Many people – whether married or in other long-term love relationships – begin to feel that they don't want to settle for a romantic partnership that lacks sparkle, connection, and joy. And this makes sense, especially if destructive dynamics are at work behind the scenes. Although many love relationships lose their luster over time, I've found that a bit of polishing and loving attention can help them shine more brightly than ever before. Today, I'm joined by a renowned relationship expert, researcher, and author, Dr. Terri Orbuch, who will walk us through the five simple steps that can help your romantic relationship go from dull and merely tolerable to great. Topics discussed include connection, emotional connection, intimacy, sex, sexual intimacy, attachment style, healthy disagreements, conflict, 10-minute rule, novelty, mystery, companionship, friendship, divorce, marriage, long-term relationship, happiness, and stability.

Topics discussed include connection, emotional connection, intimacy, sex, sexual intimacy, attachment style, healthy disagreements, conflict, 10-minute rule, novelty, mystery, companionship, friendship, divorce, marriage, long-term relationship, happiness, and stability.

Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.

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Books by Dr. Carla Manly:

Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend

Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly

Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond