Podcast Summary: "AN AMAZING LOVE STORY FROM BUMBLE" – Kat on the Loose

Episode Information:

• Title: AN AMAZING LOVE STORY FROM BUMBLE
• Host: Kat Zammuto
• Release Date: April 30, 2025

Introduction

In this heartfelt episode of Kat on the Loose, host Kat Zammuto welcomes her guests, James and DJ, who share their inspiring love story that began on the Bumble app. The episode delves into their personal journeys through heartbreak, the challenges of modern dating, and how they found love and business partnership together. Kat emphasizes the organic and raw nature of her conversations, aiming to create a supportive community for listeners navigating relationships and dating.

Discovering Kat’s Podcast

Kat introduces the episode by acknowledging an email she received from her guest DJ. DJ shares how Kat's podcast served as a beacon during a tumultuous period in his life.

• DJ: "I was going through some major heartbreak, something horrible, and I listened to the show and it made me laugh and feel better." (01:25)

Kat expresses gratitude, revealing that the show was initially her outlet during a difficult divorce from an alcoholic husband. She states, "I don't care how big the show gets. If I can help one person, one woman out there feel better about what she's going through, I feel like I did my job." (02:15)

Meeting on Bumble

James and DJ recount their journey of meeting through the Bumble app, highlighting initial hesitations and the excitement of a fresh start in Los Angeles.

• DJ: "I was hesitant because I had just ended a relationship with someone who was an addict. Listening to Kat made me feel connected and hopeful." (02:43)

• Kat: "A lot of people lose hope. But your story shows that love can be found if you keep putting yourself out there." (30:23)

DJ shares his skepticism about dating at 47, especially in LA where ageism is prevalent: "I was terrified of going back to date because in LA, this is a huge thing though about age." (04:40) Kat counters by asserting, "Love is ageless," encouraging listeners to maintain a positive mindset. (05:09)

First Date and Building Connection

Their first date was a memorable event that set the foundation for their relationship. They describe their chemistry and the natural progression of their bond.

• Kat: "The moment you saw him, you were blown away by his handsomeness." (13:38)

• DJ: "We laughed our heads off, even with the spicy margaritas making our mouths burn." (15:25)

They discuss their instant connection, leading to a spontaneous kiss on the first date, which Kat finds particularly endearing: "You guys kissed the first date? That's adorable." (15:27)

Developing Mutual Trust and Commitment

As their relationship progressed, James’s consistent communication and DJ’s willingness to take risks solidified their bond.

• DJ: "James was always consistent and never worried about whether or not he was into me." (17:42)

Kat emphasizes the importance of consistency and trust in relationships: "If the person wants you, they're going to communicate." (17:51)

Their commitment deepened over time, leading them to move in together after nearly two years of dating. DJ adds, "I've always had not great luck with men, but with James, it was different." (22:35)

Creating the Sleeping Dove Comforter

The true highlight of the episode is the couple’s innovative product, the Sleeping Dove comforter, born out of a desire to solve a personal sleep issue.

• DJ: "I was having a hard time sleeping because I kept sweating my midsection. I didn’t want to push him off, so I thought, why not put windows in a blanket?" (32:58)

• James: "We started with tape, then sewing, and eventually hiring people to help us refine the design." (34:08)

They explain the functionality of the Sleeping Dove: dual windows in the comforter allow each person to regulate their own temperature without disrupting the other. This design caters to various needs, from couples to individuals with pets or expectant mothers.

• Kat: "If you’re feeling hot and he’s colder, you can flap open your window and then it cools you." (33:27)

The couple meticulously developed prototypes at home, combining James’s methodical thinking with DJ’s creative flair. They highlight the high-quality materials and craftsmanship, aiming for a premium product that enhances shared sleep experiences.

• Kat: "It's insanely soft. I want to show you guys the baffled box construction." (37:58)

Building a Successful Business Together

James and DJ discuss the transition from a romantic relationship to a business partnership, emphasizing their complementary skills and shared vision.

• DJ: "He’s great in math, and I’m more the creative type. We’re very complementary to each other." (41:31)

Kat praises their collaboration, noting how working together reinforces their relationship: "You should collaborate. Power couples can create something incredible together." (41:13)

Their business, Sleeping Dove, is set to revolutionize sleep comfort with its unique design, promising to cater to diverse customer needs. They share their excitement about future product expansions and the potential impact on the market.

Reflections and Advice

Towards the end of the episode, Kat and the guests reflect on the broader implications of their story for listeners navigating the complexities of modern dating and relationships.

• Kat: "Don't lose hope because there are amazing people on dating apps that actually want a relationship." (30:34)

• DJ: "You just have to meet someone who’s on the same page as you are." (30:34)

They encourage listeners to maintain a positive outlook, emphasizing that persistence in dating can lead to meaningful connections. Kat underscores the importance of self-belief and staying open to love, regardless of age.

• DJ: "It doesn’t matter how old you are, truly, you can find love." (42:35)

• Kat: "Never give up on love. Your person is trying to find you." (42:35)

James and DJ’s story serves as a testament to the potential of dating apps like Bumble to forge lasting, meaningful relationships. Their journey from heartbreak to a thriving partnership exemplifies resilience, mutual support, and the power of innovative thinking in both love and business.

Notable Quotes:

• DJ on finding Kat’s podcast during heartbreak: "I think if anybody's going to understand me, it's going to be Kat and she's going to know, she's going to answer me." (01:30)
• Kat on overcoming abusive relationships: "You gotta save yourself and get the hell out and figure out that you deserve better." (04:15)
• DJ on the Midnight Flapper story: "I really believe in having a vision." (08:34)
• James on the Sleeping Dove concept: "I wanted something natural. No wires or apps needed." (33:46)
• Kat encouraging continued use of dating apps: "You gotta keep putting yourself out there because your person is trying to find you." (30:34)

Conclusion

This episode of Kat on the Loose not only celebrates the beautiful union of James and DJ but also highlights the transformative power of vulnerability and collaboration. By sharing their authentic story, they inspire listeners to embrace the uncertainties of dating, invest in meaningful relationships, and pursue innovative passions together. Their success with Sleeping Dove underscores that love and business can indeed flourish hand in hand, offering a beacon of hope and encouragement to all seeking their own amazing love stories.