Podcast
I Missed Me
Hosted by Mafe Anzures · EN
To whoever this may impact... Sometimes, our lives have to be completely shaken up, changed and rearranged to relocate us where we're really meant to be. Sometimes change feels like loss, transformation is scary, and sometimes, to discover the best version of ourselves, we must let go of absolutely everything that's holding us down.
Welcome to I Missed Me, your new safe space, i hope to be a part of your healing journey.
With love, Mafe
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YOU'RE NOT SCARED OF POSTING - You're scared of being seen
1w ago00:16:33Tap to summarizeLet’s be honest: hiding behind the excuse of “not having enough time” or “waiting for the perfect edit” is a lot easier than admitting the real truth. You’re not actually struggling with your schedule; you’re just terrified of what happens when you finally let yourself be perceived.Putting your voice, your art, or your business out into the digital world feels like opening the front door and letting the internet look straight into your living room. In this episode, we’re untangling that heavy, paralyzing weight of creative anxiety and hometown judgment. I’m breaking down why we subconsciously choose to stay invisible and how to switch your focus from who is watching to why you started creating in the first place. Reclaiming your narrative isn't about being fearless; it’s just about caring more about your vision than someone else's opinion.If you have a folder full of unshared drafts, a business idea you’re hiding, or a constant inner critic whispering "Who cares?", consider this your gentle, direct wake-up call.The Breakdown:The Perception Paradox: Why it feels safer to stay hidden than to risk being judged for trying.Muting the Hometown Noise: How to stop letting the fear of people from your past dictate your future.Messy Action better than Perfect Inaction: Embracing the slow, unglamorous reality of building long-term consistency.Shifting the Focus: Moving your energy away from external validation and back to your actual message.With Love, Mafe.Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedmeand check out all of I Missed Me.Check out my personal socials belowhttps://beacons.ai/mafeanzures#socialmediatips #whocares #imissedmeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →YOUR BODY KEEPS THE SCORE - Taking Care of Yourself Isn’t Lazy
2w ago00:26:54Tap to summarizeWe often view productivity as a badge of honor, but really, the most productive thing you can do is listen to the signal that your body is finally reaching its limitIn this episode, we’re getting honest about burnout, exhaustion, and the guilt that comes with needing to slow down. I’m opening up about my own recent experience with hitting a wall and why we need to stop labeling rest as "laziness." From the physical toll of ignoring your needs to the specific lessons I've learned from my own mistakes, this is a reminder that taking care of yourself is a requirement for your growth, not a distraction from it.If you’ve been feeling drained, overwhelmed, or like you’re constantly "running on empty" but feel too guilty to stop, this episode is for you.Inside the Episode:The Body’s Scorecard: Understanding how suppressed stress and exhaustion manifest physically.Redefining Lazy: Challenging the toxic mindset that equates your worth with your output.Lessons from Mistakes: A vulnerable catch-up on my own recent burnout and what I’m doing differently.The Art of Recovery: Practical ways to prioritize rest without feeling like you’re falling behind.With Love, Mafe.Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedmeand check out all of I Missed Me.Check out my personal socials belowhttps://beacons.ai/mafeanzuresAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →THINGS SOCIAL MEDIA HAS NORMALIZED - That Aren’t Actually Normal
Apr 1400:28:50Tap to summarizeWe spend so much time scrolling through curated lives that we start to lose touch with what is actually real. But the most important shift we can make is learning to unlearn the "norms" social media has forced on us. In this episode, we’re getting honest about social media's effect on self-perception and the toxic habits we’ve accidentally normalized. I’m sharing the specific self-reminders that keep me grounded as a content creator and how to protect your mental space in a digital world. From the pressure of constant comparison to the truth about what happens behind the screen—this is a reminder that your worth isn't measured in likes, and it’s okay to step back and reclaim your reality.If you’ve ever felt like you’re falling behind because of what you see online, or if you’re struggling to separate your true self from your digital self, this episode is for you.What’s Inside:The Normalization Trap: Identifying the behaviors social media says are "normal" that actually drain our peace.Perception vs. Reality: How the digital world warps how we see ourselves and others.The Creator’s Perspective: My personal grounding techniques for staying authentic in an aesthetic world.Digital Boundaries: Practical ways to be protective of your time and mental energy.With Love, Mafe.Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedmeand check out all of I Missed Me.Check out my personal socials belowhttps://beacons.ai/mafeanzures#selfgrowthjourney #boundaries #mindsetshift #imissedme Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →YOU'RE NOT ASKING FOR TOO MUCH - You’re Asking The Wrong People
Apr 600:21:13Tap to summarizeIt can feel incredibly isolating to have high standards in a world that tells you to "lower your expectations," but what if the problem isn't the size of your heart, it’s just the people you’re giving it to?In this episode, we’re getting honest about self-worth, healthy relationships, and the power of knowing your value. We’re breaking down the difference between being "difficult" and simply being high-maintenance for the wrong person. From identifying if you’re in the right relationship to learning how to stop apologizing for your needs—this is a reminder that you aren't asking for too much; you’re just asking the wrong people.If you’ve ever felt like your expectations are "too high," wondered why you keep feeling disappointed by those around you, or need a roadmap for how to find connections that actually align with what you deserve, this episode is for you.Inside the Episode:Expectations vs. Reality: Why it’s okay to have high standards in love and life.The "Right Person" Filter: How to know if your relationship is actually serving your growth.Redefining "Too Much": Turning self-doubt into self-assurance.Alignment over Attachment: Learning to choose people who can actually meet you where you are.With Love, Mafe.Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedmeand check out all of I Missed Me.Check out my personal socials belowhttps://beacons.ai/mafeanzuresAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →IF YOU FEEL LAZY TODAY LISTEN TO THIS - How to stay consistent when you don’t feel motivated
Mar 3000:24:08Tap to summarizeIt’s easy to feel like you’re failing when the motivation just isn't there, but the real breakthrough comes from learning to show up even when you feel "lazy."In this episode, we’re stripping away the pressure to be perfect and getting honest about what it looks like to stay consistent during a low-energy week. We’re moving past the "all or nothing" mindset and focusing on the small, non-negotiable promises that keep you moving toward your goals. From practical shifts in your routine to the 3 tips that help me stay disciplined when I’d rather stay in bed, this is a reminder that your evolution is built in the quiet, unmotivated moments, not just the high-energy ones.If you’ve been waiting for a "spark" to get started again or feel like you’re falling behind because you’re tired, this episode is for you.What’s Inside:Redefining Motivation: Why relying on a feeling is the quickest way to stay stuck.Navigating the "Lazy" Days: My personal approach to maintaining momentum when energy is low.3 Practical Discipline Tips: Actionable steps to help you stay committed to your vision.The Power of Showing Up: How small, messy actions lead to long-term identity shifts.With Love, Mafe.Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedmeand check out all of I Missed Me.Check out my personal socials belowhttps://beacons.ai/mafeanzuresAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →OUTGROWING FRIENDSHIPS WITHOUT FEELING LIKE THE VILLAIN - Let Go of People Without Feeling Guilty
Mar 2300:26:16Tap to summarizeWe talk a lot about wanting to keep every connection forever... but what if the real shift happens when we stop treating "moving on" like a crime and start seeing it as a requirement for our own evolution?In this episode, we’re getting honest about the heavy, often silent transition of outgrowing friendships and navigating the constant identity shifts of your 20s. From the guilt that eats at you when you realize you no longer "click" with certain people to the bittersweet truth that some relationships are meant to be a season, not the whole story—this is a reminder that choosing your growth doesn't make you a bad person.If you’ve ever felt like you’re "the villain" for needing more than your current circle can give, or if you’re struggling to let go of a version of yourself that no longer exists, this episode is for you.With Love, Mafe.Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedmeand check out all of I Missed Me.Check out my personal socials belowhttps://beacons.ai/mafeanzuresAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →HAVING A BOYFRIEND IS NOT EMBARRASSING - Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing or Are You?
Mar 1600:33:43Tap to summarizeThis episode is inspired by the viral Vogue article "Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?" Because I kind of agree, not because love is embarrassing, but because, like the article says, making your boyfriend the center of your life is not healthy. We’re getting honest about identity, codependency, and the "cringe" of making a relationship your whole personality. From the ways we abandon our own passions to the subtle habit of disappearing into someone else’s life—this is a reminder that healthy love should amplify who you are, not replace it.If you’ve ever felt like you lost your "cool" the moment you got into a relationship, or you’re struggling to find the balance between being a partner and being your own person, this episode is for you.With Love, Mafe.Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedmeand check out all of I Missed Me.Check out my personal socials belowhttps://beacons.ai/mafeanzuresLink to article: https://www.vogue.com/article/is-having-a-boyfriend-embarrassing-now#Vogue #RelationshipAdvice #IMissedMe #SelfGrowth #IdentityCrisisAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →5 FRIENDSHIP RED FLAGS - Watch Out For This Type of "Friends”
Mar 900:20:25Tap to summarizeWe spend so much energy making excuses for people that we stop listening to what our gut is actually telling us. It’s not about being quick to judge or cutting people off at the first sign of friction; it’s about learning to distinguish between a bad day and a pattern of behavior that doesn't respect your worth.In this episode, we’re getting honest about self-awareness, discernment, and the messy reality of outgrowing people. It’s not about being judgmental; it’s about learning how to fairly assess if a connection is healthy or just heavy. From identifying one-sided energy and subtle competition to knowing when to set a boundary versus when to walk away—this is a reminder that the quality of your life is often a reflection of the people you allow to stay in it.If you’ve ever felt drained by a "best friend," struggled with the friend who only reaches out for favors, or wondered how to actually act on the red flags you’re seeing without feeling like the "bad guy," this episode is for you.With Love, Mafe.Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedmeand check out all of I Missed Me.Check out my personal socials belowhttps://beacons.ai/mafeanzuresAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →YOU ARE NOT BEHIND - How to Stop Comparing Yourself and Start Trusting Your Timeline
Mar 200:19:09Tap to summarizeWe often talk about wanting to achieve more or reach that next milestone… but what if the real shift happens when we finally stop looking at everyone else’s clock and start trusting our own?In this episode, we’re getting honest about comparison, the pressure of "feeling behind," and how to reclaim your peace. From the toxic cycle of social media scrolling to the deep-seated fear that we aren't doing enough - this is a reminder that your journey isn't a race, and your timeline is exactly where it needs to be.If you’ve ever felt like you’re falling short, wondered why everyone else seems to have it figured out, or felt that heavy weight of "comparison is the thief of joy," this episode is for you.With Love, Mafe.Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedmeand check out all of I Missed Me.Check out my personal socials belowhttps://beacons.ai/mafeanzures#selfhelp #healing #feelingbehindAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →THIS VERSION OF YOU HAS TO DIE - Why Growth Requires the End of Your Old Self
Feb 2300:20:32Tap to summarizeWe often talk about wanting to change our lives… but what if the real shift happens when we finally let go of the person we used to be?In this episode, we’re getting honest about the grieving process of personal growth and why growth requires the end of your old self. From the discomfort of "losing yourself" to the beauty of rediscovery — this is a reminder that you aren't alone in feeling lost during your evolution.If you’ve ever felt like you’re in a transition period where you no longer fit into your old life but don't quite know who the "new you" is yet, this episode is for you.With Love, Mafe.Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedmeand check out all of I Missed Me.Check out my personal socials belowhttps://beacons.ai/mafeanzuresAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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