Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with musician and content creator Emi Larraud for a raw, funny, and deeply honest conversation about vulnerability, masculinity, oversharing on the internet, and why emotional availability makes men more desirable and better lovers. From shitting yourself on the subway to tips on how to be more vulnerable, this episode explores how being human, communicative, and emotionally present leads to better sex, safer intimacy, and more meaningful connections.

In this episode, Alexa and Emi discuss:

Masculinity, patriarchy, and how it harms men
Why toughness, aggression, and emotional suppression are not attractive
Healthy masculinity and being raised with emotional permission
Men crying, expressing emotions, and being fully human
How emotional openness improves dating and sex
Why men shouldn’t center other men’s approval
Seeking male validation vs caring what women actually want
Listening to women instead of guessing what they want
Being bisexual and how that shaped Emi’s perspective on intimacy
The hot take: men who refuse to eat pussy are kinda gay
Why vulnerability filters out the wrong people
Getting approached more after being emotionally open
Emotional growth through therapy
Holding male friends accountable for harmful jokes
Sex, intimacy, and performance anxiety
Feeling pressure to perform sexually
Liking women vs just wanting to fuck them

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