Relationships are messy, chaotic, and often feel impossibly hard. But what if the secret to navigating them isn't about being "right," but about finding alignment? This episode dives into the foundational shift needed to move past conflict and build stronger connections.

00:00 The chaos of life and relationships

00:55 We are not relationship gurus, but we've learned to navigate hard shit

01:29 We are experts at mess

01:53 The goal is to take emotion out of conflict

02:40 Don't try to be right

03:30 Focus on clarity and alignment

04:15 Two perspectives, two different realities

08:20 The biggest mistake people make in relationships

15:00 The "us against the problem" mentality

22:10 Understanding your partner's values

28:45 How to communicate when you're both triggered

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