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Sebastian
By the way, I see all the tiktoks of you guys calling me like. Like, zesty. You think I give a. I don't, bro.
Josh Leyva
People.
Sebastian
I'll be reading that in my GT3, bro. Wow. I'm happy. I'm chilling, bro. Yeah. Yeah. But I love it, bro. Well, here's engaged. The biggest compliment I can get.
Josh Leyva
Listen, bro, because.
Sebastian
Because my hair was all nice and luscious. Oh, it was beautiful.
Josh Leyva
Soft launching is like. It's calculated.
Sebastian
Sure.
Josh Leyva
There's a term for it. It's a big deal. It's not like you. Something you do. It's like. There's a whole thing about it.
Sebastian
I don't know.
Josh Leyva
You haven't been in the game. You don't see. You're the wrong person to ask.
Sebastian
This is.
Josh Leyva
This is dangerous.
Sebastian
I. I feel like if it's not official yet.
Josh Leyva
No, that. No, you're wrong, girl. Sorry. You're wrong.
Jessica
I'm the asshole for hooking up with my friend's ex, even though it's been a year. My friend dated this guy for.
Sebastian
Stop there.
Josh Leyva
What's up, y'? All? We have some very exciting news to tell you.
Sebastian
What's that?
Josh Leyva
That SeatGeek is a sponsor of La Platica, and they love to hook y' all up. All right, before we get into the magic of SeatGeek, I'm gonna let you know that if you're looking for an event, maybe it's the World cup. Maybe it's Rosalia. Maybe it's Carol G. Carol G. Whatever it is, SeatGeek has you covered. And on top of that, we got you covered because we're giving you 10% off your ticket of purchase by using the code la platica 10. Okay, now tell them about how sweet SeatGeek is.
Sebastian
I think you said it all, brother. Honestly, the app. Me personally, I love the app.
Josh Leyva
Come on, man.
Sebastian
It's. You know what I buy the most of on the app?
Josh Leyva
What do you buy?
Sebastian
Dodger parking.
Josh Leyva
Come on, baby. Me too. No, don't give away.
Sebastian
No, I'm not gonna give away.
Jessica
What?
Josh Leyva
You gotta.
Sebastian
Yeah. I'm not gonna say it, but you can actually buy parking.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
On SeatGeek as well, which I always do, because sometimes the tickets come with, like, general parking, which is cool, which is great. But you can upgrade. You get a little closer. But yeah, I. I'm already looking at, like. You can actually get tickets to go to Mexico, bro. And get, like, World cup tickets.
Josh Leyva
Spoiler alert. I'm going to be going second game in Wallahara And I got my tickets through.
Sebastian
Spoiler alert. I'm also going to try to go. What? I'm going to try to go.
Josh Leyva
Don't play with me. Use the code of 10.
Sebastian
10% off.
Josh Leyva
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Sebastian
You really, you have really nice eyelashes.
Josh Leyva
Thanks.
Sebastian
The SeatGeek sponsor, those bad boys. They sure did.
Josh Leyva
Love you guys. We'll see you guys in 12.4 seconds. I'm gonna use it.
Jessica
Let me be honest.
Sebastian
Every guest is a privilege.
Josh Leyva
Do we want to go there?
Sebastian
Get jolly? Cause I'm on a podcast with Josh. Labor. Yeah, you have too.
Josh Leyva
Ladies and gentlemen, let me just tell
Sebastian
you,
Jessica
this is la Platica, episode 247.
Josh Leyva
Damn.
Sebastian
Damn. Hashtag Mondays don't suck. Bienveninos a la platica, baby. My name is Sebastian, and this is D. Josh Leyva. And on camera four, we have Jessica and Saul. Bienvenidos, baby.
Josh Leyva
What up?
Sebastian
What up, man? What a great day. We're doing good, man. Technically, obviously, you've seen this on Monday, which is a week, kind of a week after when I'm talking. But yeah, right now is day three of the six week challenge, and we're all locked in. I'll be seeing the chat. Everyone's locked in, dialed in. Everybody in this room is dialed in. We're doing a great job, baby.
Josh Leyva
Well, technically, bro, when this drops, there's a week in.
Sebastian
Yeah.
Josh Leyva
Everybody who's been locked in, a week in. Wow. We did it. Week one is in the books.
Sebastian
Yeah. Week one.
Josh Leyva
Congratulations for. For accomplishing that. Because that's a big step, right? One week at a time, one day at a time, one meal at a time.
Sebastian
And you know, half. Half of us maybe are kind of like, yeah, I'm good. I'm so motivated. So are we. Yeah. And maybe some of you guys are like, damn, maybe it's a little harder than. Than what you thought. Right. Because maybe we're not used to it. Let me just tell you, keep going, keep pushing is worth it. I promise you. It becomes something where you do for a good amount of time that you won't let go. I promise you. It's like being in a relationship for so long and you love this person and you guys are fighting, but you're like, you know what I do love? I do love her. I do love him. I've been with him for so long. I don't want to let Go.
Josh Leyva
Yep, yep. And this, that's a good life lesson. Because motivation is fleeting, right? Like you can be motivated for like a spur. You can be m motivated for a week, for a year, but eventually that fades, right? But when you put in the discipline, that's guaranteeing that you're going to show up for yourself. No. No matter what, no matter the condition, no matter how you feel, no matter, matter the weather, no matter what. That's what discipline is about. And that's why I think with this is about getting it done, just doing it even when you don't want to do it.
Sebastian
I love that. I love that. Yeah, discipline, baby. Cuz it comes and goes. Motivation comes and goes. And we get comfortable. Like in a relationship, we can get comfortable. And that's why sometimes relationships fail because both sides are comfortable or one side
Josh Leyva
or somebody cheats, somebody does something dumb.
Sebastian
Right? But the thing is, is that you got to remind yourself, yo, I'm in this, right? I still got to put my part in. You still got to put your guys. I promise you, it's all worth it at the end. Plus, you're not going to get like crazy results in one week either. We, we got to keep pushing. For me personally, I start seeing crazy change. Two to three weeks. Three weeks. And that's with no cheating dialed, locked in.
Josh Leyva
Yeah. Yeah.
Sebastian
That's when you start seeing results vary per person. Right?
Josh Leyva
But you're going to see results and it's just about continuing to push forward. So I'm excited. I was gonna say something. We have been doing this.
Sebastian
We're.
Josh Leyva
Dude, just hearing Jessica every time she says like a number when she slates, I'm like, one thing about us, bro, is that we are gonna show up for you guys every single Monday. And it's just, I'm just excited to be here today.
Sebastian
I'm excited to be a lifestyle, baby.
Josh Leyva
You guys, if you're part of the six week challenge, I'm rooting for you. If you're not part of the six week challenge, I'm rooting for you. If you are listening to us right now and you're on the treadmill, you're taking your kids to school, you're working right now or you're just chilling on the sofa, you know, I'm saying we see with it.
Sebastian
Please make it a thing that every time you say that, you have to say, yeah, what's up with it?
Josh Leyva
I want to talk about something super quick and cool that's happening on the taste Salute world. I don't want to take too much of everybody's time here. But I want to inform everybody that we are currently running a taste salute giveaway. So if you have not entered this giveaway, this is something that you want to partake in. It's easy, it's free, it's quick. All you got to do is click the link below and it's going to take you to the landing page where you can sign up for the giveaway. And what is this giveaway, you may ask? Well, we're sending two people to watch Mexico versus Australia at the Rose bowl in California.
Sebastian
But then you go, hey, Joshua, I'm not from California. Is that what you're gonna say?
Josh Leyva
And I'm gonna go, guess what, sweetheart, we got you covered. All expenses are going to be covered, are going to be paid for. We're also going to give you a thousand dollars.
Sebastian
Damn, you sure? That much.
Josh Leyva
We're going to hook them up, we're going to make sure they right. I, uh. And then on top of that, we're also going to hook you up with a one year supply of salut. And yes, that includes the new skin and beauty line that is officially out as of today, by the way. Yeah, Skinny beauty line is a new line that we've been working on for a while. We're going to take over the beauty industry. Kylie Jenner, we're coming for you. Uh, she dropped her own collagen line as well. It don't compete with salud. Our packaging is cute. It's pink, it's adorable.
Sebastian
I love it.
Josh Leyva
It's amazing.
Sebastian
And the flavors are great.
Josh Leyva
The flavors are amazing. And one thing we've never done before, which we did on this line, is unflavored flavored, which I hear that's the correct way to say it. Unflavored flavored.
Sebastian
Sprinkle it anywhere you want.
Josh Leyva
Sprinkle it in your protein shake, in your coffee, in your. I heard somebody say overnight oats. Like, you can put it anywhere and you're gonna get the benefits of collagen, which help with hair, nail, nail growth, skin wrinkles, all that stuff. It's. It's crazy.
Jessica
Honestly.
Josh Leyva
Mo's been taking it for a while now. And like, I'm like, damn, girl, you looking good.
Sebastian
Dang, girl, you skinny. Nails are looking thick.
Josh Leyva
Yeah, now it's looking.
Jessica
Hey.
Josh Leyva
Hair looking luscious, Skin looking porcelain.
Sebastian
You just sent it over to us and I can't wait to get my hands on it because there's one thing about me is I like to have thick ass hair.
Josh Leyva
So, yeah, bro, I Just want to make sure that I got everything covered with the giveaway, because there was a lot of moving parts for it, so
Sebastian
I think you did.
Josh Leyva
Let me just confirm. The two tickets to watch the team play in Rose Bowl.
Sebastian
Right.
Josh Leyva
All expenses paid for flights, hotel, covered for two, plus $1,000. Spending cash, your supply. So did it. We did it.
Sebastian
We're good.
Josh Leyva
Tap in. I'll just. I'll send you the link just so we can include it in the bio.
Sebastian
Are they gonna be able to say what's up to us?
Josh Leyva
Yeah, I'll make that happen. Easily. Easily, bro.
Sebastian
I mean, are they gonna be able to pregame it with us, like, in the Roseville field?
Josh Leyva
We can make that happen.
Sebastian
Okay. Because one thing about Rose bowl, if you've never been pregaming it on the field.
Josh Leyva
Oh, maybe not even on the field.
Sebastian
Like, on the outside of the field.
Josh Leyva
Oh, tailgating.
Sebastian
That what it's called?
Josh Leyva
No, tell the Americans call it stadium.
Sebastian
Outside of the stadium, on the field, tailgating. Not on the soccer pitch. No. But outside of Roseville. Yes. I've never been anywhere where people actually, like, don't even go inside this tail. They just kick in.
Josh Leyva
People have some crazy setups.
Sebastian
Yeah.
Josh Leyva
TVs, couches.
Sebastian
Yeah.
Josh Leyva
Grills, like refrigerators.
Sebastian
Now they bring it up. They're bringing their RV campers.
Josh Leyva
Yeah. They're bringing their Raptors out.
Sebastian
Yeah. So they gonna be able to do all that?
Josh Leyva
Yeah, we can make, bro, we can make anything happen. We're giving them the world.
Sebastian
Full access. Yeah. I mean, full access, baby. Okay. I love that, man. Yeah. And for everybody who knows me, like, personally, no, you can't enter this giveaway. You're not gonna win because I know you, so don't ask.
Josh Leyva
But it's also a good thing, because, look, friends and family of ours, of anybody in this room is not gonna win. Okay? We want somebody. Was that aggressive?
Sebastian
Yeah. No.
Saul
My cousin really loves taste.
Josh Leyva
Yeah. We try our best to, like, can't be related, anybody to have association. We want somebody. We want this. This is real, man. We're giving away. This is a crazy experience that we want somebody to genuinely have. And on top of that, I'm gonna be calling the winner facetiming them, letting them know that they won and stuff like that, which would be really cool. So if it's one of you guys, if it's one of you listeners, that would make my heart.
Sebastian
So when are you picking the winner?
Josh Leyva
That's a good question. I will put that in the description.
Sebastian
Okay. I'm someone who loves to Give. Yeah, I just sent out like a bunch of clothes for like, like fitness inspo for people who are doing the six week challenge.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
So I was gonna say something, but I can't say anymore because I don't know when they're gonna get picked. So I don't know if there's gonna be enough time. I was gonna say I was gonna buy the Mexico gear.
Josh Leyva
Well, it's gonna be before the end of the month.
Sebastian
Okay. So I have time.
Josh Leyva
Yeah, you have time. Yeah.
Sebastian
So I can say that.
Josh Leyva
You could say that.
Sebastian
Okay. So whenever you pick that winner.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
You give me their information, huh. And I'll set up a little, you know, a la platika. You know, I have my own little laplace.
Josh Leyva
I want in on that. Okay, we'll get one in on that.
Sebastian
Okay. We'll. We'll hook them up with some Mexico
Josh Leyva
gear, like full deck, like the jersey, the practice thing.
Sebastian
Hey, and if, if you want to go with Australia, I'll get you some Australia gear. I ain't mad at it. It should be good. It's gonna be a little hard to find maybe right now. Right now.
Josh Leyva
Because of the World Cup. Is Australia in the World Cup? Yeah. Right.
Jessica
I would assume it's Mexico versus Australia.
Josh Leyva
No, but it's not World Cup. This is a friendly.
Sebastian
Yeah, I think.
Saul
Yeah, they are in the World Cup.
Sebastian
Okay.
Josh Leyva
So it might be easier because I know all those years are going on, but.
Sebastian
Okay, we got you regardless. We got you, got you, got. You gotta go laced up. You know, when you go to Mexico game.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
It's not just watching the game. You got to get your fit ready, bro.
Josh Leyva
I already got the new black jersey that just dropped. Salud on the background. The. On the back of the back of the jersey. And I get it on the 29th. Wow. Hopefully it gets here on time. I hope I was able to get it delivered.
Sebastian
You will.
Josh Leyva
Hopefully.
Sebastian
What size did you get? Large.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
I knew it.
Josh Leyva
Yeah. Mind you, I have the new white one too, and I. I happened to get one of them gifted and the other one I purchased, I got a Gifted in xl and then I bought a large. So I was able to see which one fits me better. And guess what fits me better?
Sebastian
Large.
Josh Leyva
The medium.
Sebastian
Yeah. I have this jersey that I've been. It's. It's on ice right now, so I think if you, if you look at it, you'd appreciate it. It's on ice right now. I'm just waiting for that game, bro. And mind you, my birthday is the day before your boy's turning 30, cheeks. That's 36 for you.
Josh Leyva
I figured.
Sebastian
I'm 36, bro. I'm finally entering your old world. Okay.
Josh Leyva
Now.
Sebastian
But no matter what, I will never cat up to you. You'll always be old, bro.
Josh Leyva
You have such a prominent bicep vein right now. It's distracting.
Sebastian
Is that good, though?
Josh Leyva
No, it's hot, dude.
Sebastian
Is it hot?
Josh Leyva
Yeah, man.
Sebastian
What do you want me to tell you? I've been working out a lot.
Josh Leyva
Dude, you're blushing hard right now.
Sebastian
Today was leg day.
Josh Leyva
Yeah. And today was leg day.
Sebastian
One thing about leg day is if you get leg day out of the
Josh Leyva
way and tell them what I told you, too, about the leg day thing when I was like, bro, you know how I know we feel good?
Sebastian
Oh, yeah.
Josh Leyva
So we'll go finish your story first.
Sebastian
Okay. So basically, I realized that leg day is important because leg day. Yeah, it's like the most difficult thing to do because leg day hurts. Leg day is not just a pump. Leg day is a full ass pump plus cardio workout. It's like, it reminds me when I had to wake up at five, six in the morning and, like, pour concrete.
Josh Leyva
Okay. So you know how leg day for us is, like, something we don't necessarily look forward to. Like, we much rather do a chest
Sebastian
day, an arm day, but for the ladies, right. Is glute day.
Josh Leyva
Right. So do you. So, Jess, do you love a leg day?
Jessica
I do.
Josh Leyva
Okay. Because you. You're looking for that pump, right?
Jessica
Yeah. And I also feel like I sweat a lot more.
Sebastian
Yeah, it's a whole ass workout, and
Jessica
I just feel more accomplished.
Josh Leyva
What's your second favorite, like, body part to work out?
Sebastian
She goes. My favorite is left cheek. And my favorite. My favorite right cheek.
Jessica
I'd have to say probably shoulders or back.
Josh Leyva
Oh, okay, cool.
Sebastian
Yes. Same with Karen.
Josh Leyva
But I feel like girls like back.
Sebastian
Yeah, girls love back.
Josh Leyva
Girls like back.
Sebastian
Karen has a really nice back.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
Did I say ass or back? Both. So. So the thing that I realized about leg days, I'm starting to like it a little bit better. Right?
Josh Leyva
Okay.
Sebastian
And it's. It's just because of the certain movements that we're doing, and I feel like it's. That routine is working out for me, but leg day just complements the other body parts so much more. For example, today we did legs, and now it makes me look. It's like, okay, cool. You did that and you got it done, right? Yeah. And now I cannot wait to hit shoulders accomplished because I already hit legs. And that makes sense.
Josh Leyva
And you did it.
Sebastian
And I did it. Yeah. So now tomorrow, it's different when you don't hit legs and then do shoulders because you're like, something's missing. But when you already hit legs and you're like, yeah, yeah, I got that done. That hump is done. And now every single body part coming next is just such a treat.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
To have.
Josh Leyva
I agree, man. I agree.
Sebastian
And maybe that's like bro ology gym talk. And, like, that's just the way I see things.
Josh Leyva
Yeah. It's like. Which is great. Yeah.
Sebastian
But like, now, tomorrow, when we do, like, shoulders.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
Oh, man. It's. What a reward.
Josh Leyva
So this is like, kind of off topic, but same topic for the guys who are listening right now. If you are. Are skipping out on leg day, don't do that. And I tell you why. One, you want to create a balanced physique. Right. Two, the benefits of hitting legs in so many different variables is. Is amazing. One, you're going to expend a lot of calories.
Sebastian
Yeah.
Josh Leyva
Right to one. It also boosts your testosterone.
Sebastian
Testosterone levels.
Josh Leyva
Yeah. So the benefits of that, how it's going to help elevate and create a better physique all around.
Sebastian
Yeah.
Josh Leyva
Is super beneficial. So if you're skipping out on leg
Sebastian
day and what happens when you increase your testosterone levels?
Josh Leyva
Boners.
Sebastian
A lot of boners in the morning, which I still don't understand why. Why we do that. And you know what they say?
Josh Leyva
Is that what you were going to say?
Sebastian
No, they say that having boners in the morning, because that's like a thing. Ladies. I'm sorry. It's like a thing. And you. If you live with your man, you probably know that he wakes up, but he. It's actually a good sign if your partner wakes up with a sick ass. Fiero.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
Because that means that his testosterone levels are pretty decent.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
And in the morning is. And if you're trying to have a kid in the morning, having sex, you have a better possibility of getting your partner pregnant. Did you know that?
Josh Leyva
Nobody makes sense. Because I know our testosterone is highest in the morning.
Sebastian
In the morning. That's why you're getting that boner.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
Why don't you walk around with a surprise boner in the afternoon or at night? No, it's when you wake up. Why? I thought it was because I needed to go to the bathroom, but no, that's not it.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
You just have one.
Josh Leyva
It's weird. Yes.
Sebastian
Your test is peaked.
Josh Leyva
Peaked. Yeah.
Sebastian
But it's. It's the. It's so if you guys are trying to have a kid, this is good. Wait, wait. Instead of awake and bake, it's more of a wake and and clap? No, there's my being too vulgar.
Josh Leyva
No, you're not. But we could do better.
Sebastian
It has a rhyme. It didn't rhyme.
Saul
Wake and take.
Sebastian
Wake and take. Damn salad, you're erotic, dude.
Josh Leyva
After my being too vulgar, you're a little dark, bro. We can take wake and take this.
Sebastian
We can take this dick, bro. Whoa, dude.
Josh Leyva
Well, you can take this dick.
Sebastian
Huh?
Josh Leyva
No, wait.
Sebastian
Can take. Well, I like wake and take. I don't think we gotta say.
Josh Leyva
No, I think you gotta say it, bro. We can take this dick.
Sebastian
Wake and take dick. You ready?
Josh Leyva
Wake up.
Sebastian
Yeah. So it's in the morning.
Josh Leyva
How do we get here?
Sebastian
I don't know, but that's the whole point of the platica. But what Josh showed me today, and it made me feel good about myself, is today we hit leg day shirtless, which is no reason why to do that. But we felt like it because we were getting hot. Not with each other, but just physically because they were doing sleds and we're getting sweaty, and when you do legs, you sweat more.
Josh Leyva
Sweat a lot.
Sebastian
It's like a whole ass workout. But can you say the story? Because it's a quick story. But I forgot what you said.
Josh Leyva
I mean, it was along the lines of, like, you know, I know that we're feeling good about ourselves and we're proud of ourselves because we're literally hitting legs shirtless. And that's unnecessary. And that's something I would have never done. Right. Because I'm just trying to get the work on it. But I feel so good of myself, of ourselves.
Sebastian
Right.
Josh Leyva
That I was like, you know, I can take my shirt off when I'm doing legs, which is cool.
Sebastian
Yeah. And it's.
Josh Leyva
Honestly, bro, it's meaningless, but it also.
Sebastian
It's like a proud moment for us.
Josh Leyva
A cool moment.
Sebastian
Yeah. Damn. We are. We're doing good.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
In our health and we are confident in ourselves.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
You know, so. Yeah, I agree.
Josh Leyva
Yeah. That was it.
Sebastian
Yeah, that was it. Today we have. Am I the asshole? Right, Jess?
Josh Leyva
Damn. We're bringing it back.
Sebastian
Yeah, we're bringing it back. So y' all need this? Oh, we need this.
Josh Leyva
Jess, I'm so sorry. Can you go back? What number episode is this? 270.
Jessica
247.
Josh Leyva
Oh, 240. So we're not gonna hit 300 this year? No, no, that'll be next year.
Sebastian
You could if you want to.
Josh Leyva
No.
Sebastian
If we hit 300, does that mean we have to film twice a week, like, post?
Josh Leyva
Not every week, but we'd have to do it a couple weeks for the most part.
Jessica
Almost every week.
Sebastian
Every week. Right. Halfway through the count, bro, it's.
Josh Leyva
Oh, yeah, you're right.
Sebastian
You're right, bro. Can you believe it's already May. My. My brother.
Josh Leyva
What the.
Sebastian
Dude, dude, remember last year? Like, suck, but like, the fires happened and, like, all that political was happening. January felt like three months, bro. And like, I felt like that year went by a little slower in the beginning, but. Bro, I can't believe it's almost my birthday. May 29, the king was born, bro.
Josh Leyva
That's me, baby.
Sebastian
Our queen. Yeah. And by the way, I see all the Tick Tocks of you guys calling me like, like zesty. You think I give a. I don't, bro.
Josh Leyva
People.
Sebastian
I'll be reading that in my GG3, bro.
Josh Leyva
Wow.
Sebastian
I'm happy. I'm chilling, bro. Yeah, yeah. But I love it, bro. Well, here's engaged. The biggest compliment I can get.
Josh Leyva
Listen, bro.
Sebastian
Because my hair was all nice and luscious. Oh, it was beautiful, bro.
Josh Leyva
Listen, I have a couple thoughts. We don't need to go into the details. We're talking about it offline.
Sebastian
One, barely. Don't give them too much credit.
Josh Leyva
Barely. Barely. You are been growing out your hair. You care about your hair, so you want to maintain it. You did a little trim, right. You did a little upkeep. So you went to a salon.
Sebastian
Yes.
Josh Leyva
Deals with long hair. So the fact that you were, like, maintaining and doing something healthy for your hair and you got shit on because of that is crazy to me. Like, that makes you gay for doing.
Sebastian
Because I had a blowout?
Josh Leyva
Yeah. They question your whole sexuality just because you got a blowout.
Sebastian
Yeah. And I hate how they're right. And.
Josh Leyva
Can I tell you something? They're right. Yeah, but what I was going to say is you posted the video and on top of that, Karen told you to post it.
Sebastian
Yeah, bro.
Josh Leyva
You got the people going. Even me. I even put. I even put gay. I like this. Okay. Gay.
Sebastian
No, I. I love it. I love it. And like, like, like, like real. Like not saying real, but, you know, people who like, really with us, like, they're not. They're not the one saying it. That's the thing about Tick Tock is people who are like keyboard warriors, they don't really like, follow you. They just. They're just seeing something like that. That's why A lot of people don't like to be on Tick Tock, I feel, because it's a lot of people that, like, they just run into you and their explorer page and they like to talk.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
About negative things. About you. Yeah. But no, yeah, I saw it. It was cool. That's whatever.
Josh Leyva
I honestly thought the video was great. I double tapped that. Your hair looks great.
Sebastian
Me too. You know what's crazy is that Karen posted on her stories first because she filmed the whole thing because she's like, you should film me. You should tell people that, like, like, you're gonna go get a haircut, you know, like, chop it off.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
And I was like, yeah. But I was kind of, like, in a rush. I was like, I don't. It's okay. So she was, like, taking content because I was gonna film it, but I didn't. She did. She was, like, taking bits and pieces. She posted on her stories, and people were, like, laughing and stuff. It was like, he's like, oh, my God, he has better hair than me. Yeah. I was getting a lot of engagement on stories. I was like, should I post on reels? And I had some other videos too, like, that she sent me, and I was like, making this whole, like, thing, like, it was like a minute video.
Josh Leyva
Okay.
Sebastian
She goes, no, just post this with the sound, dude.
Josh Leyva
Marketing genius.
Sebastian
He's a marketing genius, bro.
Josh Leyva
Yeah. Isn't it so crazy, like, that video that you did absolutely nothing and nothing but just, like, sit there and look pretty? Look.
Sebastian
Does that video does better than Cheeseman
Josh Leyva
channels the most viral video you've ever posted?
Sebastian
Yeah. And, I mean, I'm grateful for it getting views anyway. But, yeah, when I set up this camera and I put luts and sick ass transitions, and I'm in my microphone with subtitles and this and that is it just okay?
Josh Leyva
Nobody cares.
Sebastian
Nobody cares, bro.
Josh Leyva
That's all right.
Sebastian
But yeah, man, I'm the zesty king. My boy or queen. Let's get it started, bro.
Josh Leyva
Just hit us. What's up, girl?
Sebastian
You're lagging it, bro. You always want to talk about my Tick Tocks. I'm not even on Tick Tock, bro.
Josh Leyva
You're not, but you are.
Sebastian
But I am. All right.
Josh Leyva
Yes.
Sebastian
What's up?
Jessica
Am I the for testing my partner's loyalty with a fake account? I had a gut feeling my partner might be entertaining other people, so I made a fake account and started messaging them to see how they would respond. They ended up flirting back, and when I confronted them, they were more upset about the fake account. Than about what they did. Now they're saying I'm manipulative and cross the line, but I feel like I just exposed the truth.
Josh Leyva
This is such a good one.
Sebastian
Because they're both bad on both sides.
Josh Leyva
Yes, exactly. Exactly. Look, first of all, let me apologize for you having to go through that. Right? Like, that feeling is, like, one of the worst feelings, and then, like, to go through with it and then seeing that. That your feelings were validated. Right. Sucks. I have to be honest, though, my personal perspective, I don't agree on the approach, and I'm not. This is not to validate that guy's feelings by any means.
Sebastian
Yeah.
Josh Leyva
You know what I mean? Because, bro, you got caught up. Right? And. And you were in the wrong as well for. For doing that. Because clearly, if she. There's a lot. There's a high chance that he. This is how he just maneuvers dayto day. Right. There's a better approach. I think it just. It just. For your own soul.
Sebastian
Yeah, there's better. You. You did too much hurt when. Okay, so.
Josh Leyva
Oh, there's a quote that. It's like, death by a thousand. Somebody help me out here.
Sebastian
Death by a thousand cuts is still death.
Josh Leyva
No, no, that's the quote. Death by a thousand cuts.
Sebastian
Got it.
Josh Leyva
You. Instead of, like, one. One cut to the dagger, you're, like, slicing yourself. Slicing yourself. Slicing. And it's just eating you.
Sebastian
Kills you. Amiga. If you already needed to do fake accounts, you should have stopped yourself there and said, damn, what am I doing? This is the relationship that I'm in, that I have to do a fake account to figure something out. Should have stopped it right there and understand what kind of position you're in.
Josh Leyva
Yeah. Now.
Sebastian
But whatever. You did it, and you. You found it out.
Josh Leyva
Yeah, you're here now.
Sebastian
You're here now. So you got your truth, and this
Josh Leyva
is where it goes. Like, if you feel a certain way, like, maybe this is territory for you guys to, like, split up. Doesn't matter what he thinks, bro. You got caught. I don't care how you view how I caught you. You got caught. I don't want anything to do with this, you know? But if. If. If you're gonna work it out, it just makes it challenging. This is why I think in those kind of situations, when you're gonna go into that and you're gonna do that, you better have a plan of action. Because, like, it's like, okay, if I find out that he is, you know, doing this, that, to me, is crossing the boundary as cheating. I'm Gonna leave this relationship.
Sebastian
Yeah.
Josh Leyva
But if you're like, just gonna do it, just to do it and then like, I don't know. I don't know what now it's like, you gotta. You see what I'm saying? That's why I feel like it's. It's not the right approach. Because now she's like, what do I do?
Sebastian
Right.
Josh Leyva
So. No, you're not an asshole. By any means. By any means. I think the way he responded to you is kind of assholey. Like, why did you do that? It's like, bro, let's handle this first. Like, this is where I'm at. This is what I found you doing. And what. What I found you doing is a lot worse than me creating an account to catch your ass.
Sebastian
Yeah.
Josh Leyva
You know what I mean? But damn. It's. It's.
Sebastian
I agree, it's crazy, but I don't think you're an. I think you're somebody that was sad. I think someone that needs to find something out. So I'm sorry that you had to go through that. I don't think you're the. But like you said, I don't think you need to be going that far to be doing things.
Josh Leyva
And bro, if that's somebody's way to do it, like, that's what they.
Sebastian
Yeah.
Josh Leyva
Then so be.
Sebastian
But you're not an. I don't think so.
Josh Leyva
Yeah, he is.
Sebastian
He is. For making you even do all that.
Josh Leyva
See, for me, like, if that was my friend, I would want to have a conversation with them. I said, okay, look, I understand how you feel, and I know you want to do this because you have this feeling. Let's walk through the process of, like, why do you feel like. Let's unpackage the relationship. Right. Let's peel it back. Because it's so much deeper, bro. You know what I mean? That's just like a quick. It's not the right hit. It doesn't solve anything. You know what I mean? Like, it goes so much deeper on both ends.
Sebastian
I agree.
Josh Leyva
I'm very curious. Your thoughts, Jess, as a. A woman from the female species.
Jessica
Yeah, I.
Josh Leyva
We've all done it.
Sebastian
Yeah, right.
Jessica
Yeah. And I feel like you're just validating.
Sebastian
Yeah. I'm not judging that you already had.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
You know what I mean?
Jessica
And kind of looking for the evidence to do. To support the thing you already know you have to do. Like inside, you know what I mean?
Sebastian
She's a sick ass investigator.
Josh Leyva
She got it done.
Sebastian
Take as detective.
Jessica
Yeah. But I feel like, you know, getting Rid of. Removing yourself from a situation like this just kind of allows for so much good to come to you because you're, you know, getting rid of that negativity, like, all of the space that it's occupying in your brain. Now you can focus on other things and ultimately, like, you end up winning. You know, this clearly doesn't serve you anymore. So do what you got to do. And it's going to be painful. It's going to always be painful in the beginning. But again, like, you are opening yourself up to so many more opportunities by removing this one thing that's continuing to challenge you.
Josh Leyva
And that's a really good point because what that's doing to you, like, how much room that's occupying in your mind, your heart and your soul, when you can be investing all that energy into goodness in your life and focusing on, like, the gratitude of your life, like, it just. It robs you from so much. So that alone is a reason why you should really potentially question your relationship. Not saying you should. I don't want to, like, guide any somebody to breaking up, but that's a really good point. Like, what that does to you, it robs you from the joy of life.
Jessica
Yeah. Because this has so much anxiety, you know, and like, we've all been there, like, myself included. But getting rid of that was. It could be the best thing you ever do.
Josh Leyva
Break up with his ass. It.
Sebastian
Yeah. Him. You're not the.
Josh Leyva
No, no.
Sebastian
If anything, I hear, and I feel bad, you know, that she had to go through that also.
Jessica
It kind of sounds like a little manipulative from his point of view to, like, now he's blaming you. Well, like.
Sebastian
Yeah, that's it. He's the. It's.
Josh Leyva
It's a. It's a cop out. Right. Like, he's embarrassed that he got caught.
Jessica
Yeah.
Josh Leyva
So it's like that's. You're just wailing.
Sebastian
Yeah. Whaling, huh?
Josh Leyva
Like a whaler.
Sebastian
Like a whaler.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Jessica
This next one, I have a friend who complains every time we go out.
Sebastian
I hate that.
Jessica
The music, the food, the people, everything. She also lowkey judges of. Judges us if we're dancing or drinking.
Sebastian
Oh, my.
Jessica
Which makes everyone feel awkward.
Josh Leyva
Bro.
Jessica
We've talked to her about it, but nothing's changed. For my birthday, I didn't invite.
Sebastian
Good.
Jessica
Everyone had a great time excluding her.
Sebastian
Oh, my God.
Jessica
Am I the.
Sebastian
No, you're not. She had it coming, dude.
Josh Leyva
Yeah. Dang.
Sebastian
She complains on every aspect.
Josh Leyva
Yeah. Yeah. And you know what? I think you not inviting her opens the door. That if she feels this type of way, like, you have a conversation with her, you know, and sometimes those conversations are uncomfortable, but they need to be had.
Sebastian
Yeah.
Josh Leyva
Look, man, you go out with us every single time and you're complaining, you're judging us.
Sebastian
Nobody wants.
Josh Leyva
You're not. You're not fun to be around. You kind of ruined the vibe, man. And we like you, but for whatever reason, when you're out with us, it's just not it. So we didn't not invite you because we. We knew that you weren't gonna create the experience that we wanted, bro. And those conversations are really hard, but you just gotta, like, almost, like, word vomit them.
Sebastian
Yeah. And if she's, like, true to herself and like, actually, like, respects your opinion, she would say, you know what? You're right. I do suck. I am a buzz kill. I am a buzz kill. I should work that. I should work on that.
Josh Leyva
You think buzz kills know they're buzz kills or do they need to be buzz killers?
Sebastian
Never admit they're bus killers. Just like how picky people never admit they're picky. You know, that's the thing.
Josh Leyva
Have you guys ever been annoying and you're like, I'm kind of being annoying. Like, have you ever felt that? Like, you're like, you know, like, you're like, I guess I gotta be. I guess I can see how I was kind of being annoying a little bit.
Sebastian
Maybe I was younger.
Josh Leyva
Definitely not now.
Sebastian
Yeah, maybe like when I drink a lot and I would just like, yeah, keep going. You know, like kind of be loud.
Josh Leyva
Oh, worse, bro.
Sebastian
Yeah. But I was never that. That loud, loud person. It was more kind of like I might. I might be annoying to my wife or I might be annoying to just one friend. Not like everybody.
Josh Leyva
Yeah, that's what.
Sebastian
But then. But you know, my wife would be like, hey, relax. And I'm like, okay.
Josh Leyva
I saw this tick tock where this guy was like, when you have, like, anxiety because you're like, something about, like, overthinking how much you, like, yapped the night before. That's all it is. We're just kind of being, like, annoying. We're drunk. We're just like chatter boxes.
Sebastian
Yeah. You're especially more annoying with people who are not in your level.
Josh Leyva
For sure.
Sebastian
At your level.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
But no, you're not an for. And plus, you've already, like, put up with it. You've tasted her bus kill already, right?
Josh Leyva
No tast good.
Sebastian
Not taste good at all.
Josh Leyva
No taste good at all, man.
Sebastian
But she's. You probably knew she Was going to be upset, too. You knew this was coming. So, yes, you should have that conversation now. But honestly, good for you for not inviting her, because some people need get. Need to get put in their place.
Josh Leyva
Yeah, yeah.
Sebastian
You're. You're not an. She's an. For even confronting you instead of being, like, looking in the mirror and be
Josh Leyva
like, I'm a buzz kill, dude.
Sebastian
I'm a buzzkill. True Life. Remember mtv? True Life.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
You know, people have never seen that.
Josh Leyva
Is there anybody in this room who has not seen True Life?
Sebastian
What? You just.
Jessica
I've seen it.
Sebastian
Oh, yeah.
Jessica
So young.
Sebastian
You've never seen True Life?
Saul
I've seen it, like, on the. On the schedule.
Sebastian
Yeah.
Saul
By just having clicked. Yeah, Just having clicked it.
Sebastian
What schedule?
Saul
Like on the DirecTV.
Sebastian
The TV Guide?
Saul
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Josh Leyva
That's crazy.
Sebastian
Kids. N. So you're not even that young. I mean, you are 98.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
Eight years older than me. Dude, when you were born, I was already, like, speaking English.
Jessica
There's 369 episodes of that show.
Sebastian
Dude, that was a great show. It taught me a lot.
Josh Leyva
Not only that, a lot of these, like, episodes are memes, too, like.
Sebastian
Yeah, but that was real life. True life.
Josh Leyva
Crazy.
Sebastian
True life. I was addicted to chalk. Just be eating chalk. And that's crazy, bro.
Josh Leyva
Yeah, I feel like a lot of was kind of made up, dude.
Sebastian
There was a true life. I was. Who knows? Maybe True life. I'm addicted to plastic bags. Remember the girl? Oh, my God.
Josh Leyva
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Sebastian
Whoa. Sometimes I'll listen to you, and I'm like, that guy's a genius.
Josh Leyva
That's smart. All right, just next.
Sebastian
That was a good one. That was actually a really good one.
Josh Leyva
That was good. That was good. It was good. Her, dude.
Sebastian
Yeah. Buzz kill. And by the way, if you're a buzzkill back at home.
Josh Leyva
Stop.
Sebastian
You don't have to go that route. And if you know that you're gonna be a buzzkill. Nosalgas.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
No Salgas.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
You know, because me, too. Sometimes I don't want to go out. And if I go out, I'm just not gonna be who I really want to be, you know? Then I won't go out, because I know I'm not gonna give you my all.
Josh Leyva
I'm gonna be whack.
Sebastian
Yeah.
Josh Leyva
Yeah, that's it.
Sebastian
Don't be whack.
Josh Leyva
Well said, bro. Well said.
Sebastian
Do you still look at me and I'm a genius, too.
Josh Leyva
I'm a genius.
Jessica
Am I the asshole for exposing my friend after they talked about me behind my back?
Josh Leyva
No.
Jessica
I found out one of my close friends was talking badly about me to other people. Instead of confronting them privately, I posted screenshots of what they said so everyone could read it.
Josh Leyva
Yeah, good.
Jessica
Now they're saying I embarrassed them and I should have handled it offline. But I feel like if you talk behind my back, you deserve to get exposed.
Josh Leyva
What's the quote? Around and find out. You're gonna talk about me, and then I'm gonna confront you. Then I. The way I do it is wrong. You're talking about me, and I found out. It got to me, so I'm gonna. Like, now, mind you, I'm grown. I'm not exposing somebody to that. But, like, if you want to do it after they were talking shit about you, you have the receipts for it. Like, them.
Sebastian
Them. Yeah.
Josh Leyva
Like, first of all, why are you feeling bad for them? They were talking about you. Yeah, true. Like, bro, I don't feel bad for you. You're talking about me. So what do you want me to. You want me, the person that you were talking about, to feel bad for you?
Sebastian
Yeah, them. Them. Should we all say at the same time?
Josh Leyva
Ready?
Sebastian
Three, two, one.
Josh Leyva
We're gonna get demonetized.
Sebastian
No, we're not. YouTube loves us.
Josh Leyva
YouTube does love us.
Sebastian
I. I agree. They already took a. About you. Them.
Josh Leyva
Yeah, bro.
Sebastian
Okay, so. But me, personally, this is not my approach. Not my approach. I don't give a. Yeah, but, like, bro, if you ain't super gangster on
Josh Leyva
them, it cares, bro.
Sebastian
Who cares?
Josh Leyva
And then. And you know what? At that point, you gotta own it.
Sebastian
Yeah.
Josh Leyva
Did it. You were talking about me. Yeah, I swallowed, pissed.
Sebastian
Yeah.
Josh Leyva
Don't. You were mad talking.
Sebastian
Don't do that again.
Josh Leyva
Yeah, I was mad when I posted that.
Sebastian
Or that goes for everybody. Yeah.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
For me, kind of dramatic. I just talk to that person, and that's my business.
Josh Leyva
But it also depends on who it is. If it's somebody I don't care about.
Sebastian
Sure. Sure don't care. Yeah, I would. I would have fun with it.
Josh Leyva
Whatever.
Sebastian
Yeah. If it's somebody that's not really, like, in my tight circle, I'm gonna have fun with this. Yeah. Yeah. But if it's somebody that, like, we have maybe something that, like, I want to confront. Yeah, I'll confront you, but I'm not gonna do that.
Josh Leyva
Never.
Sebastian
But I don't think you're the ass. Y' all think you're an.
Josh Leyva
No. No.
Sebastian
All right.
Jessica
Am I the. For hooking up with my friend's Ex. Even though it's been a year, My friend dated this guy for.
Sebastian
Stop there.
Josh Leyva
No, hey, don't literally him. Jesus. Love that joke, huh?
Sebastian
You got. You got to go on right there.
Jessica
My friend dated this guy for about six months, but they broke up over a year ago. And she's been in a whole new relationship since then. No, recently, me and her ex started talking, and we ended up hooking up. I didn't think it was a big deal because they've both clearly moved on, but now she's calling me weird and saying I broke a girl code.
Josh Leyva
Look, she's right. She's has every right to feel hurt about that.
Sebastian
Yeah, it's.
Josh Leyva
It's. It's.
Sebastian
She's probably not even her. She probably doesn't care.
Josh Leyva
No, but it's like, you're my friend.
Sebastian
You're my friend. I wouldn't. I wouldn't want you doing that for somebody.
Josh Leyva
Yeah, yeah, exactly. Exactly.
Sebastian
Or maybe she was like, hey, I'm talking to your ex. And then she was like, yeah, them.
Josh Leyva
Right?
Sebastian
Literally.
Josh Leyva
Yeah. I think this is a. This is a part where, like, clearly you didn't have a conversation before, so that's why she's bothered. But I think if, like, you're like. You see that, like, oh, there's something potentially brewing here. Like, yo, by the way, like, I don't know what's happening between me and this person, but we're kind of talking. I know you dated. You kind of have to bring that up.
Sebastian
Yeah.
Josh Leyva
Because then you can't get mad at her for being like, yo, what the fuck?
Sebastian
I think because it's shady.
Josh Leyva
It's not.
Sebastian
Right. It's weird.
Josh Leyva
It's weird.
Sebastian
I think it's weird.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
All the vatos in the world.
Josh Leyva
Yeah, but, bro. But I, like, look, if she wanted to date him and the girl gave her the green light, more power to them. Yeah. Right. So be it. But it's like, you got to have that conversation because if you don't, like,
Sebastian
you're kind of weird.
Josh Leyva
You're being shady.
Sebastian
Yeah, weird, because you hid that from your friend.
Josh Leyva
Yeah. And then you're like, now she's saying, like, this is wrong. Like, this is a girl code. I'm like, yeah, you kind of did. Because a girl code is. Correct me if I'm wrong, girl. Like, hey, what I just said, like, bringing it up at least.
Sebastian
Right?
Josh Leyva
At least. And then her giving her the opportunity to say, like, I don't like that. You know what I mean? Or I don't care. Genuinely don't yeah. So then now she can't say, you know, I talked to you about it. You gave me the green light. Now you feel weird about it. And this is on you now, girl, you know, because I talked to you.
Sebastian
Yeah. So the one that wrote this is the one that did it. You're the ass.
Josh Leyva
Oh, my God. I was talking to the.
Sebastian
Yeah, you. Yeah, you're the dude.
Josh Leyva
No, I mean, it is. It is.
Sebastian
It is confirmed, asshole.
Josh Leyva
And mind you, this is our opinion. Yeah, no, but it is. It. Yeah, it's. I just think she should have talked to her. That's it, man. Like, beforehand.
Sebastian
Yeah, it's your friend.
Josh Leyva
It's your friend.
Sebastian
Yeah. And it is girl code.
Josh Leyva
It is. She's right.
Sebastian
She's right. She's right. Yeah. What an asshole.
Jessica
I'm going to ask, am I the asshole for skipping family parties because I don't like my relatives? I've started skipping family parties because being around my relatives stresses me out. There's always drama, gossip, or people asking invasive questions about my life. My parents say I'm being disrespectful and that my family is everything. But honestly, I'd rather protect my peace than force fake interactions.
Sebastian
Not an asshole.
Josh Leyva
This is a really good one, though, because, bro, family is very important, especially in the Latino community. Right. Like, we love our families, but, like, at the end of the day, I think, like, our new. This new generation that us growing up in, like, we're very big on, like, protecting our peace, and sometimes it's the family who kind of disrupts that.
Sebastian
Yeah.
Josh Leyva
And it sucks because, like, obviously you want to be around your family, because
Sebastian
I would say that's most the case that most of the.
Josh Leyva
A lot of times what it is. So it's tricky because I'm not going to be like, oh, don't ever hang out with your family because they're disturbing you and you don't like it. It's like, you look. It's uncomfortable, you know, and your family might, like, push it a little bit, but they're your family. But I think you can also be selective as you get older. Like, bro, me, I'm selective on, like, the family events that I want to go to. You know what I mean? Because I also. I'm a big believer in, like, protecting your peas.
Sebastian
Right.
Josh Leyva
And I know that, you know, I've been in that kind of situation where, like, family could be a little judgy, you know, And I think that everybody faces that. This isn't like a nobody here listening is like, I've never Felt like people feel that from your family where you're gonna be close to people like that. Like we're people. We're gonna have. You know what I mean? Tension at times. This naturally happens, right?
Sebastian
Yeah.
Josh Leyva
So no, I, it. I don't think you're an asshole. By the way, to answer her question. Do not.
Sebastian
Not at all.
Josh Leyva
And I think if you need to take a time. If you. Some of you get invited to a family party and you don't want to go because you're just not feeling it and you know what's going to come with that? Take a moment to yourself. That's fine. But just don't neglect your family. That's my biggest thing. Don't neglect your family. You know?
Sebastian
Yeah.
Josh Leyva
And I even think we talk about this all the time. We. When we were talking about it with our last guest. Bro. Communication is everything. And that includes family. That's not just like relationships and stuff. Like sometimes it's your family.
Sebastian
That's it.
Josh Leyva
Yeah. Like I feel like you. You judge me. You know, I shouldn't say that. I don't want. That's not my place. But I've seen those conversations happen. It wasn't myself but I witnessed it. Or somebody in my family confronted somebody else in my family saying like every time I'm around, I feel this. Like, you and dude, their relationship has completely changed. Like they're like, they're obsessed with each other. Like they're always hanging out. And it's crazy because sometimes you need that you just need to talk to somebody. Sometimes people don't realize what they're doing, you know. So I think that goes back to family as well. Communication is everything. That is the answer. So if you feel it in your heart for a specific person, maybe it's worth exploring talking with them.
Jessica
Yeah.
Sebastian
100. It's like when I got married, there's some family members I didn't invite who are somewhat close to me and I didn't want that because they're disruptive. They're not my cup of tea. And it sucks to say that because that's my family. That's blood.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
You know, and that might have been my. Which is not. But like my. It could be your mother's sister.
Josh Leyva
Right.
Sebastian
It can be your. Your dad's brother. I know. You know, and then in your head you're like, damn, like, I'm really doing this to my dad right now. Yeah. But mind you, it's not your parents wedding. It's your wedding and your wife who is not married, who is not that bloodline. So you have to respect her. Her opinion as well. But yeah, it's a hard decision.
Josh Leyva
It's hard.
Sebastian
But you know what? Don't give a rat's ass.
Josh Leyva
Yeah. And like you said, I think she said. But honestly, I'd rather protect my piece than force a fake interaction.
Sebastian
I respect that.
Josh Leyva
That's crazy. It feels crazy to say that about like your family member. But that is true life, man. Like, that's just how it feels sometimes
Sebastian
something to be it. Most of the time, I bet you anything, most of the time it'd be your own family that holds you back.
Josh Leyva
Crazy, man. Yeah.
Sebastian
But I respect that. But I, I. Because me and you are very family oriented. Yeah. So I do believe in like, not completely, like, no disconnecting yourself. Because at the end of the day, like, I don't know, at least for me, I would just be like, I'm just doing this for my mom, you know?
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
Type.
Josh Leyva
Me too. It's funny they said that because that's exactly what I thought about, like when you were saying about not inviting people to the wedding, I would talk to my mom, like, hey, Mom, I don't necessarily want to invite this person, but she's like, very adamant about it. I'd have to really, like, talk to my wife, I guess. But like. Yeah, you know, it's tough. That's tough.
Sebastian
It is.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
No, but no, you're not an at all. And I respect your decision. That's an amazing thing that you can tell yourself and look yourself in the mirror and be like, don't care. And as you should, because you should protect your priests. Everybody should.
Josh Leyva
And by the way, that's the best part about being an adult. You can make your decisions, believe it or not. And look, I'm not, I'm not condoning this, but if you don't want to talk to your family again, you don't have to. You don't have to. You're an adult. You know, you make your own decisions, but you also lay in the bed that you make. So think about that. Whatever that means. Never make my bed anyways.
Sebastian
I never have made my bed.
Josh Leyva
I'm not going to either.
Sebastian
Karen won't let me, actually, because she does. Because I don't know how to do it. He says, just get out of the way. She. She does it really good.
Josh Leyva
She's technique.
Sebastian
Yeah. Like when I lay on her, like when she. It's like so fresh and fluffy. It's almost like a brand new bed.
Josh Leyva
Yeah. Yeah.
Sebastian
And when I do it, it's just like. Like lumpy. It's not cold. Yeah, it's still like. Like, if I. I don't know. It's weird.
Josh Leyva
Yeah. Yeah.
Sebastian
There's a technique.
Josh Leyva
But, bro, we have to. And I'm not saying you don't, because I'm kind of talking to myself. Like, we have to appreciate that because Mo does our bed too. And, like, I'm like, I'll come home. And I'm like, the bed's done. And to me, it's like, so cool. I'm like, wow. The bed's like, done and it's like, beautiful. It's like, cool, you know, Like. But somebody did that. Like, took the time to do that. Because it takes time to do a bed. Making a bed. It's not no easy task, bro. No, it's hard.
Sebastian
It's not. It's a really hard thing to do sometimes.
Josh Leyva
To make it crispy.
Sebastian
No, crispy, like, perfect.
Josh Leyva
Like, you know what I mean? Like, the pillows, the sheets, the tucked in, like, everything, bro.
Sebastian
Like, it's the fluff that, like, I'm like. I feel like she has like an air compressor and she just sticks it in a sheet and it just.
Josh Leyva
Yeah, yeah. And then you gotta go other side of the bed. And I got a California king, bro. My miles, bro. Take a jet suite to get to the other side.
Jessica
Your sheep smell like bleach.
Sebastian
Oh, you gotta take a subway. Yeah, it just. It's just. It's weird. It's like if I. I can't replicate the way she does it. Even. Like the. Even, like the couch downstairs.
Josh Leyva
Fluffed.
Sebastian
We have this couch where it's like, if I lay on it for like an hour, by the time I'm up, that flat, like. Like a pant. Like a crepe. Like the. Like the. Like the. What is it? The. The sofa part. The. What is it called? Wait, what's. What's this called? The Colchon, I guess. Yeah.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
It's like flat as I'm a damn. Am I really that heavy? No, but it's just. It just gets flat. And by the time she's done with that, like five times the size of what it is.
Josh Leyva
Wow.
Sebastian
I'm like, I don't understand. Like, is there where you blow into it? I don't get it. She just has that touch.
Josh Leyva
It's a woman's touch, bro.
Sebastian
Yeah. She was saying to me the other day, I guess she saw a tick tock and she was like, hey, is it true that, like, being a husband, it's cool because you just Wake up and there's a new toothpaste.
Josh Leyva
That's what I'm saying. That was my point. That's my.
Sebastian
And I'm like, you're right. And you're right. Because sometimes I just. Normal. Normal task, right? I'm brushing my teeth, I open the drawer where the toothpaste is always at, and then a brand new one appears.
Josh Leyva
Yeah, I never.
Sebastian
I don't put it there, bro.
Josh Leyva
That. That's my point.
Sebastian
Little thing.
Josh Leyva
Yeah. Yeah. It's beautiful, bro. Like, I just get out of bed, right? Yeah. I hope this doesn't make me sound, like, misogynistic, but it's like. And I come home, the bed's made. I'm like, wow, that's crazy. But I, like, I need to remind myself, like, that was Mo who did that.
Sebastian
Yeah.
Josh Leyva
Like, she was the one there doing that and that. Take me, bro. I know.
Sebastian
It's like.
Josh Leyva
Let's just say it's like 10 minutes. That's 10 minutes, bro. And it's annoying. Making a bed is not fun. Nobody's. I can't wait to make my bed. It's, like, kind of annoying, you know?
Sebastian
You hit that clean. I can't wait to make my bed. All right. When you did that right now we can, like, replay that.
Josh Leyva
Somehow it felt smooth and it's annoying. Making a bed is not fun. Nobody's. I can't wait to make my bed. It's, like, kind of annoying.
Sebastian
Can't wait to make my bed, bro. That was like. You hit that. I. I immediately turned to that. Like, damn. I felt it clean.
Josh Leyva
Clean, bro.
Sebastian
You hit that clean. I ain't gonna lie.
Josh Leyva
Thanks, bro.
Sebastian
Yeah. No, but it's a thing. And some women, beautiful women. I mean, every. You know, all women are beautiful, but there's certain women that. That's. Sorry. That's what get them hard in the morning. That's what gets them hard at. In. During the day, you know, excited. It's little things, like, they cannot continue their day if things like that aren't done.
Josh Leyva
Got it. Got it.
Sebastian
Yeah. Sorry. I shouldn't have said hard, but it's over here. You know, it's kind of. You see. You know what I mean?
Jessica
Right? Yeah.
Sebastian
It's like, wait, you know, it's good that.
Josh Leyva
That's the thing that, like, gets you excited. Nah, there's too much shoulder.
Sebastian
Yeah.
Josh Leyva
Yeah. Sorry.
Jessica
Just what you're saying that it's nice to hear you guys appreciate your ladies doing.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Jessica
You know, because it sucks when it's not.
Sebastian
Damn.
Josh Leyva
No, but you're Right. And. And it's like, these kind of conversations help because it just reminds me, you know, like, that you got to take. You got. You got to appreciate that. You got to appreciate the. The fresh toothpaste that's in your cabinet that you didn't put the.
Jessica
There.
Josh Leyva
Your bed made when you're not home, the dish is clean, and you can pull out a fresh dish. You don't have to figure it out. Like, bro, that's a blessing. Bro, that's a. Like, that's a blessing.
Sebastian
It is. It is. So, guys, if you're listening to this and if you're a boy annoyed. A boy. A man annoyed. And your woman does this for you or your partner, your boyfriend, your girlfriend, whoever, you're lucky. Just know that you're like, I'm lucky. And I'm not saying. We're not saying that we asked for this either. This is just the woman who we're with. They're just great.
Josh Leyva
Right? Right.
Sebastian
You know, like, I'm not saying, like, well, yeah, like, I expect that. No, no, that's what I'm saying. Like, it just happens. Like, with my wife, it's just. She's just great.
Josh Leyva
Love that next one, Jess.
Jessica
Last one. Am I the for soft launching someone while still talking to other people? I've been seeing this person for a few weeks and started soft launching them on my story, like posting their hand, a little date date clips, stuff like that. But I'm so casually talking to other people because we haven't made things exclusive. Now they're upset, saying I'm making it seem more serious than it is, and it's misleading.
Josh Leyva
Dude, these are good today.
Sebastian
Yeah, they're really good today. I don't think.
Josh Leyva
I don't. I don't mind.
Sebastian
I don't think you're an. I don't think you should even give a rat's ass right now. I think you should just have fun because are they exclusive?
Jessica
No.
Sebastian
No. Right? Half of your fun. Who is somebody to judge. You're not exclusive right now. You're not, like, in it with somebody. Do your thing, girl. No rat. If you see a rat, you don't give a. About his ass. Don't give a rat's ass. You see a rat. I don't give a. About that rat's ass.
Josh Leyva
Yeah, yeah. Who cares?
Sebastian
Have fun. And then, you know, make the decision if you want to be, you know, bro, that's fun.
Josh Leyva
Okay? And I. I want to say I agree with you because dating is a dangerous sport.
Sebastian
Once you're in It. You're in it.
Josh Leyva
But it's dangerous, bro, because you're. You're playing with emotions, right? Because people fall, right? People fall. Other people fall harder than others, right? And that's not your responsibility. But when you're putting yourself out there on the line and you're dating, it's a risk, right? You're taking a risk. I do believe that, bro.
Sebastian
Sure.
Josh Leyva
I do believe that.
Sebastian
I know that there's a risk.
Josh Leyva
I've been hurt before, right? I'm sure I've hurt plenty of people. And it. That's just kind of the territory of the dating game. I don't think soft launching, it's. God, man, that's a big deal, dude. That's a big deal. Even someone shaking his head immediately, like,
Sebastian
that's kind of a bigger deal than a hard launch.
Josh Leyva
No, definitely not. But a soft launch, bro, it's like, okay, if I know I'm talking to three, five different people, right? And there's one that I have my eye on the most, like, something that's really like my favorite. And I'm talking to everybody kind of evenly and I soft launch somebody's hand, and I. I cannot be surprised that all the other people I'm talking to are questioning me.
Sebastian
It.
Josh Leyva
I get it.
Sebastian
Because I don't think she cares.
Josh Leyva
Because that's a big step, bro. Soft launching is like, it's calculated. Sure, there's a turn for it. It's a big deal. It's not like you. Something you do. It's like, there's a whole thing about it. There's rules to this game, dude.
Sebastian
I don't know.
Josh Leyva
You haven't been in the game. You don't see you're the wrong person to ask.
Sebastian
This is.
Josh Leyva
This is dangerous.
Sebastian
I. I feel like if it's not official yet.
Josh Leyva
No, that. No, you're wrong, bro. Sorry.
Sebastian
Do whatever you think. Do whatever you want.
Josh Leyva
You're wrong. But you're also right, by the way.
Saul
So I think it's like if you're a guy and you see the girl soft launched you, like, it's a giant, like, hope for you. You're like, oh, I. Oh, we're going towards the right position.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Saul
So if a girl soft launches me and then I find out she's still talking to other people, I might.
Jessica
What the.
Saul
Like, yeah, I get hurt.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Saul
I think soft launching is like a.
Jessica
But that's only if you, like, really like her, right? Because you're probably dating around other people for sure.
Sebastian
So, like, that's a good point then. I personally feel like if she saw she soft launched some guy and that guy that she soft launched is seeing that she's also with some other dudes or whatever or hanging out, I personally feel like it's gonna make that guy like her even more.
Josh Leyva
Well, for sure. But it's all. What about the other guys?
Sebastian
Who cares?
Josh Leyva
I. I get it, I get it, I get it. But what I'm saying is her point was now they're coming at me saying that I'm misleading them. All this stuff.
Sebastian
Stuff.
Josh Leyva
And I'm saying, yo, they're kind of. They're in the right. Yeah, sure, that. Because where's this guy coming from? Like you're, you're soft launching him. Like, is this gonna be. Is this serious? Am I wasting my time? Don't waste my time, girl.
Sebastian
She's a hot commodity.
Josh Leyva
She's hot and I love that for her.
Sebastian
Me too.
Josh Leyva
I love that for her.
Sebastian
Me too. But that's why I'm like, she's asking
Josh Leyva
us if she's an. I'm gonna. My vote. My votes. Yeah, it. I vote yes. Yes.
Sebastian
You know what? I like that you voted yes.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
Cuz I will vote. Vote.
Josh Leyva
No.
Sebastian
No, I don't think so.
Josh Leyva
What's your guys's vote? Just curious. I think Jess is leaning towards no.
Jessica
Yeah. I'm like, do your thing.
Josh Leyva
Okay.
Sebastian
Yeah, do your thing.
Saul
I think she is the. Because they can get manipulative. Because as a guy, there's like, it's either you double like if you see her soft, launch someone else. Yeah, either like, oh, I gotta step my game up right now because I'm about a loser.
Josh Leyva
I'm not thinking like that, bro.
Saul
Or you're out.
Josh Leyva
That's why I'm not wasting my time. Oh, clearly somebody else in the picture that you are more invested in. I'm not wasting my time. That's my reasoning.
Sebastian
Out. Out. Yeah, it is.
Josh Leyva
It is cool though. I could commend a guy to being like, now I gotta work harder for her. I'm like, man, you really like this girl and she is a hot commodity. If you're like it, I'm gonna go.
Sebastian
I'm not that. I wouldn't be that guy though. Like, work harder for a girl or I don't know. Right.
Josh Leyva
So you would be out.
Sebastian
No, no, actually that's wrong because I feel like if Karen did that to me and I really liked Karen. Like you chase her. Yeah. I don't think you're an. I think if you feel like an. And you feel like you're doing something wrong, then stop up.
Josh Leyva
Yeah, sure.
Sebastian
But if you with it.
Josh Leyva
But look what I. What I would have said to her if I was her friend.
Sebastian
Mind you. You have one life.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
Do whatever you want.
Josh Leyva
I totally agree with that. But if I was your friend and, and she's like, dude, there was. She knows what she was doing, by the way. She's smart. She knew what she was doing by that soft launch.
Sebastian
Right?
Josh Leyva
Everybody knows that she's smart. If I was her friend, I would be like, do you know if you. Once you hit post, you're. It's. It's an alarm. Like, everyone's gonna kind of be like, whoa, what was thumbs up? You know what I mean? So just be ready for like the repercussions of that.
Jessica
That.
Josh Leyva
So I think like she. That's kind of.
Sebastian
It was expected, you know, my reaction if I was her and someone told me that.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
Scared, don't care. Don't give a breakfast.
Josh Leyva
Yeah, she's.
Sebastian
I think she's having fun.
Josh Leyva
No, I get it, I get it, I get it.
Sebastian
You know, she's chill. But yeah, of course there's going to be like backlash to it. Whatever.
Jessica
Yeah. Have your fun, but be prepared to lose a few.
Sebastian
That's.
Josh Leyva
That's what I meant. You're going to lose some hoes, baby.
Jessica
Okay. Maybe it's time to clear out the roster anyway.
Josh Leyva
Oh, yeah, and make room for a real one. AKA Saul.
Sebastian
Wow, what a great. Am I the asshole?
Josh Leyva
That was great, man.
Sebastian
Yeah. Thank you for pulling those up, Jessica.
Josh Leyva
If you guys want to submit your own Anitas, we have a link below. Right, Jess?
Sebastian
That's so become Anitas. Oh, whatever, bro.
Josh Leyva
I need the max wing.
Sebastian
Yeah, I need the Max wing, dude.
Josh Leyva
But I think it knows is located below, so.
Sebastian
Yeah, we should get a caller.
Jessica
We should get someone calling it, bro.
Josh Leyva
Can we set that up?
Sebastian
I'm down. Yeah, we can do that.
Josh Leyva
You want to vet them? We can vet them.
Jessica
Well, I would. That's my job.
Josh Leyva
Yeah. Okay. Because that'd be sick.
Sebastian
Let's do it.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
I'm super down.
Josh Leyva
Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.
Sebastian
Mind you, the giveaway that we spoke about.
Josh Leyva
Yep. Tastes away.
Sebastian
Mind you, your supply salute. Two tickets to the Rose Bowl. Mexico, Australia game.
Josh Leyva
Yeah.
Sebastian
If you're not from California.
Josh Leyva
Doesn't matter.
Sebastian
It doesn't matter because we're flying you out hotel with states.
Josh Leyva
Oh, yeah.
Sebastian
And a thousand dollars cash or Zell.
Josh Leyva
Whatever they prefer. Sweetheart,
Sebastian
I'd rather have cash.
Josh Leyva
We. We just. We just sell them.
Sebastian
Yeah. Zell get to hang out with us. Hopefully tailgate with us, we're hoping, because, you know, sometimes.
Josh Leyva
No, there will be tailgating, actually, because we're activating before the game as well. Okay. So maybe.
Sebastian
Maybe we can coordinate something.
Josh Leyva
100%.
Sebastian
And once he figures out who the winners are, we'll hook you guys up with, like, some Mexico gear. Whether it be a jersey or something. Just like, something cool that you guys can wear if you want.
Josh Leyva
No, they have to. Yeah, you have to wear the jersey we buy you, though.
Sebastian
Yeah, Yeah. I also didn't say, but thank you, seat, for sponsoring this video.
Josh Leyva
We didn't say that.
Sebastian
We didn't say that, but it's okay, dude, they're fine. They're fine. Yeah, they're fine. Subscribe to the channel if you're new here. If this is. You know, there's actually somebody, at least one person. This is the first time they've ever seen la platica. There's at least one person.
Josh Leyva
Oh, they're so welcome.
Sebastian
Welcome. Take a seat. There's room for everybody. Yeah. Have a great week, guys. Stay locked in. We'll see you guys in the chats. Josh is being more active on the chats now.
Josh Leyva
I've been lagging. Huh? I'm gonna be active.
Sebastian
He's active now. And, guys, stay locked in. Wake up early. Get. Get. Get good sleep. A lot of people don't understand once you get good sleep is when you really actually start seeing the gains. I promise you this is not even a joke. Don't sleep on it. Don't sleep on sleeping. If you don't sleep, you don't get no gains, baby.
Josh Leyva
You're right.
Sebastian
I know I'm right.
Josh Leyva
You're right.
Sebastian
And I don't give a rat's ass. That. Right, right there. His ass. Don't care about it.
Josh Leyva
Don't care about it. All right, love you guys.
Sebastian
Bye, guys.
Josh Leyva
Next week,
Air Date: May 18, 2026
Hosts: Sebastian Robles & Josh Leyva
Guests: Jessica (segment host), Saul
Theme: Exploring modern social dynamics, relationship trends, self-improvement, and the realities of internet culture—tackling “Am I The Asshole?” scenarios with humor and candor.
This episode dives into the messy, hilarious, and sometimes uncomfortable realities of online dating and modern friendship etiquette, with a special look at the trend of "soft launching" relationships on social media. Hosts Sebastian and Josh, joined by Jessica and Saul, tackle listener-submitted “Am I The Asshole?” scenarios ranging from testing a partner’s loyalty with a fake account, to cutting off toxic friends, dodging family drama, and the ambiguity of social media relationship reveals. Throughout, the hosts blend bro-y humor, vulnerable takes on masculinity, and practical advice for navigating loyalty, authenticity, and personal boundaries.
Time: [03:12]–[06:09]
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Time: [22:37]–[54:31]
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| Segment | Timestamp | |--------------------------------------------|--------------| | Fitness & Motivation Talk | 03:12–06:09 | | Taste Salud Giveaway & Community | 06:09–09:33 | | Bro Talk: Leg Day & Confidence | 12:21–18:37 | | Social Media Hate & Masculinity | 19:31–22:33 | | "Am I The Asshole?" Listener Scenarios | 22:37–54:31 | | - Testing Partner’s Loyalty | 22:52 | | - Not Inviting the Complainer Friend | 29:01 | | - Exposing a Friend | 33:51 | | - Hooking Up with a Friend’s Ex | 36:03 | | - Skipping Family Parties | 38:46 | | - Soft Launching Debate | 48:33 |
If you’ve never tuned in before, this episode is packed with laughs, real talk about modern relationships, and the kind of honest, bro-therapeutic advice that makes LA PLATICA unique.
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“Take a seat. There’s room for everybody.” — Sebastian [56:26]
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