Comedian Felicity Ward started having the best sex of her life after the worst time in her life.

After years of fertility struggles, Felicity finally fell pregnant at 38. But being a mum to a newborn wasn't the Instagram highlight reel she'd imagined. Felicity wrestled with perinatal depression, zero sleep and a loss of identity…and then she became a single mum.

At 40, Felicity was dating again but her expectations were low. She reluctantly joined the apps and started swiping…and what was on the other side amazed her. Felicity found a babysitter for her toddler and sexual liberation for herself.

Yumi Stynes sits down with the professional funny woman, dancing with the stars contestant and star of The Office for a deeply personal chat about starting over, rediscovering confidence and how the best sex of your life may yet be ahead of you.

The Sydney Comedy Festival runs from Monday April 13 — Sunday May 17 where Felicity Ward is performing I wish I could come out of my shell on April 25

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This episode will answer questions like:

What does it feel like to have perinatal depression and anxiety?
Is it ok to be tired after having a baby?
Can I ask for help after having a baby?
How to have good sex in your 40s
What should I ask new mums?
What are the treatments for perinatal depression?

What to listen to next:

Great sex: What we wish men knew — ABC listen

Queers are meant to have kids — ABC listen

Body image and babies with Turia Pitt and Sophie Walker

Where's my village? Esther Perel on how to build community

You can binge more episodes of Ladies, We Need to Talk on the ABC listen app (in Australia) or wherever you get your podcasts.