Tie up your man and go to town. By alf_2712. Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex. Bondage sex is often associated with Sado Masochism. But that vaste generalization does a great disservice to a wide range of sexual proclivities. Each part of this grouping ought to be understood on it’s own attributes. Bondage is simply adding real or perceived restrictions in a sexual encounter. It’s the fantasy of lost control over a situation which thrills many lovers. It often incorporates a fantasy scenario and some role-playing. Sadism is the infliction of discomfort to a lover. Masochism is a self-inflicted discomfort. Today we’re hearing from Alfie, about her lover’s favorite kink. He allows himself to be restrained and subjected to sexual frustration, in the form of a very delayed ejaculation. Healthy lovemaking of this sort may include switching roles, or may remain in fixed roles of a dominant & a submissive. Sometimes it’s only a fantasy desired by one of them, ye...