Are you living the life you want, or the life others expect of you? One father's choice that changed everything.

Troy Horne went from driving to work in tears—seeing his 2-year-old only an hour a day—to asking for what seemed impossible: a spot on Broadway's Rent that wasn't a tour. Troy's wisdom cuts deep: We all know what we want—it's the first thought that pops up before limiting beliefs take over. His tool for clarity? Walking meditation: turning off the noise and spending days in quiet. "If you don't ask, the answer is always no." Now, Troy's mission is helping people over 40 live their dream and find their greater second half—a powerful guide for anyone navigating midlife transitions.

Troy Horne is a three-time bestselling author who's sold over 300,000 copies, former Broadway performer in Rent, and NBC's The Sing-Off alum. When his son Moses dreamed of becoming a professional basketball player, Troy developed mental toughness frameworks for young athletes, interviewing icons like Kobe Bryant and Chauncey Billups and co-authoring the bestselling Mental Toughness For Young Athletes series with Moses. His mission is to help people over 40 live their dream and find their greater second half. As a sought-after speaker, author, and father of three, Troy believes greatness is a mindset. Connect with him at troyhorne.com.

About The Show:
The Life in Transition, hosted by Art Blanchford focuses on making the most of the changes we’re given every week. Art has been through hundreds of transitions in his life. Many have been difficult, but all have led to a depth and richness he could never have imagined. On the podcast Art explores how to create more love and joy in life, no matter what transitions we go through. Art is married to his lifelong partner, a proud father of three and a long-time adventurer and global business executive. He is the founder and leader of the Midlife Transition Mastery Community. Learn more about the MLTM Community here: www.lifeintransition.online.

In This Episode:
(00:00) Fatherhood: The Most Meaningful Transition
(10:14) The Journey Is Theirs, Not Yours
(17:00) Letting Kids Have Their Own Adventure
(18:20) Midlife Transition Mastery Ad
(26:09) Ask For What You Want: The Rent Story
(34:19) Choosing Family Over Career Opportunities
(44:26) Walking Meditation: The Tool for Clarity
(45:44) Midlife Transition Mastery Ad
(47:12) Try Them On: Finding Your True Calling
(52:06) Connect With Troy Horne
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