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This week, Isa is joined by internet icon Tefi Pessoa for a very real conversation about dating as a Latina and third culture kid. We talk about taking gringos home to Latino families, why sometimes you don’t want your partner learning Spanish, and the importance of being one Lord of the Rings movie away from home. Isa opens up about dating as a queer, third culture kid, and Tefi reassures her that EVERYTHING is going to be okay. In the second half, the debate begins — is Valentine’s Day actually romantic or completely wrong? We also get into letting go of your teenage or early-20s self and not letting her run your life. If you’ve ever felt culturally confused in love, this episode is for you.

Listen to our guest on Tefi Talks or read more from her at The Cut in her column Ask Tefi.

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