OPEN TO MARRY - THE VIRAL TREND BY SHUBHAM GUNE

Summary

Kat on the Loose: "OPEN TO MARRY – THE VIRAL TREND BY SHUBHAM GOON"

Host: Kat Zammuto
Guest: Shubham Goon
Date: November 18, 2025

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Episode Overview

This episode dives into the viral story of Shubham Goon, an Indian entrepreneur who used LinkedIn’s networking platform in a surprising new way—by launching the “Open to Marry” badge and post, which caught global media attention. Host Kat Zammuto and Shubham engage in a frank, relatable conversation about the insane state of modern dating, the limitations of matchmaking and dating apps, the shifting purpose of professional platforms like LinkedIn, and the universal struggle to find real love amidst the noise and distraction of online life.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

Shubham’s Story: From Networking to “Open to Marry”

• Background:
  • Shubham is a successful entrepreneur running the branding/PR agency Hinglish.
  • Built a 50K+ following on LinkedIn for work, but struggled with dating apps and matrimony sites.
  • He found those platforms full of scams, “no human connect,” and felt “fed up after a point in time.” (03:00)
• The Viral Post:
  • Frustrated, he experimented by leveraging LinkedIn’s “Open to Work” badge to signal he’s “Open to Marry”:

    “If you can seek work, why can’t you seek a bride?” (06:03)

  • Surprisingly, many other professionals resonated—proving that “dating is a shit show” globally, not just in India or the U.S. (03:50)

The State of Online Dating

• Universal Frustration:
  • Both Kat and Shubham connect over how exhausting, superficial, and ultimately fruitless typical dating and matrimony apps can be:

    “It’s kind of like finding the diamond in the sand…so, so hard.” – Kat, (09:29)

• The Choice Paradox:
  • Shubham relates to what women feel, being overwhelmed by options and unsure how (or even whom) to respond to.

    “When you get a barrage of men or women writing at you, you really feel a little conscious…should I engage with this or not?” (10:36)

• Direct Human Connection is Missing:
  • Kat points out that most interactions don’t move past generic texting:

    “Hey, how are you? I’m good. How was your day? It is so blah, like it does not proceed.” (13:38)

  • Shubham wishes more people would escalate to phone or video calls, though he notes, “India is conservative like that.” (14:13)

The Challenges of Serious Search for a Life Partner

• Intentionality versus Busyness:
  • Both acknowledge the challenge of “making time” to date seriously as busy entrepreneurs:

    “Any relationship needs that time.” – Shubham, (12:41) “We make time for what is important to us.” – Kat, (12:48)

  • Shubham admits that, although he’s “open to marry,” the follow-through is hard, leading Kat to challenge whether he’s truly ready to prioritize finding “the one”:

    “If you say you’re too busy…and you don’t want to make time for them, are you really ready for it?” – Kat, (17:11)

• Going Viral—Impact & Complications:
  • Post sparked hundreds of DMs, including business offers, partnership proposals, and even one from an ex-girlfriend after seeing media coverage:

    “I’ve got business out of this post, but not bride.” – Shubham, (15:48)

  • Unsure how to filter, respond, and move things forward.
  • Kat coaches him: “If you really want to get married…just give a few girls out there that reached out to you a chance.” (24:36)

Technology, Scams & Due Diligence

• LinkedIn as a Relationship Platform:
  • LinkedIn’s professional context can provide a layer of authenticity often missing from dating apps.
• Pitfalls:
  • Both acknowledge dangers: scams, “fishy” messages, and people with unclear motives.

    “Is it some international scam I’m getting into?” – Shubham, (21:48)

  • Kat’s advice: Always vet people, ask for phone or video calls, and don’t let past bad experiences stop you from seeking love. (22:08)

LinkedIn Masterclass: Building Your Network

• Shubham delivers practical, actionable advice for listeners looking to use LinkedIn for more than just jobs:
  1. Don’t see LinkedIn as just for jobs: “It is a corporate social networking website…meant for people to connect.” – (25:31)
  2. Engage Actively: “Don’t post and ghost, engage with other people.”
  3. Consistency Is Key: Post daily or even multiple times a day.
  4. Join/Create Community: Shubham’s own Hinglish community (2000+ marketers) on WhatsApp.
  5. Optimize Your Profile: Have a strong headline, engaging cover, showcase testimonials, and star your top posts. (27:46)
  6. Growth Timeline: He reached 61,000 followers in under 2 years, posting daily (29:40).

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On LinkedIn’s Changing Identity:

  “LinkedIn used to be corporate social platform, but now…People have started finding cofounders. People have started also goofing around. It is becoming more fun.” – Shubham, (04:53)

• On Why He’ll Never Share His Age:

  “No, no, no. Never ask a man his age.” – Shubham, (07:15)

• On Past Relationships:

  “One of my exes has come back, so that is also an interesting space to…” – Shubham, (16:13)

• Kat’s Core Message:

  “Don’t let one bad person make you give up on love, because there are a lot of nice people out there, you know, and your person is trying to find you as much as you’re trying to find them.” – Kat, (22:08)

• On Intent:

  “I am guilty of the fact that I lack intent because I prioritize work over everything…now I am giving it the time and the efforts it needs.” – Shubham, (23:41)

• Encouragement:

  “Never give up on love because the right person for you is out there trying to find you.” – Kat, (31:10)

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Timestamps for Key Segments

• [02:43] — Shubham’s frustration with dating/matrimony apps and birth of the “Open to Marry” idea.
• [06:03] — Explanation of “Open to Work” badge and adapting it for relationships.
• [07:35] — Kat’s story: exiting an abusive marriage; how the podcast was born.
• [09:18] — DMs flood in after the viral post.
• [10:36] — The paradox of choice—the emotional experience of being overwhelmed by responses.
• [13:05] — The necessity of making time to pursue relationships.
• [17:38] — Kat challenges Shubham’s readiness for a serious relationship.
• [21:23] — Kat’s takeaways: don’t give up, love is still worth it.
• [25:31 – 29:02] — Shubham’s mini LinkedIn masterclass: actionable, step-by-step tips to grow your presence.

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Tone, Style & Atmosphere

• Candid, humorous, and empowering: Kat brings her trademark, unfiltered energy and warmth, while Shubham is open, witty, and self-deprecating.
• Global relatability: They make it clear that dating struggles transcend borders—and openness, vulnerability, and persistence are universally needed.
• Actionable empowerment: While acknowledging challenges, both deliver hope and practical strategies to improve one’s love life and business life.

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Final Thoughts

This episode is a raw, timely, and often funny look at how technology, social norms, and the workplace collide in modern romance. Whether you’re “open to work” or “open to marry,” Kat and Shubham offer solidarity, sage advice, and a needed reminder:
Don’t give up on love—and don’t underestimate the power of putting yourself out there in new (and sometimes unconventional) spaces.

Transcript

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[Kat]

So my guest today, I'm so excited to talk to him because apparently he's going viral on LinkedIn and he's all the way in India. Thank you so much for joining us. Shubham, how are you?

[Shubham Goon]

I'm great. I'm great. How have you been?

[Kat]

I'm great. Thank you so much for doing this. It's a pleasure having you here.

[Shubham Goon]

Pleasure.

[Kat]

So, for people that don't know you, let's explain what's going on. Okay. Before we talk about your. Your LinkedIn post. You are a super successful entrepreneur, correct? I think we do similar type of work because you. I have a branding, PR and marketing agency and I was looking at your LinkedIn and you have some. Something similar, right?

[Shubham Goon]

Yeah.

[Kat]

Really cool. Yeah. So it's called Hinglish. I love the name.

[Shubham Goon]

Yes, thank you.

[Kat]

Your English is really good, by the way. And you have a massive LinkedIn following. You have more than 50,000 followers on LinkedIn. Okay, so guide me through the thought process because, I mean, you're a businessman, but apparently you also want to get married. But you look super young, like I would have thought, like there, there are Line lines and lines of girls that want to date you. But guide me through the process, how you went from using LinkedIn to work and you build this huge audience and you come up with this idea of, of doing the post about trying to find somebody to marry you.

[Shubham Goon]

Okay. So I've been running this advertising agency called Hinglish. Hindi, English and Hinglish. So now work keeps me occupied most of the times. I have tried dating apps, I've tried these matrimony apps. But what happens there is that there is no human connect. You don't know who you're talking to. Most of the time is wasted swiping and there are scams. And you just get fed up after a point in time. And after getting fed up, I started feeling that LinkedIn has played a huge role in my journey. It has helped me get clients, it has helped me get students, it has helped me get mentors, also people who wanted to invest in me. Now I thought, what if, just what if we use this open to work feature to advertise that, okay, I am a good suit and I'm open to marry iu. And I was fairly surprised that there are so many people who are, who are in the same boat.

[Kat]

There are so. Well, you know, I do the podcast about dating and relationships and I can tell you. Yeah. Because we have audiences I think in 57 countries now. India is definitely one of them. And you are absolutely right. People are on the same boat everywhere in the world. They send messages like, dating is so tough. It's a shit show. I don't know what to do. And then when I saw your post, I'm like, okay, so this is not just the United States, obviously.

[Shubham Goon]

It's uni.

[Kat]

It's an universal issue that a lot of, of successful, nice single people are just fed up with this BS of the dating game. Yeah, yeah, but you would have thought because. Let's explain because a lot of people don't do LinkedIn. Right? A lot of people do Instagram, TikTok. Let's, let's explain the, the open to work thing. Because LinkedIn used to be mostly for people that are looking for jobs. Correct. And for people or for businesses that are looking for clients. It was like strictly like a business platform. Corre.

[Shubham Goon]

It used to be if you say pre Covid, it was very uptight. But the barrage of people who started posting on LinkedIn, it has become a fun working place now. People have started finding co founders. People have started also goofing around. LinkedIn used to be corporate social platform, but as we are going ahead. It is becoming more fun. And a part of having fun is also getting fun people along.

[Kat]

Yeah.

[Shubham Goon]

So open to work. I'll tell you the open to work part.

[Kat]

Yeah. Let's explain to people what that is.

[Shubham Goon]

So LinkedIn gives you on your profile picture a badge, which makes people know that, okay, this person has this semicircular badge on the profile picture which says open to work, which means that this person is ready to work. Now, I thought of why not? And millions of people have this open to work feature on.

[Kat]

Yeah.

[Shubham Goon]

Now open to work is seeking work. I thought, if you can seek work, why can't you seek a bride?

[Kat]

So you're like, I'm going to put a badge on mine that says Open to Mary.

[Shubham Goon]

Correct? Absolutely.

[Kat]

When you were doing the post, and I just want to read a little chunk of the post for you guys, you. But I highly recommend go follow him on LinkedIn. I actually just started doing my LinkedIn, by the way, because I was kind of ignoring it. And then I have a friend that has a massive audience, and I'm like, you know what? I'm gonna try this out. And same thing. I realized that you can get so many much business, new clients, new friends. It's really fantastic. I love it. But just so people understand what we're talking about, you write the sweetest post like you wrote before you judge me, hear me out.

[Shubham Goon]

Because I knew people will judge me.

[Kat]

I love that. This is my last resort. Oh, my God, Sami, you're exaggerating a little bit because you're not old. I mean, if you. If you guys are listening to the audio episode, go to YouTube so you can see his face.

[Shubham Goon]

You look.

[Kat]

So. Can you tell us how old you are?

[Shubham Goon]

No, no, no. Never ask a man his age.

[Kat]

I thought it was never ask a woman this age. But I thought, you look like you're in your 30s.

[Shubham Goon]

Yeah, yeah, I'm fairly young and fairly old. But I want to know from you, why this podcast? Why relationship and dating?

[Kat]

Why my podcast, relationship and Dating? So my story is kind of like the opposite of yours. I was married for 15 years, and, yeah, it was a very abusive marriage. It was horrible. It was really tough. My husband became an alcoholic, and it took me 15 years to get out of the marriage. So once I got out of the marriage, I started building my life over right from scratch. And one of these things was I had to learn how to date and have relationships all over again. So I started Cat on the Loose, just venting. It's kind of similar. Like oh, my God. You know, it's so tough. Like, there are so many players and bullshitters and people don't want anything serious. I started venting, and I realized that same thing with you. There are so many people out there going through the same thing. And the show grew and grew and grew, and now we are one of the top relationship podcasts in the United States and the world, and we are this amazing worldwide community. So I'm like, okay, you fit right in with your story, but I think you're exaggerating when you say that it's your last resort.

[Shubham Goon]

It was also for the chuckles. One definitely wants to, you know, write a post which can get the attention. So that was partly that as well.

[Kat]

Yes.

[Shubham Goon]

But I'm fairly surprised. I have at least. I am not joking when I say this. I have at least 200 to 300 women in. In my DMs. Not just for they want to go out with me, but also resonating the fact that they are in the same boat.

[Kat]

Yeah. Yeah.

[Shubham Goon]

This tells us the present dating scene is not at its best, I believe.

[Kat]

No.

[Shubham Goon]

Do you feel technology has ruined it for sure?

[Kat]

This is what I think, right? I think dating apps, and that's something you wrote. You're like, I've tried dating apps. I think dating apps are a necessary evil, so to speak, because you could find your per. I know people that got married on dating apps so you could find a person that you would never cross paths with. So it can. Can it work? Yes, but it's kind of like finding the diamond in the sand. You know what I mean? It's so, so hard. And I do think that most people on dating apps are just players. I think there are a few people on dating apps that are looking for relationship, but they're very, very few. So, yeah, it can be exhausting. I definitely get this complaint every day from men and women. They're like, oh, my God, I am so tired because I've been on dating apps for so many years. And especially women, right, because they don't want to be like, you know, fall in the hands of a player. You know what I mean? They want to find a guy like you that is ready for a. A serious relationship. And you even took a step further because you said, I'm open to getting married.

[Shubham Goon]

I also feel, you know, Kat, I also feel that the choice paradox for women, because I felt like a woman when I posted this. When you get a barrage of men or women writing at you, you really feel a little conscious that, okay, should I be Engaging with this or not. And I feel that is what women feel on dating apps.

[Kat]

Yeah, no, for sure it's. So let me ask you, you said you try dating apps, are they the same that we use here in the United States?

[Shubham Goon]

Like what's the main dating apple?

[Kat]

They're all the same. There is nothing different there. And it's the same shit show. But you're very young. So let what would be like a deal, like what are you looking for in a partner that you have not found that. Because I would have thought when you put yourself on a dating app and you say, I'm a successful guy, I'm good looking, I'm young, I want to get married, I would have thought there's lines and lines of girls that want to date.

[Shubham Goon]

You see, I'll come back to the same point now. When I did not say date, I said married.

[Kat]

Yeah.

[Shubham Goon]

That's the reason. So when it comes to dating, it's a different game.

[Kat]

But wait a second. Don't you have to date first to see if you like the person?

[Shubham Goon]

Of course. 100. There needs to be a courtship. But the courtship should conclude in something. It should not conclude in goodbyes.

[Kat]

I agree. I totally agree. For people that are that seriously want a relationship. Yeah. If you want to get married, you should end up being married or moving together or whatever it is. But you don't think there are a lot of women out there that are serious about being in a serious relationship?

[Shubham Goon]

There must be. But I have not crossed paths with them.

[Kat]

Okay, so you must be super picky as well.

[Shubham Goon]

Could be. And also I feel one of the things which I also spoke to people and I've started seeing is people don't have the time to invest. And you need to invest time in it.

[Kat]

Yeah. You think they don't have the time?

[Shubham Goon]

No, even I don't have the time. That's the problem. And I think any relationship needs that time.

[Kat]

Don't I think this is my opinion. We make time for what is important to us.

[Shubham Goon]

Yeah. Yeah.

[Kat]

This is what I think. So like if somebody tells you, oh, I'm too busy, I think the end of that phrase is I am too busy for you.

[Shubham Goon]

But, but, but, but hear me out now. The two people need to find time together.

[Kat]

Correct. It's a two way street. So like if you meet someone and you like them, you can be like a super busy business owner. Like you are like I am. But if you meet someone and you like them, you are going to find time for like you're gonna go to dinner or breakfast or you're gonna make plans on the weekend. So if you're saying you're too busy, it's because you haven't found somebody that you think it's worth making time for.

[Shubham Goon]

I, I, I also feel, you know, it is also because when you're texting someone, most of the time the text is, hey, how are you? I'm good. How was your day? It is so blah, like it does not proceed. So you think about the matches. First of all, you don't get matches. You get matches. You, you don't convert. Talking, if you talk, it is such a long trail.

[Kat]

It is, yeah. But why don't you like, jump on the phone? Like, because when I'm texting someone on a dating app, I'm like, let's talk on the phone. Right.

[Shubham Goon]

India is conservative like that. India is conservative like that. So I believe that's the problem. And I'm more of a talker than a texter because I write day in, day out for work.

[Kat]

Same. Yeah. Like if I meet someone, I want to talk to you. Like, I want to know what you have to say. Maybe do a video call and then if you decide it's worth it, then you go and meet the person.

[Shubham Goon]

Absolutely.

[Kat]

Yeah. So that, but you wrote on going back to your post continuing, for the people that didn't read it, you literally wrote, this is my last resort. I've tried dating apps, I've tried matrimony apps, I've tried meeting through friends. So your friends try to introduce you don't like anybody. I've tried meeting through relatives, actually, I've tried everything under the sun, but I have not found the one. And trust me, I'm not the only one that much I agree with you. There are so many of us in the right age, right stage of careers, financially independent, emotionally ready and genuinely looking for a genuine partner to build a life with. If you can relate to this, here's an experiment. And that's why you suggest as LinkedIn. If LinkedIn can get us jobs, clients, mentors and investors, why can't it help us find love? Let's start something called hashtag. And funny that you did it on LinkedIn because I never heard in my life of a LinkedIn post going viral, but apparently a lot of media publications picked it up and published about you.

[Shubham Goon]

Yes, yes, yes. I was joking with a friend that I've got business out of this post, but not bride. There are people who have contacted me for business. I am getting into agreements, contracts with them, but I'm not found the one, but that.

[Kat]

But I'm assuming a lot of women are reaching out to you, that they want to date you.

[Shubham Goon]

Yes, yes, yes.

[Kat]

Are you responding?

[Shubham Goon]

I am, but the conversation again, the point is, one needs to invest that time and I genuinely have started speaking to few people. Also, one of my exes has come back, so that is also an interesting space to.

[Kat]

Okay, wait, wait, wait, wait. Now the plot thickens. So when you did the post, let be honest. So when you did the post, you were really, really serious about meeting someone new?

[Shubham Goon]

Yes, yes, I was. I was. I forgot about this girl.

[Kat]

And then your ex girl, somebody you dated before she found the post, she.

[Shubham Goon]

Found a newspaper clipping, and now she.

[Kat]

Wants to get back together with you.

[Shubham Goon]

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Kat]

Do you?

[Shubham Goon]

I don't know. I don't know. I'm not sure about it.

[Kat]

You seem like you. You're not sure about what you want to do at all with your dating life.

[Shubham Goon]

Maybe. I think that's the reason I'm still single.

[Kat]

Yeah, because when I saw your post, I'm like, okay, if he's saying he's open to marry, he's good looking, he's young, he's successful, there's going to be dozens and dozens of girls. I. I would assume you select the ones that have, like, a similar lifestyle and what you're looking for in a partner. You just go on a bunch of dates and you would find a partner. But if you say you're too busy and you don't want to make time for them, are you really ready for it?

[Shubham Goon]

I am, but I don't know. Actually, the point is it is. It is complicated.

[Kat]

Yeah. So explain what is complicated? Because you're saying you want to get married now you have all these girls after you and you're saying you don't have time.

[Shubham Goon]

No, I don't know how to. So, for example, a girl texts me, hey, listen, I want to meet you, or I want to talk to you. And I go to her profile and I don't see anything. Now there's this girl who's extremely successful and has done things and is also beautiful. Now she writes in a way which is she is giving me best wishes for the future. Now, how do I. She's like, I. I resonate with you. Best wishes. I like. Okay, dude, thank you. What do I do to that?

[Kat]

Yeah, that's weird. That's just weird. But how many. Okay, let's help you figure this out.

[Shubham Goon]

I tell you, Kat, there are around five to six dating apps, exclusive matrimony, Apps who want me to be on their platform in.

[Kat]

You mean in India? They're.

[Shubham Goon]

No, no, no, no, no, no.

[Kat]

Not everywhere in the world.

[Shubham Goon]

Yes, yes, yes.

[Kat]

Okay, so do you want to marry someone that is in India and from India?

[Shubham Goon]

I'm not, I'm not very, you know, fixated on that.

[Kat]

Okay. You're open minded too. So if somebody right now is listening in the United States, anywhere, you'll be open to that. Now look, your post got almost 3000 likes, hearts reactions and almost a thousand comments so far. And it's. And like we said, all this media attention, a bunch of media outlets picked it up, wrote about it. The Economic Times wrote an article about Mumbai based seal calls for open to mary badge on LinkedIn. So you're getting a lot of feedback. Is this feeding your ego or are you really thinking maybe my wife is out there in this ocean of people that are reaching out to me.

[Shubham Goon]

I genuinely feel that this has moved the needle for sure. I am talking to people as well as we speak. I. Not as ego. My posts do get the same traction every week. So yeah, they might not get picked by media, but attraction wise is not the first time I've got distraction. But I genuinely feel the one good part which has happened is that I have people from all parts of the world have reached out, not just for marrying me, but for business collaborations, for friendships. So that is that. That I feel is a good sign.

[Kat]

It's a fantastic sign. And to talk about business for a second, it shows the power of LinkedIn. Right. Because like I literally, I'm in the United States and I'm always trying to find interesting people to interview and what's going on. And when I saw him like, oh my God, I want to talk to this guy.

[Shubham Goon]

That's so cool of you.

[Kat]

It's Right. And we are in similar business, so I'm pretty sure there's a lot of things that we can do together.

[Shubham Goon]

What do you do? What's your business like? If you could.

[Kat]

Yeah, so I, other than doing the podcast, I do pr, marketing, branding and social media and I have clients all over the world. I think similar to what you do, but we can do a business meeting after.

[Shubham Goon]

Yes, definitely, definitely. So if I were to ask you, what is the crux of this podcast? What is the bottom line of this podcast for you? What do you want people to take away from this?

[Kat]

Yeah, so a bunch of different things. Right. The very first thing that I always say is I don't want anybody to give up on love because we were talking about the dating apps, right. And nowadays I feel that there are thousands and thousands and thousands of people out there that get so frustrated, so frustrated. They get burned with the wrong people so many times.

[Shubham Goon]

That is the problem.

[Kat]

Yeah, they literally.

[Shubham Goon]

So I'll tell you, Kaid, now a girl, I find it very, very now I don't want to quote them or name them but the messages were very fishy also on LinkedIn as well. So yeah, sure, that makes someone feel, oh, should I be approaching or not? Is it some international scam I'm getting into?

[Kat]

Well, this is what I say, right? Yeah, you do your due diligence. That goes for men and women, right. The number one complaint of men is that yes, there are a lot of women that are looking for money, that are looking for sugar. That is all this. And the number one complaint of women is that most men are players. They just want like a one night stand, you know, bullshit. So I always say like, do your due diligence, ask for a phone call, ask for a video call. LinkedIn is a great example. Ask the person you're talking to like, do you have a LinkedIn profile? Let me take a look at. Because nowadays it's almost impossible to hide, right. You if you cannot find. Yeah. So but even if you did get burned before, this is what I always say here on Cat on the Loose. Don't let one bad person make you give up on love because there are a lot of nice people out there, you know, and your person is trying to find you as much as you're trying to find them. So I think my message is always that, I mean look at me, I left a horrible marriage after 15 years and I started my life over, I started a business, I started the show and I just want to empower women and men to go after their dreams and never give up on finding their partner, even if they have to. There's like airplanes passing, flying by where you are. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I can hear that. Never been to India, but it's on my bucket list for sure.

[Shubham Goon]

Yeah, come to Bombay. I'll love to.

[Kat]

Thank you.

[Shubham Goon]

So, yeah, I, I genuinely feel, you know one thing which I have come to a conclusion that it is intent based. I, I somewhere I am guilty of the fact that I lack intent because I prioritize work over everything which is bad and now started realizing it and I am giving it the time and the efforts it needs. Yeah, but it is still tricky.

[Kat]

No one absolute look it for you, for me and for all the singles in the world. Like I said, it's like finding the diamond in the sand and it's really cool. Prioritizing work. I'm. I'm all for people working hard and being successful. I'm the same. I'm a major workah. Look, it's Sunday night here in la, right? It's Monday for you, for me. And I'm working because I love what I do. I'm a major workaholic. However, just because it's hard, you cannot give up on it, you know?

[Shubham Goon]

Absolutely.

[Kat]

If you really want to get married, if you really want to be in a relationship, just do your due diligence and give a few girls out there that reached out to you a chance.

[Shubham Goon]

Definitely, definitely a big shout out to them. And if you are in my dm, I definitely speak to you. And don't feel bad if I don't because I can't talk to 200.

[Kat]

Too many. Right? You must be. How many DMS are you getting a day?

[Shubham Goon]

At least, As I said, 200 to 300.

[Kat]

At least a day.

[Shubham Goon]

No, no, in these two weeks.

[Kat]

Oh my God. But that's a lot. Now since you are so good on LinkedIn, let me ask you a question. Any tips for people out there? They say, oh my God, this is really powerful. How do you, how does someone grow a LinkedIn as. Yeah, definitely, because yours is huge. Any ideas you can share?

[Shubham Goon]

Yeah, yeah. So LinkedIn just like firstly, stop thinking of LinkedIn as a job seeking website. It is a corporate social networking website or an app. It is meant for people to connect on a call, on a work bandwidth. So any work stories, anything related, you can, you can add value, you can add entertainment, you can rant, but it should at the end of the day somewhere relate to people on a large scale. Mostly work though my post, this particular post was not precisely work, but still, if it resonates to working professionals, you can be there. Second, what people don't do is engagement. Don't post and ghost, engage with other people. You need to be commenting, you need to be liking, you need to be speaking to people in DMs so that you genuinely build a network. Most people post and ghost, they post and then they disappear. Algorithm wants you to spend time on the app. Thirdly, you need to be consistent and there is any social media app for that matter. If you're not consistent, you cannot grow, you'll have to post daily. And there is and I'm telling you, if you come and analyze what getting traction, you start writing about those, if you start getting part of those conversations, you will Grow. And fifth point, very important point, try to build your own community. Try to. So I run a community called Hinglish. It is an advertising community. There are 2,000 writers, marketers, designers, editors on that. It's on WhatsApp. So if you're backing, if you're adding value to a community, they will back you.

[Kat]

I love that idea.

[Shubham Goon]

Also the last point, do update your profile. Because when people search, if you have relevant keywords on your profile, it ranks up.

[Kat]

So pay attention to the profile, like what you do, what are the services, your expertise, all that good stuff.

[Shubham Goon]

If you want, I can just give you in a minute, I'll tell you. Cover photo needs to give a story, can be your services, can be the vibe you want to set. Then your profile can be formal, can be informal, but you need to look stick and span. You need to look nice. Your headline is very, very important. I'll tell you why. Because when you comment beside your name, there are three things, three to four words which appear from your headline. So if I see a comment from Catherine, I need to see what exactly Catherine does in those two, three words so that I can click on her profile and engage with her. Once you've done that, there are featured section wherein you star mark the post, which are good, which you want people to see. If you see my profile, you'll see a mix of posts which have got traction and the work I have done for maybe the big government client I got or another startup I've worked with or other work, then you have post and then eventually you need to have testimonials. I've got some 20 plus testimonials with people I've worked because that brings credibility. If someone comes to your profile and they see that this person is legit, they would like to interact with you, they would want to grow with you. And yeah, this is mini LinkedIn masterclass.

[Kat]

But I have to thank you, we appreciate that. Because I have to say, when I started doing mine was about a year ago. And you are so right. If you post every single day, it starts growing really fast. And it's amazing how the community on LinkedIn is very engaged. People, like you said, they respond, they comment, they send DMS. I get a lot of my business just from LinkedIn nowadays. So yeah, it's very, very powerful. And how, how many years did it take you to get to 60,000, almost.

[Shubham Goon]

61,000 followers plus a few months, I would say 15, 15 to 16 months.

[Kat]

So it was very fast. Very fast. Yeah, less than two years. You have 60,000 followers. Holy cow.

[Shubham Goon]

Yeah.

[Kat]

But you post every single day.

[Shubham Goon]

Yeah, sometimes three times a day. I, I, because, and it's a job. I think I call LinkedIn a job because I, most of the work comes from LinkedIn and I take it very serious.

[Kat]

Yeah, I agree with you.

[Shubham Goon]

Would not have met, you would not have done this had it, had they.

[Kat]

Not, you know, there you go. So LinkedIn united us. I, I do hope you find your bride. I do hope. If, if you do, please let me know so I can let our list 100.

[Shubham Goon]

We both will come to speak to you.

[Kat]

Yes, I appreciate you so much. Good luck. This was really fun. And guys, if you're not on LinkedIn, please go for it because it's a very powerful platform. And if you want to follow him on put, I'm Gonna put your LinkedIn link here on this audio episode. So, you guys, how do I pronounce your last name? Goon. Yeah, yeah, I'm putting the link here for you guys so you can go and see the Open to Mary. Let's see if more people do that. But, you know, even if you don't get married, like you said, at least you're getting a ton of business. Super clever marketing, by the way. And I'm sure you're getting a lot of proposals.

[Shubham Goon]

Yes, thank you.

[Kat]

I'll talk to you very soon. Guys, be safe out there. And like I said, never give up on love because the right person for you is out there trying to find you.

[Shubham Goon]

Absolutely.

[Kat]

Thank you so much.

[Shubham Goon]

Thank you so much.

[Kat]

Yes. Have a great rest of your day and I'll talk to you very soon. Okay, thank you. Bye bye.

[Shubham Goon]

Bye bye. Limu Emu.

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