B (5:43)

Yeah, it was. It was. I mean, young, technically, but it's not that. That's not how I categorize it. Like, oh, you can watch this. It's rated R. It's like, it totally depends on the movie, what the actual.

A (5:54)

R rating is for.

B (5:55)

Exactly. Right. Like Deadpool.

A (5:57)

Yeah.

B (5:58)

My son, as soon as it came out, he was like 4 or 5.

A (6:01)

No kidding. Is that rated R?

B (6:03)

Big time. Because of what wildly inappropriate stuff. There's, like. There's violence, but it's sensationalized. There's swearing. There's like, sex jokes and, like, just. It's really flagrant. But given my son's personality, that's not going to affect him. He's just going to think it's funny. But then if I show him, like, I don't know, like a. Like a Friday the 13th or something like this, it'll mess with him, you know? Yeah. So it depends. It depends on, you know, his personality.

A (6:32)

Does your kid like scary movies? Do your kids like.

B (6:34)

No. Well, my daughter does, but my son does not.

A (6:37)

Coach Hannah. Yeah, my daughter, she watches scary movies, but they, like, horrify her. But she likes to watch them.

B (6:43)

Yeah, that's real.

A (6:44)

Yeah, she. She, like, when she starts talking about him, you can tell that they landed the way she says. There's a movie called Midsommar. I actually haven't seen it. Yeah, but the way that she says the name Midsommar, you're like, oh, she has ptsd. She knows. She'll be like. She'll, like, shift her positioning.

B (7:08)

So.

A (7:09)

But I do think that you can show kids movies, you know, because they're fictional and you can say, hey, look, this isn't real, but this does happen. And then you can get. Then you can move to movies that are based on reality, and then eventually you can show them to a documentary. Right. And you can, but I think you just got to slowly introduce these things to kids over time.

B (7:28)

Yeah, then. And like I said, I do believe this. As of right now, I do believe that it does depend on the movie, because that Midsommar, like, that Movie's not. I didn't. I don't think that one was actually scary. It was disturbing, a real disturbing. But it wasn't scary. Like, it didn't. You didn't leave the movie and, like, be scared. But back in the day, when you watch Friday the 13th or Candyman, you ever watch Candyman? That first one. Holy cow. I was in, like, eighth grade or something, and bro. You say his name in the mirror, like. Like three times or something or five times, I don't know. And he'll appear behind you and kill you. Bro. It was. Bro. I couldn't go in, like, the bathroom anymore, like, by myself at night. It was hard. That's scary. You know, different.

A (8:06)

We watched the Exorcist when I was a kid, which is. Which was horrific. You know, as a little kid, you're like, oh, my God. So. But I think you can utilize movies as a introduction to things and that. That way they're a little bit more controlled. You know what the movie's about, right? So I think you could do that, too. But I think my kids were watching. Rated our movies maybe around 12. And, you know, again, same as you. Like, generally speaking, I think my youngest daughter watched Black Hawking, you know, so. And that is. That's where we're at.

B (8:42)

Does Black Cop down have any, like, disturbing things that.

A (8:46)

It's got people, the kid, you know, getting their legs blown off and be dying. I mean, it's. It's definitely violent. High violence.

B (8:52)

Yeah.

A (8:53)

Bloodshed.

B (8:54)

So, yeah, it. It feels like it doesn't play on a kid's fears as much as, like, a Friday the 13th, that there's a crazy, maniac, unknown, unseen killer out there in the darkness.

A (9:08)

Do you remember Uncle Fester? I think he's from the Adams family. I had a friend in the SEAL teams that would have nightmares that there was, like, an Uncle Fester type person, sir, that was going to kill him. And. And the thing was, it was like he was way bigger and way stronger. Uncle Fester, this Uncle Fester type character was way bigger and way stronger. And if you think about. That's pretty horrifying, you know, like, you and I, you know, we trained Jiu jitsu. We left, you know, we're in shape. We have concealed carry. Like, we're, you know, we're kind of like, in the game, we are the danger. We are the danger, as they say. Right, Cheeseball? But if you start thinking like, oh, there's someone that's. Even to the nth degree, and it was kind of superhuman.

B (9:53)

Yeah.

A (9:53)

Kind of a superhuman scenario.

B (9:54)

Yeah.

A (9:55)

I ended up thinking it was, like, in the book Blood Meridian, which I don't think you've read, but in Blood Meridian, there's a character called the Judge, and he's sort of the same way. He's like, bigger, stronger, cat like reflexes. And you're like, bro, this is kind of. You're kind of at the whim of this dude from a physical way, you know?

B (10:18)

Yeah.

A (10:18)

And I think that's why my friend was so scared of this Uncle Fester type dude. But if you're a kid, pretty much everyone's like that. Pretty much everyone's bigger and stronger than you, so it's pretty horrifying.

B (10:29)

Yeah. Yeah, it's true. What? The swearing thing. I kind of went back and forth on it, and I like. Like, I think your way is kind of optimal, I think, because I. I do swear, but not that much around the kids. And I'm gonna make it a point. This is where I arrived at where I don't want it to be, like, normalized, you know, like, really. Because I. In fact, I wish it was less normalized for me, actually freaking. Now that I'm however old I am. There's a lot of things, looking back that I thought were cool because it was fine. I. You know, my parents did this or whatever, and I turned off and I realized maybe I didn't turn out as fine as I could have been, you know, if these. There's a handful of things that are normal, like. But I think he kind of jammed me up, to be honest with you. But the swearing one wasn't a big deal. But every once in a while, I was like, I think I shouldn't have been swearing, you know, like, that kind. Like, there's this. It was at the muster, and it was actually some people that we know, and they were. So there's the daughter, the dad. You know these people. You completely know them. But I'm not gonna say their name just for privacy. But there's the daughter, the dad, and the mom. I didn't know they were all related. I knew them individually, the daughters, maybe 20s, early 20s. So young, way younger than me, you know? And then the mom and daddy, slightly older than me. So, anyway, I'm like. She goes, oh, hi. You know, And I'm like. I was like, shoot, have I met you? Right? Like, and they're all standing in front of me, but I didn't know they're already. So she's like, oh, yeah, I met you last time. And I'm like, yeah. And I'm trying to figure it out. And I'm like, yeah. And she's like, yeah, it was at this other time. And I was like, oh, wait, was it at this time? She was like, no, no, it was at the other time. I was like, are you sure? She was like, yeah. I go, are you with me? And she's like, no, no. And then the mom and the dad were right there, and the mom, you could tell, she was like, hey, like, you shouldn't talk to my daughter like that. Like, that was the vibe. She didn't say that, but that was the vibe, because she goes, this is our daughter, like, interrupted the conversation, you know? And me, like, I'll say that to anybody, you know, all my friends, like, are you fucking about me? Like, right now? Like, asking, you know? And then I remember thinking that swearing kind of came out real naturally, you know, like, almost like a default. That, like, that's how, you know, I was like, shoot, maybe swearing was normalized a little bit too much. See what I'm saying? So. And that's just one time. I mean, maybe there's another time or whatever. So it's not a huge problem. But I'm saying if it wasn't normalized, if my default was like, you. Whereas, like, you kind of only swear under certain circumstances.

A (13:04)

Try to.

B (13:04)

Yeah, yeah. And the default was no swearing. Brian wouldn't have to endure that, you know? And I feel weird. Like, every time I see her at the mustard stuff, I feel like kind of like, off shoot, you know? So I try to be extra nice and stuff like that, but I'm like, man. But, yeah, so I think I'm with you now. Like, my kids will hear me swear, but I'm not just swearing. Like, it's all good. They don't swear at all. They think, like. I think, like, a lot of kids who are, you know, have.

A (13:30)

They'll get through it.

B (13:33)

No, but, you know, like, like, your boy, when you. He was swearing.

A (13:35)

Yeah, yeah.

B (13:36)

He's like, my. And how kind of I felt when I was really young, where I was like, hey, when no one's around, I say it. It's like, ooh, so crazy, right? Or whatever. Oh, my kids are totally like that. Like, if they're. If there's a song going on and they're swearing in it, they'll, like, kind of look at me like, oh, that was crazy, you know, or whatever.

A (13:51)

My oldest daughter ratted out some of her friends or some of her kids at school or something when she was probably in, like, third or fourth grade or something for saying the S word to my wife.

B (14:02)

Word. S, H I T. No, it was.

A (14:07)

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