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What's the hardest part of co parenting? The hardest part of co parenting is I. I'm sure this is gonna sound nuts, but, like, I just think they're mine. Like, I'm like, I have to run this by someone else and get permission. Like, cause I in my head, like, obviously that's the right thing to do. And of course my kids have a dad, but in my head I'm like, but I'm the mom. Like, I would never do anything to hurt my kids, put them in harm's way. Like, that's how I think. And Tristan knows that. And Tristan is like, great with, like, trusting me with it. Like, he knows who I am as A parent. But it's still a struggle for me sometimes that I have to remind myself, oh, yeah, I have to ask for permission. Oh, okay. I have to get this letter signed because he is the dad. If I want to take them out of the country, he has to, like, sign a waiver. It's just, like, they're mine. Like, that's just how I feel in my head. So for me, that's the hardest part. Is there anything your mom let you do that you won't let your kids do? We can have an hour podcast on this question alone. Oh, my God. I remember my mom used to be like, okay, go outside and don't come back until the lights. Until the sun starts setting. Like, without a guardian, I would never leave my kids on the street. Like, in a fun. Like, the whole neighborhood was doing it. But I would never let my kids. The times are so different. We used to chase the ice cream truck and, like, beg for it to stop. And, like, now an ice cream truck, I'm like, they're going to abduct you. Don't go near it. Like, everything that I used to do as a kid, I would never let my kids do now. It's so scary. Rob and I used to ride our bikes down Ventura Boulevard and go to, like, a convenience store, fast food, and my kids, I would never let them ride a bike down Ventura Boulevard anymore. I would think, someone's probably texting and driving. They can crash onto the curb. I have the darkest thoughts. I loved the independence and freedom I had from my parents, but it's just the times it's so dark and dangerous. Oh, my God. Rob and I used to make forts in, like, sewer drains blocks away. And we would love it. We would take a wagon and be gone for eight hours and do it, and no one ever checked on us. And that was just the norm now. Are you kidding me? That would never happen. What tattoos have you had lasered off? I have had one tattoo on my lower back. I had a tramp stamp. It was the trend at the time. And I got a cross with angel wings, and it says, daddy. Over was not supposed to be a sexual situation. It was supposed to be in honor of my dad. But being that it's a tramp stamp, it just. Like, I remember a guy was like, who's your daddy? And I'm like, ew. And then I was like, he's not wrong. Like, it just all clicked to me. So that's being removed, but for good reason. I'm dying. Yeah. Well, what's it well, it was a cross. And that I had first. Oh, my God. Then my mom got the matching cross without telling me and a tramp stamp too, and thought it would be funny. We can pop that picture up. You Google it. She thought it'd be funny for some reason. She wrote Kendall and Kylie underneath it, only not the four other kids that she birthed. Just those two. Then she got the tattoo with Nicole Richie. Nicole thought it was funny, and they came and they showed me, and they were like, ha, ha ha. And I was like, my mom and I have matching tramp stamps. This is horrible. Like, this can't happen. I remember when my dad died, I was like, I don't want a lot of tattoos, so I'm going. And my dad. My dad would kill me if he knew about a tattoo. But in my sick, rebellious head, I was like, in honor of my dad, I'm gonna get something for him. So I got the angel wings that looks like a butterfly, and it wrote daddy above the cross. So the whole thing is being wiped away. You can't see the daddy anymore or the angel wings, I don't think. But you can see little remnants of, like, the ivy that was growing up the cross. But it will be gone soon. But that was. It started as one tattoo and kept adding because I didn't want a lot of tattoos. But from the daddy to the matching tramp stance with my mom, a lot of it was just a big no, no. If I could talk to my dad and ask him one question today, what would it be? Oh, my gosh. What an amazing question. I don't know. If I could just have one. Like, I would want it to be either. Either, like, are you proud of all of us? Or just, like, something about his grandkids. Like, do you see how much life we've created? Like, my dad would have been the best grandparent, the best grandpa. It makes me sad they don't have that. But I don't know. I think something about all the kids, I would love to ask them. I just don't know what it would be. This is a deep question. Do you believe people really change? You know, I do believe people change. I think they have to change in their own time for sure. And something within themselves has to motivate them. They have to really, really see something in themselves that they didn't like anymore. They're just. They've closed that chapter and they have changed. But I do believe people change. And I think we have to remind ourselves that people are allowed to change. And that doesn't mean it's bad and doesn't mean it's good. Some people change for the worse, Some do change for the better. But I think a lot of the times we don't even give people the opportunity to evolve and to grow and to change. And we have to give people more grace and patience with that. Do I listen to K Pop? I do, but I think more because my kids do. My kids love K Pop and K Pop is a vibe. So I'm into it. What was it like being pregnant together with my sisters? So I was pregnant at the same time. I was physically pregnant with Kylie at the same time. Kimberly was not physically pregnant, but her surrogate was having a baby at the same time. And Kim was first. Kylie found out she was pregnant next. And then I found out last when Kylie and I were pregnant at the same time. Kim was so envious that she was unable to carry and that she couldn't have that moment with all three of us. That would have been crazy if all three of us were. But me and Kylie, we really. Kylie and I have always been really, really close. And then having that experience together was surreal. It was nothing we ever would have thought would happen. It was really, really beautiful though. We did a photo shoot together where we're like touching each other's tummies. And that was a really special photo shoot that her and I did because how often does that get to happen? And so I'm really glad that we took advantage of that really short time in our lives. Cause it was beautiful. But Kim, I remember when I was pregnant and Kim was having Chicago, but through surrogacy, Kim would still. She was a g. She would take me around town. We would go to all different fast food restaurants. And her and I both. Cause we can be eaters, her and I both. We know how to eat. And we would just eat. Even though she wasn't pregnant, she would just join me and we would have all these pregnancy cravings and loved it. I miss that. How are things going with the new puppy? I love her so much. I love peppermint. But man puppies are a lot of work. They need a lot of supervision. And it's funny, Tatum is like so nonchalant about peppermint. Tru is still nervous around her just because she jumps. She's a puppy and so excited to see the kids. And Tru just likes her on the leash so in case she jumps too much. I can, you know, restrict her, but it's so funny. And she surprisingly, the cats and her get along really Well, I thought the cats were going to hate her. The cats seem to really like her, so that makes me happy. They had a harder time when I got baby kitty. After gray kitty, I think they had a harder time meshing than the dogs and the cat do. So that is a very happy surprise. What type of workout am I into right now? Well, I do a lot of circuit training, so with Joe, I do a ton of heavyweight circuit training. And then with Don, he's way more cardio focused, but all of his cardio, he makes really interactive and, dare I say, fun. Like, fun is a crazy word to say for cardio, but, like, everything's a competition for dawn, so you don't really realize how much cardio you're doing. But I do love the balance of both because sometimes I feel that just the weights isn't doing enough for me. But then also just the cardio, I can't handle it. So I like to do both. What does your workout playlist look like right now? Oh, I love a good workout playlist. Mine is a lot of early 2000s music. I love DMX. I love old school Lil Wayne. But back in, like, maybe the later 90s, like, I like that era of music for working out and then, yeah, I do have some pop stuff, but I like really upbeat, dancey fun or it has to be old school rap. I'm into what was your favorite era of your own style? So I love my Chlo Money era. I really, really do. I love when I'm like python boots, fur coat, big hoops. Like, I like when I'm all over the place. Like, I'm into it. It's all such a vibe. I like being loud, but in a fun way in my clothing. Even. Courtney sent me a DM the other day. She's like, I miss 2016 Chloe style. And I'm like, girl, all you did was clown me and call me a basketball wife when I was wearing these outfits. And now you miss it. Like, people wanted to talk and talk about the red bottoms or this or that. That was the energy I was giving. And I stand behind it. I love it. But it's funny that now she misses it. What was my favorite movie growing up? The Neverending Story. Love, still love. My brother and I have the same memories and the same love of movies. And I would say the Neverending Story was what we watched all the time. I love that movie. Or, like, the Witches. I have, like, a list that I love and I would want to rewatch right now. What would you say is your unhealthiest habit right now. I'm not changing it. But I love Dairy Queen. Love Dairy Queen. I just got Uber Eats on my phone. And that was a big mistake because every weekend I Uber myself Dairy Queen, and I can't stop. Like, I cannot stop. It's literally, I'm like, fuck, it's Tuesday. Like, I need to get through to Sunday, because Sunday is when I have my Dairy Queen and I get a large Oreo Blizzard with extra Oreos. And it is quite possibly the best thing I've ever had. And it's sure an unhealthy habit, but it's all about balance in life. And it makes me so happy laying in bed, watching weird TV shows and eating Dairy Queen. Just have them give me a Blizzard and I'll read whatever ad they want. What did you learn about love the hard way, Hunty? I feel like we all learn. You have to love. You have to be in relationships. You have to put yourself out there and get hurt to learn these lessons. But that's life. I mean, there's so many lessons I've learned. Love isn't always enough. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Like, there's so many things that you wish you didn't have to know, but you do. But it doesn't mean that it's bad if you go through them. Maybe you'll not be cynical about the world, but just protect yourself a little bit more for the next relationship. But that doesn't mean carry your baggage into it. But I've learned so, so much, to the point that I do think it's scary to try again. I do think it's scary to trust again and put yourself out there because you don't know what's gonna happen next. But you do just have to have faith at some point. What was your dream job when you were growing up? I used to dream of being a veterinarian. And I always said, I want my first car to be an rv and I wanna drive around and pick up the animals off the side of the road, fix them and release them. And as a kid, I don't think I realized that you don't get to save every single animal. And then once I realized, like, I had to put down a lot of animals and I couldn't save every kid's pet, then I didn't like that dream anymore because I didn't want to be the one responsible. In my head, it was killing an animal, but I did for years want to be a vet. When do I feel the most like Myself, honestly, I feel the most like myself when I'm around my family, when I'm with my kids. Those really are my happy places. But I love doing anything that's like a family thing because I just feel. That's where I feel my safest and my guard is down. Have I ever received bad advice? Baby, yes, we get bad advice all the time. But I don't know. I'm pretty good at picking out when it is bad advice. Like, I'll listen to someone. I'm like, what the fuck was that? Like, when I hang up the phone. Yeah, I've had bad business advice, bad relationship advice, bad friend advice. Had it all. Like, you know what your core with the answer is, you know what you want to do with something. And I think so many people want all this outside validation. But the more people that you're asking for advice, the more wrong advice you're going to get. Because so many of these other people are lost too. We're all just trying to figure it out. And also that person is not in your shoes. Like, you have to learn to listen to your own advice. Maybe have a small group of people that you ask that really know the full story of your life and that can give you the best advice they know how. Yeah. If you want bad advice, just ask everyone around you. Cause that's what you're gonna get. Have I ever done a past life regression? No, I have not. But I've read the book Many Lives, Many Masters and the book Only Love is Real and they're written by the same doctor, he does past life regressions. I'm so into it. Very scary, but also so into it. Would I do one? I don't know. It would be fascinating. I think it would be fascinating. But I would have to think about that more and think if that's like in my religion, if that's like appropriate to do. I don't know. I don't know. But I'm very intrigued by it. Do I believe in witches? Yes, I believe in everything. I believe anything's possible. I don't give energy to witches, but I do know no names will be mentioned. But I do know a few people that have done sorcery in some regard. But dark matter, like dark, bad stuff. I'm not associated with these people, but like, I know there are believers in these things out there. I'm not saying a witch is bad or good. I do think there's light and dark to anything. So I think if there are witches, which I believe there are, there could be a Good witch and there could be a bad witch. Has forgiveness ever cost you too much? Some of these questions are so deep and great off the top of my head, no. Forgiveness has never cost me too much. I think it's a beautiful part of life when you're able to forgive. The change you're releasing for someone else is such a gift in return. And also I don't want to carry around all of this nasty shit with me wherever I go. So I think forgiveness is such a beautiful act and I love it. And when I forgive, I sincerely forgive. And I really try to let that go and move on from that. So I'm a big advocate for forgiveness, but no, it's never been too much. Do I like theme parks and roller coasters? Hell no, I do not. I do not. I don't like being on a fucking three foot platform. Like, I'm like, this is too high. Get me down. Something could happen. I don't know when I became such a pussy. Fact is, I'm the biggest pussy all of a sudden. Don't. I won't do anything that there's a risk. I'm not going to make it out alive. Roller coasters. I watch my algorithm. I see what I used to fucking live for. A county fair, live now. Like this spinning thing that I loved so much. I see that thing and it just keeps going. And now it's like on the freeway. Like they just get off the track. Why? When did this stuff start happening? The loop de loop thing? And then like the brackets come off and someone's like, this person was suspended for four hours until help was able to get to them. No, not doing it. Done it. It's not happening again. What is it the first time you emerge after a very public headline? I mean, it just depends, I would say if it's a negative headline. It's weird how the media can make you feel about yourself, but you can feel so much shame. Even if you didn't do anything wrong, you carry a lot of embarrassment and shame, but you do it to yourself. Because I'm like a headline. How do you even know how many people have seen this headline like you? You definitely dramatize it all within your soul, but how else are you supposed to take it? Like, it's really a strange. It's like if you're in high school and someone I don't know is bullying you or doing something and they tape flyers about you on the lockers, you will feel like it's the end of the world, you know, when it's 200 people in high school or whatever. It's a similar feeling that you feel like someone taped up flyers in your, quote, high school. But it's like whatever your world is like, you just feel like it's everywhere and everyone's reading it. If that's true or not, that's the way you feel. And it's just a horrible, horrible feeling. It's really strange. When was the last time I cried? So I'm not a big crier, but the last time I cried, I would say was probably the Elizabeth Smart documentary because it was so sad. But also I was so happy that she's okay now and that she's like giving this interview and that she talks about how now she has a husband and kids and you just like, you're so happy for her and her family. And so that's the last time I cried. But about me or something like that, I don't have any clue. Has there ever been a red flag that I've ignored because I was in love? All of them definitely feel like I'm colorblind every time I'm in love. But that's okay. Am I the type of person that likes to plan my own trips or do I like to be spontaneous? Okay, please. I read something today and this person was like, I would make a type a person have a stroke because I don't plan my hotels until I get to the city. What? Like, are we mentally sound? No. So I'm a huge planner, I plan everything. But I won't even try a new city unless someone I know has stayed at that place. Cause I'm like, I'm not wasting my one week vacation to try a new house or a new hotel just to find out that it's shit. Like, I need someone specifically in my family to be like, whatever, I went to St. Lucia. You gotta go. This is where you're gonna stay. You're gonna love. Like, I just need someone to co sign it. I wish I was a little more chill and didn't think like that, but I am who I am. What is your most proud business achievement at this point in your life? I mean, honestly, Because I'm so proud just that we put ourselves out there and start new businesses. And I am so proud of that. I'm super, super proud of me and my family, that we have sustained in this business for as long as we have. I don't know if there's one particular, because I do think every single decision, every business fail and every business succession. I feel like it's a stepping stone. And it's brought me to where I am right now. And I'm just really, really proud that we're still here, that we're still working hard, that we're still, you know, trying every day. Like, I. I'm really, really proud of that. What is my favorite thing to shop for? Anything home related. Like more kitchen accessory type things. I love a theme, so I like Valentine's Day. I want to go into home goods and walk up and down the aisles and see what's like theme y and heart. And I love getting things for my kids. I love themed napkins and like, just making things as festive and sweet and happy as possible. I want just a happy, beautiful childhood for my kids. Is Tru still a picky eater? Tru is a very picky eater, but she has a few things on rotation, but they're not, it's not bad food. Like, she eats chicken fingers and french fries. She loves artichokes, quesadillas, and edamame and rice. Those are like go to. And she eats tons of fruits and vegetables. It's like her jam. She doesn't like cookies, doesn't like cakes. So to me, I think she eats great. Anything new coming up with Cloud, we are actually venturing into a new snack category. More to come. I can't say anything really else about that, but very, very, very excited and very, very soon. Thank you guys so much for submitting such amazing questions. This truly is one of my favorite solo sessions is when I get to do Ask me Anything. So I hope you guys love today's episode and send in some more questions because I want to keep doing Ask me anything. Bye.