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The Kinky.

As I mentioned earlier this week, what Kink means is what is taboo for you.

For some that is having sex in different positions other than missionary, for some it can involve cutting of the skin, ropes, voyeurism, or the use of candle wax.

Inside the kink blueprint, there are two kinds of kink.

We have the Psychological kink. This is someone who is turned on by the mental aspect

of power dynamics and power play.

The control.

The surrender.

The Light. The Dark.

Often this means one is playing dominance games.

Where one person is controlling the other.

The second kind of kinky is turned on by sensation.

Sensation play involves impact, constriction, and even pain. On the other side of pain is pleasure.

A submissive person is able to relax inside of their “taboos” when another has total control.

And of course, you can have both where someone has psychological and sensation-based play at hand. ( note women ( ME ) sliding off her chair as she is writing this )

That is the permission inside of KINK

The superpowers of the Kinky Blueprint is endless creativity as the world of kink is massive.

The breadth of play is endless

The kinky, just like the energetic can orgasm without touch.

The subspace is a place where one drops away, inhibitions have gone and it feels like a deep deep meditative state where one loses space, time and place. This is the Valhalla for the kinks. This is where they are trying to get to.

This altered state of consciousness.

The dark side of the Kinky is shame.

Shame for their desires.

Often people are searching for a reason from their past for why they feel this way or have certain turn-ons. And it is not this way for many at all. In fact in Psychological testing, those who identify as being Kinky are found to have the most resilience, most able to have very clear communication with their partners and score high when it comes to their ability to have boundaries as they are very clear about these important factors.

Speaking of communication how did you lovers go with the practice I gave you yesterday?

This way of communication is my favourite way of dropping into truth with vulnerability. It allows for a profound level of courage…. so … I dearly hop it served you. Make sure you make time this wk end to bring it into your connection with your beloved. 💋

Unfortunately in this world of KINK, many terms are misused and confused.

In todays video, I start to decipher terminology inside of the KINK world.

Understanding these terms is empowering and dismantles possible judgments.

I also am giving you the second part of the questionnaire from yesterday.

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