Podcast Summary: Kat on the Loose – "BETTER SEX!! Harder, Longer, More Pleasure – less Taboo!"

Host: Kat Zammuto
Guest: Jeff (sex product industry leader, owner of Promescent)
Release Date: April 1, 2026

Overview

In this lively and candid episode, Kat welcomes Jeff, a leading figure in the sexual wellness products industry, to discuss practical ways for individuals and couples to enhance pleasure, improve intimacy, and break the ongoing taboo surrounding sexual conversations. The discussion covers the importance of communication, how to effectively use sexual wellness products, overcoming shame, and why sexual satisfaction is integral to overall well-being—at every stage of life.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Breaking Taboos Around Sex and Pleasure

• Opening Conversation (00:00–01:50):
  • Kat laments that sex and pleasure are still taboo in 2026, despite societal advances.
  • Jeff asserts, “It’s a joke…So many people suffer in silence. So many people think they’re alone, that ‘I’m the only one that faces this issue.’ The main thing we can do is have people go, ‘you’re not alone.’ There are solutions out there.” (01:00)
  • Both agree that frank discussion normalizes these conversations and helps reduce stigma.

2. Sexual Wellness as Essential Health

• Wellness & Relationship Investment (01:52–03:47):
  • Jeff compares the energy people spend attracting partners to neglecting maintaining intimacy, stating, “Shouldn’t we spend as much time keeping the partner that we attract?” (02:35)
  • Kat champions orgasms and frequent sex for mental health: “The more orgasms you have, the healthier you feel…Go masturbate, go have great sex, you’re going to feel a lot better!” (02:50)

3. Masturbation, Toys, and Removing Shame

• Normalizing Solo Sex (04:28–06:28):

  • Both share their advocacy for masturbation, with Kat urging single women to embrace it: “I sleep like an angel…Girls, please, I’m begging you, go do it.” (05:33)
  • Kat honestly reviews Promescent’s arousal gel: “This is the best arousal gel I ever tried. It was absolutely insanely fabulous.” (06:14, 07:30)

• Clearing Misconceptions: Toys Don’t Replace Partners (09:03):

  • Jeff addresses male insecurity: “A vibrator is in addition to, not in place of. Leave your ego at the door. This isn’t about you, it’s about her.” (09:22–10:27)
  • Encourages couples to experiment together and use products to bridge different stimulation needs, highlighting anatomical differences and the importance of clitoral stimulation.

4. Communication is the Ultimate “Sex Product”

• Importance of Openness (22:28–23:55):

  • Jeff: “What’s the most important thing people can do to improve their intimacy?... Communicate.” (22:38)
  • Kat stresses her directness surprises partners, “How can you develop intimacy if you don’t really tell your partner everything?” (23:02)

• Real-Life Suffering in Silence (23:34–24:49):

  • Jeff shares a customer story: A couple waited 24 years to address premature ejaculation, suffering quietly, until a product changed everything (23:56).
  • Kat emphasizes there’s “so much shame” and suggests broaching new ideas lightheartedly, e.g., after a romantic dinner. (25:04)

5. Product Deep Dives: Promescent, Lubes, Supplements

• Delay Sprays for Men (16:15–20:32):

  • Jeff explains the science and development of Promescent’s delay spray (lidocaine in oil form that doesn’t numb the partner): “The only spray that won’t numb you and won’t numb your partner is Promescent…that’s what really put us on the map." (19:23–20:32)
  • Usage tips: Apply 7–10 minutes before intimacy for best effect; can use for oral since taste is neutral. (20:40–21:24)
  • Talks about the importance of not viewing these products as an affront to masculinity: “Guys love to be in control…if a guy shifts from ‘I hope I last long enough’ to ‘I’m going to give her two orgasms before I finish,’ he’s not going to want to go back to having that anxiety.” (27:28)

• Arousal Gels & Vibrators for Women and Couples (06:14–10:27):

  • Kat shares her honest positive review of warming arousal gel.
  • Main takeaway: Different bodies, different needs—try various options and communicate preferences.

• Supplements for Sexual Health (31:43–38:29):

  • Vitaflux: A natural supplement with amino acids, zinc, magnesium to support blood flow and hormone absorption for both men and women. Helps with natural lubrication and firmer erections. (31:46–33:41)
  • “Who doesn’t want lower blood pressure, better health, lower body fat, higher dense muscle?” (38:25)

• Wipes for Portability (29:49–31:03):

  • Promescent wipes offer convenience, slightly less strength than spray, but portable and discreet.

• Lubricants and Pleasure (37:06–37:36):

  • Kat recommends water-based lubes, noting that good lubrication is essential for comfortable, enjoyable sex especially with age.
  • Jeff on silicone lubes: “If I use silicone lube, it takes me two days to scrub it off…get out of here with that.” (37:18)

6. Sex, Aging, and Self-Worth

• Redefining Aging and Sex (38:39–41:40):
  • Both strongly refute the idea that sex should diminish with age.
  • Jeff: “You might not be the raging stallion physically, but…knowing how to please your partner, how to be open…you’re going to have better intimacy.” (39:09)
  • Promotes extended foreplay and mental connection—suggests playful anticipation via texts and day-long build-up. (39:12–41:14)
  • Quotes a podcast guest who uses arousal gel for “eight hours of foreplay.” (40:01)

7. Cultural Issues: Control, Gender Roles, and Empowerment

• On Male Ego and Shame (26:02–28:34):

  • Kat: “The male ego lives in their penis. I really believe that.” (26:02)
  • Both encourage women to suggest toys/products as something fun together, not as a critique.

• Feminine Energy and Control (28:13–29:34):

  • Kat: “We want to be in our feminine energy…taken care of.”
  • Jeff: “The man is the protector…doesn’t mean I can’t have relationship with someone more successful than me…Women think less of a guy if he goes, ‘you take control.'” (28:21)

• Empowerment Through Self-Discovery (46:44):

  • Kat: “Don’t let anybody ever take [your sexual fulfillment] away from you.”

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• “Sex is not a dirty word.” – Kat (01:13)
• “Shouldn’t we spend as much time keeping the partner as attracting the partner?” – Jeff (02:36)
• “There’s no such thing as a bad orgasm.” – Jeff (03:47)
• “A vibrator is in addition to, not in place of. Leave your ego at the door.” – Jeff (09:22)
• “Communicate. That’s the most important thing.” – Jeff (22:38)
• “The male ego lives in their penis. I really believe that.” – Kat (26:02)
• “You want to go into every relationship with a blank canvas.” – Jeff (14:25)
• “If people were having more sex, more orgasms, and less medication… the world would be a much better place.” – Kat (43:00)
• “I want to be buried in my Louboutins. And if I’m not in a relationship, my vibrator.” – Kat (45:20)

Timestamps for Key Segments

• Breaking Sexual Taboos and Advocacy: 00:12–01:50
• Wellness, Relationships, and Orgasms: 01:51–04:28
• Masturbation & Arousal Gels: 04:28–07:54
• Toys vs. Partner Security: 09:02–10:41
• Sex Drive & Deal Breakers in Relationships: 12:26–14:25
• Multiple Orgasms & Age: 13:30–15:16
• Delay Spray Science & Use: 16:15–21:06
• Taboo, Shame, Communication: 22:28–26:06
• Communication Tactics & Stories: 23:34–25:35
• Supplements & Women’s Natural Moisture: 31:43–33:41
• Lubricants & Comfort: 37:06–37:36
• Sexual Vitality at Every Age: 38:39–41:40
• Intimacy as Self-Worth & Peace: 43:00–43:55

Resources & Offers

• Promescent products (arousal gels, sprays, wipes, lubricants, supplements) discussed throughout.
• Discount Code: CAT15 for listeners.
• Products shipped in discreet packaging.
• Kat plans a giveaway box with samples of every product.

Final Takeaways

• Sexual fulfillment contributes directly to happiness, health, confidence, and relationships.
• Communication is the real “magic bullet”—no product works without it.
• Don’t wait or suffer in silence. Start with small steps, be honest, explore together. Regardless of age, great sex can be part of your life.
• Kat and Jeff encourage listeners to leave shame, stigmas, and ego behind to embrace pleasure—solo or partnered, always with openness and joy.

For more, visit promescent.com or Kat’s "Kat on the Loose" YouTube channel.