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Friendship was never meant to be easy. It was meant to be transformative. And often, the transformation doesn't come from finding better people—it comes from learning how to forgive the imperfect ones already in your life. In this month's episode, we explored a topic most of us would rather avoid: forgiveness. Through one deeply personal story, we were reminded: forgiveness isn't optional—it's the doorway to the kind of relationships that actually last. Show Notes: In this episode, Jamie and Heather discuss chapter four of the book Made for People by Justin Whitmel Earley. The Psalms give us an example of what honest, unfiltered prayer looks like. Join us for our current series: Summer in the Psalms! https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoikPSaa5DXdDjm4smLPtkNwFKqCQRpGM&si=BUkkdzSaCp0rr29C
Friendship is one of life's greatest gifts—but it also has the power to deeply hurt. In this episode, Jamie and Heather explore the simple yet impactful ways we can practice invitation, inclusion, and intentional kindness in our everyday lives. They also dive into the influence of social media, the way we model relationships for our kids, and the quiet but powerful role we play in helping others feel seen and valued. Show notes: In this episode, they reference the book Made for People by Justin Whitmel Earley Looking for community? Join us at one of our upcoming Daughters events: https://churchonthemove.com/daughters Timestamps 0:00 Awkward Moments That Prove This Matters 2:40 Why Friendship Can Hurt So Much 5:00 Inner Circles vs. Being Inclusive 6:20 How We Exclude People Without Realizing It 8:15 Teaching Our Kids to See Others 13:40 The Pain of Being Left Out 16:45 Everyone Just Wants to Feel Seen 22:00 Why Invitation Reflects God's Heart 27:30 When You Don't Want to Include People 35:00 Social Media Is Making This Worse 44:30 Simple Ways to Be More Inclusive 55:00 This Week's Challenge: Include Someone
Who are you becoming? And who are you following? For the first-ever live episode of Tell Me More, Pastors Whit George and Ethan Vanse explore the contrast between Abraham and Lot—and the question behind both lives: What's your strongest influence? Abraham isn't perfect, but he keeps moving toward God. Lot settles for what looks good in the moment. Through their stories, Whit and Ethan unpack the tension between grace and consequences, why faith is about progress not perfection, and what it means to live with open hands in a temporary world.
Genesis 16 reminds us that God's promises don't fail—our patience often does. When the waiting feels too long, we're tempted to take control and force outcomes. In this episode, Pastors Whit George, Blake Zimmerman, and Angela Ekstrum explore how even in human missteps, God is still at work, forming hearts, shaping character, and advancing His plan to redeem all mankind. He is not just fulfilling dreams; He is forming people. Show notes: Weekend Message Will You Wait on the Lord? Listen to the full weekend message here: Will You Wait on the Lord? Referenced from Last Week Whit mentions last week's message and Tell Me More episode: God Desires Deep Relationship with His People https://youtu.be/rmGpV7ik1Sw?si=HmYHx8DGGilulL2M God With Us: Trust, Covenant, and Abraham's Long Walk of Faith | Tell Me More https://youtu.be/ikn31xDCT4Q?si=O9remz8f2a3SXVzg Resources Mentioned The Making of a Leader — Robert Clinton The Great Divorce — C.S. Lewis Next Steps Are you looking for a next step? COTMU applications are now open! Learn More: https://churchonthemove.com/cotmu
What does real friendship actually require? In this episode of Life in Motion, we dive into covenant friendship—the kind built on honesty, vulnerability, commitment, and showing up when it matters most. We talk about naming your friendships, making (and keeping) promises, ditching surface-level connection, and why accountability and safety go hand in hand. If you're craving deeper, more meaningful relationships—and aren't sure how to build them—this conversation is for you. Show notes: In this episode, Jamie and Heather refer to the book Made for People by Justin Whitmel Earley They also recommend checking out Jennie Allen's work. Find her here: https://www.jennieallen.com/
In this episode, Pastors Whit and Gabe reflect on Genesis 15 and how it shapes the entire story of Scripture. Rather than portraying a distant God who sets requirements from afar, Genesis reveals a God who desires closeness—who patiently walks with His people. What we see in these scriptures is faith not as a transaction or a moment, but as a lifelong walk of trust. More than a clean record or a distant destination, the story of Abraham is about with‑ness: God joyfully dwelling with His people and inviting them into a relationship that transforms everything. Show Notes Key Scripture References: Genesis 15 John 3:16 Hebrews 11:10 2 Corinthians 4:17–18 Book Mentioned: "With" by Skye Jethani Listen to the Weekend Message! Church on the Move Tulsa: God Desires Deep Relationship with His People https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rmGpV7ik1Sw
God doesn't hand you a blueprint—He invites you into a relationship. In this episode, pastors Whit George, Ethan Vanse, and Seth Swindall explore how the life of Abraham shows us that faith isn't about seeing the full vision, but about trusting the One who leads. In contrast to Babel's drive to build a name for ourselves, Abraham's journey is a slow surrender from "my will" to "thy will." It's not about escaping to heaven someday, but allowing God's Kingdom to be formed in you right now. Show notes: Listen to their weekend messages! Church on the Move Tulsa: What Kind of Life Are You Building? https://youtu.be/ZrgPTuJ41ow?si=ki97gjGgfo83I3m5 Church on the Move Broken Arrow: Letting God Guide Your Steps https://youtu.be/GZlmhFAheh4?si=G4mW0W46XZ6RLg8h Church on the Move West: Are You Really Following God? https://youtu.be/9wCU-fCN6rM?si=gjRd8G8kWyCzXKIG

Friendship can feel complicated, but when it's done right, it can be one of the most life-giving parts of our lives. In this episode, Jamie and Heather unpack the reality that we're not meant to be deeply connected to everyone. From understanding your natural capacity for relationships to identifying the different "rings" of friendship, this conversation brings language to what many people feel but can't quite explain. We talk about what real vulnerability looks like (and what it doesn't), how to deepen the right friendships, and how to recognize when a relationship has shifted—or needs to. Show Notes: Check out the book Made for People by Justin Whitmel Earley: https://www.amazon.com/Made-People-Drift-Loneliness-Friendship/dp/0310363004 Learn more about Dunbar's number: https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20191001-dunbars-number-why-we-can-only-maintain-150-relationships 00:00 – Intro 02:10 – Friendship Capacity & Circles 05:00 – Seasons of Friendship 08:15 – What Real Vulnerability Looks Like 12:00 – How to Build Deeper Friendships 15:30 – Friendship Levels & Expectations 16:00 – When Friendships End 21:30 – When a Friendship Becomes Unhealthy 24:30 – Hard Conversations vs. Creating Distance 30:00 – Covenant Friendship vs. Casual Friendship 36:30 – Expectations, Hurt, and Showing Up Well 41:45 – Closing Encouragement

In the final week of our Guided Prayer Podcast leading up to Easter, we reflect on the nearness of God and the invitation to come honestly into His presence. As this six-week journey comes to a close, we invite you to pause and pray: Where might the Good Shepherd be inviting you back into His presence? Next week, instead of another podcast episode, we're inviting you to join us in person during Holy Week in the prayer rooms at any of our churches. Find the details: https://churchonthemove.com/holyweek#prayer

In week five of our Guided Prayer Podcast, we slow down in John 16 and let Jesus reshape the way we approach God. Jesus invites us to pray in His name—not as a phrase tacked onto the end of a prayer, but as an invitation into His relationship with the Father. Take a few moments to reflect and pray: What would you say to God if you knew you were completely loved—and nothing could push you away?