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Keeping It Young
Hosted by Dave Young, Bethlie Young · EN
A weekly podcast hosted by Dave and Bethlie Young who have spoken to thousands of people across America and around the world. Their heart is to encourage, direct, and strengthen your marriage, family, and ministry life.
You will find humor, helpful teaching, and great encouragement.
Join them each week as together they share Biblical and practical insights.
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Overcoming Anger Part 1
Jan 1200:27:02Tap to summarizeIn this first episode of our Overcoming series, Dave and Bethlie discuss the topic of Anger. Overcoming Anger Quote: We are a society addicted to outrage. Martin Wickens In the social media world, outrage generates more "clicks" and ad revenue than anything else What does the Bible say about anger? Various words are used Anger Angry Wrath Be ye angry and sin not, let not the sun go down on your wrath Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamour and evil speaking be put away from you with all malice A soft answer turns away wrath Fathers provoke not your children to anger What does anger look like? an outward explosion a simmering resentment harsh words Rage An angry person is churlish, mean, unkind Illustration of Nabal churlish - difficult, fierce, intense Evil - bad, disagreeable, giving pain, unhappiness, or misery) An angry person is difficult to get along with Anger leads to bitterness and poisons an individual as well as everyone close to them - especially one's spouse and kids What do we know about anger? Some things to understand: If you are single, know this: an anger issue always gets worse after marriage. "with a furious man you shall not go . . ." It is impossible to live with an angry man without making him angry Same is true for an angry woman The target of anger is not the cause You are not to carry the responsibility for a spouses anger or a parents anger It is not your fault if your spouse is angry It is not your fault if your parents are angry Regarding men: anger is fueled by testosterone and is different than a woman's anger Anger is physical often before it is processed (think of punching a wall) Crying is a woman's response to feeling unloved; anger is a man's response to feeling disrespected Talking things out will not make things better A man has to process his anger before he can talk Talking about it in the moment will only increase his anger give him time to golf, piddle in the garage, or whatever This is how he processes his emotions Very few men process their emotions by talking Regarding women: Anger is fueled by emotions and wounds Anger is often a result of unresolved conflicts Anger is sometimes the result of unmet expectations
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Overcoming - An Introduction
Jan 500:16:17Tap to summarizeOvercoming 1 John 5:4 This is the victory that overcomes the world, even our faith. 2 Corinthians 2:14 But thanks be unto God, who always causes us to triumph in Christ Introduction: As we enter 2026, we are going to explore the word Overcoming! How do you overcome (fill in the blank)? Henry Ford "Failure is simply the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently" Proposition: It is God's plan that we overcome every issue we face in our marriage and family and minstry. Here are four essentials The Word of God - what does the Bible say Use of proven methods but is not a proven method and is a failed method but is a failed method Gentle parenting sounds so "cool" Cohabitation sounds plausible Use of proven resources Connection classes, Sunday School, life groups, etc Worship Preaching Counseling Books are a gift from God that most people never take advantage of When it comes marriage and family issues, you cannot get the help you need in video snippets and fast-paced graphics The church The investment of right steps over a long period of time Time is required to do the work Time is required to seek God through His Word in prayer Time is required for a continual application of right steps Time is required to develope new habits Time is required to make changes Time is required to sow seeds that can grow and bring fruit
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Wrapping Up 2025....What's Next?
Dec 2900:25:00Tap to summarizeToday, Bethlie and I wanted to reminisce a bit; talk about the future of the podcast; and make a plea for your help. Reminisce We have podcasted weekly for 5 years now. A ton of study More than a few hours in recording Hundreds of messages and emails answered We have enjoyed getting to know so many new people through our podcast Lots of couples More than a few familes Quite a few singles and teens as well The Future We know there is a need We know there is a growing need There is an ignorance of Biblical Truth There is simultaneously a growing embrace of cultural norms Masculinity is downplayed Feminism is celebrated - indirectly, but celebrated nonetheless Marriage is feared and discouraged Wait until college is over Wait until you have X amount of money and a secure enough job While Christianity is frustrated at the aggressiveness of liberal views, we sometimes are getting the same results when it comes to preparing our kids for work, for marriage, and for life Transgenderism and homosexuality and feminism destroy and damage the traditionally celebrated nuclear family. They also undermine it. There is a subtle refusal of Biblical Commands An increasing favoring of cultural views The issue of leadership and submission The issue of modesty and standards relating to modesty The issue of child training A fear of correction It will damage a child It is negative Our forefathers were too hard A fear of culture There is a failure of Biblical instruction in pulpits in homes Our boys are held back from being and becoming men who are prepared to be leaders, husbands, and fathers There is very little training There is also a disdain of male leadership Our daughters are redirected form being and becoming ladies who are trained and prepared to be wives and mommies There is almost no training in this area There is a disdain for male leadership Shown in ridicule Shown in weddings Shown in women's Bible studies All this is to say, there is a growing need. Our request We request your prayers We request your promotion Like and share on social media Give a rating if you are able to do so Tell others We request your support Many of you support us periodically Some of you support us monthly A few churches do Some individuals do Perhaps God would lead you to do the same We will be updating our giving site in coming months, but for now, you can give online at EvangelistDaveYoung.com or by check made payable to Dave and Bethlie Young at 2621 Woodstone Dr Poplar Bluff MO 63901 As we come to the end of yet another year, lets determine afresh and anew that "we will serve the Lord with gladness." Happy New Year!
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6 Ways To Teach Your Children The Bible Part 3
Jan 21, 202500:29:33Tap to summarizeApply the Bible via wisdom sayings You will reap what you sow A little bit of sin makes a whole lot of mess The best time to take care of sin is when it is very small Birds of a feather flock together You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink He who dies with the dirtiest towel wins Only one life will soon be past, only whats done for Christ will last You should always be honest . . . Consider Christian education If Christian education is used as a tool to strengthen God’s Word in the hearts of your children, it is a good thing For you that send your kids to a public school, you have to work harder to protect their heart Beware of sending your kids to a Christian school and then undermining their foundation by sending them to a secular university that is an expert in attacking, weakening, and altering their upbringing We want to hear from you: Do you have any specific ways you are teaching your children the Bible? Do you have any wisdom sayings that we can share with our audience?
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6 Ways To Teach Your Children The Bible Part 2
Jan 13, 202500:29:24Tap to summarizeIn this episode you’ll learn how to nurture a deep, lasting connection with the Bible in your children. Dave and Bethlie explore practical methods to integrate God’s Word into your family’s daily life. Whether through storytelling, reading together, or creating memory verses, this episode is packed with strategies to help your children grow spiritually. Read the Bible Aloud: Start by reading Bible stories together to create a foundation for understanding God’s Word. Model and Mentor: Show your children the importance of personal Bible reading through your own example. Memorization Matters: Engage in family memorization of scriptures during meals, car rides, and bedtime. Involve the Church: Choose a church that prioritizes biblical preaching and teaching to reinforce what you teach at home. Celebrate Milestones: Reward spiritual growth, like finishing reading the Bible, to encourage a lifelong love of scripture. Use Everyday Moments: Apply scripture to daily life and specific situations to make it relatable and memorable. Connect with Us: Instagram: @keepingityoungpodcast Facebook: Keeping It Young
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6 Ways To Teach Your Children The Bible Part 1
Jan 5, 202500:28:18Tap to summarizeStart 2025 with a focus on biblical parenting! In this episode of the Keeping It Young podcast, Dave and Bethlie share six practical ways to teach children the Word of God. Using Deuteronomy 6, they discuss why it’s crucial for parents to instill a love for the Bible in their kids and provide timeless principles to make God’s Word a living part of family life. What You’ll Learn: Why teaching the Bible is essential for your child’s spiritual growth. How to tell Bible stories in a way that captivates their hearts. Steps to help your kids develop a biblical worldview. How to integrate God’s Word into everyday life. Actionable Tips from the Episode: Tell Bible Stories: Start with creation, Noah’s ark, or David and Goliath to make the Bible relatable and exciting. Read the Bible Together: Establish a daily habit of reading scripture as a family. Live God’s Word: Be an example by living out biblical principles in your own life. Answer Big Questions: Help your kids develop a biblical framework for understanding right, wrong, and truth. Connect with Us: Instagram: @keepingityoungpodcast Facebook: Keeping It Young Call to Action: 👉 Don’t miss Part 2, where we’ll dive into more actionable ways to teach your children the Bible! 👉 Share this episode with other parents in your church or community.
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A Full Christmas Part 3
Dec 29, 202400:24:18Tap to summarize5.) Know, Think, and Speak Truth. Jesus IS Truth. (John 14:6) **Do you know Him? Know Truth: Remind yourself that at one of the darkest points in history, Christ came! Think Truth: He is not the Author of anxiety or fear. (Phil. 4:6-7; 2 Tim. 1:7) His grace, strength, and wisdom is available when overwhelmed by the Holiday hustle and bustle. (2 Cor. 12:9, James 1:5) He is always with us, and He has promised that struggles are for a season. (Heb. 13:5, 2 Cor. 4:17). Speak Truth: Remind yourself and your children of the Biblical Christmas Story. Remind yourself and your children of the reason and truth behind Christmas traditions. Be ready to share the Truth of Christmas to all.
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A Full Christmas Part 2
Dec 23, 202400:26:46Tap to summarize3.) Speak Life and Reflect Light. Jesus came to give life when we were dead in sin and headed to eternal death. Jesus always shines light in darkness; in fact, He IS light! Show life and light by being encouraged (get out of the news and into the Word!) and by being encouraging! Be a true “Joy to the World” with your face and your words! *When: In the hustle and bustle of: Christmas shopping, errand running, decorating, Baking, wrapping, prepping In getting together with family, friends, church family. Pray for wisdom to speak life and reflect life when you feel that family or friends misunderstand you or reject you. (Jesus knows all about that; He has never rejected you; He loves and accepts you. AND He still is life and light to those who misunderstand Him and reject Him. We can follow His example.) Especially be aware of speaking life and reflecting light to those who desperately need Him. (This is so hard to remember in the hustle and bustle.) 4) Celebrate with Grace. Celebrate—to acknowledge a happy day or event with a social gathering or enjoyable activity; to praise or honor someone. Grace—courteous goodwill; a free and loving gift of unmerited favor. By its definition, celebration SHOULD take place with GRACE. If it doesn’t, maybe it’s because we’re not truly celebrating. Jesus came to love and to die for undeserving sinners—you and me. We can and should celebrate with grace, no matter how “undeserving” those around us are. Speak Gently. (Graciously, Prov. 11:16) Serve Gracefully. (Mary and Martha, Luke 10:38-42) Celebrate Gregariously. (In a friendly way that shows a liking for the company of others; social, friendly, approachable.) **Don’t be a Scrooge or a Grinch.
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A Full Christmas Part 1
Dec 16, 202400:26:54Tap to summarizeA FULL CHRISTMAS JOHN 1:1-6, 9-14, 16-17 Part 1 The Gospels of Matthew and Luke give us portraits of the “Christmas Story,” describing some of the events surrounding the birth of Jesus. John begins his Gospel with a beautiful, glorious, and deeply theological description of Jesus—The Word. John tells us: Jesus has always been. (Vs.1) Jesus is God and God with us. (Vs.1,2) Jesus is Creator. (Vs. 3,10) Jesus came to us. (Vs. 10,11 14) Jesus is light and life. (Vs. 4,5,9) Jesus knows misunderstanding. (Vs. 5) Jesus knows rejection. (Vs. 10,11) Jesus is Savior. (Vs. 12) Jesus is full of grace and truth. (Vs. 14,16,17) How can we exemplify Christ and have a FULL Christmas? 1.) Be Present. Jesus is with us. (Immanuel Isaiah 7:14, 8:8) (Emmanuel Matthew 1:23) It is GRACE for us to be more interested and invested in ENJOYING the family and festivities, rather than DOING or MAKING the festivities. (This is a hard balance…convicting for servant minded Mama’s.) 2.) Embrace Creativity. Jesus created a beautiful world. The beauty of Christmas and Christmas decor can reflect His creation and can teach truth. (Nativity, history, Carols) *Don’t be a Humbug ;) *Don’t go to the other extreme and get caught up in comparison or frustration.
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5 Ways To Help Your Teen Part 2
Dec 9, 202400:28:29Tap to summarizeREVIEW: Episode 240 5 Ways To Help Your Teen Keep teaching. Keep protecting. Raise expectations; don't lower them. 1. A teen who can't work, can't clean, is not polite, won't speak when spoken too is crippled for life Episode 241 Continued... 2. Teens should be able to (or learning to) Cook meals Clean the house Do the laundry from start to finish Fuel the car, check the oil, and check the tires 4. Keep talking. Time is required Routine times Scheduled times Slow down Talking is giving and taking Ask Questions Listen Respond Learning to converse wisely is a huge part of living successfully Essential in work relations Essential in marriage Essential in raising children Essential in solving conflicts 5. Developm routines and traditions that draw you closer
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