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This is the Jocko Underground podcast number 164, sitting with Echo Charles, going to provide some insight, hopefully some courses of action for you all. What do we got? Let's get some questions from the from the troopers.
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Courses of action. Okay, Jocko, I'm looking for purpose in my life. I want to help people and feel like I have aligned with my strengths as an individual to where my income is from is from something I really enjoy and I feel like I'm making a difference. I have a beautiful wife and one year old son and I work as a wildland firefighter. I enjoy the physicality of the job and the team aspect, but I don't feel like it's my true purpose. It's hard on my family to be gone for a good portion of the summer as well. I wanted this job because I want to make California safer and enhance the health of the forest. I'm taking forestry classes at a local college and I'm on the path to get a good job before my family or my job as a firefighter. I had a dream to be a stand up comedian. I felt a lot of passion and purpose in the pursuit of that goal. However, as life has gotten busier, that dream has got pushed to the side. I'm not sure with their. I'm not sure which direction to go now. I'm squared away in life, have good discipline and I just need to need a direction. I'm trying to listen closely to my intuition as to where to go next. I'm starting back at comedy. I'm doing it very consistently now and I've given myself this year to see if it's still something I want. I don't see myself dropping everything for it though. I have a family to provide for. I've always dreamed of owning some type of type of business that helps people or really just play into my strengths to help at a job that I really believe in. I know firefighting, you're helping and giving. I just don't think it's for me long term. Any advice would be appreciated.
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Well, yeah, starting off, thanks for your service as a wildland firefighter. That's a freaking rough job. And especially if you've been out here in California, you've had a busy season. So thank you. Here's. I guess my thoughts are like, okay, you like the comedian thing? I would say keep trying the comedian thing, but entertainment is hard and I don't know the percentage, but I'm gonna guess that 99% of people that try and be comedians cannot make A living by being a comedian, most people aren't going to make it. And so that's why, when you have that little thing about I'm starting back in comedy, doing consistently to see if it's something I still want, you also have to. You have to see if it's something that you have potential in. And it takes a long time to become a successful comedian, too. Like I want to say, Theo Vaughn was like a comedian for. For 15 years before anybody heard of him, before anybody, like in the mainstream heard of him, before he could make a good living from it. You know, like in this case, you got a wife and kid, probably got more kids coming. He wasn't supporting a family, I can tell you that much. So I would say keep now, see where that takes. See what kind of opens up, you know, maybe you start, you know, getting your name out there and people are really into it. Cool. So that's. I think you just, I think you. That's something you do is on the side. Right, right. That's just a side thing. And you see where it goes. Sometimes it works for people. Sometimes people are doing something on the side. They're making music on the side, they're painting on the side, they're shaping surfboards on the side, they're building guitars on the side. They're doing some side thing and it can grow. Dude, you did that. Remember when you were making videos as a side thing.
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Totally.
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Then it became your real thing.
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Real thing.
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So I would say that's what you do with comedy. You do it on the side. You practice, you train. But you know, you don't quit your job to go be a comedian. Now as far, same thing as far as being a business owner and growing it. Just start a business, man. Like, you know, start shaping surfboards, start being a builder, you know, building decks for people, woodworking, start a food truck, be a landscaper, start catering. I don't know, like, what are you into? You know what I mean? What are you into? Because as a firefighter, you got some time to start some stuff. And this day and age, you buy the URL, hell yeah, you know, landscapefirefighter.com and all of a sudden you got a little business, just whatever. But you just start a little business, you got a little bit of income. Don't over invest in it, but you start a little something, you see how it does. And just like comedy probably not quite as harsh as entertainment, because a lot of people want to be entertainers, right? They want to be movie star, they want to be in a Movie. They want to be. Write a movie, make a movie. They want to write a TV show, they want to write a song, they want to do a bunch of entertainment stuff. Less than 1% of people actually ever make it in that industry. Business is also difficult. 25% of businesses fail in the first year, 50% fail in the first five years, and 65% are dead in the decade. So that's not great percentages. And you got a family, so you keep your job and you don't let go of your job as a wildland firefighter until one of these things just gets so much traction that you're like, all right, cool, I got something else going on. So you're doing that, and then on top of that, I think you. It doesn't sound like you want to be. It doesn't sound like you want the profession of being a firefighter long term. So then, you know, you say you're taking classes right now, keep taking classes, and you figure out what your other new career could be, whether it's being in forestry, maybe you could be in the, the park ranger scenario. You know, live up there at Yosemite with your family. Pretty cool. Or you learn how to weld, or you learn dentistry or electrical. Like, there's a bunch of different actual jobs you could get that you're into. You know, if you're, if you're an electrician, you get to be outside, especially big commercial electrician. You know, you're kind of outside working on buildings. You're inside a little bit too much, but maybe you're a framer. Like, there's a bunch of jobs you get. So study and figure out which other career path you might like. So that's my recommendation. Keep your options open. Open some doors and keep chasing your dreams without abandoning reality. That's my overall recommendation. Chase your dreams for sure, but don't abandon reality. And that's what I got. You like that one?
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I very much like that one, yeah.
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Oh, but what about the person that says, yeah, but if you don't commit 100% to your dreams, then you're. You won't make it? I, I call on that because there's 24 hours in a day, and you can, you can. If you commit those hours that you're not working or sleeping, you can get a lot of stuff done.
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Yeah. So, yeah, I feel like a lot of times, though, that that sounds good because under some circumstances I would believe that that is correct. Where it's like, hey, let's just go all in, 100% but I think the reality, like in real life, you can still commit. Like, for example, you want to be a stand up comedian, you can still commit to that.
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Yeah, yeah.
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You don't have to just burn your. What do you burn? The boats? Right. You don't have to burn the boats, but if you're committed, you're committed.
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There's very few instances where I can think that burning the boats is the right move.
B
Yeah.
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Because I actually think you'll end up in a worse spot. Greg Train, when he came to me and was like, hey, dude, I got this opportunity to go to the school and learn what is X ray tech.
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Yeah.
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Or I can commit 100% to MMA. And he had all kinds of potential because he's a badass wrestler. He's freaking strong as hell, he's a good striker. He was great jiu jitsu. And so he was like, you know, what should I do? And I said, well, how many, you know, you've heard me say it before. How many hours a day can you train? I don't know, maybe four, five at the most. Okay, so how many hours do you go to school? And we just broke down the numbers and you could. And not have to worry about food and not have to worry about health insurance because you're an X ray tech now, you got a paycheck coming in, you can get the best food and you can still train five hours a day. No problem. No problem. Now, would it be optimum if you could spend those eight hours that you were at work getting massage and doing saunas and ice baths to recover? Sure, that'd be optimum. But guess what? When you're doing that now, you don't have good food because you can't afford it. So I guess people like, if you, if you want to move to LA or New York because you want to be a actor. Right? Like, okay, I got to move to la. Okay. But when you get to la, man, like now you're worried about food. You're not. You can't really commit so much because you got to work as a waiter.
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Yeah.
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So I'm just saying be careful.
B
Yeah. And agree. That's all true. And that's exactly what I mean where it's like, I see how that could kind of be beneficial to be like, fuck yeah, burn the boats. And I see. But I think generally speaking, no, like, if you're committed to something, you can make iterative decision decisions in the direction of that commitment, 100%. And that's actually the smarter way to do it. Most of the time. I think you're right about that.
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Jocko Underground Podcast Episode 164: "I'm Looking For Purpose In Life"
Release Date: April 28, 2025
Hosts: Jocko Willink and Echo Charles
Description: Retired Navy SEAL, Jocko Willink, and Director, Echo Charles, delve into discipline and leadership across various facets of life, including business, war, relationships, and daily routines.
In Episode 164 of the Jocko Underground Podcast, hosts Jocko Willink and Echo Charles address a heartfelt question from a listener seeking purpose and direction in life. The episode delves deep into balancing personal ambitions with practical responsibilities, especially when juggling family obligations and career aspirations.
At the outset of the episode (00:13), listener B shares a comprehensive account of his current life situation:
Professional Life: Works as a wildland firefighter in California, a role he chose to enhance forest health and public safety. While he appreciates the physical demands and team dynamics, he feels uncertain if this is his true calling.
Personal Life: Blessed with a supportive family—a wife and a one-year-old son—but finds his job's demanding nature taxing on his loved ones due to extended periods away during the summer.
Educational and Career Aspirations: Currently pursuing forestry classes with the intent to secure a more stable and family-friendly job in the future.
Passion Projects: Once harbored a dream of becoming a stand-up comedian, a pursuit he feels has been sidelined by life's increasing responsibilities.
Current Crossroads: Despite being disciplined and organized, he grapples with choosing between continuing his firefighting career or reigniting his comedic aspirations without jeopardizing his family's well-being.
Notable Quote:
"I'm looking for purpose in my life. I want to help people and feel like I have aligned with my strengths as an individual to where my income is from is from something I really enjoy..." (00:13)
Jocko acknowledges the listener's service and the challenges inherent in firefighting (01:45). He offers a pragmatic approach to balancing passion and practicality:
Pursuing Comedy as a Side Hustle:
Notable Quote:
"Keep trying the comedian thing, but entertainment is hard and I don't know the percentage, but I'm gonna guess that 99% of people that try and be comedians cannot make a living by being a comedian..." (01:45)
Starting a Business Aligned with Personal Strengths:
Notable Quote:
"Start a business, man. Like, you know, start shaping surfboards, start being a builder, you know, building decks for people, woodworking, start a food truck, be a landscaper, start catering..." (03:35)
Educational Advancement and Career Transition:
Notable Quote:
"Study and figure out which other career path you might like. So that's my recommendation. Keep your options open. Open some doors and keep chasing your dreams without abandoning reality." (06:56)
The conversation transitions to the concept of commitment, especially when juxtaposed against the advice of not going "all in" or "burning the boats":
Avoiding Total Commitment Risks:
Notable Quote:
"There’s very few instances where I can think that burning the boats is the right move." (07:57)
Practical Commitment Strategies:
Notable Quote:
"You can still commit to that. You don't have to just burn your... What do you burn? The boats? Right. You don't have to burn the boats..." (07:44)
Dual Pursuits: It's feasible to nurture personal passions alongside maintaining a stable career, providing both financial security and personal fulfillment.
Incremental Growth: Starting small with side projects or hobbies can organically evolve into more substantial endeavors without immediate sacrifices.
Education and Skill Diversification: Investing in education and acquiring diverse skills can open multiple career avenues, ensuring adaptability in changing circumstances.
Balanced Commitment: Dedication to one's dreams doesn't equate to abandoning all else; strategic commitment allows for progress without undue risk.
Episode 164 provides a nuanced exploration of seeking purpose amidst life's multifaceted demands. Jocko and Echo emphasize the importance of balancing personal aspirations with practical responsibilities, advocating for strategic planning and incremental progress. Their insights offer a roadmap for listeners grappling with similar dilemmas, underscoring that alignment with one's strengths and disciplined action are key to finding deeper purpose and satisfaction.
Note: Promotional segments and non-content sections from the transcript were intentionally omitted to focus solely on the substantive discussions and insights shared during the episode.