Soft Launching = Red Flag? 👀

Summary

LA PLATICA Episode 247: "Soft Launching = Red Flag? 👀"

Air Date: May 18, 2026
Hosts: Sebastian Robles & Josh Leyva
Guests: Jessica (segment host), Saul
Theme: Exploring modern social dynamics, relationship trends, self-improvement, and the realities of internet culture—tackling “Am I The Asshole?” scenarios with humor and candor.

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Episode Overview

This episode dives into the messy, hilarious, and sometimes uncomfortable realities of online dating and modern friendship etiquette, with a special look at the trend of "soft launching" relationships on social media. Hosts Sebastian and Josh, joined by Jessica and Saul, tackle listener-submitted “Am I The Asshole?” scenarios ranging from testing a partner’s loyalty with a fake account, to cutting off toxic friends, dodging family drama, and the ambiguity of social media relationship reveals. Throughout, the hosts blend bro-y humor, vulnerable takes on masculinity, and practical advice for navigating loyalty, authenticity, and personal boundaries.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Fitness, Discipline, and Self-Improvement

Time: [03:12]–[06:09]

• Six Week Challenge: The hosts check in on their fitness progress and discuss the ups and downs of staying motivated.
• Discipline Over Motivation:
  “Motivation is fleeting... but when you put in the discipline, that’s guaranteeing that you're going to show up for yourself no matter what.” — Josh [04:16]
• Fitness as Relationship Metaphor: Drawing parallels between sticking to a gym routine and maintaining healthy relationships.

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2. Taste Salud Giveaway & Community Engagement

Time: [06:09]–[09:33]

• Launch of a major giveaway: Two listeners can win an all-expenses-paid trip to the Mexico vs. Australia soccer game at the Rose Bowl, $1,000 spending cash, and a year’s supply of Salud products, including their new pink-packaged, unflavored collagen line.
• Inclusivity Note:
  “Friends and family… are not gonna win. We want this… to genuinely be for a listener.” — Sebastian [09:33]
• The value of real, interactive engagement with their audience.

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3. Bro Talk: Gym Culture & Vulnerability

Time: [12:21]–[18:37]

• Honest reflections on age, fitness routines, and “leg day.”
• Masculinity and body positivity: Shirtless leg day as a confidence milestone.
• “Bro-ology” insights: The social psychology of men avoiding leg day and embracing full-body training.
• On morning boners and testosterone:
  “If your partner wakes up with a sick ass... that means testosterone levels are pretty decent.” — Sebastian [16:05]
• The group jokes through awkwardness while normalizing open discussions about men’s health.

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4. Viral Fame, TikTok, and Gender Stereotypes

Time: [19:31]–[22:33]

• Sebastian addresses social media comments regarding his style and “zesty” persona: “You think I give a…? I don’t, bro. I’ll be reading that in my GT3.” — Sebastian [19:41]
• Masculinity and self-presentation: Shutting down haters for equating grooming (like a hair salon visit) with questioning sexuality. “The fact that you were maintaining and doing something healthy for your hair, and you got shit on because of that is crazy to me.” — Josh [20:14]

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5. “Am I The Asshole?” Segment (Listener Scenarios)

Time: [22:37]–[54:31]

a. Testing a Partner’s Loyalty with a Fake Account

Time: [22:52]

• Both agree that both parties behaved poorly, but the partner’s response (deflecting blame) is a bigger red flag.
• Quote:
  “If you already needed to do fake accounts, you should have stopped yourself there and said, damn, what am I doing?” — Sebastian [24:26]
• Jessica adds: This is often “just looking for evidence for what you already know you have to do.”

b. Not Inviting the Complainer Friend Out

Time: [29:01]

• If someone constantly brings down the vibe, excluding them is justified—especially after you've discussed it.
• Quote:
  “Some people need to get put in their place.” — Sebastian [31:33]

c. Exposing a Friend’s Betrayal Publicly

Time: [33:51]

• Public exposure isn’t their personal style, but no guilt for exposing toxic behavior.
• Quote:
  “If you talk about me behind my back, you deserve to get exposed.” — Jessica [34:06]

d. Hooking Up with a Friend’s Ex

Time: [36:03]

• Hosts side with the offended friend: A year isn’t necessarily a free pass, and not communicating before makes it shady.
• Quote:
  “It's weird… All the vatos in the world.” — Sebastian [37:29]

e. Skipping Family Parties for Your Peace

Time: [38:46]

• Cultural expectation vs. personal boundaries: It’s valid to protect your peace, even if family disagrees.
• Quote:
  “Don’t neglect your family... but you can also be selective.” — Josh [39:50]
• The value of honest family communication and choosing mental well-being.

f. Soft Launching a Relationship While Talking to Others

Time: [48:33]

• Debate on whether “soft launching” someone on social media is misleading if you’re not exclusive.
• Josh: “That’s a big step, bro… there are rules to this game.” [50:34]
• Jessica: “Do your thing.” [52:29]
• Saul: Sees it as manipulative if it misleads someone into believing the situation is more exclusive than it is.
• Sebastian sides with: “Who cares? Have fun.”
• The group agrees: If you do it, be ready for questions and consequences.

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• “Maybe True Life: I’m addicted to plastic bags…” — Sebastian jokes about old MTV reality shows as a metaphor for odd modern behaviors. [32:49]
• On “wake and take” for fertility:
  “No, but that’s the whole point of La Plática.” — Sebastian, after a wild digression on morning sex and testosterone. [17:35]

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Timestamps for Important Segments

| Segment | Timestamp | |--------------------------------------------|--------------| | Fitness & Motivation Talk | 03:12–06:09 | | Taste Salud Giveaway & Community | 06:09–09:33 | | Bro Talk: Leg Day & Confidence | 12:21–18:37 | | Social Media Hate & Masculinity | 19:31–22:33 | | "Am I The Asshole?" Listener Scenarios | 22:37–54:31 | | - Testing Partner’s Loyalty | 22:52 | | - Not Inviting the Complainer Friend | 29:01 | | - Exposing a Friend | 33:51 | | - Hooking Up with a Friend’s Ex | 36:03 | | - Skipping Family Parties | 38:46 | | - Soft Launching Debate | 48:33 |

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Tone & Takeaways

• Language & Vibe: Highly conversational, blending vulnerability, jokes, and practical advice with the banter and raw energy that defines LA PLATICA.
• Key Takeaway: The episode champions self-respect, communication, and not letting social media or cultural expectations dictate personal boundaries. Whether it’s about relationships, friends, or family, everything comes back to living authentically—and unapologetically.

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For New Listeners

If you’ve never tuned in before, this episode is packed with laughs, real talk about modern relationships, and the kind of honest, bro-therapeutic advice that makes LA PLATICA unique.
Quote:
“Take a seat. There’s room for everybody.” — Sebastian [56:26]

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Submitted by: LA PLATICA Summarizer
May 2026

Transcript

[Sebastian]

By the way, I see all the tiktoks of you guys calling me like. Like, zesty. You think I give a. I don't, bro.

[Josh Leyva]

People.

[Sebastian]

I'll be reading that in my GT3, bro. Wow. I'm happy. I'm chilling, bro. Yeah. Yeah. But I love it, bro. Well, here's engaged. The biggest compliment I can get.

[Josh Leyva]

Listen, bro, because.

[Sebastian]

Because my hair was all nice and luscious. Oh, it was beautiful.

[Josh Leyva]

Soft launching is like. It's calculated.

[Sebastian]

Sure.

[Josh Leyva]

There's a term for it. It's a big deal. It's not like you. Something you do. It's like. There's a whole thing about it.

[Sebastian]

I don't know.

[Josh Leyva]

You haven't been in the game. You don't see. You're the wrong person to ask.

[Sebastian]

This is.

[Josh Leyva]

This is dangerous.

[Sebastian]

I. I feel like if it's not official yet.

[Josh Leyva]

No, that. No, you're wrong, girl. Sorry. You're wrong.

[Jessica]

I'm the asshole for hooking up with my friend's ex, even though it's been a year. My friend dated this guy for.

[Sebastian]

Stop there.

[Josh Leyva]

What's up, y'? All? We have some very exciting news to tell you.

[Sebastian]

What's that?

[Josh Leyva]

That SeatGeek is a sponsor of La Platica, and they love to hook y' all up. All right, before we get into the magic of SeatGeek, I'm gonna let you know that if you're looking for an event, maybe it's the World cup. Maybe it's Rosalia. Maybe it's Carol G. Carol G. Whatever it is, SeatGeek has you covered. And on top of that, we got you covered because we're giving you 10% off your ticket of purchase by using the code la platica 10. Okay, now tell them about how sweet SeatGeek is.

[Sebastian]

I think you said it all, brother. Honestly, the app. Me personally, I love the app.

[Josh Leyva]

Come on, man.

[Sebastian]

It's. You know what I buy the most of on the app?

[Josh Leyva]

What do you buy?

[Sebastian]

Dodger parking.

[Josh Leyva]

Come on, baby. Me too. No, don't give away.

[Sebastian]

No, I'm not gonna give away.

[Jessica]

What?

[Josh Leyva]

You gotta.

[Sebastian]

Yeah. I'm not gonna say it, but you can actually buy parking.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

On SeatGeek as well, which I always do, because sometimes the tickets come with, like, general parking, which is cool, which is great. But you can upgrade. You get a little closer. But yeah, I. I'm already looking at, like. You can actually get tickets to go to Mexico, bro. And get, like, World cup tickets.

[Josh Leyva]

Spoiler alert. I'm going to be going second game in Wallahara And I got my tickets through.

[Sebastian]

Spoiler alert. I'm also going to try to go. What? I'm going to try to go.

[Josh Leyva]

Don't play with me. Use the code of 10.

[Sebastian]

10% off.

[Josh Leyva]

But yeah. Guys, if you are looking for your next live event, make sure to check out SE to see if they have what you're looking for. Because I promise you, they do.

[Sebastian]

You really, you have really nice eyelashes.

[Josh Leyva]

Thanks.

[Sebastian]

The SeatGeek sponsor, those bad boys. They sure did.

[Josh Leyva]

Love you guys. We'll see you guys in 12.4 seconds. I'm gonna use it.

[Jessica]

Let me be honest.

[Sebastian]

Every guest is a privilege.

[Josh Leyva]

Do we want to go there?

[Sebastian]

Get jolly? Cause I'm on a podcast with Josh. Labor. Yeah, you have too.

[Josh Leyva]

Ladies and gentlemen, let me just tell

[Sebastian]

you,

[Jessica]

this is la Platica, episode 247.

[Josh Leyva]

Damn.

[Sebastian]

Damn. Hashtag Mondays don't suck. Bienveninos a la platica, baby. My name is Sebastian, and this is D. Josh Leyva. And on camera four, we have Jessica and Saul. Bienvenidos, baby.

[Josh Leyva]

What up?

[Sebastian]

What up, man? What a great day. We're doing good, man. Technically, obviously, you've seen this on Monday, which is a week, kind of a week after when I'm talking. But yeah, right now is day three of the six week challenge, and we're all locked in. I'll be seeing the chat. Everyone's locked in, dialed in. Everybody in this room is dialed in. We're doing a great job, baby.

[Josh Leyva]

Well, technically, bro, when this drops, there's a week in.

[Sebastian]

Yeah.

[Josh Leyva]

Everybody who's been locked in, a week in. Wow. We did it. Week one is in the books.

[Sebastian]

Yeah. Week one.

[Josh Leyva]

Congratulations for. For accomplishing that. Because that's a big step, right? One week at a time, one day at a time, one meal at a time.

[Sebastian]

And you know, half. Half of us maybe are kind of like, yeah, I'm good. I'm so motivated. So are we. Yeah. And maybe some of you guys are like, damn, maybe it's a little harder than. Than what you thought. Right. Because maybe we're not used to it. Let me just tell you, keep going, keep pushing is worth it. I promise you. It becomes something where you do for a good amount of time that you won't let go. I promise you. It's like being in a relationship for so long and you love this person and you guys are fighting, but you're like, you know what I do love? I do love her. I do love him. I've been with him for so long. I don't want to let Go.

[Josh Leyva]

Yep, yep. And this, that's a good life lesson. Because motivation is fleeting, right? Like you can be motivated for like a spur. You can be m motivated for a week, for a year, but eventually that fades, right? But when you put in the discipline, that's guaranteeing that you're going to show up for yourself. No. No matter what, no matter the condition, no matter how you feel, no matter, matter the weather, no matter what. That's what discipline is about. And that's why I think with this is about getting it done, just doing it even when you don't want to do it.

[Sebastian]

I love that. I love that. Yeah, discipline, baby. Cuz it comes and goes. Motivation comes and goes. And we get comfortable. Like in a relationship, we can get comfortable. And that's why sometimes relationships fail because both sides are comfortable or one side

[Josh Leyva]

or somebody cheats, somebody does something dumb.

[Sebastian]

Right? But the thing is, is that you got to remind yourself, yo, I'm in this, right? I still got to put my part in. You still got to put your guys. I promise you, it's all worth it at the end. Plus, you're not going to get like crazy results in one week either. We, we got to keep pushing. For me personally, I start seeing crazy change. Two to three weeks. Three weeks. And that's with no cheating dialed, locked in.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah. Yeah.

[Sebastian]

That's when you start seeing results vary per person. Right?

[Josh Leyva]

But you're going to see results and it's just about continuing to push forward. So I'm excited. I was gonna say something. We have been doing this.

[Sebastian]

We're.

[Josh Leyva]

Dude, just hearing Jessica every time she says like a number when she slates, I'm like, one thing about us, bro, is that we are gonna show up for you guys every single Monday. And it's just, I'm just excited to be here today.

[Sebastian]

I'm excited to be a lifestyle, baby.

[Josh Leyva]

You guys, if you're part of the six week challenge, I'm rooting for you. If you're not part of the six week challenge, I'm rooting for you. If you are listening to us right now and you're on the treadmill, you're taking your kids to school, you're working right now or you're just chilling on the sofa, you know, I'm saying we see with it.

[Sebastian]

Please make it a thing that every time you say that, you have to say, yeah, what's up with it?

[Josh Leyva]

I want to talk about something super quick and cool that's happening on the taste Salute world. I don't want to take too much of everybody's time here. But I want to inform everybody that we are currently running a taste salute giveaway. So if you have not entered this giveaway, this is something that you want to partake in. It's easy, it's free, it's quick. All you got to do is click the link below and it's going to take you to the landing page where you can sign up for the giveaway. And what is this giveaway, you may ask? Well, we're sending two people to watch Mexico versus Australia at the Rose bowl in California.

[Sebastian]

But then you go, hey, Joshua, I'm not from California. Is that what you're gonna say?

[Josh Leyva]

And I'm gonna go, guess what, sweetheart, we got you covered. All expenses are going to be covered, are going to be paid for. We're also going to give you a thousand dollars.

[Sebastian]

Damn, you sure? That much.

[Josh Leyva]

We're going to hook them up, we're going to make sure they right. I, uh. And then on top of that, we're also going to hook you up with a one year supply of salut. And yes, that includes the new skin and beauty line that is officially out as of today, by the way. Yeah, Skinny beauty line is a new line that we've been working on for a while. We're going to take over the beauty industry. Kylie Jenner, we're coming for you. Uh, she dropped her own collagen line as well. It don't compete with salud. Our packaging is cute. It's pink, it's adorable.

[Sebastian]

I love it.

[Josh Leyva]

It's amazing.

[Sebastian]

And the flavors are great.

[Josh Leyva]

The flavors are amazing. And one thing we've never done before, which we did on this line, is unflavored flavored, which I hear that's the correct way to say it. Unflavored flavored.

[Sebastian]

Sprinkle it anywhere you want.

[Josh Leyva]

Sprinkle it in your protein shake, in your coffee, in your. I heard somebody say overnight oats. Like, you can put it anywhere and you're gonna get the benefits of collagen, which help with hair, nail, nail growth, skin wrinkles, all that stuff. It's. It's crazy.

[Jessica]

Honestly.

[Josh Leyva]

Mo's been taking it for a while now. And like, I'm like, damn, girl, you looking good.

[Sebastian]

Dang, girl, you skinny. Nails are looking thick.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah, now it's looking.

[Jessica]

Hey.

[Josh Leyva]

Hair looking luscious, Skin looking porcelain.

[Sebastian]

You just sent it over to us and I can't wait to get my hands on it because there's one thing about me is I like to have thick ass hair.

[Josh Leyva]

So, yeah, bro, I Just want to make sure that I got everything covered with the giveaway, because there was a lot of moving parts for it, so

[Sebastian]

I think you did.

[Josh Leyva]

Let me just confirm. The two tickets to watch the team play in Rose Bowl.

[Sebastian]

Right.

[Josh Leyva]

All expenses paid for flights, hotel, covered for two, plus $1,000. Spending cash, your supply. So did it. We did it.

[Sebastian]

We're good.

[Josh Leyva]

Tap in. I'll just. I'll send you the link just so we can include it in the bio.

[Sebastian]

Are they gonna be able to say what's up to us?

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah, I'll make that happen. Easily. Easily, bro.

[Sebastian]

I mean, are they gonna be able to pregame it with us, like, in the Roseville field?

[Josh Leyva]

We can make that happen.

[Sebastian]

Okay. Because one thing about Rose bowl, if you've never been pregaming it on the field.

[Josh Leyva]

Oh, maybe not even on the field.

[Sebastian]

Like, on the outside of the field.

[Josh Leyva]

Oh, tailgating.

[Sebastian]

That what it's called?

[Josh Leyva]

No, tell the Americans call it stadium.

[Sebastian]

Outside of the stadium, on the field, tailgating. Not on the soccer pitch. No. But outside of Roseville. Yes. I've never been anywhere where people actually, like, don't even go inside this tail. They just kick in.

[Josh Leyva]

People have some crazy setups.

[Sebastian]

Yeah.

[Josh Leyva]

TVs, couches.

[Sebastian]

Yeah.

[Josh Leyva]

Grills, like refrigerators.

[Sebastian]

Now they bring it up. They're bringing their RV campers.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah. They're bringing their Raptors out.

[Sebastian]

Yeah. So they gonna be able to do all that?

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah, we can make, bro, we can make anything happen. We're giving them the world.

[Sebastian]

Full access. Yeah. I mean, full access, baby. Okay. I love that, man. Yeah. And for everybody who knows me, like, personally, no, you can't enter this giveaway. You're not gonna win because I know you, so don't ask.

[Josh Leyva]

But it's also a good thing, because, look, friends and family of ours, of anybody in this room is not gonna win. Okay? We want somebody. Was that aggressive?

[Sebastian]

Yeah. No.

[Saul]

My cousin really loves taste.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah. We try our best to, like, can't be related, anybody to have association. We want somebody. We want this. This is real, man. We're giving away. This is a crazy experience that we want somebody to genuinely have. And on top of that, I'm gonna be calling the winner facetiming them, letting them know that they won and stuff like that, which would be really cool. So if it's one of you guys, if it's one of you listeners, that would make my heart.

[Sebastian]

So when are you picking the winner?

[Josh Leyva]

That's a good question. I will put that in the description.

[Sebastian]

Okay. I'm someone who loves to Give. Yeah, I just sent out like a bunch of clothes for like, like fitness inspo for people who are doing the six week challenge.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

So I was gonna say something, but I can't say anymore because I don't know when they're gonna get picked. So I don't know if there's gonna be enough time. I was gonna say I was gonna buy the Mexico gear.

[Josh Leyva]

Well, it's gonna be before the end of the month.

[Sebastian]

Okay. So I have time.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah, you have time. Yeah.

[Sebastian]

So I can say that.

[Josh Leyva]

You could say that.

[Sebastian]

Okay. So whenever you pick that winner.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

You give me their information, huh. And I'll set up a little, you know, a la platika. You know, I have my own little laplace.

[Josh Leyva]

I want in on that. Okay, we'll get one in on that.

[Sebastian]

Okay. We'll. We'll hook them up with some Mexico

[Josh Leyva]

gear, like full deck, like the jersey, the practice thing.

[Sebastian]

Hey, and if, if you want to go with Australia, I'll get you some Australia gear. I ain't mad at it. It should be good. It's gonna be a little hard to find maybe right now. Right now.

[Josh Leyva]

Because of the World Cup. Is Australia in the World Cup? Yeah. Right.

[Jessica]

I would assume it's Mexico versus Australia.

[Josh Leyva]

No, but it's not World Cup. This is a friendly.

[Sebastian]

Yeah, I think.

[Saul]

Yeah, they are in the World Cup.

[Sebastian]

Okay.

[Josh Leyva]

So it might be easier because I know all those years are going on, but.

[Sebastian]

Okay, we got you regardless. We got you, got you, got. You gotta go laced up. You know, when you go to Mexico game.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

It's not just watching the game. You got to get your fit ready, bro.

[Josh Leyva]

I already got the new black jersey that just dropped. Salud on the background. The. On the back of the back of the jersey. And I get it on the 29th. Wow. Hopefully it gets here on time. I hope I was able to get it delivered.

[Sebastian]

You will.

[Josh Leyva]

Hopefully.

[Sebastian]

What size did you get? Large.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

I knew it.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah. Mind you, I have the new white one too, and I. I happened to get one of them gifted and the other one I purchased, I got a Gifted in xl and then I bought a large. So I was able to see which one fits me better. And guess what fits me better?

[Sebastian]

Large.

[Josh Leyva]

The medium.

[Sebastian]

Yeah. I have this jersey that I've been. It's. It's on ice right now, so I think if you, if you look at it, you'd appreciate it. It's on ice right now. I'm just waiting for that game, bro. And mind you, my birthday is the day before your boy's turning 30, cheeks. That's 36 for you.

[Josh Leyva]

I figured.

[Sebastian]

I'm 36, bro. I'm finally entering your old world. Okay.

[Josh Leyva]

Now.

[Sebastian]

But no matter what, I will never cat up to you. You'll always be old, bro.

[Josh Leyva]

You have such a prominent bicep vein right now. It's distracting.

[Sebastian]

Is that good, though?

[Josh Leyva]

No, it's hot, dude.

[Sebastian]

Is it hot?

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah, man.

[Sebastian]

What do you want me to tell you? I've been working out a lot.

[Josh Leyva]

Dude, you're blushing hard right now.

[Sebastian]

Today was leg day.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah. And today was leg day.

[Sebastian]

One thing about leg day is if you get leg day out of the

[Josh Leyva]

way and tell them what I told you, too, about the leg day thing when I was like, bro, you know how I know we feel good?

[Sebastian]

Oh, yeah.

[Josh Leyva]

So we'll go finish your story first.

[Sebastian]

Okay. So basically, I realized that leg day is important because leg day. Yeah, it's like the most difficult thing to do because leg day hurts. Leg day is not just a pump. Leg day is a full ass pump plus cardio workout. It's like, it reminds me when I had to wake up at five, six in the morning and, like, pour concrete.

[Josh Leyva]

Okay. So you know how leg day for us is, like, something we don't necessarily look forward to. Like, we much rather do a chest

[Sebastian]

day, an arm day, but for the ladies, right. Is glute day.

[Josh Leyva]

Right. So do you. So, Jess, do you love a leg day?

[Jessica]

I do.

[Josh Leyva]

Okay. Because you. You're looking for that pump, right?

[Jessica]

Yeah. And I also feel like I sweat a lot more.

[Sebastian]

Yeah, it's a whole ass workout, and

[Jessica]

I just feel more accomplished.

[Josh Leyva]

What's your second favorite, like, body part to work out?

[Sebastian]

She goes. My favorite is left cheek. And my favorite. My favorite right cheek.

[Jessica]

I'd have to say probably shoulders or back.

[Josh Leyva]

Oh, okay, cool.

[Sebastian]

Yes. Same with Karen.

[Josh Leyva]

But I feel like girls like back.

[Sebastian]

Yeah, girls love back.

[Josh Leyva]

Girls like back.

[Sebastian]

Karen has a really nice back.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

Did I say ass or back? Both. So. So the thing that I realized about leg days, I'm starting to like it a little bit better. Right?

[Josh Leyva]

Okay.

[Sebastian]

And it's. It's just because of the certain movements that we're doing, and I feel like it's. That routine is working out for me, but leg day just complements the other body parts so much more. For example, today we did legs, and now it makes me look. It's like, okay, cool. You did that and you got it done, right? Yeah. And now I cannot wait to hit shoulders accomplished because I already hit legs. And that makes sense.

[Josh Leyva]

And you did it.

[Sebastian]

And I did it. Yeah. So now tomorrow, it's different when you don't hit legs and then do shoulders because you're like, something's missing. But when you already hit legs and you're like, yeah, yeah, I got that done. That hump is done. And now every single body part coming next is just such a treat.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

To have.

[Josh Leyva]

I agree, man. I agree.

[Sebastian]

And maybe that's like bro ology gym talk. And, like, that's just the way I see things.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah. It's like. Which is great. Yeah.

[Sebastian]

But like, now, tomorrow, when we do, like, shoulders.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

Oh, man. It's. What a reward.

[Josh Leyva]

So this is like, kind of off topic, but same topic for the guys who are listening right now. If you are. Are skipping out on leg day, don't do that. And I tell you why. One, you want to create a balanced physique. Right. Two, the benefits of hitting legs in so many different variables is. Is amazing. One, you're going to expend a lot of calories.

[Sebastian]

Yeah.

[Josh Leyva]

Right to one. It also boosts your testosterone.

[Sebastian]

Testosterone levels.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah. So the benefits of that, how it's going to help elevate and create a better physique all around.

[Sebastian]

Yeah.

[Josh Leyva]

Is super beneficial. So if you're skipping out on leg

[Sebastian]

day and what happens when you increase your testosterone levels?

[Josh Leyva]

Boners.

[Sebastian]

A lot of boners in the morning, which I still don't understand why. Why we do that. And you know what they say?

[Josh Leyva]

Is that what you were going to say?

[Sebastian]

No, they say that having boners in the morning, because that's like a thing. Ladies. I'm sorry. It's like a thing. And you. If you live with your man, you probably know that he wakes up, but he. It's actually a good sign if your partner wakes up with a sick ass. Fiero.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

Because that means that his testosterone levels are pretty decent.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

And in the morning is. And if you're trying to have a kid in the morning, having sex, you have a better possibility of getting your partner pregnant. Did you know that?

[Josh Leyva]

Nobody makes sense. Because I know our testosterone is highest in the morning.

[Sebastian]

In the morning. That's why you're getting that boner.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

Why don't you walk around with a surprise boner in the afternoon or at night? No, it's when you wake up. Why? I thought it was because I needed to go to the bathroom, but no, that's not it.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

You just have one.

[Josh Leyva]

It's weird. Yes.

[Sebastian]

Your test is peaked.

[Josh Leyva]

Peaked. Yeah.

[Sebastian]

But it's. It's the. It's so if you guys are trying to have a kid, this is good. Wait, wait. Instead of awake and bake, it's more of a wake and and clap? No, there's my being too vulgar.

[Josh Leyva]

No, you're not. But we could do better.

[Sebastian]

It has a rhyme. It didn't rhyme.

[Saul]

Wake and take.

[Sebastian]

Wake and take. Damn salad, you're erotic, dude.

[Josh Leyva]

After my being too vulgar, you're a little dark, bro. We can take wake and take this.

[Sebastian]

We can take this dick, bro. Whoa, dude.

[Josh Leyva]

Well, you can take this dick.

[Sebastian]

Huh?

[Josh Leyva]

No, wait.

[Sebastian]

Can take. Well, I like wake and take. I don't think we gotta say.

[Josh Leyva]

No, I think you gotta say it, bro. We can take this dick.

[Sebastian]

Wake and take dick. You ready?

[Josh Leyva]

Wake up.

[Sebastian]

Yeah. So it's in the morning.

[Josh Leyva]

How do we get here?

[Sebastian]

I don't know, but that's the whole point of the platica. But what Josh showed me today, and it made me feel good about myself, is today we hit leg day shirtless, which is no reason why to do that. But we felt like it because we were getting hot. Not with each other, but just physically because they were doing sleds and we're getting sweaty, and when you do legs, you sweat more.

[Josh Leyva]

Sweat a lot.

[Sebastian]

It's like a whole ass workout. But can you say the story? Because it's a quick story. But I forgot what you said.

[Josh Leyva]

I mean, it was along the lines of, like, you know, I know that we're feeling good about ourselves and we're proud of ourselves because we're literally hitting legs shirtless. And that's unnecessary. And that's something I would have never done. Right. Because I'm just trying to get the work on it. But I feel so good of myself, of ourselves.

[Sebastian]

Right.

[Josh Leyva]

That I was like, you know, I can take my shirt off when I'm doing legs, which is cool.

[Sebastian]

Yeah. And it's.

[Josh Leyva]

Honestly, bro, it's meaningless, but it also.

[Sebastian]

It's like a proud moment for us.

[Josh Leyva]

A cool moment.

[Sebastian]

Yeah. Damn. We are. We're doing good.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

In our health and we are confident in ourselves.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

You know, so. Yeah, I agree.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah. That was it.

[Sebastian]

Yeah, that was it. Today we have. Am I the asshole? Right, Jess?

[Josh Leyva]

Damn. We're bringing it back.

[Sebastian]

Yeah, we're bringing it back. So y' all need this? Oh, we need this.

[Josh Leyva]

Jess, I'm so sorry. Can you go back? What number episode is this? 270.

[Jessica]

247.

[Josh Leyva]

Oh, 240. So we're not gonna hit 300 this year? No, no, that'll be next year.

[Sebastian]

You could if you want to.

[Josh Leyva]

No.

[Sebastian]

If we hit 300, does that mean we have to film twice a week, like, post?

[Josh Leyva]

Not every week, but we'd have to do it a couple weeks for the most part.

[Jessica]

Almost every week.

[Sebastian]

Every week. Right. Halfway through the count, bro, it's.

[Josh Leyva]

Oh, yeah, you're right.

[Sebastian]

You're right, bro. Can you believe it's already May. My. My brother.

[Josh Leyva]

What the.

[Sebastian]

Dude, dude, remember last year? Like, suck, but like, the fires happened and, like, all that political was happening. January felt like three months, bro. And like, I felt like that year went by a little slower in the beginning, but. Bro, I can't believe it's almost my birthday. May 29, the king was born, bro.

[Josh Leyva]

That's me, baby.

[Sebastian]

Our queen. Yeah. And by the way, I see all the Tick Tocks of you guys calling me like, like zesty. You think I give a. I don't, bro.

[Josh Leyva]

People.

[Sebastian]

I'll be reading that in my GG3, bro.

[Josh Leyva]

Wow.

[Sebastian]

I'm happy. I'm chilling, bro. Yeah, yeah. But I love it, bro. Well, here's engaged. The biggest compliment I can get.

[Josh Leyva]

Listen, bro.

[Sebastian]

Because my hair was all nice and luscious. Oh, it was beautiful, bro.

[Josh Leyva]

Listen, I have a couple thoughts. We don't need to go into the details. We're talking about it offline.

[Sebastian]

One, barely. Don't give them too much credit.

[Josh Leyva]

Barely. Barely. You are been growing out your hair. You care about your hair, so you want to maintain it. You did a little trim, right. You did a little upkeep. So you went to a salon.

[Sebastian]

Yes.

[Josh Leyva]

Deals with long hair. So the fact that you were, like, maintaining and doing something healthy for your hair and you got shit on because of that is crazy to me. Like, that makes you gay for doing.

[Sebastian]

Because I had a blowout?

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah. They question your whole sexuality just because you got a blowout.

[Sebastian]

Yeah. And I hate how they're right. And.

[Josh Leyva]

Can I tell you something? They're right. Yeah, but what I was going to say is you posted the video and on top of that, Karen told you to post it.

[Sebastian]

Yeah, bro.

[Josh Leyva]

You got the people going. Even me. I even put. I even put gay. I like this. Okay. Gay.

[Sebastian]

No, I. I love it. I love it. And like, like, like, like real. Like not saying real, but, you know, people who like, really with us, like, they're not. They're not the one saying it. That's the thing about Tick Tock is people who are like keyboard warriors, they don't really like, follow you. They just. They're just seeing something like that. That's why A lot of people don't like to be on Tick Tock, I feel, because it's a lot of people that, like, they just run into you and their explorer page and they like to talk.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

About negative things. About you. Yeah. But no, yeah, I saw it. It was cool. That's whatever.

[Josh Leyva]

I honestly thought the video was great. I double tapped that. Your hair looks great.

[Sebastian]

Me too. You know what's crazy is that Karen posted on her stories first because she filmed the whole thing because she's like, you should film me. You should tell people that, like, like, you're gonna go get a haircut, you know, like, chop it off.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

And I was like, yeah. But I was kind of, like, in a rush. I was like, I don't. It's okay. So she was, like, taking content because I was gonna film it, but I didn't. She did. She was, like, taking bits and pieces. She posted on her stories, and people were, like, laughing and stuff. It was like, he's like, oh, my God, he has better hair than me. Yeah. I was getting a lot of engagement on stories. I was like, should I post on reels? And I had some other videos too, like, that she sent me, and I was like, making this whole, like, thing, like, it was like a minute video.

[Josh Leyva]

Okay.

[Sebastian]

She goes, no, just post this with the sound, dude.

[Josh Leyva]

Marketing genius.

[Sebastian]

He's a marketing genius, bro.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah. Isn't it so crazy, like, that video that you did absolutely nothing and nothing but just, like, sit there and look pretty? Look.

[Sebastian]

Does that video does better than Cheeseman

[Josh Leyva]

channels the most viral video you've ever posted?

[Sebastian]

Yeah. And, I mean, I'm grateful for it getting views anyway. But, yeah, when I set up this camera and I put luts and sick ass transitions, and I'm in my microphone with subtitles and this and that is it just okay?

[Josh Leyva]

Nobody cares.

[Sebastian]

Nobody cares, bro.

[Josh Leyva]

That's all right.

[Sebastian]

But yeah, man, I'm the zesty king. My boy or queen. Let's get it started, bro.

[Josh Leyva]

Just hit us. What's up, girl?

[Sebastian]

You're lagging it, bro. You always want to talk about my Tick Tocks. I'm not even on Tick Tock, bro.

[Josh Leyva]

You're not, but you are.

[Sebastian]

But I am. All right.

[Josh Leyva]

Yes.

[Sebastian]

What's up?

[Jessica]

Am I the for testing my partner's loyalty with a fake account? I had a gut feeling my partner might be entertaining other people, so I made a fake account and started messaging them to see how they would respond. They ended up flirting back, and when I confronted them, they were more upset about the fake account. Than about what they did. Now they're saying I'm manipulative and cross the line, but I feel like I just exposed the truth.

[Josh Leyva]

This is such a good one.

[Sebastian]

Because they're both bad on both sides.

[Josh Leyva]

Yes, exactly. Exactly. Look, first of all, let me apologize for you having to go through that. Right? Like, that feeling is, like, one of the worst feelings, and then, like, to go through with it and then seeing that. That your feelings were validated. Right. Sucks. I have to be honest, though, my personal perspective, I don't agree on the approach, and I'm not. This is not to validate that guy's feelings by any means.

[Sebastian]

Yeah.

[Josh Leyva]

You know what I mean? Because, bro, you got caught up. Right? And. And you were in the wrong as well for. For doing that. Because clearly, if she. There's a lot. There's a high chance that he. This is how he just maneuvers dayto day. Right. There's a better approach. I think it just. It just. For your own soul.

[Sebastian]

Yeah, there's better. You. You did too much hurt when. Okay, so.

[Josh Leyva]

Oh, there's a quote that. It's like, death by a thousand. Somebody help me out here.

[Sebastian]

Death by a thousand cuts is still death.

[Josh Leyva]

No, no, that's the quote. Death by a thousand cuts.

[Sebastian]

Got it.

[Josh Leyva]

You. Instead of, like, one. One cut to the dagger, you're, like, slicing yourself. Slicing yourself. Slicing. And it's just eating you.

[Sebastian]

Kills you. Amiga. If you already needed to do fake accounts, you should have stopped yourself there and said, damn, what am I doing? This is the relationship that I'm in, that I have to do a fake account to figure something out. Should have stopped it right there and understand what kind of position you're in.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah. Now.

[Sebastian]

But whatever. You did it, and you. You found it out.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah, you're here now.

[Sebastian]

You're here now. So you got your truth, and this

[Josh Leyva]

is where it goes. Like, if you feel a certain way, like, maybe this is territory for you guys to, like, split up. Doesn't matter what he thinks, bro. You got caught. I don't care how you view how I caught you. You got caught. I don't want anything to do with this, you know? But if. If. If you're gonna work it out, it just makes it challenging. This is why I think in those kind of situations, when you're gonna go into that and you're gonna do that, you better have a plan of action. Because, like, it's like, okay, if I find out that he is, you know, doing this, that, to me, is crossing the boundary as cheating. I'm Gonna leave this relationship.

[Sebastian]

Yeah.

[Josh Leyva]

But if you're like, just gonna do it, just to do it and then like, I don't know. I don't know what now it's like, you gotta. You see what I'm saying? That's why I feel like it's. It's not the right approach. Because now she's like, what do I do?

[Sebastian]

Right.

[Josh Leyva]

So. No, you're not an asshole. By any means. By any means. I think the way he responded to you is kind of assholey. Like, why did you do that? It's like, bro, let's handle this first. Like, this is where I'm at. This is what I found you doing. And what. What I found you doing is a lot worse than me creating an account to catch your ass.

[Sebastian]

Yeah.

[Josh Leyva]

You know what I mean? But damn. It's. It's.

[Sebastian]

I agree, it's crazy, but I don't think you're an. I think you're somebody that was sad. I think someone that needs to find something out. So I'm sorry that you had to go through that. I don't think you're the. But like you said, I don't think you need to be going that far to be doing things.

[Josh Leyva]

And bro, if that's somebody's way to do it, like, that's what they.

[Sebastian]

Yeah.

[Josh Leyva]

Then so be.

[Sebastian]

But you're not an. I don't think so.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah, he is.

[Sebastian]

He is. For making you even do all that.

[Josh Leyva]

See, for me, like, if that was my friend, I would want to have a conversation with them. I said, okay, look, I understand how you feel, and I know you want to do this because you have this feeling. Let's walk through the process of, like, why do you feel like. Let's unpackage the relationship. Right. Let's peel it back. Because it's so much deeper, bro. You know what I mean? That's just like a quick. It's not the right hit. It doesn't solve anything. You know what I mean? Like, it goes so much deeper on both ends.

[Sebastian]

I agree.

[Josh Leyva]

I'm very curious. Your thoughts, Jess, as a. A woman from the female species.

[Jessica]

Yeah, I.

[Josh Leyva]

We've all done it.

[Sebastian]

Yeah, right.

[Jessica]

Yeah. And I feel like you're just validating.

[Sebastian]

Yeah. I'm not judging that you already had.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

You know what I mean?

[Jessica]

And kind of looking for the evidence to do. To support the thing you already know you have to do. Like inside, you know what I mean?

[Sebastian]

She's a sick ass investigator.

[Josh Leyva]

She got it done.

[Sebastian]

Take as detective.

[Jessica]

Yeah. But I feel like, you know, getting Rid of. Removing yourself from a situation like this just kind of allows for so much good to come to you because you're, you know, getting rid of that negativity, like, all of the space that it's occupying in your brain. Now you can focus on other things and ultimately, like, you end up winning. You know, this clearly doesn't serve you anymore. So do what you got to do. And it's going to be painful. It's going to always be painful in the beginning. But again, like, you are opening yourself up to so many more opportunities by removing this one thing that's continuing to challenge you.

[Josh Leyva]

And that's a really good point because what that's doing to you, like, how much room that's occupying in your mind, your heart and your soul, when you can be investing all that energy into goodness in your life and focusing on, like, the gratitude of your life, like, it just. It robs you from so much. So that alone is a reason why you should really potentially question your relationship. Not saying you should. I don't want to, like, guide any somebody to breaking up, but that's a really good point. Like, what that does to you, it robs you from the joy of life.

[Jessica]

Yeah. Because this has so much anxiety, you know, and like, we've all been there, like, myself included. But getting rid of that was. It could be the best thing you ever do.

[Josh Leyva]

Break up with his ass. It.

[Sebastian]

Yeah. Him. You're not the.

[Josh Leyva]

No, no.

[Sebastian]

If anything, I hear, and I feel bad, you know, that she had to go through that also.

[Jessica]

It kind of sounds like a little manipulative from his point of view to, like, now he's blaming you. Well, like.

[Sebastian]

Yeah, that's it. He's the. It's.

[Josh Leyva]

It's a. It's a cop out. Right. Like, he's embarrassed that he got caught.

[Jessica]

Yeah.

[Josh Leyva]

So it's like that's. You're just wailing.

[Sebastian]

Yeah. Whaling, huh?

[Josh Leyva]

Like a whaler.

[Sebastian]

Like a whaler.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Jessica]

This next one, I have a friend who complains every time we go out.

[Sebastian]

I hate that.

[Jessica]

The music, the food, the people, everything. She also lowkey judges of. Judges us if we're dancing or drinking.

[Sebastian]

Oh, my.

[Jessica]

Which makes everyone feel awkward.

[Josh Leyva]

Bro.

[Jessica]

We've talked to her about it, but nothing's changed. For my birthday, I didn't invite.

[Sebastian]

Good.

[Jessica]

Everyone had a great time excluding her.

[Sebastian]

Oh, my God.

[Jessica]

Am I the.

[Sebastian]

No, you're not. She had it coming, dude.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah. Dang.

[Sebastian]

She complains on every aspect.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah. Yeah. And you know what? I think you not inviting her opens the door. That if she feels this type of way, like, you have a conversation with her, you know, and sometimes those conversations are uncomfortable, but they need to be had.

[Sebastian]

Yeah.

[Josh Leyva]

Look, man, you go out with us every single time and you're complaining, you're judging us.

[Sebastian]

Nobody wants.

[Josh Leyva]

You're not. You're not fun to be around. You kind of ruined the vibe, man. And we like you, but for whatever reason, when you're out with us, it's just not it. So we didn't not invite you because we. We knew that you weren't gonna create the experience that we wanted, bro. And those conversations are really hard, but you just gotta, like, almost, like, word vomit them.

[Sebastian]

Yeah. And if she's, like, true to herself and like, actually, like, respects your opinion, she would say, you know what? You're right. I do suck. I am a buzz kill. I am a buzz kill. I should work that. I should work on that.

[Josh Leyva]

You think buzz kills know they're buzz kills or do they need to be buzz killers?

[Sebastian]

Never admit they're bus killers. Just like how picky people never admit they're picky. You know, that's the thing.

[Josh Leyva]

Have you guys ever been annoying and you're like, I'm kind of being annoying. Like, have you ever felt that? Like, you're like, you know, like, you're like, I guess I gotta be. I guess I can see how I was kind of being annoying a little bit.

[Sebastian]

Maybe I was younger.

[Josh Leyva]

Definitely not now.

[Sebastian]

Yeah, maybe like when I drink a lot and I would just like, yeah, keep going. You know, like kind of be loud.

[Josh Leyva]

Oh, worse, bro.

[Sebastian]

Yeah. But I was never that. That loud, loud person. It was more kind of like I might. I might be annoying to my wife or I might be annoying to just one friend. Not like everybody.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah, that's what.

[Sebastian]

But then. But you know, my wife would be like, hey, relax. And I'm like, okay.

[Josh Leyva]

I saw this tick tock where this guy was like, when you have, like, anxiety because you're like, something about, like, overthinking how much you, like, yapped the night before. That's all it is. We're just kind of being, like, annoying. We're drunk. We're just like chatter boxes.

[Sebastian]

Yeah. You're especially more annoying with people who are not in your level.

[Josh Leyva]

For sure.

[Sebastian]

At your level.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

But no, you're not an for. And plus, you've already, like, put up with it. You've tasted her bus kill already, right?

[Josh Leyva]

No tast good.

[Sebastian]

Not taste good at all.

[Josh Leyva]

No taste good at all, man.

[Sebastian]

But she's. You probably knew she Was going to be upset, too. You knew this was coming. So, yes, you should have that conversation now. But honestly, good for you for not inviting her, because some people need get. Need to get put in their place.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah, yeah.

[Sebastian]

You're. You're not an. She's an. For even confronting you instead of being, like, looking in the mirror and be

[Josh Leyva]

like, I'm a buzz kill, dude.

[Sebastian]

I'm a buzzkill. True Life. Remember mtv? True Life.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

You know, people have never seen that.

[Josh Leyva]

Is there anybody in this room who has not seen True Life?

[Sebastian]

What? You just.

[Jessica]

I've seen it.

[Sebastian]

Oh, yeah.

[Jessica]

So young.

[Sebastian]

You've never seen True Life?

[Saul]

I've seen it, like, on the. On the schedule.

[Sebastian]

Yeah.

[Saul]

By just having clicked. Yeah, Just having clicked it.

[Sebastian]

What schedule?

[Saul]

Like on the DirecTV.

[Sebastian]

The TV Guide?

[Saul]

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Josh Leyva]

That's crazy.

[Sebastian]

Kids. N. So you're not even that young. I mean, you are 98.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

Eight years older than me. Dude, when you were born, I was already, like, speaking English.

[Jessica]

There's 369 episodes of that show.

[Sebastian]

Dude, that was a great show. It taught me a lot.

[Josh Leyva]

Not only that, a lot of these, like, episodes are memes, too, like.

[Sebastian]

Yeah, but that was real life. True life.

[Josh Leyva]

Crazy.

[Sebastian]

True life. I was addicted to chalk. Just be eating chalk. And that's crazy, bro.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah, I feel like a lot of was kind of made up, dude.

[Sebastian]

There was a true life. I was. Who knows? Maybe True life. I'm addicted to plastic bags. Remember the girl? Oh, my God.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Sebastian]

Whoa. Sometimes I'll listen to you, and I'm like, that guy's a genius.

[Josh Leyva]

That's smart. All right, just next.

[Sebastian]

That was a good one. That was actually a really good one.

[Josh Leyva]

That was good. That was good. It was good. Her, dude.

[Sebastian]

Yeah. Buzz kill. And by the way, if you're a buzzkill back at home.

[Josh Leyva]

Stop.

[Sebastian]

You don't have to go that route. And if you know that you're gonna be a buzzkill. Nosalgas.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

No Salgas.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

You know, because me, too. Sometimes I don't want to go out. And if I go out, I'm just not gonna be who I really want to be, you know? Then I won't go out, because I know I'm not gonna give you my all.

[Josh Leyva]

I'm gonna be whack.

[Sebastian]

Yeah.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah, that's it.

[Sebastian]

Don't be whack.

[Josh Leyva]

Well said, bro. Well said.

[Sebastian]

Do you still look at me and I'm a genius, too.

[Josh Leyva]

I'm a genius.

[Jessica]

Am I the asshole for exposing my friend after they talked about me behind my back?

[Josh Leyva]

No.

[Jessica]

I found out one of my close friends was talking badly about me to other people. Instead of confronting them privately, I posted screenshots of what they said so everyone could read it.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah, good.

[Jessica]

Now they're saying I embarrassed them and I should have handled it offline. But I feel like if you talk behind my back, you deserve to get exposed.

[Josh Leyva]

What's the quote? Around and find out. You're gonna talk about me, and then I'm gonna confront you. Then I. The way I do it is wrong. You're talking about me, and I found out. It got to me, so I'm gonna. Like, now, mind you, I'm grown. I'm not exposing somebody to that. But, like, if you want to do it after they were talking shit about you, you have the receipts for it. Like, them.

[Sebastian]

Them. Yeah.

[Josh Leyva]

Like, first of all, why are you feeling bad for them? They were talking about you. Yeah, true. Like, bro, I don't feel bad for you. You're talking about me. So what do you want me to. You want me, the person that you were talking about, to feel bad for you?

[Sebastian]

Yeah, them. Them. Should we all say at the same time?

[Josh Leyva]

Ready?

[Sebastian]

Three, two, one.

[Josh Leyva]

We're gonna get demonetized.

[Sebastian]

No, we're not. YouTube loves us.

[Josh Leyva]

YouTube does love us.

[Sebastian]

I. I agree. They already took a. About you. Them.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah, bro.

[Sebastian]

Okay, so. But me, personally, this is not my approach. Not my approach. I don't give a. Yeah, but, like, bro, if you ain't super gangster on

[Josh Leyva]

them, it cares, bro.

[Sebastian]

Who cares?

[Josh Leyva]

And then. And you know what? At that point, you gotta own it.

[Sebastian]

Yeah.

[Josh Leyva]

Did it. You were talking about me. Yeah, I swallowed, pissed.

[Sebastian]

Yeah.

[Josh Leyva]

Don't. You were mad talking.

[Sebastian]

Don't do that again.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah, I was mad when I posted that.

[Sebastian]

Or that goes for everybody. Yeah.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

For me, kind of dramatic. I just talk to that person, and that's my business.

[Josh Leyva]

But it also depends on who it is. If it's somebody I don't care about.

[Sebastian]

Sure. Sure don't care. Yeah, I would. I would have fun with it.

[Josh Leyva]

Whatever.

[Sebastian]

Yeah. If it's somebody that's not really, like, in my tight circle, I'm gonna have fun with this. Yeah. Yeah. But if it's somebody that, like, we have maybe something that, like, I want to confront. Yeah, I'll confront you, but I'm not gonna do that.

[Josh Leyva]

Never.

[Sebastian]

But I don't think you're the ass. Y' all think you're an.

[Josh Leyva]

No. No.

[Sebastian]

All right.

[Jessica]

Am I the. For hooking up with my friend's Ex. Even though it's been a year, My friend dated this guy for.

[Sebastian]

Stop there.

[Josh Leyva]

No, hey, don't literally him. Jesus. Love that joke, huh?

[Sebastian]

You got. You got to go on right there.

[Jessica]

My friend dated this guy for about six months, but they broke up over a year ago. And she's been in a whole new relationship since then. No, recently, me and her ex started talking, and we ended up hooking up. I didn't think it was a big deal because they've both clearly moved on, but now she's calling me weird and saying I broke a girl code.

[Josh Leyva]

Look, she's right. She's has every right to feel hurt about that.

[Sebastian]

Yeah, it's.

[Josh Leyva]

It's. It's.

[Sebastian]

She's probably not even her. She probably doesn't care.

[Josh Leyva]

No, but it's like, you're my friend.

[Sebastian]

You're my friend. I wouldn't. I wouldn't want you doing that for somebody.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah, yeah, exactly. Exactly.

[Sebastian]

Or maybe she was like, hey, I'm talking to your ex. And then she was like, yeah, them.

[Josh Leyva]

Right?

[Sebastian]

Literally.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah. I think this is a. This is a part where, like, clearly you didn't have a conversation before, so that's why she's bothered. But I think if, like, you're like. You see that, like, oh, there's something potentially brewing here. Like, yo, by the way, like, I don't know what's happening between me and this person, but we're kind of talking. I know you dated. You kind of have to bring that up.

[Sebastian]

Yeah.

[Josh Leyva]

Because then you can't get mad at her for being like, yo, what the fuck?

[Sebastian]

I think because it's shady.

[Josh Leyva]

It's not.

[Sebastian]

Right. It's weird.

[Josh Leyva]

It's weird.

[Sebastian]

I think it's weird.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

All the vatos in the world.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah, but, bro. But I, like, look, if she wanted to date him and the girl gave her the green light, more power to them. Yeah. Right. So be it. But it's like, you got to have that conversation because if you don't, like,

[Sebastian]

you're kind of weird.

[Josh Leyva]

You're being shady.

[Sebastian]

Yeah, weird, because you hid that from your friend.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah. And then you're like, now she's saying, like, this is wrong. Like, this is a girl code. I'm like, yeah, you kind of did. Because a girl code is. Correct me if I'm wrong, girl. Like, hey, what I just said, like, bringing it up at least.

[Sebastian]

Right?

[Josh Leyva]

At least. And then her giving her the opportunity to say, like, I don't like that. You know what I mean? Or I don't care. Genuinely don't yeah. So then now she can't say, you know, I talked to you about it. You gave me the green light. Now you feel weird about it. And this is on you now, girl, you know, because I talked to you.

[Sebastian]

Yeah. So the one that wrote this is the one that did it. You're the ass.

[Josh Leyva]

Oh, my God. I was talking to the.

[Sebastian]

Yeah, you. Yeah, you're the dude.

[Josh Leyva]

No, I mean, it is. It is.

[Sebastian]

It is confirmed, asshole.

[Josh Leyva]

And mind you, this is our opinion. Yeah, no, but it is. It. Yeah, it's. I just think she should have talked to her. That's it, man. Like, beforehand.

[Sebastian]

Yeah, it's your friend.

[Josh Leyva]

It's your friend.

[Sebastian]

Yeah. And it is girl code.

[Josh Leyva]

It is. She's right.

[Sebastian]

She's right. She's right. Yeah. What an asshole.

[Jessica]

I'm going to ask, am I the asshole for skipping family parties because I don't like my relatives? I've started skipping family parties because being around my relatives stresses me out. There's always drama, gossip, or people asking invasive questions about my life. My parents say I'm being disrespectful and that my family is everything. But honestly, I'd rather protect my peace than force fake interactions.

[Sebastian]

Not an asshole.

[Josh Leyva]

This is a really good one, though, because, bro, family is very important, especially in the Latino community. Right. Like, we love our families, but, like, at the end of the day, I think, like, our new. This new generation that us growing up in, like, we're very big on, like, protecting our peace, and sometimes it's the family who kind of disrupts that.

[Sebastian]

Yeah.

[Josh Leyva]

And it sucks because, like, obviously you want to be around your family, because

[Sebastian]

I would say that's most the case that most of the.

[Josh Leyva]

A lot of times what it is. So it's tricky because I'm not going to be like, oh, don't ever hang out with your family because they're disturbing you and you don't like it. It's like, you look. It's uncomfortable, you know, and your family might, like, push it a little bit, but they're your family. But I think you can also be selective as you get older. Like, bro, me, I'm selective on, like, the family events that I want to go to. You know what I mean? Because I also. I'm a big believer in, like, protecting your peas.

[Sebastian]

Right.

[Josh Leyva]

And I know that, you know, I've been in that kind of situation where, like, family could be a little judgy, you know, And I think that everybody faces that. This isn't like a nobody here listening is like, I've never Felt like people feel that from your family where you're gonna be close to people like that. Like we're people. We're gonna have. You know what I mean? Tension at times. This naturally happens, right?

[Sebastian]

Yeah.

[Josh Leyva]

So no, I, it. I don't think you're an asshole. By the way, to answer her question. Do not.

[Sebastian]

Not at all.

[Josh Leyva]

And I think if you need to take a time. If you. Some of you get invited to a family party and you don't want to go because you're just not feeling it and you know what's going to come with that? Take a moment to yourself. That's fine. But just don't neglect your family. That's my biggest thing. Don't neglect your family. You know?

[Sebastian]

Yeah.

[Josh Leyva]

And I even think we talk about this all the time. We. When we were talking about it with our last guest. Bro. Communication is everything. And that includes family. That's not just like relationships and stuff. Like sometimes it's your family.

[Sebastian]

That's it.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah. Like I feel like you. You judge me. You know, I shouldn't say that. I don't want. That's not my place. But I've seen those conversations happen. It wasn't myself but I witnessed it. Or somebody in my family confronted somebody else in my family saying like every time I'm around, I feel this. Like, you and dude, their relationship has completely changed. Like they're like, they're obsessed with each other. Like they're always hanging out. And it's crazy because sometimes you need that you just need to talk to somebody. Sometimes people don't realize what they're doing, you know. So I think that goes back to family as well. Communication is everything. That is the answer. So if you feel it in your heart for a specific person, maybe it's worth exploring talking with them.

[Jessica]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

100. It's like when I got married, there's some family members I didn't invite who are somewhat close to me and I didn't want that because they're disruptive. They're not my cup of tea. And it sucks to say that because that's my family. That's blood.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

You know, and that might have been my. Which is not. But like my. It could be your mother's sister.

[Josh Leyva]

Right.

[Sebastian]

It can be your. Your dad's brother. I know. You know, and then in your head you're like, damn, like, I'm really doing this to my dad right now. Yeah. But mind you, it's not your parents wedding. It's your wedding and your wife who is not married, who is not that bloodline. So you have to respect her. Her opinion as well. But yeah, it's a hard decision.

[Josh Leyva]

It's hard.

[Sebastian]

But you know what? Don't give a rat's ass.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah. And like you said, I think she said. But honestly, I'd rather protect my piece than force a fake interaction.

[Sebastian]

I respect that.

[Josh Leyva]

That's crazy. It feels crazy to say that about like your family member. But that is true life, man. Like, that's just how it feels sometimes

[Sebastian]

something to be it. Most of the time, I bet you anything, most of the time it'd be your own family that holds you back.

[Josh Leyva]

Crazy, man. Yeah.

[Sebastian]

But I respect that. But I, I. Because me and you are very family oriented. Yeah. So I do believe in like, not completely, like, no disconnecting yourself. Because at the end of the day, like, I don't know, at least for me, I would just be like, I'm just doing this for my mom, you know?

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

Type.

[Josh Leyva]

Me too. It's funny they said that because that's exactly what I thought about, like when you were saying about not inviting people to the wedding, I would talk to my mom, like, hey, Mom, I don't necessarily want to invite this person, but she's like, very adamant about it. I'd have to really, like, talk to my wife, I guess. But like. Yeah, you know, it's tough. That's tough.

[Sebastian]

It is.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

No, but no, you're not an at all. And I respect your decision. That's an amazing thing that you can tell yourself and look yourself in the mirror and be like, don't care. And as you should, because you should protect your priests. Everybody should.

[Josh Leyva]

And by the way, that's the best part about being an adult. You can make your decisions, believe it or not. And look, I'm not, I'm not condoning this, but if you don't want to talk to your family again, you don't have to. You don't have to. You're an adult. You know, you make your own decisions, but you also lay in the bed that you make. So think about that. Whatever that means. Never make my bed anyways.

[Sebastian]

I never have made my bed.

[Josh Leyva]

I'm not going to either.

[Sebastian]

Karen won't let me, actually, because she does. Because I don't know how to do it. He says, just get out of the way. She. She does it really good.

[Josh Leyva]

She's technique.

[Sebastian]

Yeah. Like when I lay on her, like when she. It's like so fresh and fluffy. It's almost like a brand new bed.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah. Yeah.

[Sebastian]

And when I do it, it's just like. Like lumpy. It's not cold. Yeah, it's still like. Like, if I. I don't know. It's weird.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah. Yeah.

[Sebastian]

There's a technique.

[Josh Leyva]

But, bro, we have to. And I'm not saying you don't, because I'm kind of talking to myself. Like, we have to appreciate that because Mo does our bed too. And, like, I'm like, I'll come home. And I'm like, the bed's done. And to me, it's like, so cool. I'm like, wow. The bed's like, done and it's like, beautiful. It's like, cool, you know, Like. But somebody did that. Like, took the time to do that. Because it takes time to do a bed. Making a bed. It's not no easy task, bro. No, it's hard.

[Sebastian]

It's not. It's a really hard thing to do sometimes.

[Josh Leyva]

To make it crispy.

[Sebastian]

No, crispy, like, perfect.

[Josh Leyva]

Like, you know what I mean? Like, the pillows, the sheets, the tucked in, like, everything, bro.

[Sebastian]

Like, it's the fluff that, like, I'm like. I feel like she has like an air compressor and she just sticks it in a sheet and it just.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah, yeah. And then you gotta go other side of the bed. And I got a California king, bro. My miles, bro. Take a jet suite to get to the other side.

[Jessica]

Your sheep smell like bleach.

[Sebastian]

Oh, you gotta take a subway. Yeah, it just. It's just. It's weird. It's like if I. I can't replicate the way she does it. Even. Like the. Even, like the couch downstairs.

[Josh Leyva]

Fluffed.

[Sebastian]

We have this couch where it's like, if I lay on it for like an hour, by the time I'm up, that flat, like. Like a pant. Like a crepe. Like the. Like the. Like the. What is it? The. The sofa part. The. What is it called? Wait, what's. What's this called? The Colchon, I guess. Yeah.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

It's like flat as I'm a damn. Am I really that heavy? No, but it's just. It just gets flat. And by the time she's done with that, like five times the size of what it is.

[Josh Leyva]

Wow.

[Sebastian]

I'm like, I don't understand. Like, is there where you blow into it? I don't get it. She just has that touch.

[Josh Leyva]

It's a woman's touch, bro.

[Sebastian]

Yeah. She was saying to me the other day, I guess she saw a tick tock and she was like, hey, is it true that, like, being a husband, it's cool because you just Wake up and there's a new toothpaste.

[Josh Leyva]

That's what I'm saying. That was my point. That's my.

[Sebastian]

And I'm like, you're right. And you're right. Because sometimes I just. Normal. Normal task, right? I'm brushing my teeth, I open the drawer where the toothpaste is always at, and then a brand new one appears.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah, I never.

[Sebastian]

I don't put it there, bro.

[Josh Leyva]

That. That's my point.

[Sebastian]

Little thing.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah. Yeah. It's beautiful, bro. Like, I just get out of bed, right? Yeah. I hope this doesn't make me sound, like, misogynistic, but it's like. And I come home, the bed's made. I'm like, wow, that's crazy. But I, like, I need to remind myself, like, that was Mo who did that.

[Sebastian]

Yeah.

[Josh Leyva]

Like, she was the one there doing that and that. Take me, bro. I know.

[Sebastian]

It's like.

[Josh Leyva]

Let's just say it's like 10 minutes. That's 10 minutes, bro. And it's annoying. Making a bed is not fun. Nobody's. I can't wait to make my bed. It's, like, kind of annoying, you know?

[Sebastian]

You hit that clean. I can't wait to make my bed. All right. When you did that right now we can, like, replay that.

[Josh Leyva]

Somehow it felt smooth and it's annoying. Making a bed is not fun. Nobody's. I can't wait to make my bed. It's, like, kind of annoying.

[Sebastian]

Can't wait to make my bed, bro. That was like. You hit that. I. I immediately turned to that. Like, damn. I felt it clean.

[Josh Leyva]

Clean, bro.

[Sebastian]

You hit that clean. I ain't gonna lie.

[Josh Leyva]

Thanks, bro.

[Sebastian]

Yeah. No, but it's a thing. And some women, beautiful women. I mean, every. You know, all women are beautiful, but there's certain women that. That's. Sorry. That's what get them hard in the morning. That's what gets them hard at. In. During the day, you know, excited. It's little things, like, they cannot continue their day if things like that aren't done.

[Josh Leyva]

Got it. Got it.

[Sebastian]

Yeah. Sorry. I shouldn't have said hard, but it's over here. You know, it's kind of. You see. You know what I mean?

[Jessica]

Right? Yeah.

[Sebastian]

It's like, wait, you know, it's good that.

[Josh Leyva]

That's the thing that, like, gets you excited. Nah, there's too much shoulder.

[Sebastian]

Yeah.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah. Sorry.

[Jessica]

Just what you're saying that it's nice to hear you guys appreciate your ladies doing.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Jessica]

You know, because it sucks when it's not.

[Sebastian]

Damn.

[Josh Leyva]

No, but you're Right. And. And it's like, these kind of conversations help because it just reminds me, you know, like, that you got to take. You got. You got to appreciate that. You got to appreciate the. The fresh toothpaste that's in your cabinet that you didn't put the.

[Jessica]

There.

[Josh Leyva]

Your bed made when you're not home, the dish is clean, and you can pull out a fresh dish. You don't have to figure it out. Like, bro, that's a blessing. Bro, that's a. Like, that's a blessing.

[Sebastian]

It is. It is. So, guys, if you're listening to this and if you're a boy annoyed. A boy. A man annoyed. And your woman does this for you or your partner, your boyfriend, your girlfriend, whoever, you're lucky. Just know that you're like, I'm lucky. And I'm not saying. We're not saying that we asked for this either. This is just the woman who we're with. They're just great.

[Josh Leyva]

Right? Right.

[Sebastian]

You know, like, I'm not saying, like, well, yeah, like, I expect that. No, no, that's what I'm saying. Like, it just happens. Like, with my wife, it's just. She's just great.

[Josh Leyva]

Love that next one, Jess.

[Jessica]

Last one. Am I the for soft launching someone while still talking to other people? I've been seeing this person for a few weeks and started soft launching them on my story, like posting their hand, a little date date clips, stuff like that. But I'm so casually talking to other people because we haven't made things exclusive. Now they're upset, saying I'm making it seem more serious than it is, and it's misleading.

[Josh Leyva]

Dude, these are good today.

[Sebastian]

Yeah, they're really good today. I don't think.

[Josh Leyva]

I don't. I don't mind.

[Sebastian]

I don't think you're an. I don't think you should even give a rat's ass right now. I think you should just have fun because are they exclusive?

[Jessica]

No.

[Sebastian]

No. Right? Half of your fun. Who is somebody to judge. You're not exclusive right now. You're not, like, in it with somebody. Do your thing, girl. No rat. If you see a rat, you don't give a. About his ass. Don't give a rat's ass. You see a rat. I don't give a. About that rat's ass.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah, yeah. Who cares?

[Sebastian]

Have fun. And then, you know, make the decision if you want to be, you know, bro, that's fun.

[Josh Leyva]

Okay? And I. I want to say I agree with you because dating is a dangerous sport.

[Sebastian]

Once you're in It. You're in it.

[Josh Leyva]

But it's dangerous, bro, because you're. You're playing with emotions, right? Because people fall, right? People fall. Other people fall harder than others, right? And that's not your responsibility. But when you're putting yourself out there on the line and you're dating, it's a risk, right? You're taking a risk. I do believe that, bro.

[Sebastian]

Sure.

[Josh Leyva]

I do believe that.

[Sebastian]

I know that there's a risk.

[Josh Leyva]

I've been hurt before, right? I'm sure I've hurt plenty of people. And it. That's just kind of the territory of the dating game. I don't think soft launching, it's. God, man, that's a big deal, dude. That's a big deal. Even someone shaking his head immediately, like,

[Sebastian]

that's kind of a bigger deal than a hard launch.

[Josh Leyva]

No, definitely not. But a soft launch, bro, it's like, okay, if I know I'm talking to three, five different people, right? And there's one that I have my eye on the most, like, something that's really like my favorite. And I'm talking to everybody kind of evenly and I soft launch somebody's hand, and I. I cannot be surprised that all the other people I'm talking to are questioning me.

[Sebastian]

It.

[Josh Leyva]

I get it.

[Sebastian]

Because I don't think she cares.

[Josh Leyva]

Because that's a big step, bro. Soft launching is like, it's calculated. Sure, there's a turn for it. It's a big deal. It's not like you. Something you do. It's like, there's a whole thing about it. There's rules to this game, dude.

[Sebastian]

I don't know.

[Josh Leyva]

You haven't been in the game. You don't see you're the wrong person to ask.

[Sebastian]

This is.

[Josh Leyva]

This is dangerous.

[Sebastian]

I. I feel like if it's not official yet.

[Josh Leyva]

No, that. No, you're wrong, bro. Sorry.

[Sebastian]

Do whatever you think. Do whatever you want.

[Josh Leyva]

You're wrong. But you're also right, by the way.

[Saul]

So I think it's like if you're a guy and you see the girl soft launched you, like, it's a giant, like, hope for you. You're like, oh, I. Oh, we're going towards the right position.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Saul]

So if a girl soft launches me and then I find out she's still talking to other people, I might.

[Jessica]

What the.

[Saul]

Like, yeah, I get hurt.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Saul]

I think soft launching is like a.

[Jessica]

But that's only if you, like, really like her, right? Because you're probably dating around other people for sure.

[Sebastian]

So, like, that's a good point then. I personally feel like if she saw she soft launched some guy and that guy that she soft launched is seeing that she's also with some other dudes or whatever or hanging out, I personally feel like it's gonna make that guy like her even more.

[Josh Leyva]

Well, for sure. But it's all. What about the other guys?

[Sebastian]

Who cares?

[Josh Leyva]

I. I get it, I get it, I get it. But what I'm saying is her point was now they're coming at me saying that I'm misleading them. All this stuff.

[Sebastian]

Stuff.

[Josh Leyva]

And I'm saying, yo, they're kind of. They're in the right. Yeah, sure, that. Because where's this guy coming from? Like you're, you're soft launching him. Like, is this gonna be. Is this serious? Am I wasting my time? Don't waste my time, girl.

[Sebastian]

She's a hot commodity.

[Josh Leyva]

She's hot and I love that for her.

[Sebastian]

Me too.

[Josh Leyva]

I love that for her.

[Sebastian]

Me too. But that's why I'm like, she's asking

[Josh Leyva]

us if she's an. I'm gonna. My vote. My votes. Yeah, it. I vote yes. Yes.

[Sebastian]

You know what? I like that you voted yes.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

Cuz I will vote. Vote.

[Josh Leyva]

No.

[Sebastian]

No, I don't think so.

[Josh Leyva]

What's your guys's vote? Just curious. I think Jess is leaning towards no.

[Jessica]

Yeah. I'm like, do your thing.

[Josh Leyva]

Okay.

[Sebastian]

Yeah, do your thing.

[Saul]

I think she is the. Because they can get manipulative. Because as a guy, there's like, it's either you double like if you see her soft, launch someone else. Yeah, either like, oh, I gotta step my game up right now because I'm about a loser.

[Josh Leyva]

I'm not thinking like that, bro.

[Saul]

Or you're out.

[Josh Leyva]

That's why I'm not wasting my time. Oh, clearly somebody else in the picture that you are more invested in. I'm not wasting my time. That's my reasoning.

[Sebastian]

Out. Out. Yeah, it is.

[Josh Leyva]

It is cool though. I could commend a guy to being like, now I gotta work harder for her. I'm like, man, you really like this girl and she is a hot commodity. If you're like it, I'm gonna go.

[Sebastian]

I'm not that. I wouldn't be that guy though. Like, work harder for a girl or I don't know. Right.

[Josh Leyva]

So you would be out.

[Sebastian]

No, no, actually that's wrong because I feel like if Karen did that to me and I really liked Karen. Like you chase her. Yeah. I don't think you're an. I think if you feel like an. And you feel like you're doing something wrong, then stop up.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah, sure.

[Sebastian]

But if you with it.

[Josh Leyva]

But look what I. What I would have said to her if I was her friend.

[Sebastian]

Mind you. You have one life.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

Do whatever you want.

[Josh Leyva]

I totally agree with that. But if I was your friend and, and she's like, dude, there was. She knows what she was doing, by the way. She's smart. She knew what she was doing by that soft launch.

[Sebastian]

Right?

[Josh Leyva]

Everybody knows that she's smart. If I was her friend, I would be like, do you know if you. Once you hit post, you're. It's. It's an alarm. Like, everyone's gonna kind of be like, whoa, what was thumbs up? You know what I mean? So just be ready for like the repercussions of that.

[Jessica]

That.

[Josh Leyva]

So I think like she. That's kind of.

[Sebastian]

It was expected, you know, my reaction if I was her and someone told me that.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

Scared, don't care. Don't give a breakfast.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah, she's.

[Sebastian]

I think she's having fun.

[Josh Leyva]

No, I get it, I get it, I get it.

[Sebastian]

You know, she's chill. But yeah, of course there's going to be like backlash to it. Whatever.

[Jessica]

Yeah. Have your fun, but be prepared to lose a few.

[Sebastian]

That's.

[Josh Leyva]

That's what I meant. You're going to lose some hoes, baby.

[Jessica]

Okay. Maybe it's time to clear out the roster anyway.

[Josh Leyva]

Oh, yeah, and make room for a real one. AKA Saul.

[Sebastian]

Wow, what a great. Am I the asshole?

[Josh Leyva]

That was great, man.

[Sebastian]

Yeah. Thank you for pulling those up, Jessica.

[Josh Leyva]

If you guys want to submit your own Anitas, we have a link below. Right, Jess?

[Sebastian]

That's so become Anitas. Oh, whatever, bro.

[Josh Leyva]

I need the max wing.

[Sebastian]

Yeah, I need the Max wing, dude.

[Josh Leyva]

But I think it knows is located below, so.

[Sebastian]

Yeah, we should get a caller.

[Jessica]

We should get someone calling it, bro.

[Josh Leyva]

Can we set that up?

[Sebastian]

I'm down. Yeah, we can do that.

[Josh Leyva]

You want to vet them? We can vet them.

[Jessica]

Well, I would. That's my job.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah. Okay. Because that'd be sick.

[Sebastian]

Let's do it.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

I'm super down.

[Josh Leyva]

Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.

[Sebastian]

Mind you, the giveaway that we spoke about.

[Josh Leyva]

Yep. Tastes away.

[Sebastian]

Mind you, your supply salute. Two tickets to the Rose Bowl. Mexico, Australia game.

[Josh Leyva]

Yeah.

[Sebastian]

If you're not from California.

[Josh Leyva]

Doesn't matter.

[Sebastian]

It doesn't matter because we're flying you out hotel with states.

[Josh Leyva]

Oh, yeah.

[Sebastian]

And a thousand dollars cash or Zell.

[Josh Leyva]

Whatever they prefer. Sweetheart,

[Sebastian]

I'd rather have cash.

[Josh Leyva]

We. We just. We just sell them.

[Sebastian]

Yeah. Zell get to hang out with us. Hopefully tailgate with us, we're hoping, because, you know, sometimes.

[Josh Leyva]

No, there will be tailgating, actually, because we're activating before the game as well. Okay. So maybe.

[Sebastian]

Maybe we can coordinate something.

[Josh Leyva]

100%.

[Sebastian]

And once he figures out who the winners are, we'll hook you guys up with, like, some Mexico gear. Whether it be a jersey or something. Just like, something cool that you guys can wear if you want.

[Josh Leyva]

No, they have to. Yeah, you have to wear the jersey we buy you, though.

[Sebastian]

Yeah, Yeah. I also didn't say, but thank you, seat, for sponsoring this video.

[Josh Leyva]

We didn't say that.

[Sebastian]

We didn't say that, but it's okay, dude, they're fine. They're fine. Yeah, they're fine. Subscribe to the channel if you're new here. If this is. You know, there's actually somebody, at least one person. This is the first time they've ever seen la platica. There's at least one person.

[Josh Leyva]

Oh, they're so welcome.

[Sebastian]

Welcome. Take a seat. There's room for everybody. Yeah. Have a great week, guys. Stay locked in. We'll see you guys in the chats. Josh is being more active on the chats now.

[Josh Leyva]

I've been lagging. Huh? I'm gonna be active.

[Sebastian]

He's active now. And, guys, stay locked in. Wake up early. Get. Get. Get good sleep. A lot of people don't understand once you get good sleep is when you really actually start seeing the gains. I promise you this is not even a joke. Don't sleep on it. Don't sleep on sleeping. If you don't sleep, you don't get no gains, baby.

[Josh Leyva]

You're right.

[Sebastian]

I know I'm right.

[Josh Leyva]

You're right.

[Sebastian]

And I don't give a rat's ass. That. Right, right there. His ass. Don't care about it.

[Josh Leyva]

Don't care about it. All right, love you guys.

[Sebastian]

Bye, guys.

[Josh Leyva]

Next week,