In this episode, I delve into the significance of being the director of my own life rather than

constantly outsourcing vital decisions. I illustrate this idea with relatable examples, like my visits

to the nail salon, where I often grapple with whether to speak up or accept results I don't like.

I discuss the adverse effects of continuous outsourcing, such as feeling lost and building up

resentment. I stress the value of having a clear vision for different aspects of my life and making

swift decisions while trusting my instincts. Additionally, I emphasize the importance of striking a

balance between seeking support and maintaining my role as the director. I invite you to reflect

on where you might be outsourcing in your life and consider regaining control of your own

destiny.

"Being the director means setting boundaries, knowing what you stand for, establishing

boundaries that protect your energy, your happiness, your results, it's saying no a lot more

than saying yes, that's all part of boundary setting."

Explore the importance of being the director of your own life rather than outsourcing decisions
Understand the consequences of continuous outsourcing, such as feeling lost and building resentment
Emphasize the need to establish a clear vision for various aspects of life to guide decision-making
Finding a balance between seeking support and maintaining your role as the director of your life
A call to evaluate where you might be outsourcing and regain control of your life.

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Lisa Bilyeu on women's empowerment:

"Cheer for your girls like you got pom-poms at a pep rally." - Lisa Bilyeu

Lisa Bilyeu on women helping women:

"Choose your life's board members like you're building a Fortune 500 company." - Lisa Bilyeu

Lisa Bilyeu on being a boss:

"Be brave. Fearless. Be badass at 15 years old. Be badass at 80 years old." - Lisa Bilyeu

Lisa Bilyeu on personal development:

"If you're still looking for that one person who will change your life, take a look in the mirror." - Lisa Bileyu

Glennon Doyle on women's empowerment:

"People who need help sometimes look a lot like people who don't need help." - Glennon Doyle

Glennon Doyle on being yourself:

"Every girl must decide whether to be true to herself or true to the world." - Glennon Doyle

Glennon Doyle on personal development:

"What if pain - like love - is just a place brave people visit?" - Glennon Doyle

Glennon Doyle on being yourself:

"I have met myself and I am going to care for her fiercely." - Glennon Doyle

Mel Robbins on personal development:

"You need to hear this loud and clear: No one is coming. It is up to you." - Mel Robbins

Mel Robbins on being yourself:

"There will always be someone who can't see your worth. Don't let it be you." - Mel Robbins

Mel Robbins on being a boss:

"You have been assigned this mountain so that you can show others it can be moved." - Mel Robbins

Rupi Kaur on being yourself:

"Loneliness is a sign you are in desperate need of yourself." - Rupi Kaur

Rupi Kaur on being a boss:

"How you love yourself is how you teach others to love you" - Rupi Kaur

Rupi Kaur on women's empowerment:

"If you were born with the weakness to fall you were born with the strength to rise" - Rupi Kaur