Podcast
Kingdom Sexuality
Hosted by That Sounds Fun Network · EN
Kingdom Sexuality is the Christian sex podcast for married couples who want a thriving, God-honoring sex life.
We’re Alana, Kyle, and Tiera — three friends tackling the questions the church forgot to answer. Through interviews, “sex-timonies,” listener Q&As, and real talk from our own marriages, we’re here to help you grow a fulfilling, passionate, and deeply connected sex life.Kingdom Sexuality. The Christian sex podcast that goes where the church won’t.
Because yes, Christians can talk about sex too!
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288: Patron's Choice! How To Say What You Like In Bed
1w ago00:21:49Tap to summarizeWant better sex but don’t know how to say what you like? This episode breaks down how couples can communicate sexual preferences with kindness and confidence. Not sure what you like in the bedroom? Don't worry- we cover that too! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Get the "Figuring Out What I Like Guide" here!! Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Approximate Timestamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Episode Overview - 0:20 Verse of the Day - 0:45 Sponsor Break - 1:13 Why We Don't Talk About Preferences - 1:38 Purity Culture and Desire - 2:11 Communication in Marriage - 3:07 Exploration and Self-Discovery - 4:15 Guidance and Communication Levels - 8:24 Challenge for the Week - 17:11 Closing Prayer - 18:33 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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287: The Sex Talk You Never Got with Sam Jolman
2w ago00:48:31Tap to summarizeWhat if your sexuality was meant to be approached with awe instead of fear? In this episode, Kyle and Tiera chat with Sam Jolman about shame, the difference between arousal and desire, and how reclaiming sensuality as sacred can lead to healing, and freedom! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Resources: The Sex Talk You Never Got Better Sex Through Mindfulness Sam Jolman’s Substack Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Approximate Timestamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Discussion on Sexuality and Faith - 1:20 Sam's Personal Journey - 3:08 Exploring Masculine Sexuality - 6:24 Arousal and Desire - 13:41 Sensuality and Spirituality - 15:52 Shame and Evil - 33:49 Conclusion and Prayer - 44:25 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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286: Losing The Lover In The Mother
3w ago00:37:07Tap to summarizeEver feel like you love your kids and your marriage, but you’re exhausted and wondering where you went? In this episode, we talk honestly about the tension between motherhood, marriage, and identity, and how to get back into "lover" mode. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Is The Mental Load Killing Your Sex Life? With Dr. Morgan Cutlip Our Products: Her Turn Sex Challenge After Hours: Parents Edition Sex Challenge Resources: A Better Share Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Approximate Timestamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Verse of the Day: Proverbs 31 - 1:17 Losing Identity in Motherhood - 1:39 Balancing Motherhood and Marriage - 3:00 The Mental Load of Motherhood - 4:09 Postpartum Changes and Challenges - 8:40 Husbands' Role in Supporting Wives - 14:39 Reclaiming Identity and Intimacy - 21:30 Practical Tips for Couples - 25:01 Closing Thoughts and Prayer - 33:57 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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285: Patron's Choice! Sexual Dreams: Why Do They Happen and What About Wet Dreams?
4w ago00:28:24Tap to summarizeEver woken up from a sexual dream and thought, “What does this mean??and should I be worried?” Tune in as the KS team unpacks why sexual dreams happen, what they do (and don’t) say about your heart, marriage, and faith. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Erin Walsh episode 256 Resources: BetterHelp Counseling My Counselor Online Approximate Timestamps: Introduction and Episode Overview - 0:00 Verse of the Day - 0:38 Discussion on Sex Dreams - 1:19 Dreams and the Continuity Hypothesis - 2:13 Inside Out Movie Reference - 2:35 Dreams and Emotional Processing - 4:31 True or False: Sexual Dreams - 8:22 REM Sleep and Emotional Brain Activity - 8:51 Psychotherapist Erin Walsh's Insights - 9:17 Understanding Sexual Dreams - 10:08 Dreams and Relationship Dynamics - 11:36 Wet Dreams and Nocturnal Emissions - 19:37 Conclusion and Prayer - 25:06 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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284: "Help! Our Sex Drives Are Different!"
Apr 2000:38:13Tap to summarizeTune in as Alana, Kyle, and Tiera tackle the incredibly common topic of mismatched libido- having a different sex drive than your spouse! Whether you're the higher or lower drive spouse, you'll learn how to start the open communication to create a thriving sex life. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Products: Figuring Out What I Like Guide Resources: Get on the Mismatched Libido Audio Course waitlist HERE! Email us to get on the Finishing Well Orgasm Course waitlist!! kingdomsexuality@gmail.com Come As You Are book Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Approximate Episode Timestamps Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Episode Overview - 0:21 Sponsor Break - 1:18 Discussion on Mismatched Libido - 1:25 Understanding Desire Types - 6:01 Responsive vs. Spontaneous Desire - 7:29 Dual Control Model - 19:26 Communication and Compromise - 23:23 Course Information and Conclusion - 34:09 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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283: Q&A! Screen-Obsessed Spouse, Oral Sex, Period Sex, Dry Seasons, & More!
Apr 1300:34:47Tap to summarizeOrgasm help, screen-obsessed husbands, dry seasons, and everything in between- nothing is off-limits in this Q&A episode! Alana, Kyle, and Tiera answer real questions from Christian couples about mismatched libidos, period sex, how to talk about sex with friends, oral sex, and more! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Getting out of a slump Period Sex episode Landon Hairgrove’s episode Joey Odom’s episode Oral Sex: with Anatomy of Us ORAL SEX: Cunnilingus ORAL SEX: Fellatio Our Products: Yes No Maybe freebie Resources: Nixit: Use code KINGDOM15 for 15% off! My Pixie Cup: Use the code KINGDOM10 for 10% off your purchase! Heart Of Dating Podcast She Comes First Passionista Intimately Us app LubeLife (Clean Flavoured Lube) My Counselor Online (Christian Sex Therapy) You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link Better Help Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Approximate Time Stamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:14 Q&A Session Announcement - 0:33 Patreon Shoutout and Benefits - 0:56 Verse of the Day: Romans 12:9 - 1:35 Sponsor Break - 1:46 Dealing with Dry Periods in Marriage - 1:51 Handling Different Sex Drives - 4:11 Tips for Enjoying Different Positions - 8:01 Sex During Menstruation - 10:38 Tension During Intercourse - 12:59 Talking About Sex in Christian Circles - 14:36 Dealing with Screen Obsession - 19:00 Idolizing Future Spouse - 25:51 Best Practices for Oral Sex - 28:17 Closing Prayer - 31:36 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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282: Secrets Will Destroy Your Marriage & Why It's Time To Talk To Your Kids About Porn with Greta and Aaron Eskridge
Apr 600:55:00Tap to summarizeTune in as Greta and Aaron Eskridge share their journey from pain and betrayal to renewal and hope!! Their story emphasizes the importance of honesty and community in overcoming difficult seasons, especially around topics like pornography and marriage. Don't miss it! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Resources: GretaEskridge.com @greta.eskridge It's Time To Talk To Your Kids About Porn book Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Approximate Time Stamps: Introduction and Verse Reading - 0:00 Guest Introduction - 0:31 Discussion on Isaiah 43:19 - 1:08 Greta's Background and Passion - 2:44 Aaron's Background and Ministry - 3:55 Their Story: Meeting and Early Life - 4:42 Challenges in Marriage - 10:35 The Bombshell: Confession and Aftermath - 14:11 Support and Healing - 16:49 Journey to Recovery - 20:02 The Turning Point - 25:19 Writing the Book - 36:01 Importance of Parental Involvement - 44:30 Creating a Porn Plan for Kids - 46:45 Closing and Prayer - 51:19 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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281: When He Finishes Too Fast: A Shame-Free Conversation
Mar 3000:31:23Tap to summarizeStruggling to last as long as you'd like to? In this episode, Kyle walks us through practical techniques and emotional shifts that help sex feel more connected, enjoyable, and unhurried. If performance anxiety has been stealing your joy, this conversation is for you! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Mindfulness with Dr. Lori Brotto Resources: The Penis Book Better Sex Through Mindfulness book Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Approximate Time Stamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:23 Today's Verse - 1:18 Sponsor Break - 1:30 Main Topic Introduction - 1:38 Premature Ejaculation Discussion - 2:17 Strategies and Techniques - 5:59 Pelvic Floor Exercises - 10:30 Mindfulness and Breathing - 13:25 Relational Dynamics - 18:24 Foreplay and Time Management - 22:32 Professional Help and Devices - 24:27 Conclusion and Prayer - 27:28 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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280: How To Have Great Sex During Perimenopause & Menopause
Mar 2300:47:48Tap to summarizeLet’s talk menopause and perimenopause- and the things no one warned us about. Tiera does a beautiful job of unpacking the physical and emotional shifts women experience, how it can impact sex, and what’s actually helpful in this season. We want to help you feel equipped and encouraged as you enter this time of life! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Mindfulness with Dr. Lori Brotto Resources: Evree Lube: Use the code KINGDOM for 10% off! Coconu Lube: Use the code KINGDOM for 15% off Yes! Vaginal Moisturizer : Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off Better Sex Through Mindfulness book Sex Toys: Married Dance: Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off Tiera’s Fertility/Menopause Doula Info: Use discount code: KSFOLLOWER for $50 off any package Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Approximate Time Stamps: Introduction and Overview - 0:00 Discussing Menopause - 0:30 Understanding Menopause Terms - 2:06 Perimenopause Symptoms - 4:19 Hormonal Changes and Effects - 6:13 Blood Work and Diagnosis - 11:00 Common Symptoms and Treatments - 14:20 Vaginal Changes and GSM - 17:09 Libido and Hormone Therapy - 23:15 Testosterone Therapy Discussion - 27:34 Positive Outlook on Perimenopause - 35:04 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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279: Q&A: Morning Erections, My Wife's Body Hair, & Do Pillows Improve Sex?
Mar 1600:38:39Tap to summarizeTune in as the KS team tackle real questions straight from IG followers- everything from body hair preferences and pursuing your spouse, to what’s actually going on with things like morning erections. Don't miss it! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Level Up Your Sex Life Add A Little Bit Of Spice episode Setting Up Your Future Marriage For Success Dispelling Wedding Night Fears Breaking Down Newlywed Barriers Birth Control episode Foreplay episode Lindsey Maestas episode Our Products: Unite & Ignite 5 Ways To Spice Up Your Sex Life Freebie It’s Getting Hot In Here Sex Challenge His Pleasure Sex Challenge Starting Life Together Bundle Engagement Guide Resources: Flirtation Experiment book Passionista book Intimately Us app: If you want the Just Between Us , the couples messaging app, open Intimately Us and tap ‘Chat’ in the bottom right. Married Dance: Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off Christian Friendly Sex Positions My Counselor Online Better Help Counseling The Penis Book Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Approximate Time Stamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Episode Overview - 0:12 First Question: Body Hair Discussion - 1:31 Spicing Up Marriage - 10:19 Lift Pillows and Positions - 15:16 Helping Newlyweds Feel Comfortable - 16:59 Family Planning During Engagement - 19:18 Foreplay in Long-term Marriages - 21:41 Edging Explained - 24:03 Divorce Trends Discussion - 26:13 Morning Erections Explained - 32:50 Closing Prayer - 35:24 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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