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Katie
Welcome back to Catching up with Katie. It's been a couple weeks. I actually went on a little vacation. So we went to Antigua. We've been back for a few days now. This will be airing after the Christmas cup, the KVS Christmas special. So if you haven't watched that, go watch that. So I guess let's just catch up because catching up with Katie. I. I know that Nate went on a vacation. I went on a vacation. So I guess just, just like, let's chat about it. Antigua. Were you trying to prove that I was saying it wrong? No. That's how everyone said it.
Nate
I. I was not trying. I was not trying to prove that you said it wrong. I was. I say it wrong.
Maddie
Antigua.
Nate
That's how I thought it was and.
Maddie
That'S what everyone thought it was.
Nate
But I thought you just came back from there. There's no way you're saying it wrong.
Katie
Well, I found out there's. There's a Antigua city and an Antigua country. They're spelled the same.
Nate
Oh, okay.
Katie
And so depending on where you are, it's said differently.
Nate
Okay. I could have got my wires crossed, but I was like antiga. I was just in shock and disbelief. I had to. I had to double confirm my incorrectness.
Maddie
I just burped.
Nate
But that was.
Maddie
I was also on the trip.
Nate
You learn something new every day.
Katie
Are we doing that?
Maddie
Sure.
Katie
Okay, real quick, how we say it. Are we like, we ran into Abigail while we were there?
Nate
No. They're dating.
Maddie
I don't care. I'm. I actually, like, two days ago, I, like, on the way to Christmas, I. I told him, I was like, I'm going to post some pictures of us.
Nate
Okay.
Katie
It was a really fun, relaxing trip. Honestly, like, needed that, needed that sleep. I. I slept a lot on the trip. Honestly. We didn't do anything. Like, I didn't do any excursions. Jonathan and his brother did a fishing trip. Like, they went.
Nate
Yeah.
Katie
On a horrific fishing trip.
Nate
It wasn't good.
Katie
No.
Nate
Oh, no. That's a bummer too.
Katie
No. I felt so bad. So, like, we had decided, hey, if you are going to go fishing, we're just going to go to the spa. We're going to go get a massage while you are gone. Hey, y', all, it's Katie. Did you know that you could bring a little piece of running springs into your home? And just so you know, if you're a paid subscriber on TikTok, Facebook or Instagram, you will always get a 25% off discount with your subscriber code on the merch store. We've got the cutest merch featuring all the farm favorites like our mini cows, mares and foals, goats, donkeys, and of course the mini horses. You'll find T shirts, cozy hoodies, zip ups, mugs, and so much more. Some of the designs are limited edition, so when they're gone, they're gone. But don't worry, a few favorites stick around, at least until the end of the year. We've also started adding fun new things like diamond art kits, paint by number sets, shoe charms, and even coloring books. And trust me, there's a lot more coming later this year, so check back often. And don't forget to join the email list so you don't miss out on the new drops. So head over to katievanslike.net to get all of your favorites before they're gone. And now back to the video. So they tried. I, I have a lot of things about this trip because I've now been to Two Sandals. I don't think I warrant an all inclusive because I don't drink. And so I think a lot of the cost that's built into the trip is like the drink package. And I don't think that's. Yeah, I think I could probably plan a trip a little bit more accordingly to like, what I need.
Nate
Yeah.
Katie
For the same money. But anyway, so they booked an excursion to go fishing. He, Jonathan asked profusely, trying to figure out some sort of details on this trip. He was like, what are we fishing for? Where are we going? Like, can we have some details? And every time he'd be like, can I get some details on the strip? And they'd be like, you leave at 7. And he's like, okay, like what else? Like something else. And so what it ended up being was it was a big boat and it was, I think six people fishing with the guide or the. Yeah, captain, whatever. And I don't know if it was due to the waves. There was like 10t waves the whole time.
Maddie
Oh, it was, it was due to the waves that they were trolling. Yeah.
Katie
So trolling. So like, if, for, if you don't know, fishing, you can either cast, jig or troll. Trolling is where you literally put the fishing lines on the end of the boat and you just pull it through the water and you hope something gets it.
Nate
Just drive around.
Katie
Yeah. And so because they couldn't cast because it was so horrible weather wise and like wave wise, they just sat there getting beat to death. There was three fish caught the entire time and Austin and Jonathan were trying to be the nice guys so they let them do it first like the other people do it first and then they didn't catch anything else again. Well, I guess, I guess Austin got one. But yeah, they came back fried and sick. It was an hour car drive there, hour back.
Nate
It had to be plum across the whole island.
Katie
Jonathan probably.
Nate
Yeah, it is not very big.
Katie
No, Jonathan was like, I sat there and he said, he, I, he was like, I heard the captain say we'll be back 10 to 12 or something like that. And he said, I sat there and I kept looking at my phone and it was like in 5 minute increments. Cuz I was just trying not to throw up. I've never been sick in my life on a boat. And it was just rough. There was a husband and a wife. Jonathan's like, they're divorced now, 100%. Like it was the worst.
Maddie
The other guy, I think there's four people. Yeah, the other guy was just there by himself. And then he was, he said that he like his wife was going to come, but he like that day was like, you're not allowed to come because we're going to get into an argument and, and like I don't want it to happen. And he was like, I'm so glad she didn't go.
Katie
He said I would have to have a helicopter come pick us up if my wife had come on this trip. And Jonathan's like, I think same. And I'm like, I'm so glad. And then I accidentally. I didn't ever say like couples. I just booked it on our room to go get massages and facials.
Nate
Yeah.
Katie
Because we were like, if they're gonna be gone for four hours, let's go. Like, you know, whatever. And so they, we walk in, they're like couples massage. And we were like. And they're like, that's what we booked for you. And I was like, oh. So. We had a couple's massage. I was like, you don't have to because me and Jonathan had one too. I was like, you don't have to put our hands together at the end.
Maddie
Like so we just got massaged right next to each other, but it was fine.
Nate
So a couple's massage is just a regular massage in the same room. You're just in the same room.
Maddie
Yeah. And then they put, they join hands at the end.
Katie
We didn't do that.
Maddie
But also like you, when you go into the, to the room, they're like, okay, hang your robe on the, on the door and Then go get under the thing. And the door is, like, across the room from the base, ways away. So we're like, okay. Well, I was like, who goes first? Oh, it was.
Katie
Yeah, it was good, though. We, like, like. The only thing is that I have an issue with this massage. It was fine. And the facial, I actually really enjoyed. Like, I. I need to force myself to go do more facials and stuff. We. We asked for, like, a head massage as part of it. It was supposed to be 30 minutes as, like, a scalp massage.
Nate
Yeah.
Katie
You can only. With just your fingertips, no nails. You can only do this for so long in the same place before I'm like.
Maddie
This is.
Nate
All right, all right, let's.
Katie
Let's just. And so at one point, I was like, do you mind just, like, playing with my hair? Because I was like, just do, like, a little, you know, some. Some scratches.
Nate
You spoke?
Katie
I spoke. I was like. I heard.
Maddie
I heard it.
Katie
I was like, can we just, like, can you just play with my hair or something? She's like, okay, start slicking it back. Just like. Like petting me like a dog.
Maddie
There's, like, oil in it at this point, too. And so it's just like, wow, I.
Nate
Can'T believe you spoke. I've only gotten a massage a few times in my life. And, I mean, they. They probably could have beat me up with a hammer.
Maddie
Yeah.
Nate
And I would be like. They'd be like, too, too rough. I'd be like, nope.
Katie
See, maybe it's because Jonathan and I, like, our amazing. We've been doing this for years, our date night. And it. Sometimes we go months without it. And then sometimes we do it pretty frequently. Usually we do it more during the winter. We get massaged, and we have one person, one massage therapist that comes to our house and does it. Yeah. And so we know her. And so I get massages, you know, at least six times a year, if not more. And, like, we talk the whole time or we, like, we have a really open dialogue. I'm like, right there. That's really too hard, you know, And. And so I don't know if I'm just used to that.
Nate
So I would like that. Yeah, I would like to be able to say, actually, that's a problem spot. Can you do a little more right there? But, you know, you just. You get in the room, and then they.
Maddie
It's so quiet.
Nate
They ice you in there. They just leave you in there alone for, like, five, six. It could be 30 minutes by yourself before they.
Maddie
And by that point, it's like, you've been quiet long enough that when they come in, it's like you don't. It feels uncomfortable to, like, your face massage. Yes.
Katie
Okay.
Nate
And they come.
Katie
That was a terrible.
Nate
They give you, like a. They come in and they're. They're being really quiet. They got that peaceful music going.
Katie
Yes.
Nate
And they're like, is that enough pressure?
Maddie
I'm like, I. I'm gonna say the bare minimum in this moment because I feel awkward.
Nate
Yeah.
Maddie
Yeah. Like, she. She would. When I, like, turned over, I think was the first time she said something to me, she's like, are you enjoying your massage so far? And I was like.
Katie
Okay. Your massage. That massage was not a good introduction into massages because here's the thing. That massage, the way I would describe it is like, I'd rather have it than not, but that's not what I would describe as, like, a good one. Yeah, it was a lot of just like this rather than like this. So it was a lot of like, we were slick with oil, so it was a lot of just like, rubbing, like, in big circles and not a lot of like, sliding. Yeah.
Maddie
There was one spot on me that she was digging into, but then the rest of the time it was like. I was kind of like, is this. Is this a good massage or is this.
Katie
No, it's not. It was not, like, a mid massage.
Maddie
And I just. I don't. After that experience, I was like, I enjoyed it. Would I pay to do it again? No.
Katie
Yeah, that's the thing. I would. I wouldn't quit massages because of that massage. Again.
Maddie
Try again.
Katie
I loved the facial. I really, really liked the facial. I'd like to find somewhere and do that around here. But anyway.
Maddie
Is that the first facial you've had?
Katie
Second?
Maddie
I think there are better facials.
Katie
There are better facials.
Maddie
Like, if you liked that one, they're. They're definitely better facials.
Nate
Yeah, I went to one and it hurt. Doing all, like, the extraction.
Maddie
Oh, yeah. Did she do that to you?
Katie
Yeah. But I think because they had, like, steamed my face so much and done all the prep, it didn't hurt, really.
Maddie
It didn't hurt so much as it was, like, uncomfortable. And I wasn't expecting that, like, because I was like, this is gonna be relaxing. And then it's like, I'm gonna get these blackheads right here. And I'm like, oh, okay.
Nate
I thought she was taking my nose off.
Katie
I feel like, because of all the prep, it was like, they. They're popping out easy. So she wasn't really having to do much.
Maddie
Mine were.
Katie
They were in there.
Maddie
We're in there.
Katie
We. I mean, pretty much we just had breakfast every morning together, and then we had a cabana every day so that we had, like, a home base, because it honestly probably didn't even need it this trip. I just remember last time we went to Sandals, it was very crowded and hard to get, like, chairs and stuff, so we went ahead and booked, like, a little cabana area. Area. And so, like, then we would just kind of, like, hang out at the cabana all day, go back and forth, go nap, come back, you know, things like that. It was. No, like, there wasn't. Am I allowed now that it's out of the bag, am I allowed to post the. Not post it, but, like, give it to him to post the canoe video?
Maddie
Oh, sure. It's a kayak.
Katie
The kayak video.
Nate
Yeah.
Katie
So there was one day they did, like, more fun stuff at the pool towards the end of our trip. They didn't do all that fun stuff in the middle. So one of the days they had a kayak race in the pool. So they had a race with couples of like, I was so sick and I chickened out. Jonathan. We. At one point we were like, we should do it. But then we convinced them to do it. So, like, the, you know, first partner race down in the kayak, then usually it was the wife or the girlfriend would get in at the end and then race back, and they were cheated.
Maddie
So the time that we were trying to beat was 43 seconds. We got 41. So we. We beat the. The shortest time out of, like, 20.
Katie
Like, they won. Yeah.
Maddie
And then after us, this other couple goes and, like, the guy that was timing it, like, he said 41. Like, the host or whatever, he's like, they tied for 41. And then all, like, these people were like, I. But I was recording it, and I got, like, this.
Katie
And.
Maddie
And I think they got 40. And, like, I think they did this. And so they, like, reviewed a bunch of videos that people had taken on their phone. It was just kind of extra. And then decided that they got. They beat us by one second.
Katie
They didn't review their.
Maddie
No, they didn't review ours, but they looked at theirs, like, three times. And we're like, oh, okay, you won.
Katie
And it didn't help that it was like a parallel universe of who won. It was. Yeah. Like, the guy looked just like Austin. And we were like, that's your evil twin.
Maddie
We're like, that's your arch nemesis. And then he actually Was because you're upside down. He cheated us.
Katie
Anyway, it was very fun. Other than that, like, we only had a couple of instances that weren't the best.
Nate
Yeah.
Katie
Which was just other people being kind of. Kind of gross. I've talked about on Snapchat a little bit. So, like, hibachi is my favorite food ever.
Nate
Really?
Katie
Oh, yeah.
Nate
I didn't know that about you.
Katie
Really?
Nate
I don't think I did.
Maddie
Well, Hibachi, as in fried rice, chicken on the grill, and rice with no vegetables. So basically, chicken and rice is her favorite meal.
Katie
But, like, fried rice.
Nate
Right.
Katie
Okay.
Nate
Right.
Katie
And so I generally order my fried rice. I'm like, can y' all not put veggies in it? And the tiny little vegetable I have.
Nate
Picked through it, just, like, a few peas.
Maddie
Can you pick those out?
Katie
No, they just didn't.
Maddie
They weren't added.
Katie
That's why I specified the beginning. I said, sir, I would not like any vegetables on the side. If I could have just chicken and steak. Because they're. You don't order. They give you. Like, everyone gets the same thing. So everyone gets a little bit of everything on the menu. And as I was like, I. I'm not gonna eat the seafood. Can I just have the steak and chicken? And if you don't mind, just like my portion of rice, if you don't put. And it was easy. Like, it was that simple. It wasn't creating, like, a stink. It wasn't like, whatever. That simple. So we were sitting there with. Because Hibachi, you know, you sit with strangers if you don't take up the whole table.
Nate
Yeah.
Katie
So there was. They. They told us they were 60. A 60 year old. They said they're from Liverpool. British couple, English couple. Everything was nice enough at first. Like, we were just, like, very small talky, like, chatty. Very. It was fine. It was nice. You know, everyone was just chatting back and forth, waiting on the food. Well, I fascinated them with my choice of no vegetables. And they don't know me normally, so they don't know this is my norm.
Nate
Yeah.
Katie
So I was like, yeah, if I could just have mine with no vegetables. She's like, no vegetables. What? And I was like, oh, yeah, I'm on vacation. If I don't want vegetables, I'm not gonna eat vegetables. And she was like, oh, okay. And so, like, she was, like, thinking about that. And. And so then as we're going, and he's creating and he puts it on my plate, she's like, really? No vegetables? I'm like, nope. I. I'M good. And like, it wasn't hindering her food at all, you know? And then as we're going, they're just. Were they not just, like. Not just me?
Maddie
Like, yeah, they were kind of judgy.
Katie
Just staring and, you know, we're just like, okay. And I'm eating. And she's like, you're just really shoveling that rice in. I was like, yep, I really am. I'm shoveling it in. And then she like.
Maddie
So they had tiny appetites, apparently.
Katie
Yeah.
Maddie
Which. Or maybe we have large appetites. I don't know. But she, like. They skipped the fish and the shrimp, so they also only had chicken and steak. And after, like, she ate, like, a little bit of rice and, like, some of the chicken, some of the steak, she, like, laid down over in the chair, and he was like, she just can't eat very much. And she was like, I'm so full.
Katie
I don't know how you're doing. I don't know how you eat that much. And we're like, we're American. Yeah, that's how. And so I was like, maybe we're the fat Amer. Maybe I'm the fat American. Because she just kept being like, you really like that food, don't you?
Nate
I'm like, you can eat.
Maddie
Wow, they can eat.
Katie
And we were like, yeah, they left before dessert.
Maddie
Yeah, we were still eating the main course. They left.
Katie
They left. And like, I. I wish I'd been like, you can finish that.
Nate
I'm going to pass that place just.
Katie
Just to, like, shock them.
Maddie
Are you waste. Are you gonna waste that food? Oh, oh, we don't.
Katie
That should have been there.
Maddie
We don't waste food.
Katie
That should have been the angle you mind. So, yeah, that was like, the only, like, unpleasant because we were just like. Did that just, like. Were they really that blatantly rude? Because really, it was like, the staring. It was just like.
Maddie
I had an interesting experience with. On the flight there.
Nate
Yeah.
Katie
Oh, I forgot about this.
Maddie
A lady who I think probably such as yourself has flight anxiety.
Katie
She had.
Maddie
May have taken something before the flight.
Nate
Yeah.
Maddie
And she was sitting right next to me, and I was in the middle, and she was by the window. I don't even know. Like, I. I don't even think I can. I can, like, summarize the conversation because I don't even remember. Nothing she was saying made sense.
Nate
Yeah.
Maddie
She started talking about how, like, we were sat together for a reason, and, like, she was. I was supposed to learn something from her. And. And, like, she was like, I'm sensing, like, matrimony. And we were like, no, no. And then she's like, are you. You're planning on proposing on this trip? And he was like, yep, yeah, I am. And she was just like, I knew it.
Nate
You actually just spoiled it.
Maddie
You. You have such good intuition. Intuition, actually.
Nate
That's wild.
Maddie
It was. It was insane. And then she passed out for the remaining three hours of the flight. She didn't wait once she was out. And then I saw her at the airport afterwards in customs line with us. She's standing there reading a book.
Katie
Normal.
Nate
Just normal. Back to normal.
Katie
Yeah, I've heard some crazy Ambien stories on planes when you're, like, fighting it and you're not going to sleep yet. And, like, I've heard some crazy stories.
Maddie
And she did. She was like. She looked a little tired. Yeah.
Katie
We on the. On the plane ride back had an interesting. This is where I'm like, I always wonder how. I was actually wondering how you would have handled this because. Okay. On the way back, I was starting to feel a little sick on the last couple days. Like, really congested. Just, like, nose running, like, just didn't feel good. And I got car sick on the way to the airport because it was, like, 80 degrees in the car and, like, very stop and go. Like, I got really car sick on the way. And so they were in the line when we. Already. When we got there. And then we got pulled to the side because we had priority tickets, and so we were like, next in line. We're like, okay, cool. So the people in front of us to put our bags on the conveyor belt, which was broken, so we couldn't even do that. But to get our tickets, it was four people, and I don't want to judge them for having a lot of bags because I don't know how long. Yeah, they were there. You know, I don't know how long their trip was, but it was a man and three women. So I was just standing there, and y' all know me in my face. Like, it's not the prettiest when it's relaxed. Like, it's just not. Like, I was watching the Christmas special and just. You just get shaking my head a lot of the time.
Maddie
Because it's also not really, like, a mean face. No, not all the time. Like, I, Like, I'm picturing you just, like, standing there, like, blank faced. And it's not like. Like, I feel like I look mean when I'm just, like, resting.
Katie
Mm.
Maddie
But I feel like you're more like, just. Just.
Katie
I'm going to do it and I'm going to. I'm going to remember how my face felt. And y' all tell me.
Maddie
It just looks like you're thinking.
Nate
Yeah, you. You have a tendency to err on the side of annoyed. A little annoyed. You err on the side of a little lost.
Maddie
A little confused.
Nate
Just like. It's not by much, but it's just a slight lean.
Katie
Well, okay, so I was standing there, not feeling good. Car sick. No service on the phone. So I'm not scrolling on my phone and just blank facing it. I'm not. I'm not talking to Jonathan. We're not conversing. We're not like, you know, like, get a load of this. You know, we were just standing there and I'm not going to lie. The main woman. I'll call her the main one because she was, in my head, the main character and in her head, too. And so she was very loud and, you know, making a big thing about all of her bags. Well, I'm just standing there, you know, like, the man. He had gorgeous long turquoise hair.
Maddie
I wouldn't say gorgeous.
Katie
Had long turquoise thinning.
Nate
That was interesting fact. Glossed over.
Katie
And so, like, I made eye contact with him and gave him. You know, it's like, you know, just like a little. Not like a. Like just a little smile.
Maddie
Not like a. Yeah, no, no, no.
Katie
Yeah. I didn't do that.
Maddie
See, if it was that. That in that case, I would be like, what are you looking at?
Katie
Right. But like. Like, we made eye contact. I mean, we were there for like. Y' all made it all the way through the line.
Maddie
Yeah.
Katie
I mean, we were there for forever.
Nate
Yeah.
Katie
And so, you know, I was just like, whatever. And so he's. He goes to one of, like, starts whispering and then starts whispering, and I'm half paying attention. The main girl turns around. She's probably like mid-30s, I would say. I actually found her on. On the Internet after. Afterwards.
Nate
How?
Katie
Because she made it known what her name was.
Nate
Okay. Okay.
Katie
She was there with her cousin. She used to play softball, so she used to cheer. I found all this out pre Internet. Okay, Just.
Nate
Yeah, yeah.
Katie
So she turns around, looks at me and goes, oh, are you having a bad day? Oh, you're just having a bad day. We don't want to leave. We don't want to leave either. You just don't want to leave. And I'm like, what? I wish I was exaggerating that. Like, she was so, like, aggressively, like.
Nate
Yeah.
Katie
Pointed and I was just like, what? I didn't even get to answer because I was like. And then she turns around, and I'm like, okay. And I go to look at Jonathan, and then I look back, and again, my face is probably very confused. And she and her cousin. That I know. I now know it's her cousin, they were taking selfies with me in the background and then taking it and, like, looking at me and then pointing at it and laughing.
Maddie
What would you have done in that situation?
Katie
What would you.
Nate
Probably my initial reaction when they're saying, oh, you're having a bad day. I probably would have been.
Maddie
That's honestly, like, you talking to me.
Nate
Me. Oh, yeah, you're having a bad day. I would have said, I'm actually having a great day.
Maddie
Are you having a bad day?
Nate
And then when they started taking pictures, I would have probably. I could have seen myself going along with a little bit and be like, I Can we actually do one more? You know, if.
Maddie
Make it less fun for them that you're in on the joke.
Nate
Oh, wait, I blinked in that one. Can we do one more, please? Please?
Maddie
Like, really act like it's not bothering you.
Nate
Yeah.
Maddie
And. Yeah, turn the situation around. Make them uncomfortable.
Nate
Yeah, probably. Probably something along those lines.
Katie
But also, like, I truly was not feeling good, and so I was just like, what? Like, I was. And Jonathan's painful, painfully oblivious to all of it. He doesn't. He's just looking around, probably looking at trail cameras on his phone. So then I'm like, okay, they're done. They finally got done. We got our bags. I was like, we're just. Okay, we're moving on. We hung with them the entire time they're on our flight, and she's sitting next to me on the flight.
Nate
That's hilarious.
Katie
And so we. We sit down, like, whatever. I'm just gonna read and go to sleep. This isn't anything. Like, I'm on the. I have the window seat. She sits down. It's the end of the world that she and her cousin aren't sitting together. So she's like, how do we fix this? That. She's super. She's from Charlotte again. I know all these things. Yeah, she's from Charlotte. So she's like, how do we fix this? You know, like, trying to figure it out. And I'm like, listen, my husband's over there. I'd love to sit with him. If y' all figure out how to work it around. I'll move. I'll move to whatever so I can sit with him. They're like, okay, okay. So they start doing Jenga over here or whatever, Tetris. And they. They figured out. And so I end up not moving, and Jonathan comes to sit with me. So they're across the aisle from us, she and her cousin. The man and the older woman are up front because we were in the business class. So this entire flight, they start. I knew it was a red flag at the very beginning when the stewardess would come out, and she was so, so sweet, like, getting all of our drinks, and she's an older lady, and they were so overly nice to her at the beginning. I was like, that's a red flag. Because they're like, mary, Mary, you're so beautiful. You are so gorgeous. We love you, Mary. Thank you so much. Like, so over the top that I was like, okay.
Maddie
Just. It's also a thing of, like, you've probably never worked in, like, a job where. With, like, customer service or, like, having to deal with other people. And so it's like, who, me? No, the girl. The. The.
Nate
The girls had a lot of jobs.
Maddie
Haven't. No, I know you have the girls. And so it's like. I don't know. It's almost. It was like, being over the top, nice. Like, that makes you uncomfortable, and it makes you feel kind of stupid.
Katie
It was condescending. It really was. And so. And, like, they had made. You know, I don't want to dog on them even more, but, like, I do. They were being very loud the entire time. About, like, well, you should have seen our Europe trip last month. Well, be careful with that. That's Louis Vuitton, you know, like, very. Yeah, you know, like that. And so they're loud. It's whatever. I'm reading my book. And as the flight goes, they are ordering drinks, and I go to sleep. So the rest of this is relayed by Jonathan. I woke up at the end, and he's like, you missed a show. Like, okay. So they like. Apparently at some point, she got up and went and rummaged through the fridge at the front and got herself. Got herself a truly.
Nate
Can't do that.
Katie
So she did that, like, came back. They were drinking heavily. The woman that they were with from the front came back and sat in the middle of them in their laps, and they started singing karaoke. And the flight attendant came back, was like, ma', am, you're gonna need to go back to your seat. If we could have y' all be a little quieter. You know, she was trying to be nice.
Nate
And they were like, how Big is the plane.
Katie
It's an American Airlines. Like, this is in the business class section.
Nate
So it's like a three, three or a two, two.
Maddie
It's a two. Two. Two.
Nate
Okay.
Katie
But then it was three. Three behind it.
Maddie
Yeah. So. But there's only, like, 10, 16, I think something like. Yeah, it's a small number of, like, two twos, so they're in the front.
Katie
And so, you know, she's like, can y' all be quiet? And she's like, what? Excuse me. This has been the worst flight I've ever been on. Like, this is like a GD Spirit flight. We can't even get a. Like, just Gding effing, you know, whatever. Like, we can't even get an effing water. And mind you, this lady has been so attentive. Like, I witnessed her be so attentive. And the woman's like, I'm so sorry for your inconvenience, but we need you to stay calm. And she's start patting or be like, okay, we've heard enough. You can leave. All right, sweetie. Goodbye. And, like, just being so rude. So, like, I couldn't. I. I wish I was exaggerating and making it up that I. I hate that someone is like that out there, but they were.
Maddie
And the fact that there's two of them, even if the other one wasn't as much outspoken and she was just, like, going along with it, is crazy to me.
Katie
So I found out her name, went and looked her up.
Nate
It's in the description.
Maddie
Yeah, we tagged her below.
Katie
Went, looked her up. Every post, Bible verses, every post. You know, God gave me this. Whatever. Like, it was so upsetting that, like, to some people, that is. That is the standard of, like, Christian love. You know what I'm saying?
Nate
It's not.
Katie
No, it's not. But, like, it was the stereotypical. And, like, you know, we're in the airport, just like, I gotta get back to the south, you know, and it was just like. So.
Nate
That sounds like a. An eventful.
Maddie
Would you have said anything on the flight if you're witnessing all of that?
Katie
Mind you, I. I very much thought about it at some point. Not on the flight, but, like, in other circumstance. And I was like, these people seem like the type that they would go crazy if you chirp, they go high and start going, like, way above and beyond. And I'm like, I'm not dealing with that.
Nate
Like, I could have seen myself with doing more of it. Like, a serious chirp. I'm almost like a. Hey. Almost like I'm going to give you some advice.
Maddie
Type of chirp, really just piss them off.
Nate
And it. It might have, but I would. I would be having this internal struggle of somebody needs to say, I know.
Maddie
Yeah, someone needs to be me.
Nate
Should it be me?
Maddie
Do I wait and see if someone else does?
Katie
Right.
Nate
And I feel like in that scenario, it's more like I'm less likely to say something, you know, in general public, just especially if I'm with Macy or, you know, because things can turn violent and escalate very quickly, and I don't even put myself in those situations. I try to avoid those at all costs because most of the time it's stupid anyway. On a plane, what are you gonna do, right?
Maddie
You gonna fight me?
Nate
Yeah, you're gonna fight me.
Katie
You're gonna get duct taped to your seat if you like. Yeah.
Nate
They're not gonna play with you doing something on a plane. The plane. So, you know, but also, nobody wants chaos on the plane. Just.
Maddie
No, let's just get. It's already, like, a stressful, like, tiring situation, and it's like, oh, yeah, this was at, like.
Nate
But I could see myself saying something if they're being mean to Mary.
Maddie
Yeah, yeah.
Katie
And I would say the extent of mean to Mary was like, them. Like, if they had patted me, they were patting her being like, that's enough. And I'm like, oh, you love Mary. Like, that's. I. I saw it coming when they were being so lovey. I'm like, oh, you're gonna go so the opposite way. If. So if she says no to you.
Maddie
Or, like, very entitled.
Nate
Oh, the antics of Antigua.
Maddie
But again, now that we've talked about the trip the entire time, Nate, how do you have anything to say?
Nate
About what?
Maddie
His trip, anything.
Katie
He went to Arkansas.
Nate
I did. I got to go home.
Maddie
Oh, exciting.
Nate
Which I've. I've rarely done in the past video. Past few years. Which one?
Maddie
The Christmas one.
Nate
Oh, isn't it so cute? Yeah, so cute. Got all the lights on the courthouse and so many people out there.
Katie
Was that your baby's first time going to Arkansas? Yes. That's fun.
Nate
It was. She enjoyed it. It was good to see. Family trips are never long enough, you know, but it was. It was good. We had the. Had the starlink on the roof while we were driving, so we gave that a good test run.
Katie
Oh, did you do. Oh, no, she doesn't watch screens. I was about to say, did you do that to have a movie for.
Nate
Okay, no, but it's.
Maddie
What was it for?
Katie
Just test.
Nate
I was just testing it out.
Maddie
Okay.
Nate
I thought there may have been a chance I would need to upload a video while we were there.
Maddie
Okay.
Nate
And I didn't trust any of the Internet, so I thought, you know, does it work driving down the road too?
Katie
If y' all didn't know, she heard things going on downstairs.
Nate
But get back out of there legitimately will be a game changer for you. Yeah, like, it's. It's actually crazy.
Katie
How long are you all there?
Nate
We got there on a Thursday and left Sunday morning. So two days.
Katie
Now that y' all have gone to your family's side, are you doing anything, like, big for Christmas Christmas? Because this is. We're filming this a couple days prior to Christmas. Or are y' all just gonna be, like, low key at the house with. With the baby?
Nate
Well, I think for the most part be lowkey at the house, and I think it'll be the first Christmas I think either of us has ever been able to be lowkey because. Yeah, one of Macy's sisters lives across the country, and so her dad flew there and is spending Christmas there. So there's no.
Maddie
Yeah.
Nate
And all the other. All the other family Christmas have been done.
Maddie
Right.
Nate
So we don't have anything to do on Christmas day but wake up and just be at home.
Katie
Right.
Nate
And I may never go back. Yeah, I think we're going to get a taste of it this time. And the next year when they're like, oh, well, we're doing this on crit. We're not.
Maddie
Or, I mean, you could. Well, I guess it's not as fun, but I was gonna say you could host.
Nate
Yeah, you could host.
Katie
The way we always did it growing up was because my mom's side is big and my dad's side is small. And so we always did my dad's side as the Christmas Eve, and they were totally fine being the Christmas Eve. And it gave us a whole evening with them. And there was no, like, back and forth on the day of and, you know, things like that. And so my pap was always Christmas Eve and we play games and I was the only grandchild, so it was really small and intimate. And we did pick, you know, presents and everything. And then the next day, we always did low key morning. So just us, you know, maybe my nana came over, but it was just us for the morning. And then we go to my nana's house in the evening. And so it was. Even though we went somewhere, it was always low key. And then now my mom hosts and so I just show up, which is great. I was gonna host this year, but she decided that she could do it. So we're. I. I decided to give the people that work in the barn, like, you know, leave early. I'm just gonna go feed and then head to my mom's house. So it'll be pretty low key.
Maddie
We. We never did. Did anything on Christmas day growing up. Like, we always. As far as, like, family, like, get togethers, we had. I only really had, like, my dad's side had family. And so on Christmas Eve, that's what we did. But then on Christmas day, it was always just like, lock in with the prank. It was always just the four of us. I did.
Nate
I did decide to do a little prank while I was there. And, you know, we did. We drew names and did all that stuff. And then I decided, I'm gonna get my grandma a gift from my grandpa.
Maddie
So is your grandpa with us?
Nate
Yes.
Katie
Okay.
Maddie
That would have been.
Nate
That would have been crazy. So I decided, you know what? I'm just shopping around. I see a little lingerie on the clearance rack.
Maddie
Oh, so you got lingerie for your grandma?
Nate
Yeah, I picked one up and then ramped it. And I put, like, you know, to my grandma from my grandpa. Well, he has no idea. So they're passing up present, like, here you go, Mimi. It's from Pompaw. And he's. I already see his face. He's like.
Katie
He's like, did I wrap that?
Maddie
But at this point, he's like, I'm not going to say it.
Nate
I don't remember. And then she starts open. She's like, what? And then she sees it, and now she's so embarrassed. She's like, why did you do that? And he's like, I didn't do that. That was a big hoot. I never told. I think she still thinks.
Katie
You didn't.
Maddie
You didn't know? She did.
Nate
I didn't tell. I thought, you know, And then, well, here's the thing. And also, I decided. I think. I think I'm gonna try stand up again. You know, we went and saw Nate Bargainsy.
Maddie
Yeah.
Nate
He's what, 45, 46?
Katie
Yeah, I think. I think he was, because I remember the guy saying that they were the same age. I think he is like, 46.
Nate
And I'm like, that's 15, 16 years from now. I could still give it a shot.
Maddie
Yeah, you could be where he is 15 years from now.
Nate
15 years. So I had a situation happen that I'm gonna try to figure out how to like, work it out into a joke. But my, my grandparents, they've always been young, you know, like some people's grandparents. Like, you see him, you see an old person, you're like, that's an old person. You're on the way out. Yeah, like you're old. Yeah, like you gotta, you use a walker, going to the bath, around the house, like you're old. My grandparents have always been very young. Spry travel. Let's go on this trip. Let's do this. Quick wit, good mind. And very blessed for that to have been the case. No, I've just always viewed them that way until a few days ago. You know, we're at their house for Christmas, and then, you know, we packed up the car, we left. We get halfway home, and I realize I left my phone at their house. You know, at this point, we're way past bedtime. This is about turning to a whole ordeal. So I just, you know, we'll just go back. And then Mace was like, well, do you need to tell them that you left it and that you're coming back? I said, no, don't do that, because they're going to say, well, we'll meet you, we'll bring it to you. And I don't, I don't want them getting out.
Maddie
It's late.
Nate
They're old, they're mid-80s. So I said, I will let them know right before we get there that we are about to knock on the door. So let them know show up. They open the door, they are stressed and in a panic. They're like, we, we found your phone. And we, we tried to let you know that we would bring it to you. I'm like, oh. They're like, we tried to call you and tell you that we had your phone. So I, I, I'm like, oh, you don't have to bring it. I don't really realize what they're saying. I get my phone. They, they found it. They called me, watched my phone ring and went, we didn't get him.
Maddie
We'll try again.
Nate
So they tried eight more times and sent two texts.
Katie
What about calling Macy?
Maddie
No, no, no, no, no.
Nate
They called my phone, watched it ring and went, didn't get him, Missed him. Why don't you try calling him again?
Maddie
Try calling him another eight times.
Nate
I had nine missed calls on the phone that they found.
Maddie
What they think you texted.
Katie
Did they think maybe you had an Apple watch and it would, they don't.
Maddie
Know about Apple watches. I don't know.
Nate
They just called the phone and watched it Ring. And they were like, we didn't get him. Why don't you try him again? I hate for him to have to come back. I went, oh, you're. That was a. That was an old moment.
Maddie
That was an old moment for sure. Tired.
Katie
It was a long day.
Maddie
It was a long night. Yeah, it was.
Nate
It was well after.
Maddie
And they thought, well, seven o', clock, we'll just text him.
Nate
Yeah. And the texts were 10 minutes apart, so they went, well, why don't you just try shooting them another text.
Katie
All the while? Your wife has her phone.
Nate
Yeah, she. She texted them to let them know we were coming back.
Maddie
They didn't respond to her. They just kept trying you. That's hilarious. Yeah, you should make that into a bit.
Nate
I feel like I could work that out.
Maddie
It's very funny.
Katie
I honestly, comedians like Nate Bargetzi, who are like, clean comedians, you know, like any age could watch him, which I can appreciate. Like, I mean, I like a. A raunchy joke just like anybody. But I like his clean comedy and a lot of his bits are based on, like, his parents and his childhood. And. Yeah, you know, I think it's great. And just the way he says things is so funny. We went and saw. It was a great show, if you have the chance to go to a Nate Barghesi comedy show. Because the openers were. Were good. Like, the. What would you call him? The host.
Nate
He was good host.
Maddie
Julien something.
Katie
They were great.
Nate
McCullough.
Katie
I've never been to a comedy show ever.
Maddie
I have any.
Nate
That was a good.
Katie
And it was. It was fun.
Maddie
I will say, though, like, floor seats seem great.
Katie
Never going to do it again.
Maddie
I was so uncomfortable, I think.
Katie
And I.
Maddie
And I couldn't see. I couldn't see.
Nate
I think of the floor seats, we unknowingly had the worst. Had the worst ones.
Maddie
Yeah.
Katie
Well, originally we had fifth row, so.
Nate
I think that would have been great.
Katie
Yes. I was not able to sell those tickets, so I ended up giving them to. So Rachel got them and my cousin Aaron got them. So people went, yeah. And so that. That was like. They said it was great. So. So that you're, like, sitting there looking at the guy. We were so far back in row 18 on the other night that we were just like this.
Nate
It's like. It's a little too far to really.
Maddie
See the guy, but it's not far enough.
Nate
But you're a little too close to see the screen. I think if you're like in the first, you know, four, five, six rows, because they also had, like, big TVs up there for when they turned around. I think that would be, like, Floor seats are awesome.
Katie
Yeah.
Nate
And I think even floor seats. Maybe row 25.
Maddie
Right.
Katie
Might be awesome, because then you're just screening it like, you're fine.
Maddie
I don't want to be one, though. Now I can see you being a front row guy because, like, they're picking on the front row guys the whole time. Yeah, mostly. Because it's like, they're mostly making jokes about, like, you think it's better down here? Like, this is a comedy show. You don't need to see. You need to hear, like, you know. And so they're picking on the people at the front a lot, which I would hate to be called attention to and put up on the screen, but I feel like you would thrive.
Nate
I. It's my worst nightmare, but secretly I would enjoy that. Yeah, it's more. It's more interactive in the front.
Katie
But I. I think we need to do something like that again. Like, I. I thought it was a fun, just, like, group night where we went to dinner and went and saw a show, and it was. It was fun.
Nate
It was. It was a lot of fun.
Maddie
I liked that Matt and Nate paid for dinner.
Katie
I loved that. That was my favorite.
Maddie
I think we should do that more often. I do, too.
Katie
My favorite part was when they said, get whatever you want. Yeah, we're buying.
Nate
We meant it.
Katie
And then I did.
Nate
I'm glad. I'm glad.
Katie
You know what? I was gonna not. I was gonna, like, chicken strips. No, but I was gonna. I was gonna, like, hold back a little bit. But then y' all started just ordering apps and.
Nate
See that?
Katie
And it set the tone.
Nate
I did try to do that. I tried to go overboard with my order just to make it really clear. Get whatever you want. Don't feel like, well, Nate's paying, so let's try to be a little.
Maddie
And then if, like. If, like, you had ordered, like, one crab cake, I would have been like, oh, no. Like, I can't.
Nate
I know what kind of not we're having.
Maddie
I would have been like, oh, no. Like, I can't order something nice. He's sacrificing himself for me.
Katie
He sacrificed himself.
Maddie
He's sacrificing himself.
Nate
So I tried to go a little crazy so y' all would feel comfortable, you know, getting whatever you actually wanted to eat.
Katie
Mind you, this has been planned. They wanted to take us out for a long time.
Maddie
I don't think this included me, though.
Nate
No.
Maddie
I was just there and Got paid for. When y' all were taking the bill, I was kind of like, this doesn't seem right. I don't know why they're paying for me, but I let it happen. And no one said anything.
Nate
Could you. Could you imagine? We split it.
Maddie
I know I'm the only one left.
Katie
Out.
Maddie
Because they asked me before anyone. They were like, is this all together? And I was like, I'm not answering that. And then Maddie. Maddie took over and was like, it's on them. I was like, oh, thank you, Maddie.
Katie
I was so glad. I think she had a great night. She did have like, she. So Matt's wife is very early on in her pregnancy and so she's been sick lately. And she see like she. Because we sat next to them, she busted a gut the entire time. I was so happy she wasn't sick.
Nate
Yeah, that was. That was fun to watch.
Maddie
Yeah.
Katie
But anyway. Okay, well, that's kind of catching up on what we've done the last couple weeks. I hope y' all enjoyed. I know Cats out of the Bag a little bit over here. So some of y' all are gonna be like, I knew it. There's gonna be. There's gonna be.
Nate
I knew it.
Katie
There's gonna be. I knew it. There's gonna be a Reddit there page. There's gonna be all kinds of things.
Maddie
I won't be looking at it, so.
Nate
Yeah, me either.
Katie
But anyway, hope you enjoyed. Stay tuned for more. I think this is the last. Is this the last Catching up with Katie of 2025?
Nate
Yes.
Katie
That's crazy.
Nate
I think so.
Maddie
No, the 30th is like next Thursday.
Nate
Okay. Yeah, the 30th. So we'll have one more.
Katie
One more. Okay, so let us know if there's anything special you want us to talk about for our last Catching it with Katie of the year. Because we could do a Q and A with everybody. You know, just kind of make it like a wrap up session and then we will plan on doing like a 2025 wrapped video like we've done the past couple years. So stay tuned for that. Follow on Snapchat and I'll see you in the next one. Oh, hold on, hold on. We got to end it with. We'll see you in the next one. Yeah.
Podcast: Katching Up With Katie
Episode: My Vacation Was Almost RUINED...
Host: Katie Van Slyke
Guests: Nate, Maddie
Date: December 31, 2025
In this episode of "Katching Up With Katie," host Katie Van Slyke shares stories about her recent vacation to Antigua, diving into everything from nearly disastrous excursions to awkward encounters with strangers. Joined by friends Maddie and Nate, the group offers an unfiltered look at travel adventures, misadventures, and relatable moments from the farm and family life. The conversation is lighthearted, funny, and full of candid insights into group trips, travel personalities, and the dynamics of friendship and family during the holidays.
Timestamps: 00:00 – 14:37
Mispronunciation & Where’s “Antigua” Actually?
Low-Key Vacation—Except for the Fishing Excursion
Timestamps: 06:19 – 11:27
Spa Experience: Mixed Reviews
Facial Treatments
Timestamps: 12:04 – 14:37
Timestamps: 14:46 – 34:03
Awkward Hibachi Dinner with Judgy Strangers
Flight Oddities: Anxiety, Ambien, and Chaos
Timestamps: 34:06 – 42:07
Home For The Holidays in Arkansas
Generational Comedy: Grandparent Phone Mishaps
Timestamps: 43:02 – 47:03
Night Out at Nate Bargatze’s Comedy Show
Dinner Generosity & Group Etiquette
On Travel Mishaps:
On Spa Etiquette:
On Social Dynamics:
On Standing Up to Rude Behavior:
On Family Comedy:
On Friendship:
The episode is conversational, candid, and humorous, filled with playful teasing between friends and relatable, real-life storytelling. Katie’s narrative is honest, slightly self-deprecating, and always open to letting her friends' quirky personalities shine.
"My Vacation Was Almost RUINED..." is a lively blend of vacation chaos, travel comedy, and warm, behind-the-scenes glimpses into Katie and her friends’ lives. Whether she’s describing seasickness, awkward restaurant encounters, or defending the honor of a Southern Christmas, Katie’s signature authenticity and humor make this episode a fun listen for fans of farm life, friendship, and real talk.
Want more?
Let Katie know if there are topics you’d love to hear about, as the next episode will be the 2025 wrap-up/Q&A!