Trisha's K-Pop Charts Take Over + Calling Out Worst Ex Ever... | Just Trish Ep. 279

Summary

Just Trish Podcast

Episode Summary: May 26, 2026

Host: Trisha Paytas
Guest Co-host: Kali (Trisha’s sister; Oscar Gracey scheduled for later in the week)
Air Date: May 26, 2026
Main Theme:
Unfiltered, hilariously raw conversations between Trisha Paytas and her sister Kali, covering everything from pop culture and reality TV to mental health, motherhood, and entertaining reflections on online trends. This episode balances playful banter, nostalgic fangirling, hard-hitting commentary on toxic masculinity and motherhood (especially reality TV’s “The Valley”), and heartfelt advocacy for mental health awareness.

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Episode Overview

Trisha returns from her (soon to be performed) UK show with a UK/British-themed episode opener, bantering about British culture and accents. The Pod dives into reflections on British icons, performances, family, pop culture news, and trending topics—leading up to scathing commentary on toxic men in reality TV ("The Valley"). The show closes with substantial reflection on postpartum struggles, advice for women, and a compassionate discussion of mental health, inspired by Martin Short’s personal tragedy.

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Key Segments & Highlights

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British Accents, Performances & UK Show Hype

[00:27-02:41]

• Trisha announces her Royal Albert Hall show, excitedly referencing British pop culture.
• They riff on doing British accents, referencing “Pirates of the Caribbean” and Keira Knightley.
• Trisha reveals her opening number will be from Sweeney Todd ("There's No Place Like London"), sharing a poignant story about how that film uplifted her post-hospitalization.
  • Quote:
    “I remember with Sweeney Todd, and I remember it gave me, like, will to live. I was just like, I want to be in this world.”
    (Trisha, 03:13)
• Kali reflects on how British movies (esp. Keira Knightley’s) shaped their childhood, focusing on body image influences.

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Alan Rickman Fangirling & Movie Nostalgia

[03:35-09:36]

• An intense Alan Rickman appreciation spiral ensues, with deep dives into their favorite Alan Rickman films:
  • Die Hard (Hans Gruber), Blow Dry, Dogma, Galaxy Quest, Harry Potter.
  • Playful impressions of Professor Snape.
  • Reminiscing about obsessive fan phases (collecting posters/soundtracks).
• Quote:
  “I have so much Alan posters.”
  (Trisha, 07:31)

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Family Health Updates & Bonding Over Food

[10:45-17:00]

• Kali updates on her dog Mucky’s kidney failure, discussing blood types and organ donation.
• Trisha reflects on health: “You’re over 30, you should probably know your blood type.”
• Detailed stories about outings to Boiling Crab and Benihana:
  • The fervor around “Trish Trio” at Benihana and fans’ devotion (people cosplaying Trisha at the restaurant).
  • Quote:
    “It’s so weird to see, like, humans… actual people going out… and dressing up and… taking pictures next to, like, my little Trish trio.”
    (Trisha, 16:00)

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Celebrity Gossip & Vegas Variety Prep

[18:00-19:30]

• Teasing the upcoming Trisha + Tana variety show in Vegas (“the more people the better vibe,” Trisha says).
• Contrasts extroverted party-travelers (Tana) vs. Trisha’s own introverted tendencies.
• Family invites and shout-outs.

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K-pop, TikTok Trends & Slime Hatred

[20:59-25:44 / 94:25-99:59]

• Trisha describes her StockX “glitter dumpling” mishap—unexpectedly sticky and small.
• Slime opinions: Kali as a self-declared “slime hater;” Malibu prefers kinetic sand.
• Their children’s obsession with slime.
• Discusses the viral success of Trisha’s all-Korean K-pop single “Saranghae.”
  • Announces it hit #45 on US K-pop iTunes charts.
  • Viral dance challenge emerges organically.
  • Quote:
    “I was being so serious… are we ready to go to South Korea, like, are we ready to go over there and perform…?”
    (Trisha, 95:01)

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Childhood Hyper-fixations & Michael Jackson Lore

[26:36-34:38]

• Trisha and Kali reminisce about childhood obsessions (esp. Michael Jackson).
• Discuss attending his court cases, collecting all album “colors,” fantasizing about marrying Michael.
• Deep-cut discussions of the Invincible album, favorite songs, and recent Michael Jackson biopic starring nephew Jafaar Jackson:
  • “His eyes, the way he looks. I’ve DMed him multiple times. Come on the podcast.” (Trisha, 30:20)

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AI, Facebook Scams & Internet Caution

[37:07-42:56]

• Chat about silly AI-created trends (AI-generated podcasts, fruit drama videos, tampons and pads having babies on TikTok).
• Trisha admits: "I don't even know how to, honestly—people will be like, 'Oh, I put it into AI...' Where do you put it?" (Trisha, 37:34)
• Kali highlights how elder family members get fooled by AI scams (3D dinosaur blanket saga) and Facebook Marketplace.
• Trisha recounts her Lamborghini being stolen and resold on OfferUp.
• Dips into the fleeting “boo boo” plush toy craze.

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Streaming, Gaming & Minecraft Hopes

[43:47-45:23]

• Shout-outs to Kali’s streaming (Caviator143), streaming schedules and community.
• Speculate about streamer collabs, Minecraft ambitions, and humorous avoidance of certain controversial streamers (“Absolutely not!” —Kali, 44:23).
• Kali: “I would love to have a Minecraft server with you guys.” (45:19)

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[Pop Culture Side-Bar] Chris Pratt, LDS & Problematic Celebs

[46:04-48:22]

• Quick run-down on why neither likes Chris Pratt: family baggage, property controversies, religious politics.
• Banter about the difference between LDS and Mormon (Trisha, confused: “No, that's two different things.” Kali: “It's the same thing.” 46:35).
• Rapid-fire: Would you rather support Chris Pratt or James Charles? Both agree: Pratt, by default.

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DEEP DIVE: Toxic Masculinity & Reality TV ("The Valley")

[48:27-71:43]

• One of the episode's pivot points: Trisha and Kali’s scathing breakdown of Bravo’s “The Valley” and its depiction of entitled, lazy, toxic, and juvenile fathers (esp. Danny and Luke).
  • “When people say that, it's, like, actually so gross… that's not what I'm thinking about at all” —Trisha on postpartum partners demanding sex ([61:42])
  • “On TV—imagine how you act behind closed doors.” ([62:30])
  • Trisha: “You're not rich, he's not hot, he's contributing nothing. So also, you're not a good father on top of that… You're literally good at nothing.” ([66:04])
  • Observes gendered double standards; emotional labor and invisible work mothers do (“He couldn't even put the baby down.”)
  • Kali: “The Valley would be fine if there was no men on the show.” ([70:15])
  • General agreement that reality TV may actually discourage viewers from seeking marriage or family with men depicted like this.
  • Extols the post-partum dialogue, body image honesty, and the show's relative "realness" for millennial moms.

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Postpartum Struggles, Fertility, and Women’s Health

[51:03-56:35]

• Honest conversation on multiple pregnancies, IVF vs. HSG fertility procedures, C-section risks, and postpartum trauma.
  • Quote:
    “Being 10 months postpartum for the first time… I’ve been pregnant for the past… since 2021… and I only had, like, three periods in the past four years, which is so crazy. But now being 10 months… You really are like a different, like, you feel like a human again.” (Trisha, 55:03)
• Importance of understanding and compassion for new moms.
• Discussion of TikTok critiques around representation of postpartum bodies and the expectation vs. reality for new mothers.

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True Crime Tangent: My Worst Ex & "The Crash"

[79:10-93:31]

• Dissects stories about abusers turned reality stars (Jeffrey from 90 Day Fiancé/My Worst Ex), and the disturbing cultural romanticization of violent men.
• Quote:
  “…These men do it truly, just out of nowhere…” (Trisha, 87:42)
• Kali: “Usually abusers are very charismatic and they’re very good at schmoozing… that’s how people get hooked in… and stuck… the hardest part is leaving.” ([83:17])
• Trisha confides in Kali about an ex who hid a child from her; they caution listeners on red flags and the dangers of trusting the wrong people.
• Covers “The Crash” (Netflix and Hulu), a story of teenage vehicular homicide, parental accountability, and failed appeals.
  • Trisha’s advice: “If you can just hang on, it’s the answer. Life is short, as the Martin Short documentary says… but it’s also like a gift… Just survive one more day…” ([113:33])

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Shoe Influencer Drama: Bethenny Frankel vs. Small Designer

[100:32-106:31]

• Analyzes Bethenny Frankel’s social media misstep—accepting gifted shoes from a small business, then linking to a dupe for affiliate money.
  • Trisha and Kali side with the small business:
    “If the shoe was on the other foot, no pun intended, how would she be.” (Kali, 105:17)
    “She did wear it and she did, like, love it. So… I would have loved a little tag.” (Trisha, 106:11)

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Quick Hits: Disneyland, Parenting, and Mental Health Advocacy

[107:00-115:33]

• Disneyland birthday debrief for Elvis ("the Tiki Room is basically AC and birds…”)
• Baby bird rescue.
• Commentary on Martin Short’s documentary and his open grief after losing his daughter to suicide.
  • “It is a disease… just like cancer,” Trisha quotes him.
  • Stresses how depression and suicide aren’t always visible; the importance of checking in with loved ones and seeking help if you need it.
  • Encourages those struggling:
    “If you can just hang on, it’s the answer. Life is short, as the Martin Short documentary says… but it’s also like a gift.” ([113:33])

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Notable Quotes (with timestamps)

• On “The Valley” and Marriage:
  “This is the reason people don’t want marriage and don’t want babies specifically.” (Trisha, 50:14)
• On Toxic Reality TV Dads:
  “You have to pick one thing you’re good at—and you’re good at nothing…” (Trisha, 66:03)
• On Postpartum Recovery:
  “You really are like a different… you feel like a human again. Something when you’re pregnant… hormones are crazy, and you are like… it can be all out of whack.” (Trisha, 55:03)
• On Abusive Relationships:
  “The hardest part about it is leaving.” (Kali, 83:34)
• On Parents in True Crime:
  “100% is the parents’ fault. She is a product of her parents, and we can see why she is the way she is and has all… zero accountability.” (Trisha, 91:29)
• On Mental Health:
  “It is a disease. It is a sickness. It is a disease just like cancer. Like you can fight it so hard… sometimes you just lose the battle.” (Trisha, 111:23)
• On Life’s Value:
  “If you can just hang on… life is short… but it’s also a gift… survive one more day… sometimes going through the dark times make you appreciate when, like, the light times come.” (Trisha, 113:33)

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Final Thoughts

This episode is a quintessential example of Trisha Paytas’ distinctive podcasting style: messy, pop culture obsessed, laugh-out-loud, vulnerable, brutally honest, and always emotionally real. Highlights include fierce commentary on toxic masculinity in reality TV and deeply empathetic conversations about mental health and motherhood, sprinkled with relatable, silly tangents about British movies, slime, K-pop, internet scams, and more.

If you want laughter, candid girl talk, and insight into the ups and downs of navigating fame, family, and femininity in the online age, this episode is a must-listen.

Transcript

[Trisha Paytas]

No, I hated that so much. And I was like, you're such a loser. And, like, you're just like, you contribute nothing. Like you said, he's not rich, he's not high. He's, like, contributing nothing. So also, you're not a good father. On top of that, like, you. You have to pick. You have to pick one. You have to pick one thing that you're, like, good at. And you're good at nothing. Nothing. You're literally good at nothing.

[Kali]

Her name is

[Trisha Paytas]

Filthy Think she's just strange. Yay. Hello. Welcome to the Justice Podcast. I've just come back from across the pond and it was amazing. Although I don't know if it was amazing because we're filming this a couple days before I've even performed my show. But hopefully it's good. I don't know. What do you think, ma'? Am? Miss?

[Kali]

Honestly, your accent eats. I can never crock.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's really good. Pip, pip, cheerio. I appreciate it. Oh, oi, Crocky.

[Malibu]

No, thank you.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay. I hate when he doesn't want to do an accent with me. Thank you for doing it.

[Kali]

You're welcome.

[Trisha Paytas]

What do you think of when you think of a British accent? Like, what's the first sound that comes in your mind right away? I think parlay.

[Kali]

Oh, my God.

[Trisha Paytas]

I was gonna say pirates of the Caribbean.

[Kali]

Even though it's like Caribbean, but like, it was.

[Trisha Paytas]

They were from England, I think half of them.

[Kali]

Well, yeah, Commodore Norrington. That's what I think of, though.

[Trisha Paytas]

She was everything. Karen Eiley was like, oh, my God.

[Kali]

She was like my everything.

[Trisha Paytas]

The national treasure of the uk and she has disappear.

[Kali]

Want to have a straight hair, you know?

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, okay. She's what made me. What? I remember when they did piles of hair, being like, she had a 20 inch waist. I remember being like, I need to have a 20 inch waist now.

[Kali]

That's like a Barbie.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. I don't know if that's ever gonna be possible for me. But we love Karen Knightley and she was so good in love actually, too.

[Kali]

Oh, I was gonna say low, actually.

[Trisha Paytas]

Anything British was Keira Knightley for me. Yeah, Ben, like Beckham. Like, she was. That's what I'm saying. She was London.

[Kali]

I know.

[Trisha Paytas]

I hope. Hopefully it went good. Anyways, if you guys saw me, I was at the Royal Album hall and. Yeah, I'm probably flying back now.

[Kali]

Well, the merch is tea.

[Trisha Paytas]

The merch is tea. Yes. The British invasion. I hope that it was good. I mean, the merch was good. The concept is Good. In my mind, I think it's going to be really good. I think it's going to be great. I think so, too. We're having a string quartet.

[Kali]

It's your first time performing over there, right?

[Trisha Paytas]

Time performing over there. I'm going to be singing my new Saranghae live. I think a lot of people are like, but can she sing this live? I would sing for you guys right now, but maybe just come to the show and then as they. But I have full confidence in that song more than anything else because I practice that song more than anything. But first time live, gonna do a little Sweeney Todd. I'm opening the show with, like, there's no place like London. Did you ever see Sweeney Todd?

[Kali]

It's so funny that you say that because I constantly quote Sweeney Todd.

[Trisha Paytas]

What?

[Kali]

I don't know why. And I don't think anybody understands, like, where I got it from, but it's like.

[Trisha Paytas]

Did you love it? I don't remember you.

[Kali]

I was gonna hum you. Not while I'm around. I always sing that. I don't.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's such a good one.

[Kali]

Wait, what? How do you. How did you watch it?

[Trisha Paytas]

Cause I watched it. I remember watching.

[Kali]

I literally watched it with you.

[Trisha Paytas]

But I watched it first. In 2007, after I got out of the hospital for three weeks, my dad found me in my apartment just covered in, like, feces and stuff, like, anyways. And he took me to the Riverside Hospital. I don't know how that even happened. I don't know how he even. We weren't even talking to my dad. I think my neighbor Superman, who was like, literally Superman at the time. Rip, Christopher, Dennis, I think he must have called my dad or something, because I was just, like, in feces or whatever. And then my dad takes me to Riverside Hospital in 2007, in December. And I remember, like, getting out of the hospital, and he's like, do you want to go see a movie? And I remember with Sweeney Todd, and I remember it gave me, like, will to live. I was just like, I want to be in this world.

[Kali]

Okay, good.

[Trisha Paytas]

A little dark, though. I mean, he was just sliced.

[Kali]

I mean, he's, like, literally killing people and, like, cooking them into meat pies.

[Trisha Paytas]

I felt the pain, though. I felt. I felt it because he was doing it out of vengeance. He lost his daughter. Yeah. And Alan Rickman, we love. Rip was Judge Turpin, but he was keeping her as his ward, but also, like, his lover. I don't know. It was a very weird. It was like he was kind of like into Joanna. And did you know Vecna was. I feel you, Joanna.

[Kali]

Oh, my gosh. I didn't know that. But I do love him.

[Trisha Paytas]

Jamie Campbell Bower. I wonder if he's over there. Anyways, I'm gonna find a bunch of people coming. I heard I would cry. I would actually cry. That would be everything. By the way, my sister's here as the co host today. Kelly is here? Yes. We had a pre film ahead of time and Oscar's coming this afternoon to help me for my Thursday because I'm gonna be gone for a week. So I was like to switch it up because there's always very different topics. Oscar is, like, the smartest person ever when it comes to Hot Topic. I'm always like, what? Tell me. And I love learning things. My sister, right away, the first thing she said is, like, not even a Hot Topic. Do you hear Nicocado straight now? I was like, it's very different. This is a very different hot top. So we're switching up only because we're filming. We have to film the Hot Topics in the same day. And there's only so many Hot Topics. Literally. My sister's like, well, hopefully something happens before that Oscar gets here. I'm like, don't worry. We. He already has, like, his Hot Topics figure. He has Hot Topics if there's no Hot Topics. But I'm excited to hear your Hot Topics today. Are you prepared? I'm here.

[Kali]

It's like more of a Kiki and I like that. But, like, we're trying to get the hot Topics. But yes, I am excited.

[Trisha Paytas]

But we don't have to get started right away on the Hot Topic. You look great, by the way. You look fabulous. You look like Kier Knightley. You used to look, like, here nightly to do the. Oh.

[Kali]

Oh, my God.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Kali]

You know what? Okay, so I know she got, like, flamed for it on the Met Gala. Kenightley. No, Rachel. Oh. And I.

[Trisha Paytas]

We didn't even talk about that here. And I was like, I wouldn't.

[Kali]

I didn't.

[Malibu]

It's mouth acting.

[Trisha Paytas]

I was like, it's giving, Kieran. I leave it skinny. Mom doesn't. It's giving. Like, look at my jaw.

[Kali]

And you know what, honey?

[Trisha Paytas]

I was looking at that job. That's what we do. Always. You put the tongue above your mouth and you're just like, you have to, like, you have to do it giving here. And I, like, people were just not

[Kali]

familiar with her mog game.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, they don't know. They don't know her Mogging. Because she outmongs everybody and she is so good. I know we didn't talk about that enough because I was like, people just love to hate on a girl who's serving. And she was serving so much. And that is a great. And you immediately was like, oh, my God, Keira Knightley, like, it reminds me

[Kali]

of, like, that jaw, that strong jaw.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay. Get it. She'd be like, parlay by pirates, right? You have to. Parlay means this. It's like, also very Hermione.

[Kali]

I was so jealous of her. She was gorgeous. She was with Orlando Bloom and Johnny Depp.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, but not in real life. In the movie. Yeah. She gotta kiss both. I remember she went on like, Regis and Kelly are, like, one of those shows. And I remember they were like, what was it like to kiss a Johnny Depp and Orlando Bloom? It's like, it was quite nice. And I was like, I bet it was girl.

[Kali]

I don't know where she is anymore, actually.

[Trisha Paytas]

Just living her life in England town.

[Kali]

She probably makes hella residuals, honestly, with pirates and love. Actually.

[Trisha Paytas]

I wonder. I do wonder. Yeah. Love actually was so good. Alan Rickman, too. I miss him.

[Kali]

Do you remember how to.

[Trisha Paytas]

Alan Rickman? Yes. For real. I feel like people like, oh, I loved Alan Rickman because of, like, Harry Potter. But like, I was like the original Alan Rickman. Stan before Harry Potter.

[Kali]

I know.

[Trisha Paytas]

I loved him in Die Hard as Hans Gruber. You remember that? Hans Gruber and Die Hard. No, you never got Die Hard.

[Malibu]

The first one.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Yippee Kai, gay mother.

[Kali]

I literally watched it with you growing.

[Malibu]

I said, like, then when it came out, that's like the.

[Trisha Paytas]

The classic. When someone comes to America, they watch Die Hard because they just think that's like, so like Bruce Willis and like, fighting. Oh, geez, what was he fighting?

[Kali]

I don't know if. I have no idea.

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't know.

[Kali]

I was like, so young watching that

[Trisha Paytas]

with you because, like, Because Alan Rickman.

[Kali]

Yeah, because you were obsessed with Alan. That was when you got obsessed with someone. You would have to see all of their. Like, all of their movies.

[Trisha Paytas]

All of it.

[Kali]

And you have they made a soundtrack or if they made an album, you would have it. Any kind of merge posters, whatever.

[Trisha Paytas]

I have so much Alan posters.

[Kali]

Like an Alan from Memorabilia is insane.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, I like, loved him from everything. Do you remember the most obscure Alan Rickman movie we watched? Because we would, like, rent movies and I would watch so many of these.

[Kali]

I don't remember. If you say it, I'll remember.

[Trisha Paytas]

Do you remember the movie, I think it was called Blow Dry.

[Kali]

Yes. Oh, my God, yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

With Heidi Klum.

[Kali]

And I love that movie, actually.

[Trisha Paytas]

And they did like the hair show. Yeah. And they did like I. A heart. Pubic hair.

[Kali]

Yes. I love that movie.

[Trisha Paytas]

And they did like, crazy styling. And I just like, loved that. That was so. Yes, that was. If you have not seen that movie,

[Kali]

you have to see it. It's really good.

[Trisha Paytas]

Go see Alderman. And that. He was also in Dogma. And I remember he was pantless. And I was like. He was like my sexual awakening, I feel, because I was like a weird, like, corny teenager. But I remember they're like, al man is pantless in this one. But like, he was like. He was almost like an alien, I guess, like there. Because it was kind of like. I guess he was like an angel in Dogma. I'm trying to think of how that worked. I guess he was like.

[Kali]

I don't remember that.

[Trisha Paytas]

So he kind of had. Oh, is Jay and Silo Bob's like, first movie. And I remember being like, yeah. And he kind of had like a. It was covered. It was basically just like a. Almost like a vagina without the slit, I guess. I don't know. It was kind of that also Galaxy Quest.

[Kali]

I didn't. I don't remember that one. I know, I know.

[Trisha Paytas]

And he had the crazy. And he was like, signing at comic Cons. They were just actors who were in like a Star Trek show. But real aliens came and Rainn Wilson was one of the real aliens.

[Kali]

I got it.

[Trisha Paytas]

And they like, come to space with us. But they're like, we're on a TV show, we don't know how to do this. You don't remember.

[Kali]

I did not like any kind of sci fi movie growing up.

[Trisha Paytas]

But it was like a sci fi parody. Yes. Oh, my God. Alan Ringman had such a good discography. Is that what it's called?

[Kali]

I don't know.

[Trisha Paytas]

He has such good. I know you guys might like him from Harry Potter, which. He was great in Harry Potter.

[Kali]

Yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

But there is such a. So much that he's done, obviously. Like, Sweeney Todd was so good. I love actually. I mean, he's so good too, in that. I mean, those are like his mainstream ones. But I like a deep cup. I like a Michael Clayton, if you will. Like, I love a deep cut of Alan Rickman. And he is. Moses gave me Alan Rickman a little bit when I first met him. I was like, you're giving. I made him Professor Snape. Yeah, he's Giving you everything.

[Kali]

He gives.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, he has.

[Kali]

He's kind of like Jason Momoa. Oh, he's kind of like Alan Rickman. I was like, okay.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's why I married him.

[Malibu]

He's a little bit of all my face sounded like him.

[Trisha Paytas]

Who? Yeah, do your impression. You remember.

[Kali]

Oh, silly incantations in this class. Oh, okay.

[Trisha Paytas]

Just doing the whole monologue. That was close. That is what. That was great.

[Malibu]

No, something about like actually, like, what was the.

[Trisha Paytas]

It was. Oh, God. It was a Tick Tock trend. It was. And I know I can't remember either possibly like something about TikTok sound and.

[Malibu]

Yeah, because it was about water.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, okay. Well, it wasn't you. He was pretty good. Yeah. You did it good. Do yours again.

[Kali]

I don't know the first part. Or silly incantations in this class as such. You know what? That's a trend right now on Tick Tock because like they have these dogs running around like. Because you know how I put blankets on my dogs or whatever and then they get up and like it looks like they have a cape when they're running.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, no, I know.

[Kali]

They use that sound. I don't know. It's like Professor Snape with his big black.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yes, I remember. We used to know that whole like monologue.

[Kali]

Oh my God, everything.

[Trisha Paytas]

How are you? How is Mucky? Update on Mucky.

[Kali]

Mucky's doing okay. You know, he's got kidney failure.

[Trisha Paytas]

But. But how's he. How's his spirit?

[Kali]

He's good.

[Malibu]

So he can drink.

[Trisha Paytas]

He's making a joke. He said he can't drink because he has kidney failure.

[Kali]

Right. Alcohol, right?

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, no, he's drinking water. He's surviving.

[Kali]

Actually, that wasn't serious.

[Trisha Paytas]

I call.

[Kali]

But no, when I found out, I was like, can I. Can I give him my kidney? I know that's crazy, but can they do a kidney? They said that it's not very like you. It's not successful dog to dog. Yeah, it's not very successful. The.

[Trisha Paytas]

There's Mucky.

[Kali]

I know. You mean Miko. No, because that's like the Lovely Bones or My Sister's Keeper. What is that?

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't know.

[Kali]

Remember like they had another child to. Because the other one needed a transplant plant. And I'm like, could you imagine being born just to give your sister?

[Trisha Paytas]

I think a lot of. I think that happens a lot. I know. No, it's awful. I think it's awful. But I do think that's like if I were. It was a movie.

[Kali]

Yeah. I don't remember what it was called. Well, it was a book, but. But yeah, if you were born.

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, we had different dads. I don't know if you could give me your kidney. I don't know how that works.

[Kali]

You have to have, like. Oh, maybe you can able, like, the same blood or something.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, no, maybe not. Because, like, Cine Gomez got a kidney, and I think George Lopez got a kidney.

[Kali]

Yeah. You have to have the same, like, blood. Or if you're O positive.

[Trisha Paytas]

What are you, our sponsor today?

[Kali]

Well, that's why I'm like, oh, positive. It's like the neutral universal blood you could donate to everyone.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, positive.

[Kali]

I think it's oh positive.

[Trisha Paytas]

I'm A positive. I know that. And I.

[Kali]

Because I actually don't know what my blood type is.

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, you should probably know what that is.

[Kali]

Yeah, I know. I don't know how to figure that out.

[Trisha Paytas]

Go to the doctor.

[Malibu]

Blood test.

[Kali]

That's where you lose me, because I don't like getting my blood.

[Trisha Paytas]

You usually get a blood panel just overall, you are over 30.

[Kali]

I usually do, but I don't know your blood type. I don't know. I will die.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, my gosh. Yeah.

[Kali]

So if, like, I'm in need of anything. I don't know anything about my health, so.

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, let's get knowing about it.

[Kali]

Yeah, probably.

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, I'm glad Mucky's doing good, because they were, like, saying he was. He was sick, but he is in good spirits when we see him.

[Kali]

He is in. My dad just visited recently, and, like, when he came in, like, oh, my God, you wouldn't even think that he was sick because he was just, like, jumping all over the place and so obsessed with my dad.

[Trisha Paytas]

So he loves. He loves boys, huh?

[Kali]

Well, we don't have a lot of

[Trisha Paytas]

male figures in his life, so he gets excited.

[Kali]

So when there is one, he gets really. I mean, even when Moses was first coming around and I would bring monkey over to your house, he would be all up in that hair. I don't know if Moses was into

[Trisha Paytas]

that, but I'm like, no, he is. Yesterday we were at boiling crab. We made it to boiling crab. By the way, if you guys saw watch last week, it was like, if we were gonna meet a boiling crab, we did. By the way, boiling crab is insane right now. They even said, like, we haven't seen you guys in here in a while. It's because last time we went to boiling crab with the two girls, when I was pregnant with Aquaman, it was like, literally, we get there, okay, Boiling crab opens at Noon on the weekends. We got there at like 11:30 and it was already like literally like 30 people outside. We were waiting in the hot sun. Then it happened again yesterday. They open at 3pm on Monday and we get there at 2:30 and we're. We're like the. Now we're like one of the first couples there, but by the time that gets let into, it was like so hot. And then everyone behind us. But they said usually it's a two hour wait. Like if you're not there at rope drop. That is like a two hour wait. Yeah, the rope drop for boiling crab where they. Oh, there's like 50 people at the rope drop for boiling crab. And we want to get a booth. We want to get in there boiling crab. There's any connection to get me like a VIP card or something. I would love to like, have a number because we do love it. So it's so good. It's also so expensive and it's packed. And I'm like, how do people afford. It's like a. It's like a bougie thing for us. Like, we were celebrating something. So I was like, okay, let's go to boiling Crab. But like 160 bucks. And we got some crab legs and some french fries, which are delicious.

[Kali]

I love the crab legs, but the crab legs.

[Trisha Paytas]

And we only got like two crab legs last time. And I'm like, this is insane. But like everyone eating there, like six tables of six to eight people.

[Malibu]

I was like, I think most people are celebrating something or they get the different things on the menu. Yeah, some things are.

[Trisha Paytas]

Because you like the wings there, right?

[Kali]

Or the chicken.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, those were good. We did get chicken wings.

[Malibu]

Deep fried oysters.

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, we got fried oysters too.

[Kali]

Okay.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, we did get some eggs. Hard boiled eggs.

[Malibu]

But they have new menu items too. And they have those sandwiches with fried. So they have lunch options now that are ch.

[Kali]

If I go there, I gotta get some crab legs.

[Trisha Paytas]

I did think of you. It was like late. You had a. We also had to wait in line. Like, we got there at 2:30 and we had to wait in line for a half hour. So it's like this whole thing also was like a mean greet. We had a lot of fans there yesterday. Like, when we were like lined up, people were like, can we get pictures? And then when we sat, everyone was like, great. We were eating and as soon as we got up, everyone's so respectful. Everyone's like, then I got. Literally, I got like a little bombarded. And I love that they're like, oh, my God. Can we have a picture? I smell like crab. And I was like, I'm so sorry. But I did love it. It was fun. It was like a little mean Greek people were getting up out of their seats in their little bibs, and I was like, love this so much. So obviously they need a location down here. That's what I mean. It's close.

[Kali]

It's like, no minutes. No, they need one closer.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's crazy. And the ventura, we drive 30 minutes to get into Benihana.

[Kali]

That's true. I mean, we drove an hour.

[Trisha Paytas]

We drove an hour and a half to get to the Santa Ana one, which was worth it. It was an Ann. Yes.

[Kali]

No, Santa Anita.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay, well, same thing.

[Kali]

It's not the same.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's also called, like, Arcadia. There's, like, so many names for that area. Because we're like, my mom dated someone in Arcadia, and she goes, oh, my God. This was, like, the worst to get to. But then she loved the little peacock park. Oh, my God. It was actually so cute. Yeah, we should have brought the kids, because they were like, There was little peacocks.

[Kali]

I wanted to go part peacocks.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, it was cool. She did like that part of it. Anyways, it was. It was an adventure. We drove. You know, it's our bonding time, though. We don't see each other as much. And so, yeah, we had an hour and a half bonding time. We got the big fishbowl drinks, shout out, Benihana. Go get that Trish Trio love happening. We got to see the sign. Everyone was so nice there. The general managers with everyone was just, like, a vibe, and it was so much fun, and they were so nice, and they offered up as a private room. And I was like, no, I need to sit with everybody. Like, I love to just sit with the people when I go to Benihana. You know what I mean? Like, that's the experience, and it's fun. So go get the Trish Trio. Thank you, guys, everyone. Seriously, for everyone who goes out there, like, that's so nice. It's so weird to see, like, humans, like, you. You see numbers, you see comments, but, like, actual people going out and, like, dressing up and, like, taking their boyfriends or, like, someone did a full Trish cosplay at Benihana. Jimmy Wetzel went with a group of people. Our editor, like, the fact that, like, people, like real life humans are, like, going out of the house and taking pictures next to, like, my little Trish trio. I'm like, that's so cool.

[Kali]

No, it is. Really cool. I love seeing all the tiktoks, too.

[Malibu]

And it's a good deal that go. They're, like, so happy about it.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's all I ever ordered for the show.

[Kali]

It's a show and dinner.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yes. And it's the best one. And it's quality food. The filet mignon with that truffle butter and the shrimp.

[Kali]

You won't leave hungry, that's for sure.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, yeah. You guys had, like, leftovers for days after we had a whole box of them.

[Kali]

I always get so full on, like, the soup and the salad and it's good.

[Trisha Paytas]

Can I say, you know, I don't like soup.

[Kali]

That soup is so good.

[Trisha Paytas]

They're soup.

[Malibu]

You should make that at home.

[Trisha Paytas]

I do eat some of it. I don't eat all of it.

[Kali]

It's like, a little bit. I do like it.

[Trisha Paytas]

I do. That's why I was saying is I don't like soup, but I do love that, like, little mushroom soup there. It's pretty good.

[Kali]

It's really good.

[Trisha Paytas]

Anyway, so thank you for all the love on that. The UK show just ended, but the Vegas show is coming. Trish and Tanner. Vegas coming.

[Kali]

Yeah, I'll come. Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

He loves a Vegas moment.

[Kali]

I love a Vegas moment.

[Trisha Paytas]

You can really be in it, actually. It's a whole show, like, where we have so many people. Like Holly

[Kali]

Molly. Yeah, well, maybe I'll be there when I come out.

[Trisha Paytas]

We're doing a variety show. One thing with Tana, and I love this about her is because I'm so the opposite. But I like. I love it. Like, I love when people bring out. It's like, she's like, more people, the better. Like, Tana will travel with, like, 20 people deep.

[Kali]

I love that.

[Trisha Paytas]

And just have the most part of everything. And I'm so opposite because I'm so such an isolated. I even googled because I'm like, is there something wrong with me that I'm such, like, an isolated person that I'm just, like, always wanting to be alone? There's just two different types of people is what I found out.

[Kali]

Personality traits.

[Trisha Paytas]

But I do love. I will say when I want to. Tiana want to on well together. I do love kind of the camaraderie where everyone's just, like, trying to, like, squeeze into one car and just like, oh, we're all going here together. Like, there is. There is a vibe to it for sure. Yeah. Like, let's all go get lobster tails at the Golden Steer. And Holly's so great, too. She'll be in Daggett. And it's just such a fun vibe, so I'm inviting everybody. I was like, you wanna come too?

[Kali]

I'll come.

[Trisha Paytas]

You know Tanner loves you. June 12th.

[Kali]

June 12th.

[Trisha Paytas]

Right at the Cosmo Slay. And she loves you too. She loves you.

[Kali]

I actually was like, oh, let's. Let's, like, channel our Tana with this.

[Trisha Paytas]

You are giving Tana what they had. I love it too, so much. Also, last time you were here, I figured this was the great update because you're on this episode.

[Kali]

Oh, the dumpling. You got the glitter dumpling.

[Trisha Paytas]

But I thought it was gonna be bigger. This was my 600 StockX.

[Kali]

600 Dumpling.

[Trisha Paytas]

It was supposed to be the big.

[Kali]

Can I see it? Can I touch it?

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't know. I'm just kidding.

[Kali]

Call you the mom in the car.

[Trisha Paytas]

I know. Wow.

[Kali]

How do we feel?

[Trisha Paytas]

It looks good. It's good.

[Kali]

I don't like how sticky it is. Okay.

[Trisha Paytas]

Malibu. Anything sticky. If it's a Rice Krispies, like, it's sticky. Oh, my God.

[Kali]

It looks like it's literally oozing out.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, you think it's a knockoff? What's happening?

[Kali]

Oh, maybe not. No. I don't know.

[Trisha Paytas]

They verified it. I thought it was gonna be a little more sparkly. Let's see.

[Malibu]

I thought they were big.

[Trisha Paytas]

Feels like an implant.

[Kali]

Well, there is. It kind of does.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, it is sticky. You thought that? No. What'd you say? They do have big ones. Yeah. I thought this was gonna be a big one. I'm so bad with sizes. You know, I like.

[Kali]

You're so bad with sizes. You're so bad with quantities.

[Malibu]

Quantities.

[Kali]

It's so bad.

[Trisha Paytas]

And size.

[Kali]

You're so bad at knowing if you've already ordered it or not.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, that part. Yeah. I'm always getting done.

[Kali]

You had one time, you had two of the same Prada person you did

[Trisha Paytas]

sell one on, and you're like, oh,

[Kali]

well, I'm like, no, I will try and return it for you. You don't need two of these.

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, that's what I. That was when I was done with money.

[Kali]

You're like, I'll just take the L. I'm like the l on a 2500.

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, that wasn't before I had kids.

[Kali]

This was a long. This was like crying on the kitchen floor.

[Trisha Paytas]

Maybe the product store needs it more than I do. You know, maybe they need that 2500 more. So I was trying to help Mr. Prada. He probably has kids too. People, forget about the.

[Kali]

I think he's Doing quite well.

[Trisha Paytas]

We don't know where Mr. Prada is. You want to see this over there, my little dumpling?

[Malibu]

Probably. Oh, that's sticky.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, okay. Everyone's just like, first reaction.

[Malibu]

Maybe that's the. The realistic side of it.

[Kali]

It feels like one of those, like, car cleaners, like, in the vents that you, like, push it on and, like, gets all the dust off. You know what I mean?

[Trisha Paytas]

No, a car cleaner, like, the key.

[Kali]

It's where the keyboard. It's like a sticky utensil that you use to, like, pick up all the dirt and debris.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, they do that with slime, too. Like, slime picks up slime. Ew.

[Kali]

I hate slime. I'm a slime hater. Can I just say that? Well, Malibu wants to play slime with me, and she's like, kiki, can you get this how I'm like, oh, can

[Trisha Paytas]

we play with Play D'oh. Oh, I do. When she asked me to get the slime, I do say, oh, Abba's so good with.

[Kali]

I just, like, don't love the consistency of it. I was like, you know, Kiki doesn't love the slime.

[Trisha Paytas]

I know it does get everywhere. But if you go to the slumu, like, the slime museums, like, they do tell you that slime takes off slime. So if you get slime on it, like I said, I'm sorry, that's a

[Kali]

residue on my hand that will never come off.

[Trisha Paytas]

Unless that is surprising. They like slime because malpu. Even if it's like a sticky, like Rice Krispies, she doesn't like sticky, so I'm surprised she likes a slime.

[Kali]

I know she loves it.

[Trisha Paytas]

Thank you so much to NOCD for sponsoring today's episode of Just Trish with maybe Mental Health Awareness Month. It is super important that we talk about mental health and be open with how we are feeling. You may hear the term OCD and think, that doesn't really apply to me. You know, I'm not obsessive compulsive about cleaning. That's what I thought for a long time. But sometimes OCD can also mean intrusive thoughts, wanted thoughts, getting the best of you. And sometimes when you talk to someone, it can help make those interest thoughts less powerful and have less power over you. You guys know I'm super open about my mental health and everything I go through online sometimes. Yeah, that means a moment of me crying on the kitchen floor. That might turn into a meme. But honestly, sharing all that stuff has helped people see what mental health struggles can really look like and reminds people that they're not the only ones going through it. I am very thankful for that. While I get embarrassed sometimes of my past struggles being so public, I am appreciative that it can have a visual to what a lot of people feel internally. And a lot of people say it's so relatable. And sometimes you can't tell just by looking at someone what they're going through. But a lot of us relate to these same intrusive thoughts or other mental health issues that we have to work through every day and work on every day, and you don't have to do it alone. And that's why I want to talk about OCD right now. Because it is a mental health condition that's so misunderstood and a lot of people struggle with it without even realizing. So the stereotypes, let's get those out of the way. OCD is not really about being just organized and liking things clean, like a lot of people. I think it's not funny, it's serious. It can actually show up in ways you might never expect. OCD could look like having terrifying, unwanted thoughts, that you're going to hurt someone. And even though you never want to do that, the thoughts feel so real that you still avoid everyone you love just to be safe. Or maybe you're constantly doubting your relationship, asking your partner over and over if they're really happy but still feeling unsure no matter what they say. Or playing a conversation on repeat in your mind for days because you're convinced that you said something offensive and feel like you can't move on until you're totally certain about what happened. That happens to me all the time. Relationships, overthinking, et cetera. And those could be symptoms of ocd. When you have ocd, you get unwanted thoughts and create intense distress, and you feel like you need to do certain things to try to combat distress. Those thoughts can latch onto your relationships, your health, your morals, literally anything you care about. That's why it can be really debilitating. But it doesn't have to be that way, because OCD is actually really treatable with the right kind of specialized therapy. And that's where no CD comes in. NOCD is the world's leading provider of OCD treatment. All of their licensed therapists specialize in erp, or exposure and Response prevention therapy. Unlike regular talk therapy, which isn't recommended for OCD and can actually make it worse. ERP was designed specifically for ocd, and it's been proven to be the most effective treatment, which is I can attest to this as well. I've done talk therapy, which helps other parts of my personality disorder, but with the erp, it really helps regulate your thoughts without having to overthink. With no cd, you meet your therapist in live face to face virtual sessions. It's covered by insurance for over 138 million Americans. And they provide support between sessions so you're not left dealing with OCD on your own. This is also very special because a lot of times going in person, like human to human, and you have to like, go somewhere, it can be also anxiety inducing. So doing it online can help ease that as well. So if any of this sounds familiar, visit nocd.com and book a free call with their team to learn more about how NOCD can help. That's NOCD.com thank you so much, NOCD, for sponsoring today's episode of Just Drink. It's like a texture thing.

[Kali]

Yeah, I don't like the feeling of it. Do you like slime?

[Malibu]

No, I always divert to play. D'oh.

[Kali]

Oh my God.

[Trisha Paytas]

We're all doing the same thing. Yeah. Who loves to see?

[Kali]

That's interesting.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Malibu]

Slime and sand. They have all kind of sand toys.

[Kali]

I like the kinetic sand.

[Malibu]

Yeah, it's fun to play with, but not to clean. No, it ends up everywhere.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh my God. Yeah. Well, we have a sandbox now outside. They can just go to the.

[Kali]

Ooh, like the turtle one. The old school turtle one.

[Trisha Paytas]

That was a sailboat. Oh, have you not seen it outside?

[Kali]

No, I haven't.

[Trisha Paytas]

And for Elvis's birthday, man, I got our trampoline. Like he's always. I think we're going to run out of room in our backyard now. Trampoline.

[Kali]

A big one.

[Malibu]

Eight foot.

[Trisha Paytas]

Is it up?

[Malibu]

Not yet.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh my God.

[Kali]

Are you underground?

[Malibu]

I think it's above ground.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, it's cuz it's a kid. It's kind of like for kids. Oh, no.

[Malibu]

I mean it's big. It's eight feet.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, is it? I don't know what that means. As we know, I'm bad with dimensions, so.

[Malibu]

I mean, you. You can lay in there.

[Trisha Paytas]

Are you eight? What's eight foot? You?

[Malibu]

No, no, I'm a little bit less than six, so. Oh, so two more feet so I can lay in it.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay. They'd love a trampoline.

[Kali]

I love a trampoline.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, yeah. The house with the slides had a train ground one.

[Kali]

That's been my dream.

[Trisha Paytas]

I think that's gonna. We'll get that one day. I'm so hoping for the slide house.

[Kali]

Well, I was very excited for the birthday present then, so I can play.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, yeah. Well, her birthday was just literally yesterday, so that's why Elvis is.

[Kali]

Yeah, that's right.

[Trisha Paytas]

I was.

[Kali]

Oh, no, I was supposed to bring. I have gifts for her.

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, I'm sure you'll see her, right? At some point. Yes, we'll be here. I'm very excited to the new Michael Jackson movie.

[Kali]

No, but I heard it was really good. No, I don't see movies usually. You know this about me.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, my gosh. But the Michael Jackson. I don't know. That was my other hyper fixation as a child was Michael Jackson. I really, really loved him. He was just even red.

[Kali]

You loved him. That was your first one, I think, like, your first everything.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, because it was 2001.

[Kali]

It was Michael Donnie.

[Trisha Paytas]

I mean, Alan Rickman's somewhere in there. It might have been at the Byron house. He might have been earlier Michael Jackson. I think elementary might have been before Michael Jackson. Really? Michael Jackson was a little edgy. I remember when I found him, I was like, whoa, you love.

[Kali]

That was like your hardest crush.

[Trisha Paytas]

I think it still was. I remember when he passed away, we were living together in Sherman Oaks, and I was, like, devastated. He passed away, and then Brian passed away like, a week later. And I remember being that. That was like June of 2009. I was like, this is like, the worst month ever. It was so awful. I was like. I was so sad about it, you know, because, like, I think people who have, like, delusions, like, I really thought I may marry Michael Jackson as a child.

[Kali]

You did go to the Neverland Ranch

[Trisha Paytas]

all the time with my dad, and we'd always go up there and just like, like, hang out, hoping to, like, see him and stuff like that. We'd always go up there and, yeah, I really thought in my mind he

[Kali]

may want to marry me.

[Trisha Paytas]

And so when it became an actual possibility, once I became 18, I was like, okay, I'm in California now. I'm living here. Like, this could be a thing.

[Kali]

I went to his.

[Trisha Paytas]

All his court cases up at the Santa Maria courthouse. I used to go and, like, hang out there and just. I mean, there were so many fans.

[Kali]

But you had all of the colors of the Heartbreak album.

[Trisha Paytas]

Invincible album.

[Kali]

Oh, Invincible.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. But it had. There was a song, Heartbreaker.

[Kali]

Wow.

[Trisha Paytas]

So you were a Michael Jackson fan, too? Because Invincible is kind of a deep cut.

[Kali]

Well, of course. Because I wanted to be like, my big sister, too.

[Trisha Paytas]

Wait, did you like her? How did that song go?

[Kali]

Wait oh, no, that's invisible. Hold on, let me look it up.

[Trisha Paytas]

Break.

[Kali]

No, it's like. That was a good album.

[Trisha Paytas]

That was good, because. What were you singing? What song were you just singing? Oh, yeah.

[Kali]

Well, that's Invincible, though. Not after you do. I'm still gonna be here.

[Trisha Paytas]

You can't try to stop me.

[Kali]

Cause.

[Trisha Paytas]

Or is that Unbreakable? There's Unbreakable. Invincible. I think Jay Z was on Unbreakable.

[Kali]

Wait, I don't even remember.

[Trisha Paytas]

Remember Butter? Was it butterflies on that one? No, you give me butterflies. Oh, no, there's another one. Okay, tell me. The Invincible album gave me butterflies Inside, Inside and I just want to do your touch I swear Butterflies on that one.

[Kali]

Heartbreaker. It's giving Britney.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, a little bit. That girl. I can't take her. I should have known she was a heartbreaker. God, we loved that one.

[Kali]

I did love that.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, my God. And play the. There's a one called Butterflies. What's like a slow song?

[Kali]

Oh, yeah, it is. It is.

[Trisha Paytas]

Butterflies Inside. Inside. This is a good album. It was such a good one.

[Kali]

I gotta add some of these songs on my playlist.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. That was so good. Rock my World I wanted to be that girl in Rock My World so bad. I know My world, you know you did. And everything I own I'd give. There is nothing then that Find someone like you to come. Remember Chris Tucker? He's like, oh, look at that girl right there. You know, she's fine. She's like, I can get her. No, you can't get that girl. I can get her, Chris. I can get her. Well, show mom then. And then he's like, I do. He goes over with his arms.

[Kali]

Never be the same.

[Trisha Paytas]

God, he was so good.

[Kali]

He was really good.

[Trisha Paytas]

You need to go see the new one. Because his nephew, Jafar Jackson, plays him. And he's uncanny, Michael.

[Kali]

Like, really?

[Trisha Paytas]

His eyes, the way he looks. I've DM'd him multiple times. Come on the podcast. I'm like, can you please come on the podcast?

[Kali]

So you saw it?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yes. Actually, was gonna go. Actually, almost was by myself. I think Moses thought I was going with you or something because of Moses. I had two tickets for me and Moses, but Moses had to go, like, take care of something. And I was like, can you make meet me? He's like, I don't know if I'm gonna make it. I should go get groceries. I'm like, all right, I'll just, like, watch. And I was literally in the theater by myself. I'm like, I guess I'LL just watch it by myself. And he's like, oh. I thought she was like, sister was coming.

[Kali]

I'm like, what?

[Trisha Paytas]

No.

[Malibu]

I was like, what are you doing? It's like, I'm gonna watch a movie. I was like, usually when she says that, it means she has a plan.

[Kali]

Right, right, right.

[Trisha Paytas]

To go together.

[Malibu]

But you didn't ask me, do you want to go watch a movie? Well, you're just like, I'm gonna watch

[Trisha Paytas]

a movie, but you should just not go.

[Malibu]

I was, like, finishing up something. I was like, you know what? I might actually make it. So anyway, the guys were installing something. We were installing something, and then they were, like, about to clean it. I was like, no need to clean. Just wrap up.

[Kali]

See that Michael Jackson.

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, because you know what I did? I sent him the ticket. I was like, in case you can make it. So I already had the ticket. So he was like, oh, I thought you were. I guess I could have asked you,

[Kali]

but I. Yeah, because I do like Michael Jackson.

[Trisha Paytas]

He was just. And now, you know, favorite Michael Jackson song. God, I did my top four, and they're all ballads. I love Michael's ballads.

[Kali]

Which ones?

[Trisha Paytas]

Give me your one. Just give me a top two. Michael Jackson song.

[Kali]

I think I like. Hold on, let me. Let me look. Because I do like a lot. I like Heaven Can Wait and.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, Heaven Can Wait. From what album? From that one. Yeah.

[Kali]

Oh, and then Earth Song.

[Trisha Paytas]

Earth Song. Okay, so that was one of my.

[Kali]

I love Earth song.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love Earth song. I love his vocals. I love the music video. I love Earth songs.

[Kali]

We Are the World. That was a really good one, too.

[Trisha Paytas]

Have you seen that Trend all over TikTok?

[Kali]

Yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

When you're down and out there's no way we can fall and if you just believe there's no way we can fall we realize that saving our own life can stand together as one and Michael's just, like, looking in the back like, what the. Did you ever see, like, they are like, I haven't seen that one.

[Malibu]

I was a kid when that song came. I mean, I remember.

[Trisha Paytas]

Did you love it?

[Malibu]

Of course.

[Trisha Paytas]

Did you feel healed? Were you like, the world is healing?

[Malibu]

Yeah. I mean, I love this. Yeah. The song was like a moment. It wasn't as good as, like, you know, the COVID song Imagine, but it was pretty good.

[Trisha Paytas]

They were trying to be We Are the World people, like, stop singing this whole episode. No, but I do love it. I love Michael, too. Anyways, I was. I had to go deep into the Michael lore with you because we didn't really fully get into it, but the movie is really, really good. I do think he should win an Oscar. Have you been seeing John Travolta's beret?

[Malibu]

Yeah, beret and new face.

[Kali]

I seen it.

[Trisha Paytas]

New face.

[Kali]

I was like, wait a second.

[Trisha Paytas]

I'm loving this new face era of facelifts.

[Kali]

Oh, my God, he looks.

[Trisha Paytas]

Looks so good. He looks so good. You didn't see him in a parade with his head. He's like this. And like me when I tip my Starbucks barista.

[Kali]

No, no. I think I saw a picture with him and his daughter, I believe. I think.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, does he have a daughter? He does, yeah.

[Malibu]

There's a picture of him with someone randomly.

[Kali]

And that's when I was like, oh, my God, he looks so well.

[Trisha Paytas]

He kind of went away for like a couple years, and all of a sudden he came back.

[Malibu]

You can see that he's dying his beard and then something. You know, people think he got some work done.

[Kali]

Does he have hair now or is he so bald?

[Trisha Paytas]

He doesn't wear a beret, so. Oh, got you. But I do love the brain. He said he was wearing the beret because he's trying to act the part of a director, and I love that. I love a cosplay. I couldn't find my berets.

[Kali]

Oh, I see the beret. The white beret.

[Trisha Paytas]

He has a white and a black. You have to see the black beret with him, like, being posing. And he's kind of doing a little Pierre. You know, he's doing like a little, like. No.

[Kali]

You know where I saw him? Well, you can.

[Trisha Paytas]

Recently, he was at the.

[Kali]

He was in the front row of the Scientology, like, hundredth anniversary or whatever.

[Trisha Paytas]

Why were you there? She wasn't there. Why would I be like, you know where I saw him, and I was like, yeah.

[Malibu]

Are you one of those kids that's run into the building?

[Kali]

I think I'd be much more successful if I was. Wait, why cut it?

[Trisha Paytas]

Are you scared they're gonna come get you?

[Kali]

No, I'm not scared.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, it does. That picture does something.

[Kali]

Why is he cosplaying a director?

[Trisha Paytas]

I think he plays the director in his new movie at Cannes.

[Kali]

Oh, I see.

[Trisha Paytas]

Have you been keeping up with the Con Film Festival?

[Kali]

No.

[Trisha Paytas]

Ever been to the south of France?

[Kali]

I've never been to Europe at all.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, really? Why did I think you did? You've been to Asia?

[Kali]

Only Asia?

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, I need a desire to go over to Europe?

[Kali]

No, I don't. I mean, I. Maybe, maybe, but I. I love all of, like the more tropical.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yes.

[Kali]

Places, destination.

[Trisha Paytas]

You went to Bali?

[Kali]

I went to Bali.

[Trisha Paytas]

I went to Billy. Bali.

[Kali]

Oh, I love that movie. And I've been to Singapore, Bahamas.

[Trisha Paytas]

Left your phone in Singapore?

[Kali]

Left my phone in China on my. My layover. Yeah. Oops.

[Trisha Paytas]

Bahamas. You were trying to get into the Australian tour of eras of.

[Kali]

I was. I was like, wait a second, we're going to Australia.

[Trisha Paytas]

We might be going to Australia. You do love an Australian.

[Kali]

But. Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

So the koalas. I just want to hold a koala.

[Kali]

You can visit the. The koala ward. The koala ward is where they have like a.

[Trisha Paytas]

In. In Australia.

[Kali]

Yeah. Are you gonna go to Robert Irvine's?

[Trisha Paytas]

You sound like Mom Irwin's. Literally like, you should go visit Robert Irwin. I was like, I don't think you just go, like, hang out with him over there. I don't think he's like over here doing Dancing with the Stars and all that stuff.

[Kali]

Is that still going on?

[Trisha Paytas]

What?

[Kali]

Dancing with the Studio?

[Trisha Paytas]

I mean. Yes, it's been going on for 40 years. What do you meant with him?

[Malibu]

He won, right?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, he's the new. But he's hosting the spin off the Dancing with the Stars Search for the pro.

[Kali]

Oh, yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

And he's on the tour. So when we went to the tour here in la, he was one of the dancers that came out with like Andy Richter and stuff. People went. That was like the loudest applause I've ever heard was for Robert Irwin dancing. Like, it was. They went insane. It's.

[Kali]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, I love him too. It's just an interesting how amazing though,

[Kali]

like, to be loved and like, your dad was super loved and adored.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Kali]

And have that memory go on forever. I love that for him and continue

[Trisha Paytas]

being a good legacy because, like, Steve Irwin was like, so problematic. Everyone loved him and that's kind of like the new generation. Bindi and Robert, like, everyone just like

[Kali]

loves them so much, you know?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. They seem like they have it all together. And Terry, his wife, like, she never remarried. I was like, she said, once you have like the greatest, you can't remarry.

[Kali]

So that's. I know.

[Trisha Paytas]

And it's so sad. And then your kids turn out to be so good. Hopefully there's like a heaven and you can actually like, you know when they say they're watching, I really hope that's true. I hope like our souls or something can, like watch. I don't know. I don't know how that happens, but that's a whole deeper. A deeper subject. Let's see I'm looking at my. Have you been doing the AI baseball trend? You haven't seen that where the girls use AI and they're just, like, beautiful in the. In the baseball stands? No. What? Oh, yes.

[Kali]

On the Jumbotron. Yes. Yes, I have.

[Trisha Paytas]

And just. I'm like, serving face. Everyone's feeling mad about it, but I'm like, if I knew how to use AI, maybe. No, I shouldn't.

[Kali]

I can't. No. AI is not very. It's not good. Don't use AI.

[Trisha Paytas]

Right.

[Kali]

I am against AI.

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't even know how to honestly, people be like, oh, I put it into AI And I was like, where do you put it?

[Kali]

I don't know. You have to, like, sign up for something. But they're popping up everywhere. Speaking of AI, did you hear that Alexa is. Or Amazon is going to have an Alexa plus where you can have. You can put in a topic and you can have a podcast on demand. It will AI generate a podcast and have, like, AI voices host the podcast for you.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's just, like, not gonna be good. I just feel like you can't get this on AI, you know what I mean?

[Kali]

You never know what we're gonna say.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's the part. It's just like, oh, did AI predict that I was gonna do a K pop song?

[Kali]

No.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, you know what I mean? Like, if you typ church of pay as, like, they're not gonna just give you church singing Korean unless you type

[Kali]

that in the prompt, in which case

[Trisha Paytas]

I'll just do it. So I feel like, yeah, they don't know. And even those, like, AI fruits and stuff that I used to like, I'm just kind of like, it's not even that good. Like, you know what I mean?

[Kali]

Like, dancing fruits.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, the AI fruit dramas. You never watch those. No, where, like, the fruits, the banana would be cheating on the strawberry. And then when they had the baby, it was like an avocado.

[Kali]

No, I. I quite literally don't even know anything about that.

[Trisha Paytas]

And now they're getting crazy because it's like, AI like tampons with, like, a menstrual pad. And they're, like, having babies on YouTube. Where is TikTok?

[Kali]

Oh, my gosh.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, we don't support them.

[Kali]

No, I don't.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, you're right. No, I don't either.

[Kali]

Yeah, my dad sent me because we had. I had baby hummingbirds in my backyard, and he sent me a video, like, of a baby hummingbird. I'm like, dad, that's AI. He's like, is it? I'm like, look at the fingerprints on it. You can tell. I fall for two moments. She falls for it all the time, and she's just buying stuff. I'm like, okay, Mom.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, I know. She'll be like, can you dispute this with the card company? Like, it was. Was it the dinosaurs?

[Kali]

It was a 3D dinosaur blanket. I'm like, mom, why didn't you. You need to start asking me if it's real. Otherwise.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Kali]

I'm like, you could have made your own sew. Some freaking stuffed animals on a blanket. Boom. You got a three Dino blanket.

[Trisha Paytas]

Did she keep the dino blanket?

[Kali]

She did. She couldn't send it anywhere.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, yeah. She's like, I don't know where this is.

[Kali]

Damn. I don't know where this is.

[Trisha Paytas]

In Illin, Illinois. I'm like, okay, well, it ended up all being.

[Kali]

And then I'm like, where did you buy. Where'd you even find this from? She's like, Facebook. I'm like, oh, my God.

[Trisha Paytas]

All the Facebook.

[Malibu]

Oh, my God. That's the problem. That's the target market.

[Kali]

I know they are targeting elders because they don't know any better.

[Trisha Paytas]

Just people on Facebook that are like.

[Kali]

It makes me so sad.

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't know.

[Kali]

Or, like, even AI like, like, articles and stuff, like, are just so not true.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, oh, yeah. Well, actually, Facebook in general. Facebook Marketplace. I think Tan talked about this on that Loveline, and she got, like, scammed with, like, a car, like, this, like, blue convertible. And this guy was like, hold on. Right there.

[Kali]

A car on Facebook.

[Trisha Paytas]

Marketplace. Tana, I forgot what the scam was. Check on all of. I don't remember, but I guess.

[Kali]

You know what it reminds me of?

[Trisha Paytas]

What?

[Kali]

Little Lambo on offer up.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, my God. Yeah. When my Lamborghini was stolen, the guy sold it on offer up for $10,000, and then a fan of mine bought it, and he's like, is this Tripadis at Lambo? I was like, yeah, I'm selling it for her. Like, this, like, ran this guy that stole in, like, broad daylight. And then the guy. That's how we found it. But I felt so bad, and I couldn't communicate with the guy because, like, obviously you can't, like, give a reward because then it looks like insurance fraud or something like that. Like, you just can't do. Yeah, I, like, I had to stop communicating with them because they're like, well, this is now, like, a criminal investigation.

[Kali]

And I felt.

[Trisha Paytas]

So that's what it's.

[Kali]

Getting a car on Facebook, marketing Oh, right.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. This guy would be like, this is my like, baby, I love this so much. Like I never want to part with it. I could part with it for you or something. And she says she felt something like something was off and she like ended up like not getting it because something like it was weird. But I guess he was, was like in this business of just like selling like these, the same car over and over.

[Kali]

Okay.

[Trisha Paytas]

But like wasn't selling the car that before.

[Kali]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't know. I don't really get the Facebook marketplace. She does love a Facebook marketplace. But I'm like, Oscar does too. He'll like meet someone like in the middle of like a mall parking lot to get a little boo boo.

[Kali]

And I was like, back when the

[Trisha Paytas]

boo boo's were a thing. Which they're canceled now. But the boobies are canceled. I think just they're over expired.

[Kali]

Okay.

[Trisha Paytas]

God, what a craze. And that lasted. That was such a short lived.

[Kali]

They made their money and now they're.

[Trisha Paytas]

They bounced out.

[Kali]

Yeah, I'm sure people still buy the boo boo.

[Trisha Paytas]

So.

[Kali]

See, this is why you don't go with the trends. Because I don't have any. Well, I was gifted one, but that doesn't count because I never bought it myself.

[Trisha Paytas]

What one were you gifted and where?

[Kali]

My friend Jenny gave me one. It was just like a gray one with like the rainbow.

[Trisha Paytas]

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[Kali]

I do have the. I have the Lefoufu that you gave me with the wig or Oscar A fan gave us one. That one podcast. She's got acrylics and. Oh, she's fierce.

[Trisha Paytas]

She's fierce.

[Kali]

Yeah. Bust down.

[Trisha Paytas]

That one was a good one. That was a good little boo boo.

[Malibu]

That's the difference between something fashionable.

[Kali]

There we go.

[Trisha Paytas]

I thought that was real.

[Malibu]

This is true.

[Trisha Paytas]

I know. Where did you get that from? Where did it come from again?

[Malibu]

What do you mean? He. He just finished his shift.

[Kali]

He got it at Barnes and Noble.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, but I mean, it was like last year. Now it's still here. You kind of.

[Malibu]

That's what I'm saying. It's not like people just get the labubus and don't care about them anymore.

[Trisha Paytas]

And is that an Arby's hat on it still?

[Malibu]

And shirt? Yeah.

[Kali]

I do love that, though. I still want the hot girls wear Arby's shirt.

[Trisha Paytas]

I have one. I think it's sold out. I have one, but it's a double XL on your tiny, teeny tiny.

[Kali]

I'll take it.

[Trisha Paytas]

How's your streaming going?

[Kali]

It's going really good.

[Trisha Paytas]

We've got to give you a shout at the beginning of the episode, but let's do it right now.

[Kali]

Caviator143 Calcator143.

[Trisha Paytas]

How often are you streaming?

[Kali]

Five days a week.

[Trisha Paytas]

Week. Do you ever do collabs?

[Kali]

Streaming collabs? I used to, but a lot of the time viewers would just want me to talk with them.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, like not play a game?

[Kali]

No, no, no. We were always playing again. Okay, but like.

[Trisha Paytas]

But yeah.

[Kali]

No, I haven't done a collab in a while.

[Trisha Paytas]

Any streamers? You want to go on their stream? A little kaizen at I show speed?

[Kali]

No.

[Trisha Paytas]

Clavicular neon?

[Kali]

No, none of those people that. Absolutely not. No, none of those.

[Trisha Paytas]

You wouldn't do like a vanilla amaze?

[Kali]

I would do an open amaze, yes. Katie B.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay, why don't we hear about these? You know what? I collab with Jimmy.

[Kali]

Shout out Jimmy.

[Trisha Paytas]

You did? What was the collab?

[Kali]

Jimmy and Oscar. We played fortnite before.

[Trisha Paytas]

One time. No. Multiple. And how does that work?

[Malibu]

Who won?

[Kali]

Oh, well, there's. We're on a team. So did you guys lose? I don't think we won one.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay, well, that's okay. You do have.

[Kali]

I Do carry them.

[Trisha Paytas]

Sorry, you do carry what?

[Kali]

Carry the team.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, with Fortnite. Yes. Well, maybe you need to play on their field, like Animal Crossing or Pokemon.

[Kali]

I'm down. Yeah, but, like, that's not a. That's not a shooter.

[Malibu]

Competitive game.

[Kali]

Yeah, it's not a competitive game. That's just like a hangout.

[Trisha Paytas]

I'd rather do a hangout game. Give me a Minecraft all day long.

[Kali]

Oh, I love a Minecraft. Oh, my God. I would love to have a Minecraft server with you guys.

[Trisha Paytas]

I feel like they like Minecraft too. We need to get on it. Maybe not Oscar, but I think Oscar

[Kali]

plays it, But Jimmy definitely does.

[Trisha Paytas]

He did, like, an edit that took two hours of me playing Minecraft or something. This is the one for E312.

[Kali]

Do you love Minecraft? Yeah, we play it all like the

[Trisha Paytas]

movie, but I don't know about them. Mario haven't played it. What?

[Kali]

You haven't even played Minecraft?

[Trisha Paytas]

Minecraft.

[Kali]

Ex Trish.

[Trisha Paytas]

When you tell me, you tell me you like Mario.

[Kali]

Yeah, I don't. I watched the first movie, but I don't like to support Chris Pratt. Why?

[Trisha Paytas]

That's so random. What a random beat.

[Kali]

He's problematic, and I just don't like him.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, because of his. Right.

[Kali]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's something with, like, his first son. He doesn't really, like, acknowledge as much that.

[Kali]

And just. Just there's a lot there. We could go on a deep dive, but we. We won't.

[Trisha Paytas]

He's a politician now.

[Kali]

Now he's not a politician.

[Trisha Paytas]

He married one.

[Kali]

Lds. What?

[Trisha Paytas]

What's that?

[Kali]

Mormon.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, that's two different things. Latter Day Saints is different than Mormons.

[Kali]

It's the same thing.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, it's not.

[Kali]

Yes, it is.

[Trisha Paytas]

Someone Google it.

[Kali]

Yes, LDS refers to the Mormon faith.

[Trisha Paytas]

What's the other one?

[Kali]

And the Mormons are like, don't call us Mormons because it's a slur. I'm like, okay, calm down.

[Trisha Paytas]

Who said that? Which Mormon? Well, the Mormon wives didn't.

[Kali]

Well, the Mormon. So the actual Mormons got mad at the title because they're like, oh, they're giving us a bad name.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, right, because they're not practicing Mormons.

[Kali]

Right, right, right. So now they don't even want to be called Mormons.

[Malibu]

Okay, well, they said the term Mormon typically refers to members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. LDS Church. I'm thinking of something the largest branch, which follows Brigham Young. Anyways, that's not God. But they can also be independently religious, secular, and non. Practicing.

[Kali]

Well, anyways, I think that he owns a. Like, a house that was on, like, a plantation. Just, like, not good vibes. Or maybe that's Blake Lively, and I

[Trisha Paytas]

think that's Ryan Reynolds. Oh, no. You know what he did?

[Kali]

He tore down a historic house.

[Trisha Paytas]

Chris Pratt. Yes. Okay. Yeah.

[Kali]

So my hate for him runs.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, my God. I hate him.

[Kali]

I don't hate him, but I don't

[Trisha Paytas]

want to support him. Who would you rather support, Chris Pratt or James Charles?

[Kali]

Oh, God. Oh, my God. That's. I guess I'm gonna have to go with Chris Pratt.

[Trisha Paytas]

Wow. Yeah, that makes sense. Yeah. He doesn't seem like he's making fun of people who lose their jobs or anything.

[Kali]

Or he doesn't, like, do inappropriate things with underage children.

[Trisha Paytas]

Right. Yeah. Young boys.

[Kali]

Yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

So, speaking of awful people, the Valley.

[Kali]

Oh, my God.

[Trisha Paytas]

Did you watch a hey, Sister watch for you for research. I love that she started from the beginning. We tried to start from the beginning,

[Kali]

and I was like, let me just

[Trisha Paytas]

get into the episodes everyone's talking about, because from the beginning is diabolical when you're like, do you watch the show? I was like. Like, it's a tough one. Moses was tuned out. It was.

[Kali]

Can I just. It's not a good show.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's not a good show.

[Kali]

It's. I was bored.

[Trisha Paytas]

But everybody loves it, so I'm like, you know what? Let me know. Everyone does not love it this season. They did love the first season. They're like, how is someone worse than Jax? Like, I guess, apparently Danny and Luke. Luke, that's the name. The one that's married.

[Kali]

The one who just had a baby with Christian.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Yes, Luke. They were kind of, like, beloved the first few seasons because I think they didn't talk. But this season, they're, like, diabolical when

[Kali]

they open their mouth. That's the problem part.

[Trisha Paytas]

I think Jax was on the first couple seasons. I don't know. I only know Jax is a Britney, and I just know he seems like. He looks like. I don't know, you know him. I don't know his vibes.

[Kali]

Yeah, well, I would catch a few episodes of Vanderpump Rules.

[Trisha Paytas]

People love that one. And bpr.

[Kali]

That's why people like the Valley, because it's them now grow up, grown up and, like, married and have children.

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, that, to me, kind of got me. Which I like, by the way. I'm not, like, hating on this. I like that they're, like, my age. I kind of like that they're like millennials, because I thought that everyone was, like, young and not to say they're not attractive, but it's like, oh, these are people that, like, look like me and act like me. And I. Yeah, I think it's a

[Kali]

show geared more towards you because it's definitely about, like, young families and, like, navigating the new relationship with the new baby and, like, struggles with postpartum and stuff like that. So I do see it for that audience. I don't relate to that.

[Trisha Paytas]

But that. That is like. Right. It is kind of like my era. But I think it's also like, like, maybe you watch it to feel better about your own life because. Well, let me tell you, I did

[Kali]

feel better about my own life and my decisions. I'm like, if this is trying to make me want to have a trad

[Trisha Paytas]

wife, I don't try. Like, no, for sure. No. And that's what I said, too. I literally started off my tick tock. I was just like. Because I'd never make tick tocks unless I'm, like, really upset about something. And I was seeing all the clips of Danny and Nia and I was just like, this actually is the reason people don't want marriage and don't want babies specifically.

[Kali]

And he just looks like.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, my God.

[Kali]

He reminded me of like, a.

[Trisha Paytas]

No. Old Smurf. No.

[Kali]

Like a soap opera actor.

[Trisha Paytas]

You know what I mean?

[Kali]

Like, he's got that look.

[Trisha Paytas]

And I'm just like, he also kind of looks like a pug.

[Kali]

Kind of.

[Trisha Paytas]

But so sorry to the pugs, because pugs are pretty cute. But. But when they. He's like, human.

[Kali]

I'm like, okay, maybe he's like, rich. No, they just moved to Santa Clarita. I'm like, girl, no hate on Santa Clarita. Very unfortunate.

[Trisha Paytas]

It is affordable living.

[Kali]

But she was, like, not having it. She's like, I'm away from my friends who's like, I'm struggling with postpartum too. That it could be close to them.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Kali]

Far away.

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, she also has been pregnant, like me for like, literally, like. Well, she has four, so she's been. She said she's been pregnant or breastfeeding for literally, like, the past five years, six years.

[Kali]

I don't know how she does it. It's.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. I don't know if that's. I'm not like, hating on it. I don't know if that's like a recommended thing. Because your body, like, I feel like, needs to, like, adjust time to the hormonal adjustment. Yeah. Like, reproduce some milk replenish. Your body. I think it's recommended to usually wait a little bit.

[Kali]

I think you are even worried that you had gotten pregnant so fast the third time. Yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

I'm like, especially with C section. They're like, you're supposed to have at least a year. They recommend like, a year and a half and, like, two. Okay, fine. You're only supposed to really have three C sections total. But also back to back, like, when

[Kali]

you told me that.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, no, same. No. I. We didn't even record our reaction. We have reactions to our first.

[Kali]

I wish you had that reaction of me because I'm like, what?

[Trisha Paytas]

I know.

[Kali]

I was like, you just had a baby.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, but, like, it was so hard at both those babies. Like, we did the HSG test both times, and if you guys don't know, that's, like, when you clear out your tubes. We did it both times. And you get, like. If you have trouble with, like, infertility, like. Like, it's the first step when you take your fertility journey to, like, do IVF or something like that, to kind of check and clear all your stuff. And, like, a lot of people do get pregnant after those tests and those work. So if you're struggling with something, might I recommend. They don't usually recommend IVF to you. Or. I'm sorry, not IVF. HSG test before IVF because it's less expensive. It's only like, 600. So I think in general, they kind of want to, like, make more money, so they sometimes skip that. But I would ask if you're struggling with infertility, to ask for an HSG test. We learned that from Tiffany. We learned that from someone else, too. That I was like, let's just try this out. So it's hard for people. Yeah.

[Malibu]

And they'll use it basically as a test before they do the ivf. So it was even hard to get it because we went to the doctor. The doctor was like, wait, why are you here? How'd you get here? How'd you get this test?

[Trisha Paytas]

So we're like, oh, our doctor recommended it.

[Malibu]

You can say, yeah, we're going to do Ivan, but we want to do this test first and then go for

[Kali]

it after the test, you know?

[Trisha Paytas]

Although by the second time we went, they're kind of like, okay, you're back. And I was like, yeah, well, we got pregnant the first, so let's try this again. So, like, and sometimes they're. Sometimes they're good, and they will, but, like, yeah, a lot of times they don't want to tell you that. Whatever. And we recommended to some people we know in irl and it worked for them, and they were, like, over 40, so that was. That was great. But all that to say, where was I going with this? The hsg.

[Kali]

I'm just saying it was so back to back.

[Trisha Paytas]

For Elvis and Malibu. We did the HSG test because, like, with Elvis, it was taking, like, a little while. Like, longer than expected. Because we wanted them back to back just because of age. Our ages and stuff. In my age particularly. And then so when we got pregnant with Aquaman, it was literally, like, one time having sex. And it was just like the floodgates were open apparently. I guess so, because also it was like, way we were. I was actually, like, tracking. And I was like, that week of ovulation, like, not even anywhere close to it. So this was, like, right before my period, all this stuff like that. I was like, oh, this is. Whatever, it's fine. Insane. That wasn't. That was the most insane thing. And yeah, like, they. Again, I'm not a doctor, but what I've read a lot is you're really only supposed to have, like, three C sections and definitely, like, wait a year in between because you. Something where it, like, needs to, like, rebuild. Like your. Because you can structure.

[Kali]

Yeah.

[Malibu]

You have a scar that's healing and there's like, six different layers.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Kali]

Even if after getting your boobs done, it's like six months.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Malibu]

Here you get another pregnancy, which means all of those cars are going to stretch now. So you need them to be fully.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's also, like, you risk uterine rupture. Like, that can happen. And so you have to, like, really monitor really well. I think even. I mean, Aquaman came so early, but that was the not problem. But, like, I had such a traumatic birth because his head was, like, really, like, far down already. And I think they did say it was really thin. Whatever the layer was, was super thin. And that's why he got the fetal laceration, which was, like, cutting his head and stuff like that. So it was just like, well, now

[Kali]

he's got a perfect head. So he doesn't have a perfect head now.

[Trisha Paytas]

It is wonderful. It healed nicely. Babies are resilient. We talked about this, like, I think yesterday on Hot Topics talked about how resilient they are, but. Oh, yeah, I think Oscar talked about he accidentally dropped a baby on the head. Or. No, it was baby fellow. I don't know. Something. But I was like, maybe they're resilient. But a while ago, when he was a little Kid. Not now, anyways.

[Kali]

Got it, got it, got it.

[Trisha Paytas]

But I. Look, they're resilient and they are. So don't be too scared of a baby. Obviously. Watch them. But if they get a little bump, they're usually fine. But all that to say aside from the physical aspect, also just like, emotional, hormonal. Everything's just like. And it's a lot. Can I tell you now, being I'm 10 months postpartum for the first time, I've been pregnant for the past. Since 2021. Since December 2021, I've been pregnant or yeah, like, postpartum, and I only had, like, three periods in the past four years, which is, like, so crazy. But now being 10 months, which is still not fully out, you're really kind of fully out at, like, two years. Like, you kind of start feeling yourself again. But even now, just, like, energy and the way I feel, I was like, oh, my gosh. Like, you really are like a different. Like, you feel like a human again. Something when you're pregnant. I loved it. But it does feel very surreal and very abnormal and hormones are crazy, and you are like, just. It can be all out of whack. As much as I love being pregnant, I also realized that I was just a little bit out of my head.

[Kali]

I felt bad for you during postpartum, though.

[Trisha Paytas]

You can't tell any.

[Kali]

You can't tell a woman about postpartum, you know?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. And sometimes you don't know. Sensitive, right? That's for sure.

[Kali]

Being respect. I was trying to be respectful of you and, like, your feelings are valid, too.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, yes. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Kali]

But your emotions are super heightened. And I just felt so bad for you that I would be on the verge of tears because I'm like, I see my sister suffering.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, it's a lot. It's a lot. And people, like, don't realize. I think also people, like, online, it's like when someone just had a baby. Because people, like, are really respectful when you're, like, pregnant. They're always, like, glowing. Love this. And then, like, they forget. Like, the aftermath is like.

[Kali]

It's so funny that you say that. Kristen on the show.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Kali]

Had said, oh, my God. Everyone was like, oh, my God, you're pregnant. What are you doing at the, like, the store? I was being praised and I was. Everyone was being nice to me, and I have the baby and then they forget.

[Trisha Paytas]

Quiet. Everyone just quiet. Forgets about you. Like, just, oh, she's fine now. Like, whatever. She's had the baby. But it's like, that's, like, the hardest. And then you also have to take care of a baby on top of that. We were talking about last Hot Topics, Elsie Hewitt, who just had a baby with Pete Davidson.

[Kali]

Oh, yes. Apparently he's a deadbeat dad.

[Trisha Paytas]

Right? We talked about that yesterday. Yeah, allegedly. Not allegedly. According to healthy. She's like, I'm doing this on my own. And she's just like, he's. She's not around, like, financially supporting or physically supporting. And it's just like, you just had a baby. All your hormones are out of whack. And then on top of that, and she, like, put out an Instagram story. Elsie looking for, like, a mommy's helper, a nanny. Like, she was, like, looking for this. Like, he's not helping her. He's not going through an agency to get, like, a nice nanny or something like that. Like, she's posting all this alone. And I'm telling you, you are like, the worst kind of person. Because it's like, even if you, like, don't like each other, because usually, guys, we always say this. Well, we saw it from the Valley back to the Valley. Was it. Was it Luke who was like, like, oh, I don't get, like, any, like, intimacy or any, like, sex. And she's like, my body, like, hurts. Like, my body. I just, like, don't feel good in my body. Like, what do you mean? Like, I don't want to have, like, I just don't have sex with you right now. Like, I have this baby because not only that, you have to take care of the baby, but then when your man is a baby too, when the father is also being a baby, which is both Danny and Luke. Luke, I give a little more pass, I guess, like, first time dad, he, like, maybe is a little shook that he's not getting all the attention. But Danny, it's your fourth time around and you don't know how to swaddle your baby. Like, you have to, like. And then he's like, mad that she's eating a sandwich. And I was like, did you see on the train? So, okay, so the Valley is okay. Vanderpump. So they worked at Vanderpump Rules. That's what it is. And now they're, like, grown up, some of them.

[Kali]

I. I don't know if Nia did. I don't recognize some of them because I watched the earlier seasons of Vanderpump.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay.

[Kali]

I don't really recognize.

[Trisha Paytas]

Where does Tom Sandoval of it in this role. In this role. He was on Sandoval So he was,

[Kali]

he was on Vanderpump Rules.

[Trisha Paytas]

He was with the, the group like Jackson, Brittany. Yes. Okay.

[Kali]

And Schwartz and Ariana and Katie and Lala.

[Trisha Paytas]

All of them. I do like Lala. I love her. She was the one that came out and was like, I'm not comfortable with the way you're speaking to Danny.

[Kali]

I don't like, first of all, he was belligerent. I think that was apparent. Yes. Yeah, absolutely. And like he was just so weird. The fact that like I don't see them together as like a couple, Danny.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, it is.

[Kali]

She seems so much more like, like together and he seems like a mess.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's what I don't get either. I guess he was like a child star or something like that. So maybe she thought there was like some appeal there, that he was like famous at one point or something. I don't know what his deal is. I don't know what he does now on the show.

[Kali]

I don't know either. I have no idea. It didn't mention it on the show.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, I don't know if he's like.

[Kali]

And then he went to go get his like his vasectomy or whatever. Did he?

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, I didn't see that. Where, what episode was that?

[Kali]

Was that before?

[Trisha Paytas]

After the San Diego trip Before?

[Kali]

Oh yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

And what did he say? Oh, so that's good. At least he got that.

[Kali]

Well then he's like, like the doctor was like, oh, first of all, he's very crass about his genitalia.

[Trisha Paytas]

What did he say?

[Kali]

He's just like, oh my God, my balls are so big or whatever. It's like, who cares about that? Okay.

[Trisha Paytas]

Just like on TV you have like. I get it.

[Kali]

Maybe they're like trying to play it up for the tv but like, honestly it's very off putting.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's off putting. Cuz I, I think like you don't need to play that up for the TV being like, no, no one cares about your balls.

[Kali]

Maybe Nia does, but I don't, I certainly don't.

[Trisha Paytas]

Nia does stand 10 toes down for him because I feel like next episode

[Kali]

she's so meek and like, like so like, you know, quiet.

[Trisha Paytas]

Maybe it gives someone who like kind of like what you were saying who doesn't know they're being. I don't. Abuse is like such a crazy term but like doesn't know they're in this like manipulation cycle. This like gaslighting cycle.

[Kali]

I think that she does.

[Trisha Paytas]

So she kind of just is like, I don't know what Are you gonna do.

[Kali]

She's got four kids with him.

[Trisha Paytas]

That is. That is the hard part. That is the hard part.

[Kali]

And of course, we don't know how their relationship is out of just this one segment, but it is not. Look, it does not.

[Trisha Paytas]

He was saying that she is the one who wanted more kids, that he was, like, good with, like, two.

[Kali]

She was the one that made the vasectomy appointment.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, okay.

[Kali]

So I don't know where he's getting that from.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay, so maybe I don't know either, but that's. Yeah. Four kids is a lot. I always say that. I always say three kids is a lot. Four kids seems insane, but more power.

[Kali]

But going back to, like. Like, the vasectomy appointment when he got. The doctor told him, like, you won't be. You'll still be able to. Your sperm will still have. Be able to create a child after 35 times of ejaculation. Then you'll be sterile.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, I didn't know. Is that true for all vasectomies?

[Kali]

I believe so.

[Trisha Paytas]

Good to know. Because any vasectomies and be like, we're pregnant again. I'm like, well, maybe know the fine print, right? I didn't know that. But.

[Kali]

So then he gets home, and, like, she's struggling. She's always, you know, breastfeeding or doing something. That poor girl.

[Trisha Paytas]

And like, four kids under four almost, right?

[Kali]

Like, oh, she's, like, trying to, like, have a serious conversation about, like, how hurt she's feeling, how she's been feeling about, like, away from whatever her postpartum. And he's like, well, you're gonna be a lot busy because I put 35 days of sex on the calendar. I'm like,

[Trisha Paytas]

when people say that, it's, like, actually so gross. Like, what do you mean? Like, that's not what I'm thinking about at all.

[Kali]

So gross.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. And that's. That's what you say to someone who's, like, trying to open up and be like, I'm kind of struggling right now.

[Kali]

I. It's, like, juvenile.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, humor is what he's doing. And they're like, middle. They're like, marage. My. My age. Right? Like, middle age.

[Kali]

Older. He's older.

[Trisha Paytas]

Is he 40?

[Kali]

I don't know.

[Trisha Paytas]

Let me look it up.

[Kali]

Because, honestly, I hate that guy.

[Trisha Paytas]

I do hate that guy. I do hate him, too. I did. No, my blood boiled. That's why I was like, this is why women don't want to have kids with men. And, like, I honestly. I don't blame them. Like, I. It's. It's. I don't know. I don't know. I. I would. If I had kids with anybody that I wanted to have kids with before,

[Kali]

I probably would have been, like, 42.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, you're way too old and too grown, and it's not cute, like you said. I get it if you're, like, trying to play it up for the thing, but this is not cute. But what people were saying is, like, if this is you on camera, like, imagine, Right? Yeah.

[Kali]

Like, if this is how you talk to her in front of people, how do you talk to her behind closed doors?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. And then he's like, it's none of your business. I was like, you're in. In a communal house that you're all sharing and you're being loud. I hated that episode, too, when she was giving the makeover to him, and he was being so, like, condescending, like, just, you know, just put it on, and I need it to be perfect, and I need this. And it's just like, you're taking the fun out of everything. When they went on their little date on the. The pier, and he was just like, you're being performative right now. You're being performative.

[Kali]

He insane.

[Trisha Paytas]

Reminded me of an ex, and I think you know which one I'm talking about where. Like, a switch.

[Kali]

Like.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Where. You remember, we were, like, on the set of the music video, and he was, like, so grouchy. And as soon as someone came around, he was, like, turned it on. And I was like, that is giving Danny. That is giving. Psychopathic tendency, in my opinion. And that was, like, so scary to watch. And then calling her performative, I'm like, you're. Without the kids. She's probably so happy. She's probably trying to, like, you know, you. You try and get the energy up. Like, okay, we're out without the kids.

[Kali]

What are we gonna do?

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, and to, like, throw it in her face.

[Kali]

The fact that she had to explain to him, like, I've. You've only been around me for the last five years when I've been with. With kids.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Yeah.

[Kali]

And so this is me without kids.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. And it's like, he didn't know the, like, difference. And she just had a baby, so she's also still going through, like, the postpartum changes and everything like that.

[Kali]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

The fact that he, like, couldn't.

[Kali]

What really was concerning to me is that, like, I forgot who mentioned it, but someone was like, they don't air their dirty laundry. They very much keep it at home. So I'm like, who? I, Danny and Nia.

[Trisha Paytas]

Who said that though?

[Kali]

I don't remember who, just somebody like someone had prefaced it. So the fact that he is doing this like so openly, I'm just like, oh my God, what are they dealing with at home?

[Trisha Paytas]

At least, like, that's out there and people can like see it now. And I think it's good. Honestly. It's giving like 16 and pregnant where it was like, you know, the, the pregnant. The teen pregnancy rates like dropped greatly after 16 pregnant. I feel like that's gonna happen with this. It's like girls will stop or women will stop having babies with like lose men. You know what I mean?

[Kali]

Because the lowest it's ever been.

[Trisha Paytas]

Is it.

[Kali]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

If you are just like, I'm not gonna have kids.

[Kali]

It's so expensive to have kids too. It's very hard to find a partner that's willing to help you raise a family.

[Trisha Paytas]

The men are actually like so worthless in this like partnership. Like that is actually like so crazy how you can't help at all. When she had the baby in the carrier on the train, bouncing, trying to eat a sandwich and he's laying back, getting a massage, I wanted to, I wanted to like, I know, shake him so hard. I'm like, what is your problem? Take the baby or something. Feed her the sandwich.

[Kali]

Like, what are you like?

[Trisha Paytas]

And then she's like, can you take the baby? He's like, I'm going to get a coffee. And then she's like, okay, well when we get upset, I was going to get a coffee first. I was like, I, I like. And she doesn't see it like you said. Like, I feel like Lala will get like chewed out for like, you know, saying any of that stuff because she like doesn't either see it or like,

[Kali]

like you said, has her own past. So she recognizes Lala has.

[Trisha Paytas]

Shares a baby daddy with one of the other people, right? No, no, that's another person. There's two girls who share a baby daddy. No, the blonde.

[Kali]

Oh yes. Lacey and. Oh, Michelle.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, yeah. And they're like, like, cool.

[Kali]

They don't have a baby together. Lacy and the other guy.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, okay. They don't.

[Kali]

They just, they're just dating.

[Trisha Paytas]

They're just co parenting. Got it. Okay. The other. Okay, so.

[Kali]

So no one shares baby daddy, but Lala had abusive or manipulative, whatever kind of narcissistic relationship with a Hollywood producer.

[Trisha Paytas]

And okay, yes, I did see something like that.

[Kali]

So she has experience in seeing like shifts in men. And, like, so she gets very triggered. Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

As she said. And then that Danny just started taunting her with the triggered word. He's like, oh, I missed. Trigger. I missed.

[Kali]

I was like, actually, no, you're just a douche, essentially.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Oh, my God. No. Like, you're actually the worst person. Because it's one thing to do it to your partner, and it's like, all right, she has to deal with it, not me. But then you're doing it to other people on the cast, in the house that are obviously all down there for the same purpose. No, I hated that so much. And I was like, you're such a loser. And, like, you're just, like. You contribute nothing. Like, you said, not rich. He's not hot. He's, like, contributing nothing. So also, you're not a good father. On top of that, like, you. You have to pick. You have to pick one. You have to pick one thing that you're, like, good at. And you're good at nothing. Nothing. You're literally good at nothing. And that's.

[Kali]

Her mom is around a lot of the time, too. And then on that trip, they brought a nanny, and it's just like, what do you do, though?

[Trisha Paytas]

What do you do?

[Kali]

Except for complain that you have to put the baby down and her eyes are waking up. Her eyes are waking up. I'm like, first of all, sir, I don't think that's how you say that. You say, I can't get the baby down. Not, her eyes are waking. Her eyes are waking up.

[Malibu]

And I'm like, english is not my first language, but I would not.

[Trisha Paytas]

That was. We saw that because that was the clip you were watching you saying it over and over, too.

[Kali]

Like, I don't think that's the right

[Trisha Paytas]

way to say it. Have you never put, like, your baby down? Like, you know when her eyes are, like, open and she's just not sleeping? Like, what? Like, it's so. Like, he's so.

[Kali]

He's like, never done this before, ever.

[Trisha Paytas]

That part, like, scared me. I'm like, this is your fourth baby. I get it for a second. Okay? But, like, fourth baby, you can't put your baby down. And then he's like, well, we have to sit her. Like, what is she for? She's also, like, cleaning the. The nanny's, like, cleaning stuff and everything like that. And there's three other babies. I'm like, you are. So imagine being the nanny.

[Kali]

And he's like, well, why did we

[Trisha Paytas]

get a nanny here? But they showed her, like, doing the bottles or something. Like, she's cleaning something else, which he wasn't doing. I'm like, he's just, oh, my God, you're eating a sandwich. I'd be like, oh, my God, I'm gonna bite your head off next.

[Kali]

How about that? Don't ever comment on my food that far.

[Trisha Paytas]

I was like, wait, what do you mean you're so upset? She was getting like, a little huffy and stuff. And I'm like, understandably so. But it's. It's like, God, just one thing after the other. And then the makeover and then this. And I'm just like, this person is awful. And people do not want him on the next season. And I think this, overall, this, like,

[Kali]

I actually don't really like a lot of the people on there.

[Trisha Paytas]

I like the girls. I like.

[Kali]

I like Lala. I like.

[Trisha Paytas]

Which one? Schwartz.

[Kali]

Tom. And that's going to be controversial.

[Trisha Paytas]

Which one is Tom Schwartz?

[Kali]

The one that's single and he's.

[Trisha Paytas]

He's on there now? Yes. Was he on the trip to San Diego?

[Kali]

Actually, yes, I think so. He's gay. No, he's very much straight.

[Trisha Paytas]

There's a gay one, Zach. I like the gay ones.

[Kali]

I like Zach. I do think that he gets into everybody's.

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, that's his character, I guess he's.

[Kali]

I guess, like, if there is an

[Trisha Paytas]

issue, Zach's right there. Yeah. That's why we need a sassy gay all the time. We need you in the weeds. You need to be in the mess. I just, I.

[Kali]

He's like, in everything. He was. He was at the appointment with Danny getting a vasectomy.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, see, that's what I'm saying. He's just there for the tea. He's there for their time, honestly. And I love that. That's why you need that in the. Okay, so I like that they have it like the morn was needed again.

[Kali]

But, you know, it's not even that. He's, like, in the middle of it. I feel like people go to him for issues. Like Kristen and Luke.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, they were both voice of reason.

[Kali]

I'm like, why don't you go seek a professional maybe?

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, maybe he is. What does he do? We know. Yes.

[Kali]

Because he said, you guys need to go see.

[Trisha Paytas]

Was he working at. At Vanderpump?

[Kali]

I don't know. Like I said, I didn't watch the later seasons of Vanderpump. But what happened to Pump?

[Trisha Paytas]

What happened to that restaurant I love with the lobster pasta? So the show couldn't keep it alive one time where's Tom. Tom.

[Kali]

TomTom.

[Trisha Paytas]

I think. No, it's down.

[Kali]

Really?

[Trisha Paytas]

I think.

[Kali]

I don't know if it's down. I think Jack's bar is down.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, Jax had a bar in the Valley. Maybe that's why. Was it in the Valley? Was it in, like, Student City? It was in the Valley, yeah. It's like, oh, no.

[Kali]

But I think Tom. Tom's still around because I think they

[Trisha Paytas]

had brunch there or something. Okay.

[Kali]

In the show.

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, Jackson on the season, right.

[Kali]

He's no, thank God. And you know what? I never understood why Stassi and whoever it was Kristen. Maybe because Kristen Dan him. I don't know. One of the girls dated him.

[Trisha Paytas]

He's not.

[Kali]

They were fighting about him. I don't think he was hot.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, even in his youth, his body.

[Kali]

I. I don't think he was like,

[Trisha Paytas]

Tom said, well, okay, kind of hot back in the day, but back in the day.

[Kali]

But he's.

[Trisha Paytas]

Jack's not.

[Kali]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't get it at all. Brittany was hot. Britney is hot.

[Kali]

High.

[Trisha Paytas]

I still think she's high. Obviously. She just had, like, babies and stuff like that. Like, but she was also very hot when she, like, she was always the hot one in that relationship. So I don't know what happened.

[Kali]

The Valley would be fine if there was no men on the show.

[Trisha Paytas]

I think that's. That's what I was gonna say because

[Kali]

Britney's man was also pissing me off too.

[Trisha Paytas]

Which one was he?

[Kali]

Brandon. It's a new thing. And like, by the next episode, he was like being in everybody's drama.

[Trisha Paytas]

I was like, okay, you're new here. You're new that you're new. Yeah, that was like Mormon wives, too. Like, he was new and he was like, telling her, like, you're being manipulated by your kids. I'm like, you're new here. Like, who are you? You're like a 24 year old, no kids. Like, why are you. I hate when that happens.

[Kali]

Like, hey, you're the new kid in school.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Don't come on your lazing unless you're on Real Housewives or something like that. Yeah, it's 100% with you. I'm 100% there. Yeah, yeah. The Vander Vanderpump. What is it called? Valley. The Valley.

[Kali]

Valley.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's giving. Look, I like. I like the women. I do like the women. And I do love. I like what you said. Like, you're not in that era, but I do love that it's like showing real. And I love that they do Wear, like, no makeup, because that's, like, me half the time. Like, no, make hair down.

[Kali]

I felt really bad for Kristen, though. She went out for, like, breakfast with some of the girls, and, like, she just had a breakdown about, like, how she doesn't feel good about her body and herself and her self image is like, yeah, I felt really bad. And I do think that's really positive to show other women that are at home that, like, yeah, don't get to see that, you know?

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, I've been loving the conversation on it, too. Like, Hidden Penny here just went on Jay Shetty, and she was talking so much about her. Her postpartum depression, and they diagnosed it as alcoholism. Like, obviously, she was, like, drinking at the time, too. She goes, but they didn't even tell me that it could be postpartum depression. It was just like, oh, you're an alcoholic. We're gonna treat you for that. Like, not tying in, like, maybe the reasoning behind the drinking and stuff like that, which was the postpartum depression, which is when she, like, signed over custody of her daughter kind of unknowingly, like, how, like, she wasn't, like, gonna, like, get her back, and now her daughter's in the Ukraine, and now they have, like, a good relationship and stuff like that. But it is so wild when. And she was young. She was, like, 25 when she had her daughter. And it's just, like, I do, like, that people are about it, because it's scary, too. People judge. Like, Hayden Pantiere was like, you know, she talked about her. Her mom. She was scared she's gonna be like her mom. And the thing is, is, like, everybody, I think, goes through it, even if you don't know it. Like, I feel like with Elvis, I felt like I had a perfect postpartum, but I was just also, like, maybe not, like, looking back, because you just don't know. You don't know when you're in it. But certain things can, like, trigger you, and it is a crazy thing. Like, I was pretty happy. I had so much support from Malibu to Elvis Aquaman. I had so many people, but it still, like, one of those things that's just overwhelming. And it's a change every time you have a baby.

[Kali]

So even if you have people around you, doesn't make you feel it sometimes that doesn't make you feel any better either. Like, it's the internal thing of yourself, you know, like, you're 100 hormones. You're dealing with your thoughts, you're dealing with your. Your new body and stuff. Like, that. That part can't.

[Trisha Paytas]

You know, your body changes, like, so much. Even if you, like, snap back, whatever. Just, like the internal of everything, like, your body changes. So I do appreciate the value for that because it is giving, like, realness. And it's because, you know, there's the housewives, right? But they're a lot older than me, and it's like, they're a different lifestyle. They're all like, you know, whatever, skinny, rich, everything the Valley gives. More real. And so I don't know where any of these people are, but I like it. And that's what I like about it.

[Kali]

I kind of like.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love that these people are just on there.

[Kali]

And. But the fact, like, Brittany, though, she is very attached.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love Britney. Yes.

[Kali]

What can I do for you? Like, she's so.

[Trisha Paytas]

Because she knows she's. She was getting a mommy makeover. I was kind of like, I need you as my friend. Yeah. She's taking care of everything at the house. I think she said she was, like, paying for his taxes.

[Kali]

She made a whole sensory room for her son. I was like, that's so. No, I like to go in that sensory room.

[Trisha Paytas]

Me, too. We all need a sensory room. I think that's so.

[Kali]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

She's so special. I just wish they would show, like. I do love that they show, like, musty, dusty men. Because that is the reality that so many women.

[Kali]

I don't think there's one man on

[Trisha Paytas]

there that I like. That's what I'm saying. I wish there was, like, one person kind of like. Like Connor with Whitney on. There's, like, one guy that gives you a redeeming hope, like, maybe one day, you know, but you just see all these pieces, and it's like, we get it and we like that.

[Kali]

But, like, you know what's crazy? Here's the crazy part. Janet is not a favored person on the show.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Kali]

She was pretty much alienated from the group because she called out Danny for being inappropriate.

[Trisha Paytas]

What season when this was, like, early in the episode. Earlier in the season?

[Kali]

No, like, previous season.

[Trisha Paytas]

What did she say? I didn't know that.

[Kali]

Something about, like, her, like, him being grabby. And so I'm like, wait a second here.

[Trisha Paytas]

They try to like.

[Kali]

And so they alienated Janet, which, honestly, I don't know much about Janet because I only watched this season.

[Trisha Paytas]

She's not on the season.

[Kali]

She is on the season.

[Trisha Paytas]

Was she in the San Diego trip? No.

[Kali]

Oh, yes, she was.

[Trisha Paytas]

Which one was okay? Was she on that?

[Kali]

Or maybe she was at a different Party anyways, but I thought it was very interesting that she called out Danny.

[Trisha Paytas]

And that always happens when you're the one to call out bad behavior. They try to.

[Kali]

To.

[Trisha Paytas]

They try to extract you. They try to be like, oh, no. Like, they protect like the toxic one and then they extract the person. But then it's like, that's the problem. And we were talking about this the other day too, on Hot Topics is when you're the first to call out someone, everyone says you're crazy. They were talking about this because when I called out James Charles Back in 2021, Oscar read me the list of people who were like, yeah, get her. Eat her up. It was like, dream Charli d', Amelio, like, all these people. And I was like, let's. Let's ask their opinions on James Charles now. You know what I mean? But when you're the first to say something. That's why nowadays I am being a little more meek and mild these days. I know. Shocking. But it's like I. I just kind of like to sit back because it can't come from.

[Kali]

You can have your own thoughts.

[Trisha Paytas]

I know, but if it's like a James Charles, like, okay, well, I've been saying this about James Charles, but yeah, I try to, like, yeah, the cats

[Kali]

are already in bag.

[Trisha Paytas]

Sometimes the messenger, it's like, maybe, okay, maybe not for me. You need to hear. Maybe you need to hear from someone else.

[Kali]

Which is.

[Trisha Paytas]

Which makes sense. Like when Jackie Aina called out James Charles, everyone's like, oh, you know, because they listen to her. Which makes sense. She's respectful, never in drama. We love her. She's a queen.

[Kali]

But honestly, I don't think maybe Jackie or Jackie Janet was wrong because about Danny.

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, obviously, because look at how he

[Kali]

gets when he gets drunk. He gets. Yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, I don't know. Yeah, I haven't.

[Kali]

I don't know about Grabby, but I'm just.

[Trisha Paytas]

We believe it when we. Or we're believing her because context clues is like, he seems a little.

[Kali]

He needs to get it together under the influence.

[Trisha Paytas]

You are like parents at the end of the day. And it's just like, you know, obviously you can like, let loose and make mistakes and all that stuff like that. But like, also like, you know, your kids will see this one day. Like, I don't understand how you. You're just also the way you treat their mom. It's also just like, she's like taking care of all your kids for you. Like what? Like, it's so weird.

[Kali]

But anyways, well, yeah, I'm glad that you don't like Danny either because I was looking at it and I was like cringing.

[Trisha Paytas]

He's the. I don't wanna say he's the reason I started watching the show, but I guess I had to because I was just seeing clips. I'm like, there's just no way. This must be out of context. There's no way he's this bad also.

[Kali]

He's that bad. Just don't ever comment on what a woman is eating ever in your whole life, ever.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay?

[Kali]

Not what she's buying at the grocery store, not what she's putting in her mouth.

[Trisha Paytas]

Nothing ever, never forever comment.

[Kali]

If you didn't learn from Love is Blind. How many years ago with the clementines?

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh my God. So specific.

[Malibu]

Well, because we're going to have dinner.

[Kali]

Well, still don't.

[Malibu]

If she was.

[Trisha Paytas]

He's joking.

[Kali]

He was.

[Trisha Paytas]

He's joking.

[Kali]

I know.

[Malibu]

Just remember that whole scene.

[Trisha Paytas]

He knows. Well, he knows.

[Kali]

He knows because he knows me.

[Trisha Paytas]

I'm like, not that he ever did. I'm very sensitive with food. It comes to food. It's like, nope, don't even question if I'm hungry, whatever. But. But you've always been good with that. But some people, it's not that way

[Kali]

and they need to get it in line.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's like weird. But it's weird what you will put up with. Because I do. I had exes like obviously who had issues with me just eating in general. And it's like so insane what you put up with and thinking like, oh, it's like cutesy, it's this. Or you like laugh or whatever. Sometimes I'd be like side eyeing. But I was like, you have to realize if you have a partner. Oh my God.

[Kali]

You with the chicken nuts nuggets. Hello.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yes. Amongst other things. But even like just eating like a simple Panda express meal, like, I can't believe you would eat that. I'm like, but if you have a partner who says that stuff to you, just know it's like projection. Like they're, they have issues. They got some issues with their own food and body and their intake and so they're trying to project it on you just because you're just like eating like a normal person. If you're eating, you're fine. You should be eating like it's, eat

[Kali]

what you want, eat what you crave,

[Trisha Paytas]

Eat what you want, eat what you crave. We lose that like as like children know so well when they're hungry, when they're not. When they're full. Like, they just know. Know, like, some. And it goes in spurts with children, with adults, too. Sometimes you're, like, so ravenous and you just want to eat a lot because that's just your body going through it. Sometimes you don't want to eat a lot at all. Like, you just listen to your body and don't comment on people's foods. And if someone is commenting, they're projecting their insecurities. Danny, with your shortness. Danny, with your ugliness. Danny, with your lack of anything. Like, able to provide for your family. Like, all of it. Like, you can't even clock it, hunt or gather. Like, you can't do either. And so I think that insecurity he's projecting on this woman who's literally a goddess, who's starring on a show, who's birthing all these kids for you and taking care of them and carrying the show. I guess it makes for good tv. I don't know. I try. I'm kind of hooked on it. I guess. I kind of been like, you know what?

[Kali]

I didn't actually like it, but I'm like, well, now I got to see how it goes.

[Trisha Paytas]

I know I need to see it for these women. I need to see them through, but I'm. I'm here for it. Well, maybe they'll be on the next season of My Worst Ex on Netflix, season three.

[Kali]

Okay, I hope not, because that's terrible.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, right, right. Okay, that's.

[Kali]

That's a bad transition. Bad transition.

[Trisha Paytas]

Ask her. When he's not here, I'm like, let's transition.

[Kali]

Very good at that. I know. That is a quality I don't have.

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't have it either. Me being like, maybe they'll be on My Worst Ex. I was just thinking, like, they'll be an ex. But you're right. This is about killers, and they're not killers. That's very different.

[Kali]

I guess you can abuse, so.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, well, I only watched the first two episodes of the new season. Jeffrey was on the second season.

[Kali]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yes, he was. Episode two.

[Kali]

Yes. Or episode one, maybe. I don't remember. But regardless, he's on the.

[Trisha Paytas]

Episode one Was Wade.

[Kali]

The new season.

[Trisha Paytas]

My Sister's a True crime Girly. Which I didn't know.

[Kali]

Which is so funny because you texted me super late last night. Yeah. You're like, well, I don't know what. It wasn't even that late. I think it was 8:30. I went to sleep.

[Trisha Paytas]

I was going to bed. When I texted you. You're like, I Don't know how late you stay up. Well, I was about to go to bed, so I'm like, I sent my sister to watch a documentary at like 9pm the day before.

[Kali]

Oh, I already know that story.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh yeah. I was like watch the crash on Netflix because like I really want to talk about it. I don't think Oscar's watched it it yet. And then on Hulu they had one called Mean Girl Murders and she was also featured on that. So I was like, oh, watch the crash. Because that to me I was like, I'm in my documentary area for sure right now. I'm like, so like have to do a documentaries.

[Kali]

I know it's crazy because like you were not messing.

[Trisha Paytas]

I never liked. My mom is always like, oh, it's

[Kali]

not all the time. Yeah, she's not. Somebody feed Phil.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's a documentary. True crime. Yeah. You guys have been on it and you like already knew about that story so. Well, where do we go?

[Kali]

My worst.

[Trisha Paytas]

And then the crash. Okay, which who is. I was gonna say who's worse but I guess probably obviously way worse. These guys. It is crazy because. Right. Comparing. Not to compare the two but like obviously the crash, I do think it's horrific and I think she's like not held accountable at all. And like she was like the 17 year old girl and you're just like, what is wrong with you? Like you slammed your car and killed these two people. And I think intentionally in my opinion. But these men on my wear sex and I watch it because grow men though. Grown men. Jeffrey has kids.

[Kali]

Kids, like several kids. Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

And you're just like, are you a monster? They look.

[Kali]

So he has a mom normal.

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, we doesn't look normal anymore, but like did look normal at one point. It's like Jeffrey very unassuming. I only watched in.

[Kali]

In he started or not starred but he was like in the.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, he was a main character. A nine day fiance.

[Kali]

No, I'm talking about actual acting shows.

[Trisha Paytas]

What show was he him? Oh my God.

[Kali]

I gotta look it up.

[Trisha Paytas]

Really?

[Kali]

Yes, he was like he. He had speaking lines in actual shows, like cop shows or whatever.

[Trisha Paytas]

What? Oh wait, before 90 day or after 90 day?

[Kali]

Before. Because he always wanted to be famous. Did he even watch the thing?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, I didn't know he was acting.

[Kali]

Yes, it said it in there.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, and the. I did not. I did not watch this full episode. I had only had seen the Wade one and I watched clips of the Jeffrey one because Jeffrey's a hard assignment. I mean Wade is too but like I think because Jeffrey is hard to

[Kali]

stomach for me because I had an exactly like him.

[Trisha Paytas]

So you saw.

[Kali]

And so I was, like, cringing the entire way. He was on Fatal Attraction episodes, like, those kind of, like, shows.

[Trisha Paytas]

But it was scripted.

[Kali]

Yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, that's so weird.

[Kali]

I didn't know.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, I watched it because, well, you told me. I love true crime.

[Kali]

It was on Snap too. Like, you know how they do flashbacks, facts.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, I do remember that. Was he doing, like, a reenactment?

[Kali]

Yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

Twice. Right.

[Kali]

He was a detective or whatever.

[Trisha Paytas]

Ironic, because now they're going to have snapped about you because it was. It's so insane. I remember talking to him on Instagram Lives.

[Kali]

I remember you talking to him, too.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, my God. Like, he was on 90 fiance and that was kind of, like, scary, right? Is like. So he went on 90 Day Fiance. He had just did assault, like, a physical assault on his. Was his girlfriend, not wife.

[Kali]

Fiance.

[Trisha Paytas]

Fiance. Where he Trigger warning. Like, it's obviously like domestic abuse where he, like, smashed her head. But he said. She said even before that he had charges. He had so many charges before because it's, like, one thing she was. Okay. It was six months before he left for the show, so maybe they didn't know hers, but, like, there was so many, like, charges prior and they still had him on the show, which is, like, risky because again, like, you show him girls are hitting him up, which obviously we know from my worst exes. I like that doesn't stop anyone. The Wade was in Wade Wilson.

[Kali]

Yeah. They are very. Usually abusers are very charismatic and they're very, like, good at schmoozing. That's how people get hooked into these relationships. And then they get stuck in these relationships. Because the hardest part about it's like leaving.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's the hardest part is leaving.

[Kali]

It's the most dangerous part in a relationship.

[Trisha Paytas]

Or is. Yeah. It's hard to get out of it. And but on top of that, these. Some of the. These, like, Wade, they know what he's done and they write to him.

[Kali]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

I mean, when he went to prison the second time, after killing the second girl, he literally. Tick tock is flooded with, like, he's so hot.

[Kali]

I literally don't understand that. That whole mentality of, like, this man is an abuser. He's killed women and you violently. He's hot. Like, no, he's psychopath.

[Trisha Paytas]

And it's like, one thing to be like, that guy's hot or whatever, but to like, write him and be like, I want to have a relationship with

[Kali]

Books, girl, you look so desperate. You actually look like a clown. Okay, Dan.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, I don't.

[Kali]

And being so openly public too, like, people have, like, made tiktoks about it. Why would you make a tick tock on that? Yes, and there's something wrong with you, actually.

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, then Jeffrey's current wife, Varya is like, still supporting him after hearing all these stories because they show his Jeffree's ex that he physically assaulted and like, she's telling the story and grabbed graphic detail and how he was like, trying to, like, get away with it and stuff like that. And Varia is, like, still supportive of it. And I'm just like. I guess because he's in prison and she's just like, peace. I had.

[Kali]

She doesn't have to deal with, you know, she doesn't have to deal with the repercussions of him, I guess. But because he has.

[Trisha Paytas]

Is he have life sentences. What is his.

[Kali]

No, he doesn't because he didn't kill anybody.

[Trisha Paytas]

But I thought that was like the get. Because he. I thought he did have life sentences for not even though he didn't. Or am I just, like, getting that wrong? Like, I thought he had like, consecutive one ones, right? He didn't.

[Kali]

20, 37, 18 years. Oh, more than still. Pretty good for not murdering.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Yeah, that's pretty good that he's in there. 18 years. Wow, that's so wild. So will he be with Vari when he comes out? I guess. I guess she'll be like, maybe she's

[Kali]

still around if he's still around. No one's promised tomorrow, but yeah, it was crazy. I had an ex that hid his son from me and I didn't find out till I hit a son. Yes. That hit.

[Trisha Paytas]

Which is this, your first one or second one?

[Kali]

First.

[Trisha Paytas]

Remember? Oh, no, I don't.

[Kali]

So what?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, I remember him, but I didn't know because he had.

[Kali]

So he had two and I only knew that he had one.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, yeah, that's right.

[Kali]

Oh, and like two years in a relationship, he was like, I found out that he had a second one. And I'm just like, you start like, thinking like, oh, my God, I don't

[Trisha Paytas]

even know this person. No, that's terrifying. That's terrifying. If mo. Like, I. By the way, I had a kid, I'd be like, oh, my God.

[Kali]

I would be like, I. I'm sleeping with a stranger.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's what part is so scary. So how old was the kid?

[Kali]

Seven years younger or. No, he was like four years younger than me.

[Trisha Paytas]

The kid that you didn't know about?

[Kali]

Yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay. You were 18 at the time.

[Kali]

No, I was actually 20.

[Trisha Paytas]

So he was 16. How was old was the other kid that you knew about?

[Kali]

13. But, like, when they mentioned that he had, like, these two teenage boys over and like, the fiance was there, they're like, oh, these are my friend's kids, or whatever. And then come to find out they're his kids, I was like, girl, yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, how are you lying about that to someone that you're like.

[Kali]

Apparently multiple men do it. Because I've experienced it too.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, you're so right. That is so scary. That is so scary because then I

[Kali]

feel like, oh, what, are you gonna go date? I'm like, I'm really good, actually. I'm really good.

[Trisha Paytas]

I think that's the consensus for a lot of women online. And I feel the same way. If anything happened to us, I don't really. I don't think I would. I, like, it's so scary because, like. What do you mean? Like, well, even people who've been married like, 20 years. Oh, my God, we go on hikes, like, because you just like, sometimes they're like, oh, they were married 15 years. Then he just pulled her scuba diving.

[Kali]

She like, God, there's one in Hawaii when they went on vacation and the husband, like, gave her an injection and tried to push her off the mountain.

[Trisha Paytas]

I just saw one too, in, like, Indonesia. He, like, threw off a train and I was like, the husband. I'm like. Because, like, she took her. Took her purse off to help her and then just like, threw over. And I was just like, what? And it's, you know, not all men, but always men. Because if you look at, like, the females who have done some of this stuff, like, there's usually, like, there's a reason.

[Kali]

There's the one from Monster.

[Trisha Paytas]

You're Charlize. Yeah. Like, there's always, like, some provoking. Yeah.

[Kali]

And usually they're protecting their children.

[Trisha Paytas]

That part. I've seen so many women on, like, death row and it's like they literally, like, shot someone that, like, killed their daughter or something like that. Self defense. Yeah. Or also just like, you should be able to, like, if you. If you did something to my daughter, I should be able to shoot you if you did something. Like. That's so insane. Especially when you're underage. So. Yeah. Or self defense or any of that stuff. Like, it is wild. Yeah. Mom should just be able to do that, period. But yeah, these men do it truly, just out of nowhere, like random people and you're just like, I don't, I don't, I don't get like that's why I don't like watch. I don't, I can't watch true crime too much because it does like freak me out. Even the case I don't know know her name from the crash, but she's like the 17 year old girl.

[Kali]

Mackenzie. Mackenzie Schrella Mackenzie.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yes. Even watching that it's like obviously not as like eerie, but it's also very much like those kids were very young. I mean he was like she was 17 I think at the time. But he like Dominic was like 20. His friend was like 20. And it's just like the dangers of really just like your child. Like who is the. Sorry, I don't want to get his name wrong. It's Dominic. And who is the friend? Davey on Davion who was like a friend that like just was it like just knew them and just was like why he was in this car. But it's like you also have to worry about your kids being friends with people who are like toxic with each other because you could end up in that backseat of that happening and stuff. And it's so, it's just so scary. And these are children, right? She's in high school and it's just like you just don't expect it. But maybe he did, maybe that's why he brought him. And it was just like I don't really like trust her or whatever and it's just, I don't know. And then the fact that there's parents, parents like hers that were just no accountability.

[Kali]

They are so tone deaf still until this day, to this day.

[Trisha Paytas]

And that's the thing. It's like take some accountability. Yes, she was like underage but still like take some accountability of where like you went wrong. Like you can just tell she was just like coddled like this her whole life and it's just there's zero. Oh, she's not a murderer. And like let her go. Those were her family, those were her people. It's like, it's like that black box

[Kali]

does not lie though. She never stepped on the brain break, right?

[Trisha Paytas]

It wasn't.

[Kali]

Tell me that's not intentional.

[Trisha Paytas]

Some people said that they were trying to shift to neutral and then back to drive and they were like that they may have been trying to like fight.

[Kali]

We'll never know really the truth and

[Trisha Paytas]

but that's I think at this point very like least now is like if you are so. If you are remorseful and you're so sorry. Like tell the truth to the family so at least they have the closure. Because it's just like not. And she got two very different edits on the Hulu versus the Netflix one. I think with the Netflix one, I think the family thought. Because I think she's up for. What is that called?

[Kali]

She's not up for parole yet.

[Trisha Paytas]

She's not. Or is there like a retrial happening? There's something.

[Kali]

She's trying to appeal it. The first one got denied. They're trying again.

[Trisha Paytas]

So I think they thought this might make them look good. It actually made them look.

[Kali]

The appeal is based off of making one of the victims look bad. And I'm like, this is not what

[Trisha Paytas]

you think it is. Yeah, no, that's the thing. It's like, why are you, you victim blaming at all? Like your daughter was.

[Kali]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Recklessly driving regardless of why the intentions were Which.

[Kali]

Imagine going 100 on the freeway. Imagine doing that on like cross streets, like little streets.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. There was somebody doing like a hundred. Like they already went to trial in this area too and same thing. And they were trying to like plead like that there. What? They weren't even reckless driving. I'm like, what do you mean 100 miles? Like that's so.

[Kali]

It's so fast. First of all, a car going 100 miles an hour. A lot of cars will shake because. Because they just can't like.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Kali]

Handle going that fast. But also what's really triggering too is that like she was like they thought that she was under the influence, absolutely sober. Yes. She had THC in her system. But like that stays in your system for a while, but.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh right. They're so unfazed by her like smoking and stuff like that.

[Kali]

I'm just like, I'm living with your boyfriend when you're 17.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Kali]

That tells me everything about the parents.

[Trisha Paytas]

100 is the parents fault. Fault. I mean she is a product of her parents and we can see why she is the way she is and has all. Has like zero accountability and also like zero remorse and just like cold blooded and all this. It's like that's why like obviously the parents were like neglectful in some way. Like you're just like letting her live with a boyfriend. Oh, you're not, you're not like shook by her like smoking like the fattest joint. Like it's just so. It's so crazy. And the fact that. Yeah. Watching them like in the court also still trying to like defend it all and stuff like that because it's like One thing to, like, love your daughter, but you're.

[Kali]

Oh, Davion is a new friend. Friend.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Kali]

Sit down.

[Trisha Paytas]

I know. I like, stop talking.

[Kali]

He, like, because one, you're not making it good for your daughter and two, you sound like a idiot.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. And there's like, their families are there and you can't like, give them some sort of.

[Kali]

Absolutely tone deaf.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Your daughter is still alive, even though she's the one to cause it. And it's always. It's always the case it's the one that caused it. But I do think my opinion. I feel like it was intentional. I feel like it was like an intentional murder. And that's because who goes that fast under that with those pretenses? Yeah. So I just. The documentaries are crazy, but I guess also it's. It's good that it's out there again. Awareness for everyone. For parents too. Like, to not let your kids, like, drive to tell them, like, don't drive with other teenagers. No, that's the law.

[Kali]

That is a law, too, that I wanted to bring up too.

[Trisha Paytas]

Once you're.

[Kali]

If you're under 18, you have. If you're driving with another underage person, you have to have someone, I think, like, of the age of 25 or you can't drive.

[Trisha Paytas]

That should be. I didn't know. Is that a lie?

[Kali]

It is a lie law. It is.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Kali]

I guess that's so another neglectful parent issue.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. And it really does come down. Honestly. They should be tried, too. It's like, okay, if they can't try them for. Yeah.

[Kali]

Well, she was right as an adult, but.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, she was.

[Kali]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Because, I mean, 17 and also.

[Kali]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

And it's just good awareness, I think, for. Also people in toxic relationships don't get in the car with, you know, and not. And that's not their fault, obviously, but it's just.

[Kali]

Well, the saddest part is dating. Davion was supposed to go home with someone else to help him do something, and he's like, I just want to go to home and, like, get some sleep before I go help you. Oh, that just. It's so hard.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's so awful. And also the other people on the road, too. It's like one thing with them, but there's like, other people on the road and it just like, is. Yeah. And there's no. You know what? There is, like, no solution. That's what, like, sucks is. Like, these people will continue to do it. They'll continue to go to prison. There's people who were in the same prison or her at the time and saying how awful she was and how she, like, just thought she, like, got away with stuff and everything. Like that signal, girl, you're in prison.

[Kali]

So if you are younger and watching this, you do not have to go fast. Whatever you're going to can wait. It doesn't matter if you're late for work, for school, whatever.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Because a lot of times people do. You're right. They try to go home and, like, rush home.

[Kali]

And it always.

[Trisha Paytas]

I see that, too. I see that a lot.

[Kali]

Everybody.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, yeah. Nothing is worth risking your life for. For other people's life. That's what I'm saying. She had just. I think she had malice because she absolutely. She's not remorseful. If you're really sorry, like, you. You give closure, you give admission, you give something. But she's not. And she's still trying to, like, get away with it. And the parents, too.

[Kali]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

And, yeah, it's.

[Kali]

It's.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's awful.

[Kali]

I heard Korea loves you after your new song.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, seriously.

[Kali]

They've been, like, tweeting or, like, commenting about you.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yes.

[Kali]

Next show for you.

[Trisha Paytas]

Go to Korea. Go to South Korea. I would love. That's, like, the goal of all goals. I would absolutely love it. I know. It's the. The response has been really nice and we talked about a little yesterday, so I won't like it too much, but, like, the response is, like, super nice because, like, I'm just so not used to people. I love making music. I will make music and music videos forever because I just, like, love it so much, even if, like, no one cares about it. But, like, this was so much fun, and I, like, loved learning the language and people were, like, really supportive of it and. Do you like the song?

[Kali]

I love the song. You sound so good. Bilingual queen, people.

[Malibu]

Breaking news.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's breaking news.

[Malibu]

US K pop charts. It's number 45.

[Trisha Paytas]

How did you find out? Just on Twitter. Stop.

[Malibu]

On itunes.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, my God. 45 is crazy.

[Malibu]

Okay. Just to understand.

[Kali]

I have.

[Malibu]

Sorry, my hair is beating. So number 47 is demon hunter Strategy. Like, one of their songs.

[Kali]

What?

[Malibu]

Number one is golden. So you're like.

[Kali]

Oh, my God.

[Trisha Paytas]

In between the hundreds. Oh, my gosh. Congratulations. I appreciate it.

[Malibu]

So by the time you watch this video, we might be number one.

[Kali]

Imagine.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, my God, I would cry. I literally was telling Moses, like, I'm being. I was being so serious about crap. I'm like, are we ready to go. Go to South Korea? Like, are we ready to go over there and like perform, like, because I, I love it so much. And I have other Korean songs in my roster. They're not like fully done yet, but I have other ones that I've like, started working on like before all this came out because I was gonna do an ep, but I was like, let me just see how people are liking water.

[Kali]

Yeah, big toe in there first.

[Trisha Paytas]

And I'm glad people appreciate it because I do it always out of like, respect. Like, I love the culture so much. I love the language so much. Much like I. I appreciate K pop in all its entirety. As I've said before, it's like my kids, like, love K pop so much. So I'm just glad people liked it because I, you know, again, I can always never know. But it is a good song too. And shout out to Alex Wright for writing it. It's like really a really good song. But yeah. And Amy, who was helping me with my pronunciation through it all, she would send me like voice memos if I needed help with something and she was like, so proud. She was like, sending me it too. You did so good. Like, and I think, I don't know if I mentioned or not maybe I'd mentioned. But yeah, I think I mentioned it last. Well, I'll just like touch on it again. But like, yeah, a lot of people were saying maybe do like some English in there. But a lot of people appreciated that I did all Korean. And that was just important to me. I didn't realize how it was important, that important to like the K pop world, that there was more Korean in here. It's all Korean. There's no English words in it. But like, for me it was important because I just, I really wanted the challenge. But I also just think it's a really beautiful language that I was like, okay, if I'm going to do a K pop song, I want do to. To be all in Korean. And I'm glad that people also appreciated that as well because I just, I, I love the language. I always have. I love languages at all. Like, yeah, always you do. And, and specifically Korean is like such a beautiful language. So I'm trying to learn more as I go. But yeah, I really, I appreciate it.

[Kali]

Well, congratulations.

[Trisha Paytas]

Thank you.

[Malibu]

Yeah. Cuz I saw all the craves. They were like, you know, stream the song now. Let's get it up. Because it was like 577 this morning just an hour ago.

[Kali]

Wow.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh my God. That's so cool. That is really, really cool. I'm really.

[Malibu]

And I've never had this happen to me Like, Instagram, I'm just scrolling. And it's like. It's all different people reacting, like, different accounts. There's a lot of, you know, obviously fans of K pop accounts, and all of them are just your song and the video and everything.

[Trisha Paytas]

What's so crazy is yesterday Oscar's like, you should create do the dance. Like a dance trend. People start, like, recreating your dance. I was like, I don't know. Like, I don't want to just do it myself. He's like. And then afterwards, like, maybe she, like, pay people to do it. I was like, I don't know. It's not your only thing. Literally, this morning, we woke up to people just doing the dance on their own. Like, did not pay. Do not, like, reach out. And they have, like, 20,000 likes on it. Like, there's. You have to show her the one. There's three people who are doing it phenomenally. And doing the choreo. Exactly. It's. I don't know. It's so wild. Oh, my God. Crazy.

[Kali]

They're eating.

[Trisha Paytas]

Wow.

[Kali]

Oh, my God.

[Malibu]

Sometimes I'll scroll and, you know, it comes up. Somebody watching the video, putting a post about it, and Elvis will hear. Hear it. And she runs to me. She's like, demands to watch it.

[Trisha Paytas]

She loves it.

[Malibu]

And she wants me to put on the tv. And she stands there and she's watching. She's learning. Yeah, she's learning the dance and the words. It's so.

[Trisha Paytas]

She's so focused on it and. Yeah. Learning the words of it, which is, like, so cool because they do with, like, demon. Demon. They know all of it. Yeah. It's. It's wild. And I will get better. Oh, my God. Just like, even the encouragement where it's like, pronunciation is not bad. Where people. It's actually pretty good. Like, understood, like, 80 of it. It makes me just, like, want to do it more. So I've been like, really? I was telling Alex, I was telling Amy. I was like, I really want to, like, get with someone. I wanted to, like, really learn it. Because now I already loved it as is. But now with the encouragement, I was like, I really. From native Korean speakers, which makes me feel really happy. And I want to do it even more. And I want to just be fluent in it. I want to be fluent in Korean. That's my new goal. So thanks. I appreciate that. I love that.

[Malibu]

Getting on the music bank.

[Trisha Paytas]

Music bank. I'm gonna come there. I'm gonna be there. I would love. I will fly over tomorrow.

[Kali]

Sometimes I want to play Your music videos on stream. And I'm like, oh, I might be copyrighted.

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't think so.

[Kali]

I think mine are.

[Malibu]

You leave your.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, I usually leave mine open. Like I think I leave it white listed. I think all of them do. This may be different because I do have different producers on this, so maybe they do. But all my songs you can use. But maybe this one is different. I don't know. We'll see. I guess we'll find out. Did you see the Bethany Frankel shoe scandal?

[Kali]

Shoe scandal.

[Trisha Paytas]

See, she wore a pair of shoes from another housewives daughter. I think her name's Dina from Real Housewives of maybe New Jersey. I don't know. Dina's daughter has a shoe line called New N O U like new shoes, no shoes. And she gifted a pair to Bethenny Frankel. Bethenny wore them. She does outfit of the days. She tagged a dupe of the shoe. And so then the daughter who made the shoes called out Bethany. And then Bethany's like, I don't usually respond to this, but I'm gonna call out. Cause it's bad business practice. She's basically like, why would you post a link to the. You got them for free. I gifted them to you. Why would you post a dupe where you're an affiliate? Then Bethany Frank called her out and sent us bad business practice because she's like, everything I wear sells out. Gap jeans, all this stuff like that. So she thought her calling her out was bad business practice and that it wouldn't do well for her small business. However, the gag is the shoes are now. And I guess they. I guess they were sold out. Bethany I think said they were sold out and people want to get the shoes now. So she found the dupe. Because I also think when I went to go order the shoes because I did like the shoes, I thought they were cute. When I went to order them, it did say like six to eight weeks. So I think it was like a pre order. So like I kind of understood what Bethany was saying where it's like people want to know what the shoe is now because we were asking what the shoe is.

[Kali]

Wait though.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, and she could have like tagged them and people could just find out their back order or whatever.

[Kali]

Find dupes on their own.

[Trisha Paytas]

Her own. Yeah, I think, I think I'm with you on that one. I think her do like linking a dupe was a little tacky. Your gifted shoes, she.

[Malibu]

She used. She wore the shoes a few times. The first time she didn't take anyone anything Right. And then later on she was asked and then she started taking tagging, but not the person that sent her the shoes. And then when they called her out, she was like, she said, well, I get PR all the time.

[Trisha Paytas]

No obligation to post.

[Malibu]

No obligation. I do what I want with it. You send it from me for free. So I do what I want. So it's like, you know, it's, it's. It's nice to acknowledge who sent you the thing.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Especially if people are asking. She did say she had made the content saying what the shoes were, but it was banked meaning like it hadn't been posted yet. And I think she ended up posting that video from that same day. So you see she's in the same outfit saying glam, same like New York stoop. And she does shout it out. So she did have it banged. She does say these shoes. She takes out the shoes. She looks at it from new or something. So she did say it, but it just hadn't been posted yet. So she's like, I already did. I did shout it out but like I hadn't posted it yet. So I think the girl's issue was like she tagged the dupe. I think if she just like never said anything or like posted it later or something like that. I get being upset because I do feel like they're also mutuals because if her mom was a housewife too, they probably know each other. So she probably was like, this is annoying. And she's a small business, a female run business. She's like, you know, it would have helped my business.

[Kali]

So much happened to female females supporting females, that part, especially in the business industry.

[Trisha Paytas]

But it did work because everyone is now going to these new. No, no new o new shoes. Nou shoes. Did you look up the shoes? They're kind of cute.

[Kali]

I didn't pop up.

[Trisha Paytas]

You did you typed about any Frankel shoes? It didn't come up. This was everywhere. Where'd you type it in?

[Kali]

I. They don't show the shoe. They just show. They just tell me about the. Is it like a peep toe?

[Trisha Paytas]

It's a peep toe. It's a black piece.

[Kali]

I see it.

[Malibu]

Her website. Does it curate things or is it the shoe itself is hers?

[Trisha Paytas]

It's the shoe itself, I think.

[Kali]

Oh, I see.

[Trisha Paytas]

I think so. I think it's the shoe itself. I think she's a shoe designer. It's a good shoe. It's like 350 bucks or something. It was so must be good quality. I don't know how it Feels for wide feet. But I should look. People ask me why you wear Crocs all the time. Like cuz they're made for wide feet. That's why I wear them. Of course I would love a shoe for a wide foot, but I suppose it's a niche. Maybe not. Probably a lot of people.

[Kali]

You know what, you buy dance shoes, you can wear them all the time.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, that's all I wear on stage. Are those capezos.

[Kali]

Well I, I wear them if I go anywhere. Go out.

[Trisha Paytas]

A capizio?

[Kali]

Yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

A character shoe.

[Kali]

No. Well no, no, no, no. Not like the, like the theater shoes. Oh, they made like dancing shoes. Like Dancing with the Star shoes.

[Trisha Paytas]

Cuz they're meant to be flexible.

[Kali]

Wear them all the time.

[Trisha Paytas]

That is a good life hack. Life hack. Yes.

[Kali]

You can't wear heels. Those itty bitty stilettos. Get some dance heels. They're super flexible.

[Trisha Paytas]

That is a good hack. I found a pair of heels. What did I wear that were comfortable? I found a pair of Jimmy Choo chunky heels that were pretty comfortable too. I wore them to euphoria. I wore them everywhere.

[Kali]

Yeah. The good thing about those is like they're flexible. A lot of shoes are. They've got that stiff sole.

[Trisha Paytas]

So are you team Bethany or team new designer?

[Kali]

I mean they didn't have a contract. I get it. From that standpoint, however, like if her daughter, if Bethany's daughter went into business, she and did that with a housewife, you know, she would be down their throat.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's true, that's true.

[Kali]

Like so.

[Trisha Paytas]

And she is a businesswoman. Didn't she had a skinny.

[Kali]

If the shoe was on the other foot, no pun intended. Literally, how would she be.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Kali]

You know.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Kali]

And she could argue, well, I know business. I would never let my daughter do this. But like regardless. Whatever.

[Trisha Paytas]

But you also know business and you know that would help.

[Kali]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

So much.

[Malibu]

It's a tough one because I would imagine Bethany gets lots of pr.

[Kali]

Yeah.

[Malibu]

So you know, it's like you have. She probably has a garage full of boxes, lots of pr. And when you send a pr, you feel so personal. You're like, I hope she gets it, I hope she uses it, I hope she tags me. But it's like lottery.

[Kali]

Yeah, yeah.

[Malibu]

The chances are a small percent and you'd be thankful if one of the 10 influencers you send it to actually does it. So it's a tough one. Right. You have a lot, like a lot of emotion invested in it. The person sending it.

[Kali]

Yeah.

[Malibu]

And the person receiving it has Zero emotion into it. It's one of a hundred boxes they received to them. It's like, you know, you're like, I'm even cheap showing it kind of thing. So it's like, It's a tough one.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. But she did wear it and she did, like, love it. So it's like, damn, I would have loved a little tag because it. Tag can go well.

[Malibu]

But it seems like she was about to. So in theory, if she was holding back a little bit, her emotion, waiting a minute, the tag would have happened. Things would have happened. So it's like. But I understand also the emotion. You're like, so emotional about it. It's a tough one.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, I guess also when you link something else, when you're like the traffic

[Malibu]

elsewhere, that case, I would just send a nice DM saying like, hey, thank you so much for using my shoe, by the way. You tagged the wrong one.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, a little bit. Oh, that's not my link, actually, girl,

[Malibu]

I know it was sold out, but now it's back in stock. If you can update the link, something like. I would just try to make her aware of that, but definitely not blaster for it.

[Trisha Paytas]

So bad.

[Kali]

We were supposed to do the Disneyland

[Trisha Paytas]

recap at the top of it because you're supposed to do Elvis's birthday. Alice's birthday was when I was performing my UK show on the 24th, and originally we were all gonna go over there together, so I thought, I'm gonna cute little tea party theme for her. And then it just didn't work out because we just couldn't find anyone to help us over there. My dad was. Couldn't go for that period of time.

[Kali]

It was just.

[Trisha Paytas]

It was kind of complicated. But anyways, so we ended up, like, staying back and I. So we celebrated Elvis's birthday early at Disney, which we love. A Disneyland experience. We love it so much. I guess my only hot topic from Disneyland, which is not really a hot topic, is ever been to that bird Tiki Sam's? It's a ticky tiki, Tiki, Tiki tiki Room.

[Malibu]

I love Tiki Room. What?

[Kali]

I love the Tiki Room. I feel like I'm transported in Maui.

[Trisha Paytas]

The Tiki Room with robot animatronic birds.

[Kali]

Hey, you like pirates? Don't even come for me while you're

[Trisha Paytas]

just sitting there watching these birds. Malbor is, like, so dark.

[Kali]

Oh, my God.

[Trisha Paytas]

The birds are literally doing what you just did. And they're like. But they're above you and you can't really see what's going on and it's just kind of like loud. And then it's just like Map was like, is it done? And I'm like, no, but you're in there for like 15 minutes and you can't get out because the doors are all like closed around you. And you're just like, what is happening right here? And all I want is some dull whip. And we have to sit through these birds just yapping. And then it doesn't stop yappy. It's just tweet, like birdie tweets, tweet, tweet, tweet. And I'm just like, what? And then it starts raining and for no reason.

[Kali]

Oh my gosh, you're in the rainforest. It's giving Rainforest Cafe, but at Disney without the food. Okay.

[Trisha Paytas]

And I still live at the end, I guess. Do you like it?

[Kali]

I love the Tiki Room. Well, I love birds in general, so.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, that doesn't make sense. Actually we forgot to talk about that. You saving a bird? Moses found a baby bird and was holding it at the stone house the

[Malibu]

other day and we were at lunch and there's birds. And both Malibu and Elvis are obsessed with. They just want to touch the bird, you know. So they chase birds all around everywhere we go, the lake, the. And then suddenly I see like below Aquaman there's like a little baby bird. It was a baby. And I was like, oh, wait a minute, let me. So I picked up the baby and then I got Malibu and Elvis to come and they could finally touch a bird. They could finally. And they were so like.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, it was, it was like so cute because the baby bird couldn't fly.

[Kali]

And was it a fledgling?

[Malibu]

I don't know what that means.

[Kali]

A fledgling is like when they're learning how to fly. So sometimes you'll find it was really young.

[Malibu]

It was really little. It had some feathers and some still like little white feathers sticking out. So it was really tiny.

[Trisha Paytas]

And Malibu, even cuz she gets a little nervous. I mean Elvis was about to pick up that bird right out of your hand.

[Malibu]

She's like, let me get that bird started holding it. But I didn't want her to squeeze it too hard so I held it and I let them touch it.

[Trisha Paytas]

And then, and then Malibu did it on the back. It was really cute. So you save the baby bird. But birds are not my thing.

[Kali]

So that's why you thought the Tiki Room would be fun for them.

[Trisha Paytas]

We didn't know.

[Malibu]

So I think the Tiki Room seems like more like a place to stop, reset Cool down.

[Kali]

AC action.

[Malibu]

Yeah, you can sit down in the shade for a minute.

[Trisha Paytas]

It was our first stop, though, and I think we were just too. I was too anxious to get to, like, Dumbo and stuff and like, Mickey's

[Kali]

on pirates because it's dark and scary.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. I want to, though. That's my fave. But we can barely gonna say yeah.

[Malibu]

If I think we're building up towards.

[Kali]

Didn't like the dressing, the dress up. No, it was too dark.

[Trisha Paytas]

No.

[Malibu]

But they did love this time for the first time, the mermaid ride.

[Trisha Paytas]

They did love the mermaid and small.

[Kali]

Oh, that's a dark one too. Mermaid is dark. It's dark.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's all dark when you're in there. But then she gets a little nervous at first, and after she's like, I want to go again.

[Kali]

It is really pretty in there.

[Trisha Paytas]

It was fun. We love Disney. And then real quick, sorry, guys. We're like, I was on a little time frame today. May as mental health awareness month. And I love Martin Short has been doing a bunch of interviews. Have you seen this about.

[Kali]

Just saw his documentary on Netflix too.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, there's a documentary about Martin Short.

[Kali]

Yes, it was so. And it's so sad because he's such a great human. Like, he just oozes joy and, like, it really shows in the. Because they have, like, old footage of, like, him hanging out with friends like Eugene Levy and o' Hara. And, like, it's just like, genuine friendships. And it's just like all the kids know each other.

[Trisha Paytas]

I did see that. Like, those clips of that have them and genuine. It's like back in the day when people just be friends with people just to be friends. It's not like YouTubers who are just collabing, what can we get the clout? All this stuff. And then like, oh, let's start drama for beef. Like, I just love back in the day where people would just be friends with each other because Steve Martin was in it too.

[Kali]

And, like, he's had a hard life with his parents passing pretty, like, young

[Trisha Paytas]

in his life and his wife and now his daughter. And I liked what he said about his daughter. She has. She had borderline took her own. She took her own life. And he said she struggled for a long time. And he said it is like a disease, like cancer. Like, he equated. He lost his wife to cancer and he lost his daughter to, you know, mental health struggles. And he said it is a disease. And I thought that was, like, so important. That's why I like Hayden talking about stuff like it is so important to recognize it, because people show on TikTok, too. Even just people that I don't know will show, like. Like, this was him two days before he took us. And they're, like, laughing and smiling and stuff like that. So it's just. It's important to, like, check up on yourself, of course, but check up on the people around you, because it is an illness. It is a sickness. It is a disease just like cancer. Like, you can fight it so hard. And he said she did. He said his daughter did fight it so hard. And sometimes you just lose the battle. Just like cancer. You don't want to. And just with it being Mental Health awareness month is to just. Just check on yourself, check on others. And I always say this. The thing that helped me the most is, like, asking for help. And sometimes I had family too, you know, Sometimes you have family around, and you're like, family's a God. I wish they would talk to me about it. But sometimes you just don't feel comfortable. Sometimes just getting outside help is also the answer. It's great if you can talk to friends or have support or something like that, but if you don't feel comfortable with it, like, sometimes just talking to others, because it can help so much. And at the end of the day, like, we're interested in said, it is. It is a disease, and. And it's just something you have to fight every day. I fight it every day. I fight it every day while I have good days and bad days. Like, it is something that you just have to really actively work on and have to check in on yourself and know your triggers, know your breaks, and give yourself that grace. And I wanted to, like, go into more about it, but.

[Kali]

And I know it's isolating. It may feel isolating, but just know everybody has some sort of mental, you know, struggles.

[Trisha Paytas]

Everyone does.

[Kali]

So you're never alone. And just. Even though it may feel that way.

[Trisha Paytas]

And for those of you who are still here that have also had the struggle of wanting to live, just. Just hang on, hang on. Because it's, you know, you leave behind so many people who, like, love you, and. And I don't know, I just. I feel like if you can just hang on, it's the answer. Life is short, as the Martin Short documentary says. Like, life is short as it is, but it's also like a gift. And it's just. I know it's hard. I know it's hard, but, like, man, if you can just, like, survive one more day, like, it'll get Better. There's highs and lows and sometimes going through those, like dark times make you appreciate when, like the light times come. And as someone who obviously has been there as well, like the light, the happiness I feel now is something that I never thought I could feel in my life. For my first 30 years. I really thought I was just doomed to always feel like alone in this world, even if I had family around me, even if I had that. And the happiness and the joy that I feel now is like, thank God I made it through. I would have missed out on so many core memories. And I just want everyone to, like, hang in there and hang on. And it's, it's really tough. And you know, the people you, you leave behind, it's, it's, it's, it can be really painful. And there's always solutions and it's just hard. But anyways, I say all the people who have lost someone, I've lost someone dear to me too. For to taking their own lives. There is American foundation for Suicide Prevention that can provide support if you've lost someone or if you're someone going through it. There's hotlines out there and there's people who will help and support groups for it all. But never stop sharing your stories and I'll continue to share mine. And I appreciate Martin Short sharing his. It's very tragic. His life or his losses. But keep going. Keep hanging on there. And I want to talk more too, because I know you've gone through stuff too. But we'll save it for the next next one. Hold on for one more day. They had it right. Wilson Phillips. Okay.

[Kali]

They really did.

[Trisha Paytas]

Orchard Charlotte. Hold on. If you feel like letting go.

[Kali]

All right. That's it.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay. We love you guys. And I sorry I had to, like, cut this off short abruptly. Thank you, Cali, for being here.

[Kali]

Check her out, Cal.

[Trisha Paytas]

Gordy Calcator 143. Check out Moses. He's changing all the things right now. Moses cooking videos. We love you guys. Thank you you so much for the support in England. I think Australia might be happening soon, so I'm very excited. Well, in the near future and maybe South Korea. Maybe I'll just pop over there in between.

[Kali]

Love that.

[Trisha Paytas]

Love you guys. Thanks for watching. And we'll be back with Hot Topics with Oscar for the next one. And we'll recap England for real after I have come back with my. My old fish and chips. We will. And have a spot tea. I'll bring some tea back for you.

[Kali]

I always do.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay.