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Kat
On this episode of Cat on the Loose, we are going to talk about.
Carlo Dupone
The art of making indie movies with.
Kat
Award winning director Peter Tekla.
Carlo Dupone
And we are also going to talk.
Kat
About a subject that is so important to millions of us in this country, the American dream and immigration. And how thousands of people every single day risk their lives to cross the.
Carlo Dupone
Border through Mexico in search of this dream.
Kat
Many of them not only risk their lives, but lose their lives. And this is the subject of Peter's next upcoming movie called 40 Days, which.
Carlo Dupone
I am very honored and proud to.
Kat
Be a part of. My second guest is the very, very successful and incredibly nice entrepreneur, Carlo Dupone. Carlo comes from a Mexican family. He's a real estate developer in Mexico. He owns one of the most successful real estate agencies in Mexico called Estama, which is also kindly sponsoring this podcast. And although he's American and lives in the United States, several of his relatives have risked their lives doing the crossing and now they're very, very successful business people living here. So very few people know stories so up close and personal like he does. And he was kind enough to drive all the way from San Diego to my studio here in West Hollywood to share the stories with us. So I hope you guys enjoy this very powerful, very special episode. Cat on the Loose did you guys.
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Kat
Oh my goodness guys, I have major, major successful manpower on this week's episode of Cameron Deleuze. To my left, Peter Takla. Super success, successful, award winning movie Director to my right, one of the men that I admire the most. I mean, I consider you my mentor, business mentor, super successful business owner, entrepreneur. Carlo Dupone. I don't even know how to explain because you do so many things. Carlo, you own one of the top real estate companies in Mexico as Tamar. You are a real estate developer. You, you, I mean you're multi hyphenate, multi talented. Thank you for driving here all the way from San Diego.
Peter Takla
Absolutely.
Kat
Welcome to Cat on the Loose.
Peter Takla
Thank you for having me.
Kat
Welcome to Cat on the Loose, Peter.
Peter Takla
Thank you for having me, Kat. I'm so enjoying being with you guys and especially in here.
Kat
I know. And I'm very honored because both of you live super far away. So I know it was a really long drive and there is so much we have to talk about in 45 minutes. So let's do this fast and furious and I'm going to explain to everyone why both of you are here today. Peter, we filmed, we finished shooting a movie just like a few weeks ago that we were talking about that we're so proud of that you are directing. And I am very, very honored to be a proud of part of called 40 days. It's a movie mostly about immigration. Right. Do you want to explain a little bit without telling too much about people because the movie is coming out really soon. But for the audience that doesn't know us, can you just give them the short, short summary about the movie?
Peter Takla
Well, I'm not sure it's going to be short or not because this, this movie, it has like a very good place in my heart. I worked on it like so, so much and so hard and I was enjoying working with everyone in the crew. I'll try to be very short and direct to the point. So it's called 40 days and it's about legal immigrants who trying to make the hard way to the United States through South and Central America. And actually their point of start starts from their country of origin way further than South America and they travel through tough journey all the way until they get to the US border and where the story happens. So we're trying to emphasize on how tough this journey is and how these people are victims of a lot of criminals that they face to. Sometimes they make it to the US and sometimes, unfortunately they don't make it. It's tough. We're trying to say that yes, America is land of like a dreamland or land of dreams or the American dream, whatever you name it, but your life still worthy.
Kat
Yeah.
Peter Takla
Do not put it in Danger. So this is basically what we just were discussing in this movie. We've been working for about a year and a half now since we started the idea, writing, casting and crowing. And we just wrapped about, like, three weeks ago.
Kat
Yeah, yeah. It was a very definitely, very special project. Very tough shooting. Like we were telling Carlo before we started filming, shooting the podcast, we were literally filming out in the woods. But like you said, it's about people trying to get to the United States the hard way, the hard way through Mexico, through the desert. And a lot of them end up dying in the process, falling in the hands of these coyote criminals. And this is why I decided I gotta invite Carlo to be a part of this episode. Because all three of us are immigrants and come from. Well, Carlo, you come from a family of immigrants, and a lot of people from your family have actually gone through this in real life, correct?
Peter Takla
Well, yes, that's correct. Kind of common concept is, I think that a lot of the people that come through my family came over through, and they just give some context during the 60s and 70s. And most of them came out here and they migrated towards the Bakersfield area where all. When you go down a grapevine, you see all the. All the agriculture, and they worked in the fields there. They worked hard. None of them, I can probably say were criminals. They all were hardworking, grew and grew up there. They had families of their own. Kids, which are my cousins now, the second generation, which would be considered myself as well, which are my cousins. Most of them are all successful now. College graduates, have great jobs, some controllers. One of my cousins actually runs their whole agricultural company there now, where her parents worked.
Kat
They came from Mexico.
Peter Takla
From Mexico. And they came just exactly as the movie is going to depict. They came that way.
Kat
They risked their lives because they were looking for a better future.
Peter Takla
Better future for their family, a better place to live, opportunity. Also. A lot of things we got to realize is it's difficult to make money in Mexico. So when they come here, they make more money. They send money back to their families to help support their families at home as well.
Kat
But that's the interesting thing, right, Peter? I mean, you're from Egypt. I came from Brazil. You come from a family from Mexican immigrants. We are very lucky because we made it right. We live here. We all agree that our lives are very prosperous here. I think we all agree that we're very lucky. But that's not the case with everyone. A lot of people don't make it. A lot of people die trying to get here. A lot of people get in the hands of these coyotes. For people that don't know what the coyotes are, maybe you got. Maybe you can explain better what a coyote is.
Peter Takla
Well, absolutely. So it's not. We're not against immigration because we are immigrants. So a lot of immigrants are very successful in here. I would say, like, most of them. And I totally agree with Carlos, because media shows that some immigrants are like criminals. But no, no, we're not. We're very successful. We're trying to make our life better. And same thing with people trying to come from different parts of the world through the same journey. And most of them, they don't really realize or they don't really know how tough it is. Maybe they've been told that it's tough journey, but they didn't know that they are in hands of coyotes. Coyotes, like, it's a term you call, like, maybe you call, like, smugglers or they're like a mafia or something. They're like very terrible people that taken advantage of people, want to immigrate to the United States.
Kat
You pay them, and they say they will cross you here, Correct?
Peter Takla
Yes. Well, this is ideal. But you pay them, and sometimes they ask for more and more, and sometimes they kidnap people, ask for more money. Sometimes they kill people if they don't.
Kat
Pay them, because to them, these people are just merchandise.
Peter Takla
True, true. Actually, some stories that I was told, that they get dressed into Mexican police so people would feel like, okay, we're safe in police hands, but they're not actual police. They're fake.
Kat
Oh, my God.
Peter Takla
So a lot of these terrible things that immigrants wouldn't know about. And the worst part is that they don't allow them to use their cell phones to make videos, so they can't, like, warn other people coming from different parts or taking the same journey. So most of the immigrants are, like, more into victims, like, and more than being criminals. So they come here looking for better life, for opportunity. Yes, America has land of opportunity, but they don't realize that they might not even make it to the U.S. right.
Kat
I think many times they don't realize they're risking their lives. They might end up dying in the middle of the desert. And you were. We were having lunch before coming here to the podcasting studio, and you were saying something like that happened to one of your relatives that he was crossing and they asked for more money or something.
Peter Takla
Yeah. This is not too long ago. A few months ago.
Kat
Oh, a few months ago. So this is fresh.
Peter Takla
This is fresh, yeah.
Kat
Oh, my God.
Peter Takla
Oh, that's Sad.
Yeah. So he was traveling through the desert and oh, by the way, about cell phones you were mentioning, they made them take all the cell phones, go into one of the guys, takes all the cell phones and controls them all.
So they don't even allow to hold.
No, they weren't even allowed to hold their phones.
Kat
Oh my God.
Peter Takla
During that particular time they didn't.
Okay.
So. Yeah. And so they charged, I think it was about $10,000 to cross. And this is a common thing they do is they once you're in the middle of the desert, they'll make a phone call to the family members and say, if you don't, we, we need an additional $20,000 or what, have whatever the XYZ amount is. And if you don't deliver, we're going to leave them here in the desert and we're going to leave them here without any water, without any food, nothing. Just drop them off. Or lots of times they'll just say, we're going to kill them. We're going to kill them and we're going to leave them here. So, you know, these families don't have $20,000 just to that, you know, just sitting around like, you know, like anyone. So they have to call family members, borrow money, call friends, get all the money together and then do a Western Union wire or there are other forms of payment that they take and get the money wired over to them. So then in this situation, it ended up okay. He ended up in the city he was supposed to go to, which is Utah in the state. But it could have ended badly if they didn't have the money.
Kat
Or you still don't know. Like, you could send the $20,000 that they're demanding and you still don't know if he's going to.
Peter Takla
That's actually happen a lot of cases where they do send the money and you still don't.
Kat
They could still kill the person.
Peter Takla
That still happens. You never know.
Untrustworthy. So you cannot trust them.
Kat
Right. You cannot trust. And actually I. So a little background about the movie. When Peter invited me to be a part of the movie, I was so honored. And then, and I know this is an even bigger honor because you said to me, which role do you. I, I had two options between the roles. I could play one of the officers, right. The, the interview immigration officer, or I could play a coyote. And I said, I want a tough one. I want a really toug. I want to play the coyote. And he let me do it. And it was really, really tough because, you know, it's the opposite of my nature. I'm zero violent. I'm zero mean. It was a very difficult scene to shoot because I had to be nasty to those people and really mistreat them. And in my mind, I had to believe that. And I really. And it really shook me up thinking that, oh, my God, those people. And it's funny because we were shooting in the elements. Like I was telling Carlo, we were literally up in the To Hunga Mountains. It was cold. It was the end of the day after we were shooting for like 12 hours. And mentally, of course, we're actors. You know, we know it's fake. But, you know, mentally, we're leaving that for a long time. And we see those people with those faces and we're getting tired and you're being so mean to them. And I started thinking, oh, my God, I cannot believe people are actually. Right now. There are some people out there in the desert probably going through the same. Can you imagine the psychological abuse and fear that these people are going through to get to the United States?
Peter Takla
Yeah, you're absolutely right. So as you mentioned it, you. You're an actor, so you, you feel like, okay, at the end of the day, I'm acting, I'm going back home. Yeah, but imagine the actual situation, which as much as acting, we do as much shooting or lighting or whatever, the actual location, but still the. The reality is worse. I've heard a lot of stories that kind of matched Carlos stories, and some people actually paid money and they got killed. Yeah, because they don't. They don't really care about a person's life. They have multiple people. They just need money. And imagine how people under this stressful situation that they don't know actually they are going to make it. They're going to be alive. What they should do at this moment. And also one more story. Speaking of money, I was wondering, I was asking people, like, if you have to pay like $10,000 sometimes more to go for a better life, you can spend this amount of money in your home country and do something for you. And this question just popped up to my mind and I realized that actually they borrow this money. They don't own it, they don't have it. They just borrow it from their family, their friends, sometimes from. They sell whatever they. They have and just hoping to come to the US make more money and just pay this money back. So this. They're sacrificing their money, their positions, their. Even children, their life just for this tough journey. And from the other side, the, the coyote that you played one of them taking advantage of this.
Kat
Yeah.
Peter Takla
So they taking their money, taking their life. It's really tough Raping their women. This happened.
Kat
Raping and killing and leaving them.
Peter Takla
This is actually more often more common than not is the women. This is not an actual family member, it's a friend. Because obviously I have a lot of friends as well in Mexico. And his daughter that came across, she was 22 years old and she disappeared. They don't know where she's at. They don't know if they got sold a sex trade or human trafficking or was killed in a desert.
Imagine the parents.
Kat
Oh my God.
Peter Takla
Their parents feeling. They don't know where she is right now. Is she alive? She's not. Is she suffering? Of course she is.
Kat
Yeah.
Peter Takla
How will they ever see her again? I mean, it's very tough feeling and it's mixed feelings. And at the end of the day, you ask yourself a question. Does it really worth it?
Kat
Is it worth it? Right. Risking our. I don't think it's worth risking our life for anything. But this is a. I have a few tough questions for you guys.
Peter Takla
Okay.
Kat
Obviously, election year, I think this movie could not be coming at a more appropriate time. It's such an important story to be told and there's a major reason why I wanted to be a part of it. Number one, the honor of working with you again because you know, I love your work. If you guys never watched his movies, please go to Google him. Peter Takla. In a few years he made 10 movies. His movies are winning awards. Because we have the tendency to watch movies from American filmmakers which are fantastic, but we have so many fantastic international filmmakers. So here's a very well deserved plug. Go watch his movies. They're really fantastic. But this one coming in a perfect timing. I see these politicians on tv, right? They talk about the border, the wall, immigration. I do this, I do that, I do that. A lot of them don't have this close approach. Like Carlo is literally your family. It's your relatives. I don't know. It doesn't matter who you want to vote for. But this is one question is this problem. I'll ask you first Peter, and then you, Carlo, do you think this problem is fixable? These people trying to cross the desert and being abused and this literally human trafficking.
Peter Takla
It is, of course it is fixable. And regardless, my political views, because I don't have some political views, but yeah.
Kat
I know, let's try to keep that. Yeah, that's a whole other episode.
Peter Takla
I'm going to Keep this to myself, but in this movie, we had zero politics. So we were talking about this issue from the humanity side. From. Do not risk your life from. You are a victim. Just wake up. This is, this is not something that you want to do for yourself or your children, regardless of the political views. It is fixable. Any party can. Any political party can fix it. And I think they can just make a better immigration way or immigration laws or make it like more controllable. And I really believe it's fixable. But maybe for political reasons, maybe they don't want to, or they want to, but they're waiting for some time. But definitely it is fixable.
Well, it's definitely fixable, but I think without getting political, obviously. Okay, but if you reach a bipartisan agreement between both sides of political party here and work in conjunction with the Mexican government, if, if they can reach that kind of an agreement.
That's true.
Together, together they can make that area safe and make it safe for people to, to apply for immigration. Apply. Come over legally and not have to do what they're doing. Yeah, I understand. You said, you know, you wouldn't risk your life for coming through, but stop and think about what kind of lives are they experiencing right now in South America and those areas, impoverished countries. A lot of them are politically ostracized. They're put in jails. They have no choice. A lot of them are threatened to do certain things that they don't want to by the local gangs or cartels in those countries. So they have to leave. They have to flee with their families, and they have no choice. So they might as well risk, risk going through the desert with their entire family to get through here because otherwise they're going to get killed anyway and the countries are in.
Kat
So in this case, that's a very good point, and it's a very tough one. But in this case, and I don't know, maybe you know the answer, could they file, for example, because I know a lot of Russian people, they file for political asylum because they say, I'm feeling afraid for my life there. Do you know if Mexicans, if they were afraid of the cartels or something, fearing for their lives, could they file for some kind of political asylum here? Probably not. Right.
Peter Takla
There's avenues of that, but it takes forever, right? Yeah, it takes a long time. And the US does take precedence towards southern. Some countries. Are there other countries?
Kat
Yeah.
Peter Takla
So, yeah, it's a.
Kat
It's very complicated. Right. It's the same for Egypt. Right. To immigrate legally if you come, let's say you come legally, you take off a plane and you land here. Like if you, if you're not going through the desert, if you, I don't know, if you say I'm going to get on a tourist visa and come here and try to figure out a way to stay, it, it takes forever and ever and ever, right?
Peter Takla
Well, kinda. But what you said is legally, so they can just take a tourist visa and come here and there are multiple ways to change the visa, I think, I'm not an attorney, but based on my little experience, yes, there are multiple ways, but this is the way that we're asking people to do. Just try to come legally or at least if exhaust legal resources, then you think about it. But the illegal resources, you, it's still, it's still the same thing. So what happens once you get, you successfully cross the border? It takes still some time to get a green card, maybe years, maybe, maybe whole life. So it's not even something that would be guaranteed. Of course they would be safer than what happened in their own country. And I totally agree with that. Some people, they don't have choice. But I don't think the millions out there at the border, they all have no choice.
No, I agree. That's true.
Yeah.
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Kat
But it's a very complicated problem because of the. Well, especially coming from Mexico because of the amount of people coming.
Peter Takla
They come in droves.
Kat
Yeah, yeah.
Peter Takla
It's like, it's not like just a desert anymore. Now they're coming through boats and I mean boats have recently landed along the San Diego shores.
Kat
Oh my gosh.
Peter Takla
And they come running out. I don't know if you've seen those videos, but I haven't. Yeah, they come in the little, you know, little panic boats and just pull up right to the shore and they all run out. Like it's happening in Carlsbad. And they all come around and spread out. There's cars or SUVs waiting to pick up.
Kat
So it just gets worse and worse and worse. Your family, the ones that made it like you were saying, they build a great life for. Because it does happen. Thank God, right? Some happy ending stories. Thank goodness. So these relatives, do you know what they say about it? Because you used the phrase that I hope people notice you said they're not criminals. Because a lot of Americans. And it's hurtful. I know. Because I'm an immigrant and I know. I mean, I've suffered prejudice ever since I was a little kid. Just the fact that I'm from Latin America. They don't know a lot about us and they have this wrong image. And we see that a lot on TV and everything, especially in election year. They think everybody that comes here, especially illegally, are criminals. Criminals. And you use that phrase very delicately. In the beginning you said they're not criminals and they're productive. And they do this and they do that and they do that.
Peter Takla
Well, I mentioned that because it's the first. Right now when you see.
Kat
And it's so important.
Peter Takla
All you hear in the news now is they just talk about this criminal. Criminal. So everyone just thinks that's all that's.
Kat
Going on and it's not true.
Peter Takla
No.
Kat
So what do your relatives say about this whole situation? Have you ever asked them?
Peter Takla
A sensitive subject. They're, you know, my uncles and aunts are not older and they don't really like to talk about that. Yeah, no, that, you know, they. What I can't say is they all worked towards getting either their U.S. citizenships or their visas and they've bought their homes, they have mortgages, they have credit card bills and they, you know, so they're doing great.
Kat
They made it.
Peter Takla
They made it. Yeah. So they have. Yeah.
Kat
When we started filming, the first day we filmed the movie, not in order, but the first day we were filming in the office of an attorney. She's a real, very successful immigration attorney. Right.
Peter Takla
And she's immigrant too, by the way.
Kat
Yeah, she's a very successful immigration attorney and she was consulting for Peter because Peter wanted to make the movie as realistic as possible. And she was talking about these detention centers and how people are treated when they come in and like. And it was to me, and I can never describe the way she described that. I wish she was here right now, but I was like really shocked because it's not like they get this one on one individual attention and the attorney and everything. They're literally thrown in a detention center.
Peter Takla
Yes, because as far as I know, as far as I was told, it's. They're not, not. They're not few, handful amount of people. They're like thousands.
Kat
Yeah.
Peter Takla
Sometimes like hundreds of thousands. So there's no enough officer to officers to decide whether they're allowed to get to the. To the S or not. So they throw them in detention center. Sometimes they spend month and month until they get a decision. I want to go back to the criminal thing that the media shows and I want.
Kat
Oh, yeah, yeah.
Peter Takla
Because this is one of the movie messages. So we, we want to show that Immigrants who decide to come illegally, obviously they had, they are, they exhausted their choices to come legally. And they're not, they're not criminals. They're not trying to come for criminal reason. They're just victims. They don't know how tough the journey was. And they have dreams. They have American dream. They want to come here. We have this pregnant lady, she wants to give birth to her kid in the US and just raise him. And they have dreams to have their own house, their own nice job. And at some point they realize that they are victims. They're not, they're not criminals. So this is something that we want to emphasize with the movie going back to detention center. It's. Again, it's, it's, it's, it's a horrible place. Although it's safer than being traveling to the US border, but it's, it's still a horrible place. It's, it's a prison, obviously. And actually we, we made it to shoot in an actual detention center. And it's, it's a prison. It's a place that you're just staying there waiting for a decision. You don't know when you might.
Kat
And a lot of them, by the way, get sent back, right, after all this trouble, like they cross the desert, okay, they don't get killed. They get a lot of money taken away from them, right? A lot of money. And then they make it here and then they get sent back.
Peter Takla
Absolutely true.
Kat
They're not allowed to stay. Can you imagine the frustration?
Peter Takla
Or just imagine the women too, that get assaulted sexually. You know, they're raped in a desert. They make it through now under detention, and then all that they went through and then they're sent back.
Kat
Oh, my God. I cannot, I cannot imagine.
Peter Takla
But it's a case by case situation. I think it depends on the immigration officer or the immigration judge. Depends on what? What the laws. But not everyone make it to the detention center, not necessarily to be admitted to the US Most of them actually send back. And I think they are signing a law or something that they want to send almost everyone back, even if they.
Kat
Got to the US because that's the thing. That's a question, right? And I don't want to get political, but it's a massive amount of people. It's so many. And I think they get desensitized, right? They are treating those people like numbers. Like even. I remember a scene that we were shooting this officer, like when she goes interview the main character. They literally, they have to interview piles of people to decide what they're going to do with them. So to them, if they get emotional with each person that comes there, they wouldn't be able to do a job. Right, Right. So we get emotional because it' like, oh, my God, I could never do this job. I would be crying all day long. But they literally like, okay, you go do the, like the way the girl. Right. They're very automatic.
Peter Takla
Like, that's why you want to play the coyote in the movie.
Kat
You couldn't play this. I wanted to play the coyote because I never played a bad guy, you know, because I'm cute and blonde and adorable. So usually that's the types I play.
Peter Takla
You look so different.
Kat
I know. And I told Peter, I said, give me. I promise you I'm going to show up looking like a nasty bitch.
Peter Takla
You did it amazingly.
Kat
Thank you. And I think I looked, like, really nasty. I was, I was. I would be afraid of me if I saw me.
Peter Takla
If. If you guys are following cats so you will see a very, very different cat.
Kat
I started posting a little bit of the behind the scenes and it was so cool because one of the guys there, he was like, he had a lot of training and he would have loved. I should have forced you to go there, Carlo this day because we had. What's his name? Oh, my God, I'm horrible with names. One of the actors, he had a lot of training with the props and martial arts and guns.
Peter Takla
I mean, Tito.
Kat
No, no, not Tito. He was one of our actor. Oh, my God, I feel so bad that I forgot his name. And he was. We were literally doing before my scene. He was. Because I never did that. I never punched anybody in my life. So we were doing like all these lessons. Like, this is how you punch and this is how you go on somebody's face, and this is how, like, you hold a gun and move. So it was like, really fun, but really intense. Because you have to believe if you have a gun, you would shoot someone if you're going to punch someone that you really mean to punch them, to hurt them because you hate them. Right. All these things that are not my nature. But if you're going to do that scene, you have to believe you're going to do it.
Peter Takla
That's true. So the reason a coyote that you played is punching someone, it's not because they hate them, it's because they are not allowed to talk, right?
Kat
Yes, exactly.
Peter Takla
Intimidation tactic.
Kat
Exactly, exactly.
Peter Takla
Just something to show them and to show everyone that, yeah, you're, you're. You're just a number.
Narrator
You're.
Peter Takla
You're just a couple hundred dollars or whatever. A couple thousand dollars that you pay to us and that's it.
Kat
Yeah.
Peter Takla
You're not allowed to object. You're not allowed to ask questions.
Kat
Yeah.
Peter Takla
So this is basically.
Kat
Yeah. It's literally like, shut up. Shut up. Don't. And actually, that was the line. No, I'm not gonna. No, no, I'm not. Don't. Don't let me talk too much.
Peter Takla
Let me tell you a story. It's. I'm not sure it's a. Should I call it, like, a funny story or. Or a terrible story, but it's. It was told to me by one of these immigrants. So, you know, there were some Egyptians, and Egyptians are like, kind of like Mexicans when they laugh and when they have jokes, Even in the bad situations, they have some jokes because it's a long journey. So at some point in. In one of the vehicles or staying, whatever, they were just making some jokes with a loud voice. And one of these characters were just, like, annoyed about their loud voice, so they just put the gun on. On top of one of their heads. And then, guys, if you don't make it down, I'm gonna kill your friend. Is it. Is it that cheap?
I mean.
Kat
I mean, but it happens.
Peter Takla
Yeah, it was like, surprisingly, it's not like asking them to lower their voice or whatever. It's just like, okay, I'm gonna kill this guy.
Kat
I'm gonna shoot you. Yeah, that's it.
Peter Takla
That's.
No, that's the one thing. The majority of these coyotes are also majorly ran by cartels. And cartels don't have any care for life. They have zero care for life. It doesn't matter to them. You're just, like you said, you're a dollar figure and get you from point A to point B. Or it doesn't matter if you don't get to point B, they'll just leave you there and rot. So.
Kat
And I gave Sonic. The three of us are talking. And of course, I have all these memories of being a part of this movie, which was one of the most incredible experiences of my life. I get very emotional because I'm an immigrant, you know, I think you are in many ways. And it's such a huge part of our stories, our history, and a huge part of this country. And I think it's so important to tell stories like this. But just the thought that so many people go through this, you know, without help, I don't think we're gonna see a solution in our lifetime. But we only hope we can. Because I would hope that everybody can come in a safe way, like you said I would. And I understand why you said that. They're risking their lives there, a lot of them. The cartels put them against the wall and they say, give me money or I'm going to kill your family. Especially in Mexico. Right. That's one thing I don't like about Mexico, the cartels, of course. But I would hope, somehow I don't know how everybody would be able to come in a civilized, safe way, which I don't think we can. You know, we are going to see. But before we started recording the podcast, you mentioned something really that Peter and I didn't know about, about your friend that does this work? Can you mention his name? Because if anybody out there has a family member in this situation, anybody from Mexico or Egypt or any other country that is, you know, out there in the desert or thinking about immigrating illegally or anybody that thinks that they need help in the borders. Carlo, can you share this information? Because I think that's really important.
Peter Takla
Yes. A personal friend of mine, his name is Manuel Ramirez. He's an attorney in San Diego. He's a board member of organization. It's a nonprofit organization called Border Angels. You can go to visit their website. It's borderangels.org and what they specialize is just. It's just advocate towards human rights. And that's their main focus. Assist everyone that's coming over that are looking for a better life and are struggling through that desert. Like you mentioned, they help provide assistance for them. And that's. So definitely Visit their site, border angels.org.
Kat
I'm definitely going to try to invite him to be on the show because this is such important.
Peter Takla
Nice of him. Yeah.
It's a group of attorneys too. So they focus on human immigration reform, you know, social justice, things like that. So that's what.
And I would say these type of people, they're really in need of assistance because once they. Once they get to the US land, they're lost. Lost. They're still lost. They. They just feel safer, but they don't know what to do. They don't know what route they should take. They need legal assistance. They need like human rights assistance. So it's so nice of. Of him doing that.
Kat
They're lost during the journey because as they're coming, they don't know what's gonna happen. They keep being shuffled around.
Peter Takla
Yeah.
Kat
Like thrown between one coyote to the other, the other, the other. They don't know where they're gonna Go. They're just basically in the dark. They're just hoping they're gonna survive, right?
Peter Takla
Yeah.
Kat
And then like you said, they get here, they're hop. They don't know what is going to happen. And this is really, really a very powerful, fantastic script. It's just a beautiful, beautiful story. I cannot wait for the movie to be out, for us to share it with the world.
Peter Takla
I think with today's what's improved is obviously with social media. Everyone has cell phones now. Compared to the 70s and 80s when no one did. I think people now that are coming across know the dangers because it seemed like your movie, it's going to be one that's going to come out and everything that's on social media, people are aware of what's the dangers involved compared back in the 70s and 80s when they hope that they get through and everything's gonna be okay and they assume that. But even now, like you mentioned right now earlier at lunch, the process at the very beginning seems very calm and relaxed and you arrive and everything looks like it's gonna go normal and it slowly progresses to get to the worst case scenario. You mentioned that. I don't know if you should want to touch on that too.
Yeah, well, this is exactly the, the same story that I've been told from almost everyone. So the story, the, the journey starts very comfortable, just taking a plane with a visa, legal to one of these south or Central American countries mainly I think Colombia or Panama. So everything is okay, legal. They just go to the country, they have a room in a hotel, spend the night, take the journey to another country and so on. And then it gets worse and worse as they go, I think until they reach a certain point in Mexico then where all things bad start to happen, they're on their own, no guides, spending the night in the middle of nowhere, no vehicles, no hotels, nothing. Just going different routes, away from the police, away from everywhere, everyone, just, just to get to the border. But as you, as you mentioned now when I, when I was actually doing research about this story, first of all I thought it just for the past few years because of social media and because it's like this is the, the focus on it right now. But I realized that no, it's been there for like almost like 100 years or so. Like too many years. A lot of people are taking the same route out. But it, the focus on it right now because of politics, number one and because of social media and because of the, the numbers are increasing. So of course the number of people are coming Right now is not the same as like 10 or 20 years ago, but it's, it's an ongoing topic. That's why, as you mentioned, we hope to see a solution in our lifetime, which we still hope that there will be a solution. I think as Carlo mentioned, if there's like some type of agreement with the Mexican government and the US Government, this would be stoppable at some point.
Kat
Yeah, that would be incredible.
Peter Takla
Yeah, I think, I think if, if we all work together as governments, not as individuals.
Kat
Oh my God. In the meantime, I mean, from our.
Peter Takla
Side, we're, we're talents, we're storytelling. We're using our. Yeah, we're using our storytelling talent to just emphasize, hey, there's an issue here.
Kat
Yeah, I think, and I think you agree with me when you're making indie movies, especially emphasize indie movies. We're not a huge year, we're not a huge studio. Small budget movies, tons of blood, sweat and tears goes into it. You guys have no idea. But it makes it even more special because it's so much harder than having like $50 million right. With working with Warner Brothers. And we tell stories, we put it out there for the passion and the love of telling stories. And I feel that that's the part we can make. And when somebody like you is willing to come and share as well, because it's such a huge part of your heritage, I think you're doing it for your relatives that, you know, that did it. You know, they did it and survived. And like you said, they're not criminals. They are a huge part of what build our country.
Peter Takla
Well, let's face it too, I wanted to, I wanted to take a second to applaud you for making this film because let's face it, most of us are constantly just in our own little world or a little bubble work. Right. It's true. We're all busy. We're working. We work 10 hour days, 12 hour days. I really don't know what's going on in the world. We don't listen to the news. I know a lot of people that way. They don't have not a clue that what's going anywhere in the world. So. But they watch movies. So this is a great way, a powerful way for you to get your message across, to enlighten people and educate people what's actually happening there. So again, my hat off to you for making this film.
Kat
Oh my God. And when you watch it, I promise you're gonna love it. It's coming soon, right next to beginning of next year.
Peter Takla
Yeah. We're planning to make it ready by 2025. By the beginning of 2025, which is so close because time flies.
Kat
Oh, my God. Yes, yes, yes.
Peter Takla
Yeah, we're in post production now and we're working like very hard to make it.
Kat
Yes, we are.
Peter Takla
To the best that we can.
Kat
Yeah. And of course, once it's out, I'm going to. You're going to come back and we're going to scream it to the. From the top of our lungs. We want everybody to watch it. And I don't want to get into politics, but you asked me on the way here, am I going to vote? And you know, I'm like, I always play. I always joke that I'm Switzerland because coming from Brazil, I'm so traumatized about politics. But I am going to do my part and vote. Are you going to vote?
Peter Takla
Well, of course. Of course.
Kat
Vote. So our.
Peter Takla
Our duty to.
Kat
Yes. So I'm saying cat on the loose, Cat kingdom, please. Let's vote. I don't care who you vote for. Right. Let's vote.
Peter Takla
It's our part. It's our duty to the country to vote. So we, we all have to go to vote regardless. Maybe think about who you vote for, but vote. Yeah. Not, not, not for the person. I don't want to go politics, but not for the person. Just go for the beliefs of the party, I think.
Kat
Yeah. Vote. Execute your right and yeah, make your voice heard. Gentlemen, I feel extremely honored because I truly, truly admire both of you. I'm so happy I connected both of you. I'm sure we will do amazing, wonderful projects in the future together. Peter, thank you for driving such a long distance. Thank you with all my heart for including me in your project. It's an honor. I cannot speak in words.
Peter Takla
I want to thank you for being part of this movie. So Kat, you've been very helpful, very supportive. Not. Not only like I'm gonna start crying. No, I, I mean I, I have to say it. So it's not only as an actress in the movie. So Kat, you've been with me like when. When we just started. When we just started pre production. She invited actually the team to her house and we had the first pre production meeting.
Kat
Oh, wow, that's true.
Peter Takla
Yeah. So we, we had a lot. Was doing set design for us. She was doing like everything that she could do to help us making this film happen. So I want to thank you so much, Kat, for the big part that you've done for us and thank you for having us here.
Kat
If anybody has the luck. Next time I invite you to come to a Peter Tecla set. Run, don't walk.
Peter Takla
I will.
Kat
It's a huge honor because I'm sure one of these days we're going to be there picking up your Oscar. And you know I adore you. I love your work. You're one of my mentors. I know you drove a huge long distance to be here. Thank you so much. Carla Dupone, owner of Asta Marty, one of the top real estate companies in Mexico in the Mexican Riviera. Huge part of your culture. Thank you for supporting the podcast. Thank you for driving here. Thank you for everything you do. You're super inspiring. One of these days, I want to do a new episode with you about ent being an entrepreneur, being successful. How do you run all these businesses? Because you know what I get, I get messages from people from all over the world asking these questions like, how do you run a business? And I don't know how to answer. So I definitely want to invite you back.
Peter Takla
I be happy to.
Kat
Thank you guys. This was such an honor. 40 days coming soon. So stay tuned. Be safe out there. Thank you guys. Thank you for having us.
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Podcast Summary: "MOVIE MAKING AND IMMIGRATION WITH AWARD WINNING MOVIE DIRECTOR PETER TAKLA AND ENTREPRENEUR CARLO DUPONE"
Podcast Information:
In this compelling episode of Kat on the Loose Sex, Dating & Relationships, host Kat Zammuto delves deep into the intertwined worlds of indie filmmaking and the pressing issue of immigration in America. Joined by award-winning movie director Peter Takla and successful entrepreneur Carlo Dupone, the conversation sheds light on the creation of the upcoming film 40 Days and explores the harrowing realities faced by immigrants seeking the American dream.
Kat introduces her guests, highlighting Peter Takla's accolades as a filmmaker and Carlo Dupone's achievements in the real estate industry. The episode centers around Peter's latest project, 40 Days, a movie that poignantly addresses the perilous journey of legal immigrants traversing Central America to reach the United States. Additionally, Carlo shares his personal connection to immigration, detailing his Mexican heritage and the sacrifices his family has made to build a prosperous life in the U.S.
Peter Takla provides an insightful overview of 40 Days, emphasizing its heartfelt narrative and the extensive effort invested over a year and a half of production.
Peter Takla [04:31]: "It's about legal immigrants who are trying to make the hard way to the United States through South and Central America... We're trying to emphasize how tough this journey is and how these people are victims of a lot of criminals they face."
The film aims to humanize immigrants, portraying them not as criminals but as individuals driven by hope and the desire for a better future. Takla discusses the challenges faced during filming, including shooting in harsh conditions that mirror the real-life struggles of migrants.
Carlo Dupone underscores the personal stakes of the discussion by sharing his family's immigrant background. As the owner of Estama Realty, a leading real estate agency in Mexico, Carlo reflects on the stories of his relatives who risked their lives crossing the desert, often falling prey to criminal elements known as coyotes.
Carlo Dupone [01:37]: "The Mexican Riviera is one of the most sought-after vacation home destinations... At the forefront of this booming market is Astar Realty, your trusted partner in navigating the real estate market."
Peter Takla echoes Carlo's sentiments, detailing his family's migration journey from Mexico to the United States and the subsequent success they've achieved through hard work and perseverance.
A significant portion of the conversation delves into the dangers posed by coyotes—smugglers who exploit desperate migrants.
Peter Takla [09:43]: "Coyotes... are like smugglers or mafia... they take advantage of people wanting to immigrate to the United States."
Kat highlights the emotional toll these journeys take, sharing her own challenging experience acting as a coyote in 40 Days, which required her to portray antagonistic behavior contrary to her nature.
Kat Zammuto [06:40]: "It was really tough because... I had to be nasty to those people and really mistreat them... I started thinking, oh my God, how they are actually experiencing fear and psychological abuse."
Peter recounts harrowing stories, including the abduction and potential trafficking of migrants, emphasizing the life-threatening situations many face.
Peter Takla [15:55]: "Raping their women... leaving them."
The discussion transitions to the complexities of legal immigration processes, with both guests acknowledging the lengthy and uncertain pathways to obtaining visas or green cards.
Peter Takla [20:50]: "There are avenues of that, but it takes forever... it's not even something that would be guaranteed."
Kat and Peter agree that the overwhelming difficulties often leave migrants with little choice but to undertake illegal and dangerous crossings.
The episode critically examines how media portrayal has skewed public perception, often painting all immigrants as criminals, which deeply affects the narrative around immigration.
Peter Takla [27:11]: "All you hear in the news now is they just talk about this criminal. So everyone just thinks that's all that's going on."
Kat emphasizes the importance of countering these stereotypes through personal stories and films like 40 Days that highlight the humanity of immigrants.
Both guests express optimism that the immigration crisis is fixable through bipartisan political agreements and collaboration between the U.S. and Mexican governments. They stress the necessity of creating safer, legal pathways for immigrants to achieve the American dream without endangering their lives.
Peter Takla [19:33]: "If there's some type of agreement with the Mexican government and the US Government, this would be stoppable at some point."
Carlo introduces listeners to Border Angels, a nonprofit organization dedicated to advocating for human rights and assisting migrants, underscoring the importance of community support in addressing immigration challenges.
Carlo Dupone [37:11]: "Visit their website, borderangels.org... they help provide assistance for them."
Kat wraps up the episode by expressing profound gratitude to her guests for their contributions and the impactful stories shared. She reiterates the importance of raising awareness through storytelling and encourages listeners to support initiatives that aim to reform immigration laws and protect migrant rights.
Kat Zammuto [34:23]: "40 days coming soon. So stay tuned. Be safe out there."
The episode serves as a powerful call to action, urging listeners to empathize with immigrants' struggles and support meaningful changes to the immigration system.
Notable Quotes:
This episode of Kat on the Loose masterfully intertwines the art of indie filmmaking with the urgent social issue of immigration, offering listeners both a behind-the-scenes look at 40 Days and a sobering examination of the immigrant experience in America.