EP284: Decoding Difficult Auras, How to Navigate Challenging People in Your Life

Summary

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Episode Summary: EP284 – Decoding Difficult Auras: How to Navigate Challenging People in Your Life

Podcast: Know Your Aura with Mystic Michaela | Host: Mystic Michaela | Guest: Scott | Wave Podcast Network | Air Date: June 19, 2025

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Overview

In this episode, Mystic Michaela and her co-host Scott take a deep dive into the spiritual nuances of interacting with “difficult” people, viewed through the prism of aura color personalities. Using listener-submitted stories and real-life energy readings, Michaela reveals how to identify challenging energies, discern your own response patterns, and set energetic boundaries for healthier relationships. The discussion tackles classic “difficult” roles—from controlling moms to toxic bosses—and explains them with compassion and humor, making this a relatable guide for navigating sticky personal and work situations.

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Main Themes & Purpose

• Understanding the spiritual underpinnings of "difficult" or “different” people by decoding their aura colors.
• Insight into how your aura and someone else's affect your interactions, relationships, and communication styles.
• Real-life listener stories with live aura readings that unpack complex emotional dynamics.
• Practical strategies to set boundaries and energetically protect yourself.
• Validation for listeners who deal with challenging personalities—emphasizing it's often “their energy, not your fault.”
• A mix of relatable humor, personal anecdotes, and direct emotional support from both hosts.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Aura Colors & Pre-Trip Stress (00:06–10:00)

• Michaela and Scott discuss pre-travel anxieties, illustrating how aura colors can “shift” in stressful moments.
• Scott: Claims he feels “a little yellow” due to detailed trip planning.
• Michaela: Notices both take on inauthentic yellow traits (rigid organization, overpreparation) before travel, highlighting how aura colors can morph when under pressure.

Quote:
"That's where I'm not purple. Like, before I leave for vacation, I always have to clean the house because I cannot handle walking into messy, gross house… Everything yellow."
— Mystic Michaela (08:00)

Key Insight:

Even “easygoing” aura personalities can display controlling or high-strung behaviors when pressured by life events, leading their energy to temporarily change.

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2. Listener Stories: Decoding Difficult Relationships (11:42–50:47)

A. Difficult Mothers & Generational Wounds (Camille’s Story)

• Camille, an Indigo Purple, wrestles with her emotionally unpredictable, manipulative "victim blue" mother.
• Michaela identifies the mom as having a strong, dominant, and manipulative purple aura skewed by jealousy.
• The dynamic: Mom tries to use emotional tactics to retain control over Camille and her husband, often playing the victim but also wielding anger.

Quote:
"Her triggers are so intense that it completely fractured her perception of my now husband. She feels he is taking me away from her and taking her money… I can see her now as a small, wounded child who did not get her needs met… I'm on a serious mission to break my family's generational mother wound."
— Camille (Listener, read by Michaela at 12:51)

"Honestly, in this picture, your Indigo is really big, but you definitely take a step back energetically when your mom's around. It is kind of like, I'll dim my light so you can be more special."
— Mystic Michaela (16:20)

Takeaway:

When dealing with a manipulative “energy vampire,” acknowledge but do not excuse past trauma. Protective boundaries and validation of your own reality are essential.

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B. Fading Friendships & Indigo Auras (Brianna’s Story)

• Brianna, a confirmed Purple Indigo, shares the pain of a close friendship inexplicably dissolving after her efforts were not reciprocated.
• Both parties likely have Indigo energy; Michaela explains that indigos may unintentionally “ghost” or emotionally turtle as a response to overwhelm.
• Communication avoids confrontation out of fear of causing feelings or being “too much.”

Quote:
"It could be a lot of indigoing going on here… It's kind of like two turtles being friends—one pops their head out and the other one goes in."
— Mystic Michaela (27:24)

Takeaway:

Indigo auras can struggle to maintain consistent friendships due to their introverted, deeply feeling, and sometimes avoidant natures. It’s rarely personal—just a mismatch in energetic rhythm.

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C. Toxic Mother-in-Law & Energetic Protection (Tatiana’s Story)

• Tatiana, yellow-blue-purple tricolor, faces a controlling, narcissistic mother-in-law with “dark, wackadoo purple energy… attached to darkness.”
• The mother-in-law uses trauma as a manipulation card, imposes her will (especially surrounding religion and childrearing), and attempts to gaslight Tatiana about her son’s autism.
• Michaela warns that some aura combinations can have deeply negative energetic impact (“energy attachments” that feel like spiritual sickness).

Quote:
"This lady has some wackadoo purple energy that's really dark and feels attached to darkness… This is the type of person that can really send out negative energy and it can manifest in illness or sickness..."
— Mystic Michaela (36:05)

Advice:
Energetic boundaries are not just psychological—spiritual cleansing (sage, salt, etc.) and limited contact are valid and sometimes necessary.

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D. Workplace Dynamics: The Bad Boss (Morgan’s Story)

• Morgan (yellow, green, turquoise) is undermined by a new boss (purple-blue, inauthentic yellow) who refuses to guide or acknowledge her.
• Michaela explains the boss's behavior as deep insecurity masked by managerial avoidance.
• Morgan’s turquoise energy acts as a healing “mirror” that unconsciously triggers the boss's sense of inadequacy.

Quote:
"There's nothing worse than somebody who tries to manage or be in charge when they're super insecure about it and cannot admit it.... Just admit it!"
— Mystic Michaela (47:12)

Advice:
Don’t try to heal someone who won’t acknowledge their weakness. Find solutions independently and minimize entanglement in their insecurities.

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3. Energetic Patterns & Emotional Validation

• Emotional patterns (people-pleasing, “turtling,” over-functioning) are deeply mapped to aura colors.
• Setting spiritual and practical boundaries is not selfish—it's essential self-care.
• Many listeners struggle with “energy vampires,” manipulative blue or purple auras, and toxic family ties. The show offers validation and practical ways to reclaim energy.

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On Changing Auras Under Stress:
  “I guess our auras become a little different the day before a trip.” — Scott (09:51)

• On Using Trauma as a Manipulation Card:
  “We have to watch giving excuses to people because they're traumatized inside.” — Mystic Michaela (32:19)

• On Energetic Protection:
  “After you leave my house, like I'm doing all the things… I'm pulling out my Catholic stuff. I'm going all in.” — Mystic Michaela (38:27)

• On Indigo Friend Pairings:
  “It's kind of like two turtles being friends. Like, when you see two turtles, it's like one pops their head out, one goes back in.” — Mystic Michaela (27:24)

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Timestamps for Key Segments

• 00:06–10:00: Pre-trip Aura Shifts & Stress Patterns
• 11:42–21:20: Camille’s Mother: Generational Trauma & Victim Energy
• 23:07–29:08: Brianna’s Friendship: Indigo-Style Disconnection
• 31:08–42:21: Tatiana’s Toxic Mother-in-Law: Energetic Danger Zones
• 43:11–50:47: Morgan’s Bad Boss: Turquoise Triggers Inauthentic Yellow
• Throughout: Relatable anecdotes and energetic advice

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Tone & Style

• Compassionate, validating, and sometimes humorous.
• Direct with emotional truths; blends spiritual, practical, and real-world wisdom.
• Encourages listeners to self-reflect but not self-blame—“it’s often their energy, not your responsibility to fix it.”
• Lighthearted rapport between Michaela and Scott provides comic relief amid serious discussions.

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For Listeners (Who Haven't Heard the Episode)

This episode will help you:

• Recognize how aura colors may explain "difficult" personalities in your life.
• Feel validated if you’re managing tough family or workplace energy.
• Learn spiritual and practical tools for energetic boundaries.
• Reflect on your own patterns in relationships and why you react as you do.
• Laugh, nod, and maybe see your own story in the lived examples Michaela and Scott explore.

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For more: Take the aura quiz here and join the Mystic Michaela Spiritual Family Facebook group for support and community stories.

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Transcript

[Scott]

Foreign.

[Mystic Michaela]

Michaela spiritual family. Welcome to know your aura with mystic Michaela. Today we are talking about the energy behind the attitude. What is it like dealing with difficult people in aura color? How can your aura and their aura make a difference in how you communicate? We're going to be looking at listeners own difficult people problems, and we're going to aura read them and talk about it. But first. Hey, Scotty.

[Scott]

Hey, guys. All right, well, before we get into that, speaking of difficult auras, or maybe we call them different auras.

[Mystic Michaela]

I like that.

[Scott]

Not difficult, but different.

[Mystic Michaela]

Different.

[Scott]

So we are getting. This is the day before we are leaving on a trip for going out west, hitting Yellowstone, which you haven't done. When was the last time we were in Yellowstone? 20. Yeah, 20 years ago.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yes.

[Scott]

So very excited. I always wanted to take the kids to Yellowstone. I've been saying this for years.

[Mystic Michaela]

You have.

[Scott]

Once they get of age, I'm taking them.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yes.

[Scott]

Going to Yellowstone. Grand Tetons, which you gave us a little history lesson of the name of which we did not know, but you could just picture it. Grand Tetons. Okay. That is true. Mystic Michaela, the historian has told us that's true.

[Mystic Michaela]

This is a language thing.

[Scott]

Yeah. And then hitting Rocky Mountain National Park. So we're going out with us. But anyway, the day before the trip are. I think our auras shift a little.

[Mystic Michaela]

They do.

[Scott]

We won't call them difficult.

[Mystic Michaela]

No.

[Scott]

But they're different. Yes, you are. You want to go?

[Mystic Michaela]

Oh, oh, you want to go?

[Scott]

You want to go? I got a list.

[Mystic Michaela]

You have a list?

[Scott]

I got a list because I think I become a little yellow. I know you say I never have any other color in my aura, but if I did at this moment in time, I would say I do have a little yellow.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

Because I do plan the trip.

[Mystic Michaela]

You do?

[Scott]

All the hotels, the bookings, the airline tickets, everything. I plan all that.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yes.

[Scott]

And maybe I just have this. A little yellow in me.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yes. Today when we had to check in for our flight. Yeah. 24 hours in advance. We had to check in for Southwest. You had two computers up and both our cell phones ready. And you were like, hover the mouse over. Click and hover your finger over and on one. Do it now. Execute check in.

[Scott]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

And I was like, okay, okay.

[Scott]

Because you got to do it right at that moment so you could save the $10 per ticket for that. Check it in early.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

So.

[Mystic Michaela]

And then we had a question. This is a question we both had as we were doing this. We were like, what do yellows Actually, do. Do they just pay for the pre. Board? What do they do?

[Scott]

Well, okay, so this is. I don't know if anyone's flown southwest, but southwest, you get 24 hours. You got to book it in and you know, you get your. You don't get a seat in until 24 hours advance.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

So if you're on Southwest, what do you do? Well, they do. This is what I think. I think. Yeah. Cause like, we were pretty quick today, but there's some people that beat me. There were a few people Abby's ticket got real good number.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

She was beating, so we're just using hers. But I would say all the yellows are on top of it. The greens probably have some technology thing that they don't even have to be there. It just happens for them. Yeah, that's what I would think. Maybe the purples are the people you see board the plane last. They're D. They're D and C. D and E. Yeah, they're the back. They are trying to find that seat. They're getting the middle seat there.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

Yeah. They don't know how this happened to them, but it's happened to them.

[Mystic Michaela]

So I would say they're like, why? To get bumped. What?

[Scott]

Yeah, so that's how I would say it. That's how I say it would go. I don't know.

[Mystic Michaela]

I don't know. It's a question we had.

[Scott]

Yeah, it's interesting. It is, but okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah, you're a little yellow.

[Scott]

A little yellow, right. I did that and like, you know, all the, all the planning, I'm gonna make sure, you know, I had to check to make sure all the hotels reservations are good. Airbnb, you check all.

[Mystic Michaela]

You're big on reviews.

[Scott]

Yeah, I checked everything.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

So, yeah, I guess I'm a little more yellow today, but for you, you're, I think, inauthentic.

[Mystic Michaela]

Inauthentic yellow. You're more natural yellow, I guess. Yeah.

[Scott]

Because, like, I mean, because you may just get those passports. Let's start with that made us get the passports. And I, you know, my whole thing why I didn't want to get them, go through the whole struggle of getting them is because I don't think we're going to use them.

[Mystic Michaela]

Right.

[Scott]

So you told me, like, we're going to use the passports on this trip.

[Mystic Michaela]

I'm like, why should I bring all our passports?

[Scott]

And I'm like, why? We're. We're going to Denver. There's no need to bring a passport.

[Mystic Michaela]

Well, now, I don't know. Because I got them. I don't know. Because now I'm like, usually the miners don't need I ID to like fly. But now that I have passports, I'm like, but do they, like. And I'm scared to leave the house without the passports now that I have them. Well, we have the weird. I'm very attached to my passports. Like, I worked so hard for them.

[Scott]

I mean, I mean, I guess we could bring. Could you use them instead of the light instead of a license?

[Mystic Michaela]

I guess, yeah. But then I'd be afraid not to have my license. Well, I'll have to have both. And then I'd be afraid of, like carrying them because what if I left them somewhere? I mean, this is. The passwords have become a stress I feel for me personally.

[Scott]

We've never done it with the passport.

[Mystic Michaela]

No.

[Scott]

And we're only going to Denver.

[Mystic Michaela]

Right.

[Scott]

It's like a three hour flight. I think we're good.

[Mystic Michaela]

We don't need the passport.

[Scott]

Yeah. So that's true. Yeah. We still don't need the passport.

[Mystic Michaela]

And I don't think we are going.

[Scott]

To need the passport. But maybe we will one day. All right. So I would say that for you.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. You were like, well, this is another weirdly thing that you do. I saw you just organizing your closet. Like you took out everything. You were refolding it. I'm like, what are you doing?

[Scott]

Well, no, no, see that. That's because I have to see what I'm going to take. My closet was messy.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

And I didn't know what shirts were where, so I had to re, you know, fold everything.

[Mystic Michaela]

I'm not saying there's not a reason. I'm just saying that I saw you on the floor of your closet, like sitting there all crisscross applesauce, folding everything. And that's not a sight I'm used to seeing.

[Scott]

Yeah. Because I kind of wait till like a trip. Because, see, because I have to fill my suitcase.

[Mystic Michaela]

Right.

[Scott]

And I don't. I have to see what I'm bringing. Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

The deeper striations of the T shirts.

[Scott]

Right. Because like, I had like a buffalo long sleeve shirt.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

And I like, oh, I have that. It was like in the back tucked away. No, I forgot I had it. Yeah, I forgot I had it. So what I do is I reorganize the entire closet of all the shirts and pants, whatever, shorts and everything. Then I can see what I have. And then I'm like, oh, yeah, I can bring that. You know, so that's why I do that.

[Mystic Michaela]

All Right.

[Scott]

I don't know. Maybe that's a little off. Well, what about you and the cats?

[Mystic Michaela]

I get very stressed about leaving the cats, even though I have. They are in very good care with my across the street neighbor who loves them. I miss them and I worry that they're going to be miss me and they're not going to have their roots. They have a daily routine that's very paid attention to by me.

[Scott]

This is true. And I'm going to tell you. I just got back from Publix and I had to buy one item for the cat for an 89 cent can of food. Now.

[Mystic Michaela]

Well, just in case.

[Scott]

Yeah. Because we got the smalls, we got the litter and I got all these things already, you know, I already checked off litter. I got it. What's the other thing? The one bag of weird food for one of the cats with the urinary tract problem. Check.

[Mystic Michaela]

Got blue bag, their prescription, blue bag, food. Right.

[Scott]

Had everything, treat checked. Okay. But then there was one. You're like. And I'm like. You're like, scott, I'm like, what? What? And I, I like there was one. One can missing.

[Mystic Michaela]

It's so hard to go away when you have animals because you, you lay there on vacation and you're just laying there at night and then you're just like looking up at the moon. And you know they're looking at the moon too, you know, and you're just like, I'm sorry I left you. And they don't understand. I feel so bad.

[Scott]

And who knows what they do to each other when we're gone.

[Mystic Michaela]

Oh my God.

[Scott]

Like they do things to each other.

[Mystic Michaela]

Okay. I don't know what they do.

[Scott]

Unspeakable things.

[Mystic Michaela]

But I mean, we are. I love going on vacations and I'm happy that we're going, but the person I am the day before is really stressful.

[Scott]

Well, the other thing for you, I don't know if you had one more for me, but I got one more for you.

[Mystic Michaela]

Okay.

[Scott]

This house is spotless.

[Mystic Michaela]

Oh, yes.

[Scott]

Clean as a whistle.

[Mystic Michaela]

Thank you. That's where I'm not purple. Like, before I leave for vacation, I always have to clean the house because I cannot handle walking into messy, gross house. I just can't handle it. And I need to walk in. It needs to be clean.

[Scott]

Yeah. I mean, so that. Yeah. You do all the laundry. You do everything. Yeah, all the. Everything's done.

[Mystic Michaela]

Everything yellow.

[Scott]

That's inauthentic.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yellow. That's why I'm all like stressed.

[Scott]

That's why You're.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah, yeah. This isn't fun for me. This is just something I'm compelled to do.

[Scott]

All right.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

Anything for me or we're good?

[Mystic Michaela]

Well, yeah. No, you're good.

[Scott]

I'm pretty good.

[Mystic Michaela]

I think you're pretty good. You're good. I think, like, my only thing is before we ever go on vacation, like, I think sometimes you act like we're moving or something. Well, you're like. You pay the bills before we go, which is good because we gone for a little bit. But then sometimes you also. I see you on the phone and you're, like, renegotiating, like, an interest rate or you're, like, changing something, like, fundamental. I don't know, you're making doctor's appointments or something. Like, you get. You get really into the scheduling, like, deep into it.

[Scott]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

Which is fine.

[Scott]

Like I said, is there any yellow in my aura right now that never comes in?

[Mystic Michaela]

I think we both just want. When we go away, we just don't want to think about it.

[Scott]

Yeah, Well, I think that's what it is.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. Right.

[Scott]

So I. What I am doing, and you're right. I do like, these weird projects before, like, I just resided.

[Mystic Michaela]

Oh, my God.

[Scott]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

You just decided to reside the entire front lawn.

[Scott]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

I don't know who's going to water it.

[Scott]

Well, this is the rainy season. I'm hoping we get some rain. No rain that much. Yeah, please rain. Please rain. But, yeah, I think that's what it is. Like, I try to get. I try to think of everything so that gets done, like, in that. Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

So we can stay present.

[Scott]

Yeah, so you can say present. Everything's done. Yes, so everything's checked off, which is really yellow.

[Mystic Michaela]

I guess maybe we're yellow. And I'm just. We're just. That's just who we are.

[Scott]

All right. So I guess our auras become a little different a little bit day before a trip.

[Mystic Michaela]

All right.

[Scott]

All right. So hopefully some of you could relate.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yes.

[Scott]

Probably not, but. All right. All right. We'll take a quick break. We're gonna come back with. You are difficult or us.

[Mystic Michaela]

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[Scott]

Hey, guys.

[Mystic Michaela]

So over on the mystic Michaela spiritual family. I've had this thread up for a while, and I've asked members of the Facebook group to put in kind of just a explanation of a difficult relationship they have in their life and if they have a photo to add that to. And we did this episode. This is like a part two kind of, because we did this episode back, episode 275. It was very popular because I think it's really easier to talk about auras when you talk about a specific context in which they're playing out. And I think a lot of people are like, oh, that makes sense to me. So I picked out some of these that felt really relatable and something that I think a lot of us could be like, oh, my gosh. That's happening in my life too.

[Scott]

Okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

Yeah. All right. Before I start, I do want to say two things.

[Mystic Michaela]

Okay, go ahead.

[Scott]

One, I think you should read these because they're a little longer.

[Mystic Michaela]

Okay.

[Scott]

And sometimes I trip up the words Poor Scott. Yeah. Victim blue narrative, difficult people. Number two, I also want to say that the Mystic Michaela spiritual family is always correct.

[Mystic Michaela]

They're always right.

[Scott]

So when we do these. Yes, you're always right.

[Mystic Michaela]

You're always right.

[Scott]

You're always right.

[Mystic Michaela]

We're taking your side.

[Scott]

Always taking your side.

[Mystic Michaela]

I think that's funny. I don't know why. All right, all right, here we go. First one is Camille and Camille girl. Everyone just take a collective breath. Okay, Here we go. Yeah. Difficult person, right? She writes, omg. Definitely my mom and I thought like this was, you know, moms, right? Moms, moms, moms. Okay. I'm a mom. We all have one that we understand. Here we go. My mom, a deeply wounded woman who placed her emotional needs onto her purple blue to go kid. Now full blown indigo purple. That's herself. That's Camille. She's indigo purple. I grew up with a deep rooted fear of her unpredictable outbursts, quick to anger, no resolution or accountability. And thus became the perfect angel who never rocked the boat. Now hardcore people pleaser. Lol. Our relationships have been particularly strained since I started planning my wedding last year with my green blue to go husband. She would cry about not being involved enough. This wasn't the mother daughter experience she always dreamed of. Even worse, literally said that I was not the perfect daughter she wanted. On top of that, she has unprocessed huge triggers around men and money. And she has been through a lot. Her triggers are so intense that it completely fractured her perception of my now husband. She feels he is taking me away from her and taking her money. We have been together for five years. So she knew him well, always loved him. So we did a prenup. She was still not pleased. The wedding day came and she could not have been more obviously unhappy. It was the most selfish display of her energy. Normally, I would have been fawning for her to be happy with me, but I. On this day, I knew she was in the wrong. It should have been my day, my moment, and for one, she should have focused on my emotional needs. She is an energy vampire, and I believe she is a victim blue. Having done a lot of healing and reparenting for myself, I can see her now as a small, wounded child who did not get her needs met, never learned how to regulate her emotions, and never process her trauma. I'm on a serious mission to break my family's generational mother wound. It is a lot of responsibility, but I feel empowered by spirit that I can be the one to create generational healing.

[Scott]

Wow. So, all right. And this is the picture of Camille. Is that her? The mom?

[Mystic Michaela]

So the mom's in the blue and Camille's obviously in the wedding dress. And that's her husband.

[Scott]

Okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

Okay. So do you want to go for it? Do you want to do. What do you think, Scott? Give us your red blue take.

[Scott]

Oh, gosh. Well, from the picture. I'm just looking at the picture.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

And like, first of all, how much money does his mom have? Like, she. Right. She's claiming that she's unhappy. She made the husband signed A prenup.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

That was the mom that did that.

[Mystic Michaela]

I guess so. Well, had them. Yeah. Meet her daughter, sign a prenup with her husband.

[Scott]

Yeah. I'm not understanding that part.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

But in this. In this picture, she does look very. This is just a cold read.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

Dominant. Yes, she looks very dominant.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

It's like she's, like, right in there.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yep.

[Scott]

And it almost looks like, again, this is just me cold reading this photo like she's the boss.

[Mystic Michaela]

Oh, yeah.

[Scott]

She wants to be the boss. Yeah, she's the boss. I don't know if this guy listens to her a little bit. Like, I mean, maybe he. He might. She might even use him a little bit to get to the daughter.

[Mystic Michaela]

That's interesting.

[Scott]

That's. Again, just cold reading the picture. But she looks like almost. Almost like I thought it was his mom at first.

[Mystic Michaela]

Wow, that's. That's a. That's an interesting psychic tell on that one.

[Scott]

Okay. I mean, he. The couple looks very nice.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

And the mom. Yeah. She does seem like a very tough energy.

[Mystic Michaela]

Well, I've got lots to say.

[Scott]

Okay, let's hear this reading.

[Mystic Michaela]

I got lots to say, and I'm gonna do this. Like, if I were talking to Camille on the phone, it was just me and you. Okay.

[Scott]

And this picture's up in the Mist and Kello spiritual family for everyone to see.

[Mystic Michaela]

So, Camille. Yeah. You're indigo purple. And honestly, in this picture, your indigo is really big, but you definitely take a step back energetically when your mom's around. It is kind of like, I'll dim my light so you can be more special. I'll even let you use my husband to. For your own needs to make you feel more special. And the way. And her husband. And she's, you know, with Camille, she's mothering her mother. Like, this lady had a kid to be her mom. And I feel like Camille has juggled that and juggled that and juggled that, but it's just too much energetically for her now. And I feel like what happened was Camille has gotten this life that the mom wanted. It is really confusing when I pick up jealousy on a moment towards her daughter, but it happens. And it's not something I personally relate to, but it is something I pick up on people sometimes. And she feels very jealous. And not just jealous, just kind of, like, angry at the universe. Like, why didn't I get that? Or I sacrificed everything so you could get that. Now recognize it, you know, instead of just being okay with the way abundance worked out for her daughter and. And seeing like, oh, okay, like, what happened to her is good, means I did good. She just wants a piece of it. The mom has a very purple aura, and she's really intuitive and it's really strong and it's very messy, and it's the kind of purple I'll get when it's. Anything she picks up, she uses for manipulation tactics. So if she knows that you're having a fight with him, or she knows you're having a moment, or she knows you're feeling weak, or she knows you're being quiet, or she knows whatever it is, she'll pick it up immediately, and then using her power as a mother, wield it against you or try to make wedges in your relationship with your husband and stuff like that. So I think you already knew that. So it's just. It's just stuff to understand. When I look at Camille, your husband, he is so sweet. He's like so blue to go. I can see with. And he's green too, so I can see with him and. But the mom knows how to manipulate him.

[Scott]

Yeah, that's what I. That's what I'm saying.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. Mom knows how to manipulate him. Mom knows to be like, oh, well, can you help me with this? I have a. Can you help me? I have this problem. Could you give me. Could you give me advice? And then he's green and he's blue to go. Right? So he likes to be helpful and he gives great advice. So he's like, yeah, X, Y, Z, do, do, do. Oh, oh. Actually, I was thinking more like this. So I feel like she draws him in, hook, line, sinker, and then manipulates him that way. And I think he. He allows this to happen only because he knows, oh, you know, that's Camille's mom and they're close and. And you know, he can kind of look at it from more kind of like a far away perspective. He doesn't get so involved. He's like, that's between them and I'll just be support system for her, whatever. Like that, keep the peace. But it's something that I feel like if the mom's not, you know, because Camille can kind of indigo, I think, a little bit lately, even Indigoist in person. Meaning. Meaning Camille, like, you're there, but you can kind of like gray rocket or get more distant. Mom can pick up on that. And guess who she's going for? She's going for your husband.

[Scott]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

So be careful of that because she'll try to get him now. And I feel like, she's really good with flattery, and she's really good with looking vulnerable. And, like, I need a white knight, you know? Oh, you're my knight on shining armor. Like, I feel her wanting what she has over here, and it's kind of scary a little bit, honestly. Okay, so it's your mother. And listen, I would never say, like, stop a relationship. It's just know what the relationship is. And anyway, so mom's super purple. She also is victim blue, 100%. But honestly, she's red too, so I feel like with her.

[Scott]

So is she a tricolor or one color?

[Mystic Michaela]

I have to see, like, a bunch more pictures of her. In this picture, she's wearing a lot of purple with, like, a red armor around it. And so, like, she will bite your head off. Like, I would not want to get. Yeah, I would not want to get in. Into a tussle with that lady. But she also is victim. It really depends on who she's talking to and how she can best get what she wants out of them. If she has to be mean, she'll be mean. If she wants. If she's a victim, she'll be a victim. But everything's, like, for her own purposes, because, like Camille said, she does feel like a wounded kid, and that's sad for her. But it's hard when you have a mom like this because every other relationship in your life that's a female is, like, reflective of it. And it's really hard to trust other people, other women's intentions towards you when you have a mom like this because you're like, okay, what do you want from me? Okay, what am I. What are you getting out of me? Like, what? It's hard to trust. So I'm sure Camille has dealt with that. So, anyway, so it's not you, it's her. And that is not just because you're mmsf, Right?

[Scott]

But even if it wasn't, right, because you're part of the Mystic Spillager family. You are always correct.

[Mystic Michaela]

But I'm glad she. I'm glad she's doing. I think a lot of us or a lot of people that are drawn to this, you know, space have tough relationships with parents. So I thought it was interesting with the mom.

[Scott]

Oh, yeah. I mean, I definitely. And you both could relate to the mom thing. I mean, I actually. Well, scariest thing, my mom just happened to me only about a half hour ago. She found my Instagram account.

[Mystic Michaela]

She did.

[Scott]

She found your Instagram account. First of all, this signifies two things.

[Mystic Michaela]

Two things.

[Scott]

One, I Think what happened? One thing is I think my parents think I'm nuts because of the video I made when I had the wig on.

[Mystic Michaela]

Oh yeah.

[Scott]

Pretended to be one of the Mormon wives.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

I think someone must have got wind to them.

[Mystic Michaela]

Oh my God, you think so? Yeah.

[Scott]

And they're wanting to know if like.

[Mystic Michaela]

What'S going on over on this?

[Scott]

What is he doing?

[Mystic Michaela]

Insta book.

[Scott]

What is wrong with this? So that's the one thing and then the other thing. This means it's the end of Instagram. So this is. Yeah, it's time for everyone to leave the app.

[Mystic Michaela]

It's gone.

[Scott]

Yep. Once.

[Mystic Michaela]

Once Scott's mom's on, it's over.

[Scott]

My mom has made it to Instagram. You want to get off the app? You know this happened with Facebook, right? Many years ago. People got off it, you know. Yeah. It's like when, if I were to go onto TikTok, maybe then it would be time to get off that app. But I'm not going on there. But anyway. All right.

[Mystic Michaela]

Hey, this is Sarah. Look, I'm standing out front of a.m. p.m. Right now and well, you're sweet and all, but I found something more fulfilling, even kind of cheesy. But I like it. Sure, you met some of my dietary needs, but they've just got it all, so farewell. Oatmeal. So long, you strange soggy. Break up with bland breakfast and taste.

[Scott]

AM PM's bacon, egg and cheese biscuit.

[Mystic Michaela]

Made with cage free eggs, smoked bacon.

[Scott]

And melty cheese on a buttery biscuit. AM P M. Too much.

[Mystic Michaela]

Good stuff.

[Scott]

We have another one.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah, so now this is Brianna. She says woof. Yes, please help me figure this one out. A confusing situation happened with a girl who I had been really close friends with a maid of honor in my wedding. So yeah, I'd say that's close. I had started to feel a little upset because I had felt like I was making all the effort in the relationship. Investing in trips to visit her, reaching out, asking about how she was, etc. I had a breaking point where she visited the city I live in for the first time in years just to cancel most of the plans she had with me. At the time, I thought the resentment was a me problem, so I decided to take a step back and just match her energy since no one was forcing me to put that much in the relationship. So I made peace with the idea if we talk less or saw each other less, that'd be okay. Well, I never heard from her again. And I was so shocked and hurt about it feeling like it confirmed she didn't really want to be friends, that I never reached out in the following years either. In retrospect, I definitely wish I had just had a convo with her about at the time and that I was having a hard time seeing through my pain and hurt feelings. I'm confirmed. Purple Indigo. I wonder if she's Indigo too. And she indigoed me and then I did that to her. I tried to reach out just to clear the air recently and she said she wasn't interested in talking about it. So any insights about what happened would be so helpful, especially since we will likely run into each other via a mutual friend. So awkward. This is a pic of one of the last times we hung out. Thank you. Okay, what do you think?

[Scott]

Well, first of all, like I said, Ms. McKay's family. Correct. Her name spelled the right way. Brianna, one of my favorite names. So she's right.

[Mystic Michaela]

So you're just right.

[Scott]

You're right. You spelled Brianna the correct way.

[Mystic Michaela]

Right.

[Scott]

That's the way we spell our Brianna.

[Mystic Michaela]

You're in the family, so we take your side.

[Scott]

Yeah, I mean, I would. Yeah. From looking at the picture, I would definitely say that girl is Indigo the friend.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

Am I right on that?

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. She looks Indigo.

[Scott]

Yeah, she looks real indigo too. Yeah. So it could be a lot of indigoing going on here.

[Mystic Michaela]

I think so.

[Scott]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. So, you know, and I picked this one because I as an Indigo myself, but one who's matured. I feel like I used to do this to people. Honestly, like, I feel like I used to be like, oh, oops, like, I forgot to call. I forgot to make friends. I forgot to put in effort, like, really just. And then over time, like, the space gets so big you don't know how to come back to it. But now as I've matured as an Indigo, I'll just tell people like, oh, sorry, you know, I spaced out for a while. I'm here, you know, or just reach out three times. I promise I'll get you eventually. So it's annoying when you're Indigo. And I think when we're all Indigo's and we just hear that story, we're all like, ooh, that's me. I've done that. So. But looking at her friend, I feel like with her, you know, she feels to me like very overwhelmed by friendships that require effort. And when you're not in the same city or, you know, maybe I think just looking at Brianna, she's an exciting friend, you know, she's like, let's do this, let's do that. Let's have fun. I'm purple, you know, like that, and I'm Indigo, but I'm purple, you know? So she's like, let's do this. Let's have a plan. And I'm sure Brianna is also the type of person that's like, let's sit at home, and I'll come to your house. Let's just watch a movie, like, whatever, you know, I feel like this girl, just looking at her, she's really bad at effort. Like, she's really somebody who goes into herself, into her work, into her life, and puts up, like, kind of a yellow wall around her a little bit with the indigo, and then just kind of peaced out, and now she doesn't want to confront it. She doesn't want to talk about it. It's hard. You know, in that book, the Four Agreements, they say nothing is personal. It's one of the agreements, and it's true. Nothing is personal because every. Everybody lives reality. It's hard not to take things personal, though, when they happen to you. This feels like one of those things where it's not personal. But at the same time, I think she was just reacting to Brianna's, like, amazing energy and how excited she was to hang out and, let's do this, and let's do that, And I feel like she just kind of was like, I can't, you know, and just. Just retreated into her own self and then refuses to own that. That's what I get. Okay. About it. Yeah.

[Scott]

That makes.

[Mystic Michaela]

I think they just aren't an energy match.

[Scott]

Okay. Maybe just too much indigo. A lot of indigo.

[Mystic Michaela]

It is really hard for Indigos to be friends. Like, we can do it.

[Scott]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

But it's kind of like two turtles being friends. Like, think about it, right? Like, when you see two turtles, it's like one has their head out, pops.

[Scott]

Your head back in.

[Mystic Michaela]

How do you alert the other one? Like, hey, I'm out.

[Scott]

Right?

[Mystic Michaela]

And they're in.

[Scott]

They're in, out, in.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. And then you go in, and then the other one's, like, out, and they're like, oh.

[Scott]

And then, like, one, like, feel it. The feelings. Things can get a lot in the way, too. Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

It's like, did I hurt your feelings? Was I too much? Were you too much? Am I too much? You like that? Do you want to do this? Do you? It's so much effort. That's why usually indigoes tend to be. I'm always friends with yellows because it's like they're like, we're doing this at this time. I'm like, thank God.

[Scott]

Right? Because the other you go, you. You want that Indigo to like to make the decision or the move or whatever or. And they don't.

[Mystic Michaela]

By the way, Brianna seems like the type that would.

[Scott]

Yeah, yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

You know, we saw her.

[Scott]

She came to the.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah, we know Brianna a couple times. She's very friendly and very, like, effusive and very, like, oh, let me do this for you. Let me make the first move, like, all the time. So.

[Scott]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

I think this girl just couldn't handle the energy. She just couldn't handle putting any effort in.

[Scott]

She couldn't handle the purple part.

[Mystic Michaela]

She probably can't handle the purple part and she probably just can't. To me, she just seems like she just zones out, pieces out, turtles out.

[Scott]

Okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

Turtle out. That's what she did. Yeah, she just went into her shell.

[Scott]

Because even in the body language of the first photo, which you could look at, like, she's kind of like behind her on her shoulder, kind of more like a submissive position.

[Mystic Michaela]

Okay, you're doing body language.

[Scott]

Yeah, yeah, I'm just doing kind of cold read. Cold reading? Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. To me, she just feels like she, I don't know, doesn't want to put as much effort into explaining her behavior as other people do. You know, she might not. It's like Indigo when you don't know you're an Indigo. Okay, so. All right. Yeah.

[Scott]

Looks like she graduated from something.

[Mystic Michaela]

Cold read is. She's smart.

[Scott]

She graduated.

[Mystic Michaela]

Like, I love cold reads.

[Scott]

All right, let's take a quick break. We'll do some more.

[Mystic Michaela]

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[Scott]

Hey, guys.

[Mystic Michaela]

Okay, we have a really intense one from Tatiana. You guys ready for this one?

[Scott]

Ready.

[Mystic Michaela]

All right. Hi, mmsf. I am quick Confirmed. Yellow, blue, purple. And I have a very difficult relationship with my mother in law. She's very toxic and I'm not sure of her aura colors, but I feel she's definitely got some victim blue going on in her aura. She did have a difficult death like 30 years ago. Her first husband that she never processed. So I've always kept that in the back of my mind to help myself be compassionate towards her. I'm going to stop everyone right here just for a minute. Just like Mystic Michaela's thought about this because it's. I do it too. It's kind of like seeing the good, you know, so that you can deal with people. It's like, see, you know, oh, this trauma happened to them or, oh, you know, they're this broken inner child. Or oh, whatever, whatever, whatever. Like we get that. But I swear some of these people stick that in their back pocket and just overuse it. They overuse it. All right back, back to it.

[Scott]

I mean, that's a long time to use it. That's three years.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. Like, it's sad and I get it and it sounds of course, but like you should like the people. I read so many people have been through so much crap and they do not use that as some sort of get out of jail free card when it comes to their attitude.

[Scott]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

You know, anyways, just had to add that we have to watch giving excuses to people because they're traumatized inside. Okay. But I get it. So back to Tatiana. She said, I've been with my husband for 11 years now and I have one simple rule. Don't speak about religion and politics because we are polar opposites and I'm very spiritual and she's not a fan of that.

[Scott]

Okay, so the mother in law and her are on two different ends of the political spectrum and religion. Religion, right.

[Mystic Michaela]

The issues have always been that she tries to control my faith, how I vote, and wants my husband to always put her needs above his family. But we have two small children and that's just not something we will allow. My husband and I have gone to therapy over this because it nearly destroyed our marriage and now he's finally setting boundaries with her. But she doesn't back down. We don't see her often, but I can literally feel her energy when she's angry at me. She gets angry because I choose to live my life differently than hers. And her son has started seeing her true colors and he's been healing and no longer makes excuses for her. I did try to help her heal for years, but you can't help someone that doesn't want to heal. I want to say that she will purposely tell my husband and I different things to try to get us to argue. She will try and use our children against us. She tells me what religion I should be and what church to go to, what to eat sometimes and how I should vote. Of course I don't do what she says and I am to the point that we barely speak. But my husband doesn't want to cut her off. I get it, it's his mom. But she's also a narcissist so there's not really a way to have a healthy relationship with her. I can feel that she hates me, but also think it's because I have a life that she always wanted and never had. Instead of joining in on the fun, she tries to control it and bring us down to her low vibration. This has been a long post. She. And then she tells us. So here's a picture that I accidentally took of her when I didn't know she was looking at me and you guys can all look at that in thread she said she didn't even know it was on her phone and then she saw it and it gave her chills and it is a creepy kind of photo. Honestly curious what you all have to say. Also she wants to add that I am raising, we are raising a wonderful six year old autistic son in a very sassy, probably purple three year old daughter and I adore my children but it takes more effort in raising my autistic Son. Because life is more than just dropping him off at school. There's therapies and lots more going on into setting him up for success every day. And she has no interest in learning to understand his needs, but also wants to control how we raise our kids and totally gaslights us constantly with all these outdated and uneducated remarks about autism. And I just don't like having her around my son to heal. Hear all this. I believe that our words hold power. Power and how far our children will go because we are their inner voice when they are little. And I like to focus on building confidence and teaching them how to accommodate his needs so that he can live his best life how he chooses later in life. Wow, Tatiana, you're dealing with a lot, man.

[Scott]

Well, Tatiana said something about how she could feel her energy when she's angry at her. And I'm looking at this photo and I feel like she might be angry at me right now.

[Mystic Michaela]

She's got strong energy.

[Scott]

She's got some energy.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

And she looks like she could look. I mean, just from this photo. Yeah, she looks like she can look through you and see like your insides.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

Like that's how scary this photo is.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. She likes to power.

[Scott]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

She's on a power trip, which makes me nervous to have her around the kids.

[Scott]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

Because people like that love to make others submissive and make others small so they feel big. And kids are perfect for that. You know, they're perfect because they're just moldable and they'll fall into that trap. But Tatiana seems like an amazing mom. So Tatiana gave me a picture of herself.

[Scott]

Okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

And I love Tatiana's energy because immediately she's tricolor, but immediately, like, you see her purple, but there's like this yellow kind of bubble around it. And it's just like, I will be nice and I will be understanding and I will be polite, but you will not mess with me and you definitely will not mess with my children. And this is an energy I feel like her mother in law is trying actively to break and hasn't been able to. Like, Tatiana has this inner light, this. This inner attachment to source. She know she's got a confidence in herself and she shines outward and she does not need other people's approval. And all these things trigger mother in law because mom in law needs others approval. Mom in law lived her whole life feeling kicked by society. So now she's just absorbed that and trying to use societal ideations to kick you and kick your kids. And it's not working because Tatiana Lives outside of those restraints. And right there, that's where the problem is. Like the mom in law can't use the same stuff that she felt oppressed by to go oppress her daughter in law and her son in law. So her son. So when I look at the mom in law's picture, it's hard to tell honestly what color she is. Like, energetically speaking. I don't normally say stuff like this because I'm a pretty normal person, crazy lady psychic. But this lady has some wackadoo purple energy that's really dark and feels attached to darkness. So this is the type of person that can really send out negative energy and it can manifest in illness or sickness or, or like I don't feel good. Or like, you know, something with the kids. Like, well, what happened? You know, it's so weird. Like she was, you know, we were supposed to do this and then, you know, my son got sick or like weird stuff like that. And normally I don't say stuff like that never. But like, this is the type of person, like I'm immediately like knee jerk reaction. Like, do not know me like that. Like, just don't, don't be around me. Do not know me. And, and after you leave my house, like I'm doing also, I'm doing all.

[Scott]

The things, all the sagin, all the.

[Mystic Michaela]

Sage in putting salt around. I'm pulling out my Catholic stuff. I'm going all in. Like, it's just the energy is really strong and pervasive and angry. She also has like an I told you so yellow vibe. But I don't think she is yellow. It's just like there. That just means that, you know, whatever she thinks is real is real and there's no talking to her. And she also has major victim blue, but that feels like she, she knows how to use it. She knows how to. Again, she's kind of like talking about that other mom before she knows how to wield it. You know, they know how to kind of fall back on. But I'm your mother, you know, but I'm their grandmother. It's like they don't care. You know, they just want power. So I feel like with, with her. Not that you need validation, Tatiana, but yeah, like, and I'll. I'll one up you there and say like, even I would even be even more careful. You know, I'm so. I wouldn't blame you if you were just like, I'd see you twice a year, you know, like that. It's just, it's hard and I totally get what she's saying about the kids, because when they're little like that, you're responsible for their vibrations, too, and their energy, too. So it's not just you watching, maybe what they're hearing. It's watching what they're feeling and what they're picking up.

[Scott]

I wonder what colors. She didn't put in a picture of the sun.

[Mystic Michaela]

No, she didn't.

[Scott]

You know, her husband, I mean.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. Or her husband. Yeah, she didn't do that.

[Scott]

Okay. I wonder what colors he'd be.

[Mystic Michaela]

He sounds like he could be green, blue.

[Scott]

Green blue or something. Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

Or blue purple. Or maybe like green blue. He sounds like. Seems like a green blue husband problem sometimes when it's like, until you. Thank God you met me, because now I can tell you that your. Your family's a little wackadoo, you know, which is. I think Tatiana's like, hey, buddy. Like, I'll tell you. I'll get the therapist to tell you. And now all of a sudden, it's like, lights are on, and he's like, holy cow. It's hard to. It's hard when you're in a relationship with somebody and you have to tell them their family's not normal because it's a fairy tale they've been hanging onto for survival. And you're the one saying it's not real.

[Scott]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

So you can. So sometimes they can go after you first because they're like, but I want to believe in the fairy tale. But then they say they sit with it eventually, and they're like, oh, okay. It was all. But then they have to process. Like, was everything fake? Like, was I loved? Like, was I cared for? Like, what? What? I just have been weaving a different folk tale of my life this entire time, and that could be hard to kind of tell a partner. That's what's been happening.

[Scott]

Yeah. Speaking of fairy tale, that mom is like. She reminds me of the. The you, probably. Yeah. Mother. Yeah. From Rapunzel. Rapunzel's mom.

[Mystic Michaela]

Mother knows best.

[Scott]

Yeah. And she just wants to keep. She wants to keep the husband in that little tower. Yeah. Then she, like, goes. You know, just keeps him up in the tower or something.

[Mystic Michaela]

That movie. That's like, mother Godzilla is like the narcissist. Like, any narcissist, you know, like any narcissist mom or mom in law is like, Mother Gothel.

[Scott]

Yeah. I would like to see a match between this mom.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

Camille's mom. Like, that would be.

[Mystic Michaela]

That'd be Camille's mom wins.

[Scott]

Camille's mom Hands down.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah, hands down.

[Scott]

Like, it. Are you talking energetically or you're talking with fists?

[Mystic Michaela]

You would even be on Camille's mom's side for this one.

[Scott]

Okay. No, I mean, who wins an energetic fight and then who wins a physical fight?

[Mystic Michaela]

Oh, no. Energy. I feel like Camille's mom would win it all. All.

[Scott]

Wins it all, Takes it all.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. Like, this mom in law, actually, like, Tatiana is not wrong. Like this one. Not that Camille's mom didn't go through a lot. Like, she definitely feels like men wronged that woman.

[Scott]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

Like, and she's been screwed over, like, for real. Of course. But this one feels just kind of like sad and weak and childlike. And then Camille's mom feels like more like an older kid that can really, like, pop your nose on the playground.

[Scott]

But this one, then. All right, so then Camille's mom wins the fight. Yeah, the energetic fight. We'll say yeah up front. But then this one goes behind the scenes, puts a weird energy spell on it.

[Mystic Michaela]

Like, she's a little sneaky.

[Scott]

Yeah. Camille's mom goes down later.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah, yeah.

[Scott]

Like food poisoning.

[Mystic Michaela]

You kind of like a Mother Gothel scheme.

[Scott]

Yes.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. Like, all of a sudden, like, you know, she does something like a trickster. Yeah, yeah.

[Scott]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

And honestly, between the two, like, if I wanted to deal with one, I'd rather deal with Camille's mom. Be honest, because I think, like, Camille's mom does have it. This is funny. We're, like, pitting the difficult people against each other.

[Scott]

Yeah. Difficult versus difficult.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah. I feel like Camille's mom's the type, like, where, I don't know, like, if there's a drama going on jointly, like, she's got your back. It's just you never want her to lose an outside drama because then she'll go after you.

[Scott]

Okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

But this mom never lets it go. Like, like 30 years.

[Scott]

30 years.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah, she's. She's just, like, it's solely you she's got her sights set on.

[Scott]

Oh, my gosh. All right, next up is Morgan.

[Mystic Michaela]

Oh, we got Morgan. And I thought this was good because it was like, a work one, you know? Okay. I'm only a week in to my new boss, AKA she named her boss Bad Boss. Okay. But, boy, am I struggling. I think even Scotty would go on a red rant for me here. And I'm yellow, green, turquoise. I did write this in his voice because his rant voice cracks me up. So she's writing it in your.

[Scott]

Okay, thank you, Morgan.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yes. Bad Boss was already working for the Organization I'm at.

[Scott]

I can hear it already.

[Mystic Michaela]

I do too. In the same department as me, Accounting. I won't do that for the whole thing.

[Scott]

Okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

But we had little to do with one another. The few times I reached out for help, I got zero help. Then out of the blue, the CFO decides to promote her to Director of Fiscal Services. This sounds so exciting to work there, you guys. For a purple. Not really. Anyways, she has zero leadership management skills. This became evident when she first started. But I've tried to be graceful despite that. I actually think that she just hates me. Probably turquoise related. Probably. When she talks to the whole team and I speak up, she doesn't acknowledge I've spoken. She doesn't even turn her head or body towards me. When I directly ask her questions. I get one word answers when she's told me to do something she knows I don't know how to do. I'm totally new to accounting, but still the accounting manager. She doesn't offer help. She even ignored my email asking for a one on one. I don't put up with mean girl stuff. Well. So I marched myself into her office and asked if she had seen my email. She only replied yes, I saw it. That's it. I then had to ask when was a good time to meet. We have operational processes to review. I want to be sure we are on the same page. I have an MBA with a concentration in leadership. She's doing everything my education told me not to do. Harvard Business Review would lose their minds. I'm trying super hard to be kind and think maybe she's indigo and very introverted. My friend thinks she's an unbalanced and inauthentic yellow. I even looked up the color psychology wheel and wore blue and white all week to help invoke calmness and a feeling of trust. No luck. I've also carried citrine, obsidian and tiger's eye to balance the energy with cedar wood in my office. Diffuser to ground. Also no luck. I'm truly at a loss. Unfortunately, the organization I'm at has a history of putting people in leadership roles when they shouldn't be at all and just leaving them there. Despite all the inefficiencies it cause causes yellow green cringes at this. So I think I'm stuck with her. Please help.

[Scott]

Okay, well, help is here. Definitely turquoise, right? She's Morgan's. Definitely turquoise, right?

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

Yeah. Okay. All right. Well this is what I think.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

This new CFO lady person.

[Mystic Michaela]

Director of Fiscal Services.

[Scott]

Director of Fiscal Services. Whatever that means, okay, she doesn't know.

[Mystic Michaela]

What she's doing now.

[Scott]

She has no clue what she is doing.

[Mystic Michaela]

Right. Which is what Morgan said. Yeah.

[Scott]

Yes. And then what she's doing is putting it on the onus on the other people. Okay, so, like, I witnessed this one time when your dad was trying to teach her sister. I think it was ninth grade, maybe ninth grade math or eighth grade math. And she was asking him for help.

[Mystic Michaela]

Right.

[Scott]

Your sister was asking your dad for help. And then your dad will say, like, well, you do it first. And she'd give him the problem and say, well, dad, no, I need help. Can you tell me how to do this? He's like, well, you do it. And then, you know, I'll show you. You do it first, though. So he obviously. And I was watching this whole thing play out, and I realized, you know, your dad has no idea how to do these problems, so he was kind of putting it all on to, you know, your sister Emily, his daughter. So I think the same thing's happening here.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yes.

[Scott]

Like, this lady has no idea what she's doing. Yeah, Morgan, you know what you're doing. I mean, of course you know what you're doing. You're mmsf.

[Mystic Michaela]

You can figure it out.

[Scott]

And that's what I think's happening. That's my take.

[Mystic Michaela]

I agree. So looking at bad boss because she has. It's. It's a. It's a crappy little photo, but it's what we got, and it's fine. But in this little crappy photo, this lady looks. Everyone's going to major shock moment. Prepare everyone's jaws to drop.

[Scott]

Okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

She's purple blue, and she's wearing an authentic yellow. So there's nothing worse than somebody who tries to man. And it's just what you said, just in aura color, by the way. It's. There's nothing worse than somebody who tries to manage or be in charge when they're super insecure about it and cannot admit it. Just admit it. Just say, I don't know what I'm doing right now. I'm figuring it out. Let me get back to you. Oh, I just got in here. Let me see what they did. Do you know what they used to do? Let me reach out for help. So much better. When somebody who doesn't know what they're doing just is, like, honest about it, it actually makes you look more secure. Having said that, most people don't know that, so they turn into these, like, insecure, like, kind of catty energies that try to make you Feel crazy instead. And she's projecting a lot of her insecurity onto Morgan. Now here's Morgan's part. Morgan's turquoise. Morgan's turquoise totally knows the bad boss is insecure. So Morgan's turquoise is like, I'm gonna write you an email. I'm gonna ask you a question. I'm gonna ask you a question in front of the whole group. I'm gonna go into your office and ask you another question. I'm gonna show you how insecure you are until you admit it. Because subconsciously, that's what I'm trying to do. So Morgan, you can just picture yourself like a walking full length mirror, and every time bad boss looks in it, she sees how incapable she is of doing this job and how stupid she feels and how her inner child is just like, crying because this is probably like a pattern in her life and that's what's going on. But then the other part is Morgan's also, like, green and yellow. So she's probably like, oh, my God, like this. The inefficiency is stressing her out. That's the other thing.

[Scott]

Okay. You know, so like when. When. When the boss looks at Morgan, which she tries not to do, Right. She's actually. It's a mirror.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

She sees it back.

[Mystic Michaela]

She's trying to ignore you, and she's trying to not look in the mirror.

[Scott]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

But you're like a mirror that follows her.

[Scott]

Right. The mirror is just following her, bringing the crystal.

[Mystic Michaela]

And your turquoise is like, I must heal you. But you know what, Morgan? My advice for you is don't heal her.

[Scott]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

Find answers to your own questions. I know you can because you're smart. You know, don't worry about, like, just let. Let her just. She'll mess up herself and reveal herself to everybody. And if you can, I would just try to, like, circumnavigate her as much as possible. But she's never gonna acknowledge you because then she has to acknowledge that she is very insecure, which is probably something that very hard for her to do. And that's not your job to make her understand that about herself. That does nothing for you, so you just let it go. It's hard when you're at turquoise and you don't know you're trying to heal somebody, but now you do, and you have a choice. You don't have to do that. Does that make sense?

[Scott]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

Total Morgan, you're triggering her.

[Scott]

Yeah, actually. And you know what? This one triggered me the most too, because I didn't really. Yeah. Well, I kind of ranty now. Maybe it's towards the end, so I'm a little more ranty, but, yes, Morgan. Glad you used my voice and channeled me when you wrote this.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah, I like. I like Morgan, though, because I feel like. Like, I don't know, Like, I feel like you could work with Morgan, and she'd be telling you all these things, and you'd be like, yeah, I know, but I don't know, like, this lady bad boss, I think, is gonna fall apart herself.

[Scott]

Yeah. And Morgan came to the event. I don't know, was it last year or the year before? Came to one of the events in Florida.

[Mystic Michaela]

Morgan.

[Scott]

Morgan. Anyway. All right, well, let's wrap it up.

[Mystic Michaela]

Okay.

[Scott]

Little housekeeping.

[Mystic Michaela]

Little Housekeeping.

[Scott]

Very exciting.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yes.

[Scott]

I'm not exactly. When does this come out? I'm not sure of the date, but I think it's right around the D. Yeah. Of your new book, the Book of Signs.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yes.

[Scott]

By mystic Michaela. This is your fourth book with. With Simon and Schuster, and then the cards, of course, but very excited about this one, so cool. Reminds me a little bit of angel numbers book when.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

That. Then you did that. You could again. It might be ready to go when this airs. I can't. I don't know the exact date. I think June 17th.

[Mystic Michaela]

June 17th comes out.

[Scott]

So if you see it or you feel like going on Amazon or Simon Schuster.com or wherever you buy your books.

[Mystic Michaela]

There, it'll be so appreciative for the group.

[Scott]

Yeah.

[Mystic Michaela]

I'm so appreciative for all of you. You're so supportive, and you're so inspirational, and. And I just. I feel compelled to. To put more out there that reaches people and helps them to be empowered in seeing their own signs and understanding what they mean and describing them and taking power and ownership over them. Them. Which is what this book's about.

[Scott]

Okay. Excellent. And then also next month, after we get back from the Grand Tetons.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yes.

[Scott]

Who named it? Was it the French?

[Mystic Michaela]

Yes.

[Scott]

So.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yes. You want my language lesson?

[Scott]

You want to get. You want to be the historian today?

[Mystic Michaela]

You guys are like the Grand Tetons. And everybody kept saying. And I'm like, hey, do you know what Tetons means in French? And then nobody believed me.

[Scott]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

And tetons mean. I don't know how to say it on here without getting Jumanji.

[Scott]

Jumanji. Well, I haven't said Jumanji in a while.

[Mystic Michaela]

They're. They're the French word for women's chest.

[Scott]

Okay.

[Mystic Michaela]

You know, in Case kids are listening.

[Scott]

Right.

[Mystic Michaela]

That's what they mean.

[Scott]

That's why I said.

[Mystic Michaela]

But none of you believe me. None of you believe me until. Until everybody went on, you know, the translate.

[Scott]

Well, like, because it's like, what silly. I'm assuming a man named this.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah, a bunch of French explorers did.

[Scott]

I'm like, what silly guys would be like, they saw the two mountains and.

[Mystic Michaela]

Like Grand Teton, they name them Les. I'm going to say. I'm going to mess up the French. Les trois tans. The three. You know what's.

[Scott]

Oh, there's three.

[Mystic Michaela]

I guess it's like that. That one. Three means.

[Scott]

Was that movie three. Total Recall.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yes, the original.

[Scott]

Original. Yeah. But anyway, we'll get back. We all. We're also doing segue into part two of the aura workshop.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yes. Oh, yeah.

[Scott]

Second time we're running it. There's a few spots left for that. It's just if you want to know the swirls and the shades and textures and translucent and what all the other terms of your aura.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yes.

[Scott]

This is the workshop for you. It's all about you. It's basically what, three. Three pictures three times in your life?

[Mystic Michaela]

Yes. Yes. It's three photos that you'll submit. And we talk about your aura now. Your aura in a relationship and then your aura during a time of transformation. So it's just a major. I mean, this is Aura 2.0. If you really understand the aura stuff, you've read the book or you've taken other workshops and you're like, oh my gosh, I need to understand the nuances of me. This is it.

[Scott]

Yeah. Or listen to every single episode of the podcast.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yeah.

[Scott]

Twice.

[Mystic Michaela]

Right.

[Scott]

Okay. So we got that coming. That's in July.

[Mystic Michaela]

Yes. What else was there? I don't know.

[Scott]

There's probably other stuff, but I forget now.

[Mystic Michaela]

Hanging around.

[Scott]

I gotta go clean out the rest of my closet.

[Mystic Michaela]

You gotta go water that sod.

[Scott]

Yep. Actually, actually, I do have to get some of those seeds off one of the tree before we go.

[Mystic Michaela]

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