Trisha Paytas (80:17)
That gives me the eck. The other hot topic everyone wanted us to talk about, it's kind of old now, I guess. I was gonna talk about it last time, but I was like, I don't know. I don't know. Halle Belchalter. Do you know her? She was on Caller Daddy and she was talking about how it gives her the ick when guys ask her to use condoms. You didn't see this clip anywhere? No, she's on Call Her Daddy, like, a week or two ago. I guess now, maybe like two weeks. And she was saying, like, when guy. Like, two different instances, guys would ask her, like, okay, I'm gonna like, should we wear a condom? She's like, ill. Like, why would you do that. That. And then she was like. And this is like, on call her daddy, right? It's, like, so crazy. And then she's like, you know, I'm like, not. I'm not gonna get pregnant. I'm not trying to have a baby or something like that. And she goes. She goes. Immediately killed the mood. She goes. As soon as they tried to, like, do a condom, she killed the mood instantly. And just, like, wasn't into it anymore. And I was like, that is the only reason. I was like, okay. I didn't talk about it first because I was like, well, whatever. And then she doubled down. She, like, did an apology, I guess, and she's like, I'm not sorry. It does give me the ick. Like, why would. So people were like, like, the only reason is because people are asking to talk about it. And I was like, well, look, I have been notorious to be like, yeah, I agree. I've been in the past where I'm like, yeah, condoms. Like, I'm. And it's so funny a girl saying it because, like, guys will usually say it because they don't want to wear one. But it's interesting to hear a girl say it because I've always said that, too. I'm like, yeah, well, condoms, like, are not, like, the funnest or whatever. However, I feel like she seems, like a lot younger. So I feel like someone now that's been 37 and been through it a lot without condoms, besides the pregnancy part, obviously. Okay, yes, that's. The STDs are crazy. So let me just tell you, as someone who has gotten chlamydia and gonorrhea, literally, it definitely, like, twice severe cases, but probably. Probably 100 times, not even knowing, right? When I was in my early 20s, I was, like, never getting tested, which I feel like you should be testing if you're sexually active, but especially if you're not wearing condoms. Which was like, me, because I was like, a dumb. Especially, like, just random hookups, too. I think that's, like, a wild thing, because so many people don't know either. Like, it's one thing to be like, well, I know this person. They want. A lot of people don't know. A lot of people don't get tested. A lot of times, like, diseases can go undetectable. Like, that's another thing, too. So it's such a crazy thing. And it's like, yeah, you can get medication for herpes or hiv. Yes. If you get it. That's like, you get medication, you can still live, but it can Like, F up your entire reproductive. Like, my issue with fertility was like, literally I had chlamydia for like a year that was untreated. And I was having sex with like 50 people during that time when I did not know that I had chlamydia. And so obviously just that alone can tell you. It's like going everywhere. And then when I did find out, I was like. Because I was like, it was. I was showing no symptoms. And guys too, like, don't really have a lot of symptoms with the chlamydia and gonorrhea. But like, all of a sudden, like, it did. I started like, it felt like burning something. They gave me this like giant red pill that like, like, was awful. But it like scarred my tubes. Like, it scarred my tubes for so long. 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