Wow, I love that. That's beautiful.

[Olivia Mar]

So jot that down.

[Adriana Mar]

Jot that down. Beautiful. Alona, do you think that who you were a few years ago could have walked down the Runway in a bikini? Probably, yeah, I love that. You know, like, I don't think that's a bad answer. You've always been that girl.

[Alona Mar]

I think she would have been like more nervous. Like I talk about like, I think when I was younger I definitely like had trouble. But I've gotten so much better with like being in bikini showing myself. And I think I honestly that's. I think this weekend was the hottest or last Week was the hottest I've ever looked in my life. Like, I felt the hottest I've ever been into the point where I was like, yeah, I deserve the best because I am the best. Like, I look so good. I. I'm definitely not my thickest right now, but I'm not at my leanest right now. And so, like, I. But I still felt so good up there. I felt, like, thick and, like, beautiful. So. So I think that I wouldn't have been as confident, but I just felt so good. I was in bikinis all the time. I'd be in a bikini around people who are wearing full, full outfits. It's been a journey and I think coming to love, like, this phase my body's in and whatnot. So, no, I felt so hot. I had my titties out. I had. I had titties kind of this weekend.

[Olivia Mar]

Where'd those come from, girl?

[Alona Mar]

We said titties every episode, probably, hopefully.

[Adriana Mar]

And that's. And you said titties on the Runway.

[Alona Mar]

And if we haven't said titties, I said titty on the Runway too, too.

[Olivia Mar]

Oh, you did. There's a clip of her going, oh, my tits.

[Alona Mar]

My titties are out.

[Olivia Mar]

My titties. Because her swimsuit. Almost.

[Alona Mar]

Her titties are flying at Miami swimming. Okay. They're everywhere.

[Adriana Mar]

Everywhere.

[Alona Mar]

My, my. I was wearing pretty revealing stuff, but I was wearing this one two piece.

[Olivia Mar]

Blue incredible all weekend. You were styling.

[Alona Mar]

I was being. I was being styled by this amazing woman named Margot and then Liz as well. And they just know me. They've styled me before. But, like, having somebody who can really kind of push you outside of your. What you normally wear, huge. I was. I was feeling myself. I look good. And also when I post all these, like, thirst traps and whatnot, just know I'm posting these for the group. Yes, I like men, but I'm posting these for the girls. My content, my followers are, I think something like 85 women.

[Olivia Mar]

Hell, yeah.

[Alona Mar]

That's a flat. If you can choose your followers, guys. Choose women.

[Olivia Mar]

Choose women. Pumped up every time.

[Alona Mar]

They're loving it. I'm loving it. I'm showing again. I'm gonna say it. Titties for the girls.

[Olivia Mar]

And we haven't yet said it yet. The this episode. Areolas. We just gotta get areolas.

[Alona Mar]

Get that out. Yeah.

[Olivia Mar]

I don't know if we were showing areola, but, like, I probably did.

[Alona Mar]

Yeah, I felt really good. It was so hot, though. I was sweating. Like, just the humidity was kooky.

[Olivia Mar]

Miami weather.

[Alona Mar]

Miami weather.

[Adriana Mar]

That was walking out of the airport. I was like, oh, Jesus, what's happening here?

[Olivia Mar]

Smells like Florida.

[Alona Mar]

Yeah.

[Olivia Mar]

You know, and I don't think I've chased in a very long time one of my outfits, because I gotta say, Adrian and I were throwing some fits. Yep. I'm proud of how we. How we dressed up, but, like, you should have seen times.

[Adriana Mar]

One black fit she had on.

[Olivia Mar]

Which one?

[Alona Mar]

Which one?

[Olivia Mar]

The.

[Adriana Mar]

The bikini. Oh, yeah. There's a lot of black outfits.

[Alona Mar]

Bikini.

[Adriana Mar]

The bikini one with the, like, sheer skirt. Boobs were swinging.

[Olivia Mar]

That one was. That was fun. That was fun to rock around. And I have to say, back to body really quick. Like, I even. I didn't feel my tightest. My.

[Alona Mar]

Like.

[Olivia Mar]

Like where. You know, if I'm gonna be walking around in a bathing suit at events and talking to people, I'd love to, like, feel and look a certain way. I don't think I was there. I might be starting my period soon or something like that. But, like, so I remember looking in the mirror going like, oh, well, but that's. Hey, that's what my body looks like right now. But then tell me why. Looking at all the pictures and videos I took afterwards, I was like, that's the hottest a person could look. Yeah, that's the most beautiful a body could be in the moment. I felt a certain way, but I rocked it anyway. I just, like, went out there and did it. Which was nerve wracking being around literal swimsuit models, but the weather. I wore this one dress that had me, like. Like, in. Like, it was so tight and it kept my legs together and walking my inner thighs.

[Adriana Mar]

Right.

[Olivia Mar]

I was like, do I need to go upstairs and put deodorant between my legs right now? Like, what is that like? And it was so hot. I was so sweaty. We were in the beach one. We were on the beach for a beach party one day. Barely any shade, like, beating down on us, but that's Miami, I guess. Is this your first time in Miami?

[Adriana Mar]

First time in Miami. I actually only go to Florida with Olivia.

[Olivia Mar]

No, it's true.

[Adriana Mar]

We went to Orlando for Tokyo because we couldn't go to Tokyo. And then Miami swim week. It was great.

[Olivia Mar]

But the weather.

[Adriana Mar]

The weather.

[Alona Mar]

I.

[Adriana Mar]

When we were at that brunch thing, I'd sweat going down my legs everywhere. But I will say, we weren't the only ones. Like, every girl was embracing their sweat stains.

[Alona Mar]

Yeah.

[Adriana Mar]

And so I was like, let's all talk about it. Yeah, it was great.

[Olivia Mar]

The vibe there is so different from anywhere in the States. It's really its own place. It's very cool.

[Adriana Mar]

I felt free. Free of, like, how I was dressing. I will say that. And, like, just, like, how social. And, like, just the conn with all the girls, I will say. I don't know if you guys felt that.

[Alona Mar]

We had one girl come up to us. She wasn't in the SI show. She did a different show. She comes up to Olivia and I. I made to her about it, but she was like, yeah, I just walked in this event yesterday, and, you know, I haven't. I've been on juice cleanse for, like, two weeks, so I'm. I have to go eat a car. But I was, like, literally looked at myself like, who are you talking to right now?

[Olivia Mar]

We're, like, looking. We looked down at ourselves.

[Alona Mar]

I was like, we didn't know what to do. We're like, what am I gonna congratulate you on this?

[Adriana Mar]

Like.

[Alona Mar]

Like haza. You starved yourself and you look the same.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah. How do you feel about that?

[Alona Mar]

And you almost passed out.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah, exactly.

[Alona Mar]

It's just interesting. So I made a point to, like, not change up anything.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah. Who you are.

[Alona Mar]

Eat what you. Be who I am. Be who I'm. Are drinking a lot.

[Adriana Mar]

You are. Happy Pride month.

[Olivia Mar]

Happy Pride month.

[Alona Mar]

Happy Pride month.

[Olivia Mar]

Text your local gay. Hi, gay. Okay. And say, I did it to mine.

[Alona Mar]

We love you.

[Olivia Mar]

Love you, Joe.

[Alona Mar]

Love you. You Be yourself.

[Olivia Mar]

Be who you are.

[Alona Mar]

Be who you are.

[Olivia Mar]

For your pride.

[Alona Mar]

We once did New York pride. That was really fun.

[Olivia Mar]

Oh, when is that pride? When is New York City pride? Excuse me.

[Alona Mar]

Just so you know, everyone, just so you know, I look towards our. Our gay man in the corner.

[Olivia Mar]

The 28th. What do you mean? You think you guys wish you could.

[Alona Mar]

See this gay man? He's a. He's a good gay. Have you noticed we're all have the same stomachs?

[Olivia Mar]

Yep.

[Adriana Mar]

You sure about that?

[Alona Mar]

We all have, like, the same stomach pattern.

[Adriana Mar]

How do you mean? What do you mean? I don't know if I've ever really looked at our stomachs.

[Alona Mar]

We have the same. We have similar stomachs.

[Adriana Mar]

Okay.

[Olivia Mar]

Like, the way they sit.

[Alona Mar]

Like the way they sit, like, our organs inside. Well, yeah. And just.

[Adriana Mar]

You guys got a slanted roll right here.

[Olivia Mar]

Slanted roll.

[Alona Mar]

Slanted roll.

[Olivia Mar]

Hold on, hold on. Can we expand upon the slanted roll, Mel?

[Alona Mar]

We do. Well, we have all very similar body types.

[Adriana Mar]

Yes.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah, I think. I think we do. We do.

[Alona Mar]

Yeah. We have very similar body types.

[Adriana Mar]

We were visiting a relative over the holidays and chatting with her, and then all of a Sudden Ilona goes to like that corner and it's just like back is turned and this person goes oh, Olivia really needs to cut her hair. And.

[Olivia Mar]

And we just let it go or whatever.

[Adriana Mar]

They're older and Ilona comes back and the relative goes Olivia, you need to cut your hair. And Ilona, bless her heart goes oh, it's me Ilona.

[Olivia Mar]

You know that haha, you're so funny.

[Adriana Mar]

And they go no, Olivia's the skinny one.

[Olivia Mar]

You're Olivia. And so I was to the side like well what the hell.

[Alona Mar]

What the hell.

[Olivia Mar]

No, I've been dethroned.

[Adriana Mar]

I was never even in the running. So Alona really left me behind. Cuz in high school similar body types and then she had to become a professional athlete and get toned.

[Alona Mar]

What a off and by tone I would say it's just beefy. Anyway, to wrap up, we're hot.

[Olivia Mar]

You're hot.

[Alona Mar]

Physically and smart and outside.

[Olivia Mar]

Hotness is a mentality.

[Alona Mar]

Hotness is a mentality.

[Olivia Mar]

It's what you tell yourself. It's like, you know, like you have to choose happiness. Like that's you know, to a point. But it is like you like it's something you gotta work at. But hotness is a mentality.

[Alona Mar]

Choose hotness, everybody. You are a wagon. Choose hot.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah. Think hot thoughts.

[Adriana Mar]

Think hot thoughts.

[Olivia Mar]

Hot girl.

[Adriana Mar]

Summer and hot girl every day.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah, hot boy. Okay. Is there anybody that is not known as typically like attractive but you think that they're really hot? Like stereotypically.

[Alona Mar]

They're not stereotypically hot. Some of my teammates love Adam Sandler.

[Adriana Mar]

He's hot when he was younger.

[Alona Mar]

Yeah.

[Adriana Mar]

Yeah.

[Olivia Mar]

I think they're cool nowadays. I could see that one.

[Adriana Mar]

Just like imagine he's not in a baggy matching set.

[Olivia Mar]

Right, right.

[Alona Mar]

You think he got a rockin bottom of that?

[Adriana Mar]

Well, like I'm not. I'm saying it's not helping.

[Olivia Mar]

I fully thought you meant Andy Samberg. I was like.

[Alona Mar]

I was like Adam Sandler. What are you doing here? Bagging.

[Olivia Mar]

Waiting for them to play Gangnam Style. I thought that's when you said baggy outfits. I was like I feel I'm off the mark somewhere in my mental.

[Alona Mar]

I don't know if I. Andy can get it.

[Olivia Mar]

Andy can get it.

[Adriana Mar]

Samberg.

[Alona Mar]

I know I don't. I gave. I gave a person.

[Olivia Mar]

Now I'm a bit of a. I'm a very much so Like I don't have a type. It's personality based for me, I'm pretty sure.

[Adriana Mar]

So if you went into Love island you would say you Know, it's just their personality. You want to give features.

[Olivia Mar]

I would say, yeah, he's my type on paper.

[Adriana Mar]

Damn.

[Olivia Mar]

No, I wouldn't say that.

[Alona Mar]

Sorry.

[Olivia Mar]

I wouldn't say he's my type on paper.

[Adriana Mar]

I would go tall, dark and handsome.

[Olivia Mar]

Sorry.

[Adriana Mar]

Like a real bitch.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah, Villa, tall, dark and handsome. What would you say? Say you're looking for if you stepped into that, Villa.

[Alona Mar]

Someone with like, a pulse.

[Olivia Mar]

I guess it is dire straits around here. Again, Team.

[Adriana Mar]

Tough. Well, I got good news for you.

[Olivia Mar]

Damn. I was not going to drink tonight, but Alona is down for anything with applause.

[Alona Mar]

And on that note, hot. Happy Father's day. And on that note, talking about hot men, let's talk about our dad. Happy Father's day. It's Father's day this Sunday. Our dad, Michael Mar. A true rock star.

[Olivia Mar]

Rock star.

[Alona Mar]

I think a reason we are the way we are today.

[Adriana Mar]

Absolutely.

[Alona Mar]

Talking about titties on a podcast.

[Olivia Mar]

Y.

[Adriana Mar]

He doesn't actually listen.

[Alona Mar]

He doesn't listen.

[Adriana Mar]

He's scared too.

[Alona Mar]

For him, for. For the best.

[Olivia Mar]

He'll see some clips, like on social media, but then sometimes he. He's like, what the hell?

[Alona Mar]

He sees some clips and just. He just kind of nods and goes, okay.

[Olivia Mar]

Yep. Proud of him.

[Alona Mar]

He is, I think, just the best girl, dad.

[Adriana Mar]

Perfect girl.

[Olivia Mar]

Dad. Perfect girl.

[Alona Mar]

Truly, like when we were young, he knew that he would treat us the same as he did if he had sons. So he pushed us. We played all sorts of sports. He always encouraged us to be as strong as possible, as fast as possible. He was where I get my stories about, like, never toning it down because he wanted me to pitch the ball as fast as I could, even though the other dads were telling me to slow down so their daughters could hit it. Yeah, he is a big dude. He's where we, you know, got our frame from. He's a big rugby player.

[Olivia Mar]

Loves.

[Alona Mar]

Loves rugby, which is where I kind of got into it because of him. And I tell the story that he used to. He used to be known as like Big Mike or I used to be known as like Michael Mars daughter in the rugby space. And now whenever he goes to rugby events, he's known as Alona Mars dad. And that's like really big. And he. He loves that.

[Adriana Mar]

Very proud of it.

[Olivia Mar]

Loves it. That's the only, like, name he wants. It's never Adriana and Olivia's dad, but soon, guys, soon. Yeah, for sure. What environment would. Would he be in that he would be that about us. The geography B circuit. Cuz I won that twice in eighth grade. And he was so in sixth grader.

[Alona Mar]

Still bringing.

[Olivia Mar]

I beat an eighth grader and a seventh grader when I was in sixth grade for geography b title of our middle school. And then I won it in eighth grade over Alona. Sorry about that, big babe.

[Alona Mar]

You had one year ahead of me of information.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah. True question was on the everglades. That was my winning question. So did you give it to me?

[Adriana Mar]

The competition?

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah.

[Alona Mar]

I was like, I don't need this. I'll give it to her. She needs this. I know I'm gonna go on to do great things. I knew it.

[Olivia Mar]

You traitor. But then our dad was always, like, so proud of me because he's a. He's a nerd. He was a history major.

[Alona Mar]

Yeah.

[Olivia Mar]

He would have been a great teacher. He would've made a great history. You know what I mean? The kind that also teaches the coaches of football team history teacher also, because they have to have, like, a job in the school or something like that to coach the football team. Anyway, he was so proud of me. He would buy me, like, globes and, like, books on geography and, like, we'd study together. And he would come with me to the, like, state level competition, which never went well for me, but we did it together. And it's some of my, like, favorite memories because it was something outside of sports that we bonded on and over. And I would. He'd be like, I've been like, what's the capital of.

[Alona Mar]

What's the capital? Whatever.

[Olivia Mar]

And I'd be like. He'd be like, no, no. But okay, I was. I was pretty good at geography. Right. Which actually, we should maybe have a segment on this show where we. Like, Flash, I just really want to do trivia.

[Alona Mar]

She's just trying to brag. We're not doing that segment.

[Adriana Mar]

One time.

[Olivia Mar]

I'm trying to beat Alona for real.

[Adriana Mar]

One time in college, I was a global studies major, so you had to know where every single country in the world was. I got a blank map. I could label everything. Yeah. Give me two days.

[Olivia Mar]

Flash, a flag, and we have to say what country it's from, Right?

[Adriana Mar]

That'd be fun. Could be embarrassing, but I think our.

[Olivia Mar]

Viewers would learn as well.

[Adriana Mar]

Do you want this? You can be honest.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah. Let us know. Let us know. Do you want to be smarter with us?

[Alona Mar]

No.

[Adriana Mar]

No.

[Olivia Mar]

Do you want to beat Alona with me? You know what?

[Alona Mar]

Let's get back to my dad, because it's funny. He calls these two his funniest daughters.

[Olivia Mar]

That's disrespectful.

[Alona Mar]

No, I am considered the third funniest. To him.

[Olivia Mar]

Him.

[Adriana Mar]

To him.

[Olivia Mar]

You know what, Michael?

[Alona Mar]

How about you ask my fans, not the full guy. Who's the funniest? Michael Moore. How about you go give them a question? You think these two. But I will say these two are funnier.

[Adriana Mar]

Have you made them vagal before? Yeah, because we can make him faint. With la.

[Olivia Mar]

With her.

[Alona Mar]

What did I say recently in the group chat that made him laugh?

[Olivia Mar]

Oh, about your roommate.

[Alona Mar]

My roommate.

[Olivia Mar]

She texted in our group chat when she got back to San Diego for the first time in, I don't know, know, eight months like that she saw her roommate. And because the two have this beautiful relationship of roommates where they don't know much about each other, but they work together beautifully. And she texted our group chat. Just saw Lauren had her biannual check in. Love that girl.

[Alona Mar]

I love her. He thought that was so funny.

[Olivia Mar]

He is so funny.

[Adriana Mar]

That was a good one.

[Olivia Mar]

Johnna makes him laugh really hard.

[Adriana Mar]

Yeah, I think he is my like perfect audience. Like I. I just know him really well and I know it works. And I will say I think actually watching the podcast back sometimes I'm like, you're gonna love this. I think looking at the three of us objectively, I'm not the funniest. I think it is Olivia, you can really work it.

[Olivia Mar]

Oh.

[Alona Mar]

So jot that down. No, I agree.

[Olivia Mar]

You bitch. You.

[Alona Mar]

But, but you know, wait, Adriana, you know I'm drinking alone tonight. Adriana, you know I love a physical comedy. What have I said? And she does a great physical comedy.

[Adriana Mar]

But I.

[Alona Mar]

You have a different. You're funny, but she is dumb. You know what I'm saying? And she made.

[Adriana Mar]

Did this thing yesterday with her shoes where she just like put them together and it hilarious.

[Olivia Mar]

Killed Alona.

[Alona Mar]

Kills me.

[Adriana Mar]

She was laughing non stop.

[Alona Mar]

I love more self deprecating humor and that's what she does. So it gets me. You're very. You're funny.

[Adriana Mar]

I'm funny.

[Alona Mar]

I'm.

[Adriana Mar]

Dad's sort of funny, which is why he put me as number one.

[Alona Mar]

Did he put you as number one? He just tell you that there's a video. Oh, you got that on video?

[Olivia Mar]

I feel like Nicole Kidman after divorcing Tom Cruise, running through that parking lot and screaming, that's me.

[Alona Mar]

Yeah, that was a really. That was crazy. You just said that. And I'm. That we got that on camera.

[Adriana Mar]

I've been thinking about that a lot because it's literally listening to these backs where I'm like, speak up.

[Alona Mar]

Speak up, Audrata.

[Adriana Mar]

And Olivia's just over here doing, like, the hut.

[Alona Mar]

Jesus, she doesn't shut up.

[Olivia Mar]

Physical comedy. Situational comedy as well, I think.

[Alona Mar]

But we got that funny because of our dad.

[Olivia Mar]

He's hilarious. He's a very funny person. Is he smart?

[Adriana Mar]

His humor dry sometimes, or. Yeah, yeah, yeah, he's just smart humor. Like, he, like. We'll do a lot of callbacks.

[Alona Mar]

It's just good humor, we think, is also about intellect. I think that's why we're just funny people, is we're smart people and what?

[Adriana Mar]

No, I just love it.

[Alona Mar]

We're smart. We're smart. Humor's about, like, getting it and, like, understanding what's happening today. And, like, he really gets it. And he. He's just a guy who also. You can chat to. And, you know, as you're chatting about whatever's going on, you say something funny, just vibe off of it. He's somebody who loves to just chat.

[Olivia Mar]

Like, he can talk about anything.

[Alona Mar]

Anything. He's very smart. He knows facts about things that he just. You don't need to know, actually.

[Adriana Mar]

Ask him about any war.

[Olivia Mar]

I will say one of my favorite, favorite memory, not get. This isn't a favorite memory. I love this memory of, you know, growing up, going to school, having papers to write is being like, lord. Research is interesting and hard. And it's always the same thing when you're trying to avoid Wikipedia. So you just go to our dad and say, hey, so, like, what is up with the Ottoman Empire? What, like, what's, like, crazy? I was just saying this office. What's up with the Ottoman Empire? And could you talk slowly? Tippity tapity.

[Adriana Mar]

That's the way he got through college.

[Alona Mar]

No, literally.

[Adriana Mar]

I have actually emails where I would send him the prom essay to, like, prep him, and then I'd call him and I'd be like, slow that down.

[Olivia Mar]

Slow that down. He was our chat GPT. That was our chat GBT back in the day. He's just an encyclopedia of, like, obscure knowledge. And he has also incredible takes on things. He's like. He's. He's spitting facts. He's not biased about it. He's like. I mean, he'll tell you what's up. He'll be like, yeah, but also. But not in a way where. Yeah, it's just so.

[Alona Mar]

He just. He loves to read. He reads, like, also articles from all over the place. He wants to be updated on what's going on in, like, a very unbiased fashion. And so that's something we can always go to. I think that we just. We don't. I don't chat with him often, though.

[Adriana Mar]

Like, you have to call him.

[Alona Mar]

You gotta call him sometimes. I'll get a message, a status question mark. That's what I get. Classic.

[Adriana Mar]

And then you call him up and he's like, hey, what's the password for the New York Times? Yeah, I was shitting bricks over here, my dude.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah.

[Adriana Mar]

Right.

[Olivia Mar]

When you does call. But that's his thing for us was just like, not like, how are you? What's going on? Status.

[Adriana Mar]

Status.

[Alona Mar]

What's going on?

[Olivia Mar]

Status.

[Alona Mar]

And then you got to say a few things.

[Olivia Mar]

Few things.

[Alona Mar]

What's up? I think I've loved doing rugby because it's given me something to talk to him about. Like, I think you're. For most people, you're always trying to make your dad proud. Like, that's, I think, a big goal of ours in a way as well. Like, why we do some of the things we've done. And a rugby was a big thing to make him proud. Crowd and I think that it's given us a way to connect because I can always. I talk to him about this and that and that. And I think it's also been so cool that it's given him a reason to travel the world with mom and go to my game. So I. I love that we have that added thing because you always want to connect, but it can be hard, you know, to connect with.

[Olivia Mar]

But not him. Because he will talk about anything.

[Adriana Mar]

Anything you want.

[Alona Mar]

Yeah, he's very. He recently messaged me. I was like, what. What protein powder do I need to have in the house for you?

[Adriana Mar]

That's really.

[Alona Mar]

He's also very thoughtful on things.

[Olivia Mar]

Very thoughtful. Like, he made us breakfast every single morning before school. Yeah, he was very on it. Whatever. We were like, whatever was our, like, fixation at that time. Like, he would make that. He would wake up. I love cream and wheat. Oh, my God.

[Adriana Mar]

Always has it stocked for Olivia.

[Olivia Mar]

Wow. Some people think it's gross. That's the best. You gotta have the real stuff, though, not the instant and stuff. That's horrific. So he would wake up before us to, like, wake us up, but he would make us whatever breakfast we wanted to, like, fuel our, like, bodies and brains for, like, going to the school day. Like, that's every single morning. That's such an incredible memory. Like, what a guy.

[Alona Mar]

He, I think, is the reason our standards are so high recently. What were you just saying?

[Adriana Mar]

That he thinks our standards are too high. But he's glad that at least we haven't ended up with a dud.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah.

[Alona Mar]

So to that Michael, I say, whose fault is that?

[Olivia Mar]

Yours.

[Alona Mar]

Whose fault is that? He would wake up every morning and make a. A cup. Make coffee and bring it up to my mom. He would do our dirty laundry as kids.

[Olivia Mar]

He melt our mouth guard, which is.

[Alona Mar]

All, like, things that dad should do. I guess. Now I'm like, that's just like. But like, just little things that are so thoughtful. He's definitely an act of service guy. I remember when he was unemployed once. He was so unhappy to not be able to provide for his family. He wants to be a provider. He works so hard. He's always down in the basement, you know, clacking away on his keyboard.

[Olivia Mar]

It's where his office is. He's not just in the basement, everyone.

[Alona Mar]

Yeah, sorry. His office is down there.

[Olivia Mar]

He works finished basement. He's happy all. He's. He's fine.

[Alona Mar]

He can talk to anyone.

[Olivia Mar]

Yeah.

[Alona Mar]

He's just a lovable dude. So I guess to all the fathers out there, happy Father's Day. But to Michael Mar especially, We love you so much.

[Olivia Mar]

We love you a lot. You are the best.

[Alona Mar]

Our status. We're doing well. I'll talk to you in. In three to five business days.

[Adriana Mar]

Welcome to Sisters. Settle it. The part of the show where we see your question and we answer it. It's usually sister related, but this time it's friend related. Hey, Mar. Sister. Teenage girl drama here. So much fun. I'm in a friend group where everyone seems to be closer with everyone except for me. Recently, they have been excluding me from all the group hangouts and not talking to me at lunch even though I sit with them.

[Alona Mar]

Ouch.

[Adriana Mar]

I have addressed it with one girl in the group I'm closest with, and she doesn't really seem to care about the situation. Even though I feel like she is one of my best friends. I'm not sure what else to do or if I should do anything because I get the feeling they don't even like me. I'm also a senior in high school and about to graduate. Graduate. So is it worth it? I need all the advice I can get. Sisters. Thank you.

[Alona Mar]

I don't know if those are your friends.

[Adriana Mar]

That's kind of what it seems like.

[Alona Mar]

Yeah. And I will say this sounds very much so. Like, my senior year of high school, I had not a fun experience. And all these people that I thought were my friends, I think just turned out weren't or wasn't how I imagine It. And for the rest of senior year, I just kind of like, didn't pay them mind, I guess, like. Or I just wasn't worried about it because I think you're about to graduate. So I. Is it worth it? I don't know if it's worth it to waste your time on people like that. Like, you can tell.

[Olivia Mar]

You can tell if you have these feelings. That's real. Listen to yourself.

[Alona Mar]

You can tell if people don't like you and. And if they're acting like that around.

[Olivia Mar]

You, I don't want to say. That's not necessarily a reflection on you. No, that's a reflection on them.

[Alona Mar]

Ye.

[Olivia Mar]

Because. And that's none of your business.

[Adriana Mar]

They shouldn't be doing that to a girl who's obviously thinks that they are part of the friend group. To be actively excluding like, that really shows their character.

[Olivia Mar]

And to like, try to make a friend someone that you think is a close friend, aware of it and them to not care is also a sign your friends should care about you and your feelings and what you're saying.

[Alona Mar]

When I had all that happen to me in high school, I just. I literally was like, fine, I'm gonna go to college and you can kind of of reclaim who you are. Start fresh. Not that you have to like, wait for that to happen, but that was how I did. Like, you know, I have better things ahead of me. I knew that I had that feeling that I had better things ahead of me. And you do as well. Like, it's never fun. I've been in that situation many times where I'm never the friends I thought aren't right. And it sucky. It feels terrible. You feel like so uncomfortable even sitting with them at lunch. But you have much better things ahead of you. And it's not worth it to. To try to get closer to people who are like that. I didn't meet my best friend until, you know, 20s. Olivia didn't meet her until college. Like, Adana sold his best friends from school. But, you know, that's. There's more people to me, there's more people are gonna like you for you. Do not waste your energy on people like that.

[Olivia Mar]

And it's not your job to make people like you.

[Alona Mar]

No.

[Olivia Mar]

They are their own people. They have their own reasons what they say, you know, what's that thing? It's like people talk about you behind your back for a reason. They're behind you for a reason. Right. It's like, be who you are. And if that's too much for them and they don't like it, then you know they can go find less. But you can be as big as you want to be and like love yourself and the people that are meant to be around you will be attracted to how much you like yourself. Should we write a book?

[Adriana Mar]

You should for sure.

[Alona Mar]

And if you have a sisterly struggle and you want us to debate on the show, comment on YouTube or send us a DM HouseOfMar and for a chance to be featured Featured. Thank you so so much for coming over to the House of Mar A Wave Original. Be sure to watch and subscribe on YouTube and listen wherever you get your podcasts.

[Olivia Mar]

Plus follow the show on social media at HouseOfMar for clips and behind the scenes content.

[Adriana Mar]

And don't forget to call your dad. Yes, bring him up, tell me love.

[Alona Mar]

Him or just send them like stat.

[Adriana Mar]

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[Alona Mar]

More ranch and Creamy Chili McCrispy Strip.

[Adriana Mar]

Dip now at McDonald's.