Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with abortion activist and founder of the Abortion Positivity Project, Sophie Nir, for a fact-based conversation about abortion positivity, stigma, bodily autonomy, forced pregnancy, abortion bans, medication abortion, procedural abortion, and more.

This episode breaks down what abortion positivity actually means: removing stigma and shame from the conversation entirely. Sophie explains why abortion bans do not reduce abortions, why 1% of abortions happening after 20 weeks is weaponized misinformation, and why “bodily autonomy does not expire at any point in pregnancy.”

She also covers how to support a friend through an abortion, how to navigate abortion inside relationships, what reproductive coercion is, how medication abortion works (mifepristone + misoprostol), why abortion is overwhelmingly popular despite political narratives, and why forced pregnancy is the real moral issue.

In this episode, we cover:

Why shame around abortion is taught, not inherent
The difference between being “pro choice” and abortion positive
How political language stigmatizes abortion
Why abortion access is in the worst position in 52 years
The myth that abortion bans reduce abortion rates
Abortion statistics
Forced pregnancy as government control
Medication abortion vs procedural abortion
How mifepristone and misoprostol work
Accessing abortion in restrictive states / countries
How to support a friend having an abortion
Letting go of internalized abortion shame
Talking about abortion openly with friends
Reproductive coercion in relationships
Partner influence vs bodily autonomy
Why consenting to sex is not consenting to pregnancy

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The Alternative to Abortion Is Forced Pregnancy (ft. Sophie Nir)