Lovers hellooo

Happy glorious Monday…and here I am finishing this month with some juice! I am so excited to share my latest podcast episode with you which was a raw, honest, and educational conversation with the one and only Mr Kevin Anthony. …Another great Sex, Love & Relationship Coach.

Kevin Anthony is a Certified Sexologist, Tantra Counselor, NLP Practitioner and a Sex, Love & Relationship coach. For over 10 years he has worked with men, women, and couples to have the relationships of their dreams, and the best sex of their lives! He is also the host of “The Love Lab Podcast”, creator of the popular YouTube channel Kevin Anthony Coaching, and creator of the popular online course series “Power and Mastery” as well as other online courses for both men and women.

We dive into one of the most taboo topics in sexuality: anal sex.

This episode was sparked by one of Kevin’s recent reels about why many women say no to anal. But I couldn’t help but ask: Why is this conversation always centered on women, when every human has an anus? Why don’t we speak about men’s pleasure, fears, or shame in the same way?

So I reached out to him and asked..would you be willing to chat with me about it?And he said …sure! So a few days ago Kevin and I explored topics such as

✨ Why anal intimacy carries so much taboo, shame, and resistance✨ The myths vs. the actual science about sensitivity, nerve endings, and circumcision✨ How both men and women experience anal pleasure (and how it differs)✨ Safety, consent, and preparation for backdoor exploration✨ How anal intimacy can become a practice of vulnerability, healing, and deeper connection

This is not just a “how-to” chat. It is a beautiful inquiry and somewhat of a reframe of anal intimacy as your ( everyones ) portal into trust, sovereignty, and even more expanded pleasure.

So if you are curious, maybe even hesitant, or you just simply want to break through outdated narratives, this episode will open your eyes a little and make you giggle i hope. Because it is all meant to be fun.

Maybe..just maybe ….it will inspire new conversations with your partner.

HERE is the link to Kevin’s product page so you can get yourself the oy he spoke of!

With pleasure,Melissa

Kevin’s links are

https://www.kevinanthonycoaching.com

Host of The Love Lab Podcast

Kevin Anthony Coaching Youtube Channel

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The backdoor :) .. yours or his?