Podcast Summary: "I've Had It" - Episode: Elder on Elder Abuse
Podcast Information:
- Title: I've Had It
- Hosts: Jennifer Welch and Angie “Pumps” Sullivan
- Episode Title: Elder on Elder Abuse
- Release Date: November 12, 2024
1. Building Community Amidst Despair
Jennifer and Angie open the episode by acknowledging the collective despair felt by their community. They emphasize the importance of camaraderie, laughter, and shared grievances in maintaining mental well-being. Jennifer passionately states:
"Nobody can take that from us. But right now, we're all sharing a lot of despair." [00:22]
They reassure marginalized members of their community, affirming their commitment to fight for their rights and existence:
"We value your right to exist over all of these other crazy things. And so just know that you matter and that we love you." [01:00]
2. Navigating Public Spaces: Oklahoma City Airport Woes
A significant portion of the discussion centers around frustrations with public areas, specifically focusing on the Oklahoma City Airport. Angie vents about the lack of self-awareness among individuals in drop-off and pickup lines, leading to unnecessary delays:
"People just do not have any concept that there is anybody else on the planet but them." [03:42]
Jennifer shares her exasperation with the airport's inefficiency during a recent flight delay:
"Why can't you improvise? Why can't this airport say there's somebody at Gate 7, right? But Gate 8, 9, 10, 11 and 12 are available." [04:20]
The hosts express their intent to address these issues by inviting the mayor of Oklahoma City to discuss potential improvements:
"We are going to have the mayor of Oklahoma City on this show soon... We're going to try to tackle these things that I'm sure the new fascist authoritarian government will ignore." [06:11]
3. Elder on Elder Abuse: Meemaw's Annoying Antics
Transitioning to the episode's theme, Jennifer humorously touches upon elder abuse by sharing anecdotes about Meemaw's behavior. Angie elaborates on her pet peeve regarding an elderly volunteer at the airport who incessantly talks to travelers:
"I had a grievance with the old man that sits at baggage claim and he talks your ear off." [08:11]
Both hosts jest about their future selves potentially exhibiting similar behaviors, blending humor with the episode's serious undertones.
4. Maintaining Joy: Balancing Frustration with Laughter
Despite the shared frustrations, Jennifer and Angie emphasize the necessity of finding joy and humor in daily life. They discuss the importance of laughing together to preserve sanity amidst chaos:
"We have to come together. We have to laugh together, cry together... but also still laugh and try to experience some joy." [30:16]
5. Patreon Stories: Online Dating Disasters and Triumphs
A recurring segment features stories from Patreon members, highlighting both the pitfalls and successes of online dating. Examples include:
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Rome's Encounter: Rome shares her unpleasant experience with a drunk, fetishizing older gentleman who abruptly left her at a bar.
"He chickened out and walked out the bar, leaving me alone." [24:30]
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Brooke's Happy Ending: Brooke narrates a failed date due to lateness and dishonesty, leading her to meet her future husband shortly after.
"He was 30 plus minutes late... I blocked his number, bought myself sushi, and met my now husband the very next week." [25:22]
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Becca Louise's Catfishing Nightmare: Becca recounts being deceived by a woman masquerading as part of a cult, highlighting the dangers of online interactions.
"Christina was not her name. She was married with twins and part of a traveling cult." [28:19]
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Hudson's Catfish Confrontation: Hudson describes being manipulated by a 50-year-old man posing as someone significantly younger, underscoring the emotional toll of such deceit.
"He was actually a 50-year-old man... none of his pictures were him." [38:11]
These stories serve as cautionary tales and foster a sense of solidarity among listeners facing similar challenges.
6. Future Plans and Community Engagement
Jennifer and Angie outline their plans to continue fostering community spirit through various initiatives:
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Daily Political Podcast: Introduction of "IHIP News," a daily podcast providing political insights and updates.
"We have a new podcast that has dropped it called IHIP News." [42:56]
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Upcoming Live Show: Announcement of the "People Suck Tour" in New York City, aiming to engage with listeners in person.
"We are rebirding... We're gonna get to where it is robust a little bit every day." [41:55]
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Community Mascot: Discussion about adopting the Blue Winged Hawk as their podcast mascot, symbolizing their collective identity.
"It is our mascot. I want to get one." [42:18]
7. Embracing Both Struggle and Joy
In their concluding remarks, Jennifer and Angie reinforce the podcast's mission to balance discussing serious issues with moments of levity. They encourage listeners to embrace a spectrum of emotions, advocating for unity through shared experiences:
"We are human beings and we get to have compound feelings and compound emotions." [40:07]
Notable Quotes:
- Jennifer: "Nobody can take that from us. But right now, we're all sharing a lot of despair." [00:22]
- Angie: "People just do not have any concept that there is anybody else on the planet but them." [03:42]
- Jennifer: "Why can't you improvise?... Gate 8, 9, 10, 11 and 12 are available." [04:20]
- Jennifer: "We value your right to exist over all of these other crazy things." [01:00]
- Angie: "I had a grievance with the old man that sits at baggage claim and he talks your ear off." [08:11]
- Jennifer: "We have to come together. We have to laugh together, cry together... but also still laugh and try to experience some joy." [30:16]
Conclusion:
In this episode of "I've Had It," Jennifer Welch and Angie “Pumps” Sullivan delve into the challenges of maintaining community spirit amidst societal frustrations. Through humor, shared stories, and actionable plans, they strive to create a supportive environment where listeners can laugh, relate, and find solace in collective experiences. The episode underscores the importance of balancing the darker aspects of life with moments of joy, reinforcing the podcast's commitment to being a beacon of light for its audience.