Segment: December in Ghana Isn't Real Life - Come Prepared or Go Back When Reality Hits.

Summary

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Episode Summary: December in Ghana Isn't Real Life - Come Prepared or Go Back When Reality Hits

Main Theme / Purpose

This episode of the Konnected Minds Podcast, hosted by Derrick Abaitey, dives deep into the realities of moving to Ghana, especially the contrast between the festive “December in Ghana” atmosphere and everyday life. The discussion addresses the allure that draws members of the diaspora to stay beyond the holidays, the practical and cultural challenges that often drive them to leave, and the myths versus realities about life in Ghana. The episode is rich in firsthand insights, practical advice, and candid anecdotes about integration, planning, and handling expectations.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. The December Allure vs. Everyday Reality

• Ghana’s December Energy: Many visitors are enchanted by Ghana’s vibrant December celebrations—constant parties, social events, and a heightened sense of community (00:00–00:22).
  • Quote: “People come in December, fall in love with Ghana, extend their stay...because they fell in love with December in Ghana, then they stay and then the realities of Ghana kick in.” – Speaker A [00:00]
• Post-Holiday Quiet: After the first two weeks of January, the excitement wanes, revealing the realities of daily life in Ghana. That's when newcomers must face questions about income and sustainability. (00:23–00:37)
• Insight: December is not representative of Ghana year-round. The intensity of festivities subsides quickly, and the reality is much quieter and more demanding.

2. Challenges Facing the Diaspora: Integration, Structures, and Costs

• Lack of Transition Support: Existing structures to help the diaspora settle and thrive in Ghana are lacking (01:02–01:18).
  • Quote: “We fed the emotional craving of the American diaspora, but we did not give them structures.” – Derrick Abaitey [01:02]
• Homeland Return Act: There was an unpassed bill intended to facilitate diaspora moves, residency, and status, but governmental change stalled it. (01:19–01:39)
• Cost Misconceptions: Many perceive Ghana and Africa as “cheap,” only to find the high living costs, especially in housing. (01:39–02:02)
  • Quote: “People…get the wake up call that Ghana is not as cheap as people think it is. Ghana is quite expensive for being in a developing country.” – Speaker A [01:45]
• Rent Challenges: The system requires large upfront payments—often one to three years’ rent—which is both illegal (supposed to be six months) and a huge financial barrier. (02:03–02:45)
  • Quote: “Every day people are breaking the law…asking for a year rent up front.” – Speaker A [02:36]
• Diaspora Housing Preferences: Many want Western comforts, which means gravitating to high-end neighborhoods (East Lagon, Cantonments, etc.), but costs push some further out or even to cities like Cape Coast for affordability. (02:45–03:20)
• Remote Work Advantage: Those able to sustain themselves via remote or flexible work fare better, though Accra remains a hub for business and employment.

3. Motivations and Mindsets: Who Stays, Who Leaves

• Who Comes to Stay: Those motivated by the “Back to Africa” movement—seeking cultural belonging and relief from racial minority status—are more likely to persevere in Ghana. (05:04–05:43)
  • Quote: “They really try to make it work because they want to be in an environment where they’re not the minority.” – Speaker A [05:28]
• Who Goes Back: Visitors who make impulsive decisions based on December’s vibe (rather than careful planning or a real desire for community) are most likely to leave when faced with everyday challenges. (05:44)

4. Reasons For Leaving: Frustrations & Cultural Clashes

• Expectations vs. Reality: Many return because they didn’t plan adequately or couldn’t adapt to Ghana’s systems (05:52–06:15).
• Administrative Hassles: Procedures like business registration are laborious—multiple in-person steps, physical paperwork, and delays, in contrast to quick online processes abroad. (06:16–07:10)
  • Quote: “So it’s like this whole thing of…why do I have…why this? Why that? Can’t you just get it done?” – Speaker A [06:40]
• Infrastructure Woes: Bad roads and frequent car maintenance are persistent headaches, especially since upkeep is expensive and infrastructure lags behind. (07:11–07:49)
  • Quote: “Every day I go home, I feel like I need a massage…because of the journey to get there.” – Speaker A [07:36]
• Cultural Overload: Adjusting to Ghana’s customs—including the habitual use of “please” in conversation—can be unexpectedly irritating for newcomers. (07:50–end)
  • Anecdote: A Jamaican expat became exasperated with Ghanaians’ constant use of “please,” highlighting the sometimes subtle but persistent cultural differences (07:56–08:32).
  • The phrase is a direct linguistic translation from Twi to English, not typical in Western English.

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• “People come in December, fall in love…then they stay and then the realities of Ghana kick in. Because it's not like December all year long.” – Speaker A [00:00]
• “Ghana is quite expensive for being in a developing country.” – Speaker A [01:45]
• “Every day people are breaking the law…asking for a year rent up front.” – Speaker A [02:36]
• “If I want to start a business in Canada, I register online...done within minutes. I went to register a business [in Ghana] and I had to go to the office, physically fill out the form, make my payment, sit there, go from one room to the next...” – Speaker A [06:17]
• “Every day I go home, I feel like I need a massage…because of the journey to get there.” – Speaker A [07:36]
• “He said it was annoying to him because the use of the word please is so much in Ghana.” – Speaker A [07:56; on the culture shock from a Jamaican newcomer]

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Timestamped Key Segments

| Timestamp | Segment Description | |-----------|--------------------| | 00:00–00:22 | The December allure and emotional connection to Ghana | | 01:19–02:45 | Transition challenges: unpassed diaspora-support legislation, cost of living, rent barriers | | 05:04–05:43 | The mindset of those who genuinely relocate; Back to Africa motivation | | 06:16–07:10 | Bureaucratic frustrations—business registration woes | | 07:11–07:49 | Infrastructure issues—bad roads and maintenance headaches | | 07:50–08:32 | Cultural adaptation, language quirks, and micro-irritations |

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Conclusion

This episode offers a sobering but ultimately empowering understanding of what to expect if considering a move to Ghana. Derrick Abaitey and his guest invite listeners to look beyond the “December in Ghana” fantasy, come prepared for real-world challenges, and, above all, approach integration with both open-mindedness and practical grounding. The unvarnished advice and lived experiences shared in this episode serve as a vital guide for anyone considering a move to, or investment in, Ghana or West Africa.

Transcript

[A]

People come in December, fall in love with Ghana, extend their stay, and some of them don't go back, they just extend their stay. Extend their stay. Extend their stay because they fell in love with Ghana, they fell in love with December in Ghana, then they stay and then the realities of Ghana kick in. Because it's not like December all year long. Yes, Ghanaians love to party, Ghanaians love to socialize. That happens all year. Yes, but not at the intense level it does in December. Once December is over and we get after the first week of January, second week, and it kind of quiets down a bit, that's when the reality of being in Ghana sets in. And how are you going to make your money? That's when it sets in.

[B]

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[A]

Yes.

[B]

I've really picked up something here. With your experience working with, you know, the projects on the. And all that work you did that I think we fed the emotional craving of the American diaspora, but we did not give them structures.

[A]

So I know that the government was trying to pass a bill that would actually help the diaspora with being able to move here and live here, but it didn't pass. It was called the Homeland Return act that was actually submitted into Parliament and to this day it's not passed. So it's unfortunate that didn't pass before the last government went out because now it's like starting, in my opinion, now it's like starting over again. Because the whole point of the Homeland Return act when beyond the return started, was to help facilitate the diaspora in their move to Ghana, residency status and that kind of stuff. So I really think that there are quite a number of people who've tried, who are trying to support the diaspora in helping them with their transitions and stuff, but sometimes there's a lot of things missing. I think people also have this misconception that Africa will be easy, that Africa will be cheap. And then they get the wake up call that Ghana is not as cheap as people think it is. Ghana is quite expensive for being in a developing country. So it makes it a bit challenging. And I think some of the. One of the biggest headaches in Ghana for people is when they realize that they have to pay rent in a huge chunk upfront. I think if not for that it would be easier for people to do their transitions because living abroad, I know in Canada and the U.S. you only pay two months rent up front before you move in somewhere, which they call first and last rent. And so you pay that two month deposit and then you move in and you might have a small security deposit you pay in case of damages to the property, but that's it. But here it's like people come and then they find out, whoa, this landlord wants me to pay a whole year up front, two years, some of them even asking for three years up front. And it's not even legal. That's the sad part is it's not even legal. It's supposed to be only six months. According to the law in Ghana there is a rent act that is, I think it's from the 80s and it hasn't changed and it's supposed to be only six months up front. That's the law. So every day people are breaking the law. Every day people are breaking the law asking for a year rent up front. So I think as long as it's not enforced, it just keeps happening. And so that's the big thing that really affects people because, you know, you come and let's say you have, let's say you have $30,000 in savings and you feel that you can move to Ghana and start your life with $30,000. If it wasn't for rent, you could. Because almost all that money is going to go to your rent now. Especially because a lot of the diaspora want to live in a way that is comfortable, like how their life was before they came. Yeah, the average person coming from the west or coming from Europe is not going to want to live in a chamber and hall small place that's, you know, 600 cities a month. They're not going to want to live in those environments. They want to live in some of the apartments and houses that are in places like Lebony, East Lagon, Cantonments Ridge, you know, and then if they can't afford those ones because they're more expensive, they might go out and go to like Oyarrafa, maybe go to Aubrey. But some of them are discovering that it's expensive and then they move even further. There's people who are in Cape Coast, Elmina, because it's less expensive to live there. I knew somebody who was living here and then ended up moving to Cape coast because it was more affordable to live there. And it's helpful if you have a business that you can do anywhere because that's the other Thing is, people tend to stay here because whatever business they're doing is more successful if they stay in Accra. But Accra is also expensive. And you're going to say something. Yeah.

[B]

Abby, do you think people actually move to Ghana to stay or just to experience Ghana?

[A]

I think there's people who move here because they want to stay. There are some people who move here because they want to stay. Especially when the reasoning for moving is part of the Back to Africa movement. Part of the I don't wanna be in an environment where I'm being suppressed because I'm a black person. So those people, when they come, they actually move to stay. Cause they're like, I wanna wash my hands of being in the environment where everywhere I go, I'm a black person. I just wanna be a person. Those are the ones that when they come, they wanna stay and they really try to make it work because they want to be in an environment where they're not the minority. I think the ones that come off of the emotion of December in decide to stay are the ones that are most likely to go back.

[B]

Why are people going back?

[A]

People go back because they didn't plan well when they came, or because they didn't understand the environment when they came, or because they realize they just want life to just be simple with the structures. So when I say that, what I mean is there's an element of you having to be like, this is how it is. I'm not saying that you're accepting mediocrity, but there's an element of you having to suspend the desire for it to be the same way as it was where you came from. So, for example, if I want to start a business in Canada, I register online, make my payment online, get my certificate for the business, and that's done within minutes. I went to register a business and I had to go to the office, physically fill out the form, make my payment, sit there, go from one room to the next. Oh, please have a seat. Go here, please have a seat, go there. Then finally they're like, okay, they gave me my receipt. You have to come back and collect your papers at another day. Then you have to come back. Now you have to be in a queue all over again. Oh, please have a seat there. So it's like this whole thing of people be like, why do I have. Why this? Why that? Can I. Can't you just get it done? So those frustrations, some people don't have the patience for it. And it's like, I don't have the Patience for this. Why should I have to deal with this all the time? Let me just go back to where I came from and deal with the being suppressed. It's like a trade off. You're being suppressed, but you can live a life where you can get things done when you need them to get done. The roads are also an issue. Bad roads can make life very uncomfortable, especially some of these neighborhoods where the houses are beautiful, but then the road is bad getting there. And for some people, it's not worth it. They're like, why am I going to destroy my car every time I'm going home? Because maintenance on cars is really expensive here. People are always spending money to maintain their cars because of bad roads, bad potholes somewhere, you know, not saying there's not potholes over there, because there are, but it's not the level that you experience here that people will be like, why am I dealing with this? That every day I go home, I feel like I need a massage. When I go to work, I feel like I need a massage because of the journey to get there. Those are some of the things that seem simple, but it's enough that it's a discomfort for some people that they don't want to deal with it. Also, culture. Culture is something that people don't take into consideration. When you move somewhere, anywhere you move, if there's a different culture, it's difficult to get used to sometimes. And there's one guy I met from Jamaica in 2019 who was like, he's tired of Ghanaians in the please, please. Everything is please, yes, please, no, please this, please that. I'm tired of the please, please, please, please, please. He said it just sounded so annoying to him. You see your face? He said it was annoying to him because the use of the word please is so much in Ghana. It really is. And I said to him, I said, you know, it is actually a direct translation from the language, because a Ghanaian would be like, mepaucho, ay mepaucho debi mepalcho me koha mepaucho me pesemitowe mepecy. So it's a direct translation to say please, yes, please, no, please, I want to go here. Please, I want to go there. We don't say that in English, The English language. You don't say please, Yes, I want what? Please this, please that, please. It's overused here. Connected Minds podcast.