Trisha Paytas (17:30)
I know, because I was like, I was kind of let it go. I didn't even. I almost even make the TikTok because I was like, I just don't like ranting. I haven't ranted. Truly clock me if I'm wrong, but I don't think I've like ranted aside from like a David Dobrik or something but like about something so like dumb or just silly in so long cause I just don't believe in it. I feel like, oh, it's like negative energy and you're just like wasting time on something that like you can't control. So I don't love ranting but TikTok, it does love a rant, I'll tell you that. Thank you to the sponsor of today's podcast, Golden Nugget Online Casino Ring in the new year with new rewards at Golden Nugget Online Casino. Right now, new players can play just $5 and get 250 casino spins on a featured game with promo code just Trish. That's 250 chances to win on us after you play just five bucks or more. Don't wait. The best rewards and the brightest moments are waiting at Golden Nugget Online Casino. 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And I honestly like wish her well. Like I even said, even in my TikTok, I was like, I've gotten really good service from her. Like I've gotten good products. Like I wasn't trying to like destroy this person. I was just like, I was feeling a little gaslit and I think that's why I took it to TikTok because I was like, wait, I feel really crazy. It's also a Day that I didn't see Moses this damn an urgent care for three hours. Because I didn't. I thought I was, like, sick. I thought something was wrong with me. Like, I decided to go to rehearsal, so I was just like, a little bit all over the place. So then basically, it all started because I was talking about wearing Keds on tour. I was like, this is probably what you're gonna see me on the stage with, because I ordered these boots, these Meghan Trainor custom boots this late. Okay, start. Start. It is a small business, right? Just. I work with. I work, like, hundreds of small businesses. Etsy, Instagram, all of it. And I worked with her before, and she, like, does such good quality stuff. Like, it's actually amazing the quality stuff that this person has, like, delivered. So. And it's expensive. And I only use this person once in a while because it's so expensive. So when. If I bought a pair of shoes, they're like $5,000 for this custom pair, a custom. Whatever else I bought from this person. You know, just custom items. And they've always been really good, but they're expensive. So I do it few and far between. However, these were the boots I was gonna wear my entire tour for 35 shows. And it's these Meghan Trainor ones. And they look like the Givenchy boots. But what we figured out is they're actually boot covers that she wears with sneakers underneath. Yeah, they're super cute. So she literally is like, oh, yeah, I can easily do that. She goes, basically what it is, it's like a leather boot warmer boot cover with rhinestones. Kind of like what you get on Amazon, but, like, better quality because it's like leather and rhinestones. And I was like, perfect. She's rhinestone stuff for me before. And, oh, the kicker was, as I said, oh, like, my calf is so big, I can't find boots. So I measured my calf, which is 18 inches, and she's like, no, I can do that. No problem. And then she'll, oh, the sneaker is just a sneaker. So we get this little wedge, and we can just bedazzle those. Perfect. Great. So that was back in December. I said, I need them by the 15th. So she, like, sends them to me. I open them, and I'm, like, in a rush. Cause I'm, like, leaving that day, and I open them and, like, I'm telling you, the other stuff is, like, the. The best quality you could ever get. This was, like, literally, like, temu. Maybe. Like, it was like glitter paper that was like Crinkly. And I was like, this is so weird. And then I even took them to my bling person to be like, can you bling these up or something? And she's like, actually, I can't, because they're not even like, they're not leather. They're nothing. Like, if I put a. If I put a glue on it, it's gonna, like, melt it. So I was like, damn. And then the sneakers came, and I had Moses take a picture because I couldn't remember. I was like, I don't think those had any bling on it. So he took a picture and, yeah, they're just steam matted sneakers. They're $100 sneakers that she charged me 500 for. So it's 500 for the sneaker, 1500 for the boot. It's like, so silly. It's like, whatever. So they came, and I was just like. But I kind of gave her the benefit of the doubt. I was like, hey, did you, like, outsource to someone? I would just assume, like, outsource to someone that, like, you didn't. The quality wasn't there. But she was like. She basically was just like, oh, no. Like, I'm so sorry it's not to your satisfaction. Like, let me redo the whole boot for you. And I was like, oh, I can't. I don't have time. Like, I have to. I have to leave Thursday. This is Sunday. I'm like, I have to leave Thursday. She's in a different state. And she was like, finding these Givenchy knockoff boots online. Like, oh, I can bedazzle these. And I was like, oh, I'm like, well, why can you rhinestone those but not these? And she had to go back and forth. And then finally she was just like, oh, well, the paper was just too thin. I couldn't write, so whatever. So we were just going back and forth. She was basically just trying to find a way to, like, do a whole new boot for me. But again, the problem doesn't fit the calf. There's heels, there's sneaker. It just, like, wasn't going to work. I just wanted a refund so I can go to Blinged up who did my Taylor Swift boot. She did a full Swarovski Taylor swift boot for $750. So I was like, well, maybe I could just have her go, like, do some sneakers for me or something. So I was just trying to get, like, half a refund. I was like, I don't know, like, maybe something, but. And we do work well, Together, like, she. This lady keeps saying, like, oh, we had good past business relationships. Like, you know, I. I feel like you should give me a little bit more credit because we worked well together. And I'm like, yeah, I would, if you give me a little credit, to be like, yeah, you weren't happy. Let me give you, like, a refund a little bit. You know what I mean? But she, like, did not want to give me a refund. So we're going back and forth, and I just felt so gaslit because she was just like, you know, we all make mistakes, all this stuff. And I'm like, yes, I get that. But then basically by the end of the day, I was just trying to get $400 from the sneakers back because the sneakers were just literally sneakers with not one ounce of bling. And I kept asking her, like, can you just show me, like, what, a little bit of labor, a little bit of, like, product, you know, because she told. Basically she told me $2,000 was already spent. That's what she had told me. She said $200 already spent. That's basically how much it costs for the boot. $300 to ship it to you. She was basically making it seem like she made no money on it. I was like, okay, but what about the Steve Madden shoe that you literally did nothing on? And so anyways, so she basically was just, like, doing everything to not give me the refund. And then at that point, I was just like, okay, I'm not getting a refund. I'm not. I don't want a new boot from you. It's not going to get here in time. It's not going to fit. So I just wanted TikTok. It was a long day. I was after rehearsals, after Urgent Care, and I was just like, well, let me just do a little rant. Just like. Because I honestly thought maybe I was going crazy because I texted you from Urgent Care and I was like, I like, am I, like, going crazy? I texted blinged up. I was like, am I like, what? Everyone's kind of telling me the same thing. Like, no, that's like, really bad quality. Whatever. It's like, literally whatever. So then I went to TikTok and I really, again, I thought I was being very nice about it. I really did. I cut out, obviously, anything about her Instagram, whatever, and I was just like, I was just frustrated. I was frustrated. I felt gaslit and I don't know, I just like, kind of ranting. What was I expecting from it? Nothing. I guess what I got from it as I got $400 back because she did send me an email. She was like pissed. I did the thing. Oh, I can't believe I did an update on my tick tock this morning. And just a short little one because I didn't want to talk about it again. I was really done with it. I can't believe you would take it to TikTok after all these years or all this time we've known each other and like work together. And I was like, girl. I was like, I was just like, I feel like you're gaslighting me. And then I felt like she was gaslighting me again because she's just like, you know, people make mistakes and I just don't understand. I was just like, girl, I wanted was a refund and you didn't tell me anything about the sneaker. And then she goes, no, I was always going to give you a refund. Like, I don't know what you're talking. That's what she said afterwards. I was like, no, you weren't. So anyways, I was like, I said, I said honestly, just like, keep the money at this point, like, I really don't care. Like, I don't care. I was so frustrated. She kept going back and forth, like arguing with me. I'm like, I don't want this energy, like, don't, don't message me. And then she's like, what? It's bad energy to apologize? And I was just like, no, but.