We explore one of the most sensitive and least discussed topics in Jewish life: money and marriage.

Why do so many couples avoid talking about money?
What do fights about money really represent?
How can couples build financial trust and literacy before and during marriage?
What role should community education play in preparing young people for real-world financial responsibility?

We sat down with Sarah Nissel, attorney, Pepperdine law professor, and Executive Director of the Jewish Divorce Assistance Center of LA.

After mediating 300+ divorces, she shares what really makes or breaks relationships when it comes to money, how to communicate without shame, handle conflict, and build marriages that actually last.

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CHAPTERS:

00:00 Intro

01:53 Who Is Sarah Nissel?

02:27 Practicing Law in Los Angeles

04:10 A Decade of Experience in Family Law

04:24 What Lawyers See Behind Closed Doors

05:18 The Lack of Financial Education

05:56 When One First Goes to a Divorce Lawyer

07:23 Men vs. Women Divorce Misconceptions

07:42 Tips for a Healthier Marriage

11:45 Advice for Newlyweds

12:56 Improving Conflict Resolution Skills

18:28 How Frum Couples Manage Money

21:07 Why Wives Should Know the Finances

24:20 Twillory

25:33 The Donors Fund

27:52 Modeling Healthy Money Habits

29:34 Being Honest About Debt With Your Spouse

31:32 Understanding Your Appetite for Risk

34:33 How to Guide an Amicable Divorce

37:24 Prenups in the Orthodox Community

40:00 What Sarah Wants Her Children to Know

41:35 When Parents Stop Financial Support

44:14 Separate Bank Accounts

48:35 Setting Up Newlyweds for Financial Success

51:05 BitBean

51:53 Colel Chabad

52:43 It Is Never Too Late

55:58 Starting Financial Education Earlier

59:03 Moving Forward Toward Peace

1:02:39 Amazing Jewish Resources

1:05:52 How Sarah Helps People

1:06:23 You Do Not Need to Recreate the Wheel

1:08:01 Why Sarah Stays Away From AI

1:09:26 Sarah’s Nonprofit Work

1:09:52 Sarah’s Book Recommendations

1:12:36 The Advantages of the Jewish Community

1:14:04 Sarah’s Remarkable Yichus

1:19:26 Thanking Sarah for Joining Us

1:19:49 Outro

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