← Law of Attraction Changed My Life
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Francesca Amber
Hey, before we start the episode, I wanted to share something I am obsessed with and this is the app Spryve. This is one of those things that you think, why has nobody ever told me about this before? Basically it helps you overpay your mortgage automatically without spending any extra money. And it feels like a game. And I'm obsessed. Move over Candy Crush. I'm playing the Sprive game. So here's what I do. I've connected it to my everyday spending and so without really noticing, I am overpaying about £50amonth off my mortgage. Now, just to clarify, this is just from money that I would be spending anyway. But here's where it gets amazing, right? It's not just £50amonth, right? That's basic. That money goes straight off your mortgage balance, which means you not paying all the interest.
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It's also tax free.
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Francesca Amber
And over time the compounding effect is where it gets wild. So for example, I have connected just two basic brands, right? Every week I shop at Tesco and Deliveroo and just from my weekly shops at both of those places I am overpaying £50amonth. But this is also going to save me thousands in interest and shave not months, but years off of my mortgage.
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Co-host or Guest
Years. Years.
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Francesca Amber
And the best part is, it is so easy. We all know that I am a technophobe and I set this up in minutes. It runs in the background. You are quietly building your wealth without changing your lifestyle. So if you've got a mortgage, you need to check it out. I've left the link in the description below.
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You can thank me later.
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Francesca Amber
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got very emotional when I left my previous house because that house genuinely was the house where my entire life transformed. The life for my children transformed. I wasn't in the same tax bracket ever again. It all changed for the better. So if you have ever felt like, oh, I can't do that because it's not true. I can't do that because I'm lying to myself. I can't do that because it's delusional. I think the delusion is where the magic lies, my friend. That is where the magic lies. May have had sex with a waiter from a restaurant. Okay, that's all I'm gonna say. What up? Welcome to Law of Attraction. Changed my life. I am your host, Francesca Amber, and this week I'm going to be doing what I said I'd do last week, but I got carried away with my story time and talked for 40 minutes. So today is going to be nine delusional tips for delusional queens. Yes, we. We talked last week about how much being delusional and being outrageous in your requests with the universe are going to bring you incredible manifestations into your life. I'm here for the woo woo. I'm here for the delusional. I'm here for the energetic work. Because as I continue on my manifesting journey, I realize more and more that the biggest transformations in your life come when you suspend disbelief and you kind of get into this state of like, I don't even know what is real anymore. And so if you are ready to go on a delusional journey with me, get excited. Let's go. Oh, by the way, I just want to share with you quickly. So I saw something on Instagram, I don't remember the podcast, which is annoying, but there was a lady that said every night before she goes to bed, she asks out loud three questions to her spirit guides. So she will say, you could just ask one question. I only asked one question. So you can say to your spirit guides just before you go to sleep, out loud, spirit guides, tell me what I'm supposed to do about my job or tell me how I can move out of home. I don't want to live here with my parents anymore, whatever it might be. Tell me how I can move to Australia. Tell me how I can. Whatever you want to do, right? Get this incredible job or start this incredible business. Like the more specific the better. And she said, when you ask that question out loud and you ask your spirit guides, which with manifestation we do often do this, we'll say to the universe, look, I'm up for co creation. I don't want to do all this on my own. Please co create with me and take care of whatever it is like this obstacle in my way. I said out loud, tell me what I should do about my flat in London. So property prices in London right now are on the floor, right? This is how I managed to get an incredible house. Like they are on the floor. And my current Tenants in there are having a fit because we're asking them if we could do viewings on the flat. And they want a reduction in their rent, like a huge reduction in their rent, because to accommodate viewings, which, you know what, Fair enough. Right, okay, fair enough. But it was all looking really messy and really up. Like, the prices are really low. The tenants were getting annoyed. And so before I went to bed, I said to the spirits, I said, spirit guides guide me whilst I sleep. Tell me, give me the answer and move the things in my reality to make clear what should I do with my flat? Like, what is the answer with that? And I went to sleep. And the idea, idea is, right, that your spirit guides then go and move your reality. They introduce the people, places, opportunities, whatever it might be, or bring ideas to you that will guide you in what you're supposed to do. And I proceeded to have a dream where I turned my flat into some sort of, like, grand designs. Like it could never happen in real life, right? But I was like, I added a roof thing, I added an extension, I added this garden, I added all this stuff. And I think what that dream was telling me was there is so much potential and possibility with this flat that you're basically throwing it away if you sell it now. And I woke up the next morning and I was like, why the am I selling my flat when London prices are, like, at an all time low? Why? Why? What am I doing that for? Like, that is crazy. That's the work of a crazy person. And number two, this guy called Samuel Leeds keeps coming up on my Instagram where he's like, now is the time you need to buy a property in London and convert big floor plans into two bedrooms. And I'm like, yeah, he's right. I need to hold on to that and just bide my time with it. And do you know what I mean? So anyway, if you have any bur questions in your life of what you should be doing, say out loud to your spirit guides before you go to sleep tonight, ask them the question, what should I do about this situation? And maybe you will have a dream that will give you some kind of insight, or you will encounter someone the next day that will say to you, hey, have you ever thought about working in this particular place? And you'll be like, oh, my God, that's my way in. Whatever it might be, your reality will begin to shift in your favor and bring you the answers that you desire. Anyway, today's entire episode is purely based on a post I saw on Instagram. By a mo Ashante. I'm a new follower for her. I absolutely love her work. And she has given us nine Delulu tips for Delulu Queens.
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And as I read these, I was like, yes, yes, yes. All the ones that I've tried, I can absolutely guarantee that these work. And the ones that I haven't, you better believe I'm gonna do them. So let's get on to number one. Pick a random Tuesday three months from now and add an event to your calendar called it all came together. Or I think I prefer it all worked out. No details, just that every time you scroll past it, your brain registers it as a scheduled reality. Expectation is a frequency. Now is this the law of assumption? I feel like it is. Where you assume that's it on that random Tuesday in three months time. Whatever it is that is on your mind right now that you cannot see a way out of your. You can't see an answer, you can't see how it's going to be resolved. It is all going to be worked out on that random Tuesday in three months time. So go do it. Whether it's your paper, diary, your ical, whatever it is, put that as an event in your diary. No notes, just it all came together. And keep me updated in three months time of what happens. Tip number two. Before you go to bed tonight, write tomorrow's wins in the past tense. So, for example, I woke up to $3,000. The client said yes. I felt confident all day. Your brain can't tell the difference between a and a detailed imagination. Code it as done, then let your subconscious get to work while you sleep. So let me tell you something crazy, right? And again, I'm almost like feeling sick as I'm about to say this because I feel like, guys, I'm very, very honest with you and I will always be very honest about my manifestations or money or things like that, even when it feels very uncomfortable for me, right? But I started doing these many affirmations, right? And I have seen incredible results in my life. But one of the actual direct results of that is I've started talking about those affirmat because you know what I'm like when I'm excited about something? I just go on my stories and I start talking about it all the time. And I started talking on my stories about the affirmations and I was like, oh my God, I've been listening to this for two weeks as an experiment and now I'm like buying my dream house without having to sell my flat. Like, what on earth like what is moving these timelines? And the more I talked about it, the more people began buying it and then the more people began buying it, I would start to get these testimonies in every day. Every day I'd go in my inbox and there would be 10 DMS saying oh my God, I've been listening for one hour, hour. And my husband just came in and said we saved £100amonth on our bills. I've been listening for two nights and I've just got a pay rise at work. I've been listening for three nights and my mum's just offered to pay for my like wild things, right? So it was almost like this self fulfilling prophecy and every single day I would look at it and as you know, all of my products are super, super cheap. Everything I do is very affordable. Nothing is really ever over like 30 pounds, whatever. Now this was like I think 15 pounds, right? Every day I would look and I'd be like, oh my God, made a thousand pounds selling this today. And every day was a thousand pounds. That went for like a really long time. And I said to my friend Polly when I did my morning intentions and she's obviously saying here, do it the night before, but the vibe is the same. So in the morning I said to Polly, this had probably been going on for like maybe nearly a month. And so at some point that's got to slow down, right? You're not going to be making a thousand pound every single day from like something that's on there for a month anyway. I said to her, do you know what? I'm not gonna say I make a thousand pounds today. I'm actually gonna say I make two and a half. That feels outrageous. Like what's gon today? Like there's nothing's going to change. Like it's already, I've been talking about it for a month, like it's not going to suddenly have this like massive uptick. And as I always say, and I have to remind myself of this too all the time. You need to forget the how, right? You need to forget the how you're going to do it. And as I was saying this to her I was like, maybe I'll make like an amazing carousel. That really explains like the whole process of like how I've got this house and how this has all happened and how really the only change I've made is listening to these overnight affirmations. And then as I said it out loud I was like, no, I'm not going to do that because I Need to let go of the how it comes to me, no word of a lie. An hour after I speak those words, somebody that I work with messaged me, hey, I'm just going through your inbox and I'm just doing some work with you. I'm just thinking it's Easter, so do you want to do like an Easter sale? We can do like 25% off everything on your website. And I was like, oh, that hadn't even occurred to me to like do an Easter sale. Like, sure, why not? Just send out an email. Allen will do an Easter sale. Like, let's give everyone 25% off and no word of a lie. How much did I make that day? Two and a half thousand pounds. Like specifically, it's not the amount, it's not the whatever. It's the fact that you set that intention and you say it out loud. You say, today I'm gonna make that. And the important part, I don't know where it's gonna come from. So often we cockblock the universe by narrowing down the way that it can deliver what we want to us. And we often narrow it so far that the universe is not able to deliver or it delivers it in a fucked up way on a really long timescale. Open up the field of possibility for the universe and it's going to deliver what you want, exactly what you want, but maybe not in the way that you expected it to come to you. So I just wanted to share that with you because I think that's a really powerful one. I'm going to do it. I'm going to start doing it in the past tense the night before and I'm going to be excited to see what happens. Okay, tip number three. I'm going to forget which number I'm on, by the way, today, go to the website site of your dream hotel, dream home or dream destination right now and browse it like you are deciding between options. Read the description slowly, look at every photo. Let your nervous system sit inside the decision. As someone who can, that is a sample and the only proof you need that is the practice. Whether it is your dream wedding dress or a hotel you've always wanted to stay at, maybe the Chateau Marmont or imagine just go and visit it. I think for me I would do. I've always wanted to stay in a water bungalow and I feel like the girls probably in the next year are at the age where I actually could safely do that. So staying like a water bungalow either in the Maldives or in Zanzibar or somewhere like that would be incredible and definitely something that I feel like. And I hate saying these words and I never say them, but I feel like I can't afford. We should never say those words. It's terrible. But it is something that I have a block about, about spending that. That on that experience. And so, yeah, that's what how I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna go and view Water Bun Glows. And I'm gonna tap the little drop down option and be like, yes, this is for six people in November. And this is when I'm going. And just act like you're going there. Act like you're buying it. Maybe I'll do it for a black Discovery as well. I don't really love cars, but if I was going to get a new car, a Discovery is what I would buy. Maybe I'll just go on there and like, pick my trim, pick my color, and just act as if I'm buying it. It number four is wake up and decide something really good is happening to me today. I just don't know what it is yet. And carry that energy all day. Don't question it. Don't look for it. Just know it's already in motion. People underestimate how fast life shifts when you stop waiting for proof and start expecting magic. Expect magic, and it will find you. This is something that I've tried time and time again and absolutely works. And I think a big part of that is dressing for the day that you want and showing up in your day being like, yes. And by the way, you can't do this every single day. Okay? You'd burn out being like, yeah, something amazing is going to happen to me today. I remember when we were doing in the book club about like, romanticizing your life. And it was Christmas and I was going for a weekend in London and I was like romanticizing the out of my life. And I was like, today is like a Richard Curtis movie. It's going to be like a rom com. It's going to be incredible. And I went on to have one of the most exciting, fun days ever. I still remember it now. I may have had sex with a waiter from a restaurant. Okay. That's all I'm gonna say. But it was wild. It was very out of the ordinary, and it definitely works. So try it. Tip number. Are we on five? I'm not too sure. Is buy one thing your future self would have. Not the whole wardrobe, just the lipstick, the candle, the coffee. Your nervous system doesn't need the full picture to believe it. Just Needs a sample. Give it proof, let it remember who you are, and reality will rearrange around that. I'm a big fan of buying a token item. I think it is an incredibly powerful practice and I've used it many, many times. And in fact, I have a token item on right now. Can you see this? I don't know, you can't really see very well. But this bracelet here is the cutest little star bracelet. I absolutely love it. And it was literally like 30 quid from Camden Market. But there was a day that I was going to view a house that I thought I was gonna love, and I was early to the viewing. I was eager, I was very excited, and I thought, you know what? I'm actually gonna buy myself this little bracelet from Camden Market to remind me that I am in Camden viewing million pound houses and apartments, and this is my reality and this is who I am. And so I have this little bit of Camden with me at all times. And sure enough, it's only gone and worked. I've also done it with pregnancies, with babies, with so many things. I bought my fake engagement ring before I met my husband. It's the whole thing. Definitely buy yourself the little token item. Tip number, I don't know, seven is, oh, I love this. And I've not tried this, so get excited. Record a one minute voice note of your future self talking about how everything worked out. Listening to your own voice activates mirror neurons and your brain begins to identify as that future version of you. I'm very excited by that. Recording a voice note from the future version of yourself that has everything that you want. I'm down. I can absolutely see how that would work. Tip number eight, I think, is pick one desire and live as if it's already true. For the next 10 minutes, drink your coffee like you're in your dream villa. Walk around your house like you hit your 20,000 pound month. Get into bed like you're falling asleep next to your soulmate. 10 minutes a day in that frequency will bend your entire timeline. Now, again, very, very powerful, I have done this either visualizing and imagining that my dream partner is there. I did this when I found my husband. I'd never lived with a boy. Well, I had lived with housemates, but I'd never lived with a partner. And I used to act like he was there. I'd be like, oh, dinner's ready. I mean, this is delusional. Dinner's ready or come on, let's go to bed. I was talking to myself. Okay, I was talking to myself. Little did I know that it was activating my mirror neurons, whatever these are. But I can imagine that that is a very, very powerful practice. And we all need to. I think Emma Mumford calls it living with your manifestation. So spending time with your manifestation, whether that is your dream partner, your ideal house, whatever it might be, you spend some time with it. You spend time with that energy, and it's incredibly powerful. These are actually incredible tips. To be fair. Tip number eight is, before you leave your house today, pause at the door. This is wild. And say, this is the house I live in. During the era where everything worked out, your brain starts linking your environment to a new identity instead of your old story. Now, I got very emotional when I left my previous house. House. Because that house genuinely was the house where my entire life transformed. The life for my children transformed. I wasn't in the same tax bracket ever again. It all changed for the better. And I did attribute a lot of that. Very Shinto, but I attributed a lot of that to that environment and to that house. And when I left that house, I did thank it. And I was like, wow, this is where I've experienced my biggest metamorphosis. I'm so grateful to this house. House. And finally, tip number nine. I don't know what numbers we've been on here, but we eventually got there. Is to create a folder or an album on your phone called already mine and save one photo that represents each desire you are calling in every morning. Open it before you open anything else on your phone. If you're gonna scroll and let's submit it, we all do. Your first scroll of the day should be setting your frequency for everything that follows. I love the idea of that, actually. It's kind of like a vision board. Just have a little photo album, and you just have photos that represent each thing that you want. And you just scroll through it and you're like, yep, mine, mine, mine, mine, mine. Got it, got it, got it, got it, got it. I'm realizing more than ever that this is all about tricking your brain until it's real. So if you have ever felt like, oh, I can't do that because it's not true. I can't do that because I'm lying to myself. I can't do that because it's delusional. I think the delusion is where the magic lies, my friend. That is where the fucking magic lies. Please do let me know which was your favorite tip out of these delusional tips for delusional queens. And give that girl a follow. I'll leave her Instagram in the show notes below and if you want to come follow me on Instagram, you can find me at Francesca, Amber or at Law of Attraction Change My Life if you've enjoyed this episode, please do your girl a favor. Do the Lord's work and you can rate review subscribe it takes a couple of seconds. I promise you it ain't going to take no time or energy out of your day, but it will really help me to get found by more people. Or you can share that you're listening to this episode on your Instagram. That one really helps me out too. Thank you so much for listening. I hope you can go forth and be delusional as today. Why not? And let me know the results. The Law of Attraction has changed my life. Guess what? It's going to change yours too.
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