C (3:07)

Is your frequency secure? Or is it shaky? Is it insecure?

C (3:15)

A fracture frequency is a desire without conviction.

C (3:20)

You know, like you feel something so real, but then you talk yourself out of it. Maybe it's a connection with somebody. And then you talk yourself out of it. You start something that you're passionate about, but then you imagine every reason why it's going to fail or why you shouldn't move forward with it. You can sense potential, right? Oh, my God. You sense it, you see it. But then you assume disappointment. And then you never let your intention build any strength. I've been really thinking about assumptions lately and how toxic an assumption can be. You know, a lot of people think that they're masters of reading energy, you know, And I think a lot of times we assume too much. And, you know, we do have intuitions and we can pick up on things, but sometimes, let's be honest, our assumptions are just rooted in insecurity or fear. And then we assume the worst. Very rarely do people assume the best, right? Because what is an assumption? An assumption is like an energy of not knowing something, leaning towards knowing, but you're not fully sure, right? When you know something, you don't have to assume, right? Like if somebody is giving you a certain look, then you make an assumption on what that look may mean. Are they angry at me? Are they. Do they want to talk to me? Right. It can go either way. And a lot of the times I feel like when we make too many negative assumptions, it truly fractures our frequency, right? This can happen in relationships, right? Oh, what are they thinking? You know, what are they feeling? You know, you may just assume the worst, and it's not even that. And then the frequency gets fractured. I told this story one time where I was, like, thrifting and this old, old lady was staring at me. And I thought. She thought, like, I was going to steal or something, right? Because I couldn't really clock the look she was giving me. So I just assumed it was a negative look. And it triggered me. And then I lost sight of her. Then out of nowhere, she taps me on the shoulder, this old lady, like 80 years old, a little white lady. And she's like, sir, I just want to tell you I think you're, like the most handsome man I have ever Seen. And I was like, oh, my God, here I was just assuming the worst, when really she was thinking the best of me. And I promised myself that day that I would never assume what I thought to be like, in a microaggression. I'm not going to be completely naive, but, like, I wasn't going to assume the worst anymore because you just don't know, you know, you just don't know. And I'd rather emit a positive frequency. This is very important, I feel, because every time we assume, every time we step out into an assumption, right, and we are wrong, we are fracturing our frequency. We are fracturing our faith, we are fracturing the security, the sense of self that we have in ourselves. Because why we keep sliding into a negative assumption, a negative outcome. Again, people rarely assume the best. You know, I say that people, like, slide into the negatives. And this is why I believe that conviction is so important. Just holding that inner yes, you know, long enough to see what it becomes, right? Like, give it time, give it repetition, give it grace, you know, give it patience as well. Give it more belief. Sometimes just give it the benefit of the doubt. Sometimes just ask. You know, maybe you're not sure if your boss at work is really happy, you know, with how you've been showing up. They haven't really told you, so maybe you think they're actually going to fire you, but really, maybe they're actually talking about promoting you, right?

C (7:06)

So you start looking for new jobs, you start acting a certain way, you start creating a little bit of a disruption at work. Not even greeting your boss anymore because you think they're about to fire you. So you already have this, like, negative energy with them, but really they come up to you on Wednesday and offer you a promotion, and now you're like, oh, my God.

C (7:23)

This happens in relationships as well, right? Like, why didn't they text me? Why did their tone shift? This can really take us out of ourselves and everything that we're trying to build and our goals and our dreams and just consume our mind to the point.

C (7:39)

That we're fracturing our frequency, our signal for life, you understand?

C (7:44)

You know, what we believe, what we see, that's what we create. That's what we achieve. And it's very important that we keep our goals and the things that we want in our life and the love that we keep them in healthy soil in our mind, and we nurture them and water them. And if we are unsure of something and it has to do with somebody else and we have the opportunity, just to ask for clarity. Ask for clarity. Do not swim in pride or ego. Just ask. Because it's a lot better to get the clarity that you need than to assume in darkness and spiral and negative.

C (8:21)

Negative cycles. Let's be honest. Everybody is a storyteller when it comes to their anxiety. When it comes to their anxiety. When you have anxiety or you're in fear, you are a storyteller. You create narratives, narratives that could be Netflix blockbuster series. You know.

C (8:39)

We have to be careful of that. Assumptions are just quick conclusions with no evidence, you know, and they can make you shut down emotionally, walk away from opportunities, sabotage connections, and.

C (8:52)

You know, retreat before anything happens again. When you have a strong frequency, a strong signal, it is trying to create and signal the things that you want in your life and bring it to you. But when you fracture it, you damage it, you delay it. Too many doubts and too many assumptions kill possibility. They insult the future by cutting it off early. Right? You have to give things a chance to grow. You have to give things grace as well, and patience.

C (9:26)

Just because it doesn't look or feel how you want it to be right away doesn't mean it's not happening for you. Just because the love feels different one day doesn't mean the love has changed, you know? Wouldn't it be beautiful just to be so secure and strong in ourselves and our frequency that little things will move us in different directions? Like the way we stay strong and rooted in our convictions. Stay strong in love.

C (9:56)

Instead of, maybe you're in love and you feel something for someone, but then you assume it won't work. And then you close your heart. Horrible place to be, closing the heart. When the heart is open. Oh, my God. All things flow when the heart is open, things just flow to you. It's a vulnerable place, but it's a powerful place. You know, you may receive a compliment and then just assume they didn't mean it. Boom, the signal weakens. Maybe you go for a date and you're not sure how they feel about you, and you just assume the worst. Just ask. Hey, I really enjoyed our time. I'd like to spend more time with you. Right? Move the ego. Pride and ego gets in the way a lot and fractures our frequency as well. Become a master communicator. If you have a question, just ask. Get clarity so you don't have to assume. Because think about all the time that you've assumed something in your mind or just played narratives or mental gymnastics. And think about all that time collectively in your whole life. If you could apply all that energy into something positive and beautiful. What would happen?

C (10:57)

Amazing things in your life, right? It's a simple truth you know, you can't manifest from a signal. You don't stand behind. You need to be strong and rooted behind it. You understand, have conviction, believe in the best that is happening for you. Believe that you have the ability to create a beautiful life for yourself. Believe that what is for you will be and what isn't will simply. You can simply set it free. What I would say is, if we want to strengthen our frequency, stop jumping to the ending. Stop skipping chapters, right? Give it more time. Give your yes time to grow. Separate fear from your reality. If there's no evidence, then it's just fear. It's not truth. If there's no evidence at all, right? Or you're just swimming in assumptions. It's not fear. It's fear, not truth. And we have to let our desires breathe. Yeah, we get impatient sometimes, but don't judge them on day one. Let the energy gather together. Let it strengthen. When you have patience and conviction, you strengthen that signal. You strengthen that frequency. So stop interrupting your own messages. The signal becomes strong when you stop cutting it. Love becomes stronger when you stop doubting it.

C (12:13)

And you start affirming it and reassuring it. When it comes to people and your friendships or your family or your romantic relationships, and you fear, unsure how the connection is with them. You reassure how you feel about them and then ask how they feel about you.

C (12:32)

We don't need to assume because assuming is storytelling with no ending. So sometimes when we find ourselves with a. With a fractured frequency, it's not necessary that we're just lacking clarity, but we're lacking consistency in our signal. The frequency isn't broken, it's just unstable. And your life isn't delaying. It's your conviction that is flickering. Like the thing that's supposed to happen for you is going to happen. It's supposed to happen, but your lack of belief and conviction is making it flicker. It's making it harder. I think it's just beautiful to, like, be an individual that is just so secure that you're just like, you know what? I can lead with love and I will leave a love. And.

C (13:18)

I don't automatically think the worst and project my past traumas and pain onto other people.

C (13:27)

And I move forward in life believing that I can create a beautiful life for myself and not flicker so much, not doubt so much. Yeah, the doubts may happen, but we affirm to ourselves and try to strengthen that narrative and have better storylines, be a better storyteller, not one from anxiety and fear, but one from conviction.

C (13:49)

So today is really just a reminder to stop assuming the worst, stop predicting endings that were never meant to happen. Because sometimes when you assume too much, you actually go and create that ending and that was never a part of your destiny. And stop abandoning your signal. All it needs is a little bit consistency and belief and more clarity which you can go get.

C (14:13)

And let your intentions pulse long enough to become real. A lot of us just throw in the towel a little bit too quick, give up a little bit too quick because we're afraid. We're afraid to fail. We're afraid to get hurt. Whatever it may be, just stick with it a little longer. A steady frequency becomes a new reality. A fractured one becomes a missed opportunity. And you don't know nine Said Everything's gonna be more than all right.

D (14:40)

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C (15:10)

I'll see you soon.