Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with Norma Buster, sex positive victims rights advocate, Chief of Staff at CA Goldberg Law, survivor of image-based abuse, and online sex worker, for a raw and nuanced conversation about stalking, leaked intimate images, deepfake abuse, consent, shame, sexuality, healing, OnlyFans, bisexuality, and reclaiming agency after trauma.

Topics Covered:

Norma Buster’s experience with stalking and image-based abuse
Why “revenge porn” is an inaccurate and harmful term
The evolution of image-based sexual abuse laws
Victim blaming from judges, police, and society
Trauma, shame, and psychological impact after leaked intimate images
CA Goldberg Law and victims rights advocacy
The federal Take It Down Act
Why intent-to-harm clauses make prosecutions harder
Free speech debates surrounding image-based abuse laws
AI deepfakes and nudifying apps
Deepfake abuse affecting women, minors, and students
Consent, impact vs intent, and digital privacy
Supporting friends through stalking or abuse
Victim vs survivor terminology and trauma identity
Purity culture and sexual shame
Bisexual awakening during the pandemic
Dating couples and exploring non-monogamy
Threesomes and alternative relationship dynamics
Healing through sexuality and sex positivity
Starting an OnlyFans after surviving image-based abuse
Sex work stigma and online identity
Reclaiming agency and personal autonomy
Advice for survivors struggling with shame and harassment

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