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Juicy Scoop with Heather McDonald
Who Killed Jon Benet Ramsey and is Lyle Menendez a Cheater?
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Heather McDonald
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The cold, dry air of the winter can be unforgiving, but your hair doesn't have to suffer. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our juicy scoopers $10 off your first month subscription and free shipping. When you go to nutrafol.com and enter the promo code JUICYSCOOP, find out why over 4,500 healthcare professionals and stylists recommend Nutrafol for healthier hair. Heather McDonald has got the juices. When you're on the road, when you're on the go. Juicy Scoop is the show to know. She talks Hollywood tales, her real life Mr. Segment, serial data and serial Sister. You'll be addicted and addicted fast to the number one tabloid real life podcast. Listen in. Listen up. Whoop whoop. Heather McDonald, juicy scoop. Hello and welcome to Juicy Scoop. I'm coming to you from La Quinta, California in the Palm Desert, Palm Springs area. Because I am hosting about 30 people for Thanksgiving here in a couple days. But I am so excited. All my kids are coming. McKinsey Drake's already here helping me. Brandon's coming home from Oregon in a couple days, so I'm very excited. But I wasn't going to leave my Juicy Scoopers without any juice, which is why one of my favorite Patreon episodes, drop, dropped Friday. It was a little different. It's a very juicy interview with my friend Gage. And then we also brought in Dr. Drew because it's about co parenting in Hollywood is really the theme of the episode and it sparked a lot of conversation and that's available on Patreon right now. And you just go to patreon.com juicyscoop and join. Also, once you join, we'll have instructions on there coming soon about how to make sure that you have your correct address there so that you can get our personal family Christmas card. Okay? I also want to remind you guys that the day after Thanksgiving, my reality TV lovers can watch the American Reality TV Awards, which I hosted. You heard me talk about it. I have many different looks, but really so many great stars. I'm excited to see it because I was running backstage, changing because I came out five different times, but it was just all the reality stars, the biggest reality stars. We have JoJo Siwa presenting. We had Tamara Judge Sutton made an appearance from Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, Omarosa, Kendra Wilkinson, and really fun things throughout the night. And my friends who came said the show was great. And I want to tell you, you're gonna be able to watch that on Friday, Black Friday, and that's November 29th. And you can see it on the Roku Channel, Pluto tv, Zoom Play. All of it is right here. And remember to subscribe to my YouTube because I have the photos here too on the YouTube and we spend a lot of time to make that special for the people that want to watch it. But I need you to subscribe, like and share. Okay? Sad news, interesting news. Tom Sandoval and Tom Schwartz of Vanderpump Rules, also co owners of Schwartz and Sandy's. That was their own restaurant that did not involve Lisa Vanderpump. Of course, they're part of TomTom, but they have a much smaller ownership in that this was the restaurant we saw in Vanderpump that they spent so much time really having a unique decorative vibe. Some people wondered about its success based on its location. I feel like TomTom and Vanderp and Pump and sir did really well because you could go on a little pub crawl there. It's right there in West Hollywood. It's easy, walkable, you know, if West Hollywood is known for the gay bars. But also it's just such a fun place. It has so many great dining options. And so that was a great location. They went into a different part of la, which is still really nice, but it's not like a pub crawl situation. And I always wonder if that is what might have been the issue with it, you know, being successful, then kind of dipping when the show wasn't on the air. And then, of course, one scandal happened. People, you know, said boycott, you know, Schwartz and Sandy's and all this other stuff. We hate Tom Sandoval. Then they filmed again and people started going back there and well, they are closing it. They are closing it and they both made a statement. I read Tom Sandoval's first, which was kind of interesting. He said it's with a heavy heart. It's always with a heavy heart. We made the difficult decision to close Schwartz and Sandy's at the end of December. And then he goes on to say some things. He said we'll be hosting a series of events and have availability to host other things leading up to the closing nights. But the allure of being associated with reality TV has hidden what is an amazing spot and location for LA locals as well. I highly recommend you check us out, especially if you haven't yet. Let's get together one last time. It's. It's sad because I feel like even if they have the most incredible December, I don't know that they can stay open. They've made this statement. So it sounds like this is really done. There is a lot of talk if Vanderpump will come back at all or with what cast. I don't think this is a great sign for it coming back. I could see it not coming back and just some of the favorite players going on the Valley because you know, Lisa's has her places in Nevada her and the one pump has closed and it just. I don't know, maybe it is time. Maybe things can't last forever, but they do do other things and they are TV personalities. They were both so delightful to me. When I went to the Vanderpump Dog Gala. Tom Sanibal was with his girlfriend who was very. Seemed very nice, very pretty. Tom Schwartz was just. Is just one of the nicest, most delightful guys. I would really like to see him do some other things. He's just a very genuine, nice person. He's never been on Juicy Scoop but I think he's good looking and charming and I could see him doing other things in tv so hopefully other things will come from it. But we all know most people should know how hard a restaurant is to do. I think it's one of the hardest businesses. So you know, there you go with that. Also when I was there, Tom Schwartz was like giving a lot of people free drinks and I told him that I'm like Tom, you should. I mean it's one thing to give me a free drink, but please like people that you don't know. He's just like drinks on me and da da da. And I said that when I saw him before I knew it was closing. I'm like, maybe stop giving everybody so many drinks for free. Maybe that would be more profitable. But he, that's the kind of guy he is. He's just sort of nice and delightful. Okay. Oh, and then, yeah, and then Tom Schwartz, he did his too, and his was more like, come on, come to have your holiday parties here. Have your, you know, funeral for your pet lizard, whatever. We've got it going. And it just, I don't know, it just kind of made me sad. Well, let me tell you the latest with the Menendez brothers. You guys, this is a big day, so we might have a decision when you listen to this right now we don't. So their attorney is Mark Garagos. Mark Garagos is a very famous attorney. He also represented Scott Peterson in the Lacy Peterson case in his trial. He has now come forward to help them to get the charges, the conviction from premeditated first degree murder to manslaughter. If he's able to convince the judge of that, then the time would have been already time served. They've already been in there for 35 years. That would have satisfied that. Thus maybe they could get out by Christmas. That's the whole thing. But the judge has to look at it. And then they're supposed to. And then if he says yes, I think this is a compelling case, then they'll come back December 11th with Mark Garagos, and he's going to bring in six witnesses, many from the prison to show what an exemplary life they've led behind bars, helping people. They have college degrees from UC Irvine, all these things saying, you know, this is, this is why they should be let out, because they're not going to be a danger to society. And so that'll be very interesting to see. Our DA Garcon, who is now got voted out, he very much wants it. So I don't know if it's going to have take effect with the new guy, but that's what's happening. But the juice is about Lyle Menendez's love life. So for those of you that I've talked about this many times, I will quickly remind you of the story of Lyle Menendez. He is the older brother of Eric. Eric has been married to his wife for like 20 something years, 25 years or something. Her name's Tammy. Tammy has a daughter from a previous relationship, a previous marriage, and that guy is no longer alive. And then in that she connected with Eric. And so her daughter only knows Eric as her father, they move close to the prison and they visit him all the time. There is no conjugal visits for the level of convict that they are in California. So these people have never had sex, but it appears that in the photos and stuff, they can hug, they can take a photo, they can like talk and hang out. So he has his wife. His older brother Lyle is divorced. He was married to a girl named Anna Menendez. Anna Menendez was shocked when she found out after marrying him because she fell in love with him watching Court tv. This girl came from Chicago, was living with a struggling actor whom I met. And every day he came home from not getting an acting job, he'd see that she was watching Court tv. And then one day, Lyle men called from prison and said, put my girlfriend on the phone. And he's like, what? And I jokingly said, well, you know, he's on TV and you're not. So maybe that's why your girlfriend was so starstruck by being with Lyle. She marries him, finds out many years into it that he is seeing other women, meaning they're coming to visit him, he's corresponding with him, she found out he was cheating on him on her in that way. They get divorced. Then he meets this girl, Rebecca. Rebecca and Tammy have been working together, hoping that there's a chance that they could one day be with their husbands outside of prison. Now we're so close to this happening and Rebecca has filed, announced. Well, let me not file. She announced her separation from him because he has a new girlfriend. Lyle has new girlfriend. She's 21. He is like 55 or 6 or something. She's 21. From. She's British. Came over here. They have taken photos in the. In the prison like area. Here they are, she's a cute blonde and they're supposedly in love. But then Daily Mail and Radar Online are also reporting that he has another lover, a guy named Chino. Chino's been in the prison and they've been going on. They've had this going on for two years, allegedly. People in the prison say they're cuddle buddies, they sleep in the same bunk. And he, according to the people in the prison, Lyle is the woman per se, in the relationship. So I don't know how China feels about Rebecca or this British girl or what's going to happen to Chino if in fact Lyle gets out. But. And I wonder if any of this stupid news will make anyone feel less or more sympathetic to the plight of Lyle and Eric getting out. You know, being that He's a cheater. Being that. Does that mean he's really a liar? You know, did he ever lie or exaggerate about anything that went on that maybe caused him to kill the parents? But there we are. This was interesting. And I just heard about this. It popped up. But this Guy did a YouTube video. He said he was. His name is Choke. No joke. And he went to Jamie. According to him, he said, I went to Jamie Foxx's Stand up, which is going to be a Netflix special. And he said in the taping, they did, like, three tapings. And he said he was there. That Jamie Foxx said, I'm the one who called the FBI on Diddy because he poisoned me. And I guess a couple other people that have been in the audience have attested to this. Is this true? Is this a joke? Was it a throwaway, something? Is it gonna really make the special? Is the goal to have it get out, have us thinking, is this really gonna be it? Like, is this or was it never said, and it was. It's being put out there, so we make sure we watch it the moment it airs. Kind of like Chris Rock's Netflix special was done live. And that was the first and only time we had any video of him talking about when he was slapped by Will Smith. And I wonder if, you know, if he never practiced that in front of anybody. If I was going to drop a bomb like that on my special, I wouldn't be doing it, you know, a couple months before at the Irvine Improv for five times in front of thousands of people, I wouldn't be doing that. So is that true? We never really knew what happened with Jamie Foxx's health care or what, but he was recently in Atlanta, and he was also singing karaoke with Real Housewives. So who knows? The point is, he's healthy, he's doing good. He's got a Netflix special coming out. What he knows about Diddy, I don't know, but, I mean, that would be pretty juicy if, in fact he really is saying that. Joke or not. This model is saying that she was hired to work on a music video. And Kanye was very gross in the way he described her. He's like, she's Asian. He's like, I want that Asian girl right there. And then he was, like, sticking his fingers down her throat, and she was scared and violated. Now, this was, like, 10 years ago, but that's one lawsuit. He's got the other lawsuit from the previous assistant. We've gone through that one who said that she was privy to all these weird texts from him that he would send to her about Bianca and wanting to follow Bianca and wanting to follow Kim Kardashian and. And then tormenting her, saying, like, oh, I actually drugged you this one night. We got together all these things. So there's all these different lawsuits now against Kanye as well. I don't know if he'll be at Kardashian Christmas. I don't know if Scott will be there either. I won't be there. You know, I got the boot. Okay. Anyway. Because I talk about stuff like this. Who cares? The juicy scoopers are worth it. You deserve all the juice. Which is sometimes when people. When I put out juice, whether it's here on Patreon, people will be like, I don't know why she did this. I don't know. Given the opportunity, don't you want to hear the juice? Aren't I doing my job? Okay. This is very sad. So Liam Payne was buried. He had his funeral. But there's really more to this story, and according to TMZ and their investigators, they believe this is what happened. So, yes, Liam Payne was probably most likely, you know, on drugs. We know he was on drugs. We know he was on alcohol. And according to witnesses, he was acting erratically in the lobby of this hotel. Three men that worked at the hotel were probably instructed to remove him and put him in his room, and they did that. And when they put him in his room, they allegedly locked him in there so he couldn't get out. And then. And then even one person then called the police and said, we're worried about this guy. He's in his room, and there's a balcony there, and we're worried about him when he was found. So then we. We know that he jumped off his balcony. At first, people thought it was suicide. Other people thought it could have been, like, a psychotic break brought on by maybe some type of hallucination, drugs or something. But now people believe that was never his intention to end his life, and that he was somewhat coherent because when he was found, he had a backpack on with items. And also there was another bag found on the balcony right below him that had whiskey and some pills. And it actually said for Liam. So the thought is, was he attempting to jump down to the next balcony, get that, get out. Because according to his friends, he has, like, a real issue with being trapped in a room. It happened on tour at One Direction, and he felt very, you know, he just doesn't like that confinement. It also happened somewhere else where he actually did Successfully manage to go down and escape a room and get out by going outside the building or on a. You know, on a balcony. So now they're wondering, that may have not so been his intention at all, but whose fault is it? Is it the three guys that were just the workers that were told, this guy's freaking out. Get him in his room until we can get authorities here. Is it the person that sold him the drugs? Is it know the people he was hanging out with the night before? It sounds like it was just a lot of horrible series of events, but it definitely doesn't to me sound like it really was like a suicide or anything like that. Very sad. This is very sad too, and very bizarre. Juicy crime here. This girl was traveling from Hawaii and she stopped in LA and she had a. A quick layover and she's supposed to get on her plane to go to New York to visit her aunt. She never made the flight. Her name's Hannah. This was a few weeks ago in November. She never made the flight to. Never got on the plane to the. Never used her LA ticket. For the first couple days that she was missing, people in her life received very weird text messages that didn't really seem like her. But she said, I think someone's trying to take my identity. Weird stuff is happening, things like that. And she has not been found. So her dad came out from Hawaii and they were really. They claim that they feel like the LAPD has not been giving this enough attention. They don't know if she was trafficked, kidnapped or what, but you know, with the weird. Or did was someone. Someone have her phone and writing weird text messages and why. It doesn't really sound like it was in her voice or was it in fact her? We don't know. We don't know where she is very sadly. Her dad came out here and they say they believe he also has ended his life by jumping out of a parking structure at lax. And I don't know enough details, but that seems very weird. I wonder, is there surveillance camera showing that he willingly did this, or was he maybe followed? Did he finally find out something about her? Anyway, her name is Hannah and we don't know where she is. Very sad. Guys, it's that time. It's holiday shopping. We've got so much to do, so many things to buy. 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Okay, they can do that. They can get divorced and they can do soft swinging or maybe it's not full penetration, but they have fun with each other. And they were doing videos as cute 20 something young moms. And then they started to swing and Taylor was. Was it because she was the one that went and did a TikTok and said, all right you guys, I guess it's out there. And it really wasn't out there. It was probably just on some of these smaller subgroups of gossip, you know, and she felt I better just address it on TikTok because I feel like if she never had, well, we wouldn't have a show to watch. That's for sure because that's what sparked the show. And she comes out and said, yeah, and explains the whole story. She since has done many interviews of how it went about. But she was hanging out, you know, with this girl and this girl Sammy Sam's life. She broke down the latest thing. So then the show starts. Mormon Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. I'm like, okay, I'm watching it going, which one of these girls was a swinger too, whose husband did this Taylor, like make out with or go to third or fourth basis? I don't know. None of them did. They were sort of cast the real players in it that also messed around. They weren't in it. They either didn't want to be in it or whatever. Well, now that one of the girls has come out and she's done a five part series on TikTok and she basically, you know, is telling her side of the story. So then Taylor pops back in and shares that, that this girl, her name's Kenna, who was part of this swinging. And what Taylor has said is the way the tail, the soft swinging started, it really started soft. First they actually had some cocktails, okay, so they would get a little drunk. Then they would start spinning the bottle. Starting with just girls kissing each other. So the husbands would sit back and be like, you guys kiss. Then they'd be like, why don't you guys kiss in lingerie? Then they'd be like, why don't we all like make out on the bed together with our respective spouses? Then why don't we swap spouses and just like dry hump in like chairs, staring at each other. Then a couple of the guys got caught feelings for Taylor and was like, I want to see you more. I'm, you know, and writing you. So anyway, this girl. So Taylor shares a text from this girl Kenna saying, hope you're having fun in Moab. I'm drunk and wish I was kissing you. And then Taylor also shows a video of her dancing. Now her body's perfect. She had her third kid or whatever and her body's perfect again and she's like doing her butt lift and then she has a video of them kissing. So I am like, wow, this show has already gotten a green light. How happy are those producers? So it's already going to come to a second season. Is this girl who's probably divorced as well trying to hop on this? Like, why is she coming out with this now? She probably wants to be on the show and realizing, like, I could be a lot more interesting than These non swinging Mormons also, I guess, I guess Taylor was doing something at the CMAs and she posted this whole thing you get when you go to the CMAs and none of your mom talk, friends congratulate you. And then all the other girls started sending and posting the times that they did text her and say, oh I, you look great, you're doing great. And they're like, oh, I guess unless I only congratulate her online publicly, it doesn't count. So listen, welcome to reality TV, you swinging Mormons who killed JonBenet Ramsay? This is a new doc, a three part doc. It airs today. Well, yeah, it will have already. You can already watch it because it'll have aired Monday, November 25th. And you know, we all have people that are home or around and if you are a family that likes to watch documentaries about murder as I do, it's real fun when you have someone like my sons and daughters who may not know the story. Like I know it. Like one of my frustrations with all these docs is I'm like, God, can someone just do a doc on something? I don't have complete, you know, extension extended knowledge of like back I've watched everything I when it was happening with JonBenet, I did it to remind you. This is this little girl who came from a wealthy family. She had a brother, I think she had older step siblings as well. But her mom and dad were married and she had a brother and who was a few years older than she. And she was six and she was in pageants. This is before toddlers and tiaras got going. This was people were just starting doing pageants. I found it fascinating. I had nieces and nephews that did the pageants and it was an interesting vibe of like how much it cost and do all this stuff. She so when she passed, which was horrible, so she was murdered on Christmas Day, the family found her and there's a lot to it. They originally thought the parents had something to do with it. There was a long ransom note that they found that was like three pages long. And in the investigations that I Remember seeing on 2020 and Dateline and all these different docs, the handwriting experts believe that it was way too similar to the mother. The mother has since passed of cancer. They always claim they were totally innocent in it and that somebody must have broken into the home, kidnapped their daughter in the middle of night, assaulted her and then they found her in their basement within that day of not waking up that morning, Christmas morning, she's not in her bed. They didn't know where she was. They found her that day. There was another documentary that was done a few years ago and I actually interviewed the people that did it. They had to do a cease and desist. They couldn't talk about it. There was some big lawsuit that came from the Ramses because they believed that the boy. They concluded These like forensic FBI specialists that go deep into the JonBenet murder, they believe that the son killed her like a nine year old. They believed that she. That he must have gotten frustrated with her because there were times when he got frustrated with. Before there was witnesses that say he hit her head with a golf club, that he was kind of a violent kid, he was annoyed by his sister. And they believe that maybe she was eating his food or something because there was pineapple found in her, in her stomach. And that's what pissed him off. And he did something that was a fatal blow. And then the parents, or at least the mother covered it up with the ransom note. And in that situation also, because the morning that they came, because she didn't know where her daughter was on Christmas morning, she was wearing her same clothes from the Christmas Eve the night before. She said, I just threw on my clothes. That was the first thing I put on. But it was like a fancy outfit. She wasn't in her pajamas. Was she up all night to cover this up? Would she. Would you protect one child that didn't mean to harm your other? So that was a big discussion. But the son, who's now grown, they filed some lawsuit or something saying this is not true. I can't believe this is out there. There's no proof to it whatever. So now this other documentary, which is three parts, is really going down the road of the police didn't do their job that, you know, the mom and dad were never responsible. And why aren't they looking at all these other weird people that were suspects all these years? And you know, but I've already seen on online and stuff people already seeing, reminding us of all the discrepancies. And now what the dad is saying in this documentary versus what he has said in numerous interviews before, like the day of the that they found her within an hour. They called their private pilot to fly to their house in Atlanta. And people thought that seemed bad, like they're trying to escape somehow criminal charges. They always said no. They told us to get out of the house so they could really investigate it. And we had a home there and we have family there and we have access to our private plane. So that's why we were going. But then in this doc I see that he's saying something a little different. So I'm going to watch it and it'll be kind of interesting to watch it through eyes that don't really know anything about this crime the way I do. So this weekend was Bravo Fan Fest in Miami. It was kind of like a mini bravocon. Not that much scoop came from it. I saw some clips and I know I don't believe it was sold out. The prices were high. We looked into it. I was curious and I think for just a one day ticket where you're just like in a theater, hearing panels, it was 450. For a little some type of other experience VIP where maybe you'd have a chance of getting a photo if you wanted to wait in line with 750. Thought that was really high. But you know, we'll see. The stars were mostly Real Housewives of Miami and Summer House. And then they announced just a couple weeks ago that they were adding like Kyle Richards. But there were not any real houses of Beverly Hills. There were no OGs of Real Housewives of New York. But Andy got asked a question and he said, I have made up with Carol Radzwell from Real Housewives of New York. I love Carol. She's been on Juicy Scoop many times. My favorite, one of my favorite moments ever though sad for her because I feel like that's what got her not to come back, got fired is when, you know, she was being so gaslit by Bethany the whole season. She didn't understand what Bethany's issue was. And then she looks at Annie and she goes, what Annie? Are you scared of Bethany too? And he's like, oh yeah, I'm scared of Bethany. And it was like, anyway, they haven't talked in years. But according to Andy, they've made up and they're good. Also, he said he's made up with Nene. Makes me think that he's realizing that these people that were such dynamic stars of the past are really what the fans are craving. The new Real Housewives of New York is just not getting a lot of buzz. People aren't into it. I find it quite boring. I think I already predicted that Jessel's husband is going to be the next house husband pursuing standup comedy. I hate that these predictions come true. But get ready because they did such a cringy thing. They did a. Their whole storyline is should we go and get our embryo and have that girl? And he's like, I don't want another Kid. We have twin boys. And she's like, well, I do. So they do a zoom with this therapist from Mexico, which I'm like, you're in New York City and we're not in Covid. I can't believe that you can't find a marriage therapist in New York that would really. This is a common problem for people of a certain economic state where it's like, this isn't about money really. It's about. And we have. We can decide when to put it in and everything, because we're in the IVF world. Meanwhile, he decides because the guy's Mexican, he's going to eat chips and salsa during the therapy session. And she's like. And she's like. I mean, with him, it's just. It never stops. It's like if you're married to Kevin Hart or Dave Chappelle. No, it's not. We're watching the show. In fact, not many of us are watching the show because it's so fucking boring. And you're not that funny. He's trying to be a food influencer and trying and thinks this is going to be a step to standup comey. I don't blame him. He all of a sudden, cameras are. Are following him around. He's on a major TV show and he's like, wow, I just st. You know, skipped a hundred steps. I could, like, go on tour with Dave Chappelle. I could open for Dave Chappelle, and this is what happens. These people are delusional. So then I started going back and watching the original Roni, and it is just the best. You can see it on Peacock. It's so good. It does piss me off that when every time I go on my peacock to watch more, I have to click on the new Rony just to get to the old Rony of like, Luann, Jill zarin, Bethany, Alex McCord. Oh, my God. It's so good. Because they're not famous. They don't really know what's going on. They're just starting to get famous around episode about. Around the season three. And it's fascinating. I think more and more they're realizing that, you know what, these people were interesting to watch. Even though we let some people get in our ear that complained that, oh, you know what, they're, you know, politically incorrect and they're too old and they're getting sloppy. It was magic. It just was. I don't know. So hopefully we can see the return of Nene. If Carol ever wanted to come back, I think that would Be fantastic. Maybe they'll create something different. I always like going on the ultimate girls trip. We'll never see the Moroccan trip, but we could do another one. We could do another one. And so anyway. But there was very little scoop that came out of the The Miami mini BravoCon thing from. From Miami. Julia and her wife, Martina Navatorola. I say her name wrong. The tennis player. They did adopt twin boys. I don't know how old they are. Alexia wants to get back with her husband Todd. He hates doing the show and that's why they're separated. But she still loves him and is desperate to get back with him. Lenny and Lisa's divorce is final. We know that Dr. Nicole has left and that they hired her husband's ex girlfriend. She's the new housewife. Probably why she left because they're really rich and they don't need it and she just had another baby. But also really, like I said, what are they going to do? Bring on Leslie Bedor on OC for Shannon next season. Don't be surprised if it happens. Real Houses of Salt Lake City. Annie did say you're going to see one of the toughest moments you've ever seen on a housewife show. I believe it's Mary struggling with her son's addiction, which is very sad. No mother should have to go through that. And brave to put it on camera. And let's hope he's doing better. Also today it was one of the other sites, I think it's omg. Bravo has shared that allegedly on some other site that Mary's house might be in foreclosure. We don't see the step grandfather, her husband. She no longer has the church because she can't. I mean, we know the scoop behind it. Well, who's going to go give her money for outfits for her to be on Housewives anymore? And we know that Housewives doesn't pay that much. So maybe she does have to leave that house. Maybe she it's in foreclosure because she's not paying. Just like PK's not paying. So also Bronwyn, who is married to the older gentleman, Todd, she did an interview and at one point she let it slip like everyone thinks I'm, you know, a sugar baby, but that's not it. Even though we're 25 years apart or whatever they are. She met him when he was 54 and she was 27. You do the math. She's like, you know, that's not what I'm about. You know, we really have A lot in common and we just. I just find him fascinating with his coffee cups and you never know. I just. I'm season 17. It might be me who has a sugar baby. Well, that would mean that you'd have to divorce Todd. So how strong is your marriage that you're already looking forward to a time of being divorced and you know, finding a young guy? I truly believe she loves this life so much and I don't blame her. I'm not going back to Alaska. She's not going back to her other life of just buying weird clothes and, you know, only the people at the restaurant can enjoy them. She loves it. She always saw knew that she was for bigger and better things. She will go to anything they ask her to go to. Salt Lake Real House of Salt Lake ice cream opening in New York. Here or there. She's having a blast. She's very interesting to watch. Their dynamic is juicy and so that's doing pretty well. Of course, O.C. we saw the finale of it and at the very end they picked up cameras and they had a meeting with just Heather Dubrow, Gina, Tamara, Shannon Bedor and Emily. Fab Force 5 or whatever that was from Beverly Hills. That's what it reminded me of. No Alexis was there. No. And no Katie and Jen. So I think, well, we know those five are definitely coming back. I think Shannon and Tamara probably hate each other but are smart enough to know that we're not giving up this million dollar paycheck and we need to make this work and put it aside to stay on the show and keep it going. But we don't know who if they're looking at anybody else seriously and if they'll bring anyone back. So Alexis and John are still together. Every day people are saying they're broken up. They were just at like a wedding together and they're. They have a wedding date planned for the fall. So that would be pretty interesting if they kept them around and we could see it. But who knows? But it was a very interesting season. We know that Real House as of Beverly Hills is getting, you know, juicy or we've only seen one episode but I did come across Morgan Wade and she wrote a song and it's one of her new songs. And you know what? She was on my TikTok and it was. At least this one did not have a lot of views or anything. But she did sound great and was real raw and she's like, I just wrote this song and it was about from first person trying to get pregnant. Being so disappointed when you Go to the CVS and you take the test and it's negative. And you dream of pitter patter feet on the wood floors. It was really a good song and it made me wonder, you know, sometimes in my comments, people say, wait, did she ever come out? Because she had a husband before. Morgan Wade was on a local TV station saying, my husband's in the band. And here we go. You know, Kyle has never admitted that they were anything but friends. And now she's no longer part of the show. Kyle has promised her, I won't say your name on the show. Even though Garcelle is like, I think we know it's Morgan Wade. She's been on the show. She was in multiple scenes. You did a. A video together where you practically kissed, but they didn't kiss. And so what is the deal? And I think it's. 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And as a parent I just remember I got invited to a one year old birthday party for Drake and it was our weekend with McKinsey. MacKenzie is my stepdaughter and they're three years apart and she was going to be with me that day and Peter had to do something. He was not, he was working or something. It was So I was. I was like, okay, great. It was like at the beach or something. And I'm like, okay, Mackenzie and I and Drake will be there. And this girl wrote me back or it got a mutual friend let me know. No, no siblings are allowed. It's only for one year olds. And I was just kind of like, okay, I see that you didn't want a bunch of other kids running around and being disruptive and you wanted like all the one year olds to sit at a little one year old table. But I'm like, I only see my daughter, you know, two weekends a month, and I am not going to leave her, like with my mom or something, which would have been fine, but. And then first of all, I want the time with her. But then also I'm like, I'm not going to leave her and then have her like, somehow figure it out that I took Drake to a birthday. Like, that would be so hurtful, especially to a stepchild. So I remember I reached out and I was like, I totally get it. It's your party. You have an aesthetic you want with just people of a certain height that are little, I don't know, but I'm not. I just can't attend. But I get it. It's your party. And then she did reach out and she was like, okay, you can come. I think is what happened because I do remember being there, but very. So now I'm going to. Oh, speaking of, this is what happens. You have multiple children or when you have multiple wives. This just popped up. I'm a little behind in my Sister wives, but Cody has said in the last episode, he breaks down weeping after telling Mary that she. That she is his favorite ex wife. And the comments are hilarious because he always, while they were all married, she was his least favorite wife because he was just not into her at all. They never hung out, they never boned. She was catfished. Thought she was talking to a guy that was going to whisk her away from this guy. That was an intro. Turned out it was a woman that was all embarrassing. He just never wanted to hang out with her. Covid was the perfect excuse. She finally is like, we're done. He even has said, don't be mad that I didn't love you. Be mad at yourself that I didn't love you. Or something like that. Like the rudest comment. She was the first wife. So it really makes no sense that he'd be like, you know, I was never in love with you to start. I think that's all his excuses of like, oh, I was called to live this life, and this life didn't work out for me, and I was trying to be this good soldier of the scripture that says I should have multiple wives. So I just picked out three of you, and I wasn't into any of you until Robin came along. Anyway. Now he is no longer with Christine or with Janelle, but he said, mary, you're my favorite. Yeah, I think that's totally true. I think people can. He's like, yeah, you're the easiest ex wife. Like, you're. You don't really say a lot of mean things. You weren't difficult. You're not in love with someone else. Like Christine shoving him in the faces of the viewers. You're my favorite ex wife, and I just think that's hilarious. Lizzo is thin, you guys, for my juicy scoopers, please find the episode where I predicted that Lizzo would get thin. It's probably around two years, right when Ozempic was, you know, on the market, where people were doing it, but if you did it, they would come out with pitchforks and come after you. How dare you take Oz epic from a diabetic, you skinny bitch. You don't need it. My uncle can't get it. He had to wait in line around the corner, limping. Okay, well, now we know that you can get it. It is still expensive, but there's a lot of other places you can get it, which is the semi glutide, whatever knockoff of Ozempic. The shots you take once a week. Jim Gaffigan has a special out. He's a very funny comedian called Skinny. He's thin. He always struggled with his white weight. He had a lot of funny jokes about being a dad of six kids and eating crap food. He's a clean comic, but he's brutally honest about why he's thin. And he says it's Ozempic, basically. And I don't think Lizzo has come out with it. Of course, we know it. But again, if she doesn't want to, she doesn't want to. But she wants to be thin. And to some people that really followed her body positivity thing and were, like, mad that she was a bigger girl and happy and talented. And then they were mad that she was mean to her dancers who filed a lawsuit where she took them to, like, you know, sex shows in Amsterdam after performing, and she wanted them to be a certain weight. She didn't want them losing weight or she wanted them to be thinner or fatter as her dancer, whatever. It is. She is thin and showing off those photos and loving it, and how she got there is her issue, you know, and. And her deal. And you can like her music because she was once heavy and now she's thin. Or you can like her music because you like that she was mean to her dancers, or you don't believe that she was mean to her dancers. Who cares? Let's just see if she brings out some new music. But it would be really interesting if she also called her new song Skinny and stole that from Jim Gaffigan. Well, Thanksgiving is around the corner, obviously, and Megan Markle has released a statement. It's. This is kind of a isn't. Basically, people are talking a lot about Meghan Markle and Harry not doing a lot together, but they also bought this house in Portugal. I don't know. I just think the interest overall is like, who really cares? Are they doing things separately? Yeah, they are. They've been married now, like, six years, you know, so he didn't go to the ladies luncheon that benefited women from Afghanistan. Okay. You know, let me tell you something. My husband doesn't come to everything with me either. He didn't go to the Vanderpump Dog Ball with me, but he did go to the American TV Reality Awards with me. You know, it doesn't come to everything. Some things. I ruined my sister, too, sometimes. He doesn't attend. Doesn't matter now. He's not the prince, but still, so. But people also seem to think that they're going to separate. Separate creatively. Well, they should. Neither of them have any business doing podcasts or creating TV shows because none of them have worked except for their documentary where they ripped on the royals. So there you go. This, I thought, was really funny. This is a viral TikTok going. And this girl wrote, my brother started making PowerPoint presentations with every movie we watched because he got tired of my mom asking so many questions. Hilarious. So they're watching a movie, and then above it, he has what he anticipates his mom to be would ask. And it was an older movie with Brad Pitt. So he wrote, yes, that is Brad Pitt. He's currently 60 years old. He was 41 when this movie was made. Angelina Jolie divorced him in 2016, and he has six kids. He also divorced Jennifer Aniston in 2010 or whatever it was. And I just think that is so hilarious. And I think when you're spending time with your family, whether you're, you know, whether you're this mom or this kid, this was Just hilarious and very relatable. Okay, so now I'm going to get into some stuff that was on my Facebook group called Juicy Scoop Obsessed. A lot of people have asked, will you do an advice column or just occasionally give advice? So I thought this is a great time. And coincidentally, a lot of the questions, it was only up for a few hours. So I'm sure there'll be more, maybe I'll do more. In the weeks to come were about holidays and what to do with family. I'm going to read some of them, but one was my sister in law always insists on hosting, but her food sucks and everybody hates it. What do I do? Well, you know, and a lot of things about what do I do? Going to my boyfriend or my husband's house. It's so many more people. It's such a bigger deal. It's a lot for me to take so many people around. What. Here's the thing. You know, if you're gonna be with someone, then you should spend at least one holiday with their family. So it's Thanksgiving and Christmas. You do one at yours and one at his. I think that's fair. And you know what, suck it up. It's, it's. If you're a guest, eat before whatever or do what I do. When it first started, I felt that there were not enough sides at my, at Peter's family's Thanksgiving, I was like, the turkey was good, but there literally was, it was like turkey and sauerkraut. And I was like, that's it. Like, where's the sides? So then the first few years I never hosted, but I started to bring more and more and more sides to when I wasn't hosting and then when, and now that I'm hosting all these people for the first year ever, you guys, I actually am getting a caterer. And I always said one day I'd be in a position to just get a caterer and have it be lovely. And I'm just telling people, just bring a dessert and a bottle of wine. That's it. You don't have to bring an appetizer. You don't have to do anything. And we're, you know, but that, but I, that's because for 20 years I have hosted. Well, I've probably hosted 10 or 10 or 11 times. I've probably hosted because we do it every other year. And if you don't want to come, that's fine. But if I agree to do it, I'm going to do it my best. I'm going to do it what makes it fun for all of us and be great. But I think for your sister in law, you should just say you do so much. Why don't you just do like the turkey and let me do something else. Or you can offer. You could say, could I please host one year? Okay, so here's this other one. This is coming from Kim. Okay. I'm Gen X, married, four kids. My in laws never accepted me. My father in law passed away a year and a half ago and my mother in law is hanging onto the bit. I don't know what that means. And I'm the villain in every scenario. Literally cannot win with her push. Presents were never a thing in our generation. No, wasn't. I never got anything and I pushed out two babies. The present was the baby, okay? And so now I have to deal with her disrespect in my home on a holiday. And then she said, so then she goes, I'm picking cute gifts, unwilling to tell your mom to stop. I think she just feels she's got a real issue with her mother in law. And I just have to say I don't know what it's like to have an unpleasant mother in law because I really do have a great one. You know, there was only one time that there was an issue and it was when I had to miss Thanksgiving to go to Australia when I worked on Chelsea lately. We were not going to be there for Thanksgiving and technically it was our year to have it. And I said, I don't want you having Thanksgiving at my house without me. And I'm like, I just don't want my kids to remember a Thanksgiving. Like, where's mommy? Oh, she's working. You know, I just didn't want that. I go, can we just all do it next year? Just either everyone have their own small one or go to the other cousin's house. And that was probably the only time I like really felt like I had to like assert what I wanted for my family. Otherwise, very accommodating. And that was just something because I felt so bad about missing it. I was so sad. And you guys know I'm sensitive about being a working mom and I always was. So that was probably about it. But for you who has trouble with your mother in law, I think you just have to accept that, you know, on occasion you just kiss some ass and just be pleasant. It's not worth it. And they're not going to be there forever. And they probably only have a few Thanksgivings left and they want to be with their child and you know, so just do it your way and just be firm and be like, no, this is what we're serving. This is what we're having. We are doing a gift exchange. We are doing it, and you can participate or not, and we'd love to see you. And, like, just be real. The minute you start being, like, firm like that, then maybe there'll be a bigger reaction that's positive. Okay. I have a friend who's extremely needy. When she needs help or is having a crisis in life, I'm normally the first one she will call, text in situations when she needs help or guidance. For example, her child was sick, I got medication, saw her many times, picked it up for her, dropped them off. The same friend, though, was not there when I needed her. I was going through a particularly hard time, and she pretty much is non existence. When my son was pretty sick and we needed surgery, she acted like I was making a big deal out of it. That would be really annoying. Also, she's always going out with other groups of friends and we'll find a babysitter for those nights. But when she goes out with me, she just brings the daughter. Okay, girl, this is Chelsea. Listen, this friend doesn't really care that much about you. She has you in a category where she. Speaking of classic Real Housewives of New York, when. When Kelly Bessamone says, I'm up here, Bethany, and you're down here, she sees her as more important, entitled, and you're lucky for her presence. And therefore, when she goes with her other friends, she sees them in a different light where she's like, oh, I don't want to bring the kid. I really want to party, but I'll see my friend who I like, but I'm going to bring my kid. I'm not going to pay for a sitter, and I'm not going to miss out on time with my kid because it's just this girl Chelsea. It's just Chelsea, whatever. But it's really important that you recognize this. And this is what you need to do. You need to pull back and really kind of notice now. When's the next time she reaches out to you? What is it for? Is she inviting you to something? Is she asking you how you are? Or is she just needing your help with something? Can you know? Or is she just bitching and complaining? Kind of keep a little, like, log of it and to kind of figure out if this friendship is really worth your effort anymore or if you do pull back, maybe she'll. Maybe she will, you know, Maybe that's changed the dynamic and maybe she will really you'll realize, no, she really does care about me. That's just her and she is there and she is a good time and maybe it's in balance, but I'm down for it. But you really need to kind of test it out because one thing this year has taught me is that I definitely had a different perspective of friendships and they weren't. To them it was a transactional thing. They didn't really care about me. And sometimes it takes things to crack it open and for you to see it clearly, as hurtful as that might be. So good luck with that. Okay. I'm the same age as you and I want to start traveling. My husband is not keen. I'm thinking of buying a camper van bus and heading off on my own for six months. What would you do? Well, I never want to be in a camper van bus because I'm just don't know how to do anything and that would be terrifying. And that's not something I really think is a great idea to do by myself. I do understand a lot of women, once their kids are grown and they're of a certain age, want to travel. And the crotchal man doesn't really want to do not not travel. Cuz the crotch deal man. There are so many groups, and I've talked to travel agents too that say I have so many groups of happily married women, but the husband just doesn't care to do the same type of stuff. They don't want to go to Europe, they, they're happy on the golf course, sitting in their lounger, whatever. They've worked their whole life, it's not what they want to do. So I think that's what you need to do is have the conversation of like, well, these are the things I want to do. What would you like to join me on? Maybe it's one thing, maybe it's a shorter like vacation and then the bigger thing, you go find some other women. I wouldn't go alone, find some other women, find some other plans and just say I'm doing it, I'm not going to not do it because you don't want to join me. That's just lame. There are so many ways, especially in this digital age, to find like minded people that want to do something you want to do. So 100% go do that. But also don't be resentful of your husband. You know, if he brings up something that you don't want to do either, then you need to speak up and go, that's not really what I. It's not really how I want to spend my time or my money. It's, I'm not into it or, okay, I'll do one of your trips and you do one of mine. But we have to be delights to each other. But if you know your spouse well, sometimes you're like, if he doesn't get his way, he's not going to be delight. He's going to be full blown crotchety old man. Okay? And I don't want to put up with that. So you really have to, like, evaluate it. And, you know, it's no reason. You don't need to break up. You don't need to get divorced. You made it this long. Doing things separately is. Okay, okay, this was kind of a long one, so I'm going to summarize it. But this girl said, Erica, she said, I had a seizure at work and this other girl didn't even care and kind of mocked it. And then she said, this girl, she goes, this co worker pretends to be a sugar baby, but has nothing to show for it. She's 30 and lives with her parents. And in my mind, she's a Splenda baby. Fake sugar. Shortly after my seizure, she had a minor fender bender. And I remarked that while most people slow down to look at accidents, most people wouldn't want to see a co worker seize on the floor. Well, that was kind of snarky too. Here's the thing. There's a lot of co worker questions in this. A lot of women that work together hate each other. They do, they do. And I think it's interesting, would be an interesting dynamic to study. Like some of these questions. I got. It seems like women are annoyed by co workers that either don't work as hard as they do, other women that don't work as hard as they do, and ones that seem to get away with something, this girl seems to get away with stuff, get away with sympathy. She clearly doesn't like her. And the boss sort of favors her or coddles her. My advice is you do not go to the boss and complain that this girl is getting away with more than you Think about your kids. Is there anything more annoying than when a child, when one of your kids is like, but Tommy didn't do it and I did it. It's like, that's not what you want. What you need to do is if you're in that situation and you like the job, you just need to go, I like the job. I Don't like this girl. Eventually they'll figure it out. Or if you feel like you're doing more than you should, don't go above and beyond. Do what the job requires and do it well. Take advantage of your paid time off. You know, a lot of people that are really dedicated, a lot of women are like this. They're like, oh my God, I never took my vacation time because there was a project coming and I knew that they needed me. No, take all this, all the things that you're entitled to. Just follow the rules. Make sure you put the request in far in advance. If you haven't used all your six days, guess what? You're sick. Find a day and be sick. Lie about it. Get your sick days in and, and just don't post. Don't go to Starbucks. Don't be like, I got my star. I remember that. What happened, Remember that happened at Chelsea lately? A couple people, this person called in sick and literally tweeted about the hot barista that served him a, you know, a latte. And we're like, really? You're supposed to be sick. Well, I was just getting hot tea for my cold. Shut up. So if you're going to call in sick, like, just stay home, stay off your phone, watch some movies and pretend to be sick. Take advantage of all those things because these other co workers are doing it. And that's why you're being resentful, because you are a better employee than they and you feel like you are not getting the respect you deserve. But guess what? You can't demand the respect. You just have to do your best and try that it not bother you. My kid is growing up with a friend, with a friend's kid. But this kid is so dang selfish, he sucks the air out of the room. Do I, Do I let them still be friends? Then another person jumped on it. Jen. She said, my very good friend has a daughter the same age as mine. We live in the same town. They are six. Her daughter is not a good influence on mine. They get into trouble, act crazy, wild, etc. I don't know how to keep saying, keep saying no to playdates and plans and request that they not be in the same bunk without offending her. I guess she means bunk like going to camp. Well, I was reading this with Drake and he's like, how much trouble are two six year olds getting into? I think you know what? Your friend, your daughter has a friend. You shouldn't stop that friendship. The only thing I would maybe suggest is getting them involved in an activity that that girl is not involved in, and they'll eventually kind of grow apart. And. But then if they see each other on occasion or you want to get together with your friend, it's fine. But if you really feel like a child is just not your kid's vibe, or you feel like they act sassy or they're doing the wrong thing, get them involved in something. Will meet other kids, like, get in. Get into gymnastics or karate or whatever that that kid is not involved in. You'll make other friends, and they'll, like, kind of forget about it. I was the kid that people thought was a bad influence. And that is because I was the youngest of five and I was just being raised by wolves. I don't know. I was able to watch whatever TV I wanted. And I was at this girl's house, first time to be invited over for a sleepover. That's when people did sleepovers. Now everyone's like, never do a sleepover. But anyway, so I was at a sleepover, which I understand why people don't do it, but I was. And this girl had, like, very straight, kind of cool, like, kind of very straight hair. And we were playing with barrettes, and she put her hair up in a barrette, and I'm like, that looks good. And she goes, oh, my mom doesn't like me wearing barrettes. She says it looks cheap. And then the mom came in, and I go, what do you mean it looks cheap? She goes, oh, with her thick, straight hair. I just feel like it doesn't blend in nicely. Like, you know, when she puts her hair in a barrette? And I go, oh, I thought you meant cheap like a hooker. I was eight. I said this, and I knew then that that was not the right thing to say because the mom's eyes, like, fell out of her head. And she's like, wow, your mother sure shares a lot of things with you that we don't find appropriate. Something like that. And then I doubled down and I was like, have you not seen Don the Teenage Hooker? Or whatever it was. It starred Eve Plumb, and it was after the Brady Bunch had ended. She played Jan and Braid Bunch, and she was a teenage hooker. And she wore, like, a tan outfit, like a leather miniskirt, like a Pocahontas kind of an outfit, and was walking up and down the streets of Hollywood Boulevard. I just loved the outfit, and I just thought it was just a fascinating show. And I knew what a hooker was, and I knew that they sometimes would charge certain things for just a BJ and other things for the whole nine yards. I was eight. I knew all of this. But then Drake also said, yeah, but there's a lot of kids that are, like, watching people tick tock and they're like, you know, nine years old and they have access to tick tock and they're watching people, you know, twerking and things like that. But whatever, you know, I was never asked back. I was never asked back to that girl's house. That mother probably told other people, stay away from that girl. Like, you know, because I never had a curfew and I could watch whatever TV I wanted. And it made me a little weird. But in the end, look at me now. Doing pretty good. But that was odd. And so I said to Drake, did you. And I guess Drake was seen as Drake. You said you were seen as. Some people thought you were sort of a bad influence. But it wasn't because of what I did. Right. It was just that you guys were just getting in trouble. Yeah. I don't know. I don't know. I hope it wasn't what I did, but we didn't get invited to a lot of things, so maybe it was. Whatever. We're fine. Okay. I found out recently that all the women in my husband's family went to Nashville to celebrate my niece's 21st birthday, and I was the only one not invited. What would Heather do? Well, this is a bummer and this is hurtful, but fuck him. You were not overlooked. Whoever put it together chose not to invite you. And you know what? Eagles don't fly with pigeons. As Dorinda would say, you know, eagles don't fly with pigeons. They don't. And you gotta think of yourself like that. Well, I wouldn't. You know what? It saved me money. Who knows what could have happened there? If, like I always said, if someone doesn't find me a delight, I don't need to be around you. As someone that has had a weird couple years, I. There's enough people in this world that do want to be around you. And if. And even though it's your family, so what? It is hard. It is hard for it not to bother you. I totally get it. I am not someone that just can put on the blinders and have shit not bother me. But I wouldn't make this a big deal with your husband. I wouldn't cause drama with the family. I would just be totally fine with it and probably you not caring. Maybe the next time there is something, they will invite you because you're just like, oh, all right, whatever. But it's a bummer. But, you know, there's a reason life's rejection is God's protection. Maybe something will happen in that Nashville trip that'll show its ugly head and you'll say, maybe it was best I wasn't invited, or something like that. But, you know, it's that whole let them theory. Let them. Let them do their thing without you. You're fine. The company where I work is going to close soon. My husband wants me to keep working, to look for a job, keep working, to look for a job from home in the same company. But I will receive a severance package. And frankly, I want to stop working for a while, not look for another job. He said it's okay, but he's not happy about it. I've been working in the company for almost 12 years. Is that okay? To stop working and relax for two to three months? I've never done that before, and I'm 50. Yes, it's okay. Yeah, it's okay, girl. You know what? Hopefully your husband's on a juicy scooper. Why don't you just pretend like you're looking for a job? Just be like, okay, that sounds like a great idea. I would, like, maybe let me look into it. And then when he asks, just say, I don't know, that they haven't gotten back to me or, well, the person that's in charge is going to be back in two weeks and just buy yourself some time, and in that time, enjoy yourself. I mean, hopefully you, you know, will be okay financially. And then maybe in that time, do some soul searching and maybe see something else that you'd rather do. And then you can present that to him and say, you know what? I don't want to do this anymore. I actually want to do this, and that's what I'm going to do. Too bad. You know, that's what's happening. I don't want to do this job anymore. It doesn't fulfill me. It doesn't make me happy. I've really enjoyed my time off, and I'm going to pursue this instead. But maybe in the meantime, you just say, okay, sure, I'll try to do that. Sometimes honesty is not always the best policy. Okay. Okay. I have a new co worker that was hired at the same salary as me. When my boss asked, should we hire her? I said, no. I've been training her for two months. She's so bad at her job. In addition, she's always got excuses and we. But we're both remote. Oh, how Annoying. And we can hear her on other meetings. We are certain she has another full time job. Heather, would you call her out on. On it or yourself or wait for the boss to handle it or quit the job. This is triggering my ptsd. Okay, I don't think that you should quit, but I think that you could drop subtle hints to the boss without being the tattletale. I think you could be say, oh, hey B, we were, we were doing the meeting the other day on the Zoom and it was just a little frustrating because Katie or whatever was like talking to somebody else about shipments. I don't know what was going on there. I don't know if she does like some other thing on the side or what. But anyway, what we need to do is this. And you just kind of drop it like that. Like drop the hints like you didn't even mean to. For him to then investigate. Does she have another job? That's what I would do. But it's not your job to tell and spell it out and look like Bitter Betty. And you got to be careful about that. Also, Lindsay Lohan got a major facelift and I think she did the burn victim skin thing that Tamara did because she has no freckles. She was on Watch Realms Live. She looks amazing. Face looks, looks amazing. And you know, it wasn't staying out of the sun because I remember one of the first jokes I wrote for Chelsea lately was Lindsay Lohan is aging in dog years because she looked and acted and sounded like she was 40 when she was like 24. So now she is about 40 and she looks amazing. She does not have one freckle on her face, which tells me like she got all that dead skin off and then probably did like a lower facelift too. But she looks great. And that's it. All right, you guys. So remember everybody, when you're hanging around on Friday, you want to watch the show which then you can stream after that is right here going to be on Roku, Pluto TV and Zuma Play. You want to join my patreon@heathermcdonald.net and you click on the patreon, which is patreon.com juicy scoop and that's it. And of course, if you want to buy tickets to my shows, I've got those shows in February, February 14th and in New York, February 15th in D.C. and February 16th in New Jersey, Red Bank, New Jersey. 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