Ever feel like you’re talking to a wall when your partner shuts down? This episode dives into the many ways we emotionally check out—from silent treatments to disappearing into work—and why your partner might be retreating. We’ll help you flip the script: What are you making their shutdown mean about you? Learn how to offer support, space, or even a breather (without taking it personally). Plus, tips for keeping your own cool while they take the space they need. Don’t shut down—tune in!

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181. What To Do When Your Partner Shuts Down