Boldness, banter, boundaries and mental stimulation plus her very own reverse harem—Clara shares her reflections on love and what she needs in relationships.

00:00 Emotionally guarded but open to imperfect love

03:21 How she honed her practice of patience and positive self-talk

05:45 Dreams of ink therapy, self-care maintenance, and what she loves about getting tattooed

08:42 Words backed by actions, being prioritized, and the need for mental stimulation

12:50 Reading people and how she knows when they’re hiding themselves

15:18 Playful banter and needing to be seen as a whole person

17:32 How working with a queer youth group led to preferring repeat sexual partners

20:20 Harem origins, enforcing strong boundaries, and a very hungry vagina

24:48 Getting past the honeymoon phase and growing together from a firm foundation

31:56 Knowing what she wants and giving no fucks

34:41 Early introductions to sex and navigating relationships after multiple assaults

39:00 How she found healthier ways to heal herself and the power of forgiveness

43:57 Her first time: on halloween, in a graveyard—and the benefits of period sex

47:41 Experimental 20s: corsets, BDSM, and learning via sex shop mystery bags

📈 STATS | 41 white, pansexual, she/they/any pronouns, polyamorous, US midwest, into: teasing, (reverse) harems, kissing, pussy worship, giving and receiving head, corsets, hard sex, pegging, threesomes, mental stimulation and getting what she wants

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