EP275: The Energy Behind the Attitude, Difficult People and their Auras

Summary

Know Your Aura with Mystic Michaela

Episode 275: The Energy Behind the Attitude—Difficult People and Their Auras

Released April 17, 2025 | Wave Podcast Network

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Overview

In this episode, Mystic Michaela and Scotty explore how aura colors influence challenging relationships and difficult personalities. Michaela, a psychic medium and aura color expert, breaks down each aura color through the lens of “difficult people” and provides actionable insights into why certain relationship dynamics can be so triggered by specific energy types. The episode also features real-life submissions from listeners, with Michaela reading the auras of both submitters and the people in their stories, offering advice on how to navigate complex connections.

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Main Themes

• Aura colors as an explanation (not an excuse) for difficult attitudes and behaviors
• How understanding energy types can reshape your approach to challenging relationships
• Real-world listener stories analyzed through the lens of aura interpretation
• Humor and relatability in navigating tough personality types

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Segment Breakdown & Key Insights

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1. The Challenge of Difficult People: Red Aura (00:54–03:35)

Discussion Points

• Red Auras often present as direct, upfront, and convinced of their own logic.
• “They always think they’re right, which can be challenging to deal with.”
  – Mystic Michaela (01:13)
• Tips: Dealing with reds requires letting them believe new ideas are theirs—don’t step on toes or control the conversation.
• In group settings, reds establish a “communal logic,” creating a pecking order but generally finding agreement—eventually.

Notable Quotes

• “You have to let them talk first. The second they feel controlled, it’s like, it’s over.”
  – Mystic Michaela (02:45)

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2. Purples: Masters of Nuance and Influence (03:44–05:38)

Discussion Points

• Purple Auras: Quick-witted, notice every nuance, and know how to subtly shift group opinion.
• Sometimes, energy can veer into manipulation or pettiness, especially if intentions aren’t pure.
• Purples can be challenging due to their “bag of tricks”—they pivot and maneuver conversations effortlessly.

Notable Quotes

• “Purples are very quick at like, ‘Okay, I hear everything you’re saying, and I know how you think. Now, how about this?’”
  – Mystic Michaela (04:41)

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3. Yellow Auras: The Planners and “I Told You So”s (05:46–07:41)

Discussion Points

• Yellows: Fast, organized, and often mentally a few steps ahead—find it hard to adapt to deviations from their plan.
• Can be dismissive of input that doesn’t fit their model of reality.
• Often give excellent advice but may not want to take any.

Notable Quotes

• “Nothing’s real if it doesn’t fit into my reality…they have some sort of ‘this is how it’s going to go.’”
  – Mystic Michaela (06:00)

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4. Blues and Victimhood (07:54–10:14)

Discussion Points

• Blues: Sensitive, easily take things personally, can fall into “victim blue” mode.
• Tendency to take slights to heart and can spiral if not managed.
• Mantra for blues: “I can’t fix everything” — a way to self-soothe and reset emotional boundaries.

Notable Quotes

• “If you’re dealing with a difficult blue, they can victimize very quickly… it’s like, ‘Wow, I knew everybody hated me.’”
  – Mystic Michaela (08:06)

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5. Indigos: The Disappearing Act (10:14–11:53)

Discussion Points

• Indigos: Deal with conflict by withdrawing—often “ghosting” as a non-confrontational coping mechanism.
• Need space to process energy independently; often return when they’re ready.
• This can be confusing for those who crave closure or ongoing connection.

Notable Quotes

• “Indigos are difficult to deal with because they disappear…they’d prefer just to disappear for a few months.”
  – Mystic Michaela (10:17)

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6. Green Auras: Walls Up, Logic Only (12:03–14:21)

Discussion Points

• Greens: Prone to compartmentalizing—can “delete” people or ideas that don’t fit their framework.
• Not open to debates; only what they deem important matters.

Notable Quotes

• “You feel like you can be control-alt-delete from their life…that is how easily it can feel.”
  – Mystic Michaela (12:06)

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7. Turquoises: Seeking Closure Forever (14:36–17:19)

Discussion Points

• Turquoises: Struggle to take hints, need closure or emotional reactions, will push until they get it.
• Can appear boundaryless, with a unique logic that doesn’t always resonate with others.

Notable Quotes

• “They’re going to push and push and push…holy crap, they’re never going to let this go.”
  – Mystic Michaela (14:42)

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8. Pinks: The Unbothered Outsiders (17:32–20:33)

Discussion Points

• Pinks: Move to their own beat—appear not to follow rules but get things done their way.
• Throw others off by not engaging; can frustrate those who want structure.
• “Pink pass”—just let pinks be and trust their methods.

Memorable Quote

• “The pink’s just gonna win because…they’re not playing.”
  – Mystic Michaela (20:21)

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9. Listener Stories: Real-Life Challenges and Aura Analysis (23:00–67:14)

Highlighted Scenarios

a. The Ghosting Friend (23:00–29:43)

• Situation: Turquoise/purple listener struggles with an indigo/purple friend who ghosts.
• Takeaway: Ghosting is intentional; allow space, change expectations, and focus on friends who reciprocate.

Notable Quote

• “If it bothers you, it means you’re done with it.”
  – Mystic Michaela (29:28)

b. The Yellow-Purple Frenemy (30:07–37:22)

• Situation: Yellow/purple listener feeling undermined by a yellow/purple “frenemy.”
• Insight: Frenemy actively triggers the listener; best strategy is to limit expectations and, if inclined, out-yellow/purple her with small, harmless acts of omission.

Notable Quote

• “She’s triggering her intentionally… She knows exactly how to look good on paper to everybody.”
  – Mystic Michaela (33:58–34:06)

c. Inheritance Drama (40:46–46:58)

• Situation: Blue-indigo-pink listener (Amanda) is cut out of parental inheritance by a red-purple sister (“Harvard”).
• Insight: Sister’s behavior is unlikely to change; best to walk away and focus on emotional health.

Notable Quote

• “It’s a bad investment. Walk away from this money and know your emotional health is upheld, and the universe will reward you in all sorts of abundance.”
  – Mystic Michaela (45:52)

d. Toxic Yellow Boss (47:00–52:19)

• Situation: Purple-indigo listener (Monica) leaves job due to an overbearing yellow boss.
• Advice: Purples cannot tolerate soul-crushing control; leaving was the right decision to preserve health.

Notable Quote

• “Purples will not stay in a job that’s like this…This place would have made you seriously ill.”
  – Mystic Michaela (50:05)

e. Difficult Mom (53:28–60:41)

• Situation: Yellow-indigo listener, Nicole, reflects on her relationship with a blue/purple “victim blue” mom who competes for nurturing.
• Advice: Protect your energy and children, even if it means cutting contact; acknowledge mom’s trauma but create boundaries.

Notable Quote

• “If your mom’s taking away from that, or if anybody’s taking away from that, they can't be around right now.”
  – Mystic Michaela (57:03)

f. Controlling Green Dad (60:52–65:46)

• Situation: Purple/green/turquoise listener (Tia) finds her green/blue dad friendly in public but controlling at home.
• Insight: Dad’s behavior is that of a “man-child”; he expects family to manage his moods. Awareness (not chameleon energy) is the issue.

Notable Quote

• “To me, he just feels like a man-boy.”
  – Mystic Michaela (65:03)

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• “Auras aren’t excuses, but they can explain behavior.”
  – Mystic Michaela (01:16)
• “They’re not gonna play, so they’ve already won.”
  – Scotty, on pink auras (20:23)
• “Don’t show your kids that kind of love relationship—focus on people who treat you how you treat them.”
  – Mystic Michaela, advice for a turquoise listener (29:10)
• “If it bothers you, it means you’re done with it.”
  – Mystic Michaela (29:28)
• “She knows exactly how to look good on paper to everybody…she’s triggering her intentionally.”
  – Mystic Michaela (33:58)

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Tone & Style

• Conversational, insightful, and empathetic
• Humor interwoven throughout, lightening heavy topics (“the pink pass,” psychological yellow-purple torture)
• Direct yet compassionate advice—empowering listeners to prioritize their own energy

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Final Thoughts

Mystic Michaela reiterates that understanding aura colors helps navigate challenging dynamics and provides clarity. She invites listeners to continue submitting stories and engaging in the Facebook group, maintaining: “It’s never your fault”—a gentle reminder that energy mismatches are often about differences, not inherent wrongness.

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For Further Exploration

• Find your aura color: Aura Quiz
• Join the discussion: Know Your Aura Spiritual Family Facebook group

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Note: Timestamps refer to MM:SS format as requested. Ads, intros, and outros have been omitted for clarity.

Transcript

[Scotty]

Foreign.

[Mystic Michaela]

Hey, mystic Michaela, spiritual family. Welcome to know your aura. With mystic Michaela, today, we are talking about challenging relationships. Have you ever had a relationship with somebody and it is just difficult? It is not easy? What does that have to do with their aura color? We're going to get real deep into that. But first. Hey, Scotty.

[Scotty]

Hey, guys. Well, the good news for me is people have told me that I am so go with the flow.

[Mystic Michaela]

Oh, yeah.

[Scotty]

I am the easiest person to get along with.

[Mystic Michaela]

Right.

[Scotty]

They're like. They just walk up to me sometimes. People just walk up to me. They're like, you are so easy to be around. Your energy is so calming. You're so.

[Mystic Michaela]

Where does this happen?

[Scotty]

I play, you know, places, like, wherever I go.

[Mystic Michaela]

Oh, yeah, yeah. Okay.

[Scotty]

If I.

[Mystic Michaela]

You know, I've never seen it, but I'll trust you. I'll trust you.

[Scotty]

All right, so let's start with the red.

[Mystic Michaela]

Okay.

[Scotty]

I mean, that could be a challenge, right? Dealing with the red.

[Mystic Michaela]

Red auras. Okay. I mean, I feel like you picked the strongest one. I would say, like, with reds, my. My personal relationship with reds is they're very upfront.

[Scotty]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

And they immediately think they're correct. So I would say that's the. That's probably the hardest part about dealing with them. Now, intention is separate from energy, color. You know, I always say auras aren't excuses, but they can explain behavior. So it always depends on someone's intention. But I noticed if we're talking generally, they always think they're right, which can be challenging to deal with.

[Scotty]

I mean, I'm a red.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. And you always think you're right. No, you do.

[Scotty]

I do. Well, because. Because I could always use logic to defend my point.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. Like, why do you know you're so right, though? You know?

[Scotty]

Because it's. Because. Because I thought it out logically, and I know it's right.

[Mystic Michaela]

See? Yeah. And every red, think about other reds you deal with in your life. Okay. Like, I won't name names in the family, but have you noticed that when you're dealing with that person, they think they're dealing with logic, too, and you just don't agree with their logic? Sometimes. I mean, that's.

[Scotty]

That could be true, but I don't think so. I. I think they're illogical.

[Mystic Michaela]

They're an illogical. You're the only logical red.

[Scotty]

I'm one of the only illogical reds. That's right.

[Mystic Michaela]

Improved my case.

[Scotty]

Well, yeah, no, I understand. Like, I could see we're dealing. In all honesty, I can see where dealing with the red is difficult and can be challenging. And they do usually think they're right.

[Mystic Michaela]

A big one I get is, like, red bosses.

[Scotty]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

Like, how do I deal with my red boss? Because they're always in management somehow, and it's like, you know, listen, I don't know if this is the right thing to say, but my tip is it has to be their idea. Let them think it's their idea. You know, like, you can't step on their toes. You have to let them talk first. Now, are all these things healthy? I don't know. It really depends on the situation. But sometimes you got to let them kind of have their room before you cut them off, before they speak. The second they feel controlled, it's like it's over.

[Scotty]

That's.

[Mystic Michaela]

I mean, that's what I.

[Scotty]

What about when you put, like, a bunch of reds together? Like, we got, like, you know, like, five red guys.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

Like, that sometimes does work.

[Mystic Michaela]

It does, yeah.

[Scotty]

You know, because like, there's kind of maybe like a little bit of a pecking order, and as long as you can kind of take a joke, usually you're okay in that.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. If you have a bunch of rich people, I think it takes. It might be some time, and they decide on a communal logic. That's correct.

[Scotty]

Right, right.

[Mystic Michaela]

And they're like, this is the communal logic, which is correct. And then everybody will just fall back onto that if there's a disagreement and then come out of it, because they've.

[Scotty]

Yeah, yeah, that's good. And I feel like all we're going to do, all the colors, we're going to go through all eight colors, and I feel we'll spend the most time on red. Okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

Okay.

[Scotty]

Let's go to purple.

[Mystic Michaela]

My. I would say purples are very cha. If you're going to say, why are purples challenging? I would be. Because they. You can't fool them. They do pick up on every nuance. And again, depending on the intention, they can sometimes use information later. They are good at moving the opinion of a crowd. You know, a friend group around. They can definitely say the thing that they know is gonna get one person to start thinking different. They're very, you know, I guess, good at moving things, you know, kind of moving opinion. I don't want to say manipulation. That's what I'm, like, trying to. And I'm purple myself, you know, so I feel like they just. I know what to say in sometimes, like, family situations or friend situations, I'll know the thing that's gonna get you to change your mind. I'll be like, hey, okay, but look at it this way. Or did you know that this just happened? Or. Okay, to your point. Now, this, like, I'm just like. Purples are very quick at, like. Okay, I hear everything you're saying, and I know how you think now. How about this? You know? And so they can be difficult to deal with because they got a bag of tricks.

[Scotty]

Okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

They always got a bag of tricks and they never stop. So they're quick at, like, maneuvering or pivoting or, you know.

[Scotty]

Yeah, that makes sense. So, yeah, like a red dealing with a difficult purple. Like just using. Because I'm red. Yeah, because the red is going to come at you straight for you can tell you exactly what it is. Yeah, here it is. And then the purple could go like. Maybe what you're saying is behind the back.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah, they can, like, weave around. They can be like, okay, they can. They can say one thing and mean it, but then also kind of sit on it for a while and be like. And I know I'm only talking about challenging relationships with the purple. Sometimes a challenging relationship with a purple involves, like, they're petty or, you know, they're gonna gossip or they're gonna, you know, sour something.

[Scotty]

Okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

And they can be good at that if their intentions are leaning towards that way.

[Scotty]

All right, what if you're dealing with a difficult, challenging yellow?

[Mystic Michaela]

Dealing with a difficult, challenging yellow. I mean, I think yellows. This is what I mean. My experience with yellows is that kind of like the red, they usually think they're correct and they move very quick. And usually if they're a difficult yellow, it has something to do with them having what I call an I told you so yellow shade. So it's. Nothing's real if it doesn't fit into my reality. So usually they have some sort of. This is how things work and this is how it's going to go. They've already thought ahead of how the situation is going to go, what it's going to look like, you know, A to Z every step. And if you come into that with throwing a wrench, you don't exist. So they're real good at shutting things out, shutting things down, breathing past you. And they're really good at organizing it so that you don't even know what's happening. And people around them tend to get caught up in it. So I would say yellows are just. They thought about it way more than you did, and they planned for it way better.

[Scotty]

Yes. And I agree with that. And that's why, as a red, yellow was probably the most difficult color for me. I was going to get into, like, some sort of relationship with. Because. Yes, they've. They've plotted every point. So, like, when you give them that logic point where you say, oh, I do it this way, they're going to come back and say, well, if you just do it this way, and. And logically, they make sense.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

Like, they'll give you the. The advice. Like, a yellow will give some great advice sometimes, like, yellows will give me some advice, and it's great advice.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

But I just don't. And it probably makes much more sense to do it the way they're saying.

[Mystic Michaela]

Right.

[Scotty]

But I don't want to do it that way.

[Mystic Michaela]

That would be. Yeah. I think like a yellow that you're having a difficult relationship with. They don't get stuck on things that other people get stuck on.

[Scotty]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

So if something makes sense to them, they just move towards it.

[Scotty]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

They don't sit. Like, yellows don't sit in things. But I would. I will say that if you're dealing with a difficult one, usually they don't. They don't take advice themselves. I told you so. Yellow, it's like you don't exist if you're not.

[Scotty]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

In the plan.

[Scotty]

Yeah. It's hard to tell them, like, you know, because, like, I don't even know how to tell them, like. Yeah, yeah, you're right. You know, that makes the most sense. But I just don't want to do it that way.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

So I don't know. All right, let's go to the blues.

[Mystic Michaela]

I would say blue auras are challenging because they take things so personally. So if you're dealing with a blue and it's a difficult situation with a blue, they can victimize very. And I've talked about victim blue. They can victimize very quickly. So if you just say something like, hey, can you come over at 4 instead of 2? It's like, oh, my God, I just got. I'm not allowed over. Wow. You know, like little things like that, like, I knew everybody hated me, you know, Or. Or if they offer to do something and you're like, actually, no, Sheila's taking care of that. You don't have to. Oh, my gosh. Wow.

[Scotty]

Okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

I see where I. I know what. I'm not wanted, you know, like that. And so they can take things all personal. So if they're in a bad space with it or they're going through something and it's like they're so touchy, you know, and you just kind of wanna. You don't want to tip around, tiptoe around them all the time. So that can be challenging. When dealing with a very sense. They're very sensitive. And then their sensitivity can turn into like. Like rage. Like very like. Like rage towards everybody. Like you.

[Scotty]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

So that can be hard.

[Scotty]

Well, yeah. And I'm blue too.

[Mystic Michaela]

And I do have these moments relate to that.

[Scotty]

Yeah. More now so than years ago. But I do sometimes, like, you call me out on it. I think you. You call me out sometimes I do get like, what you call victim blue.

[Mystic Michaela]

Victim blue.

[Scotty]

And I'll go into the whole thing and be like, you know, you know, I'm dealing with the three girls. I'm trying to make everything right.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

Then, you know, it's not working out. I can't fix it. I mean, what was that mantra you gave me?

[Mystic Michaela]

A mantra like I can't fix everything. Right.

[Scotty]

My new mantra say to myself, I can't fix everything.

[Mystic Michaela]

It's not your role. You don't have to fix everything.

[Scotty]

So I say that to myself in my head.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

And then. And I let you guys do whatever you do, and I just try not to fix it because I think you probably would actually prefer me to be the red. Right? You'd actually prefer me to do a red fight than a blue fight.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

If we were in getting. Not a physical fight. I mean, like an argument.

[Mystic Michaela]

You just took that all.

[Scotty]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

You would be funny.

[Scotty]

I know. Yeah. You'd prefer, like, I fight red than fight blue.

[Mystic Michaela]

I'd rather you just be like, kind of like, you're loud and grumpy. You.

[Scotty]

Right?

[Mystic Michaela]

Loud grumpy versus like, boohoo, you.

[Scotty]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

Because it's like, stop. I don't know. I'd rather grumpy you.

[Scotty]

I gotcha. Okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

But that's a personal preference, right? Like, other people might have a different preference, you know?

[Scotty]

All right. Indigo.

[Mystic Michaela]

Indigoes, I think indigo is difficult to deal with because they disappear. They just poof by. And blue to goes are going to do the blue plus indigo thing. But indigoes disappear, you know, and they can be difficult to deal with because you want to have a conversation or you want to, like, hash something out. And they'd prefer just to disappear for a few months, have that brushed under the rug, and just move on. Okay. You know, like that. So I feel like they're. They just. They. They can't. Indigos are so adept at dealing with energy without speaking to it that they're already going to hash it out with them. It's better if you leave them alone to deal with it themselves.

[Scotty]

Yes.

[Mystic Michaela]

They'll get over it. They'll come to their own conclusions. They'll move on and then they'll be fine later. But the problem on the opposite end of that is you're like, why aren't they returning my phone calls? Like, why they disappear? Like, why. Why can't they just have like they're so non confrontational. Like, what the heck, man? Like that.

[Scotty]

Well, yeah. And I. You live with an indigo, so I know exactly how to deal with a challenging indigo.

[Mystic Michaela]

That's me.

[Scotty]

And yes, that's exactly what you do after you let them have the space.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

You let them go watch a rerun of Vampire Diaries.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

And then after that rerun's over, they usually come and they seek you out.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yes.

[Scotty]

And they find you. And then they will just like cuddle with you and say, it's over now.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. And it is. You just have to let it go right now.

[Scotty]

That's okay if you live with someone, but I could see if maybe you don't live with them and they're like a friend and they don't have that opportunity after they finish watching Vampire Diaries to come and see you, then they might just ghost you.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah, they ghost. They kind of do like a semi ghost or like the end of ghost. But sometimes they do it just a temporary. But it is. It's got to be annoying. Okay, I can see that.

[Scotty]

All right. A difficult green.

[Mystic Michaela]

Greens are difficult. A challenging, difficult relationship with a green includes them not really caring. You know, they can really put a wall up and separate. Sometimes you feel like you can be control, alt, delete from their life. Like that. Is that it? Like you just like, like they took you, they press delete, you're gone. That is how easily it can feel. When a green aura doesn't want to deal with it anymore or talk about it or confront something or get into it with you or you're. You think this way. I think this way, but I'm not going to even talk to you about it. They can really just delete. And you feel it on the opposite end. You're like, was I just deleted a little bit? And also I think greens, that's extreme. But also a green aura situation can just be. I always call it like the ten commandments of the green. Like they think they're. They really. Again, I think it's the logic. Colors all think they're right. They just all think they're right in different Ways, but the green auras think they're right, but there's no kind of, like, leeway with it. Like, I feel like a red you can argue with a little bit. A yellow you can argue a little bit with it. Greens you can't.

[Scotty]

No.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

I find that too, with a difficult green, like, I'll just be talking about X, they're talking about Y, and it never merges to where the X will equal the Y. Like.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

Does that make sense? Like, yeah, it's just like, I'm just like, I'll argue a point logically, but, like, in their mind, it doesn't.

[Mystic Michaela]

They're not even hearing it.

[Scotty]

They don't even hear it because they think this way. Like, they don't even see the way of thinking.

[Mystic Michaela]

It's like speaking Greek.

[Scotty]

Yeah. You know, like, speaking two languages.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. At the same time. Yeah. Or I have this one green in my life, and he's very difficult to deal with because I'll be like, okay. He can't pivot to different points, so it's like he'll talk about what he wants to talk about. And I'm like, okay. I'm like, now here are my things. But my things don't count. Okay. Because he can only think about what he thinks is important. Like, the things that I think are important. Nope. Like that. Yeah. So it's. It's like if it's. Yeah. If it's in their vision of what matters today, they'll talk about it. If it doesn't, it, like, can't exist.

[Scotty]

Exactly.

[Mystic Michaela]

So you do. You don't always feel validated with a difficult green.

[Scotty]

Yeah, I don't mind it so much. Like, whereas yellow, you know, I mind it a little more because, like, the green, I just, like, laugh it off.

[Mystic Michaela]

Like, okay, well, yellows are gonna try to fix you and get you on board. And a green's just, like, shrug.

[Scotty]

One of my favorite colors to deal with is the turquoise.

[Mystic Michaela]

Oh, the Turks.

[Scotty]

Yes. We have our purple turquoise app.

[Mystic Michaela]

We do. Why are the turquoises difficulty? I feel like, in a challenging turquoise, like, they just do have a hard time. They have a hard time. Not when I talk about things like not getting closure. You know, they're going to, like, push and push and push and push and push and push. Like. Like, what do you want? Do you want somebody to blow up at you? Like, do you want somebody to say, yeah, you're right. Like, what do you want? You know, like, that sometimes they can't take a hint, I think. So they kind of keep coming Back for more. And until they get kind of a reaction that maybe isn't kind or isn't socially acceptable or is like the extreme, but they, they'll push a bit. I do feel like that, that can be hard with dealing with a turquoise because it's like, oh my God, they're not going to let this go. Holy crap, they're not. They're never going to let this go. Like, this will just be forever endeavor. And then I do think turquoises in difficult when, you know, when you have a difficult relationship with one, it can be hard for them to sometimes have personal responsibility or if they take personal responsibility, now it's your turn. You know, and now you have to do it too.

[Scotty]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

You know, so it can feel a little bit like, now I said that. Sorry for this. Now what are you sorry for? You know, and if you, if you truly are the one that's like, no, no, it was you, you know, that can be really annoying. So I think that that can be like the turquoise problem a little bit.

[Scotty]

Yeah. I mean, I also find that turquoises have a system of logic that. And they view things that just do not make any sense logically to me. Like we're just not, not, not in the way the green does. But like, you know, let's say you took something, a topic like UFOs or whatever or even the crystal stuff or. But I've learned to accept that and I just, I've learned to go and embrace it. And like I like to hear about it.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

And I like to say, oh, that's great, that's wonderful. And then I just let it go. So I don't even argue it with it. I'm not gonna argue it with a turquoise.

[Mystic Michaela]

No, you don't wanna argue with the turquoise. But also I think that sometimes their log. Yeah, you're right. Their logic is from different planes.

[Scotty]

Yes.

[Mystic Michaela]

They're from different thought patterns that aren't so accepted by the collective consciousness. And that doesn't make them wrong.

[Scotty]

No.

[Mystic Michaela]

And so I don't mind their, I don't mind that kind of stuff from them. But that does trigger a lot of people.

[Scotty]

It does, yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

And it used.

[Scotty]

But now that I understand it.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

I'm just like, oh, okay, this is how they think.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

I'll just hear them out. I don't have to agree with it.

[Mystic Michaela]

Right.

[Scotty]

I'll just listen to it and I'm not going to try to argue it.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. They're very open to a lot of different perspectives, which is impossible for them not to be because they are so boundaryless with energy.

[Scotty]

Really. Yeah. I do. I do find turquoise is fascinating.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. They will talk about anything.

[Scotty]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

And they will withhold judgment as they do it.

[Scotty]

Yep. All right. The last one is pink. And if you don't know that you're dealing with a pink and you're a red or a logic color, I assume that's very, very difficult.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

But once you understand that they're a pink.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

It all makes sense.

[Mystic Michaela]

And you're like, okay.

[Scotty]

Yeah, because they're pink.

[Mystic Michaela]

Last night, we went. I went for dinner with some of my friends, and the waitress was so pink. And usually I don't do this, but I had to tell her that she was pink.

[Scotty]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

And immediately she's like. I feel that, you know, like, in her. But what's crazy was, like, her manager was getting on her, and he was like. He was like. You could tell the manager didn't understand she was pink, obviously, because. What does that mean? It means that she was, like, fun and bubbly and having fun with everybody and kind of, like, she was getting her work done just, like, in her own way, you know? And actually, she was a very attentive server. She was really great at what she did, but she just kind of didn't look like she was, if that makes sense, you know? So I think the difficult part of dealing with a pink is letting them just do it their way, and you have to trust that they're getting it done, because it usually looks like they're not doing anything, but I promise they are.

[Scotty]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

They just have, like, their own kind of, like, way of doing it, and. And it's very easy to kind of, like, fall back into, like, judgment or, like, what is. What the frick is that? Like, what are you doing? Like, if we're all trying to follow the same kind of timeline or the same kind of order of operations, I think pinks can be challenging because they don't follow those things, but they'll still get the task completed.

[Scotty]

Yeah. No, for. For me, just knowing they're pink, I give them. I now give them the pass. I'm like, you tell if somebody just came up to me and just, like, I'm pink aura. I'm like, okay, fine. I given you a pass. Do what you got to do. Yeah, it's the pink pass. I give them the pink pass.

[Mystic Michaela]

Oh, you made that up.

[Scotty]

I made that up. It's a pink pass. You get the pink from a red, like, right. Because a red. Honestly, a red. Dealing with a pink, like, in a relationship, Like. Like a marriage or something, I think could probably be very difficult because the red might be like, what the heck are you doing? Well, yeah, all the time.

[Mystic Michaela]

You have to give him a pink.

[Scotty]

Pass and never understand it. But pink. I give you the pink pass. Right? So the pink pass is. I know you're pink. That's how you do things.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

And I love it. Good for you.

[Mystic Michaela]

I think the other thing with pinks is, in a challenging situation is they. I always call it the I can't hear you game. Like, you know, like when you were a kid and if you had a sibling, you'd be like, what is that noise? I can't hear you. Is that a dog barking? You know that horrible game. You have a sibling, they did it to you. That's what pinks can do. Like, they can be like. As soon as they don't hear anywhere, they're like, what? Who are you? I don't want to hear you. And then they, like, really don't. So it can infuriate people.

[Scotty]

Yeah, I could imagine that. Of all the colors to fight with or whatever, you know, get into a difficult situation with, other than the yellow, because I think it'll be the pink.

[Mystic Michaela]

The pink's just gonna.

[Scotty]

Yeah, yeah, they're gonna. They're gonna win because. Yeah, I think they're gonna win it because they.

[Mystic Michaela]

They're not playing.

[Scotty]

Because they're not gonna play.

[Mystic Michaela]

They're not playing.

[Scotty]

So they've already won.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah, they're already won.

[Scotty]

And then you're just gonna get more. More.

[Mystic Michaela]

They're just. And then you're just, like, fighting with yourself, and then you just hate yourself.

[Scotty]

Well, we don't have any difficult auras in the mystic spiritual family. It's always the other person.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yes. So it's never your fault.

[Scotty]

Right, Right. So what we're going to do, you know, you put up a post in the page, and we're going to talk about real life, challenging people in your life based on their aura colors. We asked you to send in some pictures, I think, picture of the person, picture of yourself. Mystic Mikhail is going to read those. Some of those pictures, we can't do them all, obviously, but we're going to pick some. We're going to take a quick break. We come back. That's what we're going to do.

[Mystic Michaela]

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[Scotty]

Hey guys.

[Mystic Michaela]

So I asked the mystic Michaela spiritual family on Facebook to talk about a difficult relationship, a challenging relationship they're having with somebody and of course include their aura colors if they know them and to include anonymous photos if they would like. And we got amazing responses. And I'm going to keep, we'll keep this thread open because I think we can help each other on there too and we can keep adding to it as well. So the first one I have is Matlin and she says and I'll read it. I feel like I have so many of these but I'm going to talk about a friendship with someone who I had believed we were the friend kind of soulmates because I've been thinking about her a lot lately and whether to step back from the friendship. I don't know her colors. I have some guesses but I am turquoise purple. We have been friends for over 12 years and it's mostly been good. The issue though is she is a ghoster. She is a people pleaser to the extreme and when she gets in relationships, she has been known to only focus on them. I've cut her a lot of slack and confronted her on her lack of communication and how it makes me feel. And for short times, it'll change, but eventually go back. As of this moment, I texted her about two months ago and have yet to hear back again. And every time this starts to happen again, I start to spiral. Hence the why of maybe needing to cut contact. The hardest part is that I still love her. I want to be there for her, and I love her kids and I want to be there for them. But I also don't know if I can continue this back and forth. It hurts me and my kids. I just want to be a priority. Definitely not the top, but one of them. Anyways, thanks for listening to my rant. And she gave a picture of herself and a picture of her friend and.

[Scotty]

Okay, so. All right, let's call the friend Casper.

[Mystic Michaela]

Oh, the friend's name is Casper the Indigo.

[Scotty]

The ghost. Yeah. Okay. So, I mean, I don't. Obviously I don't know the whole story here. I'm just gonna give you.

[Mystic Michaela]

I guess give us yours take.

[Scotty]

Yeah, just a red logic take is, I guess, you know, if someone's doing that to me and they're just disappearing like that, I think I'm. For me, I'm just gonna let them. I'm not gonna think about it after that. Yeah, that's it. Like, I'm gonna probably wonder, hey, what, am I doing something here? Is there anything I could fix to get them to come back? And then if not, like, I'd reach out probably, and then be like, hey, let's talk this thing through.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. Which she has.

[Scotty]

Yeah. Which he has. Yeah. I'm saying that's. That part is what I would do, too. But then if you do it, if you do this to me once and then you came back, and if you do it to me twice, I'm done too.

[Mystic Michaela]

Right.

[Scotty]

So I don't know. That's my advice on this, but, I mean, it's not really good advice because she really wants this person to be in her life.

[Mystic Michaela]

Now here's my aura explain of this Matlin is turquoise purple. And what I've noticed about turquoise is they love really hard and sometimes they want things to be something that it's not. And, you know, as a turquoise, she really feels her friend's energy and feels the love and feels the relationship. But sometimes the way you want things isn't the way they're going to happen. When I look at the friend.

[Scotty]

Okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

Casper.

[Scotty]

Casper? Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

She's purple, blue to go. She might be indigo. And these pictures. She looks very blue to go to me, though. And honestly, with her, I feel like she. A couple things. I feel like she. It does feel intentional to me. So I get that she does disappear. It's on purpose because she doesn't want to deal with it, own up to it, talk about it, and she doesn't want to upset her friend, you know, by saying, I just need a break or I can't deal with this, or this is too much for me right now, or. And also, I feel like she is the type of person that she has to put everything into what she's doing now. She can get overwhelmed with other energy. I feel like she can't be probably a good friend and a good girlfriend or something like that in her own mind, which is a problem she has. And I feel like. And the other thing is this is just. I think she's. It's intentional. So I feel like she's doing it on purpose and she's not going to change.

[Scotty]

Does Casper have another color? You said she was blue to go.

[Mystic Michaela]

Purple.

[Scotty]

Okay, so she. So she's like purple, indigo.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

Or blue. Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

I feel like she knows she's doing it.

[Scotty]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

Like, this isn't just. And two things can be true.

[Scotty]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

Somebody can be doing this to you and still love you back, you know, but at the same time, and you know, this is just my mom to mom advice for Matlin. Don't expose your kids to that. All right?

[Scotty]

And you don't have to answer this question. And this is just for me, maybe for some of the greens out there.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

I mean, I find this stuff fascinating. And. And again, my red logic is always trying to figure this out. Because you don't know Caspar. You've never met Casper. You're just looking at a picture of Casper. What tells you that she's doing this on purpose? What in her aura tells you that she is doing this on purpose?

[Mystic Michaela]

So when I look at Casper, her purple is very clear. She's very locked in, and she's very aware of nuances, emotional nuances. It's just a. It's a vibe with the purple.

[Scotty]

Okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

And then with the blue to go part, I feel like she feels vindicated in her disappearance act and that she doesn't feel the need to explain herself. I also feel like just looking at little Matlin here, our MMSF friend, I feel like Matlin is very sweet, very understanding, always the type of person, like, okay, no problem. Like that, you know, and when she does, you know, of course now she's spiraling or whatever, but I feel like her friend. This might be a pattern that has just been going on so long that her friend doesn't even think that this is a bad thing to do to somebody.

[Scotty]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

It's just. Oh, that's just Madeline. Like, that.

[Scotty]

Okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

And, yeah. And, like, just what I was saying with the kids, like, this is just me. Like, turquoises, like, to hear truth. So here's my truth for the turquoise, you know, don't show your kids. That's a love relationship. Like, don't show your kids. We put energy people that don't put energy back, you know, like, and focus on the people that treat you, how you treat them. Like, Matlin feels like a really present friend. So go find other present friends. And I'm sure she has other present friendships. And she said, like, this is happening a lot in her life at this time. Maybe Spirit's trying to clear some people out for her so she can have some present people. If it bothers you, it means you're done with it. That's the other thing. And the other thing with Casper is Casper might be the type of friend who you get together with lunch. You know, lunch every, you know, twice a year. Maybe that's a cat. Maybe that's Casper's friendship. Just because we want Casper to be a soulmate buddy. She can be a soulmate buddy maybe twice a year, you know, like, that kind of thing. And that's it, you know, just redefine the relationship.

[Scotty]

That's what I do. Good advice again. I know I've said this many times, but it fascinates me that you could just do that from a picture. All right. And by the way, if you do want to see these pictures, they're on the Mystic Michaela spiritual family Facebook group. All the pictures are there. Obviously, we're making up the names of the people that are not in the group. And of course, the people that are in the group are always correct.

[Mystic Michaela]

They're always correct. Correct.

[Scotty]

Next one.

[Mystic Michaela]

Okay, the next one. I don't know. I found this one. So just, I don't know, funny in a way that's not okay. Jorah wrote. Okay, so I have a frenemy who is my friend's girlfriend. I have tried so hard to befriend her so my fiance and I can maintain a relationship with our mutual friend that's dating her. We also all work together, except my fiance, by the way. Jorah is yellow, purple, yellow, purple. Somebody should know that.

[Scotty]

Okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

Because she's talking yellow. Purple too, like, real fast.

[Scotty]

Did she put in a picture?

[Mystic Michaela]

She did.

[Scotty]

Okay. Well.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah, I. Yeah.

[Scotty]

Okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

We're good. All right. So she used to say back to what Jorah wrote. She used to say really mean things about me behind my back for no reason and many others. She just does it to everyone, even her own friends. I confronted her about it and she denied it all and said she doesn't know why people start rumors about her. I let it go and told her I think we could be good friends if it's a he said she said didn't get in the way, and she agreed. She later invited us to their house for get together, and it was the first time we saw them and other friends since we got engaged. Everyone there congratulated us and asked us about our wedding planning, and she didn't say a word for the last year. There were so many opportunities for her to congratulate us. And she has done other things like text me for advice about her dog, sent me the tattoo she got with the gift card she won at an event I hosted with my dog rescue, but not a single word about our wedding. So it came time to give out Save the dates. And I was very conflicted on inviting someone who just couldn't say they were happy for us. But that meant our mutual friend wouldn't come if his girlfriend wasn't invited. So I bit the bullet and did it. Not a word. I had to ask if she got to save the date and she just replied. I did. So I vented to my mom about it. Her mom and my mom also work for the same company. And she said that she actually mentioned to her in passing how excited she is for her wedding and that it's going to be so fun because I throw the best parties. So she can imagine my wedding will also be great. Which is which. I also invited her to my Halloween party. She's so yellow. This girl that was a murder mystery gave gift bags to every guest and it was really fun. And she didn't say thank you, didn't send a text like everyone else saying it was a great time, nothing, but apparently raved about it to people at work. I cannot figure out if she's just jealous and doesn't know how to have girlfriends and how to be supportive, or she just genuinely doesn't like me and can't stand her boyfriend coming to events with us there without her. It really bothers me. I just can't let it go.

[Scotty]

Okay, so, yeah, that's A very yellow written post.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yes. I love all the details.

[Scotty]

Very detailed. Yes, I would like to go to this Halloween party.

[Mystic Michaela]

I want to know Jorah and go to all these parties.

[Scotty]

Could we go to the wedding?

[Mystic Michaela]

We are great wedding guests.

[Scotty]

Are you close to South Florida? Is it somewhere I could get to rather quickly? Because if it is, I think I'd like to go. And I will tell you that I had a good time. If I had a good time.

[Mystic Michaela]

I'll take all the goodie bags and this girl's too.

[Scotty]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

What are you naming her?

[Scotty]

Oh, well, she named her Frenemy, so we're going to. Yeah, she named her for us. Okay. Yeah, she did. As a yellow. As a good yellow.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yes.

[Scotty]

She did the task for the red. That's perfect. Yellow. You do the task for the red. Okay. So, yeah, I. I don't get this either. I mean, obviously, I don't think this lady. We have a picture of Frenemy and she's not read. Right. Okay. Because a red would just straightforward tell you, you know, this or that. She's going. She's basically saying that she's liking everything behind the back, but she won't tell it to her face. Is that what I got out of that?

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

Whole post.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

Yeah, that's. That's strange to me.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. If I told you this, what would you say to me?

[Scotty]

If you told me that.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah, I'm like my friend's girlfriend and I was going on and on and on.

[Scotty]

I would think some. A jealousy thing.

[Mystic Michaela]

Okay.

[Scotty]

Yeah, I was like. I would say exactly what Jorah said.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

I think she's jealous, but I. That's my own take on it. I don't. I don't know if that's correct.

[Mystic Michaela]

Well, looking at Frenemy, she is yellow, Purple herself.

[Scotty]

Oh. So.

[Mystic Michaela]

So I think we got a lot.

[Scotty]

Of yellow going on.

[Mystic Michaela]

She's trying to make Jorah crazy on purpose.

[Scotty]

Okay. I wouldn't have guessed that.

[Mystic Michaela]

Using her purple as a way of understanding how to trigger Jorah. She is triggering her intentionally.

[Scotty]

Wow.

[Mystic Michaela]

She knows exactly how to look good on paper to everybody. I don't. But, you know, even mom, you know, she's going up to Jorah's mom. I just can't wait. You know, she's trying to look like, good and helpful. She's trying to look like. What are you talking about? You know, I don't know what she's talking about. Trying to make Jorah look like. Like a crazy yellow purple.

[Scotty]

Okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

Like, so it's kind of like it's gonna get worse as the wedding goes on.

[Scotty]

So it's kind of like a kid who. Like when they come in, let's say when they're. You're. You know, when you're younger, you have a friend and they come over and your parents greet them at the door, and they're really kind and nice to them and polite.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

And then the parents think that's. Oh, my God, that's the.

[Mystic Michaela]

That's a great friend.

[Scotty]

Then they run upstairs to see you and they start cursing.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

They're like a jerk. Jerky.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. They're like, doing weird things behind your back. Yeah.

[Scotty]

Okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

Like, she just wants to look it on paper so it triggers you. Like, she knows this is bothering Jorah because these are all things that would bother Frenemy, by the way.

[Scotty]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

Like, if you really care, which you really shouldn't care to get revenge on the situation, you should just move on and ignore this person. But if you cared to get Frenemy revenge, you would just be super freaking sweet all the time. And then maybe you'd. I conveniently forgot your gift bag. Oops. You know, Or. Oh, everybody has a place card at the wedding. At the wedding. Maybe everybody has a place card. But you didn't make one for Frenemy.

[Scotty]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

It's just not. You know, like, when you walk into a wedding and there's everyone's place card, you get your place card.

[Scotty]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

What if there was no place card for Frenemy? This is called psychological yellow purple, torture people. Okay. Okay. Like, if you really want to get back at Frenemy, just do little crap like that. That when she goes complains about to somebody, she sounds insane.

[Scotty]

Yeah. And then that last place card says Scotty on it.

[Mystic Michaela]

And you're there. Yeah. And they're like, who? And you're sitting next to her boyfriend.

[Scotty]

And they're like, he even got a place card.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

That guy.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. Oh, yeah. Like, invite weird people.

[Scotty]

Yeah. Like us.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. We're just trying to get a. We're just trying to get free open bar.

[Scotty]

Yeah. Because, I mean, well, here. Okay. And here's the great question. So you're saying they're both yellow purple.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

And one yellow purple is playing this game.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

But the other yellow purple has not really played the game yet.

[Mystic Michaela]

Right.

[Scotty]

That's our. That's Jurassic. Right. But she could play the game and go to that level.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

But let's say. I don't know. It seems a little petty. Right?

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. So it's not that hard to forget a name card. Though, I mean, that's real easy now.

[Scotty]

You'Re getting a little purple, too.

[Mystic Michaela]

Sorry, I just got kind of purple. I can help you plan this out, Jordan. But, like. No, but seriously, I feel. Because it's not, you know. Yeah, it's not, like, mean, but it's enough to just drive Frenemy insane.

[Scotty]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

I feel like with Frenemy, she's just probably a little triggered. Jorah sounds like she's great. Don't get me wrong. Jorah sounds like she's got the best party. She's got a probably great house. If you really look at it from the outside. Jorah probably has a beautiful relationship with her fiance. She's getting married. You know, she's got a cute place. She's. Her and her mom probably have a lovely relationship. She's got a great job. You know, if you. If you look at the whole situation, like, Frenemies probably look in this and be like, oh, like jealous and sad. So it's just coming from kind of a sad place. So we can feel bad for Frenemy, but at the same time, you don't have to put up with crap. And you can forget her place card. Okay, so that's my advice.

[Scotty]

Some good purple advice.

[Mystic Michaela]

I got petty.

[Scotty]

All right, let's take a quick break.

[Mystic Michaela]

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[Scotty]

Hey, guys.

[Mystic Michaela]

All right, our next one is from Amanda. So Amanda writes, okay. She writes, I'm a blue to go pink. Dealing with a difficult inheritance family dynamic right now that's really been going on since my mother passed unexpectedly three and a half years ago. Or you could even say since my dad passed away a decade ago. My sister was the in charge sibling of my mom's assets, including a life insurance policy of $1 million. My sister is an education status now urologist, a surgeon. And since my mom passed, she has kept all the money in order to support our brother so she doesn't have to help him out of pocket. Everyone is benefiting from what my mother has left but me, the youngest by nine years, who lost her dad at 19 and her mother at 25. The amount of lies and gaslighting I've been through my entire life has truly been unmasked since having my two toddler daughters and the breaking of the family structure. My mother had my treatment. My whole life was the product of not being wanted even after death, but especially by my siblings. My dad always wanted us to be close because he knew he would pass early in our lives. He was 50 when I was born. But I can't keep up with this when I'm so disregarded by everyone in my former immediate family. The unraveling of my life and extended family has made me feel like spirit is protecting me to know who to keep close to my life heart in this lifetime. And I found some allies in my family since I have a huge extended family on both sides. And so she would just like some insight. She gave me a picture of herself, her sister and her dad who passed.

[Scotty]

Okay, so. And we're gonna call the sister Harvard. We both went to the same school.

[Mystic Michaela]

She's wearing a Harvard T shirt.

[Scotty]

Yeah, she's wearing a hard T shirt picture. And of course, I am a Harvard alum, so.

[Mystic Michaela]

Right.

[Scotty]

Yeah, we'll call it that. Okay, so what? All right. Okay, this is interesting. All right. What's Amanda's colors?

[Mystic Michaela]

Amanda's blue to go pink.

[Scotty]

She's blue to go pink. Yeah. And what are the sister's colors?

[Mystic Michaela]

She's red purple.

[Scotty]

She's a red purple.

[Mystic Michaela]

Harvard's red purple.

[Scotty]

So blue to go pink.

[Mystic Michaela]

Right?

[Scotty]

Is dealing with a red purple.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

Okay. And the dad, we can get his color.

[Mystic Michaela]

Dad. Aw, dad. Dad looks red blue to me.

[Scotty]

He's a Red, Blue.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. And you could tell he just wanted everyone to get along.

[Scotty]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

And he didn't want any of this to happen. And that's his little girl. I mean, I'm getting all this, like, mediumship stuff towards Amanda. Just, I love you, and you're so special to me, and you're my baby, and you're not cast out by me. And he just, you know, just a lot of love I feel from him. It's very sweet. I think he really tried to hang on towards the end, and he couldn't, and it was just sad.

[Scotty]

Yeah. So it's a lot of sad. That's his little. That's his little blue to go pink.

[Mystic Michaela]

That was his baby, and I think she just brought him a lot. A lot of joy.

[Scotty]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. It makes me sad.

[Scotty]

And, I mean, he probably knew that Harvard was more like him with the.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

With the red.

[Mystic Michaela]

Right.

[Scotty]

You know, I can even see, like. It's kind of like me might even be a little tougher on Harvard than he was Interesting on Amanda.

[Mystic Michaela]

Right?

[Scotty]

That's what I'm kind of sensing here.

[Mystic Michaela]

It's interesting.

[Scotty]

Yeah. The red blues sometimes come a little through for me, too. Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

This one affecting you.

[Scotty]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

This one getting you.

[Scotty]

This is like the opposite. I don't want, you know, I feel like this red, purple, Harvard. She's a powerful force.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

She's, you know, she's. I'm looking at that picture, and she looks tough.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

And here I got Amanda the blue to go pink, and she looks. Looks like a sweetie, you know.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

So it's hard.

[Mystic Michaela]

This one's hard for you.

[Scotty]

That's a hard one.

[Mystic Michaela]

I think you're feeling a lot.

[Scotty]

I want her to come out and win. You know, I'm rooting for the. For the. The pink to win here.

[Mystic Michaela]

Right.

[Scotty]

To get her whatever the father wanted.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

Like, I want this to be whatever the dad wanted. That's what I want.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. Because the dad didn't want this. The dad wanted fair.

[Scotty]

Yeah. I want it to be fair. This has got to be as fair. Maybe he's telling me that.

[Mystic Michaela]

I think you're getting very.

[Scotty]

It's got to be as fair as possible.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

That's all I'm going to say.

[Mystic Michaela]

Well, I feel like, unfortunately, what happens is, is when we pass and it's not all written out, and we think. We think it's. And I get this all the time in mediumship readings. Like, they just want you to know this is not what they had planned.

[Scotty]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

And she even says that he wanted us to be close.

[Scotty]

Yeah, but.

[Mystic Michaela]

And you can feel that. But you can't do it against your own detriment of your own mental health or your family or whatever. Okay, so let me look at Amanda.

[Scotty]

All right.

[Mystic Michaela]

When I look at Amanda, I will say, like, I hope this picture is recent because she's super pink in it.

[Scotty]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

Like, meaning she feels very strong in herself and like a big self advocate, and she feels like she is, you know, coming into her own in a lot of ways, energetically. It's really hard for Pinks because they can be seen as fodder for the family.

[Scotty]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

Like. Like, nothing's. Like, nobody's. Like, the pinks can get treated like that a lot. Like, well, you're here to be cute and that's it. You know, like, she was probably like, the baby and she was little, and she was like, what. What were they thinking having Amanda? You know, that's honestly what I feel. And again, I don't know these people, and this is my own interpretation, just to be fair, but I feel like a lot with Amanda was. The other siblings are like, that was your choice to have Amanda. I'm not giving up my inheritance or my money for this person. You know, like, she was just some sort of afterthought baby. That's what it feels like to me. And I wonder if that resonates with her because it's very upsetting and it's a lot to pick up, but that was not how her dad viewed her at all. When I look at her sister, when I look at Harvard, Harvard's tough. And I feel like Harvard has zero conscience towards Amanda at all. Like, there is just nothing there. I feel like Harvard has a lot going on in her own family and her own life. So I just get a lot of personal trials with some of her own kids. I don't know if she has a son, because I'm getting sun energy and I'm getting something with, like, a lot going on there, and there's. Or she's taking care of the brother. The sun energy could be the brother or something. But I'm getting a lot of energy here with. Where Harvard does not give a crap and she's not going to. And I feel like they don't even care if their lies sound ridiculous anymore. They don't even. They're at the point where they're not even trying to make it look like a plausible lie because they do not care what she thinks. And I wonder if Amanda is just picking up a lot of her dad's intentions and love towards her. And maybe she just needs a little permission from this podcast today to be like, you don't. Just because he wanted it that way doesn't mean that's your responsibility to do that. You know, it just. It sucks. And at the end of the day, it's just money.

[Scotty]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

It's just money. And nothing's free. Right? So there's an emotional cost to something, and then there's a financial cost to something. Sometimes the emotional cost is way too high. I feel like your emotional cost for getting any sort of piece of your inheritance would be way too high and not worth it. It's a bad investment. Walk away from this money and know that your emotional health is upheld, and the universe will reward you in all sorts of abundance in different ways. I always say, close the door on this kind of crap because tells the universe, like, you'll put up with crap for money, and you're. I can already tell Amanda's beyond that. She's not doing that. Okay, but that's hard. That's really, really hard.

[Scotty]

Yeah, that one. Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

But pinks, they are. They can be treated just. Absolutely. Just afterthoughts, fodder. Like, you know, nothing's in the family. Like, take the scraps you got. Bye. Because. And in a way, it's because, well, you're young and you're cute and, you know, you're fun, and you have all these things going. Like, I don't know, like, people see pinks as, like, you're good, you don't need this, and we're not doing anything for you. Like, a resentment.

[Scotty]

All right, I'll try reading one.

[Mystic Michaela]

Oh, okay. Go ahead.

[Scotty]

All right. So Monica writes, I am Purple Indigo. I left a job last year due to a toxic workplace and a bully boss. She didn't communicate in the best ways and would often speak down to you. Everything I said or did, she would take as a personal attack. I left because the anxiety I felt was too much. I wasn't sleeping, and my stomach hurt whenever she was in the office. I know I wasn't the only one, because when she was there, work still got done, but the energy was so much better when she was there. We were very quiet and kept to ourselves. If you made a mistake, she never trusted you. And that's her below. So there's a picture of Monica, and Monica is Purple Indigo. That was. We confirmed that.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

And then we have a picture of the old manager. That's what we'll call her, the old manager.

[Mystic Michaela]

That's what she said. Here's a pat.

[Scotty]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

Here's a pic of my old manager.

[Scotty]

Yeah, so we'll. We'll call her old manager.

[Mystic Michaela]

That's me.

[Scotty]

That's funny.

[Mystic Michaela]

Okay.

[Scotty]

All right. What colors are the old manager?

[Mystic Michaela]

It's a very bad pick. Like, Monica already knows this is a bad pickup. I. Old manager. But, like, it's enough to see the ladies. Very yellow, you know?

[Scotty]

Okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

And I would say it sometimes can be different. Like back to the whole I told you so yellow. Or, you know, maybe yellow's on a power trip or something. Like, she gets off on, like, her. She gets off. This is a terrible way to say it, but, like, she gets her kicks.

[Scotty]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

She gets her. Her fancies from being probably like school mom in the office. You know, Like, Like, I mean, she's two seconds away from rapping your knuckles with a ruler or something. If she could, you know, just getting like, just. Some people really go after purples, Especially like a purple indigo. Because Monica's so sensitive and kind and probably also is like, is this right? Is this good? You know, in her head, in herself and unsure. And then this lady's coming in and she, like, feeds off that. Like, when she feels a vulnerability, it does two things. It triggers her because she does not listen to any of her own vulnerabilities. And that's why she's a sad person. But that's the first thing. It triggers her. And then she doesn't like to feel triggered, so she, like, abuses it and then she feeds off of it. Like, you know, some people eat energy like that and they have to create it in the workplace so they can keep eating it. And it's kind of creating, like, I don't know. She feels like a school mom to me. So it feels like a classroom of control, like the office where everyone's shaken and everyone's scared and she's just walking around surveying and looking.

[Scotty]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

And she wants a mistake. She'd love a mistake.

[Scotty]

You know, that's awful.

[Mystic Michaela]

And just treating people like this who are just trying to make a living. And also I always say this, like, purples will not stay in a job that's like this. Like, it's not your fault you left it. I hope you're really proud of yourself for leaving it. Honestly, this place would have made you seriously ill physically. Long term stuff, like the anxiety Monica was getting, stuff that's just the precursor to God knows what would have happened. You probably would have developed, like, physical conditions and whatnot. And that's why we got to love our purple. Sometimes because the purple's like, bye, you know? And I'd love to hear how she quit. I. I love to hear that.

[Scotty]

Maybe she did the Indigos because she said she's Indigo. She could have just ghosted.

[Mystic Michaela]

She did the Purple bomb Indigo.

[Scotty]

Purple bomb Purple Bob. Indigo. Hey, if you can do it, like, you know, if you can do it, I mean, that's my advice. I would. And she did do it. So that's the advice I would have given to do it. And then. And that makes perfect sense with the energy of the workplace. I. I might have told the story before, but before I now go to my Cuban barber.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yes.

[Scotty]

Who's amazing.

[Mystic Michaela]

Right.

[Scotty]

Doesn't speak English. I don't really speak too Spanish too well, so. But we get.

[Mystic Michaela]

We get by you guys energetically understand. You need a haircut. And he'll do that.

[Scotty]

Exactly. And not that complicated. We're good pals. Even though we don't understand what each other say, we have conversations. One in Spanish. I'm doing English. I'm doing my broken Spanish.

[Mystic Michaela]

Like, when you text him, it's so funny. You're like, are you available for a haircut today? And then he'll be like, hola. And then you'll be like, do you think he understood me? I'm like, I'm sure you can Google Translate that.

[Scotty]

Then I write again. He's like, yes. And I write half in Spanish, half like, half in English.

[Mystic Michaela]

You're like, buena star days 1pm, por favor. Or something.

[Scotty]

But. But anyway. But the place I used to go before, when the boss wasn't there. Okay. You know it was a hair salon.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yes.

[Scotty]

It was a bunch. I assume everyone there was purple. The haircutters, the hairdressers.

[Mystic Michaela]

A lot of hairdressers are purple.

[Scotty]

Yeah. So it was like if the boss wasn't there, you go and you get your haircut there. It was fun. Everyone was like, yapping away, laughing.

[Mystic Michaela]

Right.

[Scotty]

It was, you know, great energy. The place felt great. Fantastic. And then if I went on a day that the boss was there.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

It was like the mor. It was like you went in there, like, oh, my God, this. I didn't want. You didn't want to. I didn't want to be there myself. I was just like, okay, could I get out of here? So, yes, I understand what Monica is saying about that energy when a boss. When the boss is in or the boss is out. So she was picking. I'm validating her.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

At this point. Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

So can you imagine, like, you're a vibe crusher. Like that.

[Scotty]

Seriously. I know. Imagine that you walk in a room, and everybody imagine.

[Mystic Michaela]

And, like, you know. And I'll tell you this about people that are vibe crushers. Like, they know it. They do. They know it about themselves, and they truly do hate it about themselves, but they can't change it, so they just, like, double down.

[Scotty]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

It's a whole thing.

[Scotty]

All right, quick break. We'll do a couple more.

[Mystic Michaela]

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[Scotty]

Hey, guys.

[Mystic Michaela]

Okay, so there were a lot of entries about people's moms, so I pick Nicole, and we'll. We'll start here.

[Scotty]

One of those entries was me. I put one in about my mom. My red, purple mom.

[Mystic Michaela]

Okay.

[Scotty]

I didn't get selected. Okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

All right, so Nicole writes, I don't know my colors, which I'll tell her in a second. Or hers. But dying to know about my mom. All right, so I wanted to look at Nicole before we even read it. Nicole to me. Okay. I'd have to see a picture of her as a kid to be 100% sure, but she looks yellow indigo to me. She's wearing green, but her husband is green, so it could be that.

[Scotty]

And there's four people in the picture.

[Mystic Michaela]

And there's four people in the picture, but she does like yellow indigo to me. Oh. I had to, like, stalk her Facebook to get this photo too. She didn't put it in there, so I just kind of like, stalk. I just. I just, like, hear that usually indicates blue or indigo. That's true.

[Scotty]

That is a. Yeah, yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

To cold read that. That's an indigo.

[Scotty]

That's a Cold read. Yeah. If you go to someone's and there's.

[Mystic Michaela]

No picture of them, it's hard.

[Scotty]

And it's just like a sunset picture of them.

[Mystic Michaela]

Like with their family name.

[Scotty]

Yeah. Or something.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

Or a sunset picture, right? Yeah. Usually I go blue, indigo or their cat or something.

[Mystic Michaela]

Or their dog. All right, so Nicole, you look yellow, indigo. So there you go. And your mom. Just because we're. It's talking about Mom. Mom looks very, very, very blue and a little purple. All right. But here we go. I don't know. My colors are. Okay, so this pics. This pic that she put is from Thanksgiving 2023. But we've had minimal contact since. I've always felt she never liked me much because I'm sensitive, quiet, overly tolerant, everything she's not. She has always been an extremely involved and helpful grandparent. But I often feel like it's more so for the feeling of control and recognition. My own daughter always favored me over her. And for that reason I felt as well that she never treated her equally to the other grandkids. My daughter with the yellow bow was diagnosed with leukemia A few weeks after this picture. My mom, per usual, over inserted herself, tried to dictate who could attend appointments with us. Only her. Acted like she was the main caregiver, but had no patience. When my daughter could not walk or would wet the bed after chemo. Lacked compassion. For example, commenting on her weight gain she experienced due to medications. Would try to suggest to my husband that I'm emotionally unstable, et cetera. I had to cut her off after that point. I explained to her why I was hurt and she sent back a bullet point list of things I'd said, demanding examples because she states they were all lies. We've been minimal to no contact since. And she's been extra helpful, toxic, leaving passive aggressive notes if we miss events. Dropping the kids Christmas gifts in the garage while we were home. The gifts were nothing like what my nieces and nephews received. My sisters still say I just need to talk to her, despite me being the one to attempt to do so multiple times. She has experienced so much trauma in her life. I wish I had a picture of as a kid to compare. She was the kid who'd paint murals on the walls and bring home stray pets every day. I'm so curious what is going on with her that leads her to be how she is. It's a very sad situation. Yeah, but what do you think?

[Scotty]

I don't know. I mean. Oh, God. I mean, I have a difficult relationship with my Mom.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

Yeah. This one.

[Mystic Michaela]

Too close to home.

[Scotty]

Too close to home.

[Mystic Michaela]

Okay.

[Scotty]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

This is what I think. First of all, I have to give a pep talk here to Nicole.

[Scotty]

Okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

You don't need reasons ever. Like, if you don't, though, Nicole's indigo. And I feel like with Nicole, you know, if it's taking away from your mothering, then it's not happening for you. Like, then you have to go. Minimal contact. I just need to give her, like, because your kid is sick, your kid needs you, and your kid needs a full version of you. And if your mom's taking away from that or if anybody's taking away from that, they can't be around right now. Sorry. Because your number one priority is to your daughter and the rest of your family, you know, your other child and your husband, and that's it. So I just need to give her a little indigo pep talk because it's really, really hard, because her mom is probably needing that nurturing for herself in life and is triggered that her daughter and her granddaughter, because she says her granddaughter favors her mom over her grandma. It's okay. That's her mother. You know, normal moms are okay with that, right? Okay. By the way, your job isn't to make your mom feel nurtured, and your kid's job isn't to make your mom feel feel nurtured. But that's really hard to understand when you've had a mom that has gone through so much trauma and is so in need of her family to fill a hole that she never filled herself. And that's not your job. But when you're indigo, you can feel that in your mom. You can feel the wound. You can feel that little broken girl in there. When I look at mom, I do see that little broken purple girl. I mean, I feel. I get it. Like, I feel terrible for this woman. I mean, she just. She wants to be necessary, you know, she wants to be needed. She wants to be seen. She wants to be validated. Unfortunately, I feel like, as a coping mechanism, it was the people around her who were, you know, gonna be the ones to do that instead of her doing it for herself. And, you know, and I. And mom's very victim blue, so there's just. Anything that goes on is gonna be about her. So, I mean, your kid has leukemia. You know, it's not about you.

[Scotty]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

You know, it makes everyone sad. But I can see with somebody who's so victim blue, like mom here, it's possible that she's like, oh, my God, it's Taking away from me or I need to do more, or how am I necessary? Or how. Where's my role? Like, she could be spiraling because it's not about her. When in the past, it was like, she could call more shots, and she was, like, the center of attention in terms of, look, I made dinner for everybody, or look, I had Christmas, or, look, I did this. So, like, the center of attention has been moved. And also, on paper, everyone who's normal in mom's life is going to be like, oh, my gosh, your granddaughter. Well, of course you have to do what you know you got to do. Your daughter says whatever. Your daughter says whatever they want. So everybody else is going to go against her victim blue narrative a lot. So she's probably, like, turning to the family, like your sisters, to isolate you and make you feel like the crazy person. Because, remember, your sisters are just also trying to get mom's love. So they're like, oh, well, the finger's not pointed at me. Hey, you better talk to her. You know, you can make it better with mom, you know, because they're not gonna sacrifice their relationship with mom because they still have their mommy issues, too. So anyway, so it's a lot of victim blue and an indigo kid dealing with their victim blue mom. And, like, when you strip down all the crap, it's just people who want love. That's it. Like, when you just. It's not, like, horrible, sick, twisted, nasty people. It's just. It's amazing how we can create these narratives and make people suffer just because we never, you know, sought out therapy or some sort of help for ourselves. In mom's case, that's what happened. And anyways.

[Scotty]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

So I hope that makes sense.

[Scotty]

No, that makes sense.

[Mystic Michaela]

But when she hears that and gets that she needs. I know she already knows this because she's doing. Already did it. But it's okay that you're minimal contact right now because you got to be there for your kid.

[Scotty]

Okay. I think that's great. Fantastic advice.

[Mystic Michaela]

Poor baby.

[Scotty]

All right, last one here is Tia. I'll read this one. Okay. And do we have a picture of Tia before we start? Sure, if. We'll get her colors in a second. All right. I have a challenging relationship with my dad. I love him, but it's hard for me to get along with him. And he hasn't been very nice in the past. When we go somewhere and socialize with people or with his family, he acts all nice and friendly, but towards myself, my sisters, and my mom, he can be a jerk. And controlling, often complains if the house is a mess or if things don't go his way. He has been there for me when I need a ride somewhere or if I need help with my homework, but I can never know what kind of mood he's in. All right. Tia says she is purple, green and turquoise. Purple, turquoise, Like a greenquoise maybe.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. Purple, green, purple, green koi.

[Scotty]

Okay. I suspect he's a Christmas tree guy and maybe he's a chameleon.

[Mystic Michaela]

Okay.

[Scotty]

All right. And we do have a picture of. We'll call him dad.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

All right. Dad is. What is dad's colors?

[Mystic Michaela]

So dad, I just see very green.

[Scotty]

Very green and blue.

[Mystic Michaela]

And this guy, this one's kind of easy for me.

[Scotty]

Okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

Just because he's just like a child, man. I don't know what else to say.

[Scotty]

Okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

It's like your dad is like an 8 year old boy who somehow, you know, obviously he's older now, but he's still got like, to me, like the mindset of I want it done this way. And he figured out how to make a life and choose people. You know, he chose a wife and other people that deal with his crap and he programmed you to deal with it and now you're not. You know, and now you're like, actually no, you know, grow up, child dad. You know, like, like grow past 8 years old inside of yourself. Like, not everybody's going to do everything. Bend over backwards to. To make sure you're happy and you don't have a flipping temper tantrum. So to me, and that's like a vibe I get from his energy. He's very green and I feel like if he thinks something's funny, it's funny. And I can see like if he wants to do something, that's what we're doing. And if he doesn't like how something is, which always to me it feels like he's very detail oriented. Like who do like he can have like a temper tantrum, like a child like that. Like you use the wrong type of pasta or like little things like a kid would do. And what would he needs like a mother in a lot of ways to be like, say sorry, go into your room until you come back and say it nicer.

[Scotty]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

Like he needs somebody to kind of mother him or parent him. And. And I think because Tia being the lovely green koi, she is, plus the purple, you know, she's seeing this in him, right? And now she.

[Scotty]

Yeah. And she's thinking he's chameleon because. And I'LL say. We'll answer that question in a second. Is he chameleon green? Because she's saying in public, he's all friendly, putting on the act. And then when they're in private, he's mean to them and controlling. So would that be chameleon or no?

[Mystic Michaela]

I mean, I don't see that on him. To me, I think he's just aware. And that means that he's aware of his actions.

[Scotty]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

Like, if he was a jerk outside the house, too, it'd be like, well, Dad's just a jerk. That's just him, and that's his personality. But the fact that he's changing, it makes it worse. It means that he's saving it all up. You know, like when kids go to school and they're all good, and then they come home and they're like a jerk to you.

[Scotty]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

And then, like, you talk to the teacher, you're like, oh, is my kid good there? Oh, they're so great. They're so polite. They're so kind. And then they come home and you're like, wow. Like, holy crap. Really? At least they're good at school, you know? Like that. That's what dad feels like to me. I feel like he's just chosen people in his immediate life to put up with his stuff and keep his green regimen going.

[Scotty]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

So that he doesn't have to change up anything and he can stay in his little green blue box.

[Scotty]

I mean, that must drive Tia insane.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yes.

[Scotty]

When they're all in public and he's like, great. And everyone. Everyone's, like, looking at him like, oh, he's the best dad. He's so funny. Tell him his dad jokes. He's so. And then he, you know, you get in the car or whatever, he's just, like, nasty. Is that kind of like, what?

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. And looking at Tia, like, she looks so. Like, the purple green coins is. They crack. Like, you can't. How do I. Purple green coins are such a.

[Scotty]

A vibe. Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

Because they can do it all. They can, like, outlogic you. They can reflect and mirror you and pick up all your crap, you don't want to know and say it back to you. And they're purple, so they can really push a button. And I can see with Tia, like, she's probably used to be more scared of being a bit of a scapegoat, but maybe not so much anymore. So she might be, like, trying to just have these conversations with him or trigger him a little bit or talk to mom or whatever. And I Can see her. Also, I get what she's trying to say. Like, he's there if I need a ride or to help with my homework. That's the green to the green. That's green to green stuff. It's like, okay. He shows his love in actions. I think he's just. To simplify it, he just feels like a man. Boy is what he feels like to me.

[Scotty]

Well, there's a lot of fun, but I've also been having problems with difficult. We'll call them beings.

[Mystic Michaela]

Okay.

[Scotty]

And there's three of them in my life that I'm finding very difficult.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

We'll name them Dusty Binks. And we'll just call the other one New New Cat.

[Mystic Michaela]

Because Cleo.

[Scotty]

New Cat. Well, you know, remember, we're coming up with names today.

[Mystic Michaela]

Oh, right.

[Scotty]

So those are the three difficult things that I'm dealing with.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

In my life. Yeah. The cats. So what. What you recommend as a red? Dealing with Banks.

[Mystic Michaela]

Who's our.

[Scotty]

Pink. Purple. Yeah. Dusty, who is our. What do we say he was?

[Mystic Michaela]

Green, Turquoise. Green.

[Scotty]

Turquoise. Green. Blue. And the new cat. I don't even know if she has a color.

[Mystic Michaela]

I would say she's like, purple. Yellow. Yeah.

[Scotty]

Yeah. Oh, yeah, she's definitely yellow. Yeah. She's definitely very. Yeah. Very clean. Very, very yellow. Very yellow. Yeah. I agree with that. So how do you. What's your advice for me?

[Mystic Michaela]

That, you know, we. You know, I. You mumble to yourself. You call them freeloaders.

[Scotty]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

You know, especially if they're sitting and lounging and living their kiddie lives or you complain about them just being here. I don't know what to tell you. You know, I guess you were just. You're just out of control. And that bothers your red.

[Scotty]

Yeah. Yeah, that's probably what it is.

[Mystic Michaela]

All right. We want to know if this is an episode you like.

[Scotty]

Yeah, it was a lot of fun.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scotty]

I'm truly. You know, I hope people are as fascinated by it as I am. When you read these people just from pictures and get all this information from pictures, and of course, you're putting yourself out there, because who knows, you know, you. Is it right or wrong?

[Mystic Michaela]

Right.

[Scotty]

Yeah. So I really. To me, it's just incredible. I hope everyone else feels that way. I mean, I'm biased, but to me, it's just. To me, it's amazing.

[Mystic Michaela]

Well, I think it's a different perspective in which to have a discussion. A lot of us have difficult relationships. When you kind of talk about an aura color, maybe it can help provide a little insight or direction or perspective.

[Scotty]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

But if you like this kind of.

[Scotty]

Episode, we'd love to do more.

[Mystic Michaela]

I'd love to do more of these. These are fun. And you can keep it's on a featured tab on the Facebook page. You can keep adding to it and feel free to give each other advice or help each other out. You know, if you're open to that in the thread, because it's MMSF gives the best advice. And remember, it's never your fault.

[Scotty]

Right? Every single member, especially Amanda, was 100% correct.

[Mystic Michaela]

We're all correct.

[Scotty]

All correct. Everyone was correct.

[Mystic Michaela]

So funny. All right, this podcast is for you and about you, and we're so glad you spent some time with us today.

[Scotty]

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