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How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast
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How to Get the Girl (formerly Ask Women) is the podcast where men finally learn what actually works with women.
Hosted by Your Wing Girl, Marni Kinrys, and banter coach Kristen Carney, this weekly show breaks down attraction, dating, confidence, and communication — without the guesswork, games, or outdated advice.
Every week, we bring you real talk from regular women, celebrities, relationship experts, and strong, opinionated females who tell you exactly what makes them lean in… and what makes them walk away.
No fluff.
No theory.
Just honest female insight and practical tools you can use immediately to get the girl — and keep her.
New episodes every week.
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How He Became Confident With Women in Just 5 Weeks
Mar 200:28:11Tap to summarize🎁 FREE DOWNLOAD: "Name Your Animal" Exercise: https://winggirlmethod.com/grrr 📞 Ready to get personal help? Book a FREE call with Marni and her team of Wing Girls → https://coachingwithmarni.com/application 📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/jpyiooEg9qo Most men know that confidence is the key to attracting women. But here's the problem — confidence is almost impossible to fake. Women see right through it instantly. So what do you do if you're just... not there yet? In this episode, you'll hear from Marcel — a man who walked into my Inner Circle program without an ounce of real confidence. And I could feel it. I'll be honest with you — when I first met him, I felt superior to him. Which is something I feel with most men who come to me for help. But then something happened. Just 5 weeks into the 8-week program, Marcel shifted. The man I was looking at wasn't the same guy who showed up on day one. Suddenly I was seeing him as an equal — as a man any woman could feel genuine attraction for. Not fake confidence. Not "techniques." A real, internal transformation that changed how women experienced him. In this conversation, Marcel walks you through exactly what shifted — the mindset changes, the inner work, and how he went from feeling small and unnoticed to believing in his core that he's a great catch. If you've ever wondered whether real confidence is something you can actually BUILD (not just fake), this episode will show you it's possible — and faster than you think. 🎁 FREE DOWNLOAD: "Name Your Animal" Exercise: https://winggirlmethod.com/grrr This is the same exercise I give to every man in my Inner Circle program. It's designed to help you identify and step into your most confident, authentic masculine energy — so you can show up with presence and power in every interaction with women. 📞 Ready for your own transformation? Book a FREE call with Marni and her team of Wing Girls → https://coachingwithmarni.com/application 👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod YouTube: youtube.com/marnikinrys IN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL LEARN: ✅ Why faking confidence never works — and what to do instead ✅ The internal shift that transforms how women experience you ✅ How Marcel went from feeling invisible to choosing the women he wants ✅ What actually changed in just 5 weeks (it's not what you think) ✅ The difference between surface-level techniques and real confidence ✅ How to believe in your core that you're a great catch Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribe →The Biggest Female TURN ON of ALL Time? (Over 10,000 Women Surveyed)
Feb 2600:17:13Tap to summarizeBecome A Man Women Want NOW (Go Here): https://becomeamanwomenwant.com/ Do you know the one thing that turns a woman on… MORE than anything else? It’s NOT status, money, height or good looks. In fact, it’s NOT even confidence, sense of humor, intelligence or game. Those are all nice. But the single biggest turn on for women is something very specific… that 99% of men are completely unaware of. Once you know this secret, you will be able to attract more women than ever before. You will instantly multiply your dating options and have women craving to be with you. And that’s a guarantee. In this episode, Marni reveals the biggest female turn on of all time — and how you can use that to attract the women you desire. MORE TIPS, ADVICE & SECRETS ABOUT WOMEN: http://www.winggirlmethod.com Top dating advice for men coming directly from a woman! Marni is now your personal Wing Girl and she's going to tell you how to attract women, date women, seduce women and get any woman you want. She's helped 100's of thousands of men around the world be more confident with women so they can make women want them. Now she'll do the same for you! Youtube video version of this podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xnKiL462Dng Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribe →How To "Attract" Women WITHOUT Saying A Word | The "Natural" Effect
Feb 2300:11:54Tap to summarizeLearn to do AFTER the attraction phase to keep the girl here: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/beyond_attraction_skills In this episode, Marni reveals 3 scientific reason why SIZE doesn't matter to women. It is a false belief that so many guys have that the bigger you are, the better you are in bed BUT that is 100% not true. This video shows you the truth about size and how to use what you got so you can be an amazing in the bedroom with women ;) MORE TIPS, ADVICE & SECRETS ABOUT WOMEN: http://www.winggirlmethod.com Top dating advice for men coming directly from a woman! Marni is now your personal Wing Girl and she's going to tell you how to attract women, date women, seduce women and get any woman you want. She's helped 100's of thousands of men around the world be more confident with women so they can make women want them. Now she'll do the same for you! Youtube video version of this podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yAA104g1ZVA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribe →Here’s Why Flirting FAILS on 90% of Women
Feb 2300:27:51Tap to summarize🔥 Download the FREE DISC Chart Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/downdisc 📞 Ready to get personal help? Book a FREE call with Marni and her team of Wing Girls → https://winggirlmethod.com/bookcall Why does the same flirting move work on one woman but completely fail on another? It's not random—it's because there are 4 distinct types of women, and each one responds to a completely different approach. In this episode, Wing Girl Nadia breaks down our DISC chart that categorizes women into 4 personality types. You'll learn how to quickly identify which category a woman falls into, and exactly how to approach, flirt, and connect with her based on her type. Once you understand this framework, you'll never waste time using the wrong tactic on the wrong woman again. You'll know within minutes of meeting her exactly how to create attraction. If you've ever wondered why "being yourself" works sometimes but not others—this episode explains everything. 📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/G4cXVFxabO4 👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod 👋 Youtube: youtube.com/marnikinrys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribe →How To "Attract" Women WITHOUT Saying A Word | The "Natural" Effect
Feb 1900:17:41Tap to summarizeWant to flirt like a pro with women? Get the F Formula NOW: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/get-flirty-now Did you know that it's possible to attract women WITHOUT saying a single word? It's true and it's doable by ANY man... YES even you ;). In this episode, Marni reveals exactly how to attract women without saying a word using the NATURAL effects of your body language. Body Language is the quickest and easiest thing you can alter to actually change how women see you. MORE TIPS, ADVICE & SECRETS ABOUT WOMEN: http://www.winggirlmethod.com Top dating advice for men coming directly from a woman! Marni is now your personal Wing Girl and she's going to tell you how to attract women, date women, seduce women and get any woman you want. She's helped 100's of thousands of men around the world be more confident with women so they can make women want them. Now she'll do the same for you! Youtube video version of this podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QdXCidXhNSw Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribe →Private Message From Marni
Feb 1700:06:30Tap to summarizeThe Ask Women Podcast is getting a little facelift. Moving forward our show will be called What Turns Women On and we’ll air 2 episodes a week.Same heart. Same purpose and same goal of helping amazing men get the women they want and become the men they’ve always want to be.Marni will be your host, your best female friend and your own personal Wing Girl. She’s heard it all before and will deliver the best of the best insider information to help you turn women on.New episodes every Monday and Thursday.Help us by leaving a review and sharing our podcast!It’s time to turn women on! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Ep. 563 Misconceptions Of What Women Want
Feb 301:17:08Tap to summarizeWhat women want is one of the most misunderstood topics in dating and this episode proves exactly why. In this throwback conversation Marni sits down with comedian Graham Elwood for a candid funny and sometimes controversial discussion about dating attraction and the stories men tell themselves about women.They break down the biggest misconceptions that keep men confused frustrated and stuck including why common advice misses the mark how mixed signals get misread and what women actually respond to versus what men think they do.This episode is part debate part reality check and packed with insights that will challenge how you see dating and attraction.>>> If you feel boring on dates, you're not imagining it. The issue isn't your personality—it's the conversational structure. Kristen created a FREE GUIDE that breaks down the exact tools that create chemistry instead of job interviews.>>>Grab it here: kristenandchilldating.com/free-guide>>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Ep. 562 A Bad Boy Women Want
Jan 2701:21:51Tap to summarizeThe friend zone does not get you in the end zone. In this throwback episode we break down what women actually mean when they say they want a bad boy and how to embody those traits without being arrogant cold or disrespectful.We talk about the difference between being nice and being attractive how confidence boundaries and emotional leadership create desire and why trying to please everyone usually kills attraction.Dating and attraction coach Nadine Piat joins us from Australia to share expert insight during Analyze This and help you understand how to show up as the kind of man women are naturally drawn to.>>> If you feel boring on dates, you're not imagining it. The issue isn't your personality—it's the conversational structure. Kristen created a FREE GUIDE that breaks down the exact tools that create chemistry instead of job interviews. >>>Grab it here: kristenandchilldating.com/free-guide>>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Ep. 561 How to Escape the Friend Zone
Jan 2001:07:09Tap to summarizeDun dun dunnnn. The dreaded friend zone. We have all landed there and it can feel like the Bermuda Triangle of dating. Once you are in it feels nearly impossible to get out.In this throwback episode we break down why the friend zone happens in the first place what mistakes keep you stuck there and what actually shifts attraction so a woman starts seeing you differently. You will learn how to change the dynamic without awkward conversations pressure or gimmicks.If you have ever been told you are such a great guy but felt invisible romantically this episode will help you understand what is really going on and how to finally escape the friend zone for good.>>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: kristenandchilldating.com/coaching>>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Ep. 560 What Really Turns Women On
Jan 1300:26:21Tap to summarizeMost dating advice is generic outdated and honestly pretty cringey. In this episode Marni sits down with Dr Jennifer Berman New York Times bestselling author and renowned urologist to have an honest conversation about attraction emotional connection and what actually turns women on.They talk about why desire starts in the mind how emotional safety impacts sexual chemistry and what men often misunderstand when it comes to intimacy. This episode also dives into real world topics like sexual confidence aging communication sexual compatibility menopause perimenopause and the insecurities both men and women experience as they get older.If you want real insight into how women think feel and experience attraction without gimmicks or surface level advice this episode will give you a deeper more honest perspective.>>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: kristenandchilldating.com/coaching>>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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