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Life Over Coffee
Hosted by Rick Thomas · EN
Rick launched the Life Over Coffee global training network in 2008 to bring hope and help for you and others by creating resources that spark conversations for transformation. His primary responsibilities are resource creation and leadership development, which he does through speaking, writing, podcasting, and educating.
In 1990 he earned a BA in Theology and, in 1991, a BS in Education. In 1993, he received his ordination into Christian ministry, and in 2000 he graduated with an MA in Counseling from The Master's University. In 2006 he was recognized as a Fellow of the Association of Certified Biblical Counselors (ACBC).
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When Marriage Breaks: Chapter 5—Surviving Adultery
2w ago00:16:57Tap to summarizeThere are not many experiences in life more perplexing, destabilizing, and agonizing than discovering that your spouse has committed adultery. It feels like the ground gives way beneath your feet. The person you trusted most, the one with whom you covenanted before God, has betrayed that sacred union. The question immediately rises to the surface of the soul: How do you survive this? Read, Watch, Listen: https://lifeovercoffee.com/surviving-adutlery/ Will you help us to continue providing free content for everyone? You can become a supporting member here https://lifeovercoffee.com/join/, or you can make a one-time or recurring donation here https://lifeovercoffee.com/donate/.
Transcribe →Mind Mapping a Marriage from Bad to Good
2w ago00:21:31Tap to summarizeOur behaviors reveal our hearts. “By their fruit, you shall know them.” If you get a discerning handle on a person’s actions, you will begin to unearth clues to what may be going on in their heart. The more biblical clarity you have, the better position you will be to care for them like Jesus would. For example, this theology of sanctification applies to many things that most folks might not consider. Let’s consider marriage. How do behaviors like laughability, tender care, and one-flesh body language form clues to help you understand the couple? Read, Watch, Listen: lifeovercoffee.com/mind-mapping-a-…om-bad-to-good/ Will you help us to continue providing free content for everyone? You can become a supporting member here lifeovercoffee.com/join/, or you can make a one-time or recurring donation here lifeovercoffee.com/donate/.
Transcribe →Mind Mapping Wisdom and Courage for Gossiping Friends
3w ago00:15:01Tap to summarizeIt is impossible to keep from talking about others behind their backs. We all do it in some form, whether casually, out of concern, or even in prayer. Thus, the question is not whether talking about someone will occur but how will we respond when it does? In this chapter, I’m speaking about gossip. Are we content to listen and silently participate in these conversations, or do we have the courage to redirect them toward biblical restoration? The way we handle private talk about others, especially when the information is potentially sinful, reveals not only our love for others but also our reverence for God. Read, Watch, Listen: lifeovercoffee.com/practical-wisdo…siping-friends/ Will you help us to continue providing free content for everyone? You can become a supporting member here lifeovercoffee.com/join/, or you can make a one-time or recurring donation here lifeovercoffee.com/donate/.
Transcribe →When Marriage Breaks: Chapter 4—Listening to Adultery
3w ago00:19:50Tap to summarizeIn the first three chapters, we explored the deceptive language of “emotional affairs,” the way secret sin hardens the conscience, and how hidden compromise can quietly rot a marriage from the inside out. We saw that adultery does not appear overnight. It is the fruit of years—sometimes decades—of unchecked desires, unconfessed sins, and unresolved guilt. What begins with private choices eventually becomes public devastation. Read, Watch, Listen: https://lifeovercoffee.com/interview-with-a-victim-of-adultery/ Will you help us to continue providing free content for everyone? You can become a supporting member here https://lifeovercoffee.com/join/, or you can make a one-time or recurring donation here https://lifeovercoffee.com/donate/.
Transcribe →Mind Mapping a Lady with a Small God
4w ago00:26:26Tap to summarizeThe path to a small god begins in childhood. It winds down a dangerous path until it finds self-reliant living, which is always destructive to the individual and their relationships. The way out of this nightmare of this soul is possible with a little help from a few competent friends and the grace of God. Read, Watch, Listen: https://lifeovercoffee.com/mind-mapping-a-lady-with-a-small-god/ Will you help us to continue providing free content for everyone? You can become a supporting member here https://lifeovercoffee.com/join/, or you can make a one-time or recurring donation here https://lifeovercoffee.com/donate/.
Transcribe →When Marriage Breaks: Chapter 3—Revenge of the Conscience
4w ago00:17:25Tap to summarizeYou don’t want to be a dull Christian. You don’t want to harden your conscience until it no longer feels or responds the way God designed it. Every believer faces a choice: you can walk in the truth—especially about yourself—or you can hide. But know this: if you choose concealment, your conscience will not stay silent. It will eventually take its revenge on you. Read, Watch, Listen: https://lifeovercoffee.com/be-honest-or-your-conscience-will-take-revenge-on-you/ Will you help us to continue providing free content for everyone? You can become a supporting member here https://lifeovercoffee.com/join/, or you can make a one-time or recurring donation here https://lifeovercoffee.com/donate/.
Transcribe →Mind Mapping the Best Marriage Help You’ll Ever Find
Jun 2400:24:02Tap to summarizeMany Christians mistakenly assume that as they learn to trust and obey God, a perfect marriage will naturally follow. The thinking often sounds like, “Isn’t a happy marriage one of the blessings of following Christ?” While the desire reflects a positive ideal, the assumption overlooks the realities of living in a fallen world. In nearly every case, the ideal isn’t the starting point; it’s a destination that requires a broader, more realistic understanding of what it truly takes to build a strong, Christ-centered marriage. Only when a couple widens their lens can they begin to grasp the effort and grace required for a genuinely fabulous marriage. Read, Watch, Listen: lifeovercoffee.com/mind-mapping-th…oull-ever-find/ Will you help us to continue providing free content for everyone? You can become a supporting member here lifeovercoffee.com/join/, or you can make a one-time or recurring donation here lifeovercoffee.com/donate/.
Transcribe →When Marriage Breaks: Chapter 2— Fornicating While Dating
Jun 2100:19:14Tap to summarizeIf you practiced fornication while dating, don’t be surprised when other sins surface in marriage—including adultery. Sin tolerated in seed form does not disappear when you say “I do.” A ceremony doesn’t sanctify prior rebellion; it often cements it. What begins as “small compromises” before marriage typically grows into larger sins within marriage. Unless God radically reorients both hearts, marriage won’t repair what was broken beforehand—it will magnify it. Read, Watch, Listen: https://lifeovercoffee.com/yes-we-fornicated-while-dating-but-why-did-he-commit-adultery-in-marriage/ Will you help us to continue providing free content for everyone? You can become a supporting member here https://lifeovercoffee.com/join/, or you can make a one-time or recurring donation here https://lifeovercoffee.com/donate/.
Transcribe →Mind Mapping Chapter 1 Strategy for the Church
Jun 1800:28:55Tap to summarizeThis chapter is a response to a friend who is working on his thesis requirement for his MA in Biblical Counseling. He asked my opinion on the necessity of a biblical counseling strategy for a local church. As I was thinking about how to respond, I thought it would be instructive to build out a mind map to show him visually what I wanted to say in written form, hoping to make a solid case for biblical counseling and the local church. Read, Watch, Listen: https://lifeovercoffee.com/episode-19-should-you-have-a-biblical-counseling-strategy-for-your-church/ Will you help us to continue providing free content for everyone? You can become a supporting member here https://lifeovercoffee.com/join/, or you can make a one-time or recurring donation here https://lifeovercoffee.com/donate/.
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In Search of Significance- Biff's Story
Jun 1600:16:50Tap to summarizeWhen the gospel is no longer your practical, everyday center—when it ceases to be the functional anchor of your life, and you replace it with lesser things, even admirable or biblical pursuits like serving the Lord, you will begin to drift toward dissatisfaction and unrest. And where discontentment grows, so does the enticement to meet God-given longings through man-centered means. This subtle exchange—replacing Christ with works—leads to a life increasingly marked by striving, performing, and attempting to secure worth and identity apart from God. Read, Watch, Listen: https://lifeovercoffee.com/in-search-of-significance-careys-story/ Will you help us to continue providing free content for everyone? You can become a supporting member here https://lifeovercoffee.com/join/, or you can make a one-time or recurring donation here https://lifeovercoffee.com/donate/
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